My wife will be 43 soon and she and I have had 4 kids in the last 4 years. She was pregant first time at 38 years old and 2nd time we had twins and 3rd time we had one more. She feared of not having kids as she was 37 when we got together so she was deseprate to have at least 4 kids by the time she's 45. My wife is a plus size so she was struggling to deal being pregnant while maintaining her body as well. The doctors were surprised that my wife was able to have 4 kids pass 38 but they recommend not to have anymore or she would need to burn her plus size body but she loves her body and so do I.
@NEWL HOTIY I've been with my wife for 5 years now also she's 11 years older then me and it's fine. Plus out of us two she makes way more money then me but it doesn't mean I don't contribute for our kids. I mean I could be the guy who just chills at home and let the wife work but I'm not that type. We've got plenty of money even if we were to get divorce what will make you think she needs my money unless she's toxic. Plus everything is under her name the house. The worst she would do is kick me out of our house. We've been living together way before we got married and she don't care about money from my side because she don't need it but I still help her out even though it's like nothing to her but she loves my support that I'm willing to spend big for our family even though she has the bigger wages then me. Any other guy maybe be relaxed under my wife and would rely on her support.
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Yessss I love this comment the same here with me I am 40 and I just gave birth to a beautiful healthy baby boy the old fashioned way no help. I got my little covid baby-19 baby!
Well my stepmom is in her late thirties and she gave birth to my healthy beautiful baby sister two years ago. Not knocking what she's saying, but a lot of people get pregnant after 35.
@@amazingflowers92vaz38 Got the results back just today of the nipt test. I am happy to say all tests came back negative. After a positive 1 in 35 for down syndrome on our quad test last week we were so scared. Thank God.
How many people do you know that advertise their still births and fertility problems. Anecdotal evidence and celebrity culture lead to a misunderstanding of life.
I think genetic counseling and monitoring are pretty wise to do even before 35. Please keep in mind y'all that just because the likelihood of certain complications *increases* doesn't mean the majority of women will get them. And even if they do, you can still have a healthy baby with proper monitoring.
Thank you .. I gave birth to a baby girl age 37 and my daughter was very healthy as well me..by eating healthy everybody's body is different in the way my mom gave birth age 40 healthy baby not everyone are in danger some are
she is talking about very old research in France in 1770 it states that women after 35 her pregnancy risks is getting higher all new researches states that old research is wrong and hasn’t been updated since
There is no exact age where giving birth is actually dangerous but those having kids after 45 risk high odds of miscarriage and possible birth defects should said child be born at all.
It doesn’t mean it happens often... Being pregnant after age 35 makes certain complications more likely, including premature birth, birth defects and getting pregnant with multiples. If you're older than 35, you may want to have prenatal screening tests to see if your baby is at risk for certain birth defects.
Roblox Dino i never said women can’t have kids after 35, it’s just more risky for them. That’s why they have to take a lot more precautions than younger women.
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it is strange to me that she lists some special options for older moms, but these are standard in my country for all months of pregnancy and for all moms independant of age. Like the ultrasound is done each month and I think somewhere around week 36 I started going to these monitoring sessions... (recording the tones of the baby). I also had each thrimester a more advance ultrasound check where a specialist would check for the lenght of the baby bones, the number of bones, internal organs developent, blood flow in certain areas...etc. This is also standard for all pregnancies and moms of all ages. The only thing I remember being optional (as it is also quite expencieve and not covered by insurance) was the genetic test for risks of syndroms that she mentioned. In Bulgaria this is recommended to moms over 35 years.
I’m 36 and I’m pregnant.. I will say that I suffered “morning sickness” or really all day and all night sickness that was extremely severe with this pregnancy.
I say stop with all the genetic testing. Stop all the 'what if' scenarios. If you are healthy and the only questions arise because of being in your 30's, then STOP IT. It will be fine. Relax and enjoy your bundle of joy God blessed you with.
I was 34 when I got pregnant and 35 when I gave birth (to my 5th baby) and he was perfect . No complications I gave birth all natural no medicine nothing. I was fine afterwards.😊😀😊😀
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The risk of chromosomal abnormality increases with maternal age. The chance of having a child affected by Down syndrome increases from about 1 in 1,250 for a woman who conceives at age 25, to about 1 in 100 for a woman who conceives at age 40.
@@Robohead-z6z Did he say that all women over 35 will have an unhealthy child? Some of you need to learn to think critically. Saying there is an increased risk is NOT making a definitive statement that ALL pregnancies in women over 35 will result in an unhealthy baby.
@@finchborat Tell that to the mothers who have healthy babies after 40. People live, in general, longer and healthier more than ever. Why is it a bad idea?
