Roseanne finds out that Fisher beat up Jackie - Crime and Punishment - Season 5, Episode 13

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  • Опубликовано: 29 мар 2022
  • Roseanne learns that her sister, Jackie, was beaten up by her boyfriend, Fisher, and talks to her about what happened.
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  • @IRVremy
    @IRVremy Год назад +3229

    The way Dan quietly gets his coat and walks off says more than words can express. That was a powerful scene

    • @bilalahmed2123
      @bilalahmed2123 Год назад +1

      Hope he beat the crap out of him

    • @brendafizer6444
      @brendafizer6444 Год назад +80

      1 of John Goodman’s BEST PERFORMANCES!!!!

    • @sandhard45
      @sandhard45 Год назад +49

      I still cry everytime I run across this I’ve helped plenty of girls/women whom were abused by lowlife dudes in and all around L.G. In Brooklyn NY I’m famous for my PINK BAT I was the early DAN CONNORS💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿

    • @elmtreeroad
      @elmtreeroad Год назад +85

      This is the type of masculinity that lacks in households today. Dan, Tim, Uncle Phil, legends of my youth.

    • @shawnesebletson9308
      @shawnesebletson9308 Год назад +50

      Yes I loved it Dan don't play

  • @nateflannery2411
    @nateflannery2411 Год назад +2806

    No tough talk or anything. He waited until the women were in the other room and quietly grabbed his coat, out the door to handle business. True family man.

    • @donkeyshow7235
      @donkeyshow7235 Год назад +144

      This is why I hated when the had him cheat in the later seasons. He was a flawed man but he loved his family and would do anything for them.

    • @lulug4283
      @lulug4283 Год назад

      You certainly rarely see men like the now, they'd prob make a video he social media first telling everyone what they claim they will do

    • @flan_2003
      @flan_2003 Год назад +74

      @@donkeyshow7235 Yeah, they did screw his character up a lot with that one.

    • @donkeyshow7235
      @donkeyshow7235 Год назад

      @@flan_2003 sitcoms writers always do that the longer a series goes. If you watched Friends Joey strated out as a little dumb by the end he was a full blown fucking idiot.

    • @MorsOktober
      @MorsOktober Год назад

      Men like that are a dying breed. Appreciate men like that while they last.

  • @tracyann1983
    @tracyann1983 2 года назад +1892

    That coat grab said 100 thousand words

    • @terrywalker5706
      @terrywalker5706 2 года назад +94

      Definitely Dan was going to do what any man should do

    • @marquan1976
      @marquan1976 2 года назад +78

      Even the audience knew what was up

    • @lateshiachilds3640
      @lateshiachilds3640 2 года назад +46

      I want a husband like Dan

    • @jenngee8435
      @jenngee8435 2 года назад +50

      The look, then the coat grab.

    • @mistahgambino2
      @mistahgambino2 2 года назад +33

      His face said it all.

  • @ameliaflynnhayes
    @ameliaflynnhayes Год назад +675

    Darlene did the right thing telling Roseanne.

    • @user-ky3cq8os9l
      @user-ky3cq8os9l 3 месяца назад +29

      Somebody's clock is gonna be rung

    • @RJ1999x
      @RJ1999x 3 месяца назад

      And as rule she sucked, but in that case you're right

  • @deliuslyndon8340
    @deliuslyndon8340 Год назад +856

    Laurie Metcalf's initial numbness leading into anger into utter despair is so incredibly powerful, what an amazing actor she is.

    • @davidekstrand8544
      @davidekstrand8544 11 месяцев назад +40

      Speaking of numbness, at the beginning of this clip, didn’t Jackie look and sound winded when she arrived?

    • @sunblue22
      @sunblue22 10 месяцев назад +14

      Seriously! Such a talent.

    • @wolftotem539
      @wolftotem539 8 месяцев назад

      She always excused the people who treated her like crap.
      Her dad, this skinny little wuss and gary.
      Not much for a role model.

    • @moose9701
      @moose9701 5 месяцев назад +13

      s
      Laurie is an incredible actor!!!!

    • @ALoverAndAFighter-wb8ut
      @ALoverAndAFighter-wb8ut 3 месяца назад +7

      I now realized that was Laurie Metcalf!!!!!!😮😮😮

  • @jennifersman7990
    @jennifersman7990 Год назад +770

    The fact that John Goodman never won an Emmy for this role is one of the greatest snubs in TV history, Roseanne may have been the star but he was the heart of the show.

    • @kellyyork3898
      @kellyyork3898 3 месяца назад +19

      Agree. Love the Rosanne character as well.

    • @4713Caine
      @4713Caine 3 месяца назад +16

      absolutely. the show doesn't work without the supporting cast and the onscreen chemistry among all of them: Fresh Prince, Family Matters, Roseanne, etc. I absolutely love each cast member because they add something different to the mix: - DJ and his childish goofiness, Darlene: the bratty obnoxious middle sister, Dan: the role model.....

    • @sandyjuntunen4088
      @sandyjuntunen4088 3 месяца назад +13

      It was the 2 of them together. It's ruined without her.

    • @amandadunn1238
      @amandadunn1238 2 месяца назад +1

      Totally agree with you!!!!

    • @dizzymindy6024
      @dizzymindy6024 2 месяца назад +8

      He is an incredible actor.

  • @candaceseitz7689
    @candaceseitz7689 11 месяцев назад +477

    I'm a domestic violence survivor and I've been free for a year and a half

    • @josiewyn
      @josiewyn 2 месяца назад +11

      I'm so happy for you.

    • @FC-di4wz
      @FC-di4wz 2 месяца назад +9

      Good for you ❤

    • @dagmarnewman2631
      @dagmarnewman2631 2 месяца назад +9

      Good Bless you ❤❤

    • @janetmannis8042
      @janetmannis8042 2 месяца назад +6

      Good girl ❤

    • @DeMan59
      @DeMan59 2 месяца назад +6

      Good for you! My dad was a great guy when he was sober, but when he fell off the wagon now and then I hated his guts. He was a mean drunk. A completely different person from his sober self. From a kid who had his share of bruises I am glad you got out of that situation.

