I am healed. I allow, accept, and demand that all negative energies, entities, and vibrations leave me now and forever. I also demand to only allow light and love near me and inside of me starting now and everyday for the rest of my life allowing my vibrations to continue rising daily. I am a loving successful miracle magnet. I am made up of only love, light, gratitude, peace, and joy. Please pray for me as I will for you all. Thank you!
Can't express enough how much I loved the example of showing kids that at home there should be peace and relief because outside of your home is a different story!
Personaly i find all people are draining there is no person on this planet who is not. I can say that animals are not but humans are animals to but humans are the ones with all the problems and i do mean everbody.
Vicki Lynn - Some dont know but others definitely do. The ones who are down when you start to talk to them and are cheery while you feel drained after the encounter definitely do. The ones I have encountered like that will look you in the eyes afterward and give you a look of this feels great! Thanks!
I'm fully healed now and no longer feel any guilt for cutting narcs out of my life,including family. I now have peace and energy vampires aren't even welcome into my space. I have to deal with them daily but I Grey rock them and keep talking to a minimal.
I want everyone to understand that we all have a bit of energy vampire tendency. If you are resistant to this please know that you are involving yourself in a victim mentality. Learn to accept yourself more wholly and become more self-aware, then you will be one step closer to healing.
W comment! Not everyone sees themselves as a potential energy vampire they just assume it's somebody else besides them which is absurd because we've all been guilty of it whether we like it or not! Best advice to anyone is be honest and righteous when judging yourself and others!
Thank you so much for pointing out the positivity. Working in the therapy field I hear the label “Narcissist” to every person that walks through the door. It’s disheartening that our society is so intent on labeling and speaking of the negative constantly. Thank you for being a positive voice for people looking to for some fresh air.
@@jamberry8026 The people saying “get off your high horse” are often the ones saying so from sitting atop one themselves. To clarify, since you assume what I mean, I’m saying we can describe actions on a spectrum rather than point and ascribe a label. History tells us ascribing labels cause more harm than good. Labels are not truth… it’s a neat little package shoved down peoples throats to help them digest the group think bs they want you to believe in. So assume away… energy vampire.
@@grumpyschnauzer Lol! I see the truth hurts you while you have nothing in your history that is positive. Your history is so negative that you hide from it and don't want your children to hear or see it. Dream away, gonzo! Your fifteen minutes of positive dreaming is over lmao!🤣
Thank you for the reminder, concentrate on the positive rather than the negative. Watching this during cv-19, economic and global chaos, i suddenly feel aah☀️🙏
All my life I have been immune to energy vampires . Just dodged their company . I have been called insensitive and cold by them but then you need to protect yourself from getting drained 🤷🏻♀️
I would love to be called that at this point. I just get constantly asked for help but now I have a freaking back injury and knee surgery and i am trying to bring my energy back to my body lol
I feel that is anger from the battle we fight from that feeling of every where u turn they are present so you want to blend in ! Your conscience is aware so your light is dim not taken !! I think we allow it and I am at a point of being fed up and literally had to put it out there ••• you have no permission to receive my energy and even if you have love for these people you have to love your light more !!! You have to be excited of when the light brighten back up once you put It out there !! These people have no idea that this rule is affirmative but since I am they feel it and they will try harder !! so I am in a battlefield rn with family vampires
I may have to relocate to protect myself because controlling energy vampires 🧛♀️ will even use your core to act like they want to change when they get called out and when nothing changes and they continue to take without permission they are messing with there own karma
This is very motivating to me and was great ending to this class. Thank you for the brief view on your collection of educational material as it is both reflective and inspirational.
Although I understand the concept, and agree with it, there also needs to be an understanding of realism and honesty. Personally, I would consider myself, at least in the eyes of others, as a negative person. Not because I'm inherently negative, or my beliefs are inherently negative, but because I tend to be brutally honest. If I say, "blah blah blah, I'm not so sure about that", it's not me being negative, it's me making sure you're aware of the possible consequences, both good and bad, and are certain of you're decision. Like it was said in the video, people control you're emotions. I know I've done it. It's not hard. But another problem is over-optimism. Being overly happy is not a good thing either. Those emotions are just as easy, if not easier to control, in my experience. Simply put, whether you're happy or sad, mad or regretful, those emotions can be used against you. Those emotions do blind you... as sad as it might be...
The Media,The Internet, the Political Parasites. Luckily my Toxic family grew up. Remember to forgive your Family, I'm talking about mistakes & words said in anger. Sometime Betrayal when you are young. Around every 10 years we evolve, grow, change, but most importantly we gain insight, perspective, knowledge & combined with Life experience, you will gain Wisdom. It takes nothing to be Kind.
