She Ruined Her Marriage Of Over A Decade And Is Finally Realizing Her Mistake
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She Ruined Her Marriage Of Over A Decade And Is Finally Realizing Her Mistake
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My ex-wife came to me with this very same argument. "I'm not happy!" So, after hearing this for a couple of weeks, I said, Okay, "What's it gonna take make you happy?" "I will quit my job. We will move to any state any city in the country and I will do whatever it takes to make you happy." "What do you want?" Her response I don't know. I just want to be happy. I answered, "How can I give you what you want to be happy when you don't even know what you want yourself?"
They're too shy to tell the truth: they want to be sadistic, cruel, hurtful
Yeah she didn't want you anymore that's all it was. How cruel
Hope she likes what she got
Yeah whenever a woman tells you she is unhappy that just means she doesn't want to be with you any longer. She just wants you to break up with her so she looks like the one who is good. Imagine telling your wife that you are unhappy. She will just say "So what? Deal with it."
@@kevinerosetell her the same thing 😂
"Deal with it"
It is hilarious that she “punishes” the guy by divorcing him to then realize she is suffering from her decision. 😂
But it’s his fault!
It's Jermaine's fault! It's always Jermaine's fault!
Female communication is often projection
@@zeorhymer6, he didn’t get punished. Seems you missed the sarcasm.
Demonizes him for playing games with friends but spends her entire day scrolling through TikTok and putting her entire life on display for people’s entertainment…
Yeah, I wonder which is more healthy
Exactly
The devil is in the details. She probably constantly played drama games with him when she was bored and he got conditioned into ignoring her and not taking her seriously. Many such cases.
You have to be their dancing monkey huh..
@@shadow7988It’s not his job to entertain her
Games are even ACTIVE ... while scrolling through TikTok is PASSIVE / CONSUMING (which is why the american "plonk your kids in front of a TV and put on some Disney for them" method of parenting is AS BAD AS IT CAN GET).
When my ex gave me the divorce news, I asked “why?” Her response, “I’m not happy.” I didn’t miss a beat and simply stated, “I’m not in charge of your happiness.”
it's bad enough that so many women expect guys to be the entertainers during the dating stage but they want that shit to last for life?
Damn straight 😂
Am sure she's still not happy
Said the same thing to my ex.
That’s their get out of jail card.
“I’m unhappy.”
You remind me of how I would like to ask my ex, who I have not seen in decades, if she found "it." She kept telling me when we were married that she felt like "she was missing something." SO I would like to ask her if she found what she thought she was missing.
Modern women say we are controlling, so we stop leading, we aren't making multiple 6 figures and they are strong and independent, so they don't need our provision or protection! Heck they even claim they don't need a man to be happy because they have their girls and pets for that. So why in the heck would their unhappiness be my problem?!
She did her ex a great service by divorcing him. Imagine having to live with that until the day you die.
EXACTLY 🤮
@@swagyolo8602 what do you think men don’t live as long as women it’s the only escape we got
She would have done better not marry him at all. Now he is going to suffer financially.
@@wingnut71sounds like he was no sucker. Probs had less assets than her which means he would have come out in front
@@wingnut71 He and her.
My ex wife pulled this "not happy" crap. I told her she needs to make herself happy. I suggested getting off TikTok and social media. She didn't like that. I'm doing great.
My wife also said that to me in the past. I told her part of being happy is being grateful. I pointed out that she doesn't say thank you for her many blessings and is always looking for more. I said many other things but it still had the same meaning.
😂😂😂...omg...that's awesome. As a female, I agree. A husband is not your personal entertainer. He's an individual in a union, not the other half of YOU. Damn girls! Get it together.
You sound like a jerk, tbh.
👍👍👍 Good for you, man!
4 years later and it's still on her mind. Yep. She knows she f'd up
That's what I thought lol 😅
Exactly what I was thinking!!! She's still thinking about it because she knows she messed up and there's nothing she can do about it!