  • @joeo5484
    @joeo5484 11 месяцев назад +195

    When he grabbed that jacked and walked out the door…chills.

    • @Viper-tn5jz
      @Viper-tn5jz 3 месяца назад +8

      You knew he was going to take care of business.

  • @rachaelsnapp8654
    @rachaelsnapp8654 Год назад +706

    Hearing Jackie say, "I don't want anyone to know about it." through her tears just broke my heart.

    • @rachaelsnapp8654
      @rachaelsnapp8654 Месяц назад +2

      @@DianaTrushkov I'm aware, thanks, but I'm also aware that domestic violence victims are often afraid to speak up or their partner has gaslighted them into believing they deserved it or they feel embarrassed about it.

  • @keithrieck5363
    @keithrieck5363 Год назад +758

    I love how Roseanne brings up that Jackie used to be a cop and she heard that story a hundred times. Knowing that was the one job that Jackie truly took pride in.

    • @aqua6613
      @aqua6613 Год назад +63

      That's what abusers do...the target people they think they can shrink down...who may have some image to uphold and they almost bank on the victim to defend them because they want to uphold the image that things like this don't happen to them.
      Sometimes the ones that always help and protect and defend need that help in return and I'm not just meaning cops.
      There's always the peacemaker scapegoat that takes the brunt of abusers in family or workplace situations and they don't even realize that is what they are doing.

    • @lucyinthesky4682
      @lucyinthesky4682 3 месяца назад +13

      The number of women that hold powerful positions yet are abused by men is staggering. We doubt ourselves and men around us in the workplace give us grief for the positions we hold so while we may not show it, we already are down on ourselves. It starts with verbal abuse then that one hit, the apology and the continued abuse and it's somehow all our fault just like Jackie said. It's a very common story.
      Unfortunately a lot of times it ends in death. Because he swears he'll stop. My sister and best friend lost their lives. I'm a lawyer who grew up watching this show and I volunteer helping victims of abuse. I help them take legal action for free if they wish. I always think of this episode and how it's the men like Dan that stick up for women.

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 2 месяца назад +1

      @@lucyinthesky4682 I'm sorry for your loss, truly, and I command you for the work you do. But please don't generalize. Maybe in America men still give you grief for powerful positions, but not in the rest of the world, not in Ukraine where men are not that insecure, where gender doesn't matter if you do your job well. America lags behind the rest of democratic world in this regard. Noone has as much problems with women in power as your country does because it is the norm in the rest of the world, so PLEASE do not think what you see is ubiquitous.

    • @lucyinthesky4682
      @lucyinthesky4682 2 месяца назад

      @@yevgeniyaleshchenko849 oh I know this. I'm not the ignorant American. I know America is the joke. I've been lucky enough to travel abroad since I was a child. I'm actually first generation Italian. My dad an immigrant came here as a child in the 30s and had me late in life as I was born in '78. I was raised the European way, as a concentration on education, discipline, attitudes toward culture, art and life. My siblings as well. We were the odd children as my parents encouraged conversations about the world and my dad watched the world news with us every night so we knew what really was happening. I'm a Civil Rights Lawyer and my life's work is here I stay but in recent years as America continues to sink further into the ooze I've often thought of an ex-pat life.
      My sister was an anesthesiologist and my best friend an emergency room trauma surgeon. Both highly trained, intelligent women. My point I guess is that many see victims of domestic violence as poor ignorant women with lots of kids and no financial means to escape. The problem with my sister and friend was they were women that had huge hearts and they helped everyone but often suffered from long buried self esteem issues that the men they were with used to break them down. I even went through my own disaster with domestic violence and I was beaten and bruised but I eventually got out. It took me a long time to realize it wasn't my fault. And I logically knew it wasn't but the mental abuse is brutal.

    • @wickedwitchoftheeast88
      @wickedwitchoftheeast88 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@lucyinthesky4682 I'm so sorry for your loss I know what its like my father is like Fisher he beat my mother for years sometimes in front of me and my siblings and we occasionally experienced his physical abuse. My mum thankfully left him but we all paid a high price for that too he did us all permanent damage but had my mum not left he would have killed her. I haven't seen him over 20 years he's a sad, bitter and lonely old man now because even his family had enough of him when he went too far and disowned him. He has never been charged for the abuse he has done to women after my mum and it pisses me off the police do nothing for domestic abuse victims thank god for decent lawyers like you helping them the world needs more people like you.

  • @babyblue1194
    @babyblue1194 Год назад +632

    Goodman showing in the space of 5 seconds how good an actor he is.

    • @rayvega3163
      @rayvega3163 Год назад +10

      agreed! May he live forever 🙂

    • @albertross2456
      @albertross2456 Год назад +10

      Exactly what I thought. What a great actor he has always been. I love him

    • @lawrence142002
      @lawrence142002 Год назад +6

      538 did an article one time where they used statistical analysis to prove that John Goodman is the greatest supporting actor in history.

    • @michaelschwab9806
      @michaelschwab9806 Год назад +7

      WOW,how John did those last few seconds without any dialogue..now that was a WOW moment!

    • @111danish111
      @111danish111 Год назад +7

      I like the way he walked in.

  • @hannaskinner8048
    @hannaskinner8048 2 года назад +1738

    Roseanne was literally the most realistic sitcom on television in the 90’s & tackled real world problems in a very realistic way. It portrayed financial struggles, domestic violence, marriage, and how to raise your kids without coddling. This scene was such a pivotal moment in the series and was written wonderfully. S

    • @MateusGowen
      @MateusGowen  2 года назад +96

      Roseanne herself was ahead of her time for helping to create such a funny but honest and impactful show. She doesn't get nearly enough credit for it. ❤

    • @musicaltheatergeek79
      @musicaltheatergeek79 Год назад +60

      @@MateusGowen Also, Roseanne had to fight the network on _everything._ That is why the show has aged so well. She knew what the vision should be and stood her ground.

