2006 Cheongju Curling Iron Case - Real Story Behind "The Glory"
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When you are young, it is called bullying. When you are an adult, it is called crime. How light they are treating this assults. Torture is still torture, even if it was done by kids or adults.
Bullying is in fact a crime, because it is abuse,it's only a word for a type of crime.
@@cary9479 yeahh, but it's taken lightly. Like some kind of a child play. People use the word as a joke sometimes.
@@henalilaiswatching You are on the point. But everyone still lives in the world, where kids can do no wrong and should be given a second chance, no matter what without any punishment.
It doesn't matter how young you are. That isn't bullying it's still assault.
Yes! It pisses me off "kids" get off with little to no punishment. The justice system is honestly so backwards not giving victims the justice they deserve regardless of age.
The glory's bullying was so gruesome that it made me curl up. Knowing that this has actually happened makes me so sad about humanity.
Bullying is on another level in South Korea...weird
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Unbelievable, I wanted so bad to hug her, I cried with her and knowing this is basa on true events, they should be punished by law, also Karma never forgets
It's so so heart breaking
@@carlenetoa2118 it's extreme.
I hate when assault is called bullying.
There is a freaking big difference between bullying and straight on assault.
I struggle to explain this even in my country where the concept of bullying is quite new.
And the repercussions on bullying are more tame that repercussions on assault.
Amen
Even to call it assault is already understating it. This is attempted homicide. They went in with the intent to murder the victim and they went in assuming that they could abuse a loophole in the justice system to get away with minor consequences at worst. They knew that their friends, family, and even the police would condone this - because that's what their culture is like. No one in their community wants to deal with this - not the parents (who are obsessed with their "family pride" and how their kids must be "the best), the teachers (who are obsessed with their "school pride" and academic results), the police (who are too incompetent and scared to deal with minors and likely see it as someone else's responsibility).
The funny thing is that if these women were just several years older, they MIGHT have been charged more severely.
It is VERY unlikely that anything about these women's abusive personalities have changed. It is VERY likely that their sadistic and abusive tendencies have worsened over time. It is VERY likely that they will encourage further abuse of other people, or commit more crimes in the future - because they live in a society that condones this sort of behavior. This society that only responds when they can't ignore the problem anymore because it looks bad for them. Hence these "bullying" cases get worse, and they will continue to get worse until enough children die or the school system collapses.
This society has no true consequences, not for the perpetrators or the authorities. It's a society that rewards criminal behavior, and it's no wonder why "vigilante justice" or "underdog" fiction is so popular in Korea. But this in turn creates a hilarious loop - because the people in real life who do fight back, the system slaps THEM down, and tells them "Why didn't you let the authorities dO ThEiR JoB?"
When a society can have no faith in its authority figures, be it teachers, parents, the justice system, the politicians, all of which have been repeatedly proven to be corrupt, then there is truly no point in trying to support the society.
Bullying is when they are under 18 years old and doing the violence. I agree with you. Change it age of assault to 13 years old and we could curb so much with the law working with the schools. Abuse too, and verbal, fear mongering, terrorizing.... kids- these things are not ok at any age.
100% I was bullied throughout elementary school and middle school in the U.S. I did not know what friendship was until high school. But I'm so grateful that I was never a victim of violence. This is assault and NOT bullying. Also, just because they are minors they should not get off, in the U.S. we have juvy - why don't they do something like that in Korea? Also, the behavior they are getting away with as minors only escalates their bullying as they grow older and become criminals or psychopaths.
Assault or bully. They are both horrible acts.
“We can’t let this mistake affect their future” But it’s not a mistake. It was a conscious choice they made so they should deal with the consequences.
Viewers should look into T. Nhaveen’s case in Malaysia as well. There was glass shards shov3d up his anu$. His death outraged many Malaysians’. He was t0rtured until he d!ed.
@@Bubba2703That reminds me of Junko Furuta’s case. It’s known as “44 Days of Hell.” She was gang rap*ed and tortured.
The thing is false accusations are real and happen and it can ruin a mans entire life from a false allegation. As a man if i hear a woman claim they have been raped i am immediately skeptical because i have seen 1st hand 5 individuals be accused of a crime they have later found out to be innocent. 3 in my immediate circle, this is far more common than anyone cares to even acknowledge let alone accept. I don't think the argument is "we can't let this mistake affect their future" i think its more like "Is this individual woman telling the truth" and women folk forget they're assessing that individual woman not women as a group and that gets conflated into some ideological diatribe about women's rights and lionizing a manipulative and deceitful individual as some paragon of social justice. The best way to deal with it is listen, believe but verify and find evidence.
@@RicaJustineJoseph And her killers are roaming free, they got such light sentences..
the zulfarhan case as well!! thankfully, the perpetrators are sentenced to death yesterday. @@Bubba2703
As a nurse it absolutely sickens me to my core that these criminals could even have futures in healthcare!
I'm sure you know well how much the mean girls love going into healthcare fields too which makes it extra scary. They love having power over sick and desperate people.
Or teachers 😮
I’ve heard a certain percentage of bullies become nurses.
For a lot of them that is a chosen career path
The girl who bullied me in primary and secondary became a nurse. She wanted to work with mentally disabled people so she could mock them without their knowledge.
What infuriates me the most is that most of the time in real life, the bullies get to have their happy ending. They never face the consequences of their actions. They absolutely don't care about the trauma and the pain they've inflicted to their victims.
it is infuriating... soon if bullying continues and they don't take responsibility things will go down hill for them
Yep, I think same of child abusers aswell, the victims go on to suffer for the rest of their lives, while they live good lifes. Especially the ones defended by their families. I hate it.
Maybe,they have their happy endings for now but not for long😉this bullies can get "bad karma" not now but in the future,then it goes to the bullies family and then to their extended family🤷♀️
-heartbreaking but its true
@@daniii_1018 yes, karma is absolutely true. It comes back, one way or the other, it could be big or small, it could be connected or not, but it always happenz
And most often, they're successful in life.
“I like the smell of her blood. Let’s keep going” that’s one of the most demonic things to say about someone you’re violently assaulting omg
Yeah it creeps me out
I wanna hug all these students who's been through so so much......I pray that they will have a wonderful future.......God bless you all.
Yeah like what the heck. Who says that. Like they have to be monsters to say stuff like that. If I here her say assault one more time. Like poor girl omg.
@@HatoshaSyiemthat is if they don’t have trust issues…..❤I wouldn’t even have waited for the next moment I would have gone to the terrace wrote a note and jumped off the building 😢 a thick glass bottle really? And is that girl a vampire to like the smell of blood
They were demon possessed
I was bullied in school. Not beaten, just psychologically. Whenever I complained to the teachers, they've sent ME to the school psychologist. Whenever I complained to my parents, they've told me to just tough it out. Make it make sense.
Sorry to hear that you had to go through that. I wish you nothing but blessings & strength.
Everyone is being controlled including their perception of you and they can be made to not even notice what people are doing to you and focus on their perception that they are being sent. Your parents were also set up to have this belief at the specific time you were made to ask. The suffering is real. Even if it is a setup
I once complained to a playground guard that another student was hitting me, and they said that if they punished him they'd have to punish everyone, and that was the end of it.
@@PieRatKings Anarchy!
Right?! I was bullied by a boy. Mostly on the school bus. He literally spit on me and I used scented hand sanitizer to clean myself off and I GOT in trouble for “spraying perfume” they had it on video and everything and did nothing.
This is not bullying, this is assault. This is crime. And these people aren't bullies, they're criminals.
@@basugunjain korea the bullies are not just mens even
Girls bully there’s nothing about gender , they are students
@@Wonyoungcodes Gender does matter since a male student bullying a female student is worse or/and worst.
@@basugunja yeah that can be the case but some female students can do the worst too don’t underestimate them
@@Wonyoungcodes Yeah.
@@Wonyoungcodes And whatever I said is actually the case always.
My close friend was a Korean who went to the Philippines to study in high school. She would always tell us how even in our poorer economic standing, her school life is more peaceful here compared to South Korea, turns out she left because of extreme bullying. She eventually chose to continue to study here until college and eventually married a fellow Korean who grew up here.
They both agreed not to let their kids study in Korea.
That just puts in to perspective how common and brutal bullying is there
Omg that's so insane, I hope that she get the help she needs ) :
Damn no wonder many people have mental ilness in korea...
Bullies in Philippines isn’t bad since you can always fight back or just isn’t really hurting you like they just think they are too good or whatever it’s pretty tame in Philippines in my experience so it’s really nice to hear someone having a good time where I live I’m not sure how I’m gonna explain it but I’m just thankful it’s not all bad here
@@Mush_strawberry its more tame because its knowledge for us Filipinos that if you bully someone, prepare to take what you dish out.
Its not as bad as like south korea tbh
They are not bullies, they are literal sociopaths.