@@Karla-mq8oi
She can get another man easy. No shortage of simps out there. And she's goodlooking enough to snare one....
Exactly!! Martha Stwert is doing this 20 yrs later. They DON’T forget!
Maybe she was that traumatized from being treated so stupid. It's still on her mind
Get two jobs, sister. You'll be too busy to worry about "being happy". And you can buy your husband a new recliner.
Yup. My ex is too busy losing everything to worry about anything else. She has to worry about eating now.
@@newfangledsoftware6185 lol
Perfect!
Drizzle drizzle
No, she doesn’t understand loyalty so she mustn’t get a job. Her same behaviour will affect the business.
She specifically interrupted his happy time to make him miserable.
Misery loves company
And failed because he caught on. Removing one headphone is genius
She was trying to power play him and failed.
Her sense of timing could hardly be worse.
I think a lot of women deliberately choose to bring the negativity when men are in their refuge or having some sort of fun. They love to ruin his mood
My wife once told me she wanted a divorce in front of our children thinking they would side with her. Ages at the time 13,15,17,19. My 13 yr old said " I'll stay with dad" then the 17 said the same. My wife was not happy. So I asked do you still want a divorce her answer was "no" that was 4 years ago. No issues since.
lol even children recognize a s-hit-test when they see it 🤣😆
Crazy how kids see who’s the crazy one in the marriage 😂 similar experience..
Hope you are financially preparing for when the kids have left home. Set up a different bank account (a.s.a.p.) she isn't aware of because she WILL come looking as soon as she has the opportunity. It was only the kid's presence that stopped her.
Bro your not out of it! Get your stuff together. It's a major issue with your woman. There is no coming back from what she said.
you better believe taking that L is eating her up every day since. She'll be plotting revenge, always.
Why is it that when the woman is unhappy, the man is supposed to drop everything to play jester, but when a man is unhappy not only is it not her job, but if he makes it his job to make himself happy - like playing video games - he's still wrong.
You missed the point of partnership. when you're married, it's not ok to serve yourself at your partners expense.
@ToxicWorldTalk how is him playing video games any different than a woman going on a girls trip to the spa for a weekend for the sake of her "sanity." The video never talks about how long or often he plays video games. I play for 1-2 hrs to unwind should I press the panic button and assume women will find me a red flag for doing thst?
@@frantheman1287 I can understand where you're coming from. I don't think playing video games is a red flag at all. I think both partners should care how they show up for each other and be willing to make adjustments for each other. I guess the context is important too.
@@ToxicWorldTalk Why would you begrudge your husband his recreation? That' asinine. My nephew went through the same thing. His fiance carped about the movies he liked and everything else he liked until he finally got fed up and broke off the engagement. Women should be glad their husband is being entertained by games, movies or sports instead of by another woman.
@@ToxicWorldTalk
You didn't hit the wall, you slammed into it at highway speed 😂
Marriage is not about happiness. It's about creating and raising a family. Women better hope that guys don't shift into marriage is about happiness, because if men do, 95% of women won't make the cut and men will become just as picky as women are. Every married man I have known has been unhappy at many points in their life, and if that is the standard, then none of us would agree to get married.
99 percent of them won't.
Ohhhh I judge and scrutinize the women I've met since divorcing.....finally found one worth keeping, but I monitor her behaviour closely and continue to consider her actions and what she says.......and I always will. As soon as the dramas from her start and all that, she is gone in the blink of an eye. And she will never know this......always have an exit plan, if you ask me anyway.
If you arent happy with your partner, don't have kids.
I grew up with parents who fought and bicker all the time cause they didnt love each other and were miserable and took their misery out on each other and on us.
Dont trap yourself into an unhappy marriage and then subject that to your kids.
