Finding the picture right now. "You will screw up in life, you're human" but my screw ups will not define me. They are not who I am. Neither is it the little girl in the picture. ❤ Thanks Kristina!!!!
All of this is Gold. You have your finger on the pulse! I just wrote a book out soon called Impress Yourself. It covers my trials and tribulations as well as some pillars of health I live by to get by in life and even thrive. I wrote the things down in which made me thrive and I share them, because secrets? Well, we need to share them, not take them to our graves. I have accomplished so much in life and so many times I forget. I wrote the book originally for my kids when they got older as a guide and decided to put it out there, because why the hell not? It's funny, a man I knew was struggling with his life and I told him something so similar without the photos, over the phone I told him to talk to himself as a little boy and he cried and he was much more sympathetic and it was a breakthrough for him. If only people would see themselves as they do a best friend. As I turn 51 and reflect during these troubling times, I know I am with myself the most. Yes I have blessings and a great family, but it was not always this way and it's not always great. I think your message and messages like these must get out there as cliche as we think the term Love yourself is, I am not talking about loving ourselves in a delusional way, hell, we don't love anyone that much unless we are blinded by obsessed behavior, but we could all benefit in loving ourselves and noticing the flaws and either accepting them or ditching them and improving upon them. I am yet to read your book. I will, I promise. I did not want to as to get it mixed up with my own thoughts, so I will gladly read your book. I would be more than happy to send you a free copy and let me know what you think. No pressure, but I would be very honored to do so. Thanks for letting people know your secrets. You are truly a Gem!
For people in a hurry 🙂 1 ) Stop waiting . 2) Stop being a bulley to yourself . Take a baby picture or your childhood pic of yours , try to say mean things that you tell yourself . For example I usually feel I'm ugly and I don't deserve love . I tried to say exactly these things looking at my baby picture and I couldn't , I just couldn't tell those mean stuff . 3) Pay attention to what angers you , what makes you happy , what makes you feel alive . 4) Start a ta -da list . That is listing all your accomplishments even the little things like sending an email , shaving your armpits etc . These are all amazing tips . I'm going to try them out . Especially the second one . All the best everyone . Hope everyone will enjoy the journey of life and be kind to yourself ❤️
listing the positive helps so much! there's not room on a normal wall calendar, so i've been meaning to get a jumbo one! right now i just occasionally include it amid the food journal, though, and the book-writing notes are self evident, interspersed there.
"Easier said than done " is my interpretetion of ..."ok, i will do it step by step i need more time i will!i will get there!and when i ll come closer and i will need zero time i will be totally ready and do the actual jump! " 🌻 to all who are struggling 🌻
Thank you! I needed this today! I've been stuck in this awful place emotionally this past year and it has nothing to do with the pandemic, I feel stuck! There are goals I want to achieve but I'm too scared to step out, you've inspired me to take the first steps. Thank you!
Just found you🍾🎊🎉. Great day. Your number 2 is a classic. FYI, I have for many years had 2 photos in an acrylic display stand. One is of me age 7, on holiday. I remember how I couldn’t wait for the picture taking to end as the sand was so hot around my feet. The second is a clipping from a newspaper showing a little boy (maybe 4), standing on a chair at a ceremony honoring his father among other, beaming with pride and joy. Your encouraging recommendation has finally revealed to me, the half understood motivation behind my acting on this impulse. May your positive energy flow back to you in countless ways now and forever ♾ . 🕊
Thank you for this video! I am stuck in such a negative headspace at the moment, and everything in my life is suffering because it. I really want to work on positivity in 2021. These tips are really helpful.
If only most women watched this specialty young mothers those who are only thinking about everyone else but themselves I know I was one of them once upon a time
i started doing the "ta-da" list for about a month now and it makes me feel more accomplished. then i started adding "most difficult" or longer goals on my " ta-da" list.. it's a work in progress.
Thank you so much for all the videos you posted so far!!🙏❤️ Really helped a lot to get through this tough year!💕 I'm wishing a very happy and joyful New year to YOU and to everyone!!!💖
Yep. I start my drivers training with my sons dad (it’s going to be rough on the both of us lol) in 2-3 weeks & work on getting my license finally. Also going to try to take college classes in the fall and I’m working on selling & donating about 75% of our stuff. It’s rough with working 5 nights a week & the two days off aren’t even consecutive,then come home to clean & make dinner most of the week. I’m trying,even if it doesn’t all happen this year I’m trying.
