I was on the fence about going out by myself dancing tonight. I've been stuck in my own cycles of weed/alcohol abuse. But the first 12 mins of this really inspired me to "just go out, worst case, you just walk back home, and tomorrow take some dance lessons and keep working your craft" I met some super cool people, and a wonderful woman that wants to go snowboard, and go on a date. I could have spent the next 30 years just sitting in my apartment alone, abusing substances and "wishing that I could just meet someone...." blah blah. tl;dr thank you!!!
Hey thanks. I've been watching your videos for a good chunk of this week now. As I mentioned earlier I've been on recovery using the 12 steps but as of recently I am finding that my true problem is that I am a codependent and for some divine reason I found out your channel, It's been almost 2 months of heartbreak and at times bawling my eyes out but I am faithful that serenity is at hand, just as my Higher Power wants. I am thinking on giving up my current support group and try something like CODA/SSLA. It seems it is true that God gives His best warriors the hardest battles. Blessings.
Thank you for watching, I’m hoping my videos are helping you in some way! I know it can be super tough. I’ve never struggled with addiction myself but I have seen many others around me go through it. I have, however, struggled with codependency as well. Not an easy road. But I know that you can get through it. Thank you for being here! Wishing you all the best :)
I feel like I’m beginning to start a new life with many things happening at once…My partner I thought I was going to have a future with dumped me for somebody they met at work. I recently started a new job after being unemployed for months… it’s an amazing job that I wanted and I am genuinely happy about it, but oddly some part of me doesn’t feel as happy…I’m learning to be with myself more I guess..All I see are unknown paths ahead. Feels disassociating at times,I just try to make the best of today. Hope you have a great week
I’m sorry that happened with your partner, but congratulations on your new job! It can definitely be tough to have so many things changing at once. Take your time and just take it day by day. It can feel very uncomfortable. I find myself dissociating quite a bit, too. I just know everything is going to work out for you, and that you’ll be so happy! Wishing you all the best ❤️
This is so true, as soon as I let go of my past life, my new life changed so drastically for the better. So much so that I actually was saying to myself today that I don't even recognize myself and don't even hardly remember my past. Very surreal, feels actually a fair bit uncomfortable, but I know I need to keep going that path.
Yeah I totally get that, it’s been the same for me. I look at old pictures of myself and I don’t even recognize the person I’m looking at. It’s bittersweet, but so worth it! Keep going :)
@@DVNLYHealing I think the uncomfortable part is wondering if we’ll always feel this way. I’m guessing we’ll settle into a norm, into the new person we made. Another new thing is that now I’m able to take on whatever traits I want for myself easily, do you have the same experience? Almost like building a character in a video game.
How did you learn all this at such a young age ? Some You Tubers I know read from a script secretly . But , to be fair , you don’t seem to be doing that - so all kudos to you . Also , some people do care what you do - the jealous ones ! I did take a lot from this video - thank you .
I guess I just learned through my experiences and through being an observer of life. I’ve read a lot growing up, which helped, and I’ve also been alone a lot so I’ve had the time to really process and work through my thoughts and emotions. No script, just my thoughts flowing :) Thanks for watching!
Thank You. You published your video at the right time, just started a new job part time and it feels highly uncomfortable, even though I wanted it and I also like it, but somehow it feels to much for me emotionally..., but I have to keep going. Thank You again:)
should i transfer colleges? everything was going okay at my college (first year) and then i made a mistake and my lowkey toxic boyfriend broke up with me and now i feel like the college friends i made are all talking shit about me. they all say things that make me uncomfortable too. is it time to just completely move on to another school? or should i stick it out and just try to find new people at the same place even though they’ll all be around me bc i room with one of them?
That’s a decision you’ll have to make for yourself, love. I know it really sucks to have people talk badly about you. I think it’s definitely worth having a conversation with the person you’re rooming with to let them know it’s making you uncomfortable. But at the end of the day, nothing anyone says about you really matters. All that matters is that you know who you are. Follow your heart and it’ll take you in the direction you’re supposed to go. Wishing you all the best 🤍
I don’t, but I do have an email attached to my RUclips! You can always send any questions to that :) I’ve never thought about having a discord but it might be a good idea. I’ll look into it
I was on the fence about going out by myself dancing tonight. I've been stuck in my own cycles of weed/alcohol abuse.
But the first 12 mins of this really inspired me to "just go out, worst case, you just walk back home, and tomorrow take some dance lessons and keep working your craft"
I met some super cool people, and a wonderful woman that wants to go snowboard, and go on a date.
I could have spent the next 30 years just sitting in my apartment alone, abusing substances and "wishing that I could just meet someone...." blah blah.
tl;dr thank you!!!
Nice!!!
That’s so great!! I’m so happy you got out of our comfort zone and had a great time. That’s so exciting! Invite me to the wedding ☺️
@@DVNLYHealing I wish I could heart react on this platform, b/c "Invite me to the wedding" is a god-tier comment.