@@kpoppy9635 Not saying you can't or should not strive for happiness. The building of a family is what will hopefully create that happiness. But happiness is an emotion which can and absolutely will change over time. If your lifelong partnership is measured in happiness, then you will be doomed, because there will be unhappy periods that might last years. A lot of therapy is not focused on changing the situation, but instead on changing your perception of that situation into a positive one. Some people are just not meant to have kids, no mater who they are partnered with.
@thmphll but then why are you unhappy with your partner? I don't get why you should stay with someone who makes you miserable and will probably be detrimental in the long run.
When you make life is too easy for her, she gets bored so turns to divorce for stimulation
Yup. Wish they could just find hobbies like men do. Honestly don't know why it's so hard for them.
@@shadow7988Psychopathy. The western womans default setting.
@@shadow7988 hobbies take effort - they don't do effort. I'm convinced my ex did it to give her something to talk about in her otherwise beyond dull "personality".
Profound observation! Don’t think I’ve heard this perspective after consuming a lot of red pill type content.
Don't forget CHAD - she turns to Chad after forcing celibacy on her husband.
#1 It's not a husband's job to make his wife happy
#2 Divorce is not normal, it's the ultimate betrayal
#3 If you divorce, you don't "lose" his family, you divorce them from you too
#4 After divorce, your panic attacks aren't his business anymore, and neither are any of your problems, feelings or regrets. He will move on.
If a wife sat around all day playing videos games or on her phone chatting with friends and didn't do any of her wifely duties some of you guys like to go on about and didn't show any interest in her husband, would it still be the ultimate betrayal for him to divorce her?
Betrayal is the norm from women
He was playing with a friend. How often do you think working people have time to do this?
How often do you think she has complained about her not being happy and he has to do something about it in a way he is willing to listen and takes it seriously?
We dont get the ex husbands opinion and view on this just her side and her making herself look got on the internet.
Wifely duties like giving him a few times a week bedroom fun, be submissive and not being a pain in the ass and maybe actually speak in a few sentence what of a problem she has instead of nagging and blaming him over and over for all problems she has in this relationship?
A lot of times that she thinks he is the problem and he has to change and then she will be happy. And when men do this its just another point of reasons she is unhappy.
Maybe the problem she has is herself like her expectations and how she sees herself and the life she have which collides with the reality.
And when he is always away from her, in his man cave, why is that so? Could she be the reason he is unhappy and avoiding her or not paying any attention to her and just takes what he has as granted because its bad already and he can only lose when he wants to change anthing.
She could divorce him he loses. He could actually give her advice she gets into Rage God Mode and he lose also. So being passive can be an option. A bad one but an option to not lose everythign you build yourself and is taken away because she is bored or you are not the future she desired.
@aliross2720 Guys don't care. Guys are simple. Get a hobby and spend all your free time doing that. I guarantee no guy would complain. Truth is, women are self sabotaging. A guy can do everything right and she'll stil find a way to screw it up. You're not a toddler and we're not here to entertain you because you're bored. Time to grow up.
Why did she pick the time to have a serious discussion about their marriage when he was having his "me time" with his boys doing an activity he likes to do? Why not set a time and date to have a serious discussion? Imagine a guy telling his wife when she is doing something she likes to do that "they need to talk"?
Because she felt entitled to his time, didn't care about him
Because she wanted out and is just using the video game stuff as an excuse to make her feel and look like the good guy.
Because she needed to control her servant and when he wouldn't submit, she made up her mind to destroy her family.
Misery needed company.
@@apushman you really don’t understand women do you
when your wife tells she is not happy she already has a replacement for you, time to accept your marriage is over and there is nothing you can do.
Whoaa, dude. Something so obvious. Thank you. Sincerely
@@larstreat8650unfortunately most men don't understand hints like that🤪
@@larstreat8650Not obvious if it's the first time. We men fight until the end and try to fix things.
