I’m 57 and just got divorced. She was bored and had to heal herself. Yeah, she Monkey branched straight onto another bloke while she was with me. She came into the marriage with nothing. I already had my house. We had no kids and the courts awarded her nearly half of the proceeds of my house. I’m in a small flat now. Don’t get married !!!!
Men were taught their whole life how to treat a woman and NOT what to expect from a woman. But Women were taught their whole life what to expect from a man and NOT how to treat a man. Sad Reality.
As the women say you have a right to be happy, but the difference is they use that phrase when they're stealing a man's life , evil and parasitic you on the other hand did no harm, you are just living the way you choose, God bless
I was blessed, I was born ugly, I'm short, I'm close to 60 but look closer to 80, I'm not a millionaire, I'm just plain invisible, never been married, got no children, I'm debt free, then I look at a lot of people around me, bitter and twisted, living a lonely married life, been through bitter divorces, I walked away from relationships back in 1991, I was in my 20's, I saw those around me living a miserable existence, I knew then that it wasn't for me, I look at the later generations, at least I didn't contribute to these people, 90% of the later generations aren't nice people
bro the truth is dammed if you dont dammed if you do. God gave us women as a punishment. learn, work, provide and maintain and the moment you take a break shell burn it all down.
Ya its a blessing and a curse to be under the radar. You experience less joyful interactions, but you absolutely miss out on being on people's radar in negative ways as well. Some of the stories I hear people experience, and I'm like man nobody ever messes with me.
We all need to be smart enough not to date in the West. There are billions of lovely women all around the world that would flip over backwards to date western men.
@@cliffpostell508 dude, the east is in a similar problem than us, and don't get overconfident that the eastern nations are infinitely better, they pretend to be lovely-dovely so you fell for their mermaid chants, not for nothing they are the S.E.A. Women :P
@@cliffpostell508the entire world is one small village these days. We would be fools that there would be a small cosy village at the other end of the world where women live like the pure women of the middle ages, untouched by the plague of today's world.
My ex had been seeing another man and for a while, she had decided she need the space and wanted to live on her own, just so happen to be timed, with running up massive debts, clearing money from our bank accounts. Her lawyer was on speed dial, the day after I move out, my replacement moved in. 12 years later I've worked hard to clear the debts she wouldn't pay, I've got back on my feet and im doing well. I have kept to myself for all of that time, not dated, no relationships, no situationships, no casual flings, no one-time things, I'm not bitter or angry, I let it all go years ago. I just value the peace and quiet of my life than to risk it on another women. I'm done, and I know I'm not the only one. I see more and more men walking away both young and old from relationships.
You got lucky! Happy for you. I tried building 2 families. I had to pay tremendous amount of debt. Which i did. I was alimony and debt free by 42yo. But got chronically ill and handicapped in the process. So...going back to school to reorient myself in my new reality. I wish i had raised my sons. I always dreamed of that. But it was stolen away from me and i was ledt with a debt. I will mever have what i dreamed of all my life. I really just wanted 1 women who stay faithful. I never found one.
You can have relationships just don't Mary again, and make it clear to women they will pay their share. Don't be a simp and confront other men for being Simps because they led us to this place
I'm in my forties. I have a teenage son, living with me. His mom, have lots of self-awareness, compared to many other women i have known, and that's why we having a good friendship today even we are not together anymore. When I look at the women in my family, (my mom that unfortunately passed away) my sisters, and woman from earlier relationship, friends earlier relationship with women. I have come to the conclusion, that majority of women, are cold hearted and selfish. Its only about them and there feeeeeeeeeelings, we men aren't allowed to show weakness and feelings. There are so many cases, with divorces, where the women's bring up false accusations, just so they can get what they want. They don't care about the man that took care of them for years. As a kid and young man, I always thought woman was the caring ones, with high morality. I was so wrong
That's the story they spin alright, especially the female teachers in your childhood. Eventually you realize that while females offer lots of sympathy, they are almost incapable of empathy, making their entire caring image little more than a self-serving facade for raising children and making them seem harmless around their community, they're not. Morality is also a men-only club, women are way more pragmatic, evolution needs them to be because they're the s- selectors for our species. If you look carefully, you'll notice that the majority of them pick and choose when morals apply, and have some very suspicious blind-spots when it comes to their principles.
False Accuse here. Her boyfriend was witness. Destroyed me as a person. Of course those two arrests & 24 hours locked up both times, all aspects of my skin, eyes, voice, freedom taken. Both cases were dropped because they were nothings.
@petemorton8403 That's horrible, so her boyfriend was also part of this, its so evil doing this. How are you now? An old acquaintance of mine, few years ago. His ex reported him as violent and false accusations, he has to use a fortune in the legal system, to prove he hasn't done anything. It took years and was hard on him, but he won. His ex did it because she wanted full custody of their daughter. He is a good man, and have never hurt anyone.
Women are "gentle" only because they lack physical strength. But give them a gun or power or authority, and they would do utterly unspeakable things. Also, these aren't women of 50 years back that we're dealing with
By the time she divorced me 15 years ago, I had nothing left to take. Once she was gone, I replaced any need for women with motorcycles and guitars. I have maybe 30 years left and I know any woman interested in me is just settling. No thanks.
In the west, the phrase, "This is my partner......." is very common. It speaks *VOLUMES* about attitudes towards relationships. Men fall in love........Women are *IN BUSINESS.* 'Partnership' is a term associated with business.
It's fickle business to bet all you've built on a relationship with a hormonally unstable individual who can devalue everything and replace you just cause "I just don't feel the same anymore". Women have become children in adult bodies, no impulse control, high in narcissistic traits, zero introspection, and worst of all they're being empowered and rewarded for it. Walk away.
You know, at first I didnt believe this sort of thing until it literally happened to me. I woke up to a long text of her with "I just dont feel the same anymore" and that was that. Two weeks later she had a new guy and I never heard from her again. I can understand why men are sick of relationships. To hell with them.
STOP adding the "modern western" part. It's ALL of them. These are EVOLUTIONARY TRAITS, meaning that ALL women have it. Few of them manage to, somewhat, override them, but they're intrinsic to their gender. Stop.
I'm 35yrs old and my most precious resources that are time and energy - I'd rather have it to myself only.... And yes...in this economy even middle class income might be barely enough for family's prosperity.
After experiencing a marriage and a divorce. I evaluated my situation, and realized I got off fairly easily, I have two amazing kids from the experience that I have 50% custody of. My ex thought she was better off with a new guy but that ended quickly and she tried to come back, i told her absolutely no way. I have more money, more free time and get to do more fun experiences with my kids. Looking for a new woman would be stupid at this point, it wouldn’t only add complexity into my life and my kids lives. It’s time now to sit back and enjoy what I have.
I'm at a point now where I really don't care about relationships. I'm a digital nomad in the Philippines and while I get a ton of attention, I brush it off because the adversarial relationship between men and women in America that I grew up with has made me distrustful of women in general. It's not worth it anymore. I prefer to just solo travel, make friends, and see the world without negativity.