🌾🌻 🕊🙌❤️🩹Thank you so much for this very important video. 🕊🙌❤️🩹 (I’m here right now after a brutal friendship bridge burned down.) maybe my friend really is a psychic vampire 🧛🏻♂️ it’s just so painful to think that. After what a beautiful relationship I thought we had, and then he showed his psychic vampire side, which is what made me leave him. I hope it’s for the better. 🌾🌻
@@technologic1508 Guided meditation (on line) There are also some really good books on the subject, they all have a nugget to share so I have read quite a few and Im getting a pretty good concept of who they are and how I can deal with them. Also see if a family member or two can share the responsibility with you so you can take a break.
I have to deal with a family member who is that way too. It took me years but what I learned to do is shut off part of my brain when they're acting or talking negatively. Respond with a few nods and "okay I see"when they're talking. If they get upset because they can pick up that a big part of you is ignoring them, just say that you're tired or deny it. Tire them out by not reacting to what they say. They feed off of our reactions. But since you are not made of stone, their negativity is still hurting you in a way. So when you're alone, write about how they make you feel and cry. Writing and crying are so helpful. Then accept that they're not going to change because they are not happy. And unhappy people hurt others. So it's not your problem, it's theirs. And smile! Life is too short to pay attention to people who are unhappy!
we let people push our buttons every day how many of us are truly always happy? we give our power away all the time but it can get to the extreme point if we are not center and understand the ignorance of ourselves and others . Its never going to be easy dealing with society but we can avoid many headaches
My mom used to call me about her problems and cry and when I come up with a sane, reasonable, most logical solution I'm the bad guy. And when I ever I when I want to be left the f**k alone she wont stop bothering me.
Involuntary servitude or involuntary slavery is a legal and constitutional term for a person laboring against that person's will to benefit another, under some form of coercion, to which it may constitute slavery. While laboring to benefit another occurs also in the condition of slavery, involuntary servitude does not necessarily connote the complete lack of freedom experienced in chattel slavery; involuntary servitude may also refer to other forms of unfree labor. Involuntary servitude is not dependent upon compensation or its amount. human trafficking me 14 years and counting.
That's all very well until you become responsible for your negative elderly mother, who has nobody else in the world but you. Sometimes we ARE obligated by responsibility - boundaries are important, but you can't just cut everyone who is toxic out of your life
omg Vicki Lynn, i soooooooooooo feel you girl. 110 %. Going thru the same thing with my negative back stabbing mother in the nursing home now and sibilings left me to do everything . I am there for her cause im a better person than my mom. I do it because like you said we ARE obligated its the way i was raised. But my sibilings.....??? MF's!! the baby and the oldest. both her favorites. WTF are they now?? karma Karma Karma! buuuut for now.... do cut toxic peeps like them out!!! Done.
I feel bad for saying. Its a sad hard truth...my mom is soooooooooo negative and bitter..ugh..i wish not true. Im so embarrassed to say ..its like dont say it.but there.. its true..im an escape artist now 😂 i barely engage.i finally have one good friend..we build eeach other up we share our dreams.. ahhhh i have never been so listened to...the difference! I also noticed that people that would be drawn to me are people that are drainers because I have been groomed to listen but I'm naturally, at heart, like someone that wants to be a counseling type of person. I work now in a foeld similar! But now I don't let negative people close. They are okay to help, if I'm being paid LOL... And literally had to remove different people from my life because they're just draining .. God forgive me for sayin my moms so negative..ugh a child should never need to say this. Im not this to my own kids. No no no
“They don’t want to take responsibility and want to blame someone else.” Spot on
I had a so called friend like this
"No one can die your death so don't let them live your life". Wow
I think you should think less it helps me getting to much draining also get more sleep .
That is the most important thing I have heard probably in the last 5 years, and I am not exaggerating. It's simple yet powerful in so many ways
I am healed. I allow, accept, and demand that all negative energies, entities, and vibrations leave me now and forever. I also demand to only allow light and love near me and inside of me starting now and everyday for the rest of my life allowing my vibrations to continue rising daily. I am a loving successful miracle magnet. I am made up of only love, light, gratitude, peace, and joy. Please pray for me as I will for you all. Thank you!
Lauren Howard,
TY TY
💓So mote it be💕
Thank You!!! You as well
Thank you for sharing this prayer. It blessed me as well 🙏🏽
It has been put out in the universe,
And so it is… 💗
Nice mantra
Can't express enough how much I loved the example of showing kids that at home there should be peace and relief because outside of your home is a different story!