She thinks she found your replacement who can make her happy. The fact that the divorce-rate is higher for second marriages with women filing the vast majority of the divorces proves how much these women are fooling themselves. If she was too stupid to understand that happiness is supposed to be self-created in her first marriage, she's not likely to understand it in her second marriage too.
@@bigalex7393being noble isn't always being noble. You have to acknowledge when it's time to stop playing savior.
P.S. YES! It seems like it's mostly women breaking up families and trying to blame the man for their unhappiness. My lovely husband and I have been together for thirty years. Was it easy? Not all the time but when you VOW to love someone for the rest of your life through thick and thin you don't walk down the aisle thinking, "Well, if this marriage doesn't work there's always the option of divorce". That's ridiculous, jesus!
Sorry, I don't mean to write a book here but I've always hated the mindset that a lot of people (let's face it, mostly women) think if their marriage doesn't make them blissfully happy 24/7 it's their partners fault.
Yes, this 💯!!
I was working abroad , every two months i come back home for 10 days,on one of my vacations, my ex-wife , out of blue asked for divorce, i tried to convince her not to, but she insisted , and after i gave her what she wanted and just after 3 months of the divorce, she called me abroad regretted and beg me to have her back......which i ignored and refused....end of story.
A happy person since.
Divorce is a big deal. Three months later she realized she made a bad life-changing decision. You are well rid of her.
Chad rearranged her guts and dumped her. That's why she begged you to take her back. No shame.
Based, hope life is good now for you brother
See THATS how to be HAPPY!
Did she think approaching her husband for a serious conversation while he’s in the middle of a video game was a good move ?
Maybe it was appropriate? The guy might have dropped the ball on his marriage. You can't take your husband or wife for granted. Relationships require constant energy.
@channel1_channel Yes, we all know relationships require work - I was married for 20 years. But if you want a serious conversation with your partner you communicate that and figure out a time and place you can both have that conversation.
@@symbiat0She is angry that he is happy playing games and she has probably been sitting seething with rage listening to him laugh and have fun. This is why she picks this time to try and start a serious discussion. She wants to ruin his enjoyment so off she goes on a rant about how unhappy she is. She believes she is justified because it is "so much more important than games" but the real problem is with her most likely. You only have to see and hear her to get the impression she has entitlement issues.
Vacuuming during football season, same analogy.
@@channel1_channellol she’s clearly a self involved snatch
No one else can make you happy, you can only make yourself happy.
True wisdom.
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Well, kimda. So, Talking about fairly mentally normal people who arent needing attention like a toddler or a 1st grader 😀, its Why people have relationships and socialise. But, If youre generally unhappy bc of your own decisions in life or personality traits that disappoint yourself, that applies for sure, but people seek people bc they make them happy or content.
It’s toxic af to expect that somebody should be juggling, riding a unicycle and telling jokes… just to entertain you/make you “happy”
That’s the stupidest thing that someone can say.
My ex actually had the audacity to tell me how disappointed she was in me because I didn't come to court and hold her hand during the divorce hearing. Make that make sense.
Is simple, narcisism
Because boys are taught how to treat women, and girls are taught what to expect from men
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂whatttttttt. Are you serious?
She made it about herself and her only like as if she was the one who was suffering and was the victim, typically modern female behavior😒
Crazy 304
The concept that every individual is responsible for their own happiness is completely alien to modern whemen
And most cannot be happy. Give a man just what he needs to survive and some peace and he’s happy.
What do you expect they get their notions on how relationships ought to be from TV and the movies.
@@wendigos_eat_people7177 100% the problem.
Not all of them unless I am too old to be considered modern ; )
Yes. And the concept is reality.
10:05 She left because she wanted to end her responsibilities to her husband but still have him be responsible to her. Marriage is often for life for men, but only temporary for women. Problem is, the courts will often force men into this endless support via alimony while allowing her to end all her responsibilities to him.
Alimony is usually only awarded if she was a stay at home mom (and that's for a certain time period) or if he cheated.
