I am so glad that alot of men are waking up and starting to realize that life doesn't gives and sh*t about men or there feelings I left dating apps alone years ago because it's not worth it at all.
Great video. You're spot on. Its been a horrible, degrading experience using the dating apps. Completely ruins your self worth. I want a woman to build a life with, share experiences. I've decided to stay single and focus purely on my own joy.
Used dating apps 7 years ago and did ok getting dates .Then i quit the apps as i was into to a 3 yr relationship that ended a year ago So I used dating apps again for over a year now. They are a waste of your time and money. Apps inflate women's ego and render men as invisible unless he's a top 5 percent of good looking men .I have good pics, a good profile , i am better than average, looking (about a 6) retired engineer, six ft tall and a good guitar player. Using 4 apps the past year and have gotten zero responses. I am out. Ladies we men have left the building. The bears await you.
Online or not. The answer is to walk away from women. Reject them permanently. They are not worth the risk. I haven't met any woman worth dating that isn't a liability. Not one. Hate it but it's the truth today.
It goes both ways, men are just as bad, most men are assholes, women I have talked to about dating apps just get sent lots of dick pics and can't find a decent man. women may get more attention and have more choices, but the choices they have are pretty poor...
Dating apps were ok 6, 10,15 years ago, women were a bit more straightforward and dateable... Now they bomb love you give you they number just to waste your time get an ego boost and a kick from that, plus the algorithm and AI was the final nail in the coffin
In my 60s now. I’ve kept myself trim and fit, very solvent, retired early. The choice of women is pretty poor, the menopause has taken its toll on them. They have No hobbies or interests, just sitting watching soaps, stuffing their faces. If it’s not watching drama it’s creating it 🤣
I deleted them recently after some very bad dates with low quality women that I accepted because I wasn’t getting anything. This has freed up more of my time to do something productive and has also improved my self-esteem.
Don't use dating apps ... It's completely rigged. Never ask a woman out that you haven't observed in person. Believe it or not, women can be very good actresses, and you could be getting more than you bargained for. The most important thing in the dating game is human chemistry. Society must find a way to reverse this unsocialble culture we're living in. Walking away from the apps is a start.
I am in my early 60s, relatively good looking, articulate and successful. I have no trouble getting plenty of likes and matches but there's a couple of things I find. Firstly, many women are serial daters and have been on dating sites for years. They have been chewed up and spat out by so many men they are unable to actually bond in a relationship with a man regardless. At best they are worth a one nighter if you can stand it. Secondly, and worst of all, due to the attention women get because there are so many more men on these sites than women they all think they are a bit special. So what you get is a 2 or a 3 (at best) 'liking' me and all I want to do is throw up. They actually think they are right up there.
What an empty world the dating world has become. It used to be fun. Im 49 and Id rather never be with anyone again rather than go through this. Very candid video, thanks man X
Women tend to post 4-5 year old photos on those apps so if you do meet them in person that should be the first red flag lol. I’ve never met anyone off of a dating app
I starting to use dating apps in 2017 the best i got was 3 matches in one week that was in 2019 2 bots and 1 who lived far away Worst was 2022 the last year i used dating apps , i got 1 match in 4 months
Amen. I'm glad I'm not wrapped up in all that crap. I can't stand smartphones. They have ruined so much. I can't stand seeing people with their faces planted in a phone all the time. My ex-girlfriend is like that ALL the time. I refuse to get sucked in.
I wouldn't say it's a scam, but imo its purpose has definitely been abused, like most things, mainly by women posting less than honest pics and profiles. The apps that give them free membership only encourage their game playing because they have no skin in the game, and it didn't cost them a dime.
My soul was crushed when in a month of using dating apps I got 1 message .. when I replied she didnt reply me back and that was a total mindbender. like wtf!?