    • @billthewhovian
      @billthewhovian Год назад +42

      It was well acted too especially by John Goodman he barely spoke but didn't need to everyone knew by his actions and little movements like rubbing his cheek as he checks no one's looking before he grabs his coat and keeps walking. Those actions tell us what he is going to do without him saying it. Not all comedies can do that type of scene.

    • @bantehayes9973
      @bantehayes9973 Год назад +13

      Couldn't have put it better myself.

    • @lydiaharris777
      @lydiaharris777 Год назад +15

      It really was. Even the mannerisms and everything amongst the family. Soooo real

  • @TearYouApart360
    @TearYouApart360 Год назад +793

    I love that even though Dan didn't really get along with Jackie he was willing to protect her.

    • @jordanwolfson8378
      @jordanwolfson8378 Год назад +94

      At the end of the day, feelings are just feelings. They might not get along in the day-to-day, but Jackie is Roseanne's sister and at the end of the day, family is family. You have to protect your family, even if you don't necessarily adore them.
      It's a great message they put out there, I think.

    • @chanelwilliams3709
      @chanelwilliams3709 Год назад +40

      Dan lovedddd Jackie as a matter of fact I feel like he over loved Jackie at some point because if they were trifling the episode when Jackie was taking care of the house while Roseanne was gone could have gone further than it did

    • @deronreed2945
      @deronreed2945 Год назад +26

      Dan and Jackie loved each other! they had great chemistry too

    • @snoopyblu1206
      @snoopyblu1206 Год назад +12

      There's a episode we're Jackie has to basically become Roseanne for a while because she's away and they develop a closer bond because of it they learned to respect each other which is why u see they stopped crackin on each other and got on Rosanne

    • @JoeXTheXJuggalo1
      @JoeXTheXJuggalo1 Год назад +13

      Yeah I didn't really get along with one of my sister's but I defended her a few times when she was with a few nobodies. Yeah I'll admit some of those times she was asking for it from how she is but nobody and I mean NOBODY touches my sister and gets away with it.

  • @emilybradley5492
    @emilybradley5492 4 месяца назад +146

    Dan and Jackie had a tumultuous relationship throughout the show. But when she was a victim of DV, he silently grabbed his coat and walked out the door. That silence spoke volumes.

    • @wickedwitchoftheeast88
      @wickedwitchoftheeast88 Месяц назад +6

      Dan may not have always liked Jackie but she's family and he knows there's no excuse for what Fisher has done so he went and gave him a taste if his own medicine. Men like Fisher are inherent cowards underneath thats why they pick on women because they know they can win easily but would never do it to a man because they know its a level playing field and don't wanna lose

    • @Lou-jl4ov
      @Lou-jl4ov Месяц назад +1

      He went to the nudie bar.

  • @ranaevalentine
    @ranaevalentine 11 месяцев назад +156

    Dan Conner is an absolute gem of a man.

  • @Alliecatastrophe
    @Alliecatastrophe Год назад +487

    the way dan says nothing and just gets his coat and walks out and you just knew what was about to happen it always gives me chills, the fact that he finds jackie so annoying, but she's family and he's protective of her, it speaks volumes

    • @PhazonInfuser
      @PhazonInfuser 11 месяцев назад +39

      Annoying or not, most (not all, but most) men have an unspoken code. You hit a woman, be prepared to get your face smashed in.

    • @whitecismale1815
      @whitecismale1815 7 месяцев назад +7

      Speaks so much volumes to me

  • @CanadianWarMachine
    @CanadianWarMachine Год назад +189

    Darlene right away telling her mom something wrong with her aunt. Roseanne checking on her and pushing for an answer knowing something is wrong. Telling her sister that FISHER was wrong not her. Roseanne giving Dan a look knowing he would do something. Dan finding out and not saying anything just leaving to take care of him….love this family

    • @hutch1197
      @hutch1197 Год назад +17

      That's what made this show more realistic than most. Families argue and get angry with each other all the time. But when someone from the outside hurts a member of the family, they immediately rally around one another. They don't even have to think about it.

    • @someonerandom8552
      @someonerandom8552 Год назад +8

      @@hutch1197Damned right!!
      I remember years ago back when I was a dumb clubbing teen, I saw a fight break out between two guys. At the time I thought it was just a dumb drunk brawl. Apparently one of the guys had just deeply upset the other guy’s sister. Well, fists were certainly flung, I can tell you lol

    • @yevgeniyaleshchenko849
      @yevgeniyaleshchenko849 2 месяца назад

      Thanks for recap, but we all saw it.

  • @katepustay304
    @katepustay304 8 месяцев назад +106

    Dan grabbing his coat and leaving is epic

  • @resaboutb.9566
    @resaboutb.9566 Год назад +329

    Jackie's ultimate confession had me tearing up. Dan's unspoken action in just grabbing his coat made him my hero. What an unexpected scene in a sit-com, portraying an experience that speaks to probably more families than we'd care to admit.

    • @Pitoonya
      @Pitoonya 10 месяцев назад +6

      Had me tearing up too. Laurie Metcalf (Jackie) did an excellent job telling Roseanne what happened.

  • @tek512
    @tek512 8 месяцев назад +352

    Dan showing how the hardworking everyman used to handle business. It's a pity people have forgotten these lessons.

    • @deebo1103
      @deebo1103 5 месяцев назад

      Its too damn bad that when a man hits a woman, he doesnt get his ass kicked anymore. He gets to have therapy for his feelings of anger. Unless she is trying to stab you or your kids, you never hit a woman. This show aged better than its original run in the 90s.

