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  • @thedavidhammond
    @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +16

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    • @ehynn
      @ehynn 4 дня назад

      the ny hat and the edge shirt, rather worldly.
      some honest critique- i might recommend fixing the beard either going a hard goatee or clean shaven, or hair growth serum if u really want a full beard

    • @SigmaSkyGig
      @SigmaSkyGig 4 дня назад

      Paul is a narcissistic fraud.. think about it he was the most against the true chosen disciples of Jesus. Argued with them because why Paul had a dream! Don't go down the same path as everyone else because you will not find God through Paul the criminal.

    • @Beregond1861
      @Beregond1861 4 дня назад +1

      ​@@ehynnHis beard is great. He quite literally looks like a modern Jack Sparrow

    • @majormarketing6552
      @majormarketing6552 4 дня назад +2

      No way you know marriage. Ask anyone who has been and they say dont. Ive been married, you are a fool to want it

    • @Beregond1861
      @Beregond1861 4 дня назад

      @@majormarketing6552 Christ's important warning about what you just said in Matthew 5:22 is VERY APPARENTLY what you need to hear today...

  • @SonOfZion777
    @SonOfZion777 4 дня назад +164

    I been single for over 11 years with basically no dates or anything.
    I don't even remember how a date works and that's ok.
    I trust that Jesus will guide me to the right one when the time is right.
    This celibacy has really grown my relationship with Jesus Christ to a whole another level and i am super grateful for that.
    God bless you who is reading this.

    • @gabriel_75X
      @gabriel_75X 3 дня назад +5

      LEVEL 9000

    • @ExoticGTRX
      @ExoticGTRX 3 дня назад +2

      Ur in America (Babylon the great according to the Bible) find a wife overseas. But seek God on the woman who's worthy of marriage after going on dates

    • @gabriel_75X
      @gabriel_75X 3 дня назад +3

      ​@@ExoticGTRX Babylon the Great is.... the great wicked principality Of ​ Babylon.....literary Babylon ..

    • @GioAyala12
      @GioAyala12 2 дня назад +5

      Whoa dude you have to go out there and get her. Christ will not guide you to her. You’re a man. Step up. Jesus will guide her to you but only if you’re a good man.

    • @DoNotAlterDNA
      @DoNotAlterDNA 2 дня назад +9

      @@GioAyala12 It has NOTHING to do with “being a man”. That is a LIE. In Genesis 2:22, the first relationship ever in human history started when God himself brought the woman Eve to the man Adam. Adam didn’t go “being a man” looking for the woman. God brought Eve to Adam! It’s right in your Bible, look and see for yourself. Genesis 2:22.

  • @jlogan2228
    @jlogan2228 3 дня назад +167

    I'm tired of being told man up and get married. To who? The overweight single mom of 3 kids who doesn't want to have anymore and has the "if you can't handle a strong woman" attitude? There are no cute wholesome Christian women left. They all are eating up with their own ego

    • @MrDavidgiar
      @MrDavidgiar 2 дня назад +8

      yeah “ my body my rules you don’t like what I have to offer. You’re not the one for me, honey.! “ ends up being a divorce it’s not like women want to please their husbands its goes both ways, even saying that I looked at as a narcissistic potential abuser or rapist.

    • @jakejudy5455
      @jakejudy5455 2 дня назад +13

      Yeah the preacher at my church basically said this. He said if our not married by 30 what are you doing? Hell no I'm not listening to this advice.

    • @telcobilly
      @telcobilly 2 дня назад +1

      I have one word for you. Philippines. Watch some expat videos. I'm met a godly woman 9 years ago and now we've been married for over seven. It totally was God that brought us together.

    • @-lord1754
      @-lord1754 2 дня назад +6

      ​@@telcobillyOr the green card, lol

    • @tytyron4408
      @tytyron4408 2 дня назад +2

      Great people exist both men and women, but you have to understand the truth in life is that you get who you are, If you have certain values and they are genuinely what hold you, this will automatically place you in particular environments because that's where you get fulfillment that corresponds to your values, and don't be surprised to realize that's not only happening to you but to some woman somewhere. I'll try to be kind with this one, with a common saying that goes, "a goat will only graze within the length of it's tether". A goat might want or hear about "grass" that doesn't correspond to it's environment, and it will be unreal because the tether holds it down to its current environment or situation. Whoever you are will determine your environment; your environment will determine the people you meet, and the people you meet will have an impact on how you view the world.

  • @Dee-qo7gh
    @Dee-qo7gh 4 дня назад +75

    I knew the devil was real when I started avoiding woman. It went from them avoiding me to them following me around stores in tight clothes.

  • @tesoro2250
    @tesoro2250 3 дня назад +137

    How many Christian women are submissive these days? A rare unicorn indeed. How many churches will even talk about this subject these days? Difficult for sure

    • @p9pitherin550
      @p9pitherin550 3 дня назад +8

      If you lead properly. They will submit naturally. They won't just submit because the Bible says so.

    • @SteelSaint749
      @SteelSaint749 2 дня назад +21

      ​@@p9pitherin550
      Proper according to whose standards? If not the Bible's then hers? Is she God?

    • @ERICK4431
      @ERICK4431 2 дня назад

      ​@@p9pitherin550 Keep telling you that 😂

    • @jakobsmith8899
      @jakobsmith8899 2 дня назад +4

      ​@@SteelSaint749the Baptist Church is still quite biblical. I'll pray for you. Good women are there, be a good man.

    • @J3.16-17
      @J3.16-17 2 дня назад +11

      Exactly - seems to me most churches won't touch this area with a ten foot pole, and then 'they' wonder why young people leave church..

  • @chanellevarner
    @chanellevarner 4 дня назад +365

    “Do not give your strength to women, Nor your ways to that which destroys kings.”
    ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31‬:‭3‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +27

      Amen!!

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 4 дня назад +22

      I always prefer the archaic language!
      ''Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings''

    • @gregorygant4242
      @gregorygant4242 4 дня назад +5

      @@mreverybody1150Like in Troy over Helen that was a big mistake going to war over a woman , big time.

    • @bustjanzupan1074
      @bustjanzupan1074 4 дня назад +1

      Amen + Amen.

    • @JMI559
      @JMI559 4 дня назад

      ​@@gregorygant4242 quiet!!...

  • @ifeawosika966
    @ifeawosika966 4 дня назад +139

    I messed with a fake christian who claimed to be catholic (I know my bad). Years of my life gone for nothing. She even tried to make me compromise with the world. When its time to walk away. Do not be afraid to do so. I am a bit ashamed of my actions, but I am here today moving forward.