It is definitely a waste of time for the average man, for the most part here in the USA over 80% of men are invisible anyways. Unless you are in the top 5% percentile; looks, money, status. Gentlemen, stop subscribing or paying for these rigged services. Find a hobby, quit adult content addiction, get your finances together, and so on. The best way to meet women are through social circles, or organically.
I recall on a disaster site I mistakenly joined for a year and as the sub was finally ending suddenly a women who was " going to be on vaca convienently " reached out to me just at same time as sub expires suggesting a scam to get me to re sub for another year just to get to continue this interaction I truly think this is a possibility especially cuz the site overcharged me a month and instead of giving me a extra month they reimbursed my funds shady 4 sure?
Online dating is a JOKE save yourself the agony and just mind your own business and focus on building a great life for yourself or if you must speak to women do it in person old school style.
@@MrShonH never married no kids never cohabitation etc so I don't have any bad experiences but my common sense works remarkably good hence why even bother approaching in old fashioned way...they will highly likely reject you for instant ego boost even if you are higher tier guy...seen it already
Yep, and just like on Kendra G show, have them stand up and turn around, but then additionally, have them do the baby wipe test to remove all the layers of makeup.
It's money pit... Even if you pay for premium features the time you have to invest in vetting process is unmeasurable...texting...arranging dates...etc...better off go monk mode
The other day I walked up to a hot gym babe and told her. Hi how long have you been a fitness model the girl blushed she giggled big ol smile all pirky and and feminine I said want to hand out she’s like f yea “I’m tired of the losers online “ women want desperately to be approached but you have to work on your self physically mentally you have to dress like your not a kid. Brush your teeth put eye drops that make your eyes clear and put on moisture make ur face nice and moisturized comb your hair put on clothes that don’t have hols or stains on them even the shoes it doesn’t matter what shoe as long as it’s clean ! Women are very observant and look for all these things in a split second. Yea you can’t be lazy when attracting a women u have to put a lot more effort than just waking up and going out in your pj’s sorry won’t fly with women
I have the quote and image of benny looking at me and saying "From where your kneeling it must seem like an 18 karrat run of bad luck, truth is, the game was rigged from the start."
My company consists of a deadly snake in the garden somewhere an annoying frog and a spider that I have given too much leeway to. Dating I don't think so. Having a washing machine as a sidekick has its merits.
I went on a dating app a few months ago. At first it seemed to get me dates and I was talking to women. However I did not meet anyone who wanted something real. This one was on a semi annual break from the fiance, this one needed money for this or that, or the other lied about her age. So i found women but just the same kind of women if I had decided to approach ones out in the open.
Heh! And it isn't even an actual woman doing the scamming. Yeah, and there are still dating coaches like Courtney Ryan who CLAIM that the vast majority of matches are being made via online dating and essentially saying if men want a relationship that's where they need to go. Ain't love grand?
The $30 to $35 plus a month wasted on a dating site. You could be investing that in yourself. And also possibly wasting time on being catfished. And your going to have dudes sending money to an online picture (profile)of a woman. They haven't even met in person.
imagine if there was a mutual fund composed of all and only dating sites how many men would be placing sell orders and running for higher ground like rats on a sinking ship
There are much less women than men on these apps and the women there are the bottom of the barrel. Imagine then that you are not top 5% in terms of attractiveness but still have expectations...
Let’s be honest about something here. I’m not saying “ALL” so want to put that disclaimer out however; majority of these women on these dating apps are used up, have nothing to offer you in terms of long term anything and certainly majority of them would never make a good wife because they have been with too many men. What are you gaining as a man on these apps? If you want to get laid cool but that’s mostly all these sites are good for. You’re competing for somebody that has given out freely and easily to others.
maybe you use the wrong dating site. never seen the point of swipe apps unless you are just looking for a quick fcuk, but legitimate sites that match you on profile criteria might be better.
