i relate to this so much im crying. i didnt have parents who were understanding or were willing to be i remember being 8 years old crying myself to sleep i remember being a teenager figuring out what my feelings were and it being so difficult i experienced so much pain because i felt pressured to hide who i really was its so important to be kind, understanding and supportive of transgender youth
I couldn't make it even halfway through the video, it makes me mad. I was in this little girl's shoes once, except my family outcasts me for it. I was adopted so I can't really know what that's like.. it makes me so mad when I see people get support and I am all on my own. I have to lie to them. I started HRT about a week ago and I am going to lose my family soon, this just made me kinda die inside. Great video though from what I saw. Thanks for uploading it.
shes so lucky to have a supportive mum my dad especially is mean always telling me im a girl ill never be a boy bc i have this and that and says "ooo what u gonna go cvt yourself" like omd anyways thanks for making this video
Thank you, thank you, thank you for your work, Marlo. This is absolutely brilliant. Just listened to your interview on GenderGP... listened to it twice! You and your daughter are lucky to have each other. Your stories are full of hope and love. Carry on!! a cis grandmother with a non-binary/trans grandchild.
I was watching and now sitting here with tears in my eyes. You couldn't have visualized better than with this short cartoon. So well done! We are in a difficult phases with our teenage boy at the moment, don't know where everything will lead to. But the feeling you spoke of, that you've lost a beloved child for a new one, I deeply feel the same. All the best to you and your family with ❤ from Germany
I wish the bigots would watch this. Maybe it would melt their hearts...but I doubt it. They would probably just condemn the mum for taking notice of her daughter. As a trans woman who's in her mid-50s, I'm so happy many parents are recognising their child's gender identity, instead of what I experienced. I'd probably be carrying around a lot less baggage if that had been the case.
As a so called “Bigot” I watched this, it made me so sad watching this mother abusing her son and making him into a Girl. That boy is and always will be a boy. It’s really awful and sad to watch and I feel so bad for that young man
I’m a bigot, this made me feel angry and sad. That poor child. Who’s the parent here? Sad baby will probably get his penis chopped up and have to deal with that forever cuz “happiness”.
My 3 years old boy wanted to play with a pink colored matchbox car, i gave him a replica of a T72 Russian main battle tank instead. The drama ended here, he is the happiest child I know around.
Good for you. I was a tomboy, really liked my brothers toys etc. If I was a child nowadays I'd have my uterus whipped out by dinner time. I'm a woman who loves guns.
I wish I had found this video before my daughter came out to me. She was into the pink and sparkles as well but we only let her have those things at home, not in public 🤦♀️. At the time I thought transgender was a choice or caused by trauma so Unfortunately I put my daughter through some trauma as I slowly educated myself. I especially appreciate you touching on the mourning process we go through. I felt so guilty for mourning the loss of my son when my daughter was still right there. Thank you so much for taking time for this video!
I wonder because this child knew who she was at such a young age, that it somehow is easier to understand that they are genuine - like at age 2 or 3, its difficult to argue that she was somehow influenced by environment. And, wouldn't it be great if all parents could be as tuned in as this one!
Now I just Please please _please_ don't start any hormone therapy until after she is much older It's possible this is just a phase Seriously, I'm very pro transgender, I just don't want this child transitioning to early When I was little I'm sure I wanted to be a boy, I've grown out or that phase. I know starting a hormone therapy, and any form of surgery's too early can really fuck up a kid Especially if it really is just a phase, Don't rush into anything to soon, please. Let her be what she wants to be now, but don't do anything to drastic. You can use pronouns and whatever, but it's very possible she doesn't have gender disphoria, I'm not saying you make her be a boy just don't do anything drastic
Umm hormone therapy doesn't start until at LEAST early teens. And usually, docs will ONLY prescribe blockers (Aka pausing there bio gender puberty) untill there older anyways. Until kids reach 10/11 (Aka puberty) all kids are the SAME apart from there reproductive parts. I do agree not to rush it, But blockers can be a lifesaver for the future, If the kid changes there mind, stop taking the blockers and boom, everything starts up the way it would have anyhow, its not an issue. Just don't do what the stupid parent did in Australia, she gave her son her own estrogin tablets when he was 14, evan though the docs over there said to wait till he/she was 16......a year later the kid changed there mind and had to have surgery to remove his breasts.
