My husband’s an abuser because he lied to me about being willing to forgive me for cheating on him!! Wow. I think I sprained an ankle trying to follow those gymnastics…. Note the utter lack of accountability. No, “Oh I betrayed my vows and these are the painful consequences for what I did.” Instead it’s “He lied to me!!”
Exactly. And she made the choice to cheat only because she thought she had a get out of jail free card. That tells me she never truly cared about him anyway! You don't cheat on people you truly love. After hearing those words, that she might not have ever cheated had she known he wasn't telling the truth, I am 100% on his side!! 😡
"If I knew he was lying, I wouldn't have cheated"... wtf, you shouldn't have cheated PERIOD. And he is not to blame for your thoughtless and selfish actions.
To the modern woman anything they don’t like is some kind of abuse. The Me Too thing and Believe All Women thing gives them the bravery to say these things. Most people will let them get away with it.
A DNA fragment test should be done for regular labs before the baby is born. Also knowing the baby’s name is ABSOLUTELY mandatory before the baby is born if after 37 weeks
Non-invasive prenatal paternity test. A small amount of foetal DNA crosses the placenta into the mothers blood. This test involves a maternal blood sample and paternal DNA sample IE cheek swab. The test should be accurate enough. I don't know if it will distinguish between related fathers Cost is £400 in England. It's cheaper to do an ancestry or similar test after birth, and can be justified as simple family history interest and a pleasant surprise for the mother. Especially if you pay a professional genealogist a retainer for some family tree tracing
"I wouldn't have cheated if I knew he wouldn't forgive me." = "I wouldn't have confessed if I knew he wouldn't forgive me." Sorry lady, having a "hall pass" still isn't an excuse to cheat. Why did you go to this party without your husband? Why did you consume alcohol without your husband? Why did this coworker know he could get away with sleeping with you? Why would he risk this job, career, etc. unless he knew you were susceptive to sleeping with him? Why were you willing to risk your own job/career? Did you ever consider any other effects on your marriage or did you stop thinking at "he'd forgive me"? What if your family found out? You got fired? You got pregnant or caught an STD? What if this guy lied to your husband and said you'd been hooking up for months? What if he kept calling you or came to your house? What if his wife/GF attacked you? What if he claimed something about you at work to save his job? Did you ever consider what "forgiveness" would mean or did you think he'd just blindly forgive you with any consequences or actions to protect himself from you doing this again? What if you asked for the house and all the assets to be put in his parent's names, a post-nup, no children, you write a written confession to both sets of family, you never drink again, you never own a cell phone or use social media, you were a GPS tracker, etc.? What if he wants to move, to get you away from work, this guy, and all your friends and family? What if he wants to reduce his work, not commit to a house, etc. All these are still within him 'forgiving you'. What if friends and family distance themselves from you and/or him? What if he 'wants' to forgive you but can't? Say he no longer enjoys or wants to have sex with you again? What if he's emotionally destroyed and counselling won't "fix" him? Or he decides you aren't worth it. Clearly logic for her stops at "I can get away with it."
He was smart, this is a good way to catch women off guard. A good women would not cheat at all even if u said it u would forgive. So it's a good way to catch em just say just tell me and I forgive u, then when they tell u, then u can just walk away. He a smart man 😅
She didn't make a "mistake" with that co worker, she'd been attracted to him the whole time and they likely had tons of flirty banter at work. He was the "work husband" they tell you not to worry about and likely told that dude all her marital issues. The guy listened and bought his time knowing he'd hit eventually.
Why would he marry somebody in the first place who is okay with cheating? If I said to a girl I'd forgive her for cheating and she actually was okay with that statement, I'd break it off right there and then.
She's has been flirting with the co-worker and used the company party as the excuse. Learned by experience that women never ever tell the whole truth regarding their behavior in relationships.
@CatchTheWave-X I don't know about the whole podcast but atleast she has written down a story she is reading to him, instead of retelling from her heart
It's a lie. Most Ppl don't hate themselves they can't. They can't live with the feeling. They can't take accountability. I knew as soon as she said that it was dishonest.
This husband is a genius. He set the trap years ago, 5 years later she showed her true colours. This woman is 304. Good for him to kick her out of his life.