WOAHHHHH, bullying in South Korea is crazy and from young ages too ...
Those people DON'T deserve their identities hidden.
These kids are nurtured, enabled, and protected psychopaths. These are beyond "bullying".
@@basugunja and the point of your yelling is....?
@basugunja you ok?😶
@@Kris-yt6yr Not exactly ok after hearing and witnessing about numerous unethical and bad people across the world.
it’s bullying. stop saying otherwise, bullying is assault.
Listening to these stories reminds me of the James Bulger case
as a 14 year old, these kids know exactly what their doing. They are old enough to be aware of what their doing and they shouldn’t be babied by the government as if their 6 or 7 years old.
Not every person is same mature and there are many 14 years old, that don't know anything, it mostly depends on how you grow up.
Agreed. From the age of 12/13 u start to learn what’s wrong and right and be aware of your actions.
@@cary9479 still doesn't make it right. even if they aren't matured they still chose to do that themselves.
@@cary9479 I'm 100% sure that every 14 year old knows that you should not torture another person. I'm aware that some are still very childish, but by 14, you know right from wrong. We're not talking about kindergarten age, we are talking about teenagers who know not to hurt others.
@@veronica-mewI’m not. My nearly 14 year old sister acts like a 5 year old.
Listening to all of the bullying story/cases makes me so sad especially when the bully didn’t get punishment at the end. I still can’t believe how people can be so heartless regardless of the age.
The punishments are so weak in Korea and you expect these animals to be afraid of potentially killing someone?! Ridiculous
They are psychopaths they feel nothing. They have no empathy and that is their curse, not being able to really love anyone. The only problem is , if they have children.
@@delam3869 Yu don't have to be a psychpath to do something like that, many people could become like that with the right conditions.
@@cary9479 Agree and that is what makes it scary. It's the ordinary, every day average person is capable of such an atrocity.
This ISNT bullying. It is violent, sadistic gang activity. When I finally heard you liken it to gang activity as well close to the end of the video, it felt validating. Laws should be changed to age 8. 12 and 13 is too old by that time. They know how to shuck the system and that is so fucked up.
I think age 6 should be the age it’s moved to
Bulying is abuse. It's always sadistic gang violence.
This is bullying, bullying can be anything that fits the definition (Bullying is an ongoing and deliberate misuse of power in relationships through repeated verbal, physical and/or social behaviour that intends to cause physical, social and/or psychological harm. It can involve an individual or a group misusing their power, or perceived power, over one or more persons who feel unable to stop it from happening.).
No bullying is harassment bullying is a crime it always is. Bullying by definition is sadistic harassing people just because they are different? Or because you are insecure? That's insane! And that's what bullying always boils down to. The extent that it goes to often causes people to dismiss little instances which lead to worse things. These stories are instances of bullying. Bullying is evil and that's what these stories show , pure fucking evil
bullying IS sadistic activity
This can be defined as torture. Burning a part of someone's body with hot material is literally a torture technique. I was also very shocked at how young the perpetrators were.
*It’s torture, sadism.
@@LifeInPink999IN INDIAN SCHOOLS THERE IS NOT MUCH OF BULLYING, AND I AM FROM INDIA, THE SOUTH ASIAN COUNTRY. AND AS FOR THE LAST CASE WHERE THE PRODUCER OF THE DRAMA WAS HIMSELF A BULLY, WELL, ANY BOY OR MAN TEASING OR ILL-BEHAVING WITH A GIRL OR A WOMAN DESERVES TO BE BULLIED.
It runs in the bloods of koera
@@rudra.580 This proves how sick the country is.
@@rudra.580 @basugunja I don't think we should generalize these young perpetrators' behaviours to the entire country. Even though what they did was wrong, that doesn't mean all of Korea was like that.
As someone who was bullied in the US, it was nowhere near as violent and dangerous as these crimes. With my own experience I have trauma from my bullying. I seriously can’t imagine how these victims feel and we need to do something about it, now.
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Are you okay now?
@@moauntain5920While I can't speak for the OP, I too experienced near constant bullying here in the US from K/1st grade all the way through 8th grade. While it mostly wasn't physical like a lot of what we just heard was, it was traumatic in it's own right. What I experienced became so bad that it was easier, it actually hurt LESS, for me to put myself down than hear it from other people. "Stupid," "Idiot," "Moron," "Four Eyes," "Gimp." Those are just a handful of things I was called on a near daily basis, and eventually would use them to refer to myself, because, as I said, it hurt less.
This was in the late 80's and 90's. I'm just about 40 now, and while I have come to learn to love myself, inasmuch as I would not change the person that I am today for anything, even if it meant going back and erasing all of the pain and hurt I've been through, I'm not "okay," now. Part of it stemmed from a physical injury that was inflicted upon me as a baby and has left me partially paralyzed. Part of it now is neurodivergence-ADHD, Executive Dysfunction, maybe ADHD dysfunction, and other similar mental issues-combined with how smart I am. I KNOW how f'd up my life is, and I am mentally incapable of forcing myself to physically change anything. It drives me nuts. I don't hate much in the world... I've actually become very serene over the last few years rather than letting anger get the better of me. It's one of the main reasons I wouldn't change anything. But the one thing I do hate is my own inability to do anything. I know what I need to do. I want to do it. I don't want to live the way I do. But no matter how strong the desire, I can't connect the processes in my brain to actually get me to DO it.
It's a journey, for me. Something that will take my entire life, and I will have good days and bad days. I just wanted to share my experience from bullying, and hopefully try to show you and others like you that it is a lifelong process and not something that someone will just "get over" and "be okay" now. I apologize if I am putting words in your mouth and speaking out of turn, and I freely admit I have no way of knowing if you meant that the way it sounded or if you meant it some other way. However, I know there are enough people in the world who DO think about it the way that it sounded that I felt like I had to say something.
Yes, the US barely has any bullies. And those who are “bullies” are not even that violent, tbh. And even outside of that, I haven’t seen any shuttles or anything. I’m really shocked
Bullying was really common in the US when I was a kid (I'm a Millenial so I can't say what it's like now) but the attacks were usually things like theft, spreading rumors to turn people against the victim, verbal abuse, and sexual harassment to "entertain" other students. It was also traumatic, but I do agree these violent cases from South Korea don't sound like "bullying" to me. Regardless of how old the perpetrators are and what their motivations are, this is physical assault and attempted murder. This shouldn't be in the same category as school kids stealing somebody else's chips or making fun of how someone dresses. This is much more serious and even though I don't think bullying as I think of it is ok, I also don't think it's a crime and I feel it's ok if it doesn't end up on permanent records because kids don't have fully developed brains and they can make mistakes. Burning the crap out of someone and scratching up her chest is not just a juvenile mistake though, that is a crime and it's a sign that the perpetrator has no empathy for other people, and the public needs to know for their safety.
I think I know why the punishments for the bullies are almost nonexistent. It’s because they want to have an image of “low crime rates”. That’s pretty much how a good number of countries get their “low crime rates”.
They don’t want any of these on record so that they have an image of being a civilized country.
I just can't believe The Glory's portrayal of bullying wasn't exaggerated. It should only remain as fiction but these dramas now make me wonder if most of their concepts are based from real life. My heart goes out to the victims and I sincerely hope that somewhere, they can find peace and not define themselves by what their bullies have done to them.
Trauma stays for life
I’ve been watching kdramas for close to a decade and at first I was like haha they’re so dramatic lol. But after watching the dramas and seeing documentaries and news I realize that it’s not all fiction
Things like bullying, political corruption corporate corruption. They’re real. Very real. The only thing that’s not is the victims most often don’t get justice. And definitely not righteous justice.
Before glory a lot of years ago in Japan was released the manga Life, later made a dorama more light that the manga, and the bullying in it made me sick in my stomach... It's seems the world has not changed and it got even worse
When i first saw that series, i taught it was so exaggerated... But it isn't. Wtf
i think what hurts the most is hearing that the 3rd victim is doing fine after being able to cope and living a good life just to then look up recent news from her and finding out that she tragically passed away from suicide is the most gut wrenching thing i couldve read... may she rest in peace and flourish wherever she is right now
Did she really pass away? I couldn’t find that info. Do you mind posting a link to that information? I didn’t know that listening to all this would make me feel relieved that the parts of my body that triggered bullies were not disfigured, though I endured gossip, being ostracized and psychological torture.
@@eagleeye6418
it wasn't the 3rd one that died but another girl that was also inspiration for the drama, her name was pyo yerim :(
@@wasa1415I just read an article about her, such a tragic case! 12 years of bullying through school and then even as an adult they continued by defaming her on a RUclips channel. South Korea government is really disappointing for a so called developed country.
Oh god, just when i thought i couldn't get any sadder from this story. That hits like a ton of bricks. :(
Not RUclips showing an ad for curling irons in the middle of the story about student 2's bullying...