Sounds kinda like cope tbh. Yeah they are trash because of the algorithm but what is the difference irl you just find her attractive and you go on a date. If you have literally zero success on dating apps you will have zero success irl lol
Dude, we all know these things, lets move on. The conclusion is there îs no posible a fair interaction even if you have many matches. Becouse men are cheap and easy to replace, whilw women are hard to find and when they leave you got brokenheart. Now its time to give up at dating, and find something different to focus. If you feel to " call" to still Chase on women then its a simple heck. Discipline yourself and do what îs right.
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I am so glad that alot of men are waking up and starting to realize that life doesn't gives and sh*t about men or there feelings I left dating apps alone years ago because it's not worth it at all.
Great video. You're spot on. Its been a horrible, degrading experience using the dating apps. Completely ruins your self worth. I want a woman to build a life with, share experiences. I've decided to stay single and focus purely on my own joy.
Couldn't agree more
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@@RickSnowdon you have made the best decision available considering dealing with today's women. Stay single and stay free.
Used dating apps 7 years ago and did ok getting dates .Then i quit the apps as i was into to a 3 yr relationship that ended a year ago So I used dating apps again for over a year now. They are a waste of your time and money. Apps inflate women's ego and render men as invisible unless he's a top 5 percent of good looking men .I have good pics, a good profile , i am better than average, looking (about a 6) retired engineer, six ft tall and a good guitar player. Using 4 apps the past year and have gotten zero responses. I am out. Ladies we men have left the building. The bears await you.
If you cant get success mate no man can!
Yep - spot on
Date your age range maybe better results
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@trevmac_789 that is understandable. Hope you find your peace.
Online or not. The answer is to walk away from women. Reject them permanently. They are not worth the risk. I haven't met any woman worth dating that isn't a liability. Not one. Hate it but it's the truth today.
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It goes both ways, men are just as bad, most men are assholes, women I have talked to about dating apps just get sent lots of dick pics and can't find a decent man. women may get more attention and have more choices, but the choices they have are pretty poor...
Facts💯
@@brycecampbell4845 you are totally on target.
Dating apps were ok 6, 10,15 years ago, women were a bit more straightforward and dateable... Now they bomb love you give you they number just to waste your time get an ego boost and a kick from that, plus the algorithm and AI was the final nail in the coffin
Im glad dating apps didn't exist back in my days. The current online dating situation is atrocious for the regular men.
It STINKS!
Impossible. And I'm an idealist usually.
@@Itwasme007dating apps just lowers your self esteem and wastes your time and money.
In my 60s now. I’ve kept myself trim and fit, very solvent, retired early. The choice of women is pretty poor, the menopause has taken its toll on them. They have No hobbies or interests, just sitting watching soaps, stuffing their faces. If it’s not watching drama it’s creating it 🤣
I deleted them recently after some very bad dates with low quality women that I accepted because I wasn’t getting anything. This has freed up more of my time to do something productive and has also improved my self-esteem.
I figured this out years ago it's all about the $ just like everything else. Sad sad world!
Don't use dating apps ... It's completely rigged. Never ask a woman out that you haven't observed in person. Believe it or not, women can be very good actresses, and you could be getting more than you bargained for. The most important thing in the dating game is human chemistry. Society must find a way to reverse this unsocialble culture we're living in. Walking away from the apps is a start.
They are worse than Casinos
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Yes. Analog future. 😊😊😊
>Society must find a way to reverse this unsocialble culture we're living in.
we live an an *anti* social society.
I am in my early 60s, relatively good looking, articulate and successful. I have no trouble getting plenty of likes and matches but there's a couple of things I find.
Firstly, many women are serial daters and have been on dating sites for years. They have been chewed up and spat out by so many men they are unable to actually bond in a relationship with a man regardless. At best they are worth a one nighter if you can stand it.
Secondly, and worst of all, due to the attention women get because there are so many more men on these sites than women they all think they are a bit special. So what you get is a 2 or a 3 (at best) 'liking' me and all I want to do is throw up. They actually think they are right up there.