@@Anonytjuh Because the children of those 40+ yr old mothers are gonna wish their parents had them sooner once they get slapped with early caregiving once they grow up. My parents were in their early 40s when they had me. I'm in my late 20s and I'm stuck taking care of one of them with no help and no breaks (my parents are divorced; I have two half-siblings, but they live in another state). I've had to play the caregiver role in some form or fashion since I graduated high school (started 2 weeks after graduation). Fortunately didn't cost me college, but my post-college life has consisted of nothing but caregiving. The duties have gone up in the last 2+ yrs. No one should have to worry about caring for an elderly parent in their 20s. I'm at the point where if I win Powerball, I'm putting the parent being tended to in the nursing home. It REALLY sucks watching everyone you knew in high school and college have jobs, spouses, and kids and you're stuck in the nest, you have none of the 3 things mentioned, and there's little you can do. I'm hoping early caregiving hasn't made me unemployable and forever single. That's why I applaud those I knew in high school and college who are having kids right now (or getting ready to have them) and not waiting to have them 10+ yrs from now. NO ONE will ever convince me it's a good idea to have kids that late in life. I will NOT mind my own business regarding when people should have kids. Waiting until 40 to have kids should be a form of child abuse. When you wait that long, you're too old to play with them while they're growing up and you're ruining your kids' lives before they even start. It's better to have the kids take care of you AFTER they get their lives/careers launched and not BEFORE. There's nothing wrong with waiting to have kids. Just don't wait too long to have them. I don't want future kids to be slapped with the things I've been slapped with.
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4389129/ Most of the data were they draw conclusions from come indeed from somewere in the 1700-1900; before birth control existed. Check the results part of this study were the populations are described.
My wife is a 46 years old pregnant women and my OB doctor strongly recommends me to be induced at 38 weeks due to a high stillbirth risk at age 40+. Based on my research, I found that it is best to be induced at 39 weeks as baby's vital organs such as lungs, brains, liver, etc are still developing on the last weeks of pregnancy. We are frustrated and not sure should we listen our OB doctor|s advice to be induced at 38 weeks or wait until full 39 weeks. Please advise.
I am guessing from the time that this was posted you are now a father. I hope you listened to your trained OB and now what you feel is your research on the internet.
I'm a first time mom to be I'm 39 and will be 40 by the time my daughter comes into the world .... Has anyone else had a baby this late in life and how did you handle it? I'm in constant pain and always tired I'm 26 weeks along and kind of nervous about it all
I'm 35yrs old and I'm now trying to have a baby.. I'm hopeful God will bless us with a baby.. I'm just scared because of my age. Any advice? Will be helpful. Blessing on ure bundle of joy
I’m 48. My grandmother had her fourth and last child, my uncle, at 44. I am hoping to have my first child at 48. My husband is 43. Can anyone advise me?
Sounds like you have a lot of love and support and as long as your doing what the doctor is telling you, the rest you will work out as you go along, from your story I can already tell this baby is going to be loved so so much and that’s all you can ask for, wish you all the best and you may of already had the baby by now ❤
@@rolansanchez7046 It's nothing to do with God though. You can't just expect him to do the work for you... Are you doing what you should as a person? Are you agreeable to men? A kind heart? Realistic standards? Proactive about trying to find one? It's not on God. It's on us. Faith is useless without the work
@@fgcpeak9591 Of course I am doing all of that, but no one shows interest in me I never had any serious relationship in my life. I don't want to say I am picky or high standards what I am looking for is just a guy who is God fearing, who understands me and with a stable income but all these years no one came. I always believed that God, can give us what is best for us, since no one pursues me. I am still doing my best everyday and patiently waiting but I feel like biologically my time is over. So please don't tell everyone who never had relationship or unmarried that they are not doing what they are supposed to do or they have bad attitude. I know some friends who are good looking, kind and has stable job but still unmarried.
After 35 is good. Where I am from a lot of women have their first child in their late 30s and both children and mom are doing fine. But then again, please get in touch with your daughter in case you have health problems. But I think once you are health conscious i.e. watching what you eat and exercising (keeping in shape) you are good to go
@@anitaphillip8772 After 35 is bad, especially after turning 40. You'll be too old to play with your kids and they'll be forced to take care of you once they start adulthood.
What kind of advise are you giving here I had two babies in my 30s yes the pregnancies where high risk but they where both born naturally..... stop saying older mums are higher risk with abnormalities because this ain’t true 😳
Wife and I had our first one at 23 and it was one of the smoothest pregnancies midwives seen in a while. There is a reason why in traditional societies women had children young to have the healthiest and smoothest pregnancies.
Teenage pregnancy and late pregnancy are risky because the body of a teenage girl is not fully developed. And the eggs in older women are low in fertility.
My Mom had me at 42 MY dad 52 people judged me VERY HARSHLY and made fun of people always saying damn your parents are old as fuck. Or those you're grandparents i do have autism ocd add eczema .. hidradenitiis suppurativa and high far sightedness accomodative esotropia and high amounts of astigmatism IDK If its due to my parents age. My older siblings have much less issues then me
If you have a stillbirth due to multiple congenital anomaly at age of 31, is it posible to repeat again next pregnancy specialy im planning to have a pregnancy after 4 yrs?or when im already 36
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I think that study was from a particular place and time, nowadays, women are having healthy children (1st time pregnancies) and are doing great when it comes to their health. I guess it would depend on your daughter too.
