I guess the problem with this whole "are you ok" is i get the impression that others honestly dont actually care.. it comes down to each person having their own issues/problems so why would they care about anyone elses.. sad isnt it.. Its like each to their own. I do wish people would care about each other more.
I personally think are you okay day is a gimmick. I can't stand people spreading it all over their social media on that single day just to show they are decent people. Yet the rest of the year you see nothing. I agree with you blokes need to have these conversations a lot more frequently & people that are suffering need to forget the stigma that blokes have to be tough and suck it up princess. That's why I made the video opening up about the worst & most private things going on in my life. Because if we can do that on camera for the world to see then it might encourage more people to open up to their mates. I've struggled with mental illness for years and always bottled everything up because we are taught that's what blokes are supposed to do. But now I can't show any emotion to anyone. I'm dead inside. It's not good to hold it all in. Everyone needs someone to talk to. Camping is a perfect place for it. Your out there with your mates with no one else around. I did it this weekend and so did the mate I was camping with. It feels great talking about what's going on. Most people only see the positive things you want them to see on social media. Trouble is social media isn't real
Dunno how many times we have gone out Matty and not filmed a video with the full intention of making some content, sometimes you just need to sit back and watch the world go by. Great video as always mate.
Awesome matty! It’s is so important we all remember to embrace the moments over capturing the moment! Highest respect for you mate! And awesome to see you promoting men’s mental health too! Such and important topic that needs to be voiced!
Good video on the topic Matt. Mental health can be a nasty thing. I am not a metal health "sufferer" as such. I live with someone who's diagnosed with mental health. My wife does get treatment for it. But there are so many ups and downs, it affects absolutely everything. I work 12-hour shifts on an irregular roster. Every time when I come home from work, I wonder, what's she going to be like. Or on my days off, what's she going to be like when she gets home from work. I do talk about it with people at work, it's good to get things off your chest at times. However, a couple weeks ago, I just had a breakdown at the start of my shift, got send home. I have sought "professional" help, only to be told, there's not really much I can do for you. It looks like you are doing the right things. I wish I could take some "time out" get away from it. However, we've got an 8 year old I gotta think about too. Yep, it sure isn't easy.
Hmmmm, it's a good point about not filming all the time but I am so addicted to it now that I have forgotten how to go away and not have a camera in my hand throughout the day. I'm not sure I could go away and not take all the gear, I would be so bored and I know that is a bad thing. Already thinking about our annual trip to the south west before Christmas and the thought of going without the camera gear is well unthinkable... One thing I have learned about depression (and I have been suicidal earlier in my life) is that it does seem to release its hold on you as you get older.
So so easy to be a loner , I've been doing it for the last 5 years don't know any different and honestly am shit scared to camp with others and it's definitely a push
Good chat starter...that's the whole thing...starting a chat with someone. Everything said was spot on mate. Look after yourself, chat and exercise...key to good mental health...take care. 👊💪💯✌️
Just had a week away with mates doing nothing but talking sh.t over coffees or beers and burning a bit of diesel. Not remote this time but it didn't matter. It's just a good thing to be able to do. As for solo stuff it's good for some and not so good for others...for me, I have spent many years doing the solo bit but also with plenty of groups and enjoy both. Keep up the good stuff and take care of yourself and...talking sh.t with mates is good for the soul...and you end up solving just about all the problems of the world if only someone would take notes.
Very true it’s not good for some mate. Completely agree about it being good to talk sh.t with ya mates. Vital. Tanks Mark, appreciate it mate. See you out there some time.
Love your videos and yes it can be hard to talk to people when you are low, but once you do, you feel like a wieght has lifted. I went through this and I am glad to say I am doing a lot better now than I did a few years ago. Thanks again
Just like me last weekend mate. I went out fishing with full intent on filming a video. But once I sat down with a 🍺 in hand and the rod in the water I thought "stuff it I'm going to have one weekend where I don't film anything & just enjoy being outdoors. I also go solo camping every weekend and as you said it's great going camping anytime but I'm also really looking forward to camping with you boys for something different rather than just myself every weekend 🤣 half the time since I've been here. I hop in the 4wd on a Saturday morning and start driving with absolutely no plans at all where I'm going to camp that night & it's amazing. Sorry to hear you got stuffed around mate. But at least you found a camp 👍
Great Video, and very Important points, it's always easy to palm off not catching up with your mates for various reasons, I find I do it because I don't have children and three of my best mates, 2 I have treated like brothers for years, since we met in high school, but all 3 have young families and children, so you naturally follow the narrative in your head " They Have Priorities to their Wives and Children, they come first, I won't bother them as when I usually get in touch they are always too busy to catch up". But when that happens we need to kick ourselves up the ass and Say " You know it's hard for them to get out to catch up, so just go to them, arrange a time, whether it's 30 mins, and afternoon or a whole day, but make the effort because it's ten times more effort for them when they have family responsibilites". Thankyou for sharing this, I'm personally using this to make more time and effort for mates time, rather than alone time when I'm not with my Partner, becuase its just easier.
