5 Things That Will Indicate If Your Situationship Will Die Or turn Into A Relationship
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- Опубликовано: 22 июл 2024
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If you're tired of being stuck in the "friends with benefits" zone and ready to take your love life to the next level, this video is a game-changer! Dating expert Elliot Scott reveals the 5 critical signs that he's ready to commit, based on his extensive experience and countless successful client stories. From understanding how men invest their resources, to recognizing when it starts to feel like a relationship, these insights will empower you to transition from casual to committed. Don't miss out on the golden nuggets of wisdom that Elliot shares around the concept of 'tribe' and how it can make you irreplaceable in the eyes of your crush. Also, learn about the four-step process to go from casual dating to a committed relationship. This video is a must-watch if you're ready to unlock the secrets of commitment and finally secure the love life you've been dreaming of. Remember, you are much more than a friend with benefits, and this video will show you how to attract the commitment you deserve. So, let's jump right into it, and don't forget to check out the link below for more in-depth guidance from Elliot Scott's guide.
CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Introduction
00:07 - Signs of Transitioning
01:32 - Importance of Consistency
02:46 - Role of Money
03:33 - Transition Timeline
05:48 - Relationship Progress Signs
07:29 - Friends with Benefits Limitations
09:29 - Factors for Commitment
10:19 - Importance of Tribe
11:37 - Being Irreplaceable
15:46 - Emotional Availability
17:34 - Transition Process
18:32 - Conclusion
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My guy did all that. Was progressing, we both are in similar type of tribe, I’ve made clear from the beginning I’m not looking for a fwb, he’s consistent, makes time for me, calls me daily, invests his time into me, is willing to be vulnerable even though he hates talking about feelings, is extremely attracted to me, but wouldn’t commit. He didn’t pull away. I left and he begged me to stay in his life. Said he’d do anything but commit to a relationship. We had so much chemistry, friendship, attraction, and history together. Makes no effing sense and it broke my heart.
Men can literally fall in love with you and cry over you and still rather lose you than commit. Death over commitment.
Right. It boggles my mind. I don’t understand it. This tells me they’re unable to pair bond with one person and form attachments the way I can I guess. When I’m that into someone and feel that strongly, I want to be in a committed relationship with them. It’s like they’re an entirely different species.
Stuff like this is why I stopped wasting time with casual dating. It is frustrating and confusing.
I had that with my best friend, everytime we met up it was sparks and perfect. (An ldr friendship) but he gave me so many reasons why it wouldn't work. Still each time we've met up so far it was spark and intimacy. The last time I couldn't do it anymore. He confused tf out of me and I didn't wanna fall deeper into someone who seems like they don't know what they want.
(That or he's just a master manipulator or player)
I'm still very hurt and feel very cautious with everyone now 😢
So sorry. That does sound very similar. The pain of that is very difficult to recover from and it is affecting my interactions with other men. Trying to heal. Best wishes for you.
Elliot you are the best dating coach out there for real. I just got out of a 7-months situationship because he aint meeting my emotional needs. I"m so proud of myself and your videos are helping me a lot.
im 70 years young. this same thing happened to me with my last 'boyfrinds, They' were all consistant, investing a lot, taking me out a lot. 2 had proposed marriage. so, i naturally thought we were in a forever love relationship. ... until i discovered they all were hitting on other women during the time i was with each one.. so sad, what could i do but walk away. older men seem to be especially into this deceptive behavior
Grabe. Napaka sama ng mga lalake. Men are evil!
Older men have learned from the young ones to be A-holes to women. They gave up morality, loyalty, and respect. That includes self-respect.
As soon as they get the 'goods' and you 'put out' a couple of times....it's finished!! from personal experience, they completely stop making an effort, basically act you don't even exist. No more attention, dates, compliments, texts...finito!!
💯
Yup
This. That's why so many people tell women to stop putting out so easily. Make them invest. Have high standards.