    • @meggrotte4760
      @meggrotte4760 5 месяцев назад +23

      I hate to say it but you're correct.. We haven't raised a generation of men who know how to protect and serve
      There's this concept that men being men is toxic
      I never quite understood that even as a kid

    • @walterbonsell
      @walterbonsell 5 месяцев назад +23

      ​@@meggrotte4760I think what you're referring to is "toxic masculinity" which basically hinders any man from showing any emotion other than anger and having to use aggression as a means of proving he's tough. While Dan has many great qualities as a husband and father, we can't discount the fact that there isn't a strict one way to be a hardworking man.

    • @lunch_trey
      @lunch_trey 4 месяца назад +12

      Wouldn't really say we forgot these lessons but more like society has now adopted some weird mindset that discourages people like Dan from taking matters into their own hands. The laws have now changed to protect people like Fisher.

    • @ddthewolf
      @ddthewolf 3 месяца назад +1

      Criminals kept getting lawyers and crying and well the law seems more interested in protecting them

  • @elenawoodruff7759
    @elenawoodruff7759 11 месяцев назад +90

    I love the “take care of it look” towards Dan this scene is so beautifully done Jackie’s reactions, Darlene’s and Rosie too when she connects it all

  • @barrbarr31u
    @barrbarr31u Год назад +197

    If you look closely, Roseanne and Dan had an understanding when she looks at Dan as she walks Jackie to the room. Roseanne knew what she had.

    • @poopsyko
      @poopsyko Год назад +41

      Rosie was basically telling him to go deal with it.
      Dan was already going
      Such a moment!!!

    • @mikem4696
      @mikem4696 Год назад +11

      Oh yeah wow I missed that first time I watched this. Good eye.

    • @fullchoke01
      @fullchoke01 Год назад +30

      Agreed, she gives dan the green light

    • @datsapaddlin
      @datsapaddlin Год назад

      Yeah she had a giant for a husband and knew he could kick the crap outta people 😂

    • @toddwarren4390
      @toddwarren4390 Год назад +1

      ​@@poopsyko 😂

  • @ckslums
    @ckslums 5 месяцев назад +46

    As a grown man in his 40s this brings tears to my eyes. What a damn good show this was.

  • @jlusk999
    @jlusk999 Год назад +54

    John Goodman portrayed such a great husband, father and friend on this show. Wish we could all have had dads like that.

  • @RuggedArt
    @RuggedArt Год назад +77

    The double look between Dan and Roseanne and the unspoken conversation...beautifully delivered scene. They did a great job with his arrest scene where he covered for Jackie over Roseanne as well.

  • @steverobertson1729
    @steverobertson1729 Год назад +186

    That moment when Dan is like 🤔😐, and grabs his coat and leaves, THAT is one of the greatest moments in television history. It speaks volumes, without a single word needing to be said. You know what he's about to do, and you know its justified.

    • @scoot1846
      @scoot1846 Год назад +3

      💯

    • @jamesdick2580
      @jamesdick2580 10 месяцев назад +2

      exactly! his silently grabbing his coat says more words than any verbal line ever could.

  • @bswizzle93
    @bswizzle93 Год назад +63

    When Dan grabbed that coat you knew shit was about to go down, Hell I got chills down my spine watching it.

  • @GracieLions
    @GracieLions 7 месяцев назад +44

    That last moment when Dan gets his coat - favourite moment ever; he earned the respect of every man and woman with that one little action. Still get chills. ❤❤❤

  • @On_TheMark_08
    @On_TheMark_08 Год назад +48

    The instant Dan grabbed his coat you knew exactly where he was going!

    • @Lou-jl4ov
      @Lou-jl4ov Месяц назад

      to the nudie bar to forget his annoying wife

  • @AnUnhingedMind
    @AnUnhingedMind 2 года назад +547

    Something subtle about this scene that I think was really well-done was Darlene's reaction.
    Usually, Darlene would be making some sort of sarcastic joke or remark in response to everything, but she immediately could tell something was seriously wrong and didn't try to make light of what was going on.

    • @mistercool3859
      @mistercool3859 2 года назад +52

      Everyone's acting was on point in this scene. And I think Roseanne is a highly underrated actress.

    • @MateusGowen
      @MateusGowen  2 года назад +20

      I agree! Season 5 is my favorite of the series. It had so many good episodes and all of the cast was amazing.

    • @musicaltheatergeek79
      @musicaltheatergeek79 Год назад +16

      @@MateusGowen I remember being pissed about Becky being gone, but their new neighbors, the Tildens, were a great addition that season. I wish they had stayed longer. Ty made a good friend for Dan. Molly was a good adversary for Darlene. And I loved Roseanne bonding with Charlotte.

    • @KrizzyBlakc
      @KrizzyBlakc Год назад +11

      @@musicaltheatergeek79 You literally took the words right out of my mouth and typed it. I 100% agree. I wish they had been more permanent in the show. I felt like Roseanne bonding with Charlotte was perfect because you can tell Charlotte’s character in the show was a young girl who didn’t have a mother growing up and was socially awkward, so Roseanne bonding with her could have gave Charlotte the development she needed and that would have been interesting to see down the line in the later episodes. Like imagine later down the line Darlene and Becky don’t care about Roseanne bonding with Charlotte at first but then later they develop jealousy because Charlotte becomes everything Roseanne would want in a daughter. Charlotte is great at school, chores, responsibilities, cooking and doesn’t have attitude or talk back. It could’ve brought in some good drama in the seasons where Roseanne eventually looks at Charlotte as a daughter. They could have Molly and Darlene hash out their differences and eventually become close friends. Maybe Ty could have been a permanent best friend for Dan after Chuck. Anyhow that’s just an idea of mine but nonetheless just having the Tildens on the show more would have been great.

    • @keithrieck5363
      @keithrieck5363 Год назад +20

      And when Roseanne told her upstairs she immediately went.

  • @Paul77ozee
    @Paul77ozee Год назад +36

    I love how you don’t see Rosannes face as she walks Jackie past Dan. But you know she’s giving him the OK.