Great video as usual, but no true-er words spoken the stigma of being a man is to tuff it out no matter what to save face as being weak is just rubbish it takes a man to realize they are human and now and then we need help to sort the rubbish out, it do's not mean you are weak it means you are strong in the sense you need to sort the cards out in the deck and get on with the game of life, and not cut the deck in half and throw it in the bin and life as well. If you need to ask a mate if he OK then you don't talk much or you see something going on that made you ask the question? instead ask them out for a drink , lunch or even a camp over night do something physical to show you are thinking of them and that you are there as a mate to cross those scary bridges, those cloudy days so they can approach the next one in a better out look that you might just be on the other side. sorry for the blurb but love your vid's keep them coming, in your time not ours 😇
Good work mate, so many of us blokes talk but don't really talk. You hit the nail on the head. It is super important for us men to get away from all the crap in our lives, be in other company and just talk shit. Cheers bro
I guess the problem with this whole "are you ok" is i get the impression that others honestly dont actually care.. it comes down to each person having their own issues/problems so why would they care about anyone elses.. sad isnt it.. Its like each to their own. I do wish people would care about each other more.
Good video Matty, a lot of people struggling with these things and it’s good to hear it spoken about.
I agree mate. Always comforting to hear others talk about it.
It was nice just to sit back and listen to some wise words. Another great video Matt 👍
Thanks for watching mate, appreciate it!
I love how you focus on mental health.. so many of us especially the guys need to look after ourselves.
Getting back to nature is a huge help
Sure is mate! Been a great help for me.
I personally think are you okay day is a gimmick. I can't stand people spreading it all over their social media on that single day just to show they are decent people. Yet the rest of the year you see nothing. I agree with you blokes need to have these conversations a lot more frequently & people that are suffering need to forget the stigma that blokes have to be tough and suck it up princess. That's why I made the video opening up about the worst & most private things going on in my life. Because if we can do that on camera for the world to see then it might encourage more people to open up to their mates. I've struggled with mental illness for years and always bottled everything up because we are taught that's what blokes are supposed to do. But now I can't show any emotion to anyone. I'm dead inside. It's not good to hold it all in. Everyone needs someone to talk to. Camping is a perfect place for it. Your out there with your mates with no one else around. I did it this weekend and so did the mate I was camping with. It feels great talking about what's going on. Most people only see the positive things you want them to see on social media. Trouble is social media isn't real
Definitely become a gimmick mate.
Dunno how many times we have gone out Matty and not filmed a video with the full intention of making some content, sometimes you just need to sit back and watch the world go by. Great video as always mate.
So bloody true 😂
Awesome matty! It’s is so important we all remember to embrace the moments over capturing the moment!
Highest respect for you mate! And awesome to see you promoting men’s mental health too! Such and important topic that needs to be voiced!
Thanks Andrew, appreciate it mate.
Thanks for watching!
Great Video, Thankyou 👍
Thanks mate!
Good video on the topic Matt. Mental health can be a nasty thing. I am not a metal health "sufferer" as such. I live with someone who's diagnosed with mental health. My wife does get treatment for it. But there are so many ups and downs, it affects absolutely everything. I work 12-hour shifts on an irregular roster. Every time when I come home from work, I wonder, what's she going to be like. Or on my days off, what's she going to be like when she gets home from work. I do talk about it with people at work, it's good to get things off your chest at times. However, a couple weeks ago, I just had a breakdown at the start of my shift, got send home. I have sought "professional" help, only to be told, there's not really much I can do for you. It looks like you are doing the right things. I wish I could take some "time out" get away from it. However, we've got an 8 year old I gotta think about too. Yep, it sure isn't easy.
Thanks for your comment mate, I appreciate it. I hope things are going okay for you and yours.
Hmmmm, it's a good point about not filming all the time but I am so addicted to it now that I have forgotten how to go away and not have a camera in my hand throughout the day. I'm not sure I could go away and not take all the gear, I would be so bored and I know that is a bad thing. Already thinking about our annual trip to the south west before Christmas and the thought of going without the camera gear is well unthinkable... One thing I have learned about depression (and I have been suicidal earlier in my life) is that it does seem to release its hold on you as you get older.
Interesting mate. I do feel a bit the same, but still happy to leave the cameras in the car sometimes.
So so easy to be a loner , I've been doing it for the last 5 years don't know any different and honestly am shit scared to camp with others and it's definitely a push
So easy mate! It’s certainly a push!
Omg I’m so in that space, you’ve described it perfectly 😢
I hope you’re well mate.