Lol had l'ange straightener pop up too😂
This is why no company wants to have ads in videos like this with dark topics (yellow dolar), and RUclips which made this type of content, makes so much less money than RUclipsrs with “clean family content” (green solar). That's is why I try to buy from companies that make decisions to put their ad in some dark topic RUclips stuff because I appreciate that support for my favorite dark videos😄
When I visited elementary schools in Korea I learned that they DO NOT Discipline the children. Kids can interrupt and be inappropriate and the teachers are POWERLESS to even punish them for small things IN THEIR OWN CLASSROOM. I was SHOCKED. I told the teachers about how in the USA, we can put them in the hall, take away privileges, send home notes to parents, sent them to the principal. The teachers looked so excited like that sounded so damn dreamy to them.
are u dense ? Kids in America got no discipline either and turn into school shooters tf
That's insane
I pouted so hard that the teacher said "okay. I guess everyone will go play while (my name) sits at her desk.." Mind you, I chose to sit and pout 😂 then by the time I was out of my pout, the teacher said "you get 5 more minutes in here to finish your work that you didn't do THEN you can play" well... I didn't get to go out to recess sooooo I learned the hard way to do what is expected cause I'll still have to do it later and not get what I want 😂
Didn't they recently rule that teachers can't beat kids in class in Korea?
@@1kpennyxx238 the rule is in india too...but here even a slight verbal abuse could land you in trouble..even collages are restricted.
No, WE NEED TO EXPOSE HER. They all don’t deserve to live like a normal person. Shame them and expose them, they obviously don’t have any remorse
the assaulters name is Jeong Yu Mi, I wish she got morebacklash for what she did, because the crime happened 4 years ago and she got off scott free
@@yukilu602 Ikr it's soo fucking gruesome and they get away with it
My hands are Itching and restless i wanna fo the same to these bullies so bad!! What exactly will hit them to burst into tears of shame and regret for what they did
I don’t want to sound sadistic, but I think these monsters that completly ruined their life deserve to die alone and in terrible pain. I hope they’ll suffer in their afterlife. No human would ever behave like that.
@@yukilu602 that’s recent
When I came to Seattle from China I had a group of girls all the time picking on me. One day I finally got tired of the girl pulling my hair and I turned around and punched her in the face. I could not believe the reaction. The girl was on the floor crying like a baby at the sight of seeing her own nose bleed.
I have no respect for bullies. They are nothing but cowards that prey upon those they perceive are weaker than them.
Good on you! Schools nowadays don't do s*** because they're scared of getting sued nowadays. My parents taught me if I get bullied you have the right to fight back. But man you gave one girl and nose bleed. I know they didn't mess with you again.
I love that for you! Not everyone has that kind of courage, and I bet she left you alone
I kinda have the same experience lol. there is this one boy at class behind me during middle school who always play with my chair moving it like some kind of train/car. because he kept doing this I ended up punching his nose then he cried too😂 but our math teacher suddenly came in so I got nervous but he hid the fact he was crying and none of our seat mates snitched on me. i really thought for a moment I’ll be the one accused of bullying
Same situation, except I threw a school table at them.
You did the right thing...👏
I’ve been bullied very physically and mentally, bullying needs to come more to light. Thank you for this ❤
I hope that you're okay and living the best life possible!! ❤
I KNEW THE BULLIES WERE GONNA GO INTO NURSING my mom is a nurse and the stories she tells me... there is always some dumb drama going on. Their is something about that job occupation that attracts mean girls and bullies some of the nurses act like high school mean girls its so weird (we don't live in Korea BTW)
Edit: I posted this a year ago and just recently seen all the comments firstly my mom is not a bully.
Secondly, this comment was not meant to generalise all nurses hence why I used the word some. My mom is literally a nurse and worked through the pandemic so I know how hard it is for them, nurses deserve more appreciation for how hard they work without them no health care service would function and I have met so many sweet and kind nurses. My comment was just pointing out how the job seems to attract people who are bullies the job itself isn't bad it's just some of the people who seek out the job tend to have bad intentions and it's probably due to the good pay and how you are often dealing with very vulnerable people especially elderly/mentally ill/sick children
Is it because they had hurt other people and thinking that by being a nurse they can pay back the lingering guilt/conscience they had as they grew up by serving/saving other people instead?
Wait your mother is a bully ??
That was so dumb. 🤷🏻♀️
I definitely know what you mean. I've worked in nursing homes and sen woman be mean to the patients and most of them are in management and don't care when you report things. I had to stop working in them as didn't want to be associated with that kind of thing.
Psych research shows the top 3 career choices for those with psychopathic traits are, in order: Corporate CEO, Medicine, Law Enforcement. They go for roles that fill their need for power, status & control.
I'm South Korean. My parents decided to come to a foreign country to keep me and my sister safe. I was talking to my mother the other day about the 'bullying' in Korea. The term bullying is so light for the gruesome actions classified as 'bullying'. I feel safe and happy that I didn't have to potentially witness this. My mother also was bullied but luckily not to this extend.
wait.. in the last sentence, your mother was a bully? or was bullied?
@@leakim3861 My typo, She WAS bullied
Good thing u moved .
Here after , i didn't think , south korea is one of the safe country . Even torture among minors . I didn't thing this is torture and bullies .
This is totally abusing and crimes among schoolmates .
I'm American, but I understand why so many undocumented South Koreans with their families moved to America. The bullying is less intense here. Cause it's mostly verbal, and you're taught to fight back.
IN INDIAN SCHOOLS THERE IS NOT MUCH OF BULLYING, AND I AM FROM INDIA, THE SOUTH ASIAN COUNTRY. AND AS FOR THE LAST CASE WHERE THE PRODUCER OF THE DRAMA WAS HIMSELF A BULLY, WELL, ANY BOY OR MAN TEASING OR ILL-BEHAVING WITH A GIRL OR A WOMAN DESERVES TO BE BULLIED.
This isn’t bullying, this is torture. They don’t even do this shit to terrorists they need info from.
When you said they clamped a straightener on her arm for FIVE MINUTES, I gasped out loud. I’m shocked she had any soft tissue LEFT after that. Omg.
even waterboarding isn’t as bad as that my goodness…!
they do this in prisons like Guatemala and Abu ghraib to innocent people as well but your point stands its straight up torture
Jail. Her tries as adults. Throw their parents in jail too
My brother accidentally clamped a still hot straightener on my sisters forearm. I can’t even remember much from that time, but I know she still has the scar on both sides of her arm.
korean are crazy
I cannot speak more highly of Stephanie Soo. She’s so intelligent and animated, passionate, understanding, compassionate, perceptive, and a great storyteller.
I was bullied in elementary school, they didn't get in trouble for bullying but I got in trouble for defending myself; it got to the point that one day I just snapped and reacted violently, I grabbed my biggest textbook and started smacking her over the head, punching, kicking and basically anything nearby became a weapon....the only reason I snapped was not because of what they did to me but because they mentioned that they'd hurt my then baby sister (she is grown now, this was 10 years ago and 10 years ago, she was only 2years old) but my reaction of violence made her leave me alone, I am not for violence but I advocate it for self defense or defending someone you love. The parents of the bully tried to charge me for assault but the police dropped it and basically said I was defending myself. I beat her to the point where she needed stitches on her cheek, I basically ruined her face which she was so proud of before and I have no regret for what I did...she made the mistake of threatening to hurt my baby sister.
Yes, I'm proud of you she deserves it.
@@chucksglory7881 thank u
you don't need to have someone else threatened to defend yourself. Even if they didn't threaten your sister everyone would be on your side. Well done
Idc what others do to me. But even LOOK at my siblings wrong, your life is gonna be made hell. Good on you for keeping your sister safe. Respect.
You did the right thing.
In India , I remember getting bullied in 7th grade, I complained it to the class teacher and my class teacher beat the bullies so badly that they even didn’t think of bullying me again. Sometimes teachers can save you from bullying.
That’s the reason why bullying in school is so uncommon in India.
It's not "sometimes" - it's their job. Once I was so distressed from bullying I told my teacher and she would scold bullies so much they would actually live me alone. I'm not from Korea though, hearing this stories and to what degree adults don't care is infuriating... Everywhere around the world bullying exists. But the degree varies so much. In my country actually recently was a case, when physical bullying was caught on camera - girls were beating another girl. Luckily their "friend" broke apart a fight at some point. An because the video footage of it was leaked to press, society was infuriated at this incident. Everyone involved was arrested and faced charges.