What an empty world the dating world has become. It used to be fun. Im 49 and Id rather never be with anyone again rather than go through this. Very candid video, thanks man X
It's nice to hear someone tell the reality about what's going on. Enjoyed this video. 👌
Glad you enjoyed it!
Women tend to post 4-5 year old photos on those apps so if you do meet them in person that should be the first red flag lol. I’ve never met anyone off of a dating app
Outfuckingstanding Gentlemen, this is what I love to read!!!!!!!!!! I've been off almost a year now and I haven't looked back.
Definitely one of your best videos. You spoke the truth.
I appreciate that
I starting to use dating apps in 2017 the best i got was 3 matches in one week that was in 2019
2 bots and 1 who lived far away
Worst was 2022 the last year i used dating apps , i got 1 match in 4 months
Its just for picking up 304s😅😅😅😅
You Blew my mind. Thank you
Amen. I'm glad I'm not wrapped up in all that crap. I can't stand smartphones. They have ruined so much. I can't stand seeing people with their faces planted in a phone all the time. My ex-girlfriend is like that ALL the time. I refuse to get sucked in.
Online dating is the biggest scam
Such a scam!
@SCGSHOW I never trusted them after the horror stories that broke out
I wouldn't say it's a scam, but imo its purpose has definitely been abused, like most things, mainly by women posting less than honest pics and profiles. The apps that give them free membership only encourage their game playing because they have no skin in the game, and it didn't cost them a dime.
I really enjoyed your presentation
I'm so glad!
This man talks a lot of sense👍
Only the NON CHADS are done with tinder… not the chads (young good looking men) they always win on dating apps
So how the hell am I supposed to meet women? Now that I'm older I don't go out every Friday and Saturday night,and work 40 hours a week 😂😢
This is the problem
Not just you. There's a dearth of "third places", and everyone is too busy and insulated to go out just for the chance of meeting people.
My soul was crushed when in a month of using dating apps I got 1 message .. when I replied she didnt reply me back and that was a total mindbender. like wtf!?
It is definitely a waste of time for the average man, for the most part here in the USA over 80% of men are invisible anyways. Unless you are in the top 5% percentile; looks, money, status. Gentlemen, stop subscribing or paying for these rigged services. Find a hobby, quit adult content addiction, get your finances together, and so on. The best way to meet women are through social circles, or organically.
I stopped using the apps last winter not worth it focusing on my mental health and talking in person passively more than actively
I recall on a disaster site I mistakenly joined for a year and as the sub was finally ending suddenly a women who was " going to be on vaca convienently " reached out to me just at same time as sub expires suggesting a scam to get me to re sub for another year just to get to continue this interaction I truly think this is a possibility especially cuz the site overcharged me a month and instead of giving me a extra month they reimbursed my funds shady 4 sure?
The real winners are the dating app owners.
Online dating is a JOKE save yourself the agony and just mind your own business and focus on building a great life for yourself or if you must speak to women do it in person old school style.
@@MrShonH never married no kids never cohabitation etc so I don't have any bad experiences but my common sense works remarkably good hence why even bother approaching in old fashioned way...they will highly likely reject you for instant ego boost even if you are higher tier guy...seen it already
Yep, and just like on Kendra G show, have them stand up and turn around, but then additionally, have them do the baby wipe test to remove all the layers of makeup.
I read some of the comments, all 100% true, about the dating apps. I am out of it.
It's money pit...
Even if you pay for premium features the time you have to invest in vetting process is unmeasurable...texting...arranging dates...etc...better off go monk mode
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😂 Swipe & Wipe. Brilliant!
Watch out for Craig Davids "Walking Away" to make a comeback.