The moment my ex filed, the only communication was the business of separation.
Question is did he win the round he was playing?? Yapping Mrs in the background and everything.
maybe she should have picked up a controller and joined him but fk that, it's something he loves to do
no doubt 🤣
😂😂facts
That would depend on which game it was and how his session was going already before that point.
@@dustinblanken5886 Im guessing chivaly 2
Why be married to her, just the way she is speaking, and attitude just sounds like drama central.
They're often the complete opposite before the wedding. Women flip almost immediately after the wedding.
@@Remianen the bait and switch wife
The visceral hate feelings they have for any activity they can't force you to stop immediately; still shocks me. It could be watching sports, console games, poker night, motorcycle riding etc...
It's about her power & control & tyranny over you
I got myself a bike and started cycling again for the first time in over a decade. Would come back from some of the best rides of my life to the grumpiest version of her everytime.
I’ve noticed this also! Anything I like, find interesting, or just plain curious about. She has a an opinion against it! But she fails to realize that I dont ask for permission to live my life
My wife used to do this, I had to set boundaries. A simple I'm busy right now when I've finished. You can have my attention. She was annoyed at first for about the first 10 or so times, but I always attended to whatever it was that required my attention after I'd finished. Now she approaches me with, when you have finished and not busy can we ? >insert request
It's the entitlement.
To be fair marriage is “till death, or her being bored, do you part”
😂
Four years later and she's still bitter at what SHE did. let's face it, the husband has probably got a better model and she hasn't.
I’ve been married for 15 years and there was a time where I felt like we were roommates. I also put a lot of pressure on him to make me happy and we did almost call it quits. Until I realized I am responsible for creating my own happiness and bringing that part of me back into the relationship the same with him. I complained constantly about it before I took action and he was completely at a loss for how to make me happy. Now we are the strongest we have ever been not perfect but stronger. Never did I think we could get to this place but here we are. I had to do the work to make myself better for me and that led to him doing his part and meeting me in the middle. I know there are cases where this happens to no avail but she needs to look at herself first and figure out what she needs to fix about herself for herself to be happy. Never put that responsibility on anyone else
❤ Best of luck. Wish you happy marriage forever
Great perspective and happy for you. Respect 💪
Waits till he's playing games to give him an ultimatum. This is a calculated move.
Maybe he's ALWAYS playing games. Maybe that's part of the problem.
THe dude undsterood priorities. Telling him she's not happy, what is he supposed to do about it? No wonder he's playing video games
He was supposed to feed into her narcissistic fantasy of one of her drama shows on netflix and just drop whatever he's doing to humor her childish tantrum.
@@shadow7988 I think it was more likely something from the hallmark channel
"We need to have a conversation!" just means she wants to make you do her bidding and not question anything she thinks or wants.
So if a modern woman complains every month how unhappy she is, isn't it like calling wolf, at some point people/husbands stop listening.
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Going through a divorce has been horrible for me. I don't wish it on my worst enemy.
My ex did just that. One morning woke up and just said it, "I'm not happy. I don't love you". This literally came out of left field. I went into damage control mode, trying to please her and make her "happy". It was all bull crap. Turned out she was cheating. Nuked our family without a care in the world how we would all be affected. We had a beautiful home, four children and I thought everything was good. Today, shenow lives with her parents in the hood. I can definitely tell you that she is worse off today than she was ten years ago. Zero accountability.
The great thing about social media is that people expose who they really are. The bad thing about social media is that people expose who they really are. Sigh.
1:30 never occurred to her that that wasn’t the time to have that conversation, that he was in the middle of something? That she could have asked to have an important conversation with him and when was a good time for him? Nope.. it’s all about her with no consideration for him whatsoever.
Right? I bet that if he wanted to talk and she was recording one of these dumb videos she would shut him down.
@ 💯 she would
I bet she actually waited for him to be doing something he likes and be happy so she can destroy it.