I find that some teacher's are quite the bullies themselves. I've witnessed it and been a victim to...
and here in America it's a 50/50 toss-up on what the teacher will do. they'll either stop at nothing to help the student, or they'll tell them to suck it up, "man up" if it's a male student, ask a female student what she did to cause it, etc. i recoiled a bit when you said the teacher beat up the bullies, thinking about how angry i would be if a teacher assaulted my child. but then i realized if that happened, it would mean MY child WAS the bully, and that i have zero tolerance for. so if getting their ass beat by a teacher is what is needed to straighten them out, i think i might let it slide once and then take them to therapy to help them with whatever insecurity is causing them to bully in the first place
Bro what type of school were you in this stuff never happened to my school in india it's really great that your teacher was so attentive
I can relate to this very well, we have teachers always on duty to look after every student, even during luch break and teacher will always warn students about not doing such a thing and it's cons too. Though bullying does exisit like making fun but it never get to the physical level because of the constant monitoring of parents and teachers and them being involved so much in your school life
I can’t imagine bullying someone to such extent.. like how are these kids growing up? No empathy no humanity … Imagine thinking someone is sooo below you that you treat them like this like I can’t. I hope those who got bullied know that it is not your fault for getting bullied…they are just sick in their head in their soul. Your life is so much better than their pathetic ones
@maria th4 yes I watch alot of true crime channels and most have done vids on her..those ppl are just inhumane... just brutal...
And people still go "children aren't evil". Ya'll be serious?
theyre not bullies, theyre her abusers and criminlas. referring to them as bullies honestly seems to minimize their responsibility
Agree
It happens in America too! My son was filmed while using the restroom (CSAM) and the bully sent it to many other students. I withdrew him that day and thankfully in his new school he has had no problems. It starts with the parents.
i’m so sorry that happened to your son. thank you for pulling him out of that school.
Did you take any legal action againt those bullies?
You saved him from SO much danger.
Thank you for being assertive.
Just spreading awareness, call it CSAM Child Sexual Abuse Media instead of CP. I'm glad your son is safe and away from his bullies!
@@seroquelz just edited, thank you
How are kids younger than 14 or even 14 at all doing these disgusting acts??? How, where, who did they learn this from??? I’ll never wrap my head around how young someone can be and be able to commit such horrific crimes
Eight 13 year olds killed a man in sk and they didn't get any punishment. This is only least of the horrible crimes kids do in sk
although bullying is different here in western culture compared to south korea you be surprise how much kids can be mean towards to eachother.
It's mostly because of their upbringing with no love , care , discipline and negligence..And also the content they watch online , people they interact with can also be some other factors
@@D4CValentineI agree parents play a big role in this
@@mikks3733 not a big role i didn’t have the best parents well one parent and i also been diagnosed with disorders that are considered i’m danger to society but i would never kill anyone people when been hurt like me only do this because if they think that it ok to hurt other because they been hurt !!
Hi Stephanie, i was stumbling around the youtube about bullying case and found this.
anyway, i just want you to know that there was a bully turned murder case in Malaysia where the victim was burned by iron to death. the case was in 2017, and just last two days, all the perpetrators were finally sentenced to death. Malaysians were celebrating but it was so sad to thinking about the victim. this case was about Zulfarhan Osman, he was a student from UPNM a military university. at least, justice was prevailed.
Kim Hieora turned out to be a real-life bully. Guess they didn't check the casts enough, can't imagine how traumatic it was for her victim.
What!!!?? Really?
@@heyma004yes
I knew she played that junkie bully role way too well. It was the most realistic depiction of drug addiction I’ve ever seen in Korean media.
@@KIMSHAJINcan u explain
@NimzieCovers she admit to taking money from her but said she never physically harm them.
They need to drop the names. Those bullies have to lose their jobs and get rejected at every opportunity, be it looking for a partner, finding friends, or getting a new job. They don't deserve to live a careless and happy life. No, life should be a hell on earth for them.
Right? I genuinely DON'T understand why would you protect these MONSTERS image after what they did. I mean yeah the online backlash is bad but it is NOTHING compared to the damage society can receive from a person like this practicing professions that literally require taking CARE of another human and having love for humanity. South korean authorities are not only failing to the victims but they are also failing to their country.
Absolutely
@@tinamast6226what they did shouldn’t be ignored. No matter how long it’s been they still tortured an innocent girl and scarred her for LIFE.
@@tinamast6226 so if this ever happened to you just move on by saying " iT wAs 5 mIn AgO WhAt*
@@tinamast6226 STILL that doesn't make it any better??
The fact that those bullies entered the social work and nursing fields is very scary.....
exactly. Imo, they should be jailed for life in prison. No human deserves to see the outside world after doing such things.
and not surprising in the least
Well,People can change…some bullies become amazing therapists
@@Aestheticderp yeah well, still what they did is unforgivable.
There are some really horrible nurses.
As a parent i would be devastated and question my wrong turn to bring a person into the world to cause such pain, those bullies are sadists!
As a mental health worker who works with victims of trauma, my heart goes out to those victims. This trauma stays with them for their whole lives. Officials worrying about the bullies' futures? What about the victims' futures? This is such an atrocious level of injustice. I can only hope that with more awareness, there will be more accountability for change.
This feels so devastating , knowing we can’t do anything to give them the justice they truly deserve.
In most countries, laws change when minors commit henious crimes so that minors can be charged as adults. I think it's time Korea catch up to this and start punishing minors!
Exactly! These monsters behave like this because they already know they will get away with it. The fact that some of the bullies knew that by turning themselves in, will help their punishment be lenient.
@@Keeks492exactly crime is crime no matter who committed it
And their parents! They should spend life in prison and bully each other! They are demons!!!
nah korea is corrupted af. seems nice on the outside but its hell living there when ur just a normal citizen
Right, Why does the justice system try to protect the future of these monsters? they clearly don’t care about their own futures or they wouldn’t do heinous things
I was violently choked out by two boys in elementary school for no reason, people think im exaggerating when I say they were genuinely choking me and trying to stop me from breathing. The disgusting behavior people do that's seen as bullying is really disturbing, it should be seen as violent crime
They should go sterile.
so srry that happened to you :((
Those two boys r disgusting, I blame the parents, crazy kids...
just report them
They are kids😐
How are KIDS this evil and vicious. Hoping the bullying stops NOW, I wish I could be there. My heart hurts
It’s always the parents or the people they choose to hang out with
The sorrow I felt when listening to this episode was indescribable. I feel so sorry for everyone impacted and for the victims that never got the justice they deserved.
Agreed 😢
Honestly I think that the "seniority complex" is one of the things that contribute to these cases of bullying. Having a reason to believe that you have a certain amount of control and power over someone else is very toxic. It's disgusting.
That's probably it. While watching this, I kept wondering why bullying is so bad there.
Yess and I noticed that they have to have a lot of respect for a person who's just a year older than them, while it just seems ridiculous cuz young people are just expected to show respect without having them having to earn it. No wonder they have a huge seniority complex.
korea is obsessed with this 'seniority' shit
I still have the scar from when a curling iron fell on my arms years ago. That was only a few SECONDS. I can’t imagine the pain she must have felt from five MINUTES!!
SAMEEE I FKIN BURNED MYSELF. For a second and that scar IS STILL THERE. It killed me when she went thru that sht those bches need to be burned
Same here...
Samee literally just 1 second and i still got a scar from it. She's so strong for enduring hell. hope the bullies never get a job opportunity or any good opportunity in life.
@@dxvilxnat9073 I got a burn from an iron not even second I thought it’s just gonna hurt a little but it turn black after a few min when it’s just look a bit red
As someone who as a child was kidnappedand traumatized by other kids (me 7 bully group 12-15) i still cant go to places regularly and i always have the feeling of being followed.. that 9 yo girl brought so many memories, i feel for her so bad.. we need justice for abusive minors
the 9 year old case made me so sick. it’s so unbelievable. i can’t believe she has to grow up with that trauma permanently attached her while her assaulter gets to run around free without a care in the world. i feel awful for her family as well, knowing they can’t do anything. i hope they will be able to try for that criminal to get arrested once he gets over the age of 14. i hope that little girl and her family will be able to find peace.
I'm Brit.
I remember a decade and a half ago now (it was mid teens but after middle school) we had a school assembly after a week off break because Easter or whatever, but for some reason the headmaster brought up the news that an 11-y-o boy had done that to a 7-y-o and I hope she's OK. Hopefully all her cells have replaced themselves to get traces of him physically away from her, but why would someone that young know what to do-
Well that's an obvious answer, doesn't make me pity him -
Because why would he DARE do it to someone else??
I can only assume he's got that same trauma, doesn't mean you should copy it!! Even if the 'good result' is someone twigs on something is very wrong in the first place and gets the boy help.
I’m sure the prosecutors in these cases were likely bullies themselves as children. Evil people usually go for powerful jobs.
Interesting theory. I've heard it say about police before but you are probably correct.
like DOJ of US. oh! and kamala harris. her super bulling is beyond imagination. this is not a conspiracy.