Females from other countries see us as opportunities. That's why they put so much effort in giving attention to us. Conditional. Typical treacherous bastards.
Oh, wow, mentally I'm in the same state as you, and soon I will be the same as you physically: slow solo travel. I've never been to the Philippines, but it's on my list to visit. I wonder what reaction I'll generate.
I was lucky, my wife left me but also left the kids with me and we had no arguments, no money issues, no custody issues, stayed friends, my divorce cost me $50 for the court fee... When I hear about other peoples divorces I am shocked that people who once loved each other can be so nasty, selfish and petty when they separate.
At age 81...never married, wanted children. I have had women and still do in my life...FRIENDS ONLY! They have their life, I have mine! Come together for a dinner or lunch now and then...no intimacy...we both are fine with this! I have my interests, they theirs. I had women who degraded my interests...they were gone-gone-gone!! That feminist movement destroyed women's outlook in my younger dating years! I know buddies who lost everything through divorce!
@@cantrun5491 bible changed the story of eden garden. In Jewish old testament (rewritten from ancient sumerian texts) God first gave Adam other girl - Lilith. But she was to independend, didn't want to obey Adam so she was cast out and Eve was send in her place. the problem is todays girls are much closer to Lilith so even according to holy texts it can't work.
I'm 27, and women have such sky-high standards that I just can't meet them. Mind you that I've got a Master's Degree in Engg, Nice Body, Good job, Awesome Hobbies, Devout Christian, and Tons of knowledge regarding most things, especially finance and money management. Maybe my only "shortcoming" is that I'm 5'7".
@@monkaZETTA don't listen the passport dumbs, the only reason "passport bros" triumph is because they are the equivalent of a millionaire in the nations they go. You'll never see Passport Bros in Switzerland, where they would be poor in comparison they don't realize they are also transforming the South East Asian nations and in some decades they will be in the same decadent manner that the US now
@@TheMarcuslindbergnothing works these days. Travel to a foreign country and get entangled where no one is there to help you out if you get into trouble. Simply walk away from relationships. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
what most really can't see is WHO is really DOING this and WHO is "they"... And that's the reason why all of this is happening to us. Do you know who "they" are? Starts with a j - vvs
I'm 26. When I was 20 I was involved with a girl who only told me she loved me when she needed things. I felt nothing but guilt after doing things for her. When I stopped talking she panicked and thought we were over. When she got comfy she opened up and told me she was in bad debt. I cut her off straight away. She jumped to the conclusion there was another woman involved. I was like after her f*ck no. Fast forward a few years later i check her insta to find she is a single mother 😂. Guess the next guy she tried dumped her as well. As of right now I haven't missed a bill payment in over a year, my credit score is high and i have just started a clothing line which just made news headlines back in August. Focus on your money fellas. That happy couple on social media are fighting behind the scenes.
I almost got married when I was younger (dodged a cannon ball in the process) saw how the few friends I had that got married and then wrecked by divorce. My parents divorced when I was young and that was a train wreck. I've thought about many times about becoming a Pass Port Bro and then I remember that I'm the only Male Role Model that My Nieces Great Nieces Nephews and Great Nephew have and is the only reason why I stay (for them alone). Being adopted into a Family not My own I've always been alone having Family that doesn't know what to do around you and then talk behind your back when they think your not listening. So I learned at a young age to not rely or need people doing everything by myself. There's a difference between Being Alone and actually feeling Alone. And so I walk this World as the Lone Wolf I've always been and will be while staying for the only ones I call Family. If it wasn't for them I would've left this Country decades ago to find My place in this World and I'm still looking.
@@JediDarkForceApparently you’ve never been in a relationship with a woman before, so I can speak for him…you get little to absolutely nothing. All women are pretty much built the same psychologically. They’re just wired differently than men, a little too differently. It’s one of the many reasons why I will never marry again.
@@ThomasDrish I've had my last 2 yr long relationship 13yrs ago. I'm 35 now. No kids never married never lived with a female etc. So you got the point. My experience is little to none.
Men were taught their whole life how to treat a woman and NOT what to expect from a woman. But Women were taught their whole life what to expect from a man and NOT how to treat a man. Sad Reality.
Never again. It's simply not worth it. Maybe I picked the wrong woman? Incredibly self-centered. Me, me, me... Working hard, paying for her shit. What did I get in return? No appreciation, no thanks... Complaining that I was working too long hours. Eventually, she ended it for not feeling it anymore. It cost me money, but I build myself up again. The peace and no nagging are just priceless. Moreover, I can save much more money now.
I been single over 4 years I was married for 17 years I bet they wonder why im single 42 I have seen a lot from women I'm not settling for anything out here .I take my peace anyday.
Men have learned not to make such a risky commitment to an emotional based individual. Social media has made women want to out do other girls with ridiculous demands on men and tawdry displays. They have lost the values that made men want them in the first place - being a good companion, a supportive wife and caring mother.
sure, because Sex in the City was released with MySpace come on man, Social Media isn't responsible of this mess, *we didn't start the fire, it was always burning since the world was turning...*
Huh? Help me understand? I'm 44years old and have been single all my life by choice after seeing how horrible women were since high school so never got serious with them. Why do men get serious with them if they're such treacherous creatures?
@@Rambo-lv9huCorrect. It isn’t the call of the wild. It’s that most men are unable to be in solitude. Most men are codependent. Most men feel like they require a woman’s validation or companionship to be “okay.” Most men were thoroughly indoctrinated through media and society to be “romantic” (translation: give endlessly to a woman for very little in return). They were told you must buy the cow, not rent it, renting it is bad. This is the real reason
@@Rambo-lv9hu I wasn't referring to me. Just observing the behaviour of thirsty men. I am older and just like you except that I got married once, got fucked over. I learnt the first time. You are not missing anything of value except for kids. I have two and they are my consolation prize.
I'm 30 and decided to tap out this year after the last few girls I've dated played me, all of them dumping me once the honeymoon phase ended or they got bored, and all of them getting with a new guy within a couple weeks acting like I never existed. I'm fully convinced the good ones are already taken and all that's left are the narcs/broken ones who just want to use men for something. I'm in good shape, good job, social skills, outgoing etc and it makes no sense how much I'm struggling when it comes to dating. I used to think maybe I was the common denominator and that I was the problem, I'm not perfect but I literally can't come up with anything that's causing them to treat me the way they do. Never cheated or been the toxic type and maybe that's my downfall. I'm closing my heart off for good now. Good luck to y'all
A high "love count" affects both genders differently. "Love count" meaning a Woman you've decided to pursue a relationship with. Men naturally only get around 5 fully committed attempts at them before we check out altogether and rarely ever try again. Women on the other hand naturally have unlimited attempts at this (Women naturally permanently continue to try for a provider as it's hard-wired into them) instead Women lose their ability to pair bond at around 5.