hello there. I'm a trans man and I would just like to tell you that saying that how a child expresses their gender is just a "phase" is very disrespectful and is just basically saying that the child is lying and you dont believe them. Pronouns are not "whatever" and help EVERYONE feel comfortable (especially in different languages like Spanish, etc..). I really hope you come to realize that being "pro transgender" is not a thing, that just sounds like the typical phrase "I dont have a problem with it, but...". Accepting the many diverse realities that exist in the world is a thing. Some people are transgender, some people aren't, that's a fact. And the fact here is that this little GIRL in the video has expressed her gender for years. No doctors or psychologists can help. She is the only one that can tell us what her gender is (and she already has, many times, during years....) so external "opinions" dont have any room in these situations. I know this is a scary fact, that a child can know so much about themselves when as adults we are still fumbling around, but it's the truth, so we just have to let them express themselves and give them a safe and loving environment to communicate freely and literally ask what name and pronouns they want to use, and that's it. What makes children suffer in these situations is when parents say it's just a phase. We have to listen. And well, thankfully her mom listened to her...
@@jpowell719 I hope you come to realize that this mindset you have is dangerous to children. Children do not know more about themselves than adults do until they approach adolescence. Kids are allowed to think they're one thing or another, but it becomes dangerous and harmful when a parent endorses it or makes life-altering decisions for their children.
@lillianadomangue9095 The only person who has direct insight into that child's brain is her. No matter what, this will be the kids' choice down the line, and at least if they figure it out around the age that several studies have concluded that children start to grasp gender, then they might avoid a lot of pointless pain down the line.
Ugh same I want to be a girl too and I’ve only told one friend because I know she is very nice but I don’t think I could ever tell my family and I know they wouldn’t be supportive. And I hate that I’m a guy that wants to be a girl, I wish that I was born a girl and that’s why I’m super sad because I don’t want to go through the phase between being a guy and a girl because during that time I would still look like a guy and even at the end I would be very scared of people still knowing :(
I just discovered your latest update. It's sad, but it's the inevitable reality of middle school. Despite any wokeness, fundamental human nature manifests itself. No school counselor or administrator can or will change it. Good luck.
I think this is a misunderstood situation. I know he doesn’t understand himself yet or his environment giving his young age. He might just be a more feminine boy who likes to play with dolls but seeing how other boys dont and girls do, he thinks he is a girl. He even tried to name himself Rainbow. If I were his parent. I would wait until he grows old enough to understand what he’s saying instead of sanctioning his “girlish” behavior at just 3 years old but that’s just what I think because his brain is nowhere near duly developed.
There is nothing wrong with this behavior and telling the kid that they MUST be cis isn't healthy. She has plenty of time to figure out if this isn't for her and as long as there isn't a judgmental environment there is no harm. Anything that is somewhat significant won't be happening till later in life.
This really IS sad. This child thinks he's 38, or 29. Thinks girls have purple & blue spots, and that he's a girl. So you see, a 2yr old is not intuitive enough to decide their own gender. At 3, the child declared the little boy was gone. A mistake wasn't made in mom's tummy, it was made by the mom who bought into the illogical mindset of a 2yr old, a toddler mind you, and dressed him in girl's clothes for a year. A parent is supposed to teach their children things, like how girls don't have purple and blue spots, their correct age, how to count, and that boys aren't supposed to dress like girls. I sincerely pray for this family that this child does not suffer the anguish of one day wanting a child, a family, only to realize he can't because of hormone therapy and/or surgeries. I'm not shaming anyone. I love everybody for who they are, I just feel bad for people who have fallen into this ideology & are being subliminally controlled by progressive social engineering. [P.S. it's part of the depopulation agenda. Agenda 2030. For real. ]
I feel sad... I realized i was a girl when i was around 10 years old.... It took me 5 years to tell my mom... I am going to be 16 in September... However, due to puberty... Well, yeah, i guess it really is too late for me to be happy... 😓😓😟😥
I loved this! I know its really hard for parents and many parents feel they lost their little boy or little girl when a child is transgender, but the most important thing is still supporting your child and listening to your child. I myself am a Trans man, and love seeing trans children who are accepted.