I was thinking the same thing.. if the prosecutors don’t even care, they are probably empathizing with the little sociopathic psychopaths running around burning random students with irons or setting them on fire
Probably
Not surprised
I genuinely cried watching this, all these cases are horrible, straight up DISGUSTING, these people dont deserve to be called human. this shouldn't be labeled as bullying, this is straight up torture, NOT bullying at all.
Honestly.. in my opinion the law should’t even be age based, they should change the law and base it on how bad the crimes are. It should’t matter wether they are seniors or minors it should all be about the levels of crime they commited.
Amen
Tbf if a toddler plays with a lighter and accidentally sets his mom on fire, you can't blame it. It literally doesn't know the dangers or understand the consequences. You can't charge a toddler and send it to jail for gross negligence. There has to be some age barrier. Though I do agree that it should be lowered significantly.
@@essandera9499 maybe from age 8 or 10
@@essandera9499 it’s called incident or accident beside it’s a baby it’s common sense that you don’t charge it for crime’s
@@Mush_strawberry law dont use common sense you can prove anybody wrong no matter how right they are by providing proofs , for example if you are being bullied but only mentally not physically and one day you decide to beat the bully you are the one going to jail but we all know its bullies fault but court dont see that , in their eyes you assaulted a person who just verbally abused you and you committed greater crimes
The fact that nobody stood up for these bullying victims and all these bullies get to have their happy ending is just-
I think the fact that other students won't stood up for bullying is because they might become the next candidate for bullying
@@basugunja tf are you talking about?? Next time before spamming same comments everywhere atleast give a read 🤣
@@D4CValentine I am not saying anything bad. And before typing my statements, I have read the comments; it is just that I want people to know the basic things.
@@basugunja But my comment didn't implied that I don't know basic things 🤔 And why do you have to bring our country into this ?? So stop spamming stupidity and reply to those who don't know shit 😌
💯 FACTS
Bullying is picking on people, spreading gossip about them, maybe pushing them lightly. These are, as some of the "bullies" put it themselves, attempted murders. How can this be called bullying? Honestly I'd be re-victimized by this alone. It's like calling war a "disagreement".
Full-blown psychopaths .
Stop using an actual disorder as a insult/ adjective@@outofthedarknessandintothe1538
Exactly! Just posted the same thing. Let’s call it what it is so that we can change things. Otherwise it seems too benign
@@nubuju631 bullying isn't really benign though. lots of bullying involves physical and sexual assault and is known to cause PTSD/CPTSD. it refers just to a pattern of abuse by peers, not really the actual physical actions they take
@@hunterv9259 no you’re right. Bullying is destructive and traumatizing. It is NOT benign. But assault and mutilation and attempted murder are straight up criminal offenses and need to be discussed and treated as such. Both are bad but a distinction in levels can help society identify and deal with said crimes.
I was bullied in highschool, 2nd year. I'm the smallest in the classroom. I'm very thin, that's why they love to pick on me. I never fight back, i just sat and talk to my friends. But one time, there's this girl, she's insisting me to fight her. I'm just silent. She walks over to me and slap me and then back to her seat. I dont know what came over me, i walk over to her and slam her head onto the desk. I'm pulling her hair so hard, i scratched her face, 5 boys are holding me to let her go but I didnt. I just saw black. I slammed her head 3x, i was standing and she is just sitting. One of the boys lifted me so i kicked her in the stomach and pulled her hair even more. After that I let go and cried at my seat. She drop out, she never came to school the next day. From that day on, no one bully me again.
you slayy girl, subscribing ✅
i almost hit my bullies with a chair thats how fed up i was
omg, she deserves that but did she like pass??
Am so proud of you❤
i stand behind every bullied individual that decides to go down the "girl from nowhere" route and take life-destroying revenge. Don't tell me "violence isnt the answer" when the question was already violence. life altering, permanent violence.
thank you!!! stuff like that stays with you for life, you have every right to get justice in whatever form suits you
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You could only talk in language that bullies understand....
@@nurlindafsihotang49 those bches need karma that’s gonna come from me idc
Best comment . Those bully bches deserve hell
And the most horrifying truth in this is that the perpetrator/bullies dont even think that they did something wrong.
In this moment not, but often later, when they get older.
@@cary9479 idk, maybe it pedends on the person, not everyone will age with maturity.
They always play the victim and make excuses like family issues or bullshit.
Literally. Around 6~8 years ago, I had an encounter with one of my bullies. She wasn't a big one, but was an annoying one indeed, she would often call me names, make nasty lies about me and make other people physically assault me twice. You think they will forget about you when they grow up? She bullied me when I was around 10, and the reencounter was when we where 18~19. She was with her friends while I was waiting for my BF to get out of the toilet, and she just casually walked to me and called me, by my _full name._ I saw her face and had all the flashbacks when she annoyed the heck outa me, so I kept playing my game on my phone like it wasn't with me, and it gave me the shivers that she did recognize me even after all those years, with my hair with different color and length, and also with me wearing makeup, and remember my name, my friggin ass long name, _and_ the way its pronounced, because it is a pretty weird name indeed! What a psycho.
She kept calling to me like she was _sure_ I was whoever she was calling to, and with this weird smile on her face, rosy cheeks and all, like I was some good memory to remember. I just looked at her after the 7th call, and told her "pardon? I don't know who you're talking to. My name is _insert very common name here."_ She backed a little like she was unsure, and decided to wait on the corner with some of her friends while observing me. When my BF came I just walked away, but man, I don't want to see this psycho no more in my life.
And if you think this didn't affect me, this did. I refuse to get out of home now~ School is a cursed place, I'm permanently stained with bad luck thanks to it.
For student 4, what pisses me off most is, THEY'RE ADULTS. You can't use the bull-ish "they're just children" mentality. They should've been thrown in jail, for twenty years, for attempted murder. It's absolutely disgusting. I pray all of these victims are able to overcome their attacks and live full, happy lives. They deserve it.
Edit: As for the producer? His apology might have seen as more genuine if he didn't lie about the incident. How sorry can he be if he lied to save himself some engagement.
yes i was thinking the same thing
like for student 4 why they didn't went to jail n for the producer like really dude u first lied then tried to apologize...................... the audacity
Me n my best friend were also bullied in high school but this cases r horrible n i can't say horrible can really be the word to describe it.
My exact thought !! How could they let it slide? Whats you’re excuse? How cruel.
Not even life in jail would be enough justice for ruining this poor girl’s life and body
I very rarely cry when hearing cases but omg this had me balling. I was bullied in school (not to this extreme extent of violence) and it breaks my heart thinking about these kids and what they had to go through at such a young age from their own peers. Absolutely and utterly gut wrenching. I am so sorry to all of them. The emotional scars are life long and nobody deserves that.
in my school a kid tried to commit suicide because he was bullied, i kinda knew him and he was a sweet kid. the school tried to play it off by saying it was home problems, the bullies are still in school, didn't get any detention or disciplinary actions against them, one of them are now even prefects. It really makes me sad and angry that the school would go to extents to make their school seem perfect. they even told him he can't come back to the school after he attempted suicide.
How we supposed to not feel alone and not being scared when this how the people around us will act
You all can help victims like this. We live in the era of technology. Video anything that happens to the victims. That is the most powerful tool to fight against schools, bullies, parents that try to cover up an assault. Y'all can literally send them to all newspapers and news channels, news net pages. There are even lawyers who do pro bono. Don't keep quiet and don't let them get away with it.
Most of the problem is the school & their system at first.
Drop the school name, bullies names, all their social media (school and bullies), school adress, everything that you can about the bullies and how the school managed the situation
Speak up. Violence grows in fear and silence. People turning the other side allows them to get away with it.
What makes my stomach drop is that some people believe The Glory, a series that literally depicts bullying for how it is, is overexaggerating the severity of bullying in South Korea. My teacher, for example, told us to write an essay. One topic was school violence in Korea and whether or not we think the media is overexaggerating. I, of course, said no and had The Glory and other posts and articles as one of my evidence. Yet my teacher still said, "I feel as though The Glory is an exaggeration. The actors were very dramatic. Also, you don't have to be burnt with a curling iron just to be classified as a victim of school violence." The first part, I don't agree with (because this video legit proves that similar things have happened in real life.) And the second part, sure, anything can be considered school violence. But I was just explaining that things can get this bad in South Korea. It's sad and heartbreaking that many people still believe that this type of bullying doesn't exist in countries like South Korea when many streets and hallways of schools here are filled with this kind of violence.
oh they know, they just like to pretend is not a big deal, Korean culture is really about appariences, to a sickening degree
Maybe s.k adult scared to face the reality of their future kids will be & giving hopes that their kids will be safe & happy growing
so you live in korea? 한꾺말함해뽜
@@propertymanager9149 네네 한국에서 살아요👍
Lmaoooooooooo google translate go crazy
about the healthcare worker thing: nursing is commonly referred to as being the profession high school bullies and mean girls go into lol. it's good for them because it gives them power over people they know cannot fight back (sick, dying, elderly, and mentally and physically disabled people) and gives them protections against pretty much any kind of legal repercussions
These aren’t bullies these are literally criminals
Nationally sanctioned since they get away with it
Not the system failing
A flawed system working as they intended it too.