I love how her 1st thought was "oh, I get one free hall pass" instead of "why would I ever cheat". Husband set a trap and she happily tripped it. If you didn't cheat you wouldn't be divorce. Your fault, its as simple as that.
She also said that sleeping with the coworker was a mistake, then said, "If I knew he was lying, I wouldn't have cheated." Shows that she was cognitive of the decision, and it wasn't a 'mistake' as she tried to play it off as.
Nah… This is just pure character defense. You’re watching an adult woman with the emotional maturity of an underparented 8 year old. She’s trying to avoid shame and guilt by concocting a narrative that makes him responsible for her behavior, and the painful consequences that resulted from it. “It’s not my fault!!” --Lando Calrissian
So....He lied, but you cheated on him. He set you up, that's what he did, you still cheated. It's amazing how women will manipulate a story to make them the victim.
@@Buck7205She said that he got up immediately without saying a word, packed his stuff and left. Doesn’t sound to me like he was vacillating and changed his mind. Sounds like he was pretty solid on how he would react whenever she decided to confess to cheating.
@grippercrapper I'm saying that's not necessarily the case. Maybe he genuinely believed he could be able to forgive her infidelity when he initially made the promise. Over time/years later, now faced with the circumstance, he no longer feels the same. He wasn't necessarily lying when he initially made the promise. He simply changed. Not immediately, but over time. Neither, deceptive, or as she puts it abusive on his part. He's just a different person than even he thought. He was decisive in ending it, no doubt. Doesn't mean it was always the plan.
@@Buck7205 - I’m curious about you and the way you see lying. Please don’t view this as me trying to set you up. I’m genuinely curious. Do you consider lying to be morally wrong?
@grippercrapper Yes, I think lying is morally wrong 🙄. But lying requires intentionally telling an untruth or seeking to deceive or manipulate. If you believe your own words when you make them, then you're not lying. It panning out differently from what you describe later down the line makes you mistaken, not dishonest. Are you less reliable? Probably. Are you a liar? No.
Exactly, this was a test of loyalty and she didn’t understand the assignment, she thought that if she confessed she would activate the free get out of jail card, top tier 4d chess move by bro though, well played.
"It was a moment of weakness." Just a moment? Only one? Or were there MANY flirtatious moments over a long period of time that finally resulted in a culmination of an unforgivable bad decision?
I used this same thing to find out my girlfriend was cheating. I pretended I wouldn't care when she admitted to it I left her. When she tried to say she was joking to see what I'd do. I immediately tool her phone and said let's find out. What I found out was she was cheating even more then she said.
@@williamj.dovejr.8613 yes, but understanding consequences takes shame and accountability. She doesn't have those. So consequences are nothing more than oppression or abuse. "Consequences" when you've done nothing IS oppression and abuse. And in her eyes, she's done nothing. Because things HAPPEN to her, they aren't CAUSED by her. That's how their minds work.
Forgiveness requires real regret, restitution, and clear intent not to repeat the offense. I don't see how she can provide I don't see how she can provide restitution, I don't see regret, and it's more likely she'll do it again since she has done it once already.
@@macmcleod1188 My point is more along the lines of, you can forgive someone but also at the same time distance and remove them from your life. He promised to forgive her, not stay with her.
Nah, he definitely told her a million times not to cheat. She said they had lots of conversations about it. She cut out the one time he said he would try and forgive her and probably only after she manipulated him and tried to make him feel bad for being unwilling to forgive so he said, "if it only happened once...then, yeah, I guess". The entire time she heard, I can cheat and if I say it only happened once its fine. Plus, it was a co-worker at a party and she figured it was going to get out how she was behaving so she pre-emptively told him. This Bish is vile.
In every relationship I've ever had, I've never cheated, but I've caught them cheating and confronted them. They would always deny until I produced evidence then they changed to attacking me.
I can say, that my ex-wife used to accuse me of cheating all of the time, even for just staying later at work. No evidence, no behavior to even make me suspicious. Turns out, she was the one that was cheating with multiple guys. So, I can say that projection is a red flag, but I think mostly women do this kind of thing. Thankfully, I got everything, including my kids, so it worked out. But, ideally, divorce should never happen. Be mindful who you want to wife up fellas.
Why weren't you "mindful?" Oh you can't read minds or see the future? Guess what nobody else can either. You can dot all the Is and cross all the Ts in the world and still end up being wrong. Get a grip on reality.