She knew for a month and there was no better timing than him being busy and happy with friends?
And if she knew it for a month and is be able to plan the when she expect you to jump the moment she decides to have a talk with you.
What do these women want a “Congratulations on your Divorce” party? I’m sorry, we do not celebrate failure. What would they do in the old days to people who would break their oath?
its the same with "Im lost and need find my self" how hard is it to find your new you WITH your partner/family
You think she just misplaced herself between the couch cushions? She has to go on a whole journey to find herself once she is lost 😂
@@DuncanL7979 LOL
She needs some strange to find herself
Imagine what divorce rates would be if men left marriages when they were unhappy… 😮
90%
100%.
98.64%
I wouldn't be surprised if she pulled the "I'm not happy card" before a few times, which lead to him just having such a non reaction to it.
Either that or she's often on his case for the pettiest of reasons just to get his attention. Or hell maybe even both.
1 thing is for sure though, she absolutely HATES it when she's not the center of his attention.
Yeah I love it how these women try and twist it to make it look like it was the first time it happened. Such head cases
“In sickness and in health till death do us part, unless I’m unhappy or bored”. You think anyone in their right mind would sign up for this accurate reflection of marriage?
Amen! Not worth it in my world.. not happening!!
42 yr old male. Never married... know then game well... i have 2 boys i raised 100% and have taught them all of this.. they are both almost 20 and i couldn't be more proud of them.
Thanks for you video. Doing great work.
she was more upset about losing people who "validated her feelings" than her husband. these women are just sick
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My second told me she was unhappy. I told her, "Bye!" I told her she has three days to get out, and I will be staying with friend. I saw her again, still single and miserable. She is pissed with me.
3:51 I’m now at a point where the word “trigger” actually triggers me.
Sounds like he was unhappy, too, and was using video games to cope. The fact he didn't stop is a very telling sign. She did him a favor.
If she used the term "partner" to describe you, you're in trouble.
Or gay lol
My wife did the exact same to me. I told her if she was unhappy that she should go. Her jaw dropped, couldn’t understand why I didnt counter her claim of unhappiness. She stayed for another 25yrs….and cheated on me through out our marriage. Had kids at home so I kept things together with a broken heart. My kids turned out awesome and never once saw us fight or treat each other poorly. The kids are both on their own now and freedom is on the horizon and I am hopeful there is time to find some happiness.
One of our biggest issues is too many people are getting into relationships to be happy because they're miserable alone. But you have to learn to be happy alone first. If you're not, then you're not in a mentally healthy state for a relationship and need to work on that.
Mine told me that "I have plans that don't include you" - 6 months later we were divorced after 16 years. Remarried now to another lady for 21 years and counting. If they don't want you, get out with at least your dignity.
The medication point is something that’s not brought up enough.
For real
In my opinion I look at it when a woman divorced her man she is basically releasing him from prison and he is Free to do whatever. Basically no responsibility.
It’s the silver lining in a dark cloud. 6 months out from my divorce at 51, there is no way I’m going back on the plantation! They don’t want husbands they want slaves.
Just because you're not happy in your marriage doesn't mean your partner is responsible and needs to do something to MAKE you happy. Look within yourself and pinpoint what's actually making you unhappy. It's so ridiculous that these women need another person (especially their partners) to make them feel better. In most cases it's called a "YOU" problem.
Thanks for the video Nate, I hope you have a lovely week😊
It is indicative of an immature/ selfish mindset. They have no grasp of what a promise is, and what duty entails. They need to grow up, stop fracturing families, and get off birth control and mind altering prescriptions.
@PatI-zg9gm Then reality slaps them in the face and they wonder why their ex isn't their safety blanket anymore🙄
Did this woman try having this conversation when he wasn’t doing something else? What exactly does I’m “not happy” mean?