Very similar situation for me. Gentlemen: Do. Not. Get. Married. They’re all “strong and independent” now. Counterintuitive but true; you will be more alone with your woman than without her. It’s a total trap. And no; yours is not different.
Just a small sidenote. I went to an outlet center yesterday evening to get myself a pair of boots. I think maybe 80% of all the tens of thousands of articles sold in that center are for women only… there were some stores with kitchen stuff which is gender neutral and there are a couple of shops for mens clothes. But in general it’s mostly for women and children
We need the older men to take their long laps. They were brainwashed beyond correction. "Happy wife happy life" came from them. Being put in the dog house" came from them "My wife is going to kcill me" came from them Sugar dadies that paid without even getting sugar came from them.
When things change? Not in my lifetime. Will only happen when women decide to be loyal and when they also decide they dont want $$ anymore. And thats impossible.
Basicaly when population will be reduced by 3-4 billions. We value only what we lost. Less people, less relationship, less opportunites to form a bond with other. So like, 40 years?
@@mrp8171women are meant to bring more slaves in this hell that is their deal And will play accordingly when numbers go down And men will always hop in.
I actually think it will be less then that. Stuff is crumbling all around us, we're just to blind to see it yet. Add in the possibility of another global war.... or even the grid being shut down.
@@mrp8171 correct but not 4 billions of population, but of MEN specifically. There will be a time when men become scarce with a crazy men to women ratio. This will happen with wars ofc. Only after that the balance between offer and demand will be restored. As a man i wouldn't want to live either in the war or post war periods.
I Think it Automatically Deletes it if you tell the truth , or it has swear words, had a comment yesterday Got Deleted had no swear words, but cos I told the truth about the Jab's It Got Deleted
@@jps5980what most really can't see is WHO is really DOING this and WHO is "they"... And that's the reason why all of this is happening to us. Do you know who "they" are? Starts with a j - vvs
The problem is women will always have more options in the dating market than men will until they hit the wall. Men always have to do all the work in the beginning stages to secure a relationship while the women just follows his lead. I wish guys would stop thinking that women abroad are any better because you’re going to find out real quick they’re not
I blame the simps! I blame those males that don't respect other people's marriages. I blame myself. We allowed this to happen for the pure sake of validation.
Men who are not yet married have it the best. Listen to the 1000s of men in this comment section. You have to chance to not marry and to avoid years of divorce cases, systemic legal harrassment, and killer stress and the diseases that come with it. You cannot have something that's not there to begin with. Learn this now or learn after you face the heat of your decision of doing the opposite. This is the only choice you have, accept it or not.
Men somewhere down your timeline you find out love loyalty happiness and companionship has four paws and a tail I worship my pup and he worships me we have the secret to life contentment
My ex got married like 5 years ago to this dude. He tried rubbing it in so don’t get me wrong I don’t feel too bad. However, after having 2 kids with him she got board and left. Ironically she told both of us the same thing when she moved on. “That’s life”. Since this time though she abandoned her babies, rightfully everybody has disdain for her. She would rather live on the other end of the country than admit what she did was messed up because “nobody truly knows her” and “we have no right to judge her”.
Put yourself at the top of your to-do list every single day, and the rest will fall into place. Vibe alone until you're valued. At this point, peace is everything.
32 years together. Two teenage kids. She got bored, mid life crisis, said she wasn't happy, didn't have to work, decided it was over. Two week later she's hooked up with a wealthy bachelor. Now have to sell the house. Will cost me about £200k overall in ending it with "the love of my life".
Get it done, pay that money, and never look back. The more you think about it, it just will drain you mentally, financially, and in any other aspect of life. Is done, get out ASAP, pay what the state is asking you to pay and get your freedom back.
17 years single. I dont even make eye contact with women most the time anymore more or less ask anyone out. Now a days you look at a woman the wrong way next thing you know your in HR or the local police station...
My ex checked out when the youngest turned 17 and started an apprenticeship - financially took me to the cleaners and blew the retirement plan out of the water - no benefit at all……. 20 years on, Karma is she is now broke and by herself.
I havent touched a woman in 14 years and gave up about 4 years into it. It used to bother me, but eventually it just didnt matter anymore. Ive watched friends and family go through divorce and it just doesnt seem worth it. Some people coax me to date and seem perplexed that i dont do it, and it surprises me that they do...
whem my friend found out his wife was cheating, he moved around the money in the accounts took out a massive second mortgage and bought a catamaran in his parents name and a new truck. so now he was broke and she knew nothing about the boat. he declared he was renovating and got a shipping container and moved most of his stuff into it. While she was away for the week end he tossed in his chair and clothes and moved the container to storage. she came home to her video showing she cheated he got off her phone and papers. he sent his stuff to belize and moved on his boat, still happy after all these years. no idea about her bank forced the sale of the house a year later.
I fancied this girl. Pretty smart, cute. Sent me a picture of her male friend whose "just a friend". He came up to her on a friday night out of the bloom. I politely said we are not compatible. No drama, just straight forward. Just don't bring emotions when doing these things
Thank You for your awesome presentation of the Truth about modern day relationships and women. I could not have said it any better brother. The serious truth about modern day women is they are EVIL! Period! Sure, are some good ones out there but good luck finding that one out of a million awesome lady. I am 67 years old and a retired and disabled U.S. Marine who has been single for over 15 years now and I have yet find a woman who is not evil. Lets see here, I own a huge piece of woodland property, one Jeep for trail riding and other things, a Harley Davidson trike I built, a new Ski Doo snowmobile and a newer Dodge Ram pick up truck, Now, why would I want to risk loosing all this just to have an evil woman who would probably destroy all that on me. I DO NOT THINK SO! I am too old and crippled up inside to take the risk of having some evil bitch pull the rug out from under me and I would have to start all over again. Not going to happen! I have been down this road too many times in my younger years and it will never happen again. I have been married and divorced 3 time and have had several long term relationships with women and let me tell you what a ride through hell and back from each one. I love and enjoy my life in the woods with all my toys, money and wild animals that live here with me. I trust my wild black bear family of 7 generations more than I would EVER TRUST A DAMN WOMAN! I am truly living a dream and loving life the best I can while I can. Why would I want to ruin a good thing just to have an evil woman who could give 2 shits less about me and my way of life? You know, it almost seems like women enjoy destroying a good man and his self worth because a woman will NEVER be what a good man is! You Cannot Ever Put A Good Man Down! Stand Your Ground Strong, Like A Rock! Hell Yeah!
Meine letzten 8 Jahre Beziehung waren die Hölle Betrug lügen usw Am Ende lies das Kind bei mir und verschwand Zum Glück muss sie nun an mich zahlen 😂 Ich nenn es Schmerzensgeld!
See the biggest problem, you don't know what you've gotten into until it's too late. People change, gradually, and you wake up one day and realize you've screwed up everything. People treat each other better when they know the other can just walk away. Marriage removes that fear and they change.
