I haven't felt able to feel anything for a large portion of my 20 years of living, and I finally feel aware and ready to confront it little by little... but I have struggled with the "how." Your name, Aldina, sounded very ethnically familiar to where I was from, so I visited your blog and read that you were also from the Balkans and, goodness, do I feel so happy that I'm not alone. By virtue of being a woman from the Balkans, speaking up about such important topics has comforted a part of me that felt alone and completely unrepresented in the media when it comes to healing on a spiritual level. I've questioned the validity of my emotional experiences many times before and have thought, "I must not be the only Albanian or Balkan woman who is going through this, right? It sure feels like I'm alone, though..." And here you are, proving this to me in REAL TIME. I could go on and on about how important it is to me that you are sharing your experiences and knowledge, especially considering your background and history as a human being at this very moment. Thank you, Aldina, for being one more person that makes me feel less alone, even on this beautifully bizarre planet.
You are truly so sweet and I'm so happy I can help you feel less alone. Our ancestors have always been so strong and endured so much, but they have suffered in silence and just accepted things the way they were, especially the women. I've always been silent about my feelings until they started eating away at me and I couldn't take it anymore. I felt so alone, too, and it was weird to never see someone from the Balkans talking about these things and opening up. And for that reason, I also felt like I was the only one that was questioning my life and the things that happened in the past. So, it's nice to see someone from the Balkans also feeling the same way. You are also making me feel less alone because they all make me feel so crazy sometimes. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment. As long as I exist, you won't be alone. I'm wishing you all the best on your journey, and I'll always be here to help.
Funny thing you upload this as I have been getting these non-linear waves of who i am while the healing process grabs hold of me. My healing is happening in realtime for me as i speak ,thank God, it feels like the dust is settling after so much time has gone by. These surges of who you are after surviving the quicksand of crippling health and unexplainable pain comes in waves, and then there are surges of anger because you realize that so much time has been used up suffering. Theres this internal tug of war between humanity, time and yourself, but ultimately you're grateful for healing. Good health is such an immense thing. Our good health is what makes us majestic. Having God in your life is very important as well. Journeys need guides, and God is that guide. I wish we could see God more as THE guide in one's journey instead of the authoritarian figure religions have shaped God to be, though i appreciate that aspect of humanity also. Breathing and going out for a run is big as well, just as we need God in our lives we need breathing in our lives, it works to just breathe it out or run it all out. It feels like the tide has changed, its as if I am in a new city or country, and i am back with my old self and blending that self with my current more wiser self. Its odd, but in a positive way.
I 100% understand everything you’re saying. We’re integrating our new selves slowly and the world starts to feel different even though maybe not so much has changed physically. A lot of the anger I’ve been feeling comes from the fact that I’ve allowed so many people to treat me worse than I’ve deserved and I’m seeing just how lost I was and how misunderstood I always felt. I can’t help but feel sad for the old me because all she ever wanted was to be loved, but the me I am now has just been waiting for her to get here to this moment and understand it all. Finding yourself means finding God, and my faith has only gotten stronger because I’ve come home to myself. I’m glad you’re finally getting to the stages where you’re feeling healed and starting to integrate all the new things you’ve learned. Everything you need is within you. I appreciate you taking the time to leave such a thoughtful message. ❤️
@@DVNLYHealing No, I appreciate the effort you have placed into your videos and a video like this one. You're spreading a positive message and making sense of things that might seem so blurred at first. Your ideas are brilliant, in particular your comment about the shadow and how it only wants to be loved, just as every human being wants in their life. Your channel is great.
I agree, you should always be yourself! However, some people do have traumas and pain that keep them from being themselves. So, I think it’s important to dig deep and heal that pain so you can hold space for yourself and feel safe to be yourself. If you consider yourself an alchemist, then you understand that we can turn that pain into something more beautiful and beneficial for us. :)
@@DVNLYHealing I see in you not trauma, but not enough courage, you talk about what you actually see that you should do, but you don't do it because somehow, deep inside, you have some comfort and you look at it as if it will never be there again, and your fear of change, which would change so much in you life, and you don't know how much happiness it would bring because actually the essence is to deal and work with what is given to you and what is around you. Dare, you will see what magic and happiness awaits you. LOVE IS NOT PASSIVE , BUT ACTION!
We need to learn to unlearn. To come to our core, ourselves as trauma dissconects us from that, from life. But isnt the antidote to REPRESSION - EXPRESSION.
a question what is your advice on a person you cannot cannot control nor does he respects me, this is a situation at work, and once i say something it only ends in arguing?
I don’t know the full situation, but first, you should understand that you cannot control anyone else. You can only control yourself and how you respond to things. Once you understand that, it takes some of the stress off of you. Then understand that the way this person treats you has nothing to do with you, but everything to do with their inner world and how they feel about themselves. Maybe they’re being disrespected at home, so they now act that way at work. I also recommend changing the way you may be talking to this person. Use I statements, so “I feel unheard/disrespected when you do a, b, c.” A lot of people feel attacked when we say something to them, which can end in an argument. If you try to change the way you approach them and don’t put blame on them, it could turn into a more civilized conversation. Hope that helps!
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I haven't felt able to feel anything for a large portion of my 20 years of living, and I finally feel aware and ready to confront it little by little... but I have struggled with the "how."