Yes. You should start having babies in your 20's. Only because sociaty standard changes doesnt mean that our biology changed. Back in the day 18 when you were 20 and without children it ment something is wrong with you. Now it changed for 40!😅
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If you want to have the energy to play with your kids and you don't want them taking care of you and delaying the start of their adult lives, have your kids before the end of your 30s. Your kids will really hate you if you or your spouse are 40+ when they have you and they have to hit the pause button on their lives during their 20s because you and or the spouse are starting to get old.
I’ve had the same experience but for the opposite reason. My mother had me at 20 and I have been helping her raise my younger siblings all my life. I feel like I haven’t had a break from that responsibility so I’ll finally get a break once my siblings are all 18+. That will leave me no choice but to start my own family well into my mid-late 30’s. Either way, parents choices will have an effect on your life. My mother was young and still was too tired to play with me. I remember that vividly.
@@malibooyaw where was your father? If she had a stable relationship you wouldn't have struggled like that... Its not because she had a kid at 20, its because she made bad decisions
@@samo6083 he was making other children elsewhere. I’m quite aware that her being 20 was not the reason. My point is that whether the mother is younger or older doesn’t guarantee that they will have energy to play with their kids. I’ve seen mothers in their 30’s more active with their children than younger moms. Having children when you are physically, mentality, financially, and emotionally fit is more important than have them early to just play with them. Much more goes into being a parent. I’ve seen far too many people have children on a whim just because they “didn’t want to be too old” but they do more of a disservice to the child.
@@malibooyaw The fertility cliff is real. These pregnancy percentages for women over 35 are absurd and misleading. How many 38-39 year-old women do you see walking. around with newborn babies? Practically none. That's because it's actually MUCH more difficult for them to conceive at that age. A recent study I just read said a 40-year-old woman had a 5% chance of getting pregnant. If that is indeed true, then a woman's fertility drops by 5% every year beginning at age 22. That means by 31, a woman's chances of getting pregnant are 50/50, By the age of 35, the classic "fertility cliff", she's at 30%. Keep in mind this isn't to say these women can't get pregnant but that out of every 100 attempts, only 30 have a legitimate chance of succeeding. You'll have to have a whole LOT of sex to hopefully get one baby. You may get lucky on the first few tries, but that does NOT mean that your fertility hasn't dropped or that it's the same as it was at 25. It's not. The fact is that women are born will all the eggs they will ever have, unlike men who produce new sperm daily. Upon first menstruation around age 13 or so, the egg count begins to decline. With eggs beginning to decline in the teens, and fertility dropping to 50% by age 31, it's VERY clear that nature designed women to have their babies in their 20's. Actually, peak fertility for women is between 17 and 21. That's why throughout all of history, women got married much younger, until the second phenomenon as far as the human species goes. half of the 20th century. The 35+ first-time mother is a very new The whole business of freezing your eggs to "extend" fertility is a lie. There is no such thing as extending your fertility. Even frozen eggs continue to age, albeit much slower, and most don't survive the thawing process. The failure rate for frozen eggs and the IVF to implant them is 79%. Whoever thought placing a "young" frozen egg into a 38-year-old woman's body that has continued to age at a normal pace could outsmart nature and beat the fertility clock? Egg freezing is just a scam to make tens of thousands of dollars off desperate women. Never do it. Nature wins. Every time. Have your babies as young as possible, Women who put it off for careers or any other reason are gambling with disappointment and regret later on. Women should strive to have children in their 20s if they are serious.
@@samo6083 it seems like you have another agenda that has nothing to do with my point. I don’t need convincing. I am educated on human reproduction and fertility. Thanks for posting so much information. It may be useful for someone else.
It's shocking to me how many profiles I see on Bumble for women that are 38-45 that have never had kids who still want them "someday". At that age there are added health risks with first time pregnancy for both her and the baby. Also imagine raising a small child in your 50's and a teenager nearing 60.
Not shocking at all its life. Most people under 30 aren't as ready as they think they are for children anyway. My parents were 33 when they had me. We all did fine!
@@blackcoffee2002 - Big difference between 33 (risk increases after 35) and a woman still wanting her first kid at 45-50. Realistically a man isn't going to marry and have his first kid with a woman past her prime pushing 50. Esoecially when she has 25+ years of emotional baggage from more sexual partners. Yet these women cling to the fantasy they'll meet "their person" and to never settle. So they wind up alone with cats. 😄
@@ryandeffley7652 I think a lot of women erroneously assume that they will be fertile in the 40s. Yes, some do but all too often, many cannot, A friend of mine just delivered her first at 41 with IVF after 2 arduous years of miscarriages and failed attempts. These women need to understand the risks and the realities.
It’s also shocking that men on dating profiles around the ages 35-46 still want kids. They are past their prime , have loads of baggage and want a family with a young woman 😂. You men aren’t far off on fertility issues.