  • @scottymcalister7368
    @scottymcalister7368 Год назад +84

    Dan grabbing his coat meant shit was about to go down real fast Dan was the "saviour" in this show many many times

  • @queen_of_domination
    @queen_of_domination Год назад +75

    This was powerful! Dan really did care about Jackie.

  • @chewy739
    @chewy739 Год назад +57

    Roseanne looking at Dan as they walked by was an unspoken conversation that needed only one few words. Like stated before. Him grabbing his coat spoke volumes

    • @jamesteegardner2273
      @jamesteegardner2273 Год назад +12

      I LOVED that little subtle look that she gave him. She knew that Dan was going to want to beat the shit out of Fisher for that, and that look she gave him was her telling him that she was completely okay with it. A married couple having such an important conversation without actually saying a word. What an amazing episode!

  • @noelmcmahon3407
    @noelmcmahon3407 2 года назад +78

    This show was so ahead of its time dealing with every day problems

  • @steviemcqueen2547
    @steviemcqueen2547 Год назад +33

    The way Dan just grabbed his coat without saying anything is just priceless ❤

    • @jamesdick2580
      @jamesdick2580 10 месяцев назад +3

      grabbing his coat without a word spoke more than any verbal line ever could have.

  • @wakkogn9351
    @wakkogn9351 Год назад +42

    When I used to teach a course including domestic abuse at the local police academy, I always showed this episode.

    • @ronniestar8762
      @ronniestar8762 2 месяца назад

      is that because of the excuses she uses for his behavior?

    • @wakkogn9351
      @wakkogn9351 2 месяца назад +3

      @@ronniestar8762 that, and to show that even police officers are potential victims.

  • @toledo2vegas31
    @toledo2vegas31 2 года назад +125

    Every family needs a Dan Conner.

    • @williamhodge2506
      @williamhodge2506 2 года назад +5

      My dad who recently passed away was the black Dan Conner 🤣😆🤣!

    • @ryantogo8359
      @ryantogo8359 Год назад +4

      @@williamhodge2506 sorry for your loss

    • @joshuasmith798
      @joshuasmith798 Год назад +2

      Oh they do every woman have an older or younger brother, plus older and younger cousins waiting to get the guy who hurts the women in their family

    • @jamesdick2580
      @jamesdick2580 2 месяца назад

      two of my favorite TV dads have always been Dan Conner and Phil Banks aka ¨Uncle Phil¨.

  • @perrymehta6438
    @perrymehta6438 Год назад +93

    This is one of the best powerful moments in sitcom history. Dan grabbing his coat is my favorite part

    • @darylabrams2
      @darylabrams2 Год назад +12

      When I saw this when it aired I got a chill. I knew Dan was going to kick some ass

  • @jimmithedean4433
    @jimmithedean4433 8 месяцев назад +27

    The way Roseanne and Dan look at one another when she takes Jackie out the room is the best part! It's already understood Dan's going to go have a "word" with Fisher

  • @andrewbrendan1579
    @andrewbrendan1579 Год назад +69

    One of the most powerful and important scenes in the history of television.

    • @eddierascalhaskell4954
      @eddierascalhaskell4954 Год назад +1

      Its good but, when the Evans family got that telegram from down South on Good Times...still even more heartbreaking, in my opinion.

  • @Leeyem
    @Leeyem Год назад +376

    I will never forget this scene. Being a domestic violence survivor myself this speaks volumes. The victims always defend the abusers it's not their fault, I made them angry, I deserved it, they had a rough day. They won't do it again. An abuser never stops it only gets worse they just get better at hiding it. Please if your abused or someone you know was abused please report it

    • @markmike7933
      @markmike7933 Год назад +13

      I'm a guy. Domestic abuse or boyfriend/girlfriends abuse goes both ways and can be mental too. I'm an ex boxer, pretty good one back then. Those don't do any good when you're too in love to NOT BE STUPID and let a girl (in my case) drive you close to suicide and I just overlooked everything she did and said and even TURNED HER INTO A MARTYR trying to protect me by hurting me..INSANE!!
      Would never hit her or even verbally be cruel so the only SMART option would have been to walk away way earlier.
      I know it's different, but if a guy beats a girl who has stayed for beating after beating and she finally presses charges, chances are he'll do time.
      If I had overdosed...which I came close to...she wouldn't have done a day.
      It would have been MY decision to overdose but it is also women's/men's decisions to stay with someone who puts them in danger over and over.
      Physical danger.
      Mental danger isn't recognized as how bad it really is yet.
      Funny, being strong and a hard hitter and tough was ALL WORTHLESS then.
      I wasn't tough with her. I was idiotically, desperately in love.
      Took 2 years to get over. She wasn't worth 5 minutes.
      I am sorry you were abused.
      As for mental violence, there is no one to report it to

    • @Leeyem
      @Leeyem Год назад +7

      @@markmike7933 thank you and yes it does go both ways. Nobody should lay hands to anyone or mental abuse anyone. I wasn't just mentally abused I was physically as well this includes s*xually abused as well. I was stabbed in the shoulder with a fork sticking out of my shoulder I been kicked beaten and mentally put down. It's not something easy to get over

    • @brandonbowdoinandfamily895
      @brandonbowdoinandfamily895 Год назад +4

      DAN, HAD EVERY RIGHT!!!

    • @KrystalHarwood-ty7rk
      @KrystalHarwood-ty7rk Год назад +1

      its fear mostly

    • @sandhard45
      @sandhard45 Год назад +7

      I’m a victim from 1992-1995 my kids mother broke several bones some twice I had numerous black eyes busted lips and on going mental abuse Why didn’t I fight back 2 reasons I was brought up to never ever hit women and I was blinded by the fact that she was bipolar and schizophrenic which it took 3 yrs and 2 kids later to find out but their was no place for a guy being abused in society but to this day I haven’t heard about DV protection for men

  • @kamdan2011
    @kamdan2011 Год назад +52

    3:54 Jesus, Metcalf was at master level here with that quiver of her voice. Her character could absolutely get on your nerves but in this moment of vulnerability, you forgot all of that and felt so much sympathy for like she was your own sister/aunt. I hope one day I can see her perform live.

