The secret to building lasting confidence | Philipp Humm | TEDxRoermond

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @janhorak287
    @janhorak287 2 года назад +9

    This was the best speech I've ever listened to.

  • @HCoons1975
    @HCoons1975 2 года назад +4

    Yeah. Makes sense. AFter a while of working in a gas station, I got to a similar point. Embrace people, even if you're awkward.

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +1

      Working at a gas station, you probably see the other, aka lots of interesting / crazy people coming in!

    • @HCoons1975
      @HCoons1975 2 года назад

      @@Philipp-Humm yep. Definitely gave me stories to tell. After a while you learn when to ask questions and when to keep your mouth shut. I learned how to talk with people. At a gas station, you have to be able to treat the homeless with the same respect as your former governors. Sometimes saw both within five minutes of each other. You see people as people. I needed the job to teach me how to communicate with people. Doesn't mean I liked all aspects of the job, but I did learn a lot (worked at multiple stores). In a twisted way I miss customer service, but not necessarily all of the customers. Especially the ones who lived to make others lives more difficult. Learned how to handle the difficult people too. Perspective matters.

  • @premmali8206
    @premmali8206 Год назад +1

    Wow loved this, I have been trying this out lately and didn't know this can help in confidence now I will start doing it intentionally, thank you, Philipp!

  • @enriquevelasco4984
    @enriquevelasco4984 2 года назад +5

    Great talk! This is gold! indeed a powerful tool for everyone and anyone who wants to build more self-confidence.

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      Thanks, Enrique :). Glad you found it helpful!

  • @Philipp-Humm
    @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +21

    Yeaaah, excited (& a little embarrassed ) to see my talk online.
    Hope it helps y'all build the confidence to live the life you dreamed of.
    I plan to launch a 30-day constructive embarrassment challenge on social media soon. If you want be part of the movement or just to want to say hi, connect with me on social media (LI / IG / FB): Philipp Humm

    • @toolamirjan1941
      @toolamirjan1941 2 года назад +3

      Oh wow! Hello Philipp, thank you for the inspiring talk!! I am so in for the challenge. I appreciate it...since I definitely wouldn't have the courage to do it on my own but really want to try it. lol. Just added you on FB!

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +2

      @@toolamirjan1941 Thanks Toola. Appreciate your kind words and excited to see ya lie down in the supermarket ;)

    • @lenac2369
      @lenac2369 2 года назад +2

      Loved this talk! Funny and empowering! I’m going to go yell at the stranger 🤣

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +1

      haha @@lenac2369 just don't say that I told ya soo ;)

    • @daniellaisiekwene3651
      @daniellaisiekwene3651 2 года назад +2

      Will do

  • @inigobarcaiztegui3799
    @inigobarcaiztegui3799 2 года назад +3

    I already feel more confident!

  • @Lokatos12
    @Lokatos12 2 года назад +10

    Tried it in my village, now everybody is convinced that I am a psycho, thank you so much xD

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      haha great job for giving it a go. But yes, mindful that some of these things are a bit easier in bigger cities where you don't know everyone!

    • @pranavmg7133
      @pranavmg7133 2 года назад

      😂

  • @deviniveditharajkumar8804
    @deviniveditharajkumar8804 2 года назад +11

    Wow! What an amazing talk! Build confidence every single day! Create a new challenge and break all the barriers! The CEA system is very effective. I just loved the talk. Thank you for sharing :)

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +1

      Thanks Devi! Very honoured that you find it helpful! Keep me posted when you you give it a try!

  • @annadobysh1420
    @annadobysh1420 2 года назад +5

    With hindsight, it was gripping and subtle speach. We will all be able to be confident if we make a splendid afford. Your advices are not for the common palate. I'll try to follow them with great gusto. Thank you!

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      Very happy to hear that, Анна. Keepe me posted on what exercises you try out :)

    • @annadobysh1420
      @annadobysh1420 2 года назад

      I've been looking for ways to feel confident for about 5 years. Now, i've got lots of stories in practice. I appreciate what i've just done...one of them... Training of production stuff on Good Documentation Practice without preparation as it was spontaneous task. What was surprised no one got hurt and notice that.