Guys should be more respectfull.
@@user-tt8vg7jk2uexactly. It's always women who have to adjust to flawed men
Wow good job we have a wonderful time Thank you for sharing
We were behaving like we were in a relationship up until a few months ago since 2019. He was so consistent and planning. There were some times he needed a break. He seemed like he wanted to integrate into my life. Then he started to pull away.
It's been 4 years. At this point if he ain't sure.... leave.
This guy and myself are friends with benefits because He and I love it like that. I give him space, and he actually follows and it works all the time, because I love ❤ my space 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Hi! I’m curious. Are you also afraid of commitment? I was wondering if you have an avoidant attachment style too. Thanks in advance!
@@AD-hh6ddmal1bog lng tlg sila
I thought if they won’t commit after 2 months, then they’re not going to… my situationship did all this stuff and I was still advised he’d never commit…I’m confused with the advice
My favorite dating coach of all times ❤️
Awe shucks :)
truth!!
yeah, he is super likable
Sus ang nega nga nya!
I told a dude who said friends that I'm husband hunting. Didst agree to friends. Then he got angry bc I started dated others lol
Elliot...great hairstyle on you💯
We are fwb, we started off seeing eachother all the time. We always fall asleep in eachother’s arms and spend the night, sometimes with morning coffee. We had a huge misunderstanding at 10 months. I went no contact, after a month we’re back to the same. He seems pretty emotionally unavailable as he does not talk about emotions or our relationship
Sounds like he’s using you for company
Whom is it benefitting? I think the man is...
another sleeper hit. Thanks Elliot
Me & a guy really hit it off. Our first date was a walk in the park. Our second date was at my place and we painted pumpkins, played a dating card game and made smores. One of the dating cards asked how long it takes to get into a relationship and he told me 6 month’s minimum. I dont want to wait 6 months…is he telling me that so I don’t expect anything? We havent had sex & I don’t plan on it soon
Second dates should not be in anyones home. Don't do that again. They shouldn't even know your house number or exact location. It's the 2nd meet up!!! He is a stranger..
It’s been 2 months now & he’s pretty consistent. The only difference is that he flies to come see me although he’s not rich. Or I fly to him. We have also already went traveling together. Texts good morning/goodnights & his whereabouts. He also treats me like a gf, holding hands, pays for dinner, acts of services…I’m falling and idk how to make the switch…when I knew he didn’t want anything but his actions are way different than what he says.
Any update?
it went on for 6 months. We travelled to 6 countries together. Acted like a couple every single day. He truly made me feel so loved & cared for. We were exclusive. I moved to his city (decision prior to him). I waited one month before sitting him down to talk. We broke up. He said that I meant a lot to him and that we were more but He wasn’t ready to be in a relationship.
@@annemarie7203I genuinely thought he was my soulmate, we also had so many coincidences/moments of faith together. I’m truly heartbroken and it’s been almost one week that we separated. He wasn’t able to elaborate on his emotions. I also know he was scared of sadness and taking about his emotions.
@@c_yla omg sorry to hear that girl, I actually went through a similar case but it was an
8 month situationship and it took a while for us to meet because it was long distance. Our first meeting went well but one day he told me he can’t commit to a long distance and also admitted he started talking to someone else just recently his city. I felt he just played me and that I was made an option after making me believe all this time that he wanted a relationship with me. I even put in the effort to meet him in his city but he dropped me just like that 😞 when we met he also acted like a boyfriend to me so I was blindsided. I believe this girl he just started talking to has already been in the picture before we even met
@@annemarie7203I’m so sorry you’re going through this too…everyday is difficult but sometimes we have to change our perspective and believe what is meant for us will come back. It’s easier said than done because I’m struggling everyday. He invested time, effort, energy, finances in me although he was in the working class, he created this entire relationship with me only to tell me he can’t be in a relationship. I know he was struggling with his emotions but now we are here, left with barely any explanations. I’ve been having the worst time to eat, sleep, take care of myself in a new city. I’ve been wanting to text him and have him come to me. But sometimes people need space, and I’m hopping space will help him navigate his emotions. Nonetheless, he treated me well, I’m grateful for all the memories and I hope the universe protects him. If we were meant to be, we will find each other again. Stay beautiful & strong 🤍
Looking for hope where there is none. I need to just let it go. 4 years of breadcrumbing, whew
Same here ,,,known each other like 7 years,,,didnt talk for a LONG time, then we started talking/texting again. Breadcrumbing is his speciality, he's a moron,,,,his loss!