I 50 and never married and never had kids. Did some dating but and enjoy it but not interested in a serious relationship do to fake people. The only kids are my 🐈 s❤
The sad part is that it’s nothing new. My grandfather became widowed in 1949, and he told me that it was already hell back then, he divorced the second wife’s later on, and never remarried thereafter.
So many women nowadays are broken in one way or another. Not saying there are no decent women out there, though to find one now is like winning the lottery
My parents had 3 sons, 2 of the 3 saw how the system was heavily in favor of woman. My youngest brother found what looks like a unicorn but they haven't made it to the 7 year point yet so time will tell. Ironically he is the least financially well off of us 3. I and my middle brother are both able to retire before 45 if we would want to buy that's not our personalities. Little brother will be working till the day he dies. We arel self made but our story points out the true cost of chasing women. Good luck gentlemen and do what makes you happy 👍
@radtektekrad3187 Yes Same in the UK. But they are 100% enforceable in the Philippines. And currently, assets you owned before marriage remain yours anyway but that could change I guess. But if you live in the Philippines you can easily hide overseas assets. Don't buy anything in Phil. Just rent.
As a man who never wanted a relationship I'm surprised how much I'm hearing about guys in real life and on the internet give up dating. Most of my friends and male family members my age are single and not looking for relationships, honestly, it's starting to make me worry about the future of our bloodline lol. I truly hope things change for the better and those that wanted relationships but had bad experiences find the right person, or if they decide to never be in a relationship again I hope they eventually get over the bitterness, single life can be great and meaningful but if you are bitter it's a punishment.
I think some people really dont understand that this is truly our only life we have so its best to make the best out of it and do what you want. Sometimes it can be better to stay single and get a cat or a dog. They are many times better than most people.
I'm 41 was in a 4 year relationship. She didn't bring nothing but herself when I met her. Then 6 months later I found out she had a daughter. Okay well I'm committed so I'll try. Then the ex comes from out of state in the picture. Wanting to hang out with shady friends. Man it because a disaster. Lies built up. Was constantly stressed out. Guys I will say this. You can't fix a broken women. I tried. I am a very attractive man. From church to jail. It was hopeless. In the end it wasn't worth it. I left gave her the house everything in it. Took my tools, clothes and my vehicle. Come to find out she was a narcissist. I learned about that. Look guys this is the best advice I can give. Don't get into a already make family where she is friends with the ex. She says she has a lot of guy friends. She lies even if it's small small things. If you got to "fix" a women. She's not for you. Get one you don't have to fix and she is naturally what you want. Be single until then.
I've been single for a few years now and at first it was odd feeling as I got out of a 12 year marriage...we divorced because we just grew to different people and still friends to this day But after some time of being alone and trying to date a few times I just don't see the value in it at all. I really really like being alone now..fully I go days without speaking a word to anyone besides my 2 dogs. I agree with your aging comment as after my divorce I ended up with a woman who was just absolutely insane BPD and I had no idea until I realized...wtf is going on here I think that's another reason for loving being alone Peace before piece I've refound my connection with God, or refinding it better to say And enjoy just being.
YOLO. Not me. I know better. This life is not all there is. Being doesn't require existence. Gravity has no physical existence (particle matter). Gravity influences matter, but it isn't itself material; still, Gravity is real.
It's easy to avoid family court and go to real court. On page 8 they say "if you do not respond in 20 days you accept Family Court". So request real court within that timeframe. Real court is where you have legal rights, right to an attorney and hopefully a just settlement. And throwing you in jail is prohibited.
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I’m 57 and just got divorced. She was bored and had to heal herself. Yeah, she Monkey branched straight onto another bloke while she was with me. She came into the marriage with nothing. I already had my house. We had no kids and the courts awarded her nearly half of the proceeds of my house. I’m in a small flat now. Don’t get married !!!!
If these laws and attitudes are not changed, Humanity's days are numbered.
Thanks, I'll always remember this if I feel lonely
So sorry mate
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Gray divorce hits much much harder than it'd be earlier....all the best
Being a "man" has been stigmatized out of existence. That we are checking out is normal.
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Stigamatized? its called sexcism, its a prejudice.
Its that simple.
Men were taught their whole life how to treat a woman and NOT what to expect from a woman.
But Women were taught their whole life what to expect from a man and NOT how to treat a man.
Sad Reality.
@@CyberPunkBadGuy This is partly the problem...so many men are too weak and cowardly to fight back agiasnt sexism from women lets be honest.
If you want your pockets to jingle, make sure to stay single!
No wife, happy life.
That’s a good one. 😂🤣😂🤣
I like that
I got spurs that jingle, jangle, jingle...
Jingle, jangle!
And that song ain't so very far from wrong@@elduquecaradura1468
Yeah I'm 53 and I sold everything, bought sailboats and went fishing for the rest of my life. My life is now very easy and pleasant.
As the women say you have a right to be happy, but the difference is they use that phrase when they're stealing a man's life , evil and parasitic you on the other hand did no harm, you are just living the way you choose, God bless
Stress is a killer avoid it at all costs.
yep, the stress is a tool of nature to either force you to act, or to eliminate you, so you won't be a problem for others.
I was blessed, I was born ugly, I'm short, I'm close to 60 but look closer to 80, I'm not a millionaire, I'm just plain invisible, never been married, got no children, I'm debt free, then I look at a lot of people around me, bitter and twisted, living a lonely married life, been through bitter divorces, I walked away from relationships back in 1991, I was in my 20's, I saw those around me living a miserable existence, I knew then that it wasn't for me, I look at the later generations, at least I didn't contribute to these people, 90% of the later generations aren't nice people
Stay strong brother 🙏🏻
Correct, correct, and correct again. Even if people jumping off bridges are saying it's the most worthwhile thing in life does not make it true.
bro the truth is dammed if you dont dammed if you do. God gave us women as a punishment. learn, work, provide and maintain and the moment you take a break shell burn it all down.
Smart man
Ya its a blessing and a curse to be under the radar. You experience less joyful interactions, but you absolutely miss out on being on people's radar in negative ways as well. Some of the stories I hear people experience, and I'm like man nobody ever messes with me.
Even chads are getting the bad end of the stick now
We all need to be smart enough not to date in the West. There are billions of lovely women all around the world that would flip over backwards to date western men.
@@cliffpostell508 dude, the east is in a similar problem than us, and don't get overconfident that the eastern nations are infinitely better, they pretend to be lovely-dovely so you fell for their mermaid chants, not for nothing they are the S.E.A. Women :P
lol bc in order for Chad to f females, they need hundreds of orbiters to work and provide for that female and the infrastructure they are attached to
@@cliffpostell508the entire world is one small village these days. We would be fools that there would be a small cosy village at the other end of the world where women live like the pure women of the middle ages, untouched by the plague of today's world.
Dudes are poking them?