@@christophersmith8316 yep, females are like that. If you listen to women they will take a position on both sides of the isle for the express purpose of being able to jump over to the other side the moment it serves their wants or needs. Anything to get out of having to accept responsibility. This female in this call is a perfect example. "Maybe I would not have cheated on him if he did not lie." She clearly believed she could cheat on him and get away with it and her claim is that it was his fault for her cheating on him.
@@akhilkrishnan1688 Nah, she would still have done it, it just would have required effort to keep it all from her husband. It's not so much the get out of jail free, as much as it's a "I get a free pass and don't have to worry about consequences card"
That was premeditated she kept what he said in the back of her head so she could have an excuse to cheat thinking he'd be okay with it. Shes more concerned with what he said rather than her actions smh. Also had he not said that she still would've cheated but just kept it to herself
The fact she thought she could just betray him then say “ Oh! By the way, I finally gave in to Chad from sales. You said you’d forgive me if I told you so…”
What she should have said from the get go-was that her husband was emotionally abusing her because she emotionally abused her husband by cheating on him
I had that same conversation 18 years ago... play that attitude still till this day, why...How else are you going to make sure you are not living in a lie and also get the specifics if you don't *act* like you can let it go!?
Never ask for specifics. All you need to know is that she betrayed you and stepped outside the relationship/marriage. Anything other than that doesn’t matter. Be strong, use your discipline and do the same thing this guy did. If you need evidence because you’re married, pretend to go to the bathroom when the conversation starts, turn on your voice recorder on your phone and then get her confession and leave. Details only make it worse.
Genius. Grand master move!! Like actual chess, a well chosen move early in the game. Still it does crack the door open for a perceived hall pass - A smart woman would know the marriage vows should overrule this.
I remember seeing that story a while back. The guy was brilliant in what he did. He did this when they were dating not married and she 100% thought it was a free pass to cheat. No question about it. The favorite word of these women is 'but'. They are incapable of true accountability without a 'but'.
Besides, the husband said "he might forgive her if she tell him". There is always a big difference to learn the cheating from the cheater than from someone else.
The husband planting the idea that "if you were to cheat once just tell me", opens the door to that happening as well as making her feel extra guilty if she were to not tell him that she cheated.
As she was explaining the time of him saying that she should confess I was thinking I should do that to get them to confess in the future 😂 great minds think alike hahaha
Absolutely genius! Every MAN who is going to be in a long-term relationship, possibly married, should do the exact same thing, it builds in, right from the beginning, the potential for self-snitching with a built-in pass! Just genius!
"My husband is emotionally abusing me because he's not allowing me to manipulate him."
Exactly.
Women ☕
This is it, well said. Perfectly put.
He’s abusive for holding her accountable 🤪
My husband’s an abuser because he lied to me about being willing to forgive me for cheating on him!!
Wow. I think I sprained an ankle trying to follow those gymnastics…. Note the utter lack of accountability.
No, “Oh I betrayed my vows and these are the painful consequences for what I did.” Instead it’s “He lied to me!!”
Cheating isn't a mistake, it's a choice.
100% Too many steps to get to the act itself to pretend it was a mistake
Her telling the story....she sounded pretty rehearsed
Usually the mistake is them getting caught.
Exactly. And she made the choice to cheat only because she thought she had a get out of jail free card. That tells me she never truly cared about him anyway! You don't cheat on people you truly love. After hearing those words, that she might not have ever cheated had she known he wasn't telling the truth, I am 100% on his side!! 😡
A lot of choices are mistakes tho
She cheated and yet somehow he's the assh*le. You can't make this shit up
99 out of a hundred lefty liberals would agree with her.
I'd just walk away...
This woman belongs to the streets.
😂😂😂 what an evil cop. Tell me what happened i'll help you. 😂😂😂 thanks you're going to jail.
"If I knew he was lying, I wouldn't have cheated"... wtf, you shouldn't have cheated PERIOD. And he is not to blame for your thoughtless and selfish actions.
@liliam.8009 ya she thought it was a one time free pass to cheat lol.
The fact that she opens with “My husband is abusing me” just demonstrates this entire thing is her trying to manipulate
To the modern woman anything they don’t like is some kind of abuse. The Me Too thing and Believe All Women thing gives them the bravery to say these things. Most people will let them get away with it.