    • @bustjanzupan1074
      @bustjanzupan1074 4 дня назад +9

      Thanks To Lord God , that saved you. I was in those Wrong Parts Tooo, ... and many times ... Luckily, in These Endtimes, i am "free" of these female's deadsouls ... Before the Second Arrival in the Next Decade. Peace with you until than.

    • @Ody-up6kg
      @Ody-up6kg 4 дня назад +6

      Praise God that you are now where you need to be!

    • @bustjanzupan1074
      @bustjanzupan1074 3 дня назад +4

      @@Ody-up6kg Amen.

    • @scotabot7826
      @scotabot7826 2 дня назад +4

      And you're moving forward with the Lord which is all that really matters. Stay strong brother. You absolutely did the correct thing. Amen!

    • @JoséPeterson211-q7n
      @JoséPeterson211-q7n 2 дня назад

      ​@@scotabot7826God bless.

  • @nathangabbard154
    @nathangabbard154 4 дня назад +207

    I’m not joking most people will disagree with this advice but this is exactly what I’ve been feeling in my spirit. Thank God for this confirmation

    • @HumourousPie
      @HumourousPie 4 дня назад +8

      @@nathangabbard154 Maybe that's what God is telling you personally. Not everyone is told the same thing. It isn't good for people who may need fellowship.

    • @bustjanzupan1074
      @bustjanzupan1074 4 дня назад +1

      Amen , me 2, Amen. Pwy.

    • @bustjanzupan1074
      @bustjanzupan1074 4 дня назад

      @@HumourousPie Yes, many are not so spiritually strong 2 endure alone with God , to not fall under the female's traps ,... or maybe said : the satanic traps trough females. Peace with you.

    • @nathangabbard154
      @nathangabbard154 4 дня назад +3

      @@HumourousPieI totally agree we need fellowship and isolation is not healthy. I have a great brotherhood of Christian’s around me that sharpen me, what really has been my downfall and my biggest distraction is this idea of dating and attraction to women, entertaining women and spending time trying to find a good girl when I’m only beggining to start the call God has on my life, blessings!

    • @jl285
      @jl285 3 дня назад +3

      I’m here to confirm after I got divorced I continued to sleep with women I associated with, moral of the story I did not go through a good time.

  • @darthcrio1
    @darthcrio1 3 дня назад +58

    Most men would rather be single then deal with these modern women cuz us guys are tired of being treated like shit and we are done with the games

    • @srealone788
      @srealone788 День назад

      Yeah. Women are too. It’s a 2 way street.

  • @ChrisMesrine
    @ChrisMesrine 4 дня назад +42

    Most women are avoiding men, except Chad who has tons of women already

    • @chadvagbuster6580
      @chadvagbuster6580 2 дня назад

      yeah u have never spoken to a woman in ur life buddy plenty of 5'2 bald overweight guys with wifes how about u top coping over the fact that u have 0 rizz

    • @MagnadanBlogspot
      @MagnadanBlogspot 2 дня назад

      This is true and it is a worrisome phenomenon, God man them man and woman, it’s Satans desire to alienate the sexes and confuse them to become homo or trans. Romans chapter 1-2

    • @man_of_culture5937
      @man_of_culture5937 День назад

      Yeah they are all being passed around by the same group of Chad's. Chad will even smash the mid and lower tier girls which gives them a false and inflated sense of their value in the sexual marketplace. Once they've experienced chad they believe that's the type of man they deserve and will be unsatisfied with anything else for the rest of their lives. Anything less and she's settliing. You don't want be the guy that she settles for.

  • @yaniqueques
    @yaniqueques 4 дня назад +100

    No mother nature 😂 absolutely correct. Jesus is in control of everything. All glory be to Him!

    • @hordevran
      @hordevran 4 дня назад

      Mother nature is seductive deceptive and brutal. Every animal needs to eat the other one or plant. Endless cycle of survival and suffering. This is not God's - YHW creation but fallen world created and ruled by female goddess although YHW is still in control and has the last world. Seek Him through Jesus. Lucifer is female and she is of this world, not us.

    • @martin6345
      @martin6345 4 дня назад

      Mother nature is seductive, brutal and deveptive.

    • @Star_Renegade
      @Star_Renegade 3 дня назад

      Man was formed out of the earth tho

    • @hllyenaylleth9576
      @hllyenaylleth9576 2 дня назад +3

      ​@@Star_Renegadethe Earth was created by God

  • @fishguru73
    @fishguru73 4 дня назад +28

    If she doesn't revere God then she won't respect you as the spiritual leader of your home and she will not be lovingly submissive. It will be a non-stop power struggle and constant bickering over trivial matters and you will be disrespected in front of your own children.

    • @samueljackson541
      @samueljackson541 2 дня назад

      Is well said brother well said

    • @elwoodblues9613
      @elwoodblues9613 4 часа назад

      Western women will do this, including those who self-identify as Christian.

  • @ConradClarke-jh3gb
    @ConradClarke-jh3gb 4 дня назад +48

    If a woman doesn't help you in your walk with christ,don't have anything to do with her.

  • @jeffuehrer
    @jeffuehrer 4 дня назад +426

    She that does not increase my walk in faith can only diminish my walk and is therefore walked around.

  • @jamesvaughan9471
    @jamesvaughan9471 4 дня назад +94

    Men I made a terrible mistake marrying a foreign woman 10yrs ago. It was mostly trouble. It was mostly fighting one crisis she induced after another. You want to have relationship with the Lord that is free of distractions? Stay single. Avoid women. I totally agree. Get tight with Christ. Learn from my mistakes.

    • @HumourousPie
      @HumourousPie 4 дня назад

      This is why you seek Godly counsel and God before you marry anyone. If God says no then you listen so you avoid all the bad stuff. I didn't get married to the wrong person and I was smart to keep my apartment. The guy I was with wanted me to give up my apartment to help him money wise and marry him. I didn't do it but I found out he was abusive. He hit me once and I warned him hit me again. You won't like what happens after. I wasn't afraid of him because God was with me.
      I got a stupid prophecy from a questionable prophetress to stay away from a guy named John. There were at least 5 guys named John? Which one? It wasn't clear so I didn't know who to avoid. After that I am cautious on who I listen to now. I don't like people who call themselves prophets unless I see the proof.

    • @turbo1gts
      @turbo1gts 3 дня назад +5

      A person of the opposite sex from a different family and history is bad enough, but add a whole different culture in the mix and it can be total chaos.

    • @ExoticGTRX
      @ExoticGTRX 3 дня назад +9

      U should've seek God on ur future wife

    • @GunnerL-g2e
      @GunnerL-g2e 4 часа назад +1

      #jamesvaughan9471 Just a reminder, divorce is a sin. Lean on God in your marriage, he gave you your wife. Fullfill what God had told you to do in marriage, and God will be pleased.