Good chat starter...that's the whole thing...starting a chat with someone. Everything said was spot on mate. Look after yourself, chat and exercise...key to good mental health...take care. 👊💪💯✌️
Thanks mate, appreciate the comment!
Seriously well articulated! This was just what i needed to hear today so thank you!
Thanks mate, appreciate the comment!
Well spoken mate. I had a great catchup with some mates on the weekend and it is great to the mind👍
Absolutely is mate!
What a beutiful location
Great episode Matty ,,,,no one is immune from low periods in life ...hence why some solo time is as important as mates time ..
Too right mate!
Just had a week away with mates doing nothing but talking sh.t over coffees or beers and burning a bit of diesel. Not remote this time but it didn't matter. It's just a good thing to be able to do. As for solo stuff it's good for some and not so good for others...for me, I have spent many years doing the solo bit but also with plenty of groups and enjoy both. Keep up the good stuff and take care of yourself and...talking sh.t with mates is good for the soul...and you end up solving just about all the problems of the world if only someone would take notes.
Very true it’s not good for some mate. Completely agree about it being good to talk sh.t with ya mates. Vital.
Tanks Mark, appreciate it mate. See you out there some time.
Love ya work matty another great video thankyou 🫶
Thanks Jonny mate!
Truth. Glad your video was suggested on my feed - got yourself another subscriber.
Appreciate that mate, thanks!
Love your videos and yes it can be hard to talk to people when you are low, but once you do, you feel like a wieght has lifted. I went through this and I am glad to say I am doing a lot better now than I did a few years ago. Thanks again
Absolutely mate! Glad to hear that.
Thanks for your comment!
Just like me last weekend mate. I went out fishing with full intent on filming a video. But once I sat down with a 🍺 in hand and the rod in the water I thought "stuff it I'm going to have one weekend where I don't film anything & just enjoy being outdoors. I also go solo camping every weekend and as you said it's great going camping anytime but I'm also really looking forward to camping with you boys for something different rather than just myself every weekend 🤣 half the time since I've been here. I hop in the 4wd on a Saturday morning and start driving with absolutely no plans at all where I'm going to camp that night & it's amazing. Sorry to hear you got stuffed around mate. But at least you found a camp 👍
Just gotta put the camera down sometimes hey 😂 thanks man, thanks for watching.
Shit night of camping beats a day at work 😂
Every time!
Really good points mate? With all that said and on your mind hope everything is ok on your side of the lens mate. Love your content
Thanks mate, all is well 🤠
Good man I love the content
You are my spirit animal Tom. The articulate ventilation of my white hot to phosphorescent rage at the parasites humanity has become.
Thank you for sharing and for normalising the conversation, beyond "how are you going", "good".
Thanks mate, thanks for watching.
Great Video, and very Important points, it's always easy to palm off not catching up with your mates for various reasons, I find I do it because I don't have children and three of my best mates, 2 I have treated like brothers for years, since we met in high school, but all 3 have young families and children, so you naturally follow the narrative in your head " They Have Priorities to their Wives and Children, they come first, I won't bother them as when I usually get in touch they are always too busy to catch up". But when that happens we need to kick ourselves up the ass and Say " You know it's hard for them to get out to catch up, so just go to them, arrange a time, whether it's 30 mins, and afternoon or a whole day, but make the effort because it's ten times more effort for them when they have family responsibilites". Thankyou for sharing this, I'm personally using this to make more time and effort for mates time, rather than alone time when I'm not with my Partner, becuase its just easier.
I absolutely understand your sentiment mate. Very true.
Thanks for your comment, I appreciate it.
Well said
Thanks man!
Great video as usual, but no true-er words spoken the stigma of being a man is to tuff it out no matter what to save face as being weak is just rubbish it takes a man to realize they are human and now and then we need help to sort the rubbish out, it do's not mean you are weak it means you are strong in the sense you need to sort the cards out in the deck and get on with the game of life, and not cut the deck in half and throw it in the bin and life as well.
If you need to ask a mate if he OK then you don't talk much or you see something going on that made you ask the question? instead ask them out for a drink , lunch or even a camp over night do something physical to show you are thinking of them and that you are there as a mate to cross those scary bridges, those cloudy days so they can approach the next one in a better out look that you might just be on the other side.
sorry for the blurb but love your vid's keep them coming, in your time not ours 😇
Absolutely mate, very well said 🤠
Good work mate, so many of us blokes talk but don't really talk. You hit the nail on the head. It is super important for us men to get away from all the crap in our lives, be in other company and just talk shit. Cheers bro
Perfectly said mate! Thanks for watching.
Too easy bud
Nailed it Matt... keep it up
Thanks mate!
Its sad that the mental health subject still seems so taboo
dropping some truths in this vid mate
Thanks for watching mate!
Blokes need to talk...... to each other or someone.
Too right mate!
I don't have friends , buddy's
Sorry to hear that mate.