I see Kristina I click! Short, fun, inspirational and right on point videos! May you be blessed with the real blessing of living for Allah. In gratitude ♥️ Islam is the way. Love from Algeria ♥️
Thank you!! I have been doing an end of day list of what I actually get done versus what I thought I was going to do. I sort of set an intention for the next day but stuff happens and so what you thought you would do goes by the way side but that doesn't mean you didn't have a productive day.
I think tip 2 is very important, since many times we are very hard on ourselves, and in many cases we judge ourselves worse than other people, so I think the photo of children is a good exercise
I loved this for many reasons. Thank you! I appreciate that you went through hell and are using your experience to help others out of theirs. Sending love and gratitude. 💗
Happy New Year, Kristina! Thank you for every single video you put out. My kids are all raised and I STILL berate myself for all the things I did wrong as I was raising them. But I’m determined my self loathing ends now.
Sorry to say but 1:50 I’d still say same things to me as child than now. Since same problems were in me then as they are today. ‘Cause I’m autistic (and also adhd and more) “I’m the problem”. I know that really I’m not but it’s hard to be in this planet that you’ll never fit. I can’t work, I can’t do much to benefit the society so mostly I’m a burden/waste of resources... I wish daily that I'd have not been born, since now I’m stuck here cause I can’t do anything to myself because there are people that care about me. I couldn’t do that to them. But even there are people who care about me that doesn’t change anything for the world I have to suffer in and the fact this world is not for me. Of course there are lot of things that make me happy and I enjoy but that’s not enough for me to feel like I belong. Life/living for me is mostly being in pain for the knowledge that I can’t be what world needs me to be. Since I know I can’t ever be useful enough to this planet/country/anything/anyone. I’m using my knowledge of autism/adhd and others to teach my kids so they doesn’t have to live my childhood. But it kills me to see/know that they have to fight in life just to barely fit in. If I had known my diagnosis before I would never have had children. I see how they suffer as I do.. Both of my kids have said many times they wish they had never been born.. We just don’t fit and we know it and that means suffering for us..
Worthwhile video! Like yourself, the last video on my channel is tied to purpose too. I propose a valuable inward > outward reflection instead of new years resolutions, and recommend creating a purpose list instead. I hope videos like ours inspire people to reflect on their goals positively! Just subscribed to you also - Appreciate the meaningful content.
The queen has given the order.
Finding the picture right now. "You will screw up in life, you're human" but my screw ups will not define me. They are not who I am. Neither is it the little girl in the picture. ❤ Thanks Kristina!!!!
Great tips!!!
1. Stop waiting
2. Stop being a bully toward yourself
3. Pay attention
4. Start a ta-da list
Highly recommend to watch the whole video.
I got three of them and couldn't remember the third one: pay attention. lol!!!
Perfect way to start out 2021!!
This video is right on time! I hope everyone reading this starts 2021 on the right track!
I need to play this daily!
All of this is Gold. You have your finger on the pulse! I just wrote a book out soon called Impress Yourself. It covers my trials and tribulations as well as some pillars of health I live by to get by in life and even thrive. I wrote the things down in which made me thrive and I share them, because secrets? Well, we need to share them, not take them to our graves. I have accomplished so much in life and so many times I forget. I wrote the book originally for my kids when they got older as a guide and decided to put it out there, because why the hell not? It's funny, a man I knew was struggling with his life and I told him something so similar without the photos, over the phone I told him to talk to himself as a little boy and he cried and he was much more sympathetic and it was a breakthrough for him. If only people would see themselves as they do a best friend. As I turn 51 and reflect during these troubling times, I know I am with myself the most. Yes I have blessings and a great family, but it was not always this way and it's not always great. I think your message and messages like these must get out there as cliche as we think the term Love yourself is, I am not talking about loving ourselves in a delusional way, hell, we don't love anyone that much unless we are blinded by obsessed behavior, but we could all benefit in loving ourselves and noticing the flaws and either accepting them or ditching them and improving upon them. I am yet to read your book. I will, I promise. I did not want to as to get it mixed up with my own thoughts, so I will gladly read your book. I would be more than happy to send you a free copy and let me know what you think. No pressure, but I would be very honored to do so. Thanks for letting people know your secrets. You are truly a Gem!
I've lost track of how many times your videos have made me cry. Thank you for your amazing positivity.
It takes a mom to know a mom. Thankyou Kristina 💕💐🌸
That childhood photo idea is great. Thank you
I will watch this video every week, lady! You are truly amazing. Thank you. Greetings from Romania. ❤
Thank you for the reminder, Kristina 💕
For people in a hurry 🙂
1 ) Stop waiting .