  • @nathanaelmeagher1098
    @nathanaelmeagher1098 3 дня назад +14

    Great video. I needed to hear this. Married for 12 yrs and she left. So, I'm trying to embrace singleness and work on myself, guided by the Lord.

    • @masew2012
      @masew2012 День назад

      My heart goes out to you brother...

  • @TrevorQuinn44
    @TrevorQuinn44 4 дня назад +61

    I turned 18 the other day and I fell into sin with a Jezebel God always puts ur videos on my screen for wisdom, a righteous man falls seven times but gets back up ,it’s not worth it fellas it’s a trap ,it’s always before a breakthrough so don’t loose ur anointing

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +13

      Amen bro this is the way keep going bro. The best is yet to come follow his path. ✝️⚔️

    • @thensaidJacob
      @thensaidJacob 4 дня назад +10

      She’s not a Jezebel bro you just sinned. Don’t blame her. Take responsibility.

    • @HumourousPie
      @HumourousPie 4 дня назад +4

      ​@@thensaidJacob Yes it takes two to tangle. Jezebel will control you. If she didn't have control of you or had him over a barrel. That's what Jezebel would do. She would have to black mail him or have some sort of control over him. Even if she had that spirit of she's not submitted to that demon then if she was a Christian she may have submitted to God. Apparently I had been delivered from one. So if I had it and I was surrendered to God over a course of time then that must mean that God is way too powerful for demons. Another thing to think about is that if God gives us the authority to trample on snakes and scorpions then we are given that power on high. So we have to trust Jesus.
      I Have Given You Authority (Luke 10:19 - NIV)
      ruclips.net/video/mHanZw2jbZA/видео.htmlsi=fikRNNP3TN2GqRmQ
      God's word has the final authority not the devil's lies. The proof is in what God does not what we think or what the devil would have us think. The body of Christ is believing in lies because they are being held back by their own false beliefs.
      Remember who is Lord!
      Jesus Christ Is Lord
      ruclips.net/video/l6TIPDaCNjU/видео.htmlsi=1fZRaWDX9zxoeFC4
      Love conquers all things. Be devoted to the Love that God can teach you.
      1 Corinthians 13:7 AMP
      Love bears all things [regardless of what comes], believes all things [looking for the best in each one], hopes all things [remaining steadfast during difficult times], endures all things [without weakening].
      Learn God's Love and Learn to Love yourself so you can Love others. This is what a group of believers taught me outside the church.
      By My Spirit
      ruclips.net/video/YyStz6BXWH0/видео.htmlsi=YnJnoE1grv8-6axg
      God has given me the job to Love the Church. The church is made up of my brothers and sisters who truly love God. The L word is Love.

    • @HumourousPie
      @HumourousPie 4 дня назад +5

      Dude I have been around 10 non Christian guys and I didn't fall into sin with any of them. God was always there and at the time I didn't know what a Christian was? I needed deliverance. You guys need to be careful you don't start up a cult because this is bordering on a cult. You don't avoid people because you live in fear of demons. You live as you live free in Christ. This is ridiculous teaching. I don't agree with any of it. We aren't supposed to fear demons or people. I have been there. I was under a spirit of fear because they were superstitious. Be free in Jesus! ❤

    • @mrlighto7996
      @mrlighto7996 4 дня назад +2

      Remember ahab, the only reason she had the influence was because of a passive man

  • @osbellgarcia7065
    @osbellgarcia7065 4 дня назад +89

    In five words: Man up! Stop seeking pleasure. God bless you I needed this, I need to focus in my finances, my relationship with God is good and growing, my fitness is better than ever. Keep working for God's kingdoms

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +4

      God bless bro. This is the way ✝️⚔️

    • @gatorchomp3371
      @gatorchomp3371 4 дня назад +4

      Me too bro! But I'm married, but she's in full support with me. Praise God.

    • @RideLight777
      @RideLight777 4 дня назад +2

      Also don't say " god bless you" it's "may God be with you" I say this because I remember I saw a video where a person had a app and reversed the voice and said "we shall die" words can have spells, many things have been done to twist ideologys and stuff , I follow Jesus Christ as well, but be careful what you say. Also don't follow religion, only Jesus Christ And we are all sinners no matter even if we never speak to lady's or any of that ! That's why we support Jesus Christ , accept we are sincere and that he died for our sins and he resurrected the 3rd day and believe in the gospel ...

    • @osbellgarcia7065
      @osbellgarcia7065 4 дня назад

      @RideLight777 The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace. Numbers 6:24-26, I can say may God bless you, It isnt supersticion or witchcraft it is a pray, to God move his hands in favour to that person. When people says God bless America its praying to God that God will help America to make it great. Blessed is a favour from God, you are praying and wish that God will do something great in that person life or country.

    • @osbellgarcia7065
      @osbellgarcia7065 4 дня назад

      @RideLight777 You can't see may God with you to a believer when God dwells in that person 1 Corinthians 6:19 NLT
      [19] Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself,
      Well if you want to be religious, I will show you the scripture for what are you saying is non sense, when you try to correct someone bring scripture, thing you haven't done.
      The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace. Number 6:24-26
      When we say God bless you, it is a pray to God to bring favour in that person or country, when we say "God bless america" we are praying to God to bring God's favour in that country. Even Jesus says Matthew 5:3 NLT
      [3] “God blesses those who are poor and realize their need for him, for the Kingdom of Heaven is theirs.
      If you keep reading until verse 12 will see how Jesus says blessed the one who are like this, or do this. Because move God's favour. So you can't pray for people then as well 🤣🤣🤣

  • @MourningDove-bn4dk
    @MourningDove-bn4dk 3 дня назад +17

    Paul also says something along the lines of if you are single then you have nothing stopping you from Worshipping God. If you are married, then your love will be split, and you cannot serve two masters. In my opinion, Most men worship sex and the female.

    • @garybulwinkle82
      @garybulwinkle82 3 дня назад +1

      A woman at best will be a distraction in a man's relationship with God! Those men who are called, will be single; a woman will interfere with putting God first in his life. By joining with a woman, a family and wife becomes a man's priorities. This shall be especially problematic in the coming end times!! How is he to provide without taking the Mark of the Beast!!!

    • @ReapingTheHarvest
      @ReapingTheHarvest 3 дня назад +1

      Money, sex, and power are the 3 main idols of the world. That is why monks/priests take vows of poverty, chastity and obedience. Marriage is still a great blessing but obviously you have to give time to your wife, and children if you have them. Some people are called to the devout religious life to spend all their time devoted to God and his Kingdom. It's a higher calling though. Most people who choose to remain single these days do so for selfish reasons and not beause it's their calling.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  2 дня назад

      Exactly that’s basically what the verses were about.