And since he has a show, he struggles to not roll his eyes and laugh but instead “manipulates” her into confessing again!
A DNA test should become a standard for all newborns.
A DNA fragment test should be done for regular labs before the baby is born. Also knowing the baby’s name is ABSOLUTELY mandatory before the baby is born if after 37 weeks
@@tomare6479could you elaborate?
Non-invasive prenatal paternity test. A small amount of foetal DNA crosses the placenta into the mothers blood. This test involves a maternal blood sample and paternal DNA sample IE cheek swab.
The test should be accurate enough. I don't know if it will distinguish between related fathers
Cost is £400 in England.
It's cheaper to do an ancestry or similar test after birth, and can be justified as simple family history interest and a pleasant surprise for the mother. Especially if you pay a professional genealogist a retainer for some family tree tracing
@@neilcampbell2222 the other way of confusing things is only cheaper because they haven’t scaled it
@@tomare6479 Unfortunately it's very risky for the mother and baby but once the baby is born, absolutely.
She cheats then plays the victim. Her attitude is she wish she would have lied about it.
What she meant to say was if she knew he was lying, she wouldn’t have confessed.
Once again an example of watching actions instead of words
"I wouldn't have cheated if I knew he wouldn't forgive me." = "I wouldn't have confessed if I knew he wouldn't forgive me."
Sorry lady, having a "hall pass" still isn't an excuse to cheat. Why did you go to this party without your husband? Why did you consume alcohol without your husband? Why did this coworker know he could get away with sleeping with you? Why would he risk this job, career, etc. unless he knew you were susceptive to sleeping with him? Why were you willing to risk your own job/career?
Did you ever consider any other effects on your marriage or did you stop thinking at "he'd forgive me"? What if your family found out? You got fired? You got pregnant or caught an STD? What if this guy lied to your husband and said you'd been hooking up for months? What if he kept calling you or came to your house? What if his wife/GF attacked you? What if he claimed something about you at work to save his job?
Did you ever consider what "forgiveness" would mean or did you think he'd just blindly forgive you with any consequences or actions to protect himself from you doing this again? What if you asked for the house and all the assets to be put in his parent's names, a post-nup, no children, you write a written confession to both sets of family, you never drink again, you never own a cell phone or use social media, you were a GPS tracker, etc.? What if he wants to move, to get you away from work, this guy, and all your friends and family? What if he wants to reduce his work, not commit to a house, etc. All these are still within him 'forgiving you'. What if friends and family distance themselves from you and/or him? What if he 'wants' to forgive you but can't? Say he no longer enjoys or wants to have sex with you again? What if he's emotionally destroyed and counselling won't "fix" him? Or he decides you aren't worth it.
Clearly logic for her stops at "I can get away with it."
This is why I believe most marriages today are literally all shams 😂😂😂 unknowingly taken for granted.
EXACTLY. When they cheat do you think they’d actually confess 🤣
He was smart, this is a good way to catch women off guard. A good women would not cheat at all even if u said it u would forgive. So it's a good way to catch em just say just tell me and I forgive u, then when they tell u, then u can just walk away. He a smart man 😅
She didn't make a "mistake" with that co worker, she'd been attracted to him the whole time and they likely had tons of flirty banter at work. He was the "work husband" they tell you not to worry about and likely told that dude all her marital issues. The guy listened and bought his time knowing he'd hit eventually.
You just summed it up perfectly!
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U were there?
@@miceatah9359it’s common sense, nothing new under the sun
My wife says you are very accurate.
A big thumbs up to this husband for divorcing this cheating whore.
He’s abusive for holding her accountable 🤣
He could have seen she was a cheater loooong before marrying her. Her story is b.s. She cheated many many many times.
Why would he marry somebody in the first place who is okay with cheating? If I said to a girl I'd forgive her for cheating and she actually was okay with that statement, I'd break it off right there and then.
On the other hand... he's not a genius. He just knows how stupid she is.
She's has been flirting with the co-worker and used the company party as the excuse. Learned by experience that women never ever tell the whole truth regarding their behavior in relationships.
"I cheated because I knew he would forgive me" LOL. Where are your values? They should stop you from cheating.
She cheats and then she goes on air to say that she's being abused and manipulated? Right... we all know who the real manipulator is.
What a 🐷
Atypical narcissistic behavior.