  • @philvalentine7665
    @philvalentine7665 10 месяцев назад +35

    Even as a kid I appreciated this scene for what it was... A complete work of art.

  • @jonmacdonald5345
    @jonmacdonald5345 Год назад +34

    Dan paid the cost to be the boss while Fisher Pays the buster fee treating Jackie in such a manner.

  • @susanprather5962
    @susanprather5962 2 года назад +119

    Some of Laurie's best acting. 👏

    • @joshuamarx9547
      @joshuamarx9547 2 года назад +4

      Laurie Metcalf is the greatest actress of all time if you ask me. She has literally nailed every role that she has been given. So versatile.

  • @HelloNewMoon
    @HelloNewMoon 4 месяца назад +16

    When he gets arrested but they let him have chicken 😂 it was the laugh everyone needed after all that😅

  • @jennylusk1016
    @jennylusk1016 Год назад +22

    I loved Dan at that very moment. Didn't need to hear anymore, he just went and took care of everything. Always the protector.

  • @taresacampbell5316
    @taresacampbell5316 Год назад +45

    That look Roseanne gave to Dan said "You know what to do." It's clobbering time!

  • @Kylefassbinderful
    @Kylefassbinderful 2 года назад +101

    There has never been a more well written sitcom than this show

  • @mduersten
    @mduersten Год назад +94

    This scene was handled masterfully: the quiet house...the slow build and shock of the reveal...R. immediately snapping into protective mode ("Darlene, you get outta here")...their chaotic argument leading to Jackie's breakdown...I never thought much of R. as an actress but the way she delivered the "I can't believe you're saying this!" line was so raw that it must have crossed over into personal experience. Bravo.

  • @goodvybz1246
    @goodvybz1246 Год назад +23

    That coat grab was epic!

  • @esactown5754
    @esactown5754 Год назад +60

    John Goodman was such a underrated actor should of been in more drama films

    • @buzza2077
      @buzza2077 Год назад +5

      Was? Still is. Lol.

    • @hannahfinlay4941
      @hannahfinlay4941 2 месяца назад

      Dude he was in The Big Lebowski phenomenal movie. Check out Raising Arizona he was hilarious in that movie

  • @user-xr3vk1bu9r
    @user-xr3vk1bu9r 9 месяцев назад +49

    I wish my dad did this when my ex used to get drunk and put hands on me…one time my dad just watched. Somethings a person will never forget, no matter how much time has passed. When you’re in an abusive relationship and you have no help, it’s scary….it eventually turns your broken heart cold and changes you. Sending prayers for all the men and women out there suffering from domestic violence. ♥️

    • @brokencigarette3017
      @brokencigarette3017 5 месяцев назад +4

      I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope you are doing much better these days.

  • @SurvivorBri
    @SurvivorBri 8 месяцев назад +39

    Something I didn't realize until now. If Roseanne hadn't made Jackie change her shirt, Darlene would not have seen Jackie's bruises. Nobody would have known about Jackie's abuse until maybe something worse happened.

  • @josephhernandez1885
    @josephhernandez1885 2 года назад +58

    "He said he was sorry and it wouldn't happen again."
    Jackie, there is a saying that goes around since the dawn of time: if a man strikes once, there is always gonna be more.

    • @ED80s
      @ED80s Год назад +6

      and when someone shows you who they are, believe them.

    • @josephhernandez1885
      @josephhernandez1885 7 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@ED80spreach

  • @jasonmalloy634
    @jasonmalloy634 Год назад +28

    This was such a deep episode.. Dan and Jackie didn't always get along but he didn't waste any time to defend her!! ❤

  • @brucewayneissupermanquinn601
    @brucewayneissupermanquinn601 Год назад +59

    As a dude, I’m thankful that I had a dad like Dan Connor who taught me it’s NEVER ok to strike a woman. When Dan grabs his coat to leave…I can totally se my dad doing that.

    • @killaseason82
      @killaseason82 Год назад +3

      If she hit him first or wouldn't shut up its ok

    • @remidanae1689
      @remidanae1689 Год назад +2

      Same here. I remember once as a kid my dad pulling over the family truck and yanking my brother out of the backseat to spank his bare ass in view of all of the highway because he kept punching me (a girl) 😂😂 My stepmom was almost as mad as my brother at the time but he turned into a really protective dad who I cant see ever laying hands on a woman so I think it was worth it.

    • @someonerandom8552
      @someonerandom8552 Год назад +1

      @@remidanae1689
      In hindsight, I think my father may have had an abusive father and that deeply scarred him.
      I say this because before I could even walk, he absolutely drilled it into my head that as soon as a man so much as lifts his hand towards me, I was to leave immediately. No questions asked, no passing go, just leave.
      At the time I didn’t really understand what he was trying to teach me or his fears for me. But from the little snippets he shared about his mother, I highly suspect his father would beat her and he would nurse her afterwards, since he adored her. I never really got a clear answer from him as whenever I asked he just completely shut down. But with hindsight and based on his behaviour in general, I have to conclude that he witnessed domestic abuse in his life and thankfully, rather than falling into such a pattern of behaviour, he instead became a very protective father in response.

    • @alexrossi4464
      @alexrossi4464 2 месяца назад

      ​@@killaseason82 nah, you're a coward! 😢

  • @andrewbrendan1579
    @andrewbrendan1579 Год назад +208

    At the beginning of the video Jackie refers to herself as "...a selfish, rotten person..." and then calls herself "a jerk". Sounds like Fisher had already been psychologically abusing Jackie, eroding her sense of self-respect and self-worth. Then later there was the it-was-my-fault/ i-made-him-do-it outlook. This scene so accurately and realistically shows a situation of domestic violence. I wouldn't be surprised if people, both men and women, who watched this episode of "Roseanne" saw their own lives in a new way and made decisions about changing their lives by starting the process of getting out of similar situations.