My ex had been seeing another man and for a while, she had decided she need the space and wanted to live on her own, just so happen to be timed, with running up massive debts, clearing money from our bank accounts. Her lawyer was on speed dial, the day after I move out, my replacement moved in. 12 years later I've worked hard to clear the debts she wouldn't pay, I've got back on my feet and im doing well. I have kept to myself for all of that time, not dated, no relationships, no situationships, no casual flings, no one-time things, I'm not bitter or angry, I let it all go years ago. I just value the peace and quiet of my life than to risk it on another women. I'm done, and I know I'm not the only one. I see more and more men walking away both young and old from relationships.
You got lucky! Happy for you. I tried building 2 families. I had to pay tremendous amount of debt. Which i did. I was alimony and debt free by 42yo.
But got chronically ill and handicapped in the process.
So...going back to school to reorient myself in my new reality. I wish i had raised my sons. I always dreamed of that. But it was stolen away from me and i was ledt with a debt.
I will mever have what i dreamed of all my life.
I really just wanted 1 women who stay faithful. I never found one.
11 yrs since here. 27 married, now I think she was doing dudes throughout the whole marriage. She hated it when I wasn't at work.
@petemorton8403 sorry to hear it, I know how you feel, I heard rumours their were more.
Yes sir it is pure land mines out there!!!!
You can have relationships just don't Mary again, and make it clear to women they will pay their share. Don't be a simp and confront other men for being Simps because they led us to this place
I'm in my forties. I have a teenage son, living with me. His mom, have lots of self-awareness, compared to many other women i have known, and that's why we having a good friendship today even we are not together anymore.
When I look at the women in my family, (my mom that unfortunately passed away) my sisters, and woman from earlier relationship, friends earlier relationship with women.
I have come to the conclusion, that majority of women, are cold hearted and selfish. Its only about them and there feeeeeeeeeelings, we men aren't allowed to show weakness and feelings.
There are so many cases, with divorces, where the women's bring up false accusations, just so they can get what they want. They don't care about the man that took care of them for years.
As a kid and young man, I always thought woman was the caring ones, with high morality. I was so wrong
That's the story they spin alright, especially the female teachers in your childhood.
Eventually you realize that while females offer lots of sympathy, they are almost incapable of empathy, making their entire caring image little more than a self-serving facade for raising children and making them seem harmless around their community, they're not.
Morality is also a men-only club, women are way more pragmatic, evolution needs them to be because they're the s- selectors for our species.
If you look carefully, you'll notice that the majority of them pick and choose when morals apply, and have some very suspicious blind-spots when it comes to their principles.
False Accuse here. Her boyfriend was witness. Destroyed me as a person. Of course those two arrests & 24 hours locked up both times, all aspects of my skin, eyes, voice, freedom taken. Both cases were dropped because they were nothings.
@petemorton8403
That's horrible, so her boyfriend was also part of this, its so evil doing this. How are you now?
An old acquaintance of mine, few years ago. His ex reported him as violent and false accusations, he has to use a fortune in the legal system, to prove he hasn't done anything. It took years and was hard on him, but he won. His ex did it because she wanted full custody of their daughter. He is a good man, and have never hurt anyone.
Very correct.
Women are "gentle" only because they lack physical strength. But give them a gun or power or authority, and they would do utterly unspeakable things. Also, these aren't women of 50 years back that we're dealing with
By the time she divorced me 15 years ago, I had nothing left to take. Once she was gone, I replaced any need for women with
motorcycles and guitars. I have maybe 30 years left and I know any woman interested in me is just settling. No thanks.
In the west, the phrase, "This is my partner......." is very common. It speaks *VOLUMES* about attitudes towards relationships. Men fall in love........Women are *IN BUSINESS.* 'Partnership' is a term associated with business.
I hate the fact that women cant stand a man sitting down to relax.. in her mind you always gotta be busy working...
It's fickle business to bet all you've built on a relationship with a hormonally unstable individual who can devalue everything and replace you just cause "I just don't feel the same anymore". Women have become children in adult bodies, no impulse control, high in narcissistic traits, zero introspection, and worst of all they're being empowered and rewarded for it. Walk away.
You know, at first I didnt believe this sort of thing until it literally happened to me. I woke up to a long text of her with "I just dont feel the same anymore" and that was that. Two weeks later she had a new guy and I never heard from her again. I can understand why men are sick of relationships. To hell with them.
You said it ALL!
And what feed to this behaviour is corrupt policymaker and judges
Why did we ever care what they think or feel?
Oh yea. Because of our own hormones.
Best comment to date! You hit the nail on the head my good sir! The juice ain't worth the squeeze.
I am done. I am walking away from relationship. Warning to all young men: dont get into a relationship, you will regret it.
No wife, no strife.
Narcissistic parasitism is the rule with modern western women, and unfortunately for them, codependence, is a choice. One we're not taking.
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Facts. This is a psychopath behavior.
Not just western women, all women from all parts of the world
They have always been.
STOP adding the "modern western" part. It's ALL of them. These are EVOLUTIONARY TRAITS, meaning that ALL women have it. Few of them manage to, somewhat, override them, but they're intrinsic to their gender.
Stop.
Social media is ruining human beings.
I think that's the governments job.
Let it. That is the choice that's made. I Got the Kids and they love me.
Im thinking tbat people were already ruined, social media just creates the septic tank where it gets flushed.
women first and it eff4ects men too but not nearly as bad
The goverment gives a push and the easy manipulated push it@@Forte-f9u
I'm 35yrs old and my most precious resources that are time and energy - I'd rather have it to myself only....
And yes...in this economy even middle class income might be barely enough for family's prosperity.
ok, my heart says get a female companion to come home to, take care of, and be my bed partner.. My brain says, dude, Are you insane?
They're just a nightmare to deal with.
After experiencing a marriage and a divorce. I evaluated my situation, and realized I got off fairly easily, I have two amazing kids from the experience that I have 50% custody of. My ex thought she was better off with a new guy but that ended quickly and she tried to come back, i told her absolutely no way.
I have more money, more free time and get to do more fun experiences with my kids. Looking for a new woman would be stupid at this point, it wouldn’t only add complexity into my life and my kids lives. It’s time now to sit back and enjoy what I have.
I'm at a point now where I really don't care about relationships. I'm a digital nomad in the Philippines and while I get a ton of attention, I brush it off because the adversarial relationship between men and women in America that I grew up with has made me distrustful of women in general. It's not worth it anymore. I prefer to just solo travel, make friends, and see the world without negativity.
Females from other countries see us as opportunities. That's why they put so much effort in giving attention to us. Conditional. Typical treacherous bastards.
Oh, wow, mentally I'm in the same state as you, and soon I will be the same as you physically: slow solo travel. I've never been to the Philippines, but it's on my list to visit. I wonder what reaction I'll generate.
I was lucky, my wife left me but also left the kids with me and we had no arguments, no money issues, no custody issues, stayed friends, my divorce cost me $50 for the court fee...
When I hear about other peoples divorces I am shocked that people who once loved each other can be so nasty, selfish and petty when they separate.