If it isn't changed their actions are condoned by the country they live in.
This is absolutely something that needs to reflect poorly on these countries or their politicians will continue doing nothing about it. Sad as it is.
Tolerance is sitting by and letting your child get assaulted and just accepting it. That's what tolerance gets you.
Psychopathic children you mean.
Oh BTW, the actress Kim Heiora who played the junkie bully Sara, was also a bully in her school time. She was the part of a huge "mean girls" group and her story is going viral these days.
actually everybody who goes viral is a bully in sk
I'm not surprised she landed her role
@@soobinlove4417 that's false
This makes it really stupid for her to take the role then. She would have a way higher chance of being exposed and criticized.
that’s false
I was physically assaulted in high school because I politely asked a girl to stop touching my neck, as it made me uncomfortable. I ended up being told by staff (after my friends broke up the fight) that I "should have known better", because I fought back to defend myself. None of my bullies from over the years ever got any punishment either. I'm from New Zealand. It's so heartbreaking to hear these brutal, cold-hearted cases and the complete lack of consequences. So disheartening. 💔
You are stronger and a better person than those people including the adults. Don't worry they will get what they deserve even if it's not by law. The earth is round karma is waving.
@@seyerfamtv Thank you so much for your kind words; that is such a thoughtful comment! I'm starting to see karma coming around to certain people who have abused me in the past, so I believe it! I hope you're happy and healthy! 💕
ALWAYS fight back. Please. I never fought back and it eats away at you. If I had ATLEAST fought back I could have something to be proud of and make them work for it.
Oh my god what school was this? I'm also from New Zealand. I can't believe the student/s and staff acted like that.
@@novah1033 Kuranui College in Greytown, Wairarapa. The girl ended up seeing some scars on my arms a few weeks later and trying to act like my best friend. I couldn't believe the audacity, honestly. There was a lot that went on at that school that a blind eye was always turned to, from staff and students alike. Some of us tried to speak up, but nothing was ever done, or at least not until several years after we graduated.
There is a saying in Turkish "insan 7sinde neyse 70inde de odur" meaning "What you are at 7 years old is what you are at 70" it means your personality is already being shaped by then and you are aware of your surroundings and you can start to decide. By 12-13-14 you MUST be able to be held responsible for your actions like adults. These girls fully knew what they were doing and it is no "little mistake" or "just one small problem" it is torture and even a 7 years old would know "curling iron hot, must not touch people with it" There is nothing and I mean nothing that can make burning some one with curling iron more than once "a mistake" This kind of "juvenile" cases should be seperate than other juvenile cases. There is a different between stealing and torture, there is a difference between killing some one during self defense and dismembering a body. I think they shouldn't be judged under juvenile laws.
I was "mildly" bullied during middle school and it fucked up my self-esteem so bad I still feel the consequences of it a decade later. I can't even imagine how much pain and suffering these victims had to go through. May the bullies receive 10 times worse what they did to others.
I feel u sis I was bullied too in high school the feeling of being bullied is really lonely and that might be efecting later on too
I feel you...I was mildly bullied too. I hope you are better now
Just remember people who inflict violence on others are automatically wrong.
There's nothing validating about their actions in groups.
But I'm sure it's a psychological effect when you're mobbed.
In America most bullying are mean texts, rumors, and insulting your appearance. This is on another level. The victims are literally murdered. Im not trying to invalidate mild bullying though, its just interesting to see the difference between countries.
As a victim of bullying, this isn’t just bullying this is ABUSE and A CRIME. When I watched the glory I remember having panic attacks even when I skipped the bullying scenes. Just imagining this is not just real, but probably worse just makes me want to vomit… I hope the victim is okay..
I’m sorry for what you went through. I hope you have a good life now. It never was your fault ❤❤❤
I agree this is more than bullying how can people even think about doing this to someone. I could not watch the glory for the violence I can’t stomach violence really. I hope SKorea really treat this seriously and help the victims and make sure to rehabilitate the bullies or these monsters
@@nubuju631 thank you so much for this message, it really made my day, I want to genuinely hope you have a wonderful day / night
Bullies are so afraid when you fight back. I had this group of 8 girls always picking on me when I was in secondary school for months then one day I let the main girl that was always on my case have it. She never bothered me again! That’s when I realized that bullies always pick on people they think are weak. They are like vampires feeding of your soul. Korean bullying is next level.
Same this happened with me I just fight with 3 together like hulk. I don't know where I got that much power to fight even class got surprised 😂.
@@infinitebeing1119 probably from being fed up. I know I was, but what gave me more strength was my father telling me to fight back. He told me never to start it but to finish it.
Idk I feel like in a kdrama if the victim tried to fight back like you did, the bully would just come back harder.
Well it looks like in korea the bullies are all children of some high positions people. So that's why they don't get any punishment. But if a victim fights back the victims surly will be expelled or even sentenced. Looks like a world where the villains always win, they buy their freedom and also buy the victim's freedom so the victim can become culprit if they want to.
@@ducksama8448 yeah they always do that in a group. If you take them on one by one and show them you aren’t afraid of them they lose control. Bullies love that fear they get of their victim, the moment the fear is gone they lose. Trust me.
Bullying??? Is murder just harassment then?? 😭
How dead brained can a judge be, those girls committed assult and torture multible times and got a fraction of what they should have gotten.
I bet he'd sing a different song if that was HIS daughter.
The fact that student 9 got 6 years in prison without even doing anything meanwhile all these bullies got away with everything they did just infuriates me so damn much!
i feel for him and i just cant believe the mom called the cops first instead of talking with her own child.idk , this whole ep just made me even more firm on not wanting kids. i would kill to keep my kid safe from sht like this// i wish the best of happiness to people like 1-9
@@susienight6118 and the fact that his mom was a teacher in the same school as him
@@MAWMAWNAILZ seriously!?
@@MAWMAWNAILZ I’m sure they must have threaten the mom, that’s how Korean people do
This!!! How are the other abusers actively sadistically torturing & SA-ing the victims and get slaps on the wrists, and a victim plotting revenge gets sentenced to jail time??? Make it make sense smh
I'm only 5 mins in and I'm sick to my stomach. A naive part of me hoped that the bullying in the show was exaggerated, but knowing stories like this were real and the police did NOTHING when victims approached them... absolutely heartbreaking. Thank you for shedding light on these devastating stories and respecting the privacy of the victims. This isn't "bullying". It's serious.
Dude korean police are absolutely USELESS, just look up the Burning Sun scandal, useless or corrupt
Same here..I can't continue listening..too scared to hear, as if I can feel the pain
the way the kdrama is almost less violent...... sickening
I'm glad someone is finally addressing this problem i went through 1 year of bullying and it was pure torture thank you for addressing this problem 😔😥
The Glory was a definite eye opener. I never, not for one bit, thought of this show as based on true to life events until I saw the articles that explained the basis for the drama, and up until now, it sends shivers down my spine. The audacity of what the two bullies took as a career path, healthcare workers, unnerves me because how is this justice? This is so disheartening. 💔
The irony of inflicting pain with hair straighteners and then helping people in need is just sickening.
These bullies are more akin to budding serial killers. They sound like they lack any empathy or basic human emotions and their behaviors are massive red flags.
the difference with your stories is that you have so much empathy and compassion when you tell them. Other podcasters will literally talk about a girl being s/a and laugh in the same sentence. so thank you
I've noticed the same, I can't listen to those who are so happy-go-lucky while telling those stories. I too appreciate her approach
Sometimes laughing isn’t someone not taking something seriously though, often it’s someone’s stress response. Ik I laugh if I hear or say something absurd or incredibly horrifying. I mean I didn’t watch whatever Podcaster you happened to watch but keep in mind people have very different responses to trauma and generally uncomfortable subject matter
@@Giruga905 nah they’re mentally sick. If the bches has the same treatment they’d be crying
@@Giruga905 Nah I agree with you. Like some of these stories I actually “laughed/scoffed/chuckled” about because I can’t imagine people could even do something like this. It’s so horrific and terrible, it’s unbelievable and I feel like it’s can’t be real, no way, it’s just a story, just some made up drama. But once those feelings of disbelief reside and I see it as a real story, I get angry or sad like any other person.
@@Giruga905 that is true, and irl you cannot always control your reactions but when it’s prerecorded you have the opportunity to edit it out and you should
15:08 but the irony is that the director himself was accused of school bullying, causing physical harm, which he subsequently admitted
If you are being threatened, do not leave anywhere public to go with them. Make a scene. It may be embarrassing but could save your life. People that intend to cause harm to you do not want other people to know.