Check out the podcast, y'all! I love the little touches, Marlo Mack. Your stick figure faces are amazingly expressive...and the HRC tshirt you dress yourself in at 1:59 or so makes me smile every time.
As time goes by more and more people will be ok with people being 'different' (can't think of a better collective word). Some parents think a good kick up the arse is needed (my dad), but that might be to with when they were born and their upbringing. It's up to others to help them understand that times have changed. People need to be themselves, if they're not allowed to they'll end up like me, Depressed, self harming and other stuff. If anyone reading this knows anyone that feels that their in the wrong body, are gay, wants to be a unicorn etc, just talk to them and help them. I didn't understand depression until I described how I was feeling to my doctor only then did I understand what my best friend was going through. You may not fully understand what they're feeling but just be there for them..... Blessed be.
@rekt.exe this is pretty good tho, why does your kid know the words penis and vagina at the age of not old enough to need to know those words ? (btw do not get salt, i liked so bleh) nice video tho, its well put together for a young lad that isn't a young lad but a young gurr
kids know nothing but silly. I always had gender identity disorder and I never acted out the ordinary of a normal dude, even now. Despite still wanting a wife , some of my words are words from both genders regardless
They make each other help and they are happy before why is she get a girl how i can tramsfored me a girl but i am a boy i wanna be getting a girl she/he make teaching kill alien being a teacher or a anything a helper right!
Marlo, you may believe that you are traveling an enlightened path, but you are badly mistaken. Course correct before it is too late to save your child.
I am one of the “transphobic” people not a Christian but an Orthodox Jew I find this story interesting I won’t attack you or you’re son but I just got this weird feeling when you talked about you’re dream then I decided to write this comment still it is scientifically proven that there is no gene that makes you born like this it is rather the environment little children just think weird things too I am not denying that this feeling exists just that it’s not what you’re born with even me as strong religious person sometimes want to be a girl no strong feelings but it just comes and goes I tell myself that it’s not possible and I am a man you don’t have to give in to a myth
i relate to this so much im crying.
i didnt have parents who were understanding
or were willing to be
i remember being 8 years old crying myself to sleep
i remember being a teenager figuring out what my feelings were and it being so difficult
i experienced so much pain because i felt pressured to hide who i really was
its so important to be kind, understanding and supportive of transgender youth
I couldn't make it even halfway through the video, it makes me mad. I was in this little girl's shoes once, except my family outcasts me for it. I was adopted so I can't really know what that's like.. it makes me so mad when I see people get support and I am all on my own. I have to lie to them. I started HRT about a week ago and I am going to lose my family soon, this just made me kinda die inside. Great video though from what I saw. Thanks for uploading it.
Hey person who actually gives a shit and would be genuinely happy if u wanted to talk :)
@Jenova Core how's it going? I hope you're doing well!
Why is the music so creepy tho..
It's not bro
@@Yuvaan279Yey bro
@@Yuvaan279it’s not creepy
The music is not creepy
shes so lucky to have a supportive mum my dad especially is mean always telling me im a girl ill never be a boy bc i have this and that and says "ooo what u gonna go cvt yourself" like omd anyways thanks for making this video
Thank you, thank you, thank you for your work, Marlo. This is absolutely brilliant. Just listened to your interview on GenderGP... listened to it twice! You and your daughter are lucky to have each other. Your stories are full of hope and love. Carry on!! a cis grandmother with a non-binary/trans grandchild.
I was watching and now sitting here with tears in my eyes. You couldn't have visualized better than with this short cartoon. So well done!
We are in a difficult phases with our teenage boy at the moment, don't know where everything will lead to. But the feeling you spoke of, that you've lost a beloved child for a new one, I deeply feel the same. All the best to you and your family with ❤ from Germany
Why are there Hail Mary chants in the background?
I wish the bigots would watch this. Maybe it would melt their hearts...but I doubt it. They would probably just condemn the mum for taking notice of her daughter. As a trans woman who's in her mid-50s, I'm so happy many parents are recognising their child's gender identity, instead of what I experienced. I'd probably be carrying around a lot less baggage if that had been the case.
Unfortunately, when you do something that challenges someone's ignorant beliefs, they usually hold onto them even tighter, sometimes violently.