Play the " I'm the victim here card"
Women arent known for 2 things. 1. What they say and what they do is never the same. 2. Taking zero accountability
Gaslighting....women are experts at it
Sounds like my ex.
1:16 Yeah. She sure sounds like she thinks its awful that she cheated and has hated herself ever since saying that in a completely emotionless tone.
She sounds like she is reading from a script
@@profilnamn9657 I agree - this whole thing could be scripted so that podcast could get clicks
@CatchTheWave-X I don't know about the whole podcast but atleast she has written down a story she is reading to him, instead of retelling from her heart
It's a lie. Most Ppl don't hate themselves they can't. They can't live with the feeling. They can't take accountability. I knew as soon as she said that it was dishonest.
This husband is a genius. He set the trap years ago, 5 years later she showed her true colours. This woman is 304.
Good for him to kick her out of his life.
Well he's a passive aggressive genius he's setting himself up for failure, it’s better to set it up to not to cheat
Agreed but how would you go about that married to a western woman? They are broken. @@Obiahjones
I especially like that he laughed in her face whilst explaining how he had fooled her. 😆
@@Obiahjonesyou're speaking simp. Me no understand
She took his words as a free pass and played herself. Good on him.
I love how her 1st thought was "oh, I get one free hall pass" instead of "why would I ever cheat". Husband set a trap and she happily tripped it. If you didn't cheat you wouldn't be divorce. Your fault, its as simple as that.
Women are so enamoured by tone instead of wording, "I'd think I could forgive you"
If he never said anything to begin with do you think she’d confess after 🤣 nope
@@samuraitadpole5459 tone means wiggle room
That’s exactly what happened, in her mind she was given permission.
@@zaq1337no she wouldn’t have confessed, but that wouldn’t stopped her from cheating.
Lets be CLEAR. Sleeping with someone once involves way more than one instance of cheating.
She also said that sleeping with the coworker was a mistake, then said, "If I knew he was lying, I wouldn't have cheated." Shows that she was cognitive of the decision, and it wasn't a 'mistake' as she tried to play it off as.
chaotic logic of women
If you let them talk they will out themselves.
Every time.
@@5150Bud Every time
Boom! I was like what...that's a contradiction lady!
Nah… This is just pure character defense. You’re watching an adult woman with the emotional maturity of an underparented 8 year old.
She’s trying to avoid shame and guilt by concocting a narrative that makes him responsible for her behavior, and the painful consequences that resulted from it.
“It’s not my fault!!”
--Lando Calrissian
So....He lied, but you cheated on him. He set you up, that's what he did, you still cheated. It's amazing how women will manipulate a story to make them the victim.
Or he changed his mind 🤷♂️ then said it was planned to save face.
@@Buck7205She said that he got up immediately without saying a word, packed his stuff and left. Doesn’t sound to me like he was vacillating and changed his mind. Sounds like he was pretty solid on how he would react whenever she decided to confess to cheating.
@grippercrapper I'm saying that's not necessarily the case. Maybe he genuinely believed he could be able to forgive her infidelity when he initially made the promise. Over time/years later, now faced with the circumstance, he no longer feels the same. He wasn't necessarily lying when he initially made the promise. He simply changed. Not immediately, but over time. Neither, deceptive, or as she puts it abusive on his part. He's just a different person than even he thought. He was decisive in ending it, no doubt. Doesn't mean it was always the plan.
@@Buck7205 - I’m curious about you and the way you see lying. Please don’t view this as me trying to set you up. I’m genuinely curious. Do you consider lying to be morally wrong?
@grippercrapper Yes, I think lying is morally wrong 🙄. But lying requires intentionally telling an untruth or seeking to deceive or manipulate. If you believe your own words when you make them, then you're not lying. It panning out differently from what you describe later down the line makes you mistaken, not dishonest. Are you less reliable? Probably. Are you a liar? No.
He said he’d forgive her, he didn’t say he wouldn’t hold her accountable and divorce her for her bad behavior
Touché
You get the I Paid Attention award of the day!
great point! he's under no obligation to stick around afterwards
no. 0:43 she said "he said, 'if it happens once i THINK I could forgive you'" even she admits it was a maybe
It was a test of loyalty, she failed.
What's funny is I can't find this video ANYWHERE on John Delon's channel. Like he scrubbed it because it makes women look so bad.