  • @jerryavalos9610
    @jerryavalos9610 4 дня назад +50

    Put God first in everything and if God wants you to be with a Godly woman, it will happen because it would be His will, but do not go looking for it.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад

      🙏🙏

    • @xjoemallardx
      @xjoemallardx 2 дня назад +1

      A man who finds a wife finds a good thing.

    • @cherrydoctorpepper7
      @cherrydoctorpepper7 2 дня назад +2

      I think that is probably true. If being celibate is better than getting married, then maybe God will not provide a woman for you.

    • @jerryavalos9610
      @jerryavalos9610 2 дня назад +2

      @@cherrydoctorpepper7 If that is what the Lord wants.

    • @cherrydoctorpepper7
      @cherrydoctorpepper7 2 дня назад +1

      @@jerryavalos9610 I think you already know what God wants. I would advise you to give up dating, sex, and marriage. Do not seek it or take it when offered.

  • @Neptuneman07
    @Neptuneman07 3 дня назад +3

    You are spot on. I'm set apart in this season of my life. A year ago, I had temptation from a Jezebel. I turned her down, and now she's got her new puppet on a string. I am grateful for God's protection and discernment.

  • @AK-hr9pm
    @AK-hr9pm 4 дня назад +11

    I’ve been talking with a Christian girl for a while but we both recognize that we are not ready for a relationship in our young lives (college age) and that we should try to put all our focus on God. She truly makes me a more Godly man, and I hope to meet a woman like her in the future God willing.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 4 дня назад +9

      Careful, the longer you wait, the higher her notch count will be. It's a double-edged sword, friend. If you marry young you have to deal with all the hardships and sturggles that burden the youth. If you marry late, then you will have to deal with all of the baggage she racked up in her youth.

    • @Angel-qp9mp
      @Angel-qp9mp 3 дня назад +8

      Any girl who is not ready in her college years, her prime age, will most likely never be ready.

    • @boxerspause
      @boxerspause 2 дня назад +1

      @@Billy-bc8pkwow, that is really presumptuous. She may have the self control to wait for a truly Godly man and not have a notch count.

    • @bryant475
      @bryant475 2 дня назад

      You can be friends, focus on God, then come together later God willing!

  • @Hsolis-wg4mg
    @Hsolis-wg4mg 3 дня назад +8

    I met my wife at a bar we both don’t drink much as I was drinking she was with her friends as a designated driver. We are now having a kid and I am sober. We don’t attend a church but we are now a family. I understand this message especially as a married man, no woman can compare to what the lord has placed in my life. The Paul arc is true and the testing is the spirt is true. We talked so much had difficult conversations about lust. I am not a pure or good person before the lord but I do know that the Lord requires our worship and for us to deny ourselves and seek his kingdom. So forget about finding a women and let it happen by getting out into the world and meeting a woman who is willing to follow the lord “not you” but the lord for our understanding is limited and our pride can lead to self righteousness

  • @GEORGIOARCADE
    @GEORGIOARCADE 4 дня назад +19

    David I appreciate your honest, bold way of sharing God word for us 😁🙏🏽💥. It definitely got me pumped up to continue my walk with Christ. I'm 34 and I'm on my Paul for years now. It's been challenging here and there but I believe God is working through me and bettering my life for his will. I love what you are doing here and I wish you continued success in Jesus name AMEN!

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +3

      God bless G keep enduring the path solider. ✝️⚔️

  • @Harris-u6m
    @Harris-u6m 4 дня назад +21

    Training in the gym and lots of women in tight clothing is a challenge. It takes massive effort, but I refrain from looking. I resist lust.

    • @Hope-in-God-only-Yahso
      @Hope-in-God-only-Yahso 3 дня назад

      You should flee from any situation that can lead to lust. King David and Samson was destroyed by it. Lust is mans cryptonite, you should flee from it. God bless.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  2 дня назад +9

      So true. It’s why I switched to a smaller private gym. Just men there. Go at later less busy times too.

    • @ninjakungfucat8617
      @ninjakungfucat8617 День назад +6

      all you need is dumbells and a bench for home workouts

    • @catnoir4670
      @catnoir4670 22 часа назад

      ​@@ninjakungfucat8617 got any full-body workout routines???

    • @mbal4052
      @mbal4052 18 часов назад

      @@ninjakungfucat8617that’s my setup 👍🏻

  • @mijailov1c
    @mijailov1c 3 дня назад +3

    Thanks brother, i really needed this, I've been single for almost 2 years, andd I've been getting closer to God and made a decision to stop chasing women, and it's hard sometimes, but i know it's for good, i know i have to wait more for my wife so this is so true, Thank you brother appreciate this video , God bless everyone watching this Amen❤🙏🏻

  • @lukemoone4702
    @lukemoone4702 3 дня назад +7

    Brotha man, let me say, you’ve given me such inspiration. I’m actually going on a short term mission trip, and then going to possibly get a long term missionary position!

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  2 дня назад +1

      Glory to God bro amen. Keep serving him. ✝️⚔️

  • @JahmareeBanks
    @JahmareeBanks 4 дня назад +22

    I love how you said Paul arch 😎let’s do it

  • @jdog929
    @jdog929 4 дня назад +4

    Glad you mentioned the forced celibacy. I prayed for God to allow me to remain single, so I can just focus on him. I grieved the Holy Spirit in this prayer, the Lord spoke to me, and said “It’s okay to love another”.
    Now I also knew at this time that the Lord did have a women for me in the future.

  • @dantimber
    @dantimber 4 дня назад +12

    I'm Christian. I'm "separated" and have never been married. It's been years and I've never been 'great' and never found my purpose.

    • @gregorygant4242
      @gregorygant4242 4 дня назад +13

      Same here only had one GF never married because as a young guy no woman would even look my way or even say hi , why ?
      Because I didn't have money, status , now that I'm older and a bit wiser some women want me but I stay away from them because it's for the wrong reasons not the right ones.
      So I've gone into monk mode and I am in peace now !

    • @ylondes9927
      @ylondes9927 4 дня назад +1

      These are coping mechanisms. He has good points, but its deluded by him saying to avoid women.

    • @Ultrasteel
      @Ultrasteel 4 дня назад +3

      @gregory Sorry about your struggles brother. Many men are suffering like you are. Be sure to have a brotherhood, single or not, God called us to interact with people every now and then. Hope you have a good church that you’re going to. God bless you

    • @gregorygant4242
      @gregorygant4242 4 дня назад

      @@ylondes9927 I don't think he means all but a lot of them because of how modern women are today .
      He still means get a good woman if you can find one that is today.