I think having kids over 30 is dangerous. I'm asexual so I don't worry about childbirth but women in their thirties or forties having kids probably need more help with that. I cannot imagine such a thing at this age so we need to pray the blood of Jesus Christ over the pregnant older women in society.
think of the children. disorders, and also the fact that your age difference. my parents are 40 years older than i am. no grandparents since we moved to a new country.
all i have to say to parents is- sure, partying and money and glory are nice. but which is more fun? partying thru your 20s and 30s like the rest of your life doesnt exist and deal with the damages afterwards, and for the offspring to clean up... OR, or... you do things right. you dont have be a fucking puritanical amish. fucking baby boomers and their lives have really blighted the world
Let’s just do the basic math… Why would you want to have a baby at age 40 your kid will be graduating hs and you’re going to 58… that’s insane when majority of people die in their mid 60s. I guess if you want to spend your final years stressing over children great idea…
Also, older kids will be taking care of their parents sooner than expected. I'm 28 and I've had to take care of my mom (she's 68) in some capacity for a decade (with the heavy lifting coming in the last 3+ yrs).
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My wife will be 43 soon and she and I have had 4 kids in the last 4 years. She was pregant first time at 38 years old and 2nd time we had twins and 3rd time we had one more. She feared of not having kids as she was 37 when we got together so she was deseprate to have at least 4 kids by the time she's 45. My wife is a plus size so she was struggling to deal being pregnant while maintaining her body as well. The doctors were surprised that my wife was able to have 4 kids pass 38 but they recommend not to have anymore or she would need to burn her plus size body but she loves her body and so do I.
@NEWL HOTIY I've been with my wife for 5 years now also she's 11 years older then me and it's fine. Plus out of us two she makes way more money then me but it doesn't mean I don't contribute for our kids. I mean I could be the guy who just chills at home and let the wife work but I'm not that type. We've got plenty of money even if we were to get divorce what will make you think she needs my money unless she's toxic. Plus everything is under her name the house. The worst she would do is kick me out of our house. We've been living together way before we got married and she don't care about money from my side because she don't need it but I still help her out even though it's like nothing to her but she loves my support that I'm willing to spend big for our family even though she has the bigger wages then me. Any other guy maybe be relaxed under my wife and would rely on her support.
@NEWL HOTIY YOU SOUND LIKE A COMPLETE IDIOT
@@MrsBryant1024 No he doesn't...you sound like a rude know it all
@@kerryxhaferi2285 He deleted all his rude comments!
I think people should investigation the real reason why women in general seem to have difficulty in getting pregnant and stop making up nonsense
I just had my 5th baby on 8/9/21 at the age of 44. No birth defects, thank God. She was born 6 weeks early due to preeclampsia.
Having kids at any age is risky
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Miss J yes. And the risks increase with age
Julia Arnold it increases after 40 not 30 or 35
The risk increase with age id rather have kids with women in their 20’s
robot girl the risks gradually increase, it happens more rapidly after 37.
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Yessss I love this comment the same here with me I am 40 and I just gave birth to a beautiful healthy baby boy the old fashioned way no help. I got my little covid baby-19 baby!
Your 50 wow thanks a blessing
After 5O your odds of a miscarriage is very high (way higher than winning the lottery) but if nature and/or your God allows such than have at it boss!
Well my stepmom is in her late thirties and she gave birth to my healthy beautiful baby sister two years ago. Not knocking what she's saying, but a lot of people get pregnant after 35.
Was your mom's two pregnancies far apart? We've got a 15 yrs. Old and a possible oops. My wife is 38 and I'm concerned.
@@lukecyphers7831 Don't he everything will be just fine . My mom had me when she was 45 years old and I am happy and healthy.
@@amazingflowers92vaz38 Got the results back just today of the nipt test. I am happy to say all tests came back negative. After a positive 1 in 35 for down syndrome on our quad test last week we were so scared. Thank God.
How many people do you know that advertise their still births and fertility problems. Anecdotal evidence and celebrity culture lead to a misunderstanding of life.
Doesn’t mean they should just because they can 🤷🏾♀️
I think genetic counseling and monitoring are pretty wise to do even before 35.
Please keep in mind y'all that just because the likelihood of certain complications *increases* doesn't mean the majority of women will get them. And even if they do, you can still have a healthy baby with proper monitoring.
Thank you .. I gave birth to a baby girl age 37 and my daughter was very healthy as well me..by eating healthy everybody's body is different in the way my mom gave birth age 40 healthy baby not everyone are in danger some are
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she is talking about very old research in France in 1770 it states that women after 35 her pregnancy risks is getting higher all new researches states that old research is wrong and hasn’t been updated since
I’m almost 37 and praying for our first child
There is no exact age where giving birth is actually dangerous but those having kids after 45 risk high odds of miscarriage and possible birth defects should said child be born at all.
My mum had me at 39 ! And I'm a healthy 22yo
It doesn’t mean it happens often... Being pregnant after age 35 makes certain complications more likely, including premature birth, birth defects and getting pregnant with multiples. If you're older than 35, you may want to have prenatal screening tests to see if your baby is at risk for certain birth defects.
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I know and actually for my mom she had me and my twin at 37 and we both have autism from it.
Roblox Dino i never said women can’t have kids after 35, it’s just more risky for them. That’s why they have to take a lot more precautions than younger women.