"If he hadnt told me taht, maybe i wouldnt have cheated"
Press X to doubt
Press "Y" to unalive them
Husband turned an L into a massive W getting her to confess. Solid strategy tbh
Well-done bro
Exactly, this was a test of loyalty and she didn’t understand the assignment, she thought that if she confessed she would activate the free get out of jail card, top tier 4d chess move by bro though, well played.
Bro didn't even promise he'd stay, he said he'd "think" about it. This is what happens when tone is more important than wording
@@samuraitadpole5459 💯, he even said’ “maybe” “I can forgive you” not that he would.
What W? The guy wasted years of his life risking STD’s from random men this whuur was screwing lol.
Big W…
"It was a moment of weakness."
Just a moment? Only one? Or were there MANY flirtatious moments over a long period of time that finally resulted in a culmination of an unforgivable bad decision?
It was his Get Out Of Jail Card ... She stupidly thought it was her Hall Pass 😂🤣
🤣🤣🤣
I used this same thing to find out my girlfriend was cheating. I pretended I wouldn't care when she admitted to it I left her. When she tried to say she was joking to see what I'd do. I immediately tool her phone and said let's find out. What I found out was she was cheating even more then she said.
They always are
This woman is confusing the words abuse with accountability. I see this a lot in modern society.
Exactly, I see this so often. So many women mistake accountability with ab'use. Or they know they are not being abu'sed but play the vic'tim.
BINGO!!!
They often do.
Expecting Accountability is abuse to all women. They are less than us, just accept it
Yea a lot are allergic to it
Forgiveness doesn't equal reconciliation.
Actions have consequences.
@@williamj.dovejr.8613 yes, but understanding consequences takes shame and accountability. She doesn't have those. So consequences are nothing more than oppression or abuse.
"Consequences" when you've done nothing IS oppression and abuse. And in her eyes, she's done nothing. Because things HAPPEN to her, they aren't CAUSED by her. That's how their minds work.
This is EPIC gaslighting she is doing here. She is using the husbands tactic to throw the ball of BLAME back into his court & take the focus off her.
anything to minimize or even eliminate accountability in their minds. it really must be in their DNA
Women: You don’t need that insecure man.
Men: He’s brilliant.
Only 304s. Many would be disgusted by her attitude
Also keep in mind, forgiveness does not mean forgetfulness. Forgiveness does not mean you act as if it did not happen.
Forgiveness requires real regret, restitution, and clear intent not to repeat the offense. I don't see how she can provide I don't see how she can provide restitution, I don't see regret, and it's more likely she'll do it again since she has done it once already.
@@macmcleod1188 My point is more along the lines of, you can forgive someone but also at the same time distance and remove them from your life. He promised to forgive her, not stay with her.
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Pretending nothing happened is reptile-in-a-human-skinsuit territory.
Some in law members of my family believe that once you forgive you then must forget!
That doesn’t work for me.
Forgiveness does not equal escape from repercussions or accountability. Forgiveness is not a pardon.
“He didn’t even say anything. He just packed his stuff and left.”
Boss move.
She cheated BECAUSE of that conversation. She thought he gave her a pass. She thinks she was set up? She KNOWS she should not cheat.
She thought she could manipulate him using this as leverage. Women always talk about manipulative men but women are 10x worse
Nah, he definitely told her a million times not to cheat. She said they had lots of conversations about it. She cut out the one time he said he would try and forgive her and probably only after she manipulated him and tried to make him feel bad for being unwilling to forgive so he said, "if it only happened once...then, yeah, I guess". The entire time she heard, I can cheat and if I say it only happened once its fine. Plus, it was a co-worker at a party and she figured it was going to get out how she was behaving so she pre-emptively told him. This Bish is vile.
She cheated because she's a shitty person.
no. she told him because of that conversation.
@ I don’t know what’s worse, your listening skills or deductive reasoning
3:36 😂 bro smirks when she says “there’s nothing I can do or say to make him change his mind” like the dude couldn’t help it, it just happened 🤣🤣🤣
He can forgive her and divorce her at the same time 😂
Technically he didn't lie, he said I "think" I could forgive you, not I "will" forgive you. Guy is a legend for that
You can forgive someone, but that doesn't mean you have to stay with that person.