Wow she hit the nail on the head.Sounds like she's describing my life the way I feel
Glad you resonate with what I said :)
Hey thanks. I've been watching your videos for a good chunk of this week now. As I mentioned earlier I've been on recovery using the 12 steps but as of recently I am finding that my true problem is that I am a codependent and for some divine reason I found out your channel, It's been almost 2 months of heartbreak and at times bawling my eyes out but I am faithful that serenity is at hand, just as my Higher Power wants. I am thinking on giving up my current support group and try something like CODA/SSLA. It seems it is true that God gives His best warriors the hardest battles.
Blessings.
Thank you for watching, I’m hoping my videos are helping you in some way! I know it can be super tough. I’ve never struggled with addiction myself but I have seen many others around me go through it. I have, however, struggled with codependency as well. Not an easy road. But I know that you can get through it. Thank you for being here! Wishing you all the best :)
I am literally crying rn. I'm receiving this message in the right time and I receive it wholeheartedly. Thank you 🙏💎
Aw I’m so happy I can help. Wishing you all the best ❤️
Beautiful girl being open about everything is so refreshing
Thank you 🥺
That title alone - brilliant and spot on. Thank you for this.
Thank you! Glad you liked it :)
I feel like I’m beginning to start a new life with many things happening at once…My partner I thought I was going to have a future with dumped me for somebody they met at work. I recently started a new job after being unemployed for months… it’s an amazing job that I wanted and I am genuinely happy about it, but oddly some part of me doesn’t feel as happy…I’m learning to be with myself more I guess..All I see are unknown paths ahead.
Feels disassociating at times,I just try to make the best of today. Hope you have a great week
I’m sorry that happened with your partner, but congratulations on your new job! It can definitely be tough to have so many things changing at once. Take your time and just take it day by day. It can feel very uncomfortable. I find myself dissociating quite a bit, too. I just know everything is going to work out for you, and that you’ll be so happy! Wishing you all the best ❤️
@@DVNLYHealing I appreciate your kind words of encouragement. Wishing the best for you too.
You are absolutely wonderful, thank you so much for posting this.
Thank you so much ❤️
This is so true, as soon as I let go of my past life, my new life changed so drastically for the better. So much so that I actually was saying to myself today that I don't even recognize myself and don't even hardly remember my past. Very surreal, feels actually a fair bit uncomfortable, but I know I need to keep going that path.
Yeah I totally get that, it’s been the same for me. I look at old pictures of myself and I don’t even recognize the person I’m looking at. It’s bittersweet, but so worth it! Keep going :)
@@DVNLYHealing I think the uncomfortable part is wondering if we’ll always feel this way. I’m guessing we’ll settle into a norm, into the new person we made. Another new thing is that now I’m able to take on whatever traits I want for myself easily, do you have the same experience? Almost like building a character in a video game.
How did you learn all this at such a young age ?
Some You Tubers I know read from a script secretly .
But , to be fair , you don’t seem to be doing that - so all kudos to you .
Also , some people do care what you do - the jealous ones !
I did take a lot from this video - thank you .
I guess I just learned through my experiences and through being an observer of life. I’ve read a lot growing up, which helped, and I’ve also been alone a lot so I’ve had the time to really process and work through my thoughts and emotions. No script, just my thoughts flowing :)
Thanks for watching!
You just described my last six months.
And next six months.
Thank you, pretty and wise girl.
Thanks for watching :)
Thank You. You published your video at the right time, just started a new job part time and it feels highly uncomfortable, even though I wanted it and I also like it, but somehow it feels to much for me emotionally..., but I have to keep going. Thank You again:)
Yay, congratulations! You got this, keep going :)
Your current life is gonna cost you your future one. I like this phrasing better :)
au contraire.. i don't even have an old life. gotcha.
😂😂
i love this
Thank you ❤️❤️
fr fr on god? no cap? 🥺
Lol yes forreal
@@DVNLYHealing thank god
should i transfer colleges? everything was going okay at my college (first year) and then i made a mistake and my lowkey toxic boyfriend broke up with me and now i feel like the college friends i made are all talking shit about me. they all say things that make me uncomfortable too. is it time to just completely move on to another school? or should i stick it out and just try to find new people at the same place even though they’ll all be around me bc i room with one of them?
That’s a decision you’ll have to make for yourself, love. I know it really sucks to have people talk badly about you. I think it’s definitely worth having a conversation with the person you’re rooming with to let them know it’s making you uncomfortable. But at the end of the day, nothing anyone says about you really matters. All that matters is that you know who you are. Follow your heart and it’ll take you in the direction you’re supposed to go. Wishing you all the best 🤍
believe in jesus for forgiveness of sins read the bible
Somebody cares what u do
I’d like to ask you some questions, do you have discord?
I don’t, but I do have an email attached to my RUclips! You can always send any questions to that :) I’ve never thought about having a discord but it might be a good idea. I’ll look into it