Gerald Leyson sorry to hear about that 🙏🏿 ☹️
Wow
Over here in Africa women have babies even in their 50s with zero complications.
Age is just a number.
Proudly African 😘
Thank you 🙏 there is no ONE SIZE FITS ALL, that’s the problem with Western medicine..
I expect African people have a cleaner and healthier diet and a lower use of pharmaceuticals and drug use compared to American and European people.
That's too old
Here women have children generally before age of 35 or rather in their late 20s
Yes and African countries have the highest baby mortality rate great point here
I gave birth at 34 to a healthy baby boy, bounced back fast...
so did I
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she said after 35 she meant 40 and beyond
I was 37 n she’s verrrry verbal and intelligent at just one yr old
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it is strange to me that she lists some special options for older moms, but these are standard in my country for all months of pregnancy and for all moms independant of age. Like the ultrasound is done each month and I think somewhere around week 36 I started going to these monitoring sessions... (recording the tones of the baby). I also had each thrimester a more advance ultrasound check where a specialist would check for the lenght of the baby bones, the number of bones, internal organs developent, blood flow in certain areas...etc. This is also standard for all pregnancies and moms of all ages. The only thing I remember being optional (as it is also quite expencieve and not covered by insurance) was the genetic test for risks of syndroms that she mentioned. In Bulgaria this is recommended to moms over 35 years.
I say let God do what he does and have your baby.
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I’m 36 and I’m pregnant.. I will say that I suffered “morning sickness” or really all day and all night sickness that was extremely severe with this pregnancy.
Congratulations I’m 37 will be trying this year!
You shouldn't have waited to long. WTF were you doing in your 20s?
@@fgcpeak9591 working.. I have two kids, my baby was born in July and things are great
@@BrandyTexas214 You should never prioritise working over life... Do both
@@fgcpeak9591 I didn’t
I say stop with all the genetic testing. Stop all the 'what if' scenarios. If you are healthy and the only questions arise because of being in your 30's, then STOP IT. It will be fine. Relax and enjoy your bundle of joy God blessed you with.
I’m 37 and all this health stuff for me and my baby is freaking me out. My second child. It’s too much. I feel like it’s all business
Weisz82 I feel like you do.
I’m 38 with a 5 month baby girl they trying to sell test kits don’t let them scare you
Weisz82 chill , there is nothing to worry about . You will be fine
I was 34 when I got pregnant and 35 when I gave birth (to my 5th baby) and he was perfect . No complications I gave birth all natural no medicine nothing. I was fine afterwards.😊😀😊😀
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Having kids in your 30s in common and not at all high risk but waiting until middle age can effect babies overall health.
You got lucky. Nothing funny about it at all. No woman should be leaving child birth to her 30s.
@@fgcpeak9591 The same should be said for men in their 30s too.
@@MelaniaRose Men are not biologically the same as women. We don't have geriatric pregnancy to worry about. u imbecile
People, learn to understand how statics work. Anecdotal comments don't matter...
The risk of chromosomal abnormality increases with maternal age. The chance of having a child affected by Down syndrome increases from about 1 in 1,250 for a woman who conceives at age 25, to about 1 in 100 for a woman who conceives at age 40.
True but that doesn’t mean every mom over 35 or 40 will always have an unhealthy child.
keep your downs baby. you nazis.
My guy, where are you getting your sources? You forgot to mention how paternal genes also affect the baby too. It takes two to make a healthy baby.
Fertility goes both ways. You can still be young and pass on genetic mutations on a baby.
@@Robohead-z6z Did he say that all women over 35 will have an unhealthy child? Some of you need to learn to think critically. Saying there is an increased risk is NOT making a definitive statement that ALL pregnancies in women over 35 will result in an unhealthy baby.
My Grandmother was pregnant with her 13th child at the age of 47. A miracle
This age 35 line comes from studies done in France in the 1790s. Totally relevant today, not.
Aoife Nic Sheain 🙌🏾💯
It's still a bad idea to have kids at 40.
@@finchborat Tell that to the mothers who have healthy babies after 40. People live, in general, longer and healthier more than ever. Why is it a bad idea?
@@Anonytjuh Because the children of those 40+ yr old mothers are gonna wish their parents had them sooner once they get slapped with early caregiving once they grow up.
My parents were in their early 40s when they had me. I'm in my late 20s and I'm stuck taking care of one of them with no help and no breaks (my parents are divorced; I have two half-siblings, but they live in another state). I've had to play the caregiver role in some form or fashion since I graduated high school (started 2 weeks after graduation). Fortunately didn't cost me college, but my post-college life has consisted of nothing but caregiving. The duties have gone up in the last 2+ yrs. No one should have to worry about caring for an elderly parent in their 20s. I'm at the point where if I win Powerball, I'm putting the parent being tended to in the nursing home.
It REALLY sucks watching everyone you knew in high school and college have jobs, spouses, and kids and you're stuck in the nest, you have none of the 3 things mentioned, and there's little you can do. I'm hoping early caregiving hasn't made me unemployable and forever single.