As a so called “Bigot” I watched this, it made me so sad watching this mother abusing her son and making him into a Girl. That boy is and always will be a boy. It’s really awful and sad to watch and I feel so bad for that young man
I’m a bigot, this made me feel angry and sad. That poor child. Who’s the parent here? Sad baby will probably get his penis chopped up and have to deal with that forever cuz “happiness”.
@@carternelson1122she’s just letting her daughter wear the clothes she like
I just read that a psychologist says this book is dangerous to children
My 3 years old boy wanted to play with a pink colored matchbox car, i gave him a replica of a T72 Russian main battle tank instead. The drama ended here, he is the happiest child I know around.
Good for you. I was a tomboy, really liked my brothers toys etc. If I was a child nowadays I'd have my uterus whipped out by dinner time. I'm a woman who loves guns.
I wish I had found this video before my daughter came out to me. She was into the pink and sparkles as well but we only let her have those things at home, not in public 🤦♀️. At the time I thought transgender was a choice or caused by trauma so Unfortunately I put my daughter through some trauma as I slowly educated myself. I especially appreciate you touching on the mourning process we go through. I felt so guilty for mourning the loss of my son when my daughter was still right there.
Thank you so much for taking time for this video!
I wonder because this child knew who she was at such a young age, that it somehow is easier to understand that they are genuine - like at age 2 or 3, its difficult to argue that she was somehow influenced by environment. And, wouldn't it be great if all parents could be as tuned in as this one!
Now I just
Please please _please_ don't start any hormone therapy until after she is much older
It's possible this is just a phase
Seriously, I'm very pro transgender, I just don't want this child transitioning to early
When I was little I'm sure I wanted to be a boy, I've grown out or that phase.
I know starting a hormone therapy, and any form of surgery's too early can really fuck up a kid
Especially if it really is just a phase,
Don't rush into anything to soon, please. Let her be what she wants to be now, but don't do anything to drastic.
You can use pronouns and whatever, but it's very possible she doesn't have gender disphoria,
I'm not saying you make her be a boy just don't do anything drastic
Umm hormone therapy doesn't start until at LEAST early teens.
And usually, docs will ONLY prescribe blockers (Aka pausing there bio gender puberty) untill there older anyways.
Until kids reach 10/11 (Aka puberty) all kids are the SAME apart from there reproductive parts.
I do agree not to rush it, But blockers can be a lifesaver for the future, If the kid changes there mind, stop taking the blockers and boom, everything starts up the way it would have anyhow, its not an issue.
Just don't do what the stupid parent did in Australia, she gave her son her own estrogin tablets when he was 14, evan though the docs over there said to wait till he/she was 16......a year later the kid changed there mind and had to have surgery to remove his breasts.
hello there. I'm a trans man and I would just like to tell you that saying that how a child expresses their gender is just a "phase" is very disrespectful and is just basically saying that the child is lying and you dont believe them. Pronouns are not "whatever" and help EVERYONE feel comfortable (especially in different languages like Spanish, etc..). I really hope you come to realize that being "pro transgender" is not a thing, that just sounds like the typical phrase "I dont have a problem with it, but...". Accepting the many diverse realities that exist in the world is a thing. Some people are transgender, some people aren't, that's a fact. And the fact here is that this little GIRL in the video has expressed her gender for years. No doctors or psychologists can help. She is the only one that can tell us what her gender is (and she already has, many times, during years....) so external "opinions" dont have any room in these situations. I know this is a scary fact, that a child can know so much about themselves when as adults we are still fumbling around, but it's the truth, so we just have to let them express themselves and give them a safe and loving environment to communicate freely and literally ask what name and pronouns they want to use, and that's it. What makes children suffer in these situations is when parents say it's just a phase. We have to listen. And well, thankfully her mom listened to her...
@@jpowell719 I hope you come to realize that this mindset you have is dangerous to children. Children do not know more about themselves than adults do until they approach adolescence. Kids are allowed to think they're one thing or another, but it becomes dangerous and harmful when a parent endorses it or makes life-altering decisions for their children.
