Welp. That commenter was right when they said the reason for the fiancée’s estrangement would be an eye-opener. I’d honestly call her bluff and say do it, what respect I had for you is gone, it’ll be a relief to be NC with you.
IMO, family jewelry shouldn't be passed to children-in-law at all. Like what if you divorce them a year later? What if you have 5 spouses throughout life? How many family jewels we can afford to give away? 🗿 It should always be passed down from parent/grandparent to child, because it's exactly that, the ties that can't be severed
The last story, she should have just written him a letter. Him deciding to cross his wife's boundary is him choosing his x over her and betraying her trust.
(F* off, RUclips!) Why in the HELL didn’t OP get her name put on the house title? 🤦🏼♀️ If she is forced to leave, she needs to trash the place (by that I mean remove any improvements or upgrades she made).
OP was a woman. And she stayed there rent free the entire time so it's not like she got completely ripped off. Besides they weren't throwing her to the wolves, they just asked her to move into their house and swap with her sister. I know it sucks after putting in all that work but it was a temporary thing, and there was no sort of agreement about ownership of the place or even a rental contract so OP had no right ro rhe place. If she made some improvements, there was no agreement to be repaid for them. All in all yeah OP got shafted but they were kind of TA too. They were still being given a rent-free space to live in, they just felt entitled to the bigger place because they put some work into it without ever agreeing that they would be repaid for it or that ig would give them any extra claim on the place.
@@sweeety969 Oh my mistake regarding OP’s gender. Thanks. But I still believe in the principle of the thing that OP still got shafted. However, OP should have been careful and gotten things in writing or at least her name on the house prior to putting a dime in repairs, or getting a contract stating she would be compensated for repairs. By “trash the place”, I mean OP should remove any improvements she had made, leave it the way she had found it.
I feel like the last issue is way too complex to have a right answer. But tbh, my opinion on it boils down to I feel he has the right to know before he makes the trip at least the context of this "important thing" she has to say and why it couldn't have been said before.
1st OP doesn't own the house and is a sucker for putting money into it without any official agreement of recompense. If their parents want them to move out and their sibling to move in, and to swap around, when it's both their properties they own, that's not up to OP to tell them what to do with their property. Especially since OP didn't even pay rent. Honestly they sound a bit entitled. At the end of the day, that's not her house, she can't decide who stays in it. And she's acting like because she put some money into the house she's staying in rent-free that means she owns it when there was no agreement for her to have any sort of ownership, or even a rental agreement or anything like that.
That makeup comment OP’s entitled future SIL made definitely sounds like projecting and I legitimately hope OP’s brother realizes how Garbo his fiancé is
Story 2 OP was really annoying me, just say no and move on, your SIL dont deserve your family heirloms, stop with the "if I had more I will give her one" and all the other excuses, "no" its a complete sentence and if your brother gets mad about it, well, f*ck him. Your SIL its a stranger, she should not have something with such sentimental value just bc she wants it, especially no if she has to take it from your daughters, like WTF. 😂
“I won’t invite you to my wedding!”
“Girl, that’s not _nearly_ the punishment you think it is.”
Welp. That commenter was right when they said the reason for the fiancée’s estrangement would be an eye-opener. I’d honestly call her bluff and say do it, what respect I had for you is gone, it’ll be a relief to be NC with you.
Ah, another 'Do it for Dan.' Not sure they'll ever quite match it.
IMO, family jewelry shouldn't be passed to children-in-law at all. Like what if you divorce them a year later? What if you have 5 spouses throughout life? How many family jewels we can afford to give away? 🗿 It should always be passed down from parent/grandparent to child, because it's exactly that, the ties that can't be severed
Ask your brother if he can guarantee that they will not divorce.
Disown everyone.
The last story, she should have just written him a letter. Him deciding to cross his wife's boundary is him choosing his x over her and betraying her trust.
Keep the pieces, don't listen to your brother
Last story, take your wife with you and let her see what ex wants.
(F* off, RUclips!) Why in the HELL didn’t OP get her name put on the house title? 🤦🏼♀️ If she is forced to leave, she needs to trash the place (by that I mean remove any improvements or upgrades she made).
OP was a woman. And she stayed there rent free the entire time so it's not like she got completely ripped off. Besides they weren't throwing her to the wolves, they just asked her to move into their house and swap with her sister. I know it sucks after putting in all that work but it was a temporary thing, and there was no sort of agreement about ownership of the place or even a rental contract so OP had no right ro rhe place. If she made some improvements, there was no agreement to be repaid for them. All in all yeah OP got shafted but they were kind of TA too. They were still being given a rent-free space to live in, they just felt entitled to the bigger place because they put some work into it without ever agreeing that they would be repaid for it or that ig would give them any extra claim on the place.
@@sweeety969 Oh my mistake regarding OP’s gender. Thanks. But I still believe in the principle of the thing that OP still got shafted. However, OP should have been careful and gotten things in writing or at least her name on the house prior to putting a dime in repairs, or getting a contract stating she would be compensated for repairs.
By “trash the place”, I mean OP should remove any improvements she had made, leave it the way she had found it.
Lotta audio problems in this one chief 😭
DO IT FOR DAN ahh story
The camper guy's story right????
Yea
If your grandma left that jewelry specifically to you he needs to tell his gf she better head to kay jewelers
I feel like the last issue is way too complex to have a right answer. But tbh, my opinion on it boils down to I feel he has the right to know before he makes the trip at least the context of this "important thing" she has to say and why it couldn't have been said before.
1st OP doesn't own the house and is a sucker for putting money into it without any official agreement of recompense. If their parents want them to move out and their sibling to move in, and to swap around, when it's both their properties they own, that's not up to OP to tell them what to do with their property. Especially since OP didn't even pay rent. Honestly they sound a bit entitled. At the end of the day, that's not her house, she can't decide who stays in it. And she's acting like because she put some money into the house she's staying in rent-free that means she owns it when there was no agreement for her to have any sort of ownership, or even a rental agreement or anything like that.
That makeup comment OP’s entitled future SIL made definitely sounds like projecting and I legitimately hope OP’s brother realizes how Garbo his fiancé is
If you're citing Megan Markle, you've got different problems on your hand.
is footage your own? If yes can we get playlist with this world in chronological order?
sry didn't read description
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Did the brother got something else or just op got the jewerly
It sounds like they all got something, his ex included, but now he's getting remarried he's trying to double-dip from the inheritance bowl.
Story 2 OP was really annoying me, just say no and move on, your SIL dont deserve your family heirloms, stop with the "if I had more I will give her one" and all the other excuses, "no" its a complete sentence and if your brother gets mad about it, well, f*ck him. Your SIL its a stranger, she should not have something with such sentimental value just bc she wants it, especially no if she has to take it from your daughters, like WTF. 😂
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Also those are royal jewels and if they get divorced they by law have to give them back.
Dont use minecraft be christian
Yo check your work before you turn it in