Thank You!!!
I think you should think less it helps me getting to much draining also get more sleep .
That is what we pray for all kids to have. I wish that for my children
Never experienced that. That’s how it should be!
Same I agree! What a perfect example to get the message through!
I am not the mind
I am not the body
I am not my PAST
I am LIGHT 🌠
Thank You Empowering TED
I think most draining people don't realise what they are doing. I love the focus on being a calm centre of kindness - great talk
Personaly i find all people are draining there is no person on this planet who is not.
I can say that animals are not but humans are animals to but humans are the ones with all the problems and i do mean everbody.
except Jesus
Vicki Lynn - Some dont know but others definitely do. The ones who are down when you start to talk to them and are cheery while you feel drained after the encounter definitely do. The ones I have encountered like that will look you in the eyes afterward and give you a look of this feels great! Thanks!
I'm fully healed now and no longer feel any guilt for cutting narcs out of my life,including family. I now have peace and energy vampires aren't even welcome into my space. I have to deal with them daily but I Grey rock them and keep talking to a minimal.
Wish I could like this a million times. The island of stability- this will be my home for my children. ❤
_”No one can die your death, so don’t let them live your life”_ .... Wow.
Spot on they don't want to take responsibility and make you take the direction and blaming you after
I want everyone to understand that we all have a bit of energy vampire tendency. If you are resistant to this please know that you are involving yourself in a victim mentality. Learn to accept yourself more wholly and become more self-aware, then you will be one step closer to healing.
W comment! Not everyone sees themselves as a potential energy vampire they just assume it's somebody else besides them which is absurd because we've all been guilty of it whether we like it or not! Best advice to anyone is be honest and righteous when judging yourself and others!
Agreed to all of these types of Vampires! Just broke off with one, it took 3 years too long.
Great TED Talk! I think I've come to realize who the energy vampires are in my life...
Professor Ornelas is my psy professor and he's such a cool guy! Brilliant and down to earth at the same time
Thank you so much for pointing out the positivity. Working in the therapy field I hear the label “Narcissist” to every person that walks through the door. It’s disheartening that our society is so intent on labeling and speaking of the negative constantly. Thank you for being a positive voice for people looking to for some fresh air.
Truth is not all positive, a bowl full of cherries, and peaches and cream so you ca get up off your high horse now.
@@jamberry8026 The people saying “get off your high horse” are often the ones saying so from sitting atop one themselves. To clarify, since you assume what I mean, I’m saying we can describe actions on a spectrum rather than point and ascribe a label. History tells us ascribing labels cause more harm than good. Labels are not truth… it’s a neat little package shoved down peoples throats to help them digest the group think bs they want you to believe in. So assume away… energy vampire.
@@grumpyschnauzer Lol! I see the truth hurts you while you have nothing in your history that is positive. Your history is so negative that you hide from it and don't want your children to hear or see it. Dream away, gonzo! Your fifteen minutes of positive dreaming is over lmao!🤣
@@jamberry8026 Try saying that to yourself. It’ll ring truth in your ear. Truth, whether negative or positive, does not hurt me. It humbles me.
@@grumpyschnauzer A daily affirmation of sorts? Lol! I'm not the one hiding from my own history or lying about it. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
ThankYou Steve for that reminder...May You be blessed
Thank you so much Mr. Ornelas 🙏 my mind is clearer now.
Thank you for the reminder, concentrate on the positive rather than the negative. Watching this during cv-19, economic and global chaos, i suddenly feel aah☀️🙏
All my life I have been immune to energy vampires . Just dodged their company . I have been called insensitive and cold by them but then you need to protect yourself from getting drained 🤷🏻♀️
I would love to be called that at this point. I just get constantly asked for help but now I have a freaking back injury and knee surgery and i am trying to bring my energy back to my body lol
That is a beautiful meditation routine i will start doing that with the big guy thanks
ive been around energy vampires for so long that i think my brain is programmed to feel like my light is taken
I feel that is anger from the battle we fight from that feeling of every where u turn they are present so you want to blend in ! Your conscience is aware so your light is dim not taken !! I think we allow it and I am at a point of being fed up and literally had to put it out there
••• you have no permission to receive my energy and even if you have love for these people you have to love your light more !!! You have to be excited of when the light brighten back up once you put
It out there !! These people have no idea that this rule is affirmative but since I am they feel it and they will try harder !! so I am in a battlefield rn with family vampires
I may have to relocate to protect myself because controlling energy vampires 🧛♀️ will even use your core to act like they want to change when they get called out and when nothing changes and they continue to take without permission they are messing with there own karma
Yup
This needs more views! Thank you man
What a sweet man ♥️ great message! 🕯 ✨🌟
Challenge accepted! Thanks for the great presentation. Anjel Pineda
Thank you Dr. O, This is definitely a topic that I have been able to identify with in a few ways. Thank you again for sharing.