@@graceperez1281 we have to stop being willing participants. Please check on me in a year or so. I hope to have evolved 🙏🏾
I just make sure guys know right away that I don't want a hook up.
@@graceperez1281 SAME!
they're only consistent in the beginning
Yeah I've noticed there really nice and consistent in the beginning. After a hook up they usually lose interest. That's why I say I want a relationship so they know what I want. And I even say that I want to be respected. Make sure there on the same page as you.
Hey Elliott I have a question about my situation if u could reply to this that’ll be great!
I have one question for you... Why are you single Elliot?. How can you give advice on relationships
I don’t think he is single but regardless he’s a guy
My ex pull away should I block him
What about years ?
I love your videos, but the last part is not true for me. We got all the way to #4 a committed relationship. It was really quick, but we have known each other for years. He wanted the "relationship" much faster than me, but I went with it because I really cared for him. Now, he has broken the relationship with me with No Contact because I text-bombed him. I love him dearly and wanted a life with him, but he ran away at the first sign of conflict and could not communicate. I desperately want to speak with him but have no way other than snail mail. I am convinced he is not a narcissist but more of a man who had been hurt in past relationships and shut me out because we had our first miscommunication, which I might add was really not a big deal, at least to me anyway. If I sent a letter by snail mail, it would look like I am despite or breaking his boundaries. I might add I am heartbroken!!!
We usually spend 5 days out of the week together in between work and we still go out and we act like a couple but he says hes still not ready even though its been going on for 8 months and we've been friends for 13 years
Leave... your giving him wife privileges. For FREE..The friendship doesn't make it valid. It's a tactic men use.
@@jessicahitchens6926 I won't leave him currently...I gave him a time limit and it's complicated
Are you that guy that is unavailable
I've been stupid I've known him for years.
14:15 😂
16:12
Can you go more into what is happening in the mind of the EU man when he’s “in his head”?
I slipped one time, i dont want to end up in a situationship. I have sexual snd narcissistic abuse behind me . He's in a open relationship I refuse to talk with him, he humiliated me last week wanted me to take in his group. I hate abd love him. He tries to het me in but he'll lose. I never give in I'm Aries imz not begging for love or bread crumbs . He will seek for connection i will deny all this to him and make him suffer like he humiliated me verbally. Such men deal with weak women who cant resist I have enough interested ppl i dont have just him 😂
2 months😂 its been a year
Guys are more eager to get into relationships these days your gonna have to update all your videos buddy
wrong kid. Every stat says otherwise.
Uhm nope. They're not.
ummm...no
@@ElliotScottDating🙄
Or are you just trying to make money 🤔
you mention the tribe thing in almost all your videos and I think it's irrelevant and superficial. The "tribe" thing literally only exists in the "nerd community". In the long run, liking the same Marvel movies and debating anime is not the formula to a lasting relationship, character of a person is what determines that. I know plenty of couples who are opposite in their interests and have happy marriages. These fleeting things are only pivotal in immature relationships with young people.
You don't even know what tribe is from that comment 🤣 you literally said everything I said a tribe wasn't in my guide. Sit down please or go become a coach yourself since you know what makes things last
@@ElliotScottDatingjusko patola kapanga bonak mo
I was a rebound he did this casual and proces than he pulled away