That's why I applaud those I knew in high school and college who are having kids right now (or getting ready to have them) and not waiting to have them 10+ yrs from now.
NO ONE will ever convince me it's a good idea to have kids that late in life. I will NOT mind my own business regarding when people should have kids. Waiting until 40 to have kids should be a form of child abuse. When you wait that long, you're too old to play with them while they're growing up and you're ruining your kids' lives before they even start.
It's better to have the kids take care of you AFTER they get their lives/careers launched and not BEFORE. There's nothing wrong with waiting to have kids. Just don't wait too long to have them. I don't want future kids to be slapped with the things I've been slapped with.
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4389129/ Most of the data were they draw conclusions from come indeed from somewere in the 1700-1900; before birth control existed. Check the results part of this study were the populations are described.
My grandmother had a baby in her 40s. me and my aunt the same age.
My wife is a 46 years old pregnant women and my OB doctor strongly recommends me to be induced at 38 weeks due to a high stillbirth risk at age 40+. Based on my research, I found that it is best to be induced at 39 weeks as baby's vital organs such as lungs, brains, liver, etc are still developing on the last weeks of pregnancy. We are frustrated and not sure should we listen our OB doctor|s advice to be induced at 38 weeks or wait until full 39 weeks. Please advise.
Pregnancy risk begin in 4Os for women and 5Os for men but everyone is different in this regard too.
Trust your doctors. That one week isnt gonna make a difference. My wife was born 4 weeks early and she's grown to be 5'9 and completely healthy. Lol
I am guessing from the time that this was posted you are now a father. I hope you listened to your trained OB and now what you feel is your research on the internet.
@@markymark7198 man shut up you all up and down the comments for what?
I'm a first time mom to be I'm 39 and will be 40 by the time my daughter comes into the world .... Has anyone else had a baby this late in life and how did you handle it? I'm in constant pain and always tired I'm 26 weeks along and kind of nervous about it all
Ur so lucky ..im sure everything is going to be ok. Enjoy your blessing
I’m 38 my baby is 5 months everything went just fine they just full of bs tryna sell a test kit you will be fine
I'm 35yrs old and I'm now trying to have a baby.. I'm hopeful God will bless us with a baby.. I'm just scared because of my age. Any advice? Will be helpful. Blessing on ure bundle of joy
Daisy Pez it is still possible not too late
@@tiffanysgottimetoday4589 Thank you Tiffany.. I've been kinda stressed out because of my age. But thank you luv ❤
If I don't get pregnant at 35 or so then I'll just find an orphan or abandoned child and adopt it just like my own.
5O +5-ys is the cutoff point for healthy pregnancy but everyone is truly unique in their own way.
Adopt yes, but do it with a man in a family
Somewhat agree.. just want at least one of my own and experience pregnancy at all once.
35 is still early to stop trying you guys make dumb information discourage you
@@brimmysmalls9235 35 is NOT early. stfu
I’m 48. My grandmother had her fourth and last child, my uncle, at 44. I am hoping to have my first child at 48. My husband is 43. Can anyone advise me?
My mom had my lil bro at 44 zero problems .
Smart 12 year old boy now killing it at school.
Sounds like you have a lot of love and support and as long as your doing what the doctor is telling you, the rest you will work out as you go along, from your story I can already tell this baby is going to be loved so so much and that’s all you can ask for, wish you all the best and you may of already had the baby by now ❤
My Grandmother had a baby at 47. Don't give up!!!
Adopt
I am feeling sad because I am going 38 and not yet married and has congestive heart failure, but I dream of getting pregnant at least one.
Why are you not married at 38?
@@fgcpeak9591 I also asked God about it 😩
@@rolansanchez7046 It's nothing to do with God though. You can't just expect him to do the work for you... Are you doing what you should as a person? Are you agreeable to men? A kind heart? Realistic standards? Proactive about trying to find one? It's not on God. It's on us. Faith is useless without the work
I understand how u feel...im about to be 35.. not married and no kids 💔...im wondering if i can even have kids
@@fgcpeak9591 Of course I am doing all of that, but no one shows interest in me I never had any serious relationship in my life. I don't want to say I am picky or high standards what I am looking for is just a guy who is God fearing, who understands me and with a stable income but all these years no one came. I always believed that God, can give us what is best for us, since no one pursues me. I am still doing my best everyday and patiently waiting but I feel like biologically my time is over. So please don't tell everyone who never had relationship or unmarried that they are not doing what they are supposed to do or they have bad attitude. I know some friends who are good looking, kind and has stable job but still unmarried.
Should we have children after 35 or is 35 children enough?
Shoot for more
Hahahaha
After 35 is good. Where I am from a lot of women have their first child in their late 30s and both children and mom are doing fine.
But then again, please get in touch with your daughter in case you have health problems.
But I think once you are health conscious i.e. watching what you eat and exercising (keeping in shape) you are good to go
35 children is enough 🤣
@@anitaphillip8772 After 35 is bad, especially after turning 40. You'll be too old to play with your kids and they'll be forced to take care of you once they start adulthood.