The fact she used what he said to get an escape to cheat and get aways with it.. my hats off to this guy for being one step ahead!
It is her fault and the consequences for her actions, yet she is being emotionally abused and manipulated? WTF? What an idiot.
woh man logic. cmon, its 2024.
That's how vvhamen operate and how they always will.
In every relationship I've ever had, I've never cheated, but I've caught them cheating and confronted them. They would always deny until I produced evidence then they changed to attacking me.
Me too. Every single time
I can say, that my ex-wife used to accuse me of cheating all of the time, even for just staying later at work. No evidence, no behavior to even make me suspicious. Turns out, she was the one that was cheating with multiple guys. So, I can say that projection is a red flag, but I think mostly women do this kind of thing. Thankfully, I got everything, including my kids, so it worked out. But, ideally, divorce should never happen. Be mindful who you want to wife up fellas.
Spot on.
Why weren't you "mindful?" Oh you can't read minds or see the future? Guess what nobody else can either. You can dot all the Is and cross all the Ts in the world and still end up being wrong. Get a grip on reality.
Same thing happened to me. I wish I knew at 20 what I know at 50
Facts had the same experience and she cheated on me
No one accidentally cheats, temptations are everywhere. But no one is forced to commit the act, it actually says she premeditated this.
She took it as a “free pass” and cashed it in. Always playing the victim card.
He was really 2 steps ahead
She only told him because she felt so guilty and wanted to get it of her chest and thought she had a free pass, unbelievable. That's really sad
3:45 If she knew he was lying, she simply would have not admitted to the betrayal, it would not have stopped her from committing the betrayal.
she would have used it to justify cheating.
@@christophersmith8316 yep, females are like that. If you listen to women they will take a position on both sides of the isle for the express purpose of being able to jump over to the other side the moment it serves their wants or needs. Anything to get out of having to accept responsibility. This female in this call is a perfect example. "Maybe I would not have cheated on him if he did not lie." She clearly believed she could cheat on him and get away with it and her claim is that it was his fault for her cheating on him.
Right, but the only reason she actually did it in the first place was cuz she thought she had a get out of jail free card from that convo
@@akhilkrishnan1688 Nah, she would still have done it, it just would have required effort to keep it all from her husband. It's not so much the get out of jail free, as much as it's a "I get a free pass and don't have to worry about consequences card"
Love how she essentially frames being honest about her affair as a mistake on her part
It's scary that she assessed her options and only told him because of their previous talks. otherwise this could have easily been paternity fraud
That man is a diabolical genius. Saved himself a lifetime of lies.
That was premeditated she kept what he said in the back of her head so she could have an excuse to cheat thinking he'd be okay with it. Shes more concerned with what he said rather than her actions smh. Also had he not said that she still would've cheated but just kept it to herself
U fucked around and found out,that’s how it goes brothers don’t let them trick u!..😭😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣
It wasn't an accident, and she doesn't feel bad. She believed he gave her a free pass.
She kept that stashed in her back pocket like the monopoly “ Get out of jail free “ card….. she knew all along that she’d use it someday.
And she has the guts of deflecting? Accountability is, definitely, kryptonite for them.
When you’re somehow the perpetrator and the victim at the same time 😂
The fact she thought she could just betray him then say “ Oh! By the way, I finally gave in to Chad from sales. You said you’d forgive me if I told you so…”
2:30 "I tried to remind him of that conversation." Wow
SHE ALWAYS THOUGHT SHE HAD A GET-OUT-OF-JAIL-FREE CARD. LOL FEEBIE SHE THOUGHT
Spot on this is a premeditated, these women fantasies these scenarios all the time. Heck, it's acceptable in this feminist society.
Bro is a GENIUS!! He laid and set a bear trap for her....and she dove head first into it😂😂😂😂😂😂
You tell something to someone and they hear something completely different: what they want to hear. lol
I forgave and it was biggest mistake of my life. Cheater always a cheater.
That's why you don't cheat.
That's all there is to say.
I feel sorry SHE lied to HIM in her marriage vows.
Those vows they say. Don't mean shit
3:56 WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOAH, HOLD OP!! Wait a minute! Somthin' ain't right!!! 😂Wtf is this mental gymnastics?
*She thought she had a pass to be a 304. NOPE!!! Kudos to that guy. He's the G.O.A.T*
Telling her he could forgive her if it happened once was, in her mind, a pass to cheat. No forgiving...ever.