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The other day I walked up to a hot gym babe and told her. Hi how long have you been a fitness model the girl blushed she giggled big ol smile all pirky and and feminine I said want to hand out she’s like f yea
“I’m tired of the losers online “
women want desperately to be approached but you have to work on your self physically mentally you have to dress like your not a kid. Brush your teeth put eye drops that make your eyes clear and put on moisture make ur face nice and moisturized comb your hair put on clothes that don’t have hols or stains on them even the shoes it doesn’t matter what shoe as long as it’s clean ! Women are very observant and look for all these things in a split second. Yea you can’t be lazy when attracting a women u have to put a lot more effort than just waking up and going out in your pj’s sorry won’t fly with women
I never use dating apps because i never trust dating apps and this us why.
I have the quote and image of benny looking at me and saying "From where your kneeling it must seem like an 18 karrat run of bad luck, truth is, the game was rigged from the start."
Agreed. They are crap. Expensive and utterly useless.
Dont bother to date, only rent !
My dating app recommended me to buy a washing machine.
My company consists of a deadly snake in the garden somewhere an annoying frog and a spider that I have given too much leeway to. Dating I don't think so. Having a washing machine as a sidekick has its merits.
How good IA is becoming i sadly doubt that these cancerous apps will collapse anytime soon but sooner or later it will
I don't understand why nobody makes one that actually lets you meet people.
I went on a dating app a few months ago. At first it seemed to get me dates and I was talking to women. However I did not meet anyone who wanted something real. This one was on a semi annual break from the fiance, this one needed money for this or that, or the other lied about her age. So i found women but just the same kind of women if I had decided to approach ones out in the open.
The apps are just scams, at least for men
did join badoo yesterday and i have over 90 matches in one day but maybe its because rainy outside and i look good and i got bmw 🎻
if a guy is an 8, and could qualify to be a likely jp penny clothing catalog model - minimum. then your good to go
Heh! And it isn't even an actual woman doing the scamming. Yeah, and there are still dating coaches like Courtney Ryan who CLAIM that the vast majority of matches are being made via online dating and essentially saying if men want a relationship that's where they need to go. Ain't love grand?
The $30 to $35 plus a month wasted on a dating site. You could be investing that in yourself. And also possibly wasting time on being catfished.
And your going to have dudes sending money to an online picture (profile)of a woman. They haven't even met in person.
imagine if there was a mutual fund composed of all and only dating sites how many men would be placing sell orders and running for higher ground like rats on a sinking ship
There are much less women than men on these apps and the women there are the bottom of the barrel.
Imagine then that you are not top 5% in terms of attractiveness but still have expectations...
Are there MGTOW sites? Where like minded men can socialize? Go fishing, etc...
Great idea for a business btw
Let’s be honest about something here. I’m not saying “ALL” so want to put that disclaimer out however; majority of these women on these dating apps are used up, have nothing to offer you in terms of long term anything and certainly majority of them would never make a good wife because they have been with too many men. What are you gaining as a man on these apps? If you want to get laid cool but that’s mostly all these sites are good for. You’re competing for somebody that has given out freely and easily to others.
maybe you use the wrong dating site. never seen the point of swipe apps unless you are just looking for a quick fcuk, but legitimate sites that match you on profile criteria might be better.
Sounds kinda like cope tbh. Yeah they are trash because of the algorithm but what is the difference irl you just find her attractive and you go on a date. If you have literally zero success on dating apps you will have zero success irl lol
Dude, we all know these things, lets move on. The conclusion is there îs no posible a fair interaction even if you have many matches. Becouse men are cheap and easy to replace, whilw women are hard to find and when they leave you got brokenheart. Now its time to give up at dating, and find something different to focus.
If you feel to " call" to still Chase on women then its a simple heck. Discipline yourself and do what îs right.
Can't be bothered so much nonsense out of there mouth
When it comes to dating apps the house, chad and tyrone always win. If you are not chad you don't exist, you are nothing and deserve nothing.
Lets sue them
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If that woman wins her Subway sandwich case, for a sandwich not looking like the pics, then we should start a class action against them.
Very true😂😂😂