  • @soksreymom3353
    @soksreymom3353 2 года назад +5

    when we were children, we can do every wired thing as we want, there is no notice or judgement from others, so children don't feel depressed, but as we grow up, we have to do anything in rule, we afraid of being judged by others on our weird behaviour or thought. We feel oppressed that lead us into depression.

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      So true, Sok. Constructive Embarrassment is actually discovering the inner child that tries out new things without feeling judged!

  • @RawAussieAthlete
    @RawAussieAthlete 2 года назад +5

    Hey Philipp! Great talk my friend! I competed in a salsa partner competition, dancing Salsa On2, against 7 time world champion (David Zepeda). Definitely huge potential for embarrassment but I did my best (after only learning salsa for 9 months). Look forward to seeing you back in Playa some time!

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      That's terrifying, mate. Your an inspiration to all of us!

  • @amaruu23
    @amaruu23 2 года назад +2

    Damn that was the best speech I've ever heard thank you so much for sharing that

  • @luispadron8225
    @luispadron8225 4 месяца назад

    Your book, The Storytelling method led me here, it’s so good!

  • @haukeachilles9030
    @haukeachilles9030 2 года назад +2

    Thank you very much! I think I will use this technique for the things I need to do anyway like facing this machinery of torment aka the normal adults life which includes such inhumane obstacles like responding to clients and using the telephone to solve problems.
    And I will rename it as "tea" for time, embrace, appreciate. So that after every cup of coffee I can have a cup of tea and after every cup of tea I can reward myself with a cup of coffee 😅
    But jokes aside, I truly believe this is a useful tool and can build a lot momentum.
    Thanks for inspiration ✌

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      Love the acronym "TEA", Hauke. I might consult you for future talks ;)

  • @benjamindover4337
    @benjamindover4337 2 года назад +2

    Good talk

  • @WeaponGuy117
    @WeaponGuy117 2 года назад

    These exercises sound like they would be excruciatingly painful.
    I'll probably give it a shot. Great talk, Thank you Mr. Humm.

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      haha love the "excruciatingly painful". My pleasure, Weaponguy. Keep me posted once you've given it a try!

  • @bukurie6861
    @bukurie6861 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for best TEDx are speaking but to put in life is difficult...🌐😍👍

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +1

      Thanks Bukurie! Much love from Amsterdam!

  • @bbutterfly36
    @bbutterfly36 2 года назад +22

    Wow this is so powerful (and funny lol). Thank you! You made confidence sound like a skill that is attainable. Gonna try it. Really appreciate this!!

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +3

      Yeah. One more joining :). Hit me up what you gonna try!

    • @anuj8855
      @anuj8855 2 года назад +2

      I am great full that I am here on this video .I am super shy but from now I will not be what I was, thank you.

  • @melraff6578
    @melraff6578 2 года назад +4

    Love from Nigeria

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +1

      Thanks Mel. Love back from the Netherlands :)

  • @pinkymeel4975
    @pinkymeel4975 2 года назад +12

    I don't have enough knowledge about English but today I wanna avoid my this fear I'm ready for speaking anything in the English infront of everyone 😊
    Let's see what happens 😅

    • @laa8998
      @laa8998 2 года назад +1

      🙌🏻♥️😌

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +4

      You got this Pinky. Once you've tried a few of these exercises, speaking in front of your classroom will be a piece of cake. Go for it :)

    • @pinkymeel4975
      @pinkymeel4975 2 года назад +3

      @@Philipp-Humm thanks 🙏🏻😊

  • @raakshit9
    @raakshit9 2 года назад +4

    Amazingly great advice, i felt more confident now 🌞

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      My pleasure, Rakshit! Go get 'em!

  • @عبدالروٴف
    @عبدالروٴف 2 года назад +2

    i am going to try it.

  • @achintabrian9042
    @achintabrian9042 2 года назад +4

    Thank you very much 😊👏👏👏👏

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      My pleasure Achinta. Excited to see ya tryin it out!

  • @costi4889
    @costi4889 2 года назад +1

    Amazing talk, Philipp! One day I will try some of your challenges!