    • @scotabot7826
      @scotabot7826 2 дня назад +1

      If your heart is true and you Love the Lord and are seeking him each day, you WILL find your purpose. Stay strong, and find out what's in your life that is distracting you from the Lord. Amen

  • @WhosMathew
    @WhosMathew 4 дня назад +11

    I have been avoiding them, a lot of my coworkers who are female are attracted to me, my manager tried to come at me, but i see passed a lot of these people. I'd rather wait for something magical to happen instead of searching for it.

  • @ezekielarraez7045
    @ezekielarraez7045 4 дня назад +14

    Man lately you’re videos i was able to relate to them and understand them in a more spiritual level ever since i started going to this new church my friend invited me to. God bless your ministry!

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +2

      That’s awesome man keep it going amen! 🙏✝️

  • @david-noel
    @david-noel 3 дня назад +5

    Brother thank you so much for this 😭 I had to let her go today and I listened to this video over 20 times to keep my mind focused because of the anxiety and pain I felt

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  2 дня назад +1

      Keep enduring solider ✝️⚔️

    • @david-noel
      @david-noel 2 дня назад

      @@thedavidhammond thank you brother, PAUL ARC LOADED 🔥 I needed that comment 🙏🏼

  • @TestimonyTuesday
    @TestimonyTuesday 4 дня назад +10

    God bless you David for your obedience, this is truly what the father is seeking in His sons in this hour. Restored order, obedience to the father, seeking first the Kingdom and His righteousness, discipline and self-control also Faith in the word, that He can bring anything to pass. I pray that many brothers would be inspired by your ministry and obedience

  • @samuelplacensia9979
    @samuelplacensia9979 3 дня назад +3

    The world today would call Paul the apostle in Incel.

  • @jamessinegal2285
    @jamessinegal2285 3 дня назад +2

    Amen to the Amen.this message was right on time for me.thank you Abba father for this brother in Jesus name Amen.

  • @IndigovSoul
    @IndigovSoul 4 дня назад +7

    Spittin that holy fire of truth, thank you once again my brother. You truly motivate me.

  • @Sacramentoidioto
    @Sacramentoidioto 3 дня назад +2

    You're on to something I've believed the last 35 years! Also, you're doing the work of God since you're talking the truth about how the Devil works.

  • @brentheigold161
    @brentheigold161 4 дня назад +12

    Right on David. A message of pure wisdom.

  • @MRHIDEF
    @MRHIDEF 4 дня назад +6

    David, everything you said was spot on. Every time I have these kinds of thoughts on my mind, you drop a video about it right when I open up RUclips. I really appreciate your vulnerability and honesty because it helps me a lot with my own journey. You are truly anointed. You’re making these videos, but God is leading as far as the content goes to help others. God bless you and your ministry brother ✝️🙏🏾

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад

      God bless bro this is the way. Keep ensuring G ⚔️✝️

  • @reichardvega-reyes4028
    @reichardvega-reyes4028 3 дня назад +2

    I like the video. The only thing I found very disrespectful is calling people crackheads. Being ex-addict myself and now being a born-again christian, I think that's very wrong. Other than that, thank you for the video it was really edifying. God bless everyone

    • @davidverlaney7764
      @davidverlaney7764 2 дня назад +1

      I agree with you. Opportunity for you to forgive with the Lords prayer. And pray and you can even make a comment like you did. Take care, brother, but you are not bad anymore. The New Testament talks about that you were but you're not anymore but you have compassion for those who are still battling. Pray for them.

  • @Gianin-m3l
    @Gianin-m3l 4 дня назад +9

    pure wisdom, thank you David

  • @ronniehenwood8580
    @ronniehenwood8580 4 дня назад +5

    Thanks brother! Your videos are very edifying. Love the commitment and zeal for the things of God. I'm praying for you, you are a rare breed follower of Jesus. We need more like you. Please keep them coming. God bless!

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +1

      Amen God bless. This is the way let’s go. ✝️⚔️

  • @davelight2220
    @davelight2220 4 дня назад +7

    Most women I ghost out, I can’t be bothered with them.

  • @gabriel_75X
    @gabriel_75X 4 дня назад +11

    Solid video Again

  • @daiyansultan9538
    @daiyansultan9538 3 дня назад +1

    Im not even a Christian but i really loved your message

    • @scotabot7826
      @scotabot7826 2 дня назад

      Turn your heart to the Lord God my friend. It is the most important decision you will ever make in your life. Your eternal life depends on it. Don't wait because no one is promised tomorrow!

  • @SunglassesatKnight88
    @SunglassesatKnight88 4 дня назад +4

    It would help if the TradCons could stop bullying some of us for being unmarried and childless, especially the men
    Some of us have tried everything we could, including prayer only to have setbacks after setback after setback despite our best efforts

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +2

      I hear you bro believe me I’m in the same boat. We get on our Paul arc and let God help us with the rest. 🙏

    • @SunglassesatKnight88
      @SunglassesatKnight88 4 дня назад +1

      @@thedavidhammond true, I just think it’s fucked up that the tradcons shame and ridicule us, call us degenerate or claim we are “aFRaiD of w0mEn” and claim we don’t approach or make moves, and then refer to themselves as the perfect example smdh
      They spit on us as we cheer for them (the nuclear traditional family) from the sidelines smdh

    • @ww6739
      @ww6739 4 дня назад

      Read the new testament and you will see how different was the church back then to what it is now.
      These people are only forcing men's tradition on you, not bible. Jesus even said that there will be a time that people will kill christians thinking they're doing this for Christ, thats how bad it will get one day. So be sure where your main focus must be (Christ, the New Testament, praying, spending more time with God) and never forget eventually these people will show they're maybe not your brothers in Christ (first be sure yourself is in Christ too). They've learned the "men's tradition's christianity" and taught us so, it's time for the real biblical one to unveil, and thats gonna make some masks fall off to the ground. Dont be afraid, the real christianity is we can lose It all, if we have Christ (are in Christ), we actually have everything that is to have (everything else is fading, this is a fading world, nothing here will last, everything will go back to dust, so it's a Illusion to pau too much attention to this life). The more time you spend in God's presence (and I mean that literally, real time, more real counted time), the more you will "already-live" the next life (heaven citizenship) in here (strange land).
      Real christianity is all about that, a flesh person becoming a new born in Christ and learning what is his true nature, ancestry, home land and so on. And the more you grow on that, the more things from this life will look strange to you (so these people are just either non real christians or maybe too-babysteps stuck yet (even if they're decades already in public proclaiming being new borns, but in any case thats their problem, you gotta focus on yourself first (actual growth in Christ) before helping them (because thats what they need, help to understand), except you will only be able to be helpful if you dive the deepest you can into the infinite sea of God (the more you are in Him, the better you will be able to share Him).
      The more time you spend looking at people, the less time you spend looking at Christ. Change your mind focus and things will naturally fit into their right places.