Your name, Aldina, sounded very ethnically familiar to where I was from, so I visited your blog and read that you were also from the Balkans and, goodness, do I feel so happy that I'm not alone. By virtue of being a woman from the Balkans, speaking up about such important topics has comforted a part of me that felt alone and completely unrepresented in the media when it comes to healing on a spiritual level. I've questioned the validity of my emotional experiences many times before and have thought, "I must not be the only Albanian or Balkan woman who is going through this, right? It sure feels like I'm alone, though..." And here you are, proving this to me in REAL TIME. I could go on and on about how important it is to me that you are sharing your experiences and knowledge, especially considering your background and history as a human being at this very moment. Thank you, Aldina, for being one more person that makes me feel less alone, even on this beautifully bizarre planet.
You are truly so sweet and I'm so happy I can help you feel less alone. Our ancestors have always been so strong and endured so much, but they have suffered in silence and just accepted things the way they were, especially the women. I've always been silent about my feelings until they started eating away at me and I couldn't take it anymore. I felt so alone, too, and it was weird to never see someone from the Balkans talking about these things and opening up. And for that reason, I also felt like I was the only one that was questioning my life and the things that happened in the past. So, it's nice to see someone from the Balkans also feeling the same way. You are also making me feel less alone because they all make me feel so crazy sometimes.
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment. As long as I exist, you won't be alone. I'm wishing you all the best on your journey, and I'll always be here to help.
Funny thing you upload this as I have been getting these non-linear waves of who i am while the healing process grabs hold of me. My healing is happening in realtime for me as i speak ,thank God, it feels like the dust is settling after so much time has gone by. These surges of who you are after surviving the quicksand of crippling health and unexplainable pain comes in waves, and then there are surges of anger because you realize that so much time has been used up suffering. Theres this internal tug of war between humanity, time and yourself, but ultimately you're grateful for healing. Good health is such an immense thing. Our good health is what makes us majestic. Having God in your life is very important as well. Journeys need guides, and God is that guide. I wish we could see God more as THE guide in one's journey instead of the authoritarian figure religions have shaped God to be, though i appreciate that aspect of humanity also. Breathing and going out for a run is big as well, just as we need God in our lives we need breathing in our lives, it works to just breathe it out or run it all out. It feels like the tide has changed, its as if I am in a new city or country, and i am back with my old self and blending that self with my current more wiser self. Its odd, but in a positive way.
I 100% understand everything you’re saying. We’re integrating our new selves slowly and the world starts to feel different even though maybe not so much has changed physically. A lot of the anger I’ve been feeling comes from the fact that I’ve allowed so many people to treat me worse than I’ve deserved and I’m seeing just how lost I was and how misunderstood I always felt. I can’t help but feel sad for the old me because all she ever wanted was to be loved, but the me I am now has just been waiting for her to get here to this moment and understand it all. Finding yourself means finding God, and my faith has only gotten stronger because I’ve come home to myself. I’m glad you’re finally getting to the stages where you’re feeling healed and starting to integrate all the new things you’ve learned. Everything you need is within you.
I appreciate you taking the time to leave such a thoughtful message. ❤️
@@DVNLYHealing No, I appreciate the effort you have placed into your videos and a video like this one. You're spreading a positive message and making sense of things that might seem so blurred at first. Your ideas are brilliant, in particular your comment about the shadow and how it only wants to be loved, just as every human being wants in their life. Your channel is great.
@@joseflores38 Thank you, I really do appreciate the support
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I agree, you should always be yourself! However, some people do have traumas and pain that keep them from being themselves. So, I think it’s important to dig deep and heal that pain so you can hold space for yourself and feel safe to be yourself. If you consider yourself an alchemist, then you understand that we can turn that pain into something more beautiful and beneficial for us. :)
@@DVNLYHealing yes, first thing you should do is to remove fear and the healing will occur.
@@DVNLYHealing I see in you not trauma, but not enough courage, you talk about what you actually see that you should do, but you don't do it because somehow, deep inside, you have some comfort and you look at it as if it will never be there again, and your fear of change, which would change so much in you life, and you don't know how much happiness it would bring because actually the essence is to deal and work with what is given to you and what is around you.
Dare, you will see what magic and happiness awaits you.
LOVE IS NOT PASSIVE , BUT ACTION!
We need to learn to unlearn. To come to our core, ourselves as trauma dissconects us from that, from life. But isnt the antidote to REPRESSION - EXPRESSION.
powerful!
Thank you honey ❤️
a question what is your advice on a person you cannot cannot control nor does he respects me, this is a situation at work, and once i say something it only ends in arguing?
I don’t know the full situation, but first, you should understand that you cannot control anyone else. You can only control yourself and how you respond to things. Once you understand that, it takes some of the stress off of you. Then understand that the way this person treats you has nothing to do with you, but everything to do with their inner world and how they feel about themselves. Maybe they’re being disrespected at home, so they now act that way at work. I also recommend changing the way you may be talking to this person. Use I statements, so “I feel unheard/disrespected when you do a, b, c.” A lot of people feel attacked when we say something to them, which can end in an argument. If you try to change the way you approach them and don’t put blame on them, it could turn into a more civilized conversation. Hope that helps!
@@DVNLYHealing Thanks, I will try to to think how to handle the situation, again thank you very much:)
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you are not the creator of divinely healing you were gifted the creator of divinely healing and letting go that it is you will let this creator reach its full potential