What kind of advise are you giving here I had two babies in my 30s yes the pregnancies where high risk but they where both born naturally..... stop saying older mums are higher risk with abnormalities because this ain’t true 😳
After 30 ppl lost 90 % egg..what are u talking about
Naa Akua are you a doctor? Lol
Are you a doctor?
U are Ghanaian right ?
We believe in our God
The God of Hanna and sarah is still the same
Your risking your life dumb ass
My mom had 4 more kids after 38. She did have 6 miscarriages in her lifetime but also had 6 kids :)
That's extremely sad
That's a good message.
Is there more chance of genetic abnormality?
ASMR Xi Zui yes.
Wife and I had our first one at 23 and it was one of the smoothest pregnancies midwives seen in a while. There is a reason why in traditional societies women had children young to have the healthiest and smoothest pregnancies.
And the hardest times once they’re parenting cus of immaturity
Doctors⛔⛔⛔shame on you! Out here planting unnecessary fear.
Such a smart lady!!
With sickle cell desese what age is good for woman?
Teenage pregnancy and late pregnancy are risky because the body of a teenage girl is not fully developed.
And the eggs in older women are low in fertility.
Same for men , sperm quality goes down with age
I have Tokophobia... I have no idea how to get over it. 😑
I disagree
My Mom had me at 42 MY dad 52 people judged me VERY HARSHLY and made fun of people always saying damn your parents are old as fuck. Or those you're grandparents i do have autism ocd add eczema .. hidradenitiis suppurativa and high far sightedness accomodative esotropia and high amounts of astigmatism IDK If its due to my parents age. My older siblings have much less issues then me
Having kids late is always a bad idea
@@fgcpeak9591 not always that’s for unhealthy people
@@brimmysmalls9235 wtf you on about lol
Autism is a direct link to older parents (not just mothers). Dads too esp. over 45 yrs are more likely to have autistic kids.
Especially if the parent has poor eating habits
Can I get pregnant the day after I ovulated ?
If you have a stillbirth due to multiple congenital anomaly at age of 31, is it posible to repeat again next pregnancy specialy im planning to have a pregnancy after 4 yrs?or when im already 36
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People in the comments should understand and learn basic statistics.
Thank you for this comment
Thank you dr
Options so they can abort???
Sherry Sherry risks wouldn’t be surprising if the baby or mom dies
I think that study was from a particular place and time, nowadays, women are having healthy children (1st time pregnancies) and are doing great when it comes to their health. I guess it would depend on your daughter too.
Exactly ! Down syndrome is not a reason to kill a baby ...dumb farts
Yes. You should start having babies in your 20's. Only because sociaty standard changes doesnt mean that our biology changed. Back in the day 18 when you were 20 and without children it ment something is wrong with you. Now it changed for 40!😅
Who wants to be in their sixties when their kids graduate high school? It's not natural. No woman in her fifties can keep up with the pace of parenting with their energy waning, senses beginning to dull, and vericose veins!
The ages our ancestors became parents for the first time just 40 years ago (to way back in time):
England- 35 Scandinavia-16 Russia - 16
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Irish Male 30 Asian Male 30
Irish Female 24 Asian Female 24
Iberian P. Male 20 Iberian P. Female 20
Italian Male 19 Italian Female 19
Indian Male 18 Indian Female 18
Jewish Male 17 Jewish Female 17
Muslim Male 16 Muslim Female 16
African Male 15 African Female 12
(Using someone’s account.)
Lol that's not true
🤔 it'd be 12 for Asian female/Muslim female...and 20 for Asian Male/Muslim Male
HAHAHAHA I'm not convinced that this is fact 😂
My mum had me when she was 35...
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Yes tru congenital anomaly scan
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If you want to have the energy to play with your kids and you don't want them taking care of you and delaying the start of their adult lives, have your kids before the end of your 30s. Your kids will really hate you if you or your spouse are 40+ when they have you and they have to hit the pause button on their lives during their 20s because you and or the spouse are starting to get old.
I’ve had the same experience but for the opposite reason. My mother had me at 20 and I have been helping her raise my younger siblings all my life. I feel like I haven’t had a break from that responsibility so I’ll finally get a break once my siblings are all 18+. That will leave me no choice but to start my own family well into my mid-late 30’s. Either way, parents choices will have an effect on your life. My mother was young and still was too tired to play with me. I remember that vividly.
@@malibooyaw where was your father?
If she had a stable relationship you wouldn't have struggled like that...
Its not because she had a kid at 20, its because she made bad decisions
@@samo6083 he was making other children elsewhere. I’m quite aware that her being 20 was not the reason.
My point is that whether the mother is younger or older doesn’t guarantee that they will have energy to play with their kids. I’ve seen mothers in their 30’s more active with their children than younger moms. Having children when you are physically, mentality, financially, and emotionally fit is more important than have them early to just play with them. Much more goes into being a parent. I’ve seen far too many people have children on a whim just because they “didn’t want to be too old” but they do more of a disservice to the child.