2) Stop being a bulley to yourself . Take a baby picture or your childhood pic of yours , try to say mean things that you tell yourself . For example I usually feel I'm ugly and I don't deserve love . I tried to say exactly these things looking at my baby picture and I couldn't , I just couldn't tell those mean stuff .
3) Pay attention to what angers you , what makes you happy , what makes you feel alive .
4) Start a ta -da list . That is listing all your accomplishments even the little things like sending an email , shaving your armpits etc .
These are all amazing tips . I'm going to try them out . Especially the second one . All the best everyone . Hope everyone will enjoy the journey of life and be kind to yourself ❤️
Thanks your save me a lot of time 👍
Kristina = goals
😭 Seriously Cristina!! I just did my flippin makeup!!!! -Racoon Eyes
Thank you for always sharing the love lady. You are a blessing and encouragement.
Thanks for sharing love! Great positive mindset!
I needed this so much! Thank you!
Your videos are always so inspirational!!! Thank you!!!♥️♥️
Oh my gosh. I need to start every day with this video, over and over again. Every. Single. Day.
I actually cried during point 2 because I bully myself all the time.
listing the positive helps so much!
there's not room on a normal wall calendar, so i've been meaning to get a jumbo one!
right now i just occasionally include it amid the food journal, though, and the book-writing notes are self evident, interspersed there.
Thank you Kristina, for your precious videos!!! Always helpful! Hope your family in Croatia is ok
"Easier said than done " is my interpretetion of ..."ok, i will do it step by step i need more time i will!i will get there!and when i ll come closer and i will need zero time i will be totally ready and do the actual jump! " 🌻 to all who are struggling 🌻
Thank you! ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you! I needed this today! I've been stuck in this awful place emotionally this past year and it has nothing to do with the pandemic, I feel stuck! There are goals I want to achieve but I'm too scared to step out, you've inspired me to take the first steps. Thank you!
Just found you🍾🎊🎉. Great day. Your number 2 is a classic. FYI, I have for many years had 2 photos in an acrylic display stand.
One is of me age 7, on holiday. I remember how I couldn’t wait for the picture taking to end as the sand was so hot around my feet. The second is a clipping from a newspaper showing a little boy (maybe 4), standing on a chair at a ceremony honoring his father among other, beaming with pride and joy. Your encouraging recommendation has finally revealed to me, the half understood motivation behind my acting on this impulse. May your positive energy flow back to you in countless ways now and forever ♾ . 🕊
Thank you Kristina, you’ve inspired me to start my own RUclips channel!🥺🥰 Happy New Year 2021 to everyone, hope it’ll be better than this one.
Thank you for this video! I am stuck in such a negative headspace at the moment, and everything in my life is suffering because it. I really want to work on positivity in 2021. These tips are really helpful.
This is great. Thanks 😊
Thank you! Happy New Year!
You're amazing! Thanks ❤.
If only most women watched this specialty young mothers those who are only thinking about everyone else but themselves I know I was one of them once upon a time
#2 really hit me. I still struggle with this. My wildly supportive husband has been really helping me.
This is brilliant!! Thank you Kristina!
This channel should have 1,000 times more subscribers! ❤️
i started doing the "ta-da" list for about a month now and it makes me feel more accomplished. then i started adding "most difficult" or longer goals on my " ta-da" list.. it's a work in progress.
Thank You
Thank you for your advices, right on time. Happy New Year!
First! I love your videos so much! Please keep up the hard work you're the best ♥♥♥♥
Thank you so much for all the videos you posted so far!!🙏❤️ Really helped a lot to get through this tough year!💕 I'm wishing a very happy and joyful New year to YOU and to everyone!!!💖
Yep. I start my drivers training with my sons dad (it’s going to be rough on the both of us lol) in 2-3 weeks & work on getting my license finally. Also going to try to take college classes in the fall and I’m working on selling & donating about 75% of our stuff. It’s rough with working 5 nights a week & the two days off aren’t even consecutive,then come home to clean & make dinner most of the week. I’m trying,even if it doesn’t all happen this year I’m trying.
Finally scheduled medical appointments for myself
I love this. Thank you.
Great recommendations, Kristina. Loved your book. Thanks 👍🏻
"Both" my armpits!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
I write my to-done list everyday
It's so helping 😍
Thanks wonderful lady
I see Kristina I click! Short, fun, inspirational and right on point videos! May you be blessed with the real blessing of living for Allah. In gratitude ♥️ Islam is the way. Love from Algeria ♥️
Right on! 👍🏽 Happy New Year!
Uhmmm where did you come from? RUclips recommended - I so needed this!!
Thank you!! I have been doing an end of day list of what I actually get done versus what I thought I was going to do. I sort of set an intention for the next day but stuff happens and so what you thought you would do goes by the way side but that doesn't mean you didn't have a productive day.