  • @-_-Sure.Not_
    @-_-Sure.Not_ 4 дня назад +3

    Oh my, did I need this video. God bless you and keep you. 💯🙏🏽

  • @ashtonrene1524
    @ashtonrene1524 4 дня назад +4

    Really good content you’re putting out brother, I can feel the spirit. I personally would take it easy on some of the clickbait titles. I understand the nature of them, but personally the one saying God hates lazy Christians rubbed me the wrong way. Sometimes how we say something is as important as what we say. God bless brother

    • @officialthomasjames
      @officialthomasjames 4 дня назад +1

      Next video will be “How to find your wife.” It’s getting ridiculous

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +2

      100% G. Yeah last title was a bit extreme I can see that. But yeah I mean what I say and stand 10 toes down!

  • @BlackColt-y5h
    @BlackColt-y5h 4 дня назад +7

    Better avoid them, look at Eve, we should apply it.

  • @JerryPenix-iy8dl
    @JerryPenix-iy8dl 3 дня назад +1

    I was with my wife for 30 years she passed away from cancer. I. Don't want to get married a Again I got a autistic daughter I am trying to be a god man for her

  • @tainoloco2361
    @tainoloco2361 3 дня назад +4

    Jesus said to cut your eyes out. That’s why I stop socializing and staring with women, even women of Christ.

    • @chadvagbuster6580
      @chadvagbuster6580 2 дня назад

      ur gay just say it brother

    • @WillKitey
      @WillKitey День назад

      “chadvagbuster”
      Are you projecting? Why are you even here?

    • @chadvagbuster6580
      @chadvagbuster6580 День назад

      @@WillKitey I mean you don't want to socialise and avoid women sounds to me like you're a closeted homosexual.That or a incel Who's coping that he has a zero skills to get Attention from women

    • @chadvagbuster6580
      @chadvagbuster6580 День назад

      @@WillKitey I mean you don't want to socialise or interact with women which means you are closeted that or an incel who is coping that he can't get attention from women

    • @chadvagbuster6580
      @chadvagbuster6580 День назад

      I mean you don't want to socialise or interact with women which means you are closeted that or an Intel who is coping that he can't get attention from women

  • @djentile7773
    @djentile7773 3 дня назад +1

    I'm taking the Paul and Jesus route. Been 3 years.
    Awesome video

  • @ivanfernandez5057
    @ivanfernandez5057 3 дня назад +4

    The Devil uses women to separate us from God.

  • @dixonvfitness1921
    @dixonvfitness1921 3 дня назад

    Noticed your channel is based in Canada. My wife and I have considered leaving the US because of the corruption here. I noticed Canada is one of the best places for families and just life quality overall. With this next presidency in America it's really got me thinking. How is Canada, culture and government wise? I am looking at the metrics and Canada seems to out perform America in a lot of ways. And it's almost the same country as far as things like language, currency. Maybe a video topic you could do?

  • @4_CHRIST_music
    @4_CHRIST_music 4 дня назад

    Dawg I absolutely love these sit down talk videos. Please keep making them. I’m going through this right now… by the grace of GOD I was on fire for the Lord last summer. Was evangelizing, growing, etc. But ever since college started back, I’ve been in a fog because of all the women around me.

  • @integra_gang
    @integra_gang 4 дня назад +2

    Wow, Gods timing is unreal!! Thank you!

  • @Ozla
    @Ozla 4 дня назад +3

    If you can't provide for her God's letting you know it's not time for her

  • @Yng_Saint365
    @Yng_Saint365 3 дня назад

    The timing is perfect family, stay blessed and I praise Yah for your obedience to his calling for your life 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @jeffroberts7585
    @jeffroberts7585 4 дня назад +5

    Amen amen I didn't even know I was on the Paul ark hahaha

  • @obsidianwraith3982
    @obsidianwraith3982 3 дня назад +2

    This video was spot on EVERYTHING👌
    Though beauty is subjective, I've sadly never seen a real God fearing women I'm attracted to. It seems the less they look like shrek & the more curvy, slender while voluptious, & less Uni-browed they get - the less God following they are. Just for the record, I've not once seen model material that was God fearing. Which - ok, but if you're not attracted to her - then you're just friends & then, yes, youre better off as celibate rather than sleeping around with Godless women. Welp' I guess my path is settled then🤷

  • @beckymarie4936
    @beckymarie4936 4 дня назад +4

    Dude I agree. I think its fine to have guys as friends but if it causes you too sin walk away fast. I have self control because I am waiting till marriage and never slept with anyone yet sadly I notice alot of men focus on sleeping with women which is gross. Im focused and waiting till marriage I dont have time to waste with guys who are playing around. We are in a serious spiritual battle and need to be wise like snakes but gentle like doves.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +1

      Amen! 🙏

    • @beckymarie4936
      @beckymarie4936 4 дня назад

      Seek first the Kingdom and his righteousness and all else will be added that's a promise!

  • @TheRaven-WingGaming
    @TheRaven-WingGaming 3 дня назад +1

    I would love a short summary of this, and just a quick breakdown rather than a full 15-minute video, because in all honesty, this kind of thing is already what I'm doing for the most part, until I find a Godly woman, then that is the only time my course of action will change.
    Celibacy is something to be encouraged and if not actually outright praised for someone being able to do that, especially in today's day and age where something so simple can cause someone to falter

  • @banelepenwell2790
    @banelepenwell2790 3 дня назад

    May the LORD bless you my brother, Gid will grow this channel and provide you with everything you need

  • @BrianAnthonyClayton
    @BrianAnthonyClayton 4 дня назад +5

    I vowed to be celebate for Eloahh, and am blessed to still be a virgin at 39. I was struggling with porn and masturbation a month ago, but reading the word of Eloahh has made me a new creature, and now I've become apart of likeminded brethren who are as passionate about the gospel as I am if not more so. I can't thank Eloahh enough for tearing me away from the ways of the world. Now I realise that the life of a Eunuch is the path he always had for me. Shalom Shama!

  • @freddeyo6338
    @freddeyo6338 4 дня назад +1

    Thank you brother! Amen and amen. God bless y'all 🙏💖

  • @leonking1610
    @leonking1610 4 дня назад +3

    Needed this bro

  • @crappyfellow
    @crappyfellow 2 дня назад

    Until someone stops the free reign of Family Court, good men will avoid marriage and women in general. Nowadays, only 6.5 men in a thousand get married. When he does get married, the following scenario plays out: (1) man gets married, (2) wife refuses to have sex, (3) wife racks up huge credit card debt, (4) wife stops contributing financially, (5) wife stops cooking & cleaning, (6) wife cheats on husband, (7) wife files for divorce and takes the house, cars, savings, and kids, (8) wife falsely accuses husband of abuse and he no longer can see his kids, (9) wife poisons kids against the father. What man in his right mind will sign up for this?