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      Thank you sir! I'll check in with ya ;)

  • @paulaz.7707
    @paulaz.7707 2 года назад +1

    Great talk, Philipp!

  • @MirjanAcademy
    @MirjanAcademy 2 года назад +2

    Excellent talk, well done. Things have to think about .

  • @Jiiuygfrr
    @Jiiuygfrr 2 года назад

    C.E.A. Count, embrace, appreciate!

  • @brettgrady1921
    @brettgrady1921 2 года назад +4

    Great speech

  • @shreya953
    @shreya953 2 года назад +3

    Thank you so much 😊 great speech👏👏

  • @SA-lz1vx
    @SA-lz1vx 5 месяцев назад

    Yes consciously embarrassing yourself does lead to greater confidence. Often you discover that what you thought is embarrassing wasn’t even embarrassing to begin with- it was your own mind making up stories.

  • @alex-lifecoach
    @alex-lifecoach 2 года назад +1

    This is amazing Philip!! Very inspiring talk :)

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      Thanks Alex. Glad you enjoyed it!

  • @aldomendez9085
    @aldomendez9085 2 года назад +1

    so inspiring, thx

  • @michellebloem3193
    @michellebloem3193 2 года назад +4

    I really enjoyed your talk! Such a true, powerful and funny way to build confidence. Thank you for sharing this experience!

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      Thanks Michelle! This means a lot to me :)

  • @amiria703
    @amiria703 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for sharing your story and your method, Maybe in the future I'll be a host in a TV program. Who knows? :) Oops I forgot the funny part: As a stranger, could you give me a hug Philipp? 😂

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +1

      *Givin you a virtual hug now ;)

    • @amiria703
      @amiria703 2 года назад

      😂😂😂

  • @janushkumaren
    @janushkumaren 2 года назад +3

    Wow

  • @Owen-mp8fp
    @Owen-mp8fp 2 года назад +3

    well done

  • @simplysunmoon
    @simplysunmoon 2 года назад +2

    Thank you it sounds funny 😍

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +1

      Thanks, SunMoon. Glad you liked it!

  • @magayatribmrraj6769
    @magayatribmrraj6769 2 года назад +3

    Love from india(bharat)

  • @Angie-wc3st
    @Angie-wc3st 2 года назад +2

    Didn't expect the song though lol

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      I know, very questionable in hindsight :D

  • @jiroh8123
    @jiroh8123 2 года назад +3

    Step one: go sit on Starbucks floor to become legendary
    Heck yes.

  • @magayatribmrraj6769
    @magayatribmrraj6769 2 года назад +2

    Good evening friends

  • @magayatribmrraj6769
    @magayatribmrraj6769 2 года назад

    Where are any audiance?

  • @TeamMostRequested
    @TeamMostRequested 2 года назад +2

    Let’s Goooooo

  • @beppobarrendero74
    @beppobarrendero74 2 года назад +2

    You are up here now because one day you were down there.

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +1

      Truth, Belen. I sometimes wish I had videos of myself a few years back. I was terrified of public speaking...

    • @beppobarrendero74
      @beppobarrendero74 2 года назад

      @@Philipp-Humm for me was exactely the same! I've passed from scenic panic to scenic pleasure. Currently, I can speak in public even better and more confident than most of people. I know that this is a consequence of my old fears. If I hadn't been so afraid in the past, I woudn't be so confident now.

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад

      @@beppobarrendero74 That's amazing. What has helped you get comfortable on stage :)?

  • @celestialcircledance
    @celestialcircledance 2 года назад

    Not doing any of that but the next time a stranger belts it I at least want to be one of the few people clapping !

  • @Ivan-fs9nz
    @Ivan-fs9nz 2 года назад +5

    I asked a guy for a hug and I think he gave me Covid lol jk Great speech! 🤩

    • @Philipp-Humm
      @Philipp-Humm 2 года назад +1

      haha yeah, hugging people has gotten a little harder these past 2 years ;). Great job for going for it, Ivan!

  • @pdsvag
    @pdsvag 2 года назад

    Don't know, I will probably find myself in a youtube compilation of crazy things that a single guy did. And I will be traumatized.