I think tip 2 is very important, since many times we are very hard on ourselves, and in many cases we judge ourselves worse than other people, so I think the photo of children is a good exercise
Ta da list. Love it!
I've just made a big mistake but focusing on ta da brings back love and life plus strenght to apologise and forgive
I loved this for many reasons. Thank you! I appreciate that you went through hell and are using your experience to help others out of theirs. Sending love and gratitude. 💗
Thank you, I really needed this x
Thank you ❤❤
You have amazing energy.
Yes!!! 4 tips that will def help bring in the new year with a stronger and positive mind set. Thank you!!! Ta-Da list ✅
LOVE THIS ! Thank you!
You’re a gem! Thank you!
Happy New Year, Kristina!
Thank you for every single video you put out. My kids are all raised and I STILL berate myself for all the things I did wrong as I was raising them.
But I’m determined my self loathing ends now.
why is this legend so underrated
This is so helpful. I took notes. Thanks Queen.
I needed this today!
Wow Kristina, you could easily be the Penthouse PET of the month. So unbelievably gorgeous!!!
Aaawww! This is GOLD! Thank you for being so Authentically Awesome, Kristina! :-) You are such a beautiful inspiration. YAAAY!!!
I love this 😍😍
Over these tips. I especially like the one about holding yourself accountable but not blaming yourself.
I so needed to hear this ❤️💙❤️💙❤️
You're pure gold ❤
Thank you so much for this Kristina. You are a fighter. I love your content. 💛 Happy New Year! God bless you and your family.
شكرا 🥰
Well, baby step one, I made a Ta Da section in my bullet journal.
My favorite part of the ta-da list “clean the dog vomit” lol
I love this video
Thank you so much 🥺❤️. Number two made me cry 😢, I haven’t thought how much it’s hard to say bad words to myself. I just consider that!
You’re so awesome!
Good advice
You are amazing kristina ❤️ I have started seeing your vedios since November you motivate me so much
Yes yes YES! 🙌
Oh wow, I clicked on your video thinking you were Sandra Bullock 😂 Gorgeous!!
Beautiful list! Xoxo
Sorry to say but 1:50 I’d still say same things to me as child than now. Since same problems were in me then as they are today. ‘Cause I’m autistic (and also adhd and more) “I’m the problem”. I know that really I’m not but it’s hard to be in this planet that you’ll never fit. I can’t work, I can’t do much to benefit the society so mostly I’m a burden/waste of resources...
I wish daily that I'd have not been born, since now I’m stuck here cause I can’t do anything to myself because there are people that care about me. I couldn’t do that to them. But even there are people who care about me that doesn’t change anything for the world I have to suffer in and the fact this world is not for me.
Of course there are lot of things that make me happy and I enjoy but that’s not enough for me to feel like I belong. Life/living for me is mostly being in pain for the knowledge that I can’t be what world needs me to be. Since I know I can’t ever be useful enough to this planet/country/anything/anyone.
I’m using my knowledge of autism/adhd and others to teach my kids so they doesn’t have to live my childhood. But it kills me to see/know that they have to fight in life just to barely fit in. If I had known my diagnosis before I would never have had children. I see how they suffer as I do.. Both of my kids have said many times they wish they had never been born.. We just don’t fit and we know it and that means suffering for us..
Amen ty Kristina, your so wonderful , little things you can do mean so much ,never give up 💯to all of u my friends just try👏 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Ta da list :
1. Found this video ❤️
♥️❤️
Wonder if you ever make crostili?
I love this! Thank you
Amen 😎
Love the humor you use in this video.....you truly live out your title, #truthbombmom!
Love this 🙏
I'm glad I found you! 💖🤗😁
The little girl picture actually brought tears to my eyes... So damn true. 😊
Wow! this is sooooo good, needed to hear that. (Ottawa, Ontario Canada)
#2 got me
❤
wow. don't know what sequence of videos and good and bad emotions and insane algorithm got me to this but... subscribed
Really loved your video, I cried like a B and I'm 200lbs and Harry
Long shot but does anyone know where Kristina's sweatshirt is from? I LOVE that blue!
Worthwhile video! Like yourself, the last video on my channel is tied to purpose too. I propose a valuable inward > outward reflection instead of new years resolutions, and recommend creating a purpose list instead. I hope videos like ours inspire people to reflect on their goals positively! Just subscribed to you also - Appreciate the meaningful content.
Have a safe & happy new year everyone! Goodbye 2020 👋 You sucked 👎
Love from Colorado ✨🌲🌈🌠