  • @ianm8218
    @ianm8218 3 дня назад +1

    I can definitely be better when it comes to self control, thank you for this message

  • @eatyourgreens7300
    @eatyourgreens7300 4 дня назад +3

    Why are you in the spooky woods bro 😂

  • @ChristLikeWarrior
    @ChristLikeWarrior 4 дня назад +1

    Seek first His kingdom and Righteousness, and if He has a girl for you He will make it happen. If not , then you shouldn’t get involved with someone not built for you.

  • @deronflores3165
    @deronflores3165 4 дня назад +4

    Thank you brother your videos have been solidifying my faith so much.💪🏻

  • @jenniferwalsh1731
    @jenniferwalsh1731 3 дня назад

    Amen! I even experienced this recently. When I have been fully devoted to God, the growth has been crazy! Praise the Lord!

  • @nathangabbard154
    @nathangabbard154 4 дня назад +3

    Honestly so true

  • @Drake_997
    @Drake_997 4 дня назад +1

    I was praying to God and he answered me. I didn’t seek her but she found me. After years of not talking she texted me. We agreed to be patient and talk about what our commitment would look like. We are taking our time with it. If you are blessed with a women like I was, take your time, be patient with each other. Have the hard conversations early before you even do anything to progress. Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding. Put God first, before even texting her in the morning even if I’m tempted with messages she sent I make sure to read the word first to have my instructions from my Lord. I was bought at a price as we all were. Focus on Christ even if you have a women, focus on Christ first. God bless you all ❤

    • @ZommBleed
      @ZommBleed 4 дня назад +1

      If you're not "giving it to her" then she's getting it from some other dude(s). Do you actually think she was celibate during your time apart from her? DTB. Get on with your life. Find a mission or goal or a passion that is pleasing to the Lord. Follow it. Jesus said, Follow me. He said to go into all the world making disciples of all nations. If you do this (obedience) then all else will fall into place. The Father can put the right woman in front of you when He knows you are ready. Satan will put the wrong woman in front of you when you aren't ready.
      Jesus said there are two commands that fulfill all the other Commandments: Love the LORD God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength; and love your neighbor as your self.
      Jesus said obey the Commandments. Paul said grace will save you, through faith. Who are you going to believe. Go look for those words from Jesus.(He never said anything tying grace to salvation like what Paul preaches.) Jesus said , If you have seen me you have seen the Father. So, did the Father make Commandments about grace or about obedience? People can make all the arguments about grace and faith that they want. The only place they will find it is in Paul's writings.
      Follow Jesus. If you do nothing but follow Jesus, you literally can do nothing wrong, because he did nothing wrong and never sinned.
      If you desire a wife, it is perfectly within God's will and in His plan. If you are sexually attracted to women, there is nothing wrong with that, as society and churches will argue against. Jesus said if you lust after a woman you have already committed adultry in your heart. A "woman" in this case is someone who is married, otherwise Jesus would have said "fornication," not "adultry." It is perfectly normal and natural to be attracted to an unmarried female. It's harder to be attracted to modern women who are either promiscuous or obese (or both). Good luck finding "an help meet" for you. (Help Meet means someone that is suitable. It's not a noun. A woman isn't a help meet. A woman is one suitable to be your helper.
      If you are in God's will He will give you the desires of your heart. Follow Him.

  • @anthonylambert1031
    @anthonylambert1031 4 дня назад +1

    Sir get a podcast please 🙏 that’s probably already on the agenda but I need to hear this through out the day

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +1

      Amen! Might in the future bro. For now just download the videos and listen. 😊 I use RUclips premium.

  • @thomasthebest7700
    @thomasthebest7700 4 дня назад +4

    i feel so bad that i used to date girls on roblox and i truly never want to do that again it was my worst experience ever (i hate my self for that😕😕😕)

    • @Ish7923
      @Ish7923 4 дня назад +1

      I did too bro like 4 years ago 🤣

    • @yoitsjoe5937
      @yoitsjoe5937 4 дня назад +1

      Bruh what??😂

    • @thomasthebest7700
      @thomasthebest7700 4 дня назад +1

      @@Ish7923 🙂

    • @thomasthebest7700
      @thomasthebest7700 4 дня назад +1

      @@yoitsjoe5937 yup you heard right i used to be an idiot and online date on roblox (i stil hate my self for it) and yeah that's what i am talking about idc anymore if people hate me because as the guy in the video says do you live for God or for people so yeah i diceded to change the shit i've done and now i try to get closer to God again

    • @thomasthebest7700
      @thomasthebest7700 4 дня назад

      @@Ish7923 at least now i am not as worried as i was before now that i know i was not the only one here i feel less shy and less introvent about saying that

  • @robertcadogan2607
    @robertcadogan2607 4 дня назад +2

    Awesome Speech!

  • @aaronadame418
    @aaronadame418 4 дня назад +5

    Its funny, I used to watch "self improvement" videos on how to attract more women because my flesh was desiring fornication and i always liked how the guys i was listening to were so brutally honest like saying things like you cant approach women because you dont want to go through uncomfortable situations and so i decided to man up and face my fears, but now that im starting to take my faith seriously and listen to guys like you i realize that i now need to go through another uncomfortable transformation thanks to your brutal honesty.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +2

      Amen bro. This is Christian self-improvement for men amen. ✝️⚔️

  • @pickupyrcrossandfolwjc333
    @pickupyrcrossandfolwjc333 4 дня назад

    Thanks for this message it’s really efficient to have a clear organisation plan for the next step in walk with CHRIST , may GOD bless you and youre family in JESUS NAME 🕊️

  • @Just_Markel
    @Just_Markel 4 дня назад +3

    Amen🙏🙏

  • @kai-jz6vv
    @kai-jz6vv 4 дня назад +1

    They were two women that in a way curse me because of my Christian walk saying i will never get married because I am born again she said she liked the old me better but that kai is dead I am done with the old and here with the new

  • @anonymousntwiggn8911
    @anonymousntwiggn8911 3 дня назад

    True, it's in Proverbs that we are not to rush love. Singleness can seem lonely because it kinda is but singleness is a time to build on your faith, grow and spiritually mature. I get what he means with being distracted and oppressed, I've been their a lot. It's a time to past each test. I don't know about avoiding all woman for a thumbnail but if it helps your faith, then it helps your faith. Keep it up, we're gonna get there.

  • @medot8296
    @medot8296 4 дня назад

    Thank you so much for this strong and well needed message! I don't know how I found this video, but God is using you!