After my ex told me i was going to meet her boyfriend when i picked up my son, she called me panicking because a snake is in her apartment. I reluctantly go after asking where her boyfriend was, arrive, find the "snake"........ it's a string being held up by a spiderweb next to her bed. I laughed, grabbed it, and left. It's hard to find genuinely good guys. I'm good.
If you want to talk about something seriously, let him finish his game first.
They can’t wait because they are spoiled rotten.
She saw that he was happy and having fun when she was not lol
Happiness is a choice, it is not your partners responsibility to make you happy.
Imagining being married to that!
When things are going smoothly they invent issues & problems so that they have some drama to complain about.
“This man”, how disrespectful is this woman?
No everyone drops & stops everything just because you want to talk girlfriend!
He was in the middle of doing something that was HIS priority.
She is still miserable after divorce. I doubt he begged her not to leave. I do believe he didn't want her to take the kids though.
I heard a story where the husband got tired of not being treated right by his wife and not getting any fun time anymore so he hit the gym and became a chad and she started doing everything in her power to keep him happy 💯 great job buddy !!!
Imagine trying to discuss a sensitive issue with someone engrossed in simulated combat and taking his response as a definitive indicator of his feeling toward you.
Then she claims "we give you so many opportunities". YOU see them as opportunities. The man only knows that something vague at some moment is not right. There is no path to solve that problem. Work on yourself and communicate better.
You ended a covenant over a feeling? 🙄 not cheating? Abuse?....this is making a joke out of marriage and it's pissing me off
Its been one year for me, and my life is totally better. At first I didn't know how I would live without her, but now I wonder how I was able to live with her. Simply put, you'll be fine, keep pushing. Oh and I have the kids too, LOL.
First guy was escaping his wife through video games. Also why should his kids be takn away from him just for not making her happy?
You're the only one that can control your feelings/reactions. He isn't a kings jester/joker, it's not his roll to entertain
King of jesters and jester of kings!
As a 60 Year old divorced Man I think that one of the biggest issues with some of the women that we're referring to is that they refuse to admit that they are or even could be wrong. I have experienced this in 3 marriages, within a year they all tried to manipulate their way back into my life. Saying something like if I would change this thing they didn't like they would give Me a second chance. Even though I wasn't the unfaithful one, I still had something I needed to change. Never again.
Don't you just love it when the trash takes itself out?
No respecting his man cave and mocking his voice. Run.
Happens all the time I imagine. With me once I became divorced from my ex I eventually grew into a licensed clinician.
When my woman talks to me when I play Videogames I say "Go away I am playing" 🤔
Mine would never bother. She knows games are about stress relief and escapism. A good wife will watch videos like this one with you and laugh at how vapid these social media addicted women are.
W#2: YOU were the problem in YOUR MARRIAGE. Enjoy EXPIRING ALONE.
In my experience it's about control, or lack thereof. The first one was unhappy that her husband enjoyed video games. She wanted to control him and his hobbies, and was upset that he didn't stop just because she said so. This is how it begins.
bro the first one was shocking: "he didn't do what I said, so I took his kids. These are the consequences of not doing what I WANT. Am I wrong?" - yes, yes you are.
Sick how weak some men are these days.
100% she initiated the divorce. You can tell because she said "when the divorce happened" she lost the connection to his family. If he had initiated the divorce, she would have said 'when he left me'. If she leaves, she not responsible for the decision, it just 'happened'.
As soon as a Partner/Spouse says they are "Unhappy", tell them you should break up as soon as possible. It is highly unlikely they will ever be happy especially with you, and you are most likely better off alone or with someone else.
She’s unhappy. Wants him to make her happy. Why? Why is it his responsibility. Can’t she make herself happy? He was making himself happy playing games. She can do something similar. Get a hobby. Do a task. Read a book. Nope. She wants him to make her happy. She gave him a gift by freeing him!!