Depends on the surrounding society. Especially in Korea, people like to mind their business. I doubt the victim even wanted to make a scene that is too much of a “no no” in their culture.
It isn't your fault that the bystander effect is real
But do everything in your power to ensure those who are standing by doing nothing that they're doing the wrong thing.
As someone who was bullied for 3 years straight as a kid in a small community ( In Canada, I am also Canadian ) couldn't just do this., they would have multiple ppl at my door everyday, with them saying they wanted to play, but it was mostly them pushing me around, saying I would never catch them in " tag " which they'd rig, bc they would then verbally assault me, and you can't make a scene, it's too small of a place, and I didnt wanna disturb my parents, at the time, you barely even realize it's bullying/ assault, until its already happening, everytime id eventually leave after the few hours of being verbally assaulted, while I walked or biked away, have had rocks thrown at me, big rocks, and I had many scenarios involving similar, but I had to leave or theyd keep verbally assaulting me, and pushing me around, I couldn't fight back, I was too young, nice, and they were older kids., I was naive, and the main guy had bad anger issues, It got to the point where just before I moved, at the end of my 3 years, he punched me into a black eye, and I couldnt fight back.. I've moved, but my self esteem and self Worth is low, I've contemplated suicide a few times now, and I just can't escape the feeling of being unloved for me, not the mask I feel required to put on to fit in.. I'm trying my best, I've even started working out semi inactively recently.. it's very hard to talk abt bc most can't imagine the feeling, tbh I can't even.. maybe it was some sort of self defense, but I never cried while getting punched, I must've repressed my feelings lots, bc I can't even remember how the fist felt hitting my face anymore, but I woke up and my parents asked me if I was alright, well ofc it was the black eye i never knew I had until the day after.. sorry for the scrambled story, it's hard to recall everything, this started when I was like.. early 10 yo, until I was late 12 yo, early 13 yo. I'm now almost 16, I've been forced to repress my emotions, and learn how to cope by gaining knowledge/ skills, but now I'm too mature for my age group, and it's even harder to find love, and I still get made fun of after moving far away, I still get name called, even been sexually assaulted multiple times, bc as a guy, it's somehow " normal ", and also during those 3 years, I was groomed, I never fell for their trap, luckily, but they asked me, when I was too young to know abt s_x if id do it with them, they were an older female friend.. 3 times in 1 year, when I was 11 I believe. Luckily, again, I never said yes, but I believe it to still be an attempt at grooming, I've had ppl threaten to kill me, even chase me with a broken glass bottle, used to have kids kick my bike, and the Older ones would name call, I only had like.. 2 true friends, one was a bit far, the other also bullied me for a year, ofc he had good reason, we are still friends, me and the 2 true friends, i mean. That bully of mine is now into drugs I hear. Surprise, surprise. Either way, not so easy to make any commotion, when that's what kids our age do anyways. And I couldn't worry my parents... I was too young, too naive. And I'm still young, the one thing I want, is to just be a kid. And even tho I am a kid, the one thing I can't seem to do is be a kid, I have Adult responsibilities bc I'm more mature., so I'm forced into more, I even have insomnia now, yet I'm told to do more than my sister, who's also older, btw., this is just life, sadly it's hard not to feel lonely, or truly loved.
Sorry for my word wall, being that was an old post you made, so hard to not spill my life story on these bullying posts
Also I didn't say this, but if I didn't answer, they'd just bang harder, kitchen was right beside the door into my house, so my parents made me answer so they'd shut up, if I told them I wouldn't leave that day, they'd say, " yeah, we can't expect your fat ass to go outside more than twice a week, huh? Trash.", or some variation, and being young and naive, it made me feel like I needed their validation, so I would go out inevitably, to be bullied again. The school did nothing, until It got so bad I even started bullying for a month or two. And ofc only when I started bullying so I then wouldn't be bullied, would the teachers make me write sentence long apologies to the one kid I lightly bullied, I regret Bullying the kid, but I was so nice, I barely said any offensive words. Just did it so I'd stop being abused and hurt in class and outside., and yet I got in trouble for it.... my parents had to call the principal like, 4 times, for me and my sister, and they'd just ignore the issues. The principal and teachers allowed, and watched me get bullied, my bike kicked, my body shamed.. I wasn't even that big.. really hard to feel not fat and shamed when still, I get made fun of for liking certain games, liking anime, etc. I can't even enjoy what let's me escape what I feel is a personal hell, and this is only 3 years of my now nearly 16 years of life, and issues.
I watched the victim's interview when she said she'll move on and keep living happily I cried. I honestly can't imagine coming back from that. If I ever saw my highschool bullies I'd do what dongeun did if I could.
Video taping the bullying is also a way to publicly humiliat the victim.
I was severely bullied growing up through middle school as well and anytime I told an adult their first response was to ask "what had I done" to make them bully me. My parents, teachers and other adults all seemed to think I was making a big deal and that "being bullied" was a natural character building part of life. There was never action taken against the bullies but the school would punish *me* for being a "troublemaker" and causing drama by being assaulted. I was told by the principal that for "my safety" I should change schools because "I was bringing out the worst on my bullies". I'm from Brazil.
This is the mentality of schools. Refusal to help the victim.
I completely understand your experience despite being from a different country. I dislike the term bullying because people think it’s synonymous to teasing when it actually means abuse. Bullying doesn’t happen because the victim did anything wrong, but because the perpetrators are looking for someone to take out their anger on. What makes it worse is that many bullies are extremely manipulative, so classmates, friends, teachers, and parents will often gaslight the victim for speaking out. I have zero sympathy for bullies regardless of their past or age. Nothing is redeemable about hurting innocent people. If the bully was a child, I don’t care. When I was bullied, I was a child too. I never got to experience a proper childhood or grow into a healthy adult because of what they did. Do children not deserve justice?
I know you must be a beautiful and strong person. I wish you the best.
Que horror. Toda vez que ouço sobre casos como esse, eu não me reconheço pelo meu jeito de pensar. Sou bem calma e geralmente contra violência, mas não aguento ouvir histórias como a sua e as que foram contadas nesse vídeo. Se isso acontecesse com meu filho.a, amigo.a ou alguém que conheço, eu iria caçar a pessoa responsável. Não vou dizer exatamente o que faria, mas dá pra imaginar.
Cara, realmente, que horror. Espero que você está indo bem.
I had a similar experience being an immigrant in the UK. Going through severe bullying only to hear that it's because I don't try hard enough to fit in. I really wanted to and tried as hard as I could as a kid, but I was never given a chance. I always wonder how bullies live with it when they are adults now, it makes me sick.
i really thought the bullying in _Glory_ was exaggerated for entertainment. would've never guessed it was based on real events let alone that those events were as severe + gruesome as portrayed in the series.
this was CRUSHING + so difficult to hear. 🥺
so much love + power to those students. 🖤✊🏾
Unfortunately, reality is always worse than in the books or movies. Cus someone actually had to write and act it out and keep an audience engaged.
I saw it as realistic because people are inhuman, sick and twisted
A man in Nicholasville KY attempted to poison my sister. When that did not work, he tried to kill her with a hammer. She managed to escape and get to a neighbors. She had a crushed section to her skull and a crushed throat. It took her months to recover physically. She has never recovered mentally- suffers PTSD- and has seizures due to it as well.
What happened? She was told she could not press charges beyond "domestic violence" because she lived in the same house. Because the house was his- SHE had to move, not him. In the end he got an ankle monitor and told not to do it again. A man in his 30s-40s got 6 months probation with monitoring.....
This kind of stuff is everywhere. It doesn't stop in school. It continues to adults. It is ridiculous- if you have financial status in your area- you can do whatever you want it seems.
People care less if you're a woman too. I'm not trying to say men don't deserve attention, just that women need more help with "DV"
I'm so sorry your sister has suffered. I don't understand the court system. When I went up against my ex, who literally abused me for 3 years and finally left me for dead, the court sentenced him to 10 years, and he was let out in 5. Domestic violence and vicious rape. HIS defense attorneys tried to intimidate me when asked to go to their office for a meeting. Luckily, I recorded our conversation on my phone, not to mention the jail sent me opened envelopes with the letters missing. The lutieneant had to collect the letters and gave them to the DA. It took me 15 years to get back to "normal." All that, plus my giving birth to my youngest daughter fighting cancer. Through the grace of God, I survived and finally found peace. I will keep your sister in prayers. Sending her much love and blessings for healing. ❤
Tbh I was a bully victim and had I not changed schools, I would've been brutally bullied just like this and it scares me how bad people can be.