  • @kingcreed348
    @kingcreed348 4 дня назад +1

    Men, only date inside the church. It makes it much easier. My wife isnt in the church, but tbf I wasnt either when we dated or first got married, and therefore I am commanded to stay with her unless she breaks our covenant or decides to leave me one day, which is fine. Im not trying to get rid of her 😂

  • @runningforyou2266
    @runningforyou2266 4 дня назад +3

    how tall are you??

  • @alittlebyte
    @alittlebyte 4 дня назад

    They come just before the breakthrough - that is very true. Has happened to me twice. But God can turn this around and instead of them fucking everything up, He can actually render them a necessary stepstone of your breakthrough. If you can resist the temptation yourself, God will help & reward you. If you cannot, He will protect you, but will also let you learn the lesson the hard way. And it's so awesome witnessing God's power through this kind of situations :)

  • @officialthomasjames
    @officialthomasjames 4 дня назад +13

    If everyone listened to this guy, they would avoid family, friends, and your potential wife. AKA you live selfishly and focus entirely on yourself.

    • @Person-dq3dk
      @Person-dq3dk 4 дня назад +3

      How so? He says you need to prepare for a wife.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +17

      Not what I said at all.

    • @SCROTUMM
      @SCROTUMM 4 дня назад +1

      🤦

    • @ecca777
      @ecca777 4 дня назад

      Listen to it again bro

    • @healing7282
      @healing7282 4 дня назад

      I agree with you 100%. How will you be able to find your wife? God isn’t going to drop her to you. Wheww I believe you came out of the red pill arena and you still need deliverance on your mindset. You must learn self-control and you still are struggling with this. What’s wrong with getting a Instagram??? Lol! You are too religious. Handle your lust issue because He will put you in a situation where there is all women. You can’t avoid it lol! How will you know you have overcame it?

  • @jeremyschaber4588
    @jeremyschaber4588 3 дня назад

    Consider the time you take to let God refine you as a blessing even when it doesn't feel like it. Also learn the importance of patience. God does things in his timing and not your own though you sometimes do need to know when God is giving you an opportunity and you just need to take it. At the same time be careful not to become bitter, which can be very easy in these times.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  2 дня назад

      Amen! Keep focus on him and trust the rest. 🙏

  • @Christian-q9s
    @Christian-q9s 3 дня назад

    I believe Paul said the same thing too, he surpassed his fellow laborers in Christ. Not as a a means of show boating but as a means of the fruit that he had

  • @lordbebech
    @lordbebech 4 дня назад +1

    Yeah Celibacy for the Kingdom of God is higher calling than marriage and that's a DOGMA (look for Sacra Virginitas) thought so many have forget this and even argue with this.

  • @Darlemonte
    @Darlemonte 3 дня назад

    I genuinely fell in love with a woman and sincerely could not lust her. I saw her as the perfect wife. Despite my problems with lust I saw her purely. I saw this resoundingly shy woman become an open book whenever we were together. And I saw a part of myself with confidence I haven't felt from within for over a decade just flourish around her.
    I opened up, she closed herself off and chose familiarity despite coming from so much negative.
    Why does the light that God had given me attract demon after demon, but the one woman, the only woman that I've ever wanted to marry and not to lust at all in my entire life, pulls away. I see he for her mind and spirit, not her body or her face.
    By demon I mean pagan woman. They seem to just flock to me.

  • @privacyiskey83
    @privacyiskey83 3 дня назад

    Wise instruction brother,
    bless you.

  • @Papa.Not.Goin.
    @Papa.Not.Goin. 3 дня назад

    It hard to Understand but u made this better,Thank you Brudda.

  • @TreneeR
    @TreneeR 4 дня назад +1

    A lot of reason why couples don’t make it is because they have not surrendered their life FULLY to Jesus Christ. They don’t read the word of God. Want to claim Jesus but don’t want the principles. God guides both man and woman how to treat each other and specially how to love Him, God. Because people are lukewarm this is why there’s division. God wants people to be fruitful and multiply. Yes the Bible says that a man that marries, doeth a good thing but he who doesn’t doeth better because he will focus 100% on Christ. I pray that the people who choose to do this fully are surrendering to Christ. Meaning no masturbation, no sex, no kind of any form of sexual activity. No porn, no fornication, no anything. Obedient to Jesus Christ is everything. God is good and worthy to be praised. Listen to what God says, not man. 🙏🏾💕 God bless you all.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  4 дня назад +1

      Amen 🙏

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 4 дня назад

      Not just read the Word of God, but confess it out loud. Concerning the surrendering, that cannot really be done in our own strength, the Holy Spirit makes it possible.

  • @xSapphiirexx
    @xSapphiirexx 3 дня назад +1

    The burning passion Paul is disvussing is not sexual lust, for that is of the devil anyways and Paul is certainly not advocating to use a blessing and gift from God to appease the lower appetite and carnal desire of the flesh, not even close. This burning passion he is doscussing is about the passion and Godly desire for spiritual things that a woman and man can bring to eachother, which God says is good. Yes, it is easy to think self control especially between man and woman is directly linked to sexual intimacy and sexual morality but Let us be careful not to look at the self and the control God gives in a carnal way. Self control is in relation to other gifts that the Spirit produces in you. It is easy to think otherwise considering we are in a list crazed world, and not so much in a society that values modesty and virtue in eachother and the higher morals and values that a God centered society operates inside of.

    • @ReapingTheHarvest
      @ReapingTheHarvest 3 дня назад +1

      That just doesn't make sense in the context. He is definitely talking about sexual desire. If a man can't contain his sexual desires it is better to marry than to fall into temptations of lust and sexual immorality. I believe you're overthinking it. I've just never heard the interpretation that you're saying before.

  • @frankiemartin3333
    @frankiemartin3333 4 дня назад

    This was such a great video 🥲 there is so much good Christian content on RUclips nowadays! You said some things that were very controversial and I’m glad you aren’t afraid to say the full truth and not water it down. May the force of the Holy Spirit be with you always…. Ps. The gift of celibacy, sounds amazing never heard of that before.

  • @Shiranui400
    @Shiranui400 4 дня назад

    Speaking the truth. Thank you for saying the truth and not taking the easy way out.

  • @galochusan
    @galochusan 3 дня назад

    Never elope in a foreign country...

  • @billspirellis6221
    @billspirellis6221 4 дня назад +1

    David as a fellow reborn christian i have a question.Let us assume i find the godly woman in the future the correct thing is to not have sex before we get married right?And if not do you think any christian woman out there would apply for a lets say 1 year relationship before marriage without sex at all before we actually get married?Let me know your thoughts on that if you read this comment.Again very great work out there.May God bless you and your loved ones abundantly!Amen!