You were amazingly lucky! It should be like this for most men and women separating.
Perfect result.
hey you are assuming they ever loved the person they married. Women are good actors.
That was like mine also, besides the kids cause we didn't have any
Worked out great
A relationship is not worth it these days. If I do, she MUST, and you can quote me on this, match my energy.
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At age 81...never married, wanted children. I have had women and still do in my life...FRIENDS ONLY! They have their life, I have mine! Come together for a dinner or lunch now and then...no intimacy...we both are fine with this! I have my interests, they theirs. I had women who degraded my interests...they were gone-gone-gone!! That feminist movement destroyed women's outlook in my younger dating years! I know buddies who lost everything through divorce!
It’s exhausting dealing with Wahmin
Bible says God gave us woman to help us.
that's when i learned what gaslighting was
@@cantrun5491 bible changed the story of eden garden. In Jewish old testament (rewritten from ancient sumerian texts) God first gave Adam other girl - Lilith. But she was to independend, didn't want to obey Adam so she was cast out and Eve was send in her place. the problem is todays girls are much closer to Lilith so even according to holy texts it can't work.
I recently heard of MGTOW, and it was a relief finding out it wasn't just me.
I'm 27, and women have such sky-high standards that I just can't meet them. Mind you that I've got a Master's Degree in Engg, Nice Body, Good job, Awesome Hobbies, Devout Christian, and Tons of knowledge regarding most things, especially finance and money management. Maybe my only "shortcoming" is that I'm 5'7".
Tried a passport?
@TheMarcuslindberg I'm an immigrant in the US.
@@monkaZETTA don't listen the passport dumbs, the only reason "passport bros" triumph is because they are the equivalent of a millionaire in the nations they go. You'll never see Passport Bros in Switzerland, where they would be poor in comparison
they don't realize they are also transforming the South East Asian nations and in some decades they will be in the same decadent manner that the US now
@@TheMarcuslindbergnothing works these days. Travel to a foreign country and get entangled where no one is there to help you out if you get into trouble.
Simply walk away from relationships. The juice is not worth the squeeze.
what most really can't see is WHO is really DOING this and WHO is "they"... And that's the reason why all of this is happening to us. Do you know who "they" are? Starts with a j - vvs
Was married for 18 years, never again. My son seeing everything that happened in the last few years also has no interest in marriage.
17 years here she gone have to be perfect for me to marry her and a virgin.
The oaths of women I inscribe on water. 🌊
The bible talks about this..... hmmmm
@PrinceoftheVioletFlame Ancient people weren't stupid.
Bro this cracked me up
I'm 26. When I was 20 I was involved with a girl who only told me she loved me when she needed things. I felt nothing but guilt after doing things for her. When I stopped talking she panicked and thought we were over. When she got comfy she opened up and told me she was in bad debt. I cut her off straight away. She jumped to the conclusion there was another woman involved. I was like after her f*ck no. Fast forward a few years later i check her insta to find she is a single mother 😂. Guess the next guy she tried dumped her as well. As of right now I haven't missed a bill payment in over a year, my credit score is high and i have just started a clothing line which just made news headlines back in August. Focus on your money fellas. That happy couple on social media are fighting behind the scenes.
based
I almost got married when I was younger (dodged a cannon ball in the process) saw how the few friends I had that got married and then wrecked by divorce. My parents divorced when I was young and that was a train wreck. I've thought about many times about becoming a Pass Port Bro and then I remember that I'm the only Male Role Model that My Nieces Great Nieces Nephews and Great Nephew have and is the only reason why I stay (for them alone). Being adopted into a Family not My own I've always been alone having Family that doesn't know what to do around you and then talk behind your back when they think your not listening. So I learned at a young age to not rely or need people doing everything by myself. There's a difference between Being Alone and actually feeling Alone. And so I walk this World as the Lone Wolf I've always been and will be while staying for the only ones I call Family. If it wasn't for them I would've left this Country decades ago to find My place in this World and I'm still looking.
Why not travel temporarily and get a taste of what’s out there? The world is vast and amazing to explore
Whay does a man get from these relationships? I just found out the hard way...
@@philipcrocker what did you get in that hard way?
@@JediDarkForceApparently you’ve never been in a relationship with a woman before, so I can speak for him…you get little to absolutely nothing. All women are pretty much built the same psychologically. They’re just wired differently than men, a little too differently. It’s one of the many reasons why I will never marry again.
@@ThomasDrish I've had my last 2 yr long relationship 13yrs ago. I'm 35 now. No kids never married never lived with a female etc. So you got the point. My experience is little to none.
Men were taught their whole life how to treat a woman and NOT what to expect from a woman.
But Women were taught their whole life what to expect from a man and NOT how to treat a man.
Sad Reality.
Stay single and enjoy the peace.
Never again. It's simply not worth it. Maybe I picked the wrong woman? Incredibly self-centered. Me, me, me... Working hard, paying for her shit. What did I get in return? No appreciation, no thanks... Complaining that I was working too long hours. Eventually, she ended it for not feeling it anymore. It cost me money, but I build myself up again. The peace and no nagging are just priceless. Moreover, I can save much more money now.
This is the start of your redemption mate
I been single over 4 years I was married for 17 years I bet they wonder why im single 42 I have seen a lot from women I'm not settling for anything out here .I take my peace anyday.
Any relationships are not worth wasting time especially guys get screwed. Well ladies go ask a bear to help you.
Men have learned not to make such a risky commitment to an emotional based individual. Social media has made women want to out do other girls with ridiculous demands on men and tawdry displays. They have lost the values that made men want them in the first place - being a good companion, a supportive wife and caring mother.
A lot of us older men have learned, but many of the younger men have not YET! I have gone through it and it is Terrible!
sure, because Sex in the City was released with MySpace
come on man, Social Media isn't responsible of this mess, *we didn't start the fire, it was always burning since the world was turning...*
Huh? Help me understand? I'm 44years old and have been single all my life by choice after seeing how horrible women were since high school so never got serious with them. Why do men get serious with them if they're such treacherous creatures?
For shagging purposes
The "call of the wild" is strong in some.
@wascawywabbit0987 Hahaha, you can still do all that without getting serious with women right?
@@Rambo-lv9huCorrect. It isn’t the call of the wild. It’s that most men are unable to be in solitude. Most men are codependent. Most men feel like they require a woman’s validation or companionship to be “okay.” Most men were thoroughly indoctrinated through media and society to be “romantic” (translation: give endlessly to a woman for very little in return). They were told you must buy the cow, not rent it, renting it is bad. This is the real reason
@@Rambo-lv9hu I wasn't referring to me. Just observing the behaviour of thirsty men. I am older and just like you except that I got married once, got fucked over. I learnt the first time. You are not missing anything of value except for kids. I have two and they are my consolation prize.
I'm 30 and decided to tap out this year after the last few girls I've dated played me, all of them dumping me once the honeymoon phase ended or they got bored, and all of them getting with a new guy within a couple weeks acting like I never existed. I'm fully convinced the good ones are already taken and all that's left are the narcs/broken ones who just want to use men for something.