Great presentation! Perfectly done.
Great talk and advise...thank you. .much love 💖
This is very motivating to me and was great ending to this class. Thank you for the brief view on your collection of educational material as it is both reflective and inspirational.
Great job! It all resonates in me on many levels.
This was a really good Ted Talk. It is just the video I was looking for.
Well done! Sharing this.
Very Very nice! I would of loved to be there, thank you for sharing :)
Thank you my Dear
Love this, thank you for sharing your amazing, brilliant light!
This is a wonderful talk. Thank you!
Phenomenal! One Love! Namaste! Eternal Gratitude! 😎
I am listening DR. ORNELAS. I LOVE YOU.
Thank you.
Great video! Thank you 😊 🙏🏻 unconditional love to all ❤️ ♾️ 🌌
Thank you for this beautiful talk. It inspired me. xoxoxo
Shine from the inside ( heart ) Thank you.
Energy vampire = Cluster B personality. Narcissists, sociopaths, borderlines, histrionics, etc.
So beautiful .. nailed it .
Where can I find a man like this to marry.
Awesome message. Don’t know about 🧘♀️ yoga/ Tibetan 🙇 bowl. And Christianity ✝️
Amazing talk! Thank you!
thank you
YEEEEEES to Everything he said! ♥️👍💎
Although I understand the concept, and agree with it, there also needs to be an understanding of realism and honesty. Personally, I would consider myself, at least in the eyes of others, as a negative person. Not because I'm inherently negative, or my beliefs are inherently negative, but because I tend to be brutally honest. If I say, "blah blah blah, I'm not so sure about that", it's not me being negative, it's me making sure you're aware of the possible consequences, both good and bad, and are certain of you're decision. Like it was said in the video, people control you're emotions. I know I've done it. It's not hard. But another problem is over-optimism. Being overly happy is not a good thing either. Those emotions are just as easy, if not easier to control, in my experience. Simply put, whether you're happy or sad, mad or regretful, those emotions can be used against you. Those emotions do blind you... as sad as it might be...
I agree
Rt being stoic is the best, it angers the energy vampires that you are so balanced and unshakable and you can feed off of their anger anyway
Simplification of mid end point. If you can make your bed you can make your day however you want it
Love you . That was so inspiring
So Great! 💯🙏
Well said🙌🏼
I hate it when someone who turns what positive things you do into negative.
I’ve personally known a energy vampire, they really don’t like to take accountability and blame others when it comes to them
The Media,The Internet, the Political Parasites. Luckily my Toxic family grew up.
Remember to forgive your Family, I'm talking about mistakes & words said in anger. Sometime Betrayal when you are young.
Around every 10 years we evolve, grow, change, but most importantly we gain insight, perspective, knowledge & combined with Life experience, you will gain Wisdom.
It takes nothing to be Kind.
Amazing video many thanks.
Regain your remote control from others
Create your own safe harbor, to go there when things start really getting tough
It's like he was predicting 2020 and what they have done to the people 👍
So true, if only the masses could see
Thank you!
This lesson must be heard again and again to down energy vampires in need of trading with our energies.
I need this!
Thank you so much
Vampirism endures, no one can deny it 🙂
yes!
@@TheReminisce777 And it will continue to to endure, despite the normal human's efforts in suppressing it.😌
@@sonyenergy408 God bless
@@TheReminisce777 You as well. 😌
@@TheReminisce777 I do not regret in being a psychic vampire. I'm actually glad that I am one. 😌
🌾🌻
🕊🙌❤️🩹Thank you so much for this very important video. 🕊🙌❤️🩹 (I’m here right now after a brutal friendship bridge burned down.) maybe my friend really is a psychic vampire 🧛🏻♂️ it’s just so painful to think that. After what a beautiful relationship I thought we had, and then he showed his psychic vampire side, which is what made me leave him. I hope it’s for the better. 🌾🌻
I am pure positive white light
I am source light
The "yes but" vampires are the most annoying and toxic people because there's no getting through to them.
Fantastic, thank you
So, how do u deal with an energy vampire that lives w you? My disabled mother drains the life out of me. Physically & mentally.