I was beaten up, and they cut my hair and b*rnt my wrists (I used to SH and they used to hit those fresh wounds) and it was just awful, my mind can only comprehend what they must've gone thought, my heart goes out of all of the victims, I hope they are happier now
aww i’m so sorry that happened to you : (
Im so sorry for you i had a friend who got bullied and I’m happy i stood up for them
Damn I never understood why K-netizens got so intense about idols having school bullying scandals, but I totally get it now. I feel like a lot of other international fans would also feel this way if they realized what Korean school bullying actually implies. Even if these are extreme cases, relative to basically attempted murder, a "minor" instance that isn't deemed newsworthy is probably still pretty severe. This is straight up physical and psychological torture. Clearly the word bully has a much more serious connotation in Korea than in other countries. Especially in the US where we have constant school shootings instead because we are the Florida of the world and live in a dystopian hellscape.
Also the Korean government is really saving face with this internationally. I'm a comparative politics major in college and last year I wrote an entire research paper comparing and contrasting the reasons why Japan and South Korea have the highest suicide rates in the developed world. I spent a solid 4 months on research and was only allowed to use sources accessed through research databases and there was literally almost nothing about this stuff.
@@athenabonney3909 Very interesting, would like to read and also know if you got the sources you needed (elsewhere).
IN INDIAN SCHOOLS THERE IS NOT MUCH OF BULLYING, AND I AM FROM INDIA, THE SOUTH ASIAN COUNTRY. AND AS FOR THE LAST CASE WHERE THE PRODUCER OF THE DRAMA WAS HIMSELF A BULLY, WELL, ANY BOY OR MAN TEASING OR ILL-BEHAVING WITH A GIRL OR A WOMAN DESERVES TO BE BULLIED.
@@athenabonney3909IN INDIAN SCHOOLS THERE IS NOT MUCH OF BULLYING, AND I AM FROM INDIA, THE SOUTH ASIAN COUNTRY. AND AS FOR THE LAST CASE WHERE THE PRODUCER OF THE DRAMA WAS HIMSELF A BULLY, WELL, ANY BOY OR MAN TEASING OR ILL-BEHAVING WITH A GIRL OR A WOMAN DESERVES TO BE BULLIED.
No one deserves to be bullied. That's a bully's mentality saying "they should be bullied becaude they deserve it"
As a child who was bullied horribly, i couldn't understand why my parents were so angry at what was happening to me, i feared embarrassment even from them telling the school what was happening to me but hearing these stories I completely understand. It doesn't matter that they're children those monstrous actions turn them into monstrous adults and they should be punished to the fullest extent for the harm and trauma they cause other children.
a lot of times teachers would get angry with me for going to them about being bullied in elementary school. even when my mom took it to the principal he was just like “well maybe if they weren’t such a crybaby they wouldn’t be bullied so much.”
I'm so sorry you had to go through this ❤🙏🏻 hope you're doing better
The South Korean police and the justice system are so double standard is actually ridiculous how the bullies barley get any consequences of their actions meanwhile the victims are left traumatized for life I thought the police and justice system protects and gets justice for these victims but I guess not
This was happen long time ago. back then Korea were very poor country and Manny people were uneducated and many parents are ignorant .
Uk i used to think my contry justice system was bad, the more i learn about sk criminal cases the more i realize its not THAT bad at least.
This is why victims choose to stay silent or take their own lives because telling adult like police,teacher or their parents won't do much and it will only get worse for them. Up until this day, bullying is still the main reason most koreans commit suic*de. They are not scared of adults anymore. Korea is not as flowery like we see in Kdramas. It's hell wrapped as heaven.
There are a lot more cases like this in s.k..i think if china attack s.k. im one of the peole,( if there are)would be happy about it..i would not feel pity to them..and more fact, there are lot more evil going on their like s.k.people are the children of devil himself..seriously!!!
South Korea is a pretty backward society. They advanced too fast that their legal system, their culture, their men’s mentality and their old generation is basically very outdated and questionable compared to most countries except countries that notoriously abuse women today like in Afghanistan, ect.
This kind of bullying shit wanted to start on me when I was in high school, and I didn't stay silent. In my family, they always taught me not to get into fights but to stand strong for myself, and my mom would beat me if she heard that I was bullied by someone and didn't react. One day, the bullying got to the point that I didn't give a shit anymore about getting quicked out of the school, I got into massive fights with the bullies (boys and girls) and I told them it was either they kill me or I kill them. I told them my mom didn't suffer to pay my school fees for a random girl or guy to shit on my head. I got punished both at school and at home, but in front of my teachers, my family kept defending me no matter what.
This is how I want to raise my future kids, we don't fight and give importance to bullies, but if it starts going far and the teachers and all who are supposed to protect you at school are not doing anything, defend yourselves and we'll talk about the rest at home.
Why are students so cruel in South Korea? I mean, cruel people or students exist everywhere but no one goes to this extent of cruelty just because she picked up a phone call. It's so stupid and petty to do that for her plus wrong to bully her when she had done no harm to them.
probably bc they know nothing will happen to them as a result
@katz ★ well I take it you're not a bad or deranged person. These people are and their bad habits are fostered and encouraged with the knowledge that they won't get punished. So they take it to the max
A lot of it is classism
@@V4mpirelvrs idk if you've seen all of us are dead but what you just said reminds me of one of the characters on that show and how she viewed another character and what she did to him as a result of that. I'd say more but I wouldn't wanna spoil it for anyone
Because hierarchy defines your entire life in Korean society. This is reflected even in the language. Bullying is just a symptom of a larger problem rooted in traditional social relationships. In general, bullying among minors is a common thing in any country.
I don’t know what the situation is in a place where you live, but in my country 55% of students expirienced some form of bullying. And believe me, there are some shocking stories of rape, broken ribs and limbs. No one just made a dorama about these stories.
bullying as a whole is just… horrible. whenever i’d see someone getting bullied at my school i’d try my hardest to defend the victim or interrupt the bullies and set the victim free. i cannot tolerate bullying at all and this story is just so heart breaking.
I agree but it’s also then putting a target on your own back, so the reason a lot of people don’t stand up is because they don’t want to be the next victim. It’s sad…I bet a lot of those children feel helpless
you're doing great ❤❤❤
My hero 😅🤩
I feel bad but you gotta fight to survive. U will become the next target if u do that
"I think these bullies should at least get exactly what they did to the victims"
I agree with him....I totally agree. I want this in law. Eye for an eye. Blood for blood
I’m not picking up a phone call again
My abuser from when I was younger was originally going into nursing but now is training to be a cop because of course she is. I had a really hard time watching the show myself. I feel for every victim this show pulled inspiration from and everyone who has gone through or is going through this.
As a Mongolian going to study at korea, it makes me shiver what a kid can do that is equivalent to literal torturing and almost murder students like this
Be strong buddy, I hope you'll do fine there .
Be safe and careful, South Korea can be very rough for fellow Asians who "aren't them"
In countries where saving face is extremely important, foreigners can use this to their advantage. Be confident and unabashedly foreign. Make a fuss if you ever feel threatened. Most of their power comes from being able to blackmail you with loss of face, but if your response to that is "bring it on", then they're the ones who lose face from challenging someone who plays by different cultural rules.
be safe, and don't trust people haphazardly, buddy!
please be safe and if u need anyone to talk to we are all here for u. ♥️♥️
those “bullies” can not be called human beings. they’re DEMONS
I’m glad I watched this before “The Glory.” I was bullied in elementary school, I think this series might make my PTSD (I served 2 combat tours for the US Army) go off the charts. So sad hearing of no consequences. In America a couple of those cases would have put the bullies in Juvenile Detention, or even adult prison, for years. But America has a “school shooting” problem that is just out of control. 😢
This one is really scary. My heart is for the kids.
being someone who was followed home, thrown rocks at, and had slurs constantly screamed at me, I'm so glad to see people bringing more attention to bullying
I hope your okay and those who did that will definitely burn in hell
@@_stillborn when combined with physical assault, it definitely means something. people like you who negate the bullying others experienced are the reason people don't take it seriously. sorry I wasn't bullied enough for you
@@_stillborn Just your sentence alone was enough to strike up a conversation, and they’re enough to make someone mad as well. If words really don’t mean a thing, then when your parents called you a failure did you sit there and smile?
@@vilet5257 I wouldn't smile if such a thing happened, but I wouldn't cry either, since I know better. Words don't mean anything on their own. There's the meaning that each person gives them, but it ultimately doesn't mean anything to you, unless you decide to give those words some kind of value. Same goes for everyone else. If you feel upset by something its your responsibility, not the person's who said it, words only hurt you if you let them. People choose to react to words in a certain way, like be offended at "slurs"
@@_stillborn Sure words only hurt you if you let them but there's also a meaning that the person saying it gives them and if you know that the person saying them has ill intentions, it is a normal human reaction to be offended by such words. Since the person saying them attaches meaning to the words and doesn't think twice before throwing it at others, they should definitely be held accountable for their actions. Also, different people have different ways to react to situations so u may think "mean words dont mean shit" but there are people who have feelings in them and feel upset so if u can't empathize with someone who has been through so much, at least don't try to pick a fight.