@lillianadomangue9095 The only person who has direct insight into that child's brain is her. No matter what, this will be the kids' choice down the line, and at least if they figure it out around the age that several studies have concluded that children start to grasp gender, then they might avoid a lot of pointless pain down the line.
i sobbed, i loved every second!!
this is basically a different (but similar) version of my life (im also trans)
I do want to be trans
iSwxgzYt how can you “want to be trans”? You either are trans or not, it’s not a choice
@@memeshirt4801 i really wasnt expecting a reply on a comment i got 2 years ago, but what you are saying is true
@@kizsom906 same
me too!
Thank you for sharing your journey with this. Your daughter is lucky to have you in her corner
holy shit that was cute and heartwarming as hell
Nah kinda uhh it was kinda weird it made me kinda sad
this is inspiring and heartwarming and im crying to myself in bed cause i want to be like her.
i want to be a girl
How's it going sis? I hope it's going well!
@@Sophia_Sophisticated this warms my day,thank you
@@ryanwatt6257 welcome! :3
Take your time.
Girl, you'll get there!
Ugh same I want to be a girl too and I’ve only told one friend because I know she is very nice but I don’t think I could ever tell my family and I know they wouldn’t be supportive. And I hate that I’m a guy that wants to be a girl, I wish that I was born a girl and that’s why I’m super sad because I don’t want to go through the phase between being a guy and a girl because during that time I would still look like a guy and even at the end I would be very scared of people still knowing :(
The same as you 💔
I want to be a girl
Ok
U are beautiful the way u are
It's been so very long since you've given us an update. We miss your podcast. Let us know how things are going!
I just discovered your latest update. It's sad, but it's the inevitable reality of middle school. Despite any wokeness, fundamental human nature manifests itself. No school counselor or administrator can or will change it. Good luck.
I had a relative in a similar situation. luckily the son grew out of in teens
This is me but my parents don't accept me:/ it's rlly hard for me
I’m sorry to hear that.
Yeah
Honest question: What are you supposed to do when you're constantly going through gender dysphoria, but you can transition?
this is literally my life story
I Might Do That
so cute, happy for your daughter
I told my parents but they said it’s probably just a phase so I’m sad
I think this is a misunderstood situation. I know he doesn’t understand himself yet or his environment giving his young age. He might just be a more feminine boy who likes to play with dolls but seeing how other boys dont and girls do, he thinks he is a girl. He even tried to name himself Rainbow. If I were his parent. I would wait until he grows old enough to understand what he’s saying instead of sanctioning his “girlish” behavior at just 3 years old but that’s just what I think because his brain is nowhere near duly developed.
There is nothing wrong with this behavior and telling the kid that they MUST be cis isn't healthy. She has plenty of time to figure out if this isn't for her and as long as there isn't a judgmental environment there is no harm. Anything that is somewhat significant won't be happening till later in life.
Absolutely beautiful! Thank you (and your daughter) so much! I will share this widely.
This really IS sad. This child thinks he's 38, or 29. Thinks girls have purple & blue spots, and that he's a girl. So you see, a 2yr old is not intuitive enough to decide their own gender. At 3, the child declared the little boy was gone. A mistake wasn't made in mom's tummy, it was made by the mom who bought into the illogical mindset of a 2yr old, a toddler mind you, and dressed him in girl's clothes for a year. A parent is supposed to teach their children things, like how girls don't have purple and blue spots, their correct age, how to count, and that boys aren't supposed to dress like girls. I sincerely pray for this family that this child does not suffer the anguish of one day wanting a child, a family, only to realize he can't because of hormone therapy and/or surgeries. I'm not shaming anyone. I love everybody for who they are, I just feel bad for people who have fallen into this ideology & are being subliminally controlled by progressive social engineering. [P.S. it's part of the depopulation agenda. Agenda 2030. For real. ]
*HELLO*
*I AM 38 AND 29* adorable
"And I REALLY love you!" Cracks me up.
I feel sad... I realized i was a girl when i was around 10 years old.... It took me 5 years to tell my mom... I am going to be 16 in September... However, due to puberty... Well, yeah, i guess it really is too late for me to be happy... 😓😓😟😥
It's never too late, I wish you luck with your transition if you choose to do so
I loved this! I know its really hard for parents and many parents feel they lost their little boy or little girl when a child is transgender, but the most important thing is still supporting your child and listening to your child. I myself am a Trans man, and love seeing trans children who are accepted.
This was not what I expected but I love it the same I'm a transfem this was amazing🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎🤎
how'd bro get existential at 3???