I'm in good shape, good job, social skills, outgoing etc and it makes no sense how much I'm struggling when it comes to dating. I used to think maybe I was the common denominator and that I was the problem, I'm not perfect but I literally can't come up with anything that's causing them to treat me the way they do.
Never cheated or been the toxic type and maybe that's my downfall. I'm closing my heart off for good now. Good luck to y'all
A high "love count" affects both genders differently. "Love count" meaning a Woman you've decided to pursue a relationship with. Men naturally only get around 5 fully committed attempts at them before we check out altogether and rarely ever try again. Women on the other hand naturally have unlimited attempts at this (Women naturally permanently continue to try for a provider as it's hard-wired into them) instead Women lose their ability to pair bond at around 5.
Even before 5. More like 2
Very similar situation for me.
Gentlemen:
Do. Not. Get. Married.
They’re all “strong and independent” now. Counterintuitive but true; you will be more alone with your woman than without her.
It’s a total trap.
And no; yours is not different.
Personally I opted out 2 years ago I’m building wealth now
Bro is back with Banger
Just a small sidenote. I went to an outlet center yesterday evening to get myself a pair of boots.
I think maybe 80% of all the tens of thousands of articles sold in that center are for women only… there were some stores with kitchen stuff which is gender neutral and there are a couple of shops for mens clothes. But in general it’s mostly for women and children
Men are waking up the day we stop simping is the day women start panicing
We need the older men to take their long laps. They were brainwashed beyond correction.
"Happy wife happy life" came from them.
Being put in the dog house" came from them
"My wife is going to kcill me" came from them
Sugar dadies that paid without even getting sugar came from them.
When things change? Not in my lifetime. Will only happen when women decide to be loyal and when they also decide they dont want $$ anymore. And thats impossible.
Basicaly when population will be reduced by 3-4 billions. We value only what we lost. Less people, less relationship, less opportunites to form a bond with other. So like, 40 years?
@@mrp8171women are meant to bring more slaves in this hell that is their deal
And will play accordingly when numbers go down
And men will always hop in.
I actually think it will be less then that.
Stuff is crumbling all around us, we're just to blind to see it yet. Add in the possibility of another global war.... or even the grid being shut down.
@@mrp8171 correct but not 4 billions of population, but of MEN specifically. There will be a time when men become scarce with a crazy men to women ratio. This will happen with wars ofc. Only after that the balance between offer and demand will be restored. As a man i wouldn't want to live either in the war or post war periods.
No point dating anymore. Relationships are dead
YT keeps deleting comments.
I have no idea why.
They don't like any truths that are even remotely right leaning
I Think it Automatically Deletes it if you tell the truth , or it has swear words, had a comment yesterday Got Deleted had no swear words, but cos I told the truth about the Jab's It Got Deleted
@@jps5980what most really can't see is WHO is really DOING this and WHO is "they"... And that's the reason why all of this is happening to us. Do you know who "they" are? Starts with a j - vvs
@@jps5980YT is owned by small black hats, those guys hate the truth
@@kntrstrkorm4593 Blaming a whole segment of the population for your personal gripes is very feminine of you.
The problem is women will always have more options in the dating market than men will until they hit the wall. Men always have to do all the work in the beginning stages to secure a relationship while the women just follows his lead. I wish guys would stop thinking that women abroad are any better because you’re going to find out real quick they’re not
Don't marry.
I blame the simps! I blame those males that don't respect other people's marriages. I blame myself. We allowed this to happen for the pure sake of validation.
Men who are not yet married have it the best. Listen to the 1000s of men in this comment section. You have to chance to not marry and to avoid years of divorce cases, systemic legal harrassment, and killer stress and the diseases that come with it. You cannot have something that's not there to begin with. Learn this now or learn after you face the heat of your decision of doing the opposite. This is the only choice you have, accept it or not.
Dont date, only rent!
Men without distractions can take over the world
When I look back on my life of 53 years all the drama and trauma has been when I’m in a relationship or when I was married.
You just said everything i have said and felt for the last decade, thank you for expressing it in the most calming and rational way.
Men somewhere down your timeline you find out love loyalty happiness and companionship has four paws and a tail I worship my pup and he worships me we have the secret to life contentment
Just it's too difficult nowadays. Facebook makes sure to keep them always unsatisfied with what they have. It's madness
My ex got married like 5 years ago to this dude. He tried rubbing it in so don’t get me wrong I don’t feel too bad. However, after having 2 kids with him she got board and left. Ironically she told both of us the same thing when she moved on. “That’s life”. Since this time though she abandoned her babies, rightfully everybody has disdain for her. She would rather live on the other end of the country than admit what she did was messed up because “nobody truly knows her” and “we have no right to judge her”.
Put yourself at the top of your to-do list every single day, and the rest will fall into place.
Vibe alone until you're valued.
At this point, peace is everything.
32 years together. Two teenage kids. She got bored, mid life crisis, said she wasn't happy, didn't have to work, decided it was over. Two week later she's hooked up with a wealthy bachelor. Now have to sell the house. Will cost me about £200k overall in ending it with "the love of my life".
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Lord, we ask for Your Presence to comfort Colin in this time. That Jesus, You would be revealed to Colin and give him Your peace, in Jesus name, amen.
Get it done, pay that money, and never look back. The more you think about it, it just will drain you mentally, financially, and in any other aspect of life. Is done, get out ASAP, pay what the state is asking you to pay and get your freedom back.
No more protecting or providing from me
17 years single. I dont even make eye contact with women most the time anymore more or less ask anyone out. Now a days you look at a woman the wrong way next thing you know your in HR or the local police station...
Great work, brother!
Subscribed.
Which I rarely do.
Thanks for the sub!
My ex checked out when the youngest turned 17 and started an apprenticeship - financially took me to the cleaners and blew the retirement plan out of the water - no benefit at all……. 20 years on, Karma is she is now broke and by herself.
I havent touched a woman in 14 years and gave up about 4 years into it. It used to bother me, but eventually it just didnt matter anymore. Ive watched friends and family go through divorce and it just doesnt seem worth it. Some people coax me to date and seem perplexed that i dont do it, and it surprises me that they do...
In SGC We Trust 💪
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whem my friend found out his wife was cheating, he moved around the money in the accounts took out a massive second mortgage and bought a catamaran in his parents name and a new truck. so now he was broke and she knew nothing about the boat. he declared he was renovating and got a shipping container and moved most of his stuff into it. While she was away for the week end he tossed in his chair and clothes and moved the container to storage. she came home to her video showing she cheated he got off her phone and papers. he sent his stuff to belize and moved on his boat, still happy after all these years. no idea about her bank forced the sale of the house a year later.