I don't blame him for leaving.You just dont fuckin cheat..
She thought she had a free pass. She took it. Now she has to deal with the consequences.
What she should have said from the get go-was that her husband was emotionally abusing her because she emotionally abused her husband by cheating on him
On the other side, by saying he might forgive her one time, he was basically granting her one freebie.
I had that same conversation 18 years ago... play that attitude still till this day, why...How else are you going to make sure you are not living in a lie and also get the specifics if you don't *act* like you can let it go!?
Never ask for specifics. All you need to know is that she betrayed you and stepped outside the relationship/marriage. Anything other than that doesn’t matter. Be strong, use your discipline and do the same thing this guy did. If you need evidence because you’re married, pretend to go to the bathroom when the conversation starts, turn on your voice recorder on your phone and then get her confession and leave. Details only make it worse.
My wife and I have always had a zero tolerance for infidelity. Both of us would bolt if the other one cheats. Zero forgiveness
Genius. Grand master move!! Like actual chess, a well chosen move early in the game.
Still it does crack the door open for a perceived hall pass - A smart woman would know the marriage vows should overrule this.
He didn’t manipulate her. He tested her.
She failed the test…..
End of story
So the guy is a G and she is naive and blaming him for her cheating??
This phone call just makes her look worse.
Agreed. She thought she had a hall pass.
5:08 - Her hallpass option blew her back out and tossed her off the bed back to the streets. Now, she's a victim. Nope! You alone. You messed up.
Husband told her a lie you usually tell children, to make them confess.
She fell for it 😂
You cheated, it's over!! If the shoe were on the other foot, she'd clean him out!! You don't get to turn this around to blame him!! Consequences
She thought she had a get out of jail free card !! I guess not !!!
I've been waiting for this new video, thanks!
And I love the new background, very Chistmassy ❤
I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving!
Her husband master classed her. Well done sir.
I remember seeing that story a while back. The guy was brilliant in what he did. He did this when they were dating not married and she 100% thought it was a free pass to cheat. No question about it. The favorite word of these women is 'but'. They are incapable of true accountability without a 'but'.
She interpreted that conversation they had as he was giving her one freebie pass and she thought she could use it. 😂
there's so many steps before you get to the cheating, and she went through with it anyway
He might of said that before they got married it sounded like that
She lied in her marriage vows by her own admission. Hard to complain about him lying BEFORE you took that vow, then broke it.
@@RobertMorganlying about what exactly?
@@kojoefantemarriage vows
@@kojoefante "I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health" So the answer to your question is: Staying true.
The analysis of this video is spot on.
If she ever asks if you would take her back after cheating...say yes provided that you get a hall pass to balance the scales.
Watch her reaction.
She hated every moment and still went back for more 😂😂😂😂
Besides, the husband said "he might forgive her if she tell him". There is always a big difference to learn the cheating from the cheater than from someone else.
BOO HOO BOO HOO 🤣🤣🤣🤣👍👍👍👍
Best Jedi mind trick ever!!!! Lmao
The husband planting the idea that "if you were to cheat once just tell me", opens the door to that happening as well as making her feel extra guilty if she were to not tell him that she cheated.
It's not the first time she's cheated.
It's the first time she's been caught.
Take it eaze.
Like you didn’t lie about Youre wedding vows?! 😂
She cheated and he is the bad guy, that's how much she is able to bend reality in her head. Olympic levels of performance. Wow
And just like that, she's the victim, and he made her cheat. 😂 Kudos to the ex-husband for his masterclass.
As she was explaining the time of him saying that she should confess I was thinking I should do that to get them to confess in the future 😂 great minds think alike hahaha
Bro was playing 5D chess and I'm here for it.
Absolutely genius! Every MAN who is going to be in a long-term relationship, possibly married, should do the exact same thing, it builds in, right from the beginning, the potential for self-snitching with a built-in pass! Just genius!
She thought she had a hall pass to bring up when she eventually took up that offer. L.M.A.O.
She took it as a free pass for doing it. He said he COULD tolerate, not that he WOULD.
Betrayed Husband was a boss!
"If you ever cheat on me, tell me right away and I MIGHT be able to forgive you."
Emphasis on MIGHT.
It's not abuse holding you accountable.