@@malibooyaw The fertility cliff is real. These pregnancy percentages for women over 35 are absurd and misleading. How many 38-39 year-old women do you see walking. around with newborn babies? Practically none. That's because it's actually MUCH more difficult for them to conceive at that age. A recent study I just read said a 40-year-old woman had a 5% chance of getting pregnant.
If that is indeed true, then a woman's
fertility drops by 5% every year beginning at age 22. That means by 31, a woman's chances of getting pregnant are 50/50, By the age of 35, the classic "fertility cliff", she's at 30%. Keep in mind this isn't to say these women can't get pregnant but that out of every 100 attempts, only 30 have a legitimate chance of succeeding. You'll have to have a whole LOT of sex to hopefully get one baby. You may get lucky on the first few tries, but that does NOT mean that your fertility hasn't dropped or that it's the same as it was at 25. It's not.
The fact is that women are born will all the eggs they will ever have, unlike men who produce new sperm daily. Upon first menstruation around age 13 or so, the egg count begins to decline. With eggs beginning to decline in the teens, and fertility dropping to 50% by age 31, it's VERY clear that nature designed women to have their babies in their 20's. Actually, peak fertility for women is between 17 and 21. That's why throughout all of history, women got married much younger, until the second phenomenon as far as the human species goes.
half of the 20th century. The 35+ first-time mother is a very new
The whole business of freezing your eggs to "extend" fertility is a lie. There is no such thing as extending your fertility. Even frozen eggs continue to age, albeit much slower, and most don't survive the thawing process. The failure rate for frozen eggs and the IVF to implant them is 79%. Whoever thought placing a "young" frozen egg into a 38-year-old woman's body that has continued to age at a normal pace could outsmart nature and beat the fertility clock? Egg freezing is just a scam to make tens of thousands of dollars off desperate women. Never do it. Nature wins. Every time. Have your babies as young as
possible, Women who put it off for careers or any other reason are gambling with disappointment and regret later on.
Women should strive to have children in their 20s if they are serious.
@@samo6083 it seems like you have another agenda that has nothing to do with my point. I don’t need convincing. I am educated on human reproduction and fertility. Thanks for posting so much information. It may be useful for someone else.
It's shocking to me how many profiles I see on Bumble for women that are 38-45 that have never had kids who still want them "someday".
At that age there are added health risks with first time pregnancy for both her and the baby. Also imagine raising a small child in your 50's and a teenager nearing 60.
Not shocking at all its life. Most people under 30 aren't as ready as they think they are for children anyway. My parents were 33 when they had me. We all did fine!
@@blackcoffee2002 - Big difference between 33 (risk increases after 35) and a woman still wanting her first kid at 45-50.
Realistically a man isn't going to marry and have his first kid with a woman past her prime pushing 50. Esoecially when she has 25+ years of emotional baggage from more sexual partners.
Yet these women cling to the fantasy they'll meet "their person" and to never settle. So they wind up alone with cats. 😄
@@ryandeffley7652 You sound like a miserable person. There are plenty of women with partners at that age who want children.
@@ryandeffley7652 I think a lot of women erroneously assume that they will be fertile in the 40s. Yes, some do but all too often, many cannot, A friend of mine just delivered her first at 41 with IVF after 2 arduous years of miscarriages and failed attempts. These women need to understand the risks and the realities.
It’s also shocking that men on dating profiles around the ages 35-46 still want kids. They are past their prime , have loads of baggage and want a family with a young woman 😂. You men aren’t far off on fertility issues.
Just go IVF after 44. Your eggs are generally too old and miscarriage occurs.
I think having kids over 30 is dangerous. I'm asexual so I don't worry about childbirth but women in their thirties or forties having kids probably need more help with that. I cannot imagine such a thing at this age so we need to pray the blood of Jesus Christ over the pregnant older women in society.
pure selfishness. i am the only functioning child of a three piece litter.
think of the children. disorders, and also the fact that your age difference. my parents are 40 years older than i am. no grandparents since we moved to a new country.
all i have to say to parents is- sure, partying and money and glory are nice. but which is more fun? partying thru your 20s and 30s like the rest of your life doesnt exist and deal with the damages afterwards, and for the offspring to clean up... OR, or... you do things right. you dont have be a fucking puritanical amish.
fucking baby boomers and their lives have really blighted the world
Let’s just do the basic math… Why would you want to have a baby at age 40 your kid will be graduating hs and you’re going to 58… that’s insane when majority of people die in their mid 60s. I guess if you want to spend your final years stressing over children great idea…
yeah you probably shouldn't have kids after 35, a bit weird
wow.. u made me depressed smh
how so
im gonna be 35.. and i want kids
@@vanessaanders1619 do not listen to them have your baby I don’t know what’s wrong with people now a day so weird
@@carolcity1919 thanks girl.. I wanna find the right person to have kids with.. I dont want to end up being a babymama
Thank you 😊
Ive Observed that most child that has an old parents tends to be more depressed and mentally incapable to change
Im one of tthat
Also, older kids will be taking care of their parents sooner than expected. I'm 28 and I've had to take care of my mom (she's 68) in some capacity for a decade (with the heavy lifting coming in the last 3+ yrs).