Sent my own way
I fancied this girl. Pretty smart, cute. Sent me a picture of her male friend whose "just a friend". He came up to her on a friday night out of the bloom. I politely said we are not compatible. No drama, just straight forward. Just don't bring emotions when doing these things
Thank You for your awesome presentation of the Truth about modern day relationships and women. I could not have said it any better brother. The serious truth about modern day women is they are EVIL! Period! Sure, are some good ones out there but good luck finding that one out of a million awesome lady. I am 67 years old and a retired and disabled U.S. Marine who has been single for over 15 years now and I have yet find a woman who is not evil. Lets see here, I own a huge piece of woodland property, one Jeep for trail riding and other things, a Harley Davidson trike I built, a new Ski Doo snowmobile and a newer Dodge Ram pick up truck, Now, why would I want to risk loosing all this just to have an evil woman who would probably destroy all that on me. I DO NOT THINK SO! I am too old and crippled up inside to take the risk of having some evil bitch pull the rug out from under me and I would have to start all over again. Not going to happen! I have been down this road too many times in my younger years and it will never happen again. I have been married and divorced 3 time and have had several long term relationships with women and let me tell you what a ride through hell and back from each one. I love and enjoy my life in the woods with all my toys, money and wild animals that live here with me. I trust my wild black bear family of 7 generations more than I would EVER TRUST A DAMN WOMAN! I am truly living a dream and loving life the best I can while I can. Why would I want to ruin a good thing just to have an evil woman who could give 2 shits less about me and my way of life? You know, it almost seems like women enjoy destroying a good man and his self worth because a woman will NEVER be what a good man is! You Cannot Ever Put A Good Man Down! Stand Your Ground Strong, Like A Rock! Hell Yeah!
So glad you enjoyed it
Dated a girl 3 years ago, i learned my lesson. Never date the wrong woman, it will break you.
I am your salvation through destruction"- Mass Effect
Meine letzten 8 Jahre Beziehung waren die Hölle
Betrug lügen usw
Am Ende lies das Kind bei mir und verschwand
Zum Glück muss sie nun an mich zahlen 😂
Ich nenn es Schmerzensgeld!
Deutschland/die Schweiz oder Österreich?
Deutschland
See the biggest problem, you don't know what you've gotten into until it's too late. People change, gradually, and you wake up one day and realize you've screwed up everything. People treat each other better when they know the other can just walk away. Marriage removes that fear and they change.
This man is preaching keep it up brother
I appreciate that
NEVER FORGET, NEVER FORGIVE. I WILL MAKE THEM PAY FOR IT, ONCE MY CHILDREN ARE OLD ENOUGH TO UNDERSTAN WHY I SACRIFIED MY LIFE.
I 50 and never married and never had kids.
Did some dating but and enjoy it but not interested in a serious relationship do to fake people.
The only kids are my 🐈 s❤
The sad part is that it’s nothing new. My grandfather became widowed in 1949, and he told me that it was already hell back then, he divorced the second wife’s later on, and never remarried thereafter.
So many women nowadays are broken in one way or another. Not saying there are no decent women out there, though to find one now is like winning the lottery
True gold. :) We need more videos like this.
More to come!
subscribed. Good video.
Thanks for the sub!
Thank you X-Much for the BEST explaination of what it is by these days, so I'm not alone thinking exactly this way...
The system has failed!
Glad it helped
43 and never getting married or have any desire to have kids.
My parents had 3 sons, 2 of the 3 saw how the system was heavily in favor of woman. My youngest brother found what looks like a unicorn but they haven't made it to the 7 year point yet so time will tell. Ironically he is the least financially well off of us 3. I and my middle brother are both able to retire before 45 if we would want to buy that's not our personalities. Little brother will be working till the day he dies. We arel self made but our story points out the true cost of chasing women. Good luck gentlemen and do what makes you happy 👍
The only way to have a relationship is to leave the UK and move to Asia. Can also get a legally enforceable pre-nup to safeguard your assets
I don't know how it is in the uk, but in America a judge can just summarily wipe his ass with your prenup.
@radtektekrad3187 Yes Same in the UK. But they are 100% enforceable in the Philippines. And currently, assets you owned before marriage remain yours anyway but that could change I guess. But if you live in the Philippines you can easily hide overseas assets. Don't buy anything in Phil. Just rent.
As a man who never wanted a relationship I'm surprised how much I'm hearing about guys in real life and on the internet give up dating. Most of my friends and male family members my age are single and not looking for relationships, honestly, it's starting to make me worry about the future of our bloodline lol. I truly hope things change for the better and those that wanted relationships but had bad experiences find the right person, or if they decide to never be in a relationship again I hope they eventually get over the bitterness, single life can be great and meaningful but if you are bitter it's a punishment.
17 year relationship. Starting over at 42.
Thanks to Jesus Christ for getting me my children back.
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Thank you
You're welcome
Greetings from SE Asia
Millennials (my generation):
Born in the best time to be a child and the worst time to be an adult.
Across the board.
I think some people really dont understand that this is truly our only life we have so its best to make the best out of it and do what you want. Sometimes it can be better to stay single and get a cat or a dog. They are many times better than most people.
I'm 41 was in a 4 year relationship. She didn't bring nothing but herself when I met her. Then 6 months later I found out she had a daughter. Okay well I'm committed so I'll try. Then the ex comes from out of state in the picture. Wanting to hang out with shady friends. Man it because a disaster. Lies built up. Was constantly stressed out. Guys I will say this. You can't fix a broken women. I tried. I am a very attractive man. From church to jail. It was hopeless. In the end it wasn't worth it. I left gave her the house everything in it. Took my tools, clothes and my vehicle. Come to find out she was a narcissist. I learned about that. Look guys this is the best advice I can give. Don't get into a already make family where she is friends with the ex. She says she has a lot of guy friends. She lies even if it's small small things. If you got to "fix" a women. She's not for you. Get one you don't have to fix and she is naturally what you want. Be single until then.
I've been single for a few years now and at first it was odd feeling as I got out of a 12 year marriage...we divorced because we just grew to different people and still friends to this day
But after some time of being alone and trying to date a few times
I just don't see the value in it at all.
I really really like being alone now..fully
I go days without speaking a word to anyone besides my 2 dogs.
I agree with your aging comment as after my divorce I ended up with a woman who was just absolutely insane BPD and I had no idea until I realized...wtf is going on here
I think that's another reason for loving being alone
Peace before piece
I've refound my connection with God, or refinding it better to say
And enjoy just being.
Action-figures are AWSOME 😊. Treat yourself RIGHT ✅️
YOLO. Not me. I know better. This life is not all there is. Being doesn't require existence. Gravity has no physical existence (particle matter). Gravity influences matter, but it isn't itself material; still, Gravity is real.
It's easy to avoid family court and go to real court. On page 8 they say "if you do not respond in 20 days you accept Family Court". So request real court within that timeframe. Real court is where you have legal rights, right to an attorney and hopefully a just settlement. And throwing you in jail is prohibited.
At a certain point Charlie Brown has to stop trying to kick the ball.