  • @fernandohannah9269
    @fernandohannah9269 2 года назад +6

    Hey I'm a beginner and I understand the market crash is the perfect time to make money, but how are some investors able to double there profit within a short period of time, a particular investor made up to $350,000 from trading about $100,000 within a couple of months, do they stand a better chance than others?

    • @adammartin8556
      @adammartin8556 2 года назад

      They don't stand a better chance, they only did their homework and proper research

    • @JamesSmith-up4xu
      @JamesSmith-up4xu 2 года назад

      It all about finding the right opportunity in the market and then taking advantage of it

    • @anthonyjason4681
      @anthonyjason4681 2 года назад

      Who made profit for you, am really looking for a professional who can manage my account and make me huge profit

    • @brandycarina9083
      @brandycarina9083 2 года назад

      @@anthonyjason4681 Am trading with expert Mrs melissa, a regulated broker in the US. Met her sometime early last year at a startup funding event. She had some interesting things to say about the state of algorithmic trading today ,very obviously I'm seeing the results.

    • @jordangrace7225
      @jordangrace7225 2 года назад

      @@brandycarina9083 Wow you really know about Mrs Melissa? I'm a living testimony of melissa, she has been trading for me for months now

  • @omararizona
    @omararizona 2 года назад +8

    Human beings are so pure and their soul is so pure and beautiful that we fall for anything or anyone who has something to say. I think he has a lot of good things to say but it just reminds me how gullible and how sweet human beings are because as a human being I believe I'm a soul and the body is just a vehicle and the purity beyond imagination of most people it was interesting to watch him and how many people are going to do when he says to do but my religion gives different instructions when it comes to confidence build the relationship with the owner of the universe find a Sufi master who will train you in your character and you will find all the confidence in me because human beings are different and religions.

  • @zoniakincaid4107
    @zoniakincaid4107 2 года назад +3

    A chhuahua will take on al lion any day

  • @kingki1953
    @kingki1953 2 года назад +1

    His sounds wasn't loud enough, i can't hear it clearly. :(

    • @cgotlb
      @cgotlb 2 года назад +4

      U shldve listened to few more seconds n u wld be able to hear him well

    • @tiffanystrand4423
      @tiffanystrand4423 2 года назад

      It took me a few minutes, too! Especially when he spoke with accents.

    • @kingki1953
      @kingki1953 2 года назад +1

      @@tiffanystrand4423 yeah, his accents could be my problem too

  • @Mariahugo472
    @Mariahugo472 2 года назад +37

    Despite the economic downturn,I'm so happy☺️. I have been earning $ 60,000 returns from my $7,000 investment every 13days.

    • @lauren5422
      @lauren5422 2 года назад

      This must be an investment with Mrs Charlotte Junko Walsh

    • @JohnMcCain-qw4zl
      @JohnMcCain-qw4zl 2 года назад

      @@lauren5422 Wow I'm just shocked you mentioned expert Mrs Charlotte thought I'm the only one trading with her

    • @JohnMcCain-qw4zl
      @JohnMcCain-qw4zl 2 года назад

      She helped me recover what I lost trying to trade myself

    • @kellyjoan3564
      @kellyjoan3564 2 года назад

      Mrs Charlotte is my professional assistant, I have been trading with her for 8 months now... I've really made over $200,000 from her strategies in trading of cryptocurrencies.

    • @katherine3999
      @katherine3999 2 года назад

      @Gregory I will leave her number just below this comment

  • @user-ow8hc1mg6g
    @user-ow8hc1mg6g 2 года назад +2

    Awesome video..

  • @marwahmohammed5198
    @marwahmohammed5198 2 года назад

    I can't understand everything

  • @plutoisarealplanet7407
    @plutoisarealplanet7407 2 года назад +1

    second

  • @lovelyakter3306
    @lovelyakter3306 2 года назад

    The spiffy kitten cosmetically level because scent preclinically consist like a glamorous bomb. youthful, selective humor

  • @giftedgreen2152
    @giftedgreen2152 2 года назад +2

    Awesome, confidence advice from a beta.