Check out the podcast, y'all! I love the little touches, Marlo Mack. Your stick figure faces are amazingly expressive...and the HRC tshirt you dress yourself in at 1:59 or so makes me smile every time.
She is now prob 12 or 13 yr old
This is soooooooooooooo good !!!!
Winks
Lisa
This is such a heart touching story and I love it
I want to be a girl but there is really no why to change and that sucks 😢
I want to be a girl
i want to be a dinosaur(T rex) 😢😢
@@san-cj6qc cool
Deep idk how i fell any more
As time goes by more and more people will be ok with people being 'different' (can't think of a better collective word). Some parents think a good kick up the arse is needed (my dad), but that might be to with when they were born and their upbringing. It's up to others to help them understand that times have changed.
People need to be themselves, if they're not allowed to they'll end up like me, Depressed, self harming and other stuff.
If anyone reading this knows anyone that feels that their in the wrong body, are gay, wants to be a unicorn etc, just talk to them and help them. I didn't understand depression until I described how I was feeling to my doctor only then did I understand what my best friend was going through.
You may not fully understand what they're feeling but just be there for them.....
Blessed be.
Just a footnote, I'm Dyslexic. so sorry for any inconvenience.
and I've shown this video to a few people and they were all in tears!
To anyone seeing this be whoever you want gender is just an social construct
@rekt.exe this is pretty good tho, why does your kid know the words penis and vagina at the age of not old enough to need to know those words ? (btw do not get salt, i liked so bleh) nice video tho, its well put together for a young lad that isn't a young lad but a young gurr
Well why not? Those are just words for human body parts?
Be what you want and do what you want as long as its not affecting others
I wish my mom Would let me be a boy but nope just nope
Wish my parents would let me be a girl, but nope just "It'S A pHRase"
THANK YOU, I’m speechless, wow ❤️
Cutest story ever!!
Fantastic!
4:31 omg that's- lmao
This got deep i fell sad
kids know nothing but silly. I always had gender identity disorder and I never acted out the ordinary of a normal dude, even now. Despite still wanting a wife , some of my words are words from both genders regardless
but the thing is im gay so how
This wonderful video makes me cry! for that mother I mean! that's why I can't say anything! every day I burn and born again!
thank you for this video.
aww😫💗
I want to be a girl im 14 and im scared to tell my parents for got this but thank for reminding me sike nigga
I want to be a girl too
same but im 15
@@CoasterBrain I'm 15 now
@@Apeeell you can never be a girl, it's impossible to change biological sex. Learn to love yourself for who you are.
@@standup2982 i didnt even mean that it was supposed to be a joke
This is kinda sad
awhh this made my heart melt
Like This? ⚧️
this is sad
garra senpai no it's not because she's happy now
Why is the Hail Mary being said in the background? Why aren’t other religions being represented by using other prayers?
Cute
They make each other help and they are happy before why is she get a girl how i can tramsfored me a girl but i am a boy i wanna be getting a girl she/he make teaching kill alien being a teacher or a anything a helper right!
I'm a girl but I want to be boy but it not impossible but yeah lol it just a thing I don't really think about it cuz I'm a girl
Trade
Trade right now
Oh my
I fell sad
Marlo, you may believe that you are traveling an enlightened path, but you are badly mistaken. Course correct before it is too late to save your child.
Sad story :(
Dangerous nonsense. This will harm children.
I that age thats not Ok!!!
Grooming
This is terrible 💔😡
Based on what?
Are u idiot?
Kak!
God
First 1
This is soo sad you never saw your son when he was a boy.
I am one of the “transphobic” people not a Christian but an Orthodox Jew I find this story
interesting I won’t attack you or you’re son but I just got this weird feeling when you talked about you’re dream then I decided to write this comment still it is scientifically proven that there is no gene that makes you born like this it is rather the environment little children just think weird things too I am not denying that this feeling exists just that it’s not what you’re born with even me as strong religious person sometimes want to be a girl no strong feelings but it just comes and goes I tell myself that it’s not possible and I am a man you don’t have to give in to a myth
The f
Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
Nope 😂😃😂😃 😂😃
This is such a beta post. Cringe lol. Real sigmas embrace masulinity🗿🍷 (he’s literally Ken at the start)