Maybe use some garlic that might help. No but seriously perhaps take a vacation so you can think things through and find a solution.
@@technologic1508 Guided meditation (on line) There are also some really good books on the subject, they all have a nugget to share so I have read quite a few and Im getting a pretty good concept of who they are and how I can deal with them. Also see if a family member or two can share the responsibility with you so you can take a break.
I have to deal with a family member who is that way too. It took me years but what I learned to do is shut off part of my brain when they're acting or talking negatively. Respond with a few nods and "okay I see"when they're talking. If they get upset because they can pick up that a big part of you is ignoring them, just say that you're tired or deny it. Tire them out by not reacting to what they say. They feed off of our reactions. But since you are not made of stone, their negativity is still hurting you in a way. So when you're alone, write about how they make you feel and cry. Writing and crying are so helpful. Then accept that they're not going to change because they are not happy. And unhappy people hurt others. So it's not your problem, it's theirs. And smile! Life is too short to pay attention to people who are unhappy!
Vampires eat energie give them the same back
Bravo! 👏👏
The controller vampire is what I'm going through with a family member. Now I have a name for it.😐
i also have a name for it "everyone"
Covert narcissist
This was a very interesting video. It makes me wonder who the energy vampires are in my life.
Everyone you see. To be truly honest if can handle that.
Me
we let people push our buttons every day how many of us are truly always happy? we give our power away all the time but it can get to the extreme point if we are not center and understand the ignorance of ourselves and others . Its never going to be easy dealing with society but we can avoid many headaches
So Real
My mom used to call me about her problems and cry and when I come up with a sane, reasonable, most logical solution I'm the bad guy. And when I ever I when I want to be left the f**k alone she wont stop bothering me.
Thank you :(
Great video!
Good job
Perfect!
Involuntary servitude or involuntary slavery is a legal and constitutional term for a person laboring against that person's will to benefit another, under some form of coercion, to which it may constitute slavery. While laboring to benefit another occurs also in the condition of slavery, involuntary servitude does not necessarily connote the complete lack of freedom experienced in chattel slavery; involuntary servitude may also refer to other forms of unfree labor. Involuntary servitude is not dependent upon compensation or its amount. human trafficking me 14 years and counting.
If my friend was trying to push my buttons like that they would no longer be my friend. I have boundaries and limits
Very good lacers think students according good learning and interesting class.
4:45 You are the average of the 5 people you hang around most
Seems like the more you shine the more you are a beacon for the vampires 😏
No emotional vampires allowed! Get your facts right 😉
Nobody is an energy vampire but everyone knows energy vampires. How is that possible?
I am not my past
👊❤💙So beautiful brother💙❤👊
was there butter on that tortilla ? Yum i love the quote he said nobody can die yor death so dont let them live your life !
What defending and defeat energy vampires with energy shield?
God light
Theres an extensive research ed book called energy vampires, worth a read
How do I break out of the savior syndrome?
That's all very well until you become responsible for your negative elderly mother, who has nobody else in the world but you. Sometimes we ARE obligated by responsibility - boundaries are important, but you can't just cut everyone who is toxic out of your life
You dont have to do anything for your mother vicki, it sounds like you've done more than most
omg Vicki Lynn, i soooooooooooo feel you girl. 110 %. Going thru the same thing with my negative back stabbing mother in the nursing home now and sibilings left me to do everything . I am there for her cause im a better person than my mom. I do it because like you said we ARE obligated its the way i was raised. But my sibilings.....??? MF's!! the baby and the oldest. both her favorites. WTF are they now?? karma Karma Karma! buuuut for now.... do cut toxic peeps like them out!!! Done.
I feel bad for saying. Its a sad hard truth...my mom is soooooooooo negative and bitter..ugh..i wish not true. Im so embarrassed to say ..its like dont say it.but there.. its true..im an escape artist now 😂 i barely engage.i finally have one good friend..we build eeach other up we share our dreams.. ahhhh i have never been so listened to...the difference! I also noticed that people that would be drawn to me are people that are drainers because I have been groomed to listen but I'm naturally, at heart, like someone that wants to be a counseling type of person. I work now in a foeld similar! But now I don't let negative people close. They are okay to help, if I'm being paid LOL... And literally had to remove different people from my life because they're just draining .. God forgive me for sayin my moms so negative..ugh a child should never need to say this. Im not this to my own kids. No no no
Nice❤
I am not my body
Helloooo.
It’s interesting how this is now mainstream, yet they say there’s no science to back it up.
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