    • @MateusGowen
      @MateusGowen  Год назад +10

      Just one of the ways Roseanne herself addressed many realistic topics in everyday life that are still relevant. In my opinion, she doesn't get enough credit for how important her show was.

    • @andrewbrendan1579
      @andrewbrendan1579 Год назад +7

      @@MateusGowen As I've watched this scene (which, tragically, reminds me of my own family) over and over something else I noticed is how Jackie says nothing is wrong, tries to downplay the situation and how she defends Fisher and wants to keep his abuse a secret, a secret that will allow the abuse to continue. Jackie must have felt shame and also been aware that exposure of Fisher as an abuser might have made things even worse for her. Along with all of this Jackie and Roseanne had a physically abusive father as the sisters were growing up. I wonder how often it is that someone abused as a child is abused again as an adult by another adult who is a spouse or partner. It's amazing how in only a few minutes we get such an accurate portrayal of domestic violence and its discovery. Whoever wrote this did a brilliant job and the acting is superb.

    • @MateusGowen
      @MateusGowen  Год назад +4

      @@andrewbrendan1579 it was written by Bruce Rasmussen.

    • @andrewbrendan1579
      @andrewbrendan1579 Год назад +5

      @@MateusGowen Thank you for that information. Mr. Rasmussen's work deserves acknowledgement and recognition.

    • @mikem4696
      @mikem4696 Год назад +3

      Was just thinking the same thing

  • @paulthescorpio
    @paulthescorpio 11 месяцев назад +17

    Laurie Metcalf is such an amazing actress! She made me cry for her! Amazing!

  • @philipdraper7284
    @philipdraper7284 Год назад +158

    Laurie Metcalf is insanely talented. I think of her in Scream 2 as just one example. You feel such different emotions and forget she’s playing the role. I didn’t feel like I was “watching Aunt Jackie” in that role and that’s the mark of an exceptional actress.

    • @MateusGowen
      @MateusGowen  Год назад +4

      I agree, and she was the perfect fit for Jackie. This is one of my favorite performances of hers in the entire series.

    • @homemadehuman
      @homemadehuman Год назад +6

      She was Amazing in Scream 2,best killer reveal to this day.

    • @michaelcdavis7047
      @michaelcdavis7047 Год назад +1

      @@MateusGowen I had the opportunity to see her onstage in Stephen King's Misery opposite Bruce Willis seven years ago. She was phenomenal portraying Annie and received accolades for her performance.Miss Metcalf is a treasure, and her acting in these clips is so true to life .Thank you for your posting of these scenes.

    • @homemadehuman
      @homemadehuman Год назад

      @@pab0904 The fuck You talking about, mrs.loomis Killed Mickey,shot in the head, period.you're either Trolling or bored..get a Life.

    • @pab0904
      @pab0904 Год назад

      ​@@homemadehuman actually why don't you take a hike I know what I saw I seen it before plenty of times, I'm not stupid she didn't kill him right then and there I'm not bored I already have a life you just want to make comments to make cause debates so I don't want to hear it.
      I tried to be respectful but you're not worth it why don't you take a hike and get a life?!

  • @richardcollins6629
    @richardcollins6629 Год назад +14

    4:25 Love it when Roseanne looks at Dan like...."GET HIM" ✊️✊️✊️✊️

  • @athenagriego4561
    @athenagriego4561 Год назад +33

    Roseanne gave Dan that look to go ahead and hurt him. Dans concern shows no matter how much they spat he loves her like a younger sis. Laurie Metcalf /Jackie has so much range. She makes me laugh my ass off and then makes me cry. Great show! Great actors! Great chemistry!

  • @DizzyedUpGirl
    @DizzyedUpGirl Год назад +13

    Dan didn't even think twice. He knew from the second he heard it, what he was going to do.

  • @kendawyatt3219
    @kendawyatt3219 Год назад +10

    Dan was like “ight!!! Bet!” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @deletedwaffles
    @deletedwaffles 3 месяца назад +9

    The audience knew exactly what Dan was going to do by how they reacted to him getting his coat.

  • @fullchoke01
    @fullchoke01 Год назад +50

    Dan, Al bundy, 2 great dads who always protected their own, love how Rosie gives him the go ahead and he just calmly goes about business

    • @diegomelendez9918
      @diegomelendez9918 Год назад +2

      More ass kickers to me but awesome dads

    • @rogergarrison4271
      @rogergarrison4271 Год назад +12

      When Kelly told Al to beat up dude in the movie theater "yes pumpkin" then goes and whales on dude. Lol

    • @zefearth973
      @zefearth973 3 месяца назад +1

      I would never call Al Bundy a great father. Dan Connor was a much better character.

  • @birdy1numnum
    @birdy1numnum 2 месяца назад +5

    *All four actors putting on a masterclass on a difficult subject. Kudos to this incredible TV show.*

  • @heater9124
    @heater9124 Год назад +16

    I will never forget this episode & the impact it made. Changed the way I viewed relationships & abuse. Too many stay quiet out of fear of something worse. Thank you for sharing. ❤

  • @sherrymay5409
    @sherrymay5409 11 месяцев назад +19

    Mad respect for Dan

  • @barnfrmdabury1
    @barnfrmdabury1 4 месяца назад +3

    That look from Roseanne let Dan know it was okay to go Rambo😂😂.....

  • @joelsims98
    @joelsims98 2 года назад +24

    Dan: I’m whoopin’ his ass.

  • @manjiwolf
    @manjiwolf 11 месяцев назад +8

    I remember seeing this as a kid. He became a hero to me. Seeing Dan pick up the jacket is like seeing Thor pick up the hammer.