Because they've been trained to think that a man should make then happy. And when he doesent she wonders if he was the right one, and she will try a million different dudes and still not find the happiness becsuse she doesrnt realise it's not the man that can ultimately provide it😂 such dumbasses
Women who don't believe there men should make them happy get shunned by the herd and told we have a problem and lack self-esteem because we don't know our worth 🤷♀️
He's probably watching this video and thanking God for getting his life back from this shrill harpy.
A man doesn’t have the power to transform an unhappy person into a happy person. It’s her job to make herself happy. He can help.
My ex sent me a text one day after leaving our marriage..."What happened to US?!" .... my response, "There never WAS an US....there was only YOU...doing YOU." Of course I said this to myself and never responded to a rhetorical question coming from a narcissist.
He saw marriage as “you’re with me forever”, she saw it as “you need to fight for me!” “You can’t even stop playing video games to save your marriage?!”
Ppl don't seem to realize that marriage isn't about being happy.
But many people buy into the delusion that it IS about “ happiness “. Disney delusion.
But if you arent happy with your partner...why are you together?
My parents were miserable and bickered all the time and I had to grow up with that cause they werent financially stable enough to divorce.
Don't put your kids through that. Its better to divorce and find someome you are compatible with.
A husband is supposed to make a woman safe. Happiness is vital but happiness is fleeting.
Should be mutual. You will be happy if you support each other and have each others back!
happiness is a warm gun
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1:50 no intelligent life forms detected 😂
Proverbs 14:1-25 (NLT).
A wise woman builds her home, but a foolish woman tears it down with her own hands. Those who follow the right path fear the LORD; those who take the wrong path despise him. A fool's proud talk becomes a rod that beats upon one's self, but the words of the wise keeps one safe.
The single brain cell on the first woman told her "I am feeling this now so I must talk about it now, there is no better time, fuck whatever my husband is doing, my feelings in this moment are much more important than anything he is doing"
This is weird, so she claims she’s having a panic attack, sets up her other phone makes sure the lighting is right then call estranged husband. 😂clown
According to the Office for National Statistics, “in 2019, 56% of same-sex marriages were between women. However, the divorce rate for lesbians was much higher, with 72% of same-sex divorces in 2019 coming from lesbian couples, about 3 times higher than gay male couples. The lesbian divorce rate was 78% in 2016, 74% in 2017, and 75% in 2018.”
So, lesbians are divorcing each other 3x the amount that gay men are. Perhaps men are not the problem that women think that we are.
She has a problem with commitment--theirs just arise AFTER the contract is signed.
Thanks
Women are adult children. Your happiness is on you. That's all.
2:56 it’s probably projection, but I imagine he came home from work and he asked how her day was, she said fine, they ate dinner and she said nothing, he sat with her while she watched tv/social media and she had nothing to say to him. He got up after a few hours of being ignored and started playing his game. As soon as he’s in it she now wants to talk and gets mad because he’s busy now.
Fellas if she threatens you with divorce give it to her and dont show that you care.
dont get married then there can be no threat of losing half your stuff
I bet he was happy to get away from that, listening to her would drive anyone away.
They are never happy long term. Some marriages are meant to last. But most will not…….so don’t get married to start with……
As soon as you believe “some marriages aren’t meant to last”, you’ve given up. That’s not what marriage is. If you think marriage is as interchangeable as semipermanent hair dye, then of course you will have problems.
How is someone supposed to know if they are in one of the special preselected marriages?
It's funny cause I'm pretty sure he gave his concerns and never changed yet expects him to change for her
First clip, ma'am the way you trivialize your husband lifting his headphones off to hear you is childish, no more than you tell him that while he's playing golf or at a ball game. Be an adult and say hey I like to talk about something when you're done. You showed that your word and vows meant nothing to you. You literally said you divorced your husband because he was playing a video game. He's better off without you. The lifetime commitment meant something to him but your selfishness wouldn't have it.
Also she did this in December! The holiday season!