  • @greggallardo3839
    @greggallardo3839 Год назад +13

    Rosanne gives Dan the look. Knowing what he's about to do

  • @elizel90
    @elizel90 8 месяцев назад +10

    Its so sad when a victim feels they need to come up with excuses for their abuser

  • @Rainb0wBryte1
    @Rainb0wBryte1 Год назад +10

    Dan grabbing his coat like that is probably my favorite moment of the entire series

  • @Boaz833
    @Boaz833 7 месяцев назад +12

    There's a story in the town my dad grew up in. My aunts fiance was hurting her. One day, my dad and his 5 brothers told their parents they were going into town. But no one in town saw them there that day. To this day, no one knows where they went that day. The only thing we know for sure is that my aunt's fiance was never seen or heard from again. The assumption was that he ran away because he didnt want to be married. That was good enough for everyone.

  • @MrCamp
    @MrCamp Год назад +25

    This show deserves a full rewatch. Dan Conner deserves his crown for being one of the best sitcom characters ever, as does John Goodman for being iconic

  • @kittenclysm116
    @kittenclysm116 10 месяцев назад +15

    People would say Dan's choice was good because he didn't give it a second thought, but I think the opposite. It was good because Dan DID think about it and decided it was the right thing. God bless him

  • @frank_g4769
    @frank_g4769 Год назад +13

    Wish we could of got a scene with Dan knocking on fishers door “i don’t wanna talk right now, Dan” then boom door comes flying off the hinges.

  • @joshuasmith798
    @joshuasmith798 Год назад +13

    What about that look Roseanne gave Dan when her and Jackie were walking into the bedroom. That was her "go beat his ass", look.

  • @MattMxx
    @MattMxx Год назад +13

    A $100 for bail? The 90s were good times

  • @rebeccahawes7040
    @rebeccahawes7040 Год назад +11

    Dan is a good brother in law and he loves Jackie enough to protect her

  • @yoongiswetmouth
    @yoongiswetmouth 2 года назад +60

    I was just trying to find a clip of when Loretta Lynn was on the show for some reason, and this video popped up. I truly cherish Roseanne, the Conners were like my second family. No matter how many times I’ve seen this episode I tear up, as my mom is a survivor of domestic abuse, and when Dan grabs his jacket you know it’s over.

    • @MateusGowen
      @MateusGowen  2 года назад +2

      That's an amazing story, and I'm glad she survived. I saw Roseanne reruns when I was younger and watched the reboot in 2018 and have seen every episode of The Conners so far. In late 2019, I started watching Roseanne from the beginning and have now seen every episode. I still watch it every night it airs on Cozi TV. It's a great show and was ahead of its time in general and on many subjects. Roseanne herself doesn't get enough credit for what she did. Darlene is my favorite character because I relate to her a lot.

    • @angeloc.6550
      @angeloc.6550 2 года назад +2

      Exactly! I definitely never want to be in that situation but god forbid, Dan needs to grab that jacket and kick ass.
      Btw….”Lanford Daze” is the Loretta Lynn episode 5x15. Excellent choice ☺️

  • @datsapaddlin
    @datsapaddlin Год назад +11

    Roseanne gave Dan that mob boss you know what to do look 😂. He walked up on Fisher like call 911…but not for me.

  • @rebeccayood5152
    @rebeccayood5152 Год назад +15

    I loved Dan. He really loved his family, and he really cared about Jackie. This episode proves it.

  • @Shatamx
    @Shatamx 7 месяцев назад +5

    Greatest presentation of the lower/middle American class ever deprecated on video media. Laughing one scene crying the next. All with honesty. Brutal loving honesty.

  • @Ascofield001
    @Ascofield001 10 месяцев назад +33

    Forget Friends, Roseanne was the 90s best sitcom.

  • @briantneary2248
    @briantneary2248 Год назад +11

    This scene still chokes me up.

  • @peteartussee1202
    @peteartussee1202 Год назад +8

    Dan didn't even have to say a word. Him grabbing his coat said it all. I miss the 90s Rosanne

  • @jrloopy1984
    @jrloopy1984 Год назад +7

    The way Dan walks out still brings tears

  • @iicy_Hott_x3
    @iicy_Hott_x3 5 месяцев назад +5

    I wish I had a father like that growing up. Beautiful scene.

  • @evernevermore-ci2so
    @evernevermore-ci2so Год назад +74

    This show touched on some serious issues. The way Jackie tries to blow it off as nothing then tries to defend him then says she shouldn't have pushed so much. Just one of many reasons why abuse is so terrible. The victim feels confused and trapped and even hates themselves but not the abuser. Jackie was a cop. She heard and saw cases like this all the time. But hearing about abuse and living it are very different things. It's not always easy to get out by yourself and you never know how you'd truly react until you're in a situation like this. It's scary.

  • @daniellesedore2359
    @daniellesedore2359 2 года назад +49

    Great scene, wished they showed the confrontation with fisher

    • @mikem4696
      @mikem4696 Год назад +6

      I’m kind of glad they didn’t. They really didn’t need to. We all know what came next.

  • @joeparish3575
    @joeparish3575 Год назад +22

    It shows at the end of the day, when you get into some real trouble; who the real ppl are in your life and the ones that are gonna be there for you!! Dan is the real goat in this episode! He gave me chills when he grabbed his coat!!

  • @karlfritch5873
    @karlfritch5873 Год назад +5

    Rosanne looking at Dan. He knew what too do

  • @jackinabox93
    @jackinabox93 Год назад +22

    What I also love on top of how great the acting was but she was a cop. It shows that even people who are in positions like that are still vulnerable

  • @alib5074
    @alib5074 Год назад +9

    This was a phenomenal scene. Dan, Roseanne, and Jackie acted their asses off.

  • @2luvdistrini
    @2luvdistrini 2 месяца назад +3

    The way we all knew how Dan was going to react and the power of him quietly leaving with his coat is evidence of how amazing the character development of this show really was. Best scene ever

  • @QueenGamer89
    @QueenGamer89 Год назад +12

    That look that Rosanne gave Dan that was to give him the ok to go beat Fischer ass this scene was so epic I love it❤