AVOID ALL WOMEN! (Christian Men Listen Up...)

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  • Опубликовано: 14 ноя 2024

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  • @thedavidhammond
    @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +27

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    • @ehynn
      @ehynn Месяц назад

      the ny hat and the edge shirt, rather worldly.
      some honest critique- i might recommend fixing the beard either going a hard goatee or clean shaven, or hair growth serum if u really want a full beard

    • @SigmaSkyGig
      @SigmaSkyGig Месяц назад

      Paul is a narcissistic fraud.. think about it he was the most against the true chosen disciples of Jesus. Argued with them because why Paul had a dream! Don't go down the same path as everyone else because you will not find God through Paul the criminal.

    • @Beregond1861
      @Beregond1861 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@ehynnHis beard is great. He quite literally looks like a modern Jack Sparrow

    • @majormarketing6552
      @majormarketing6552 Месяц назад +2

      No way you know marriage. Ask anyone who has been and they say dont. Ive been married, you are a fool to want it

    • @Beregond1861
      @Beregond1861 Месяц назад

      @@majormarketing6552 Christ's important warning about what you just said in Matthew 5:22 is VERY APPARENTLY what you need to hear today...

  • @chanellevarner
    @chanellevarner Месяц назад +670

    “Do not give your strength to women, Nor your ways to that which destroys kings.”
    ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31‬:‭3‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +43

      Amen!!

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 Месяц назад +37

      I always prefer the archaic language!
      ''Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings''

    • @gregorygant4242
      @gregorygant4242 Месяц назад +10

      @@mreverybody1150Like in Troy over Helen that was a big mistake going to war over a woman , big time.

    • @bustjanzupan1074
      @bustjanzupan1074 Месяц назад +2

      Amen + Amen.

    • @JMI559
      @JMI559 Месяц назад

      ​@@gregorygant4242 quiet!!...

  • @SonOfZion777
    @SonOfZion777 Месяц назад +441

    I been single for over 11 years with basically no dates or anything.
    I don't even remember how a date works and that's ok.
    I trust that Jesus will guide me to the right one when the time is right.
    This celibacy has really grown my relationship with Jesus Christ to a whole another level and i am super grateful for that.
    God bless you who is reading this.

    • @gabriel_75X
      @gabriel_75X Месяц назад +23

      LEVEL 9000

    • @ExoticGTRX
      @ExoticGTRX Месяц назад +14

      Ur in America (Babylon the great according to the Bible) find a wife overseas. But seek God on the woman who's worthy of marriage after going on dates

    • @gabriel_75X
      @gabriel_75X Месяц назад +8

      ​@@ExoticGTRX Babylon the Great is.... the great wicked principality Of ​ Babylon.....literary Babylon ..

    • @GioAyala12
      @GioAyala12 Месяц назад +15

      Whoa dude you have to go out there and get her. Christ will not guide you to her. You’re a man. Step up. Jesus will guide her to you but only if you’re a good man.

    • @DoNotAlterDNA
      @DoNotAlterDNA Месяц назад +32

      @@GioAyala12 It has NOTHING to do with “being a man”. That is a LIE. In Genesis 2:22, the first relationship ever in human history started when God himself brought the woman Eve to the man Adam. Adam didn’t go “being a man” looking for the woman. God brought Eve to Adam! It’s right in your Bible, look and see for yourself. Genesis 2:22.

  • @jeffuehrer
    @jeffuehrer Месяц назад +694

    She that does not increase my walk in faith can only diminish my walk and is therefore walked around.

    • @OohitzTAZADAQ
      @OohitzTAZADAQ Месяц назад +22

      Facts 👑

    • @bailujen8052
      @bailujen8052 Месяц назад +6

      I was born out of wedlock through this type of relationship

    • @VGOTH777
      @VGOTH777 Месяц назад +6

      Amen.

    • @JosephG-jx3y
      @JosephG-jx3y Месяц назад +4

      Exactly the same sentiment here.

    • @kaijenkins1932
      @kaijenkins1932 Месяц назад +2

      wow that was powerful

  • @calebhebert2733
    @calebhebert2733 Месяц назад +114

    Avoid women? Done. Bro, they avoid me. This is too easy.

    • @Jay2Official-n8j
      @Jay2Official-n8j 28 дней назад

      @calebhebert2733 they been avoiding me my whole life and I’m 29 years old I’m old now

    • @Motorcycle5667
      @Motorcycle5667 26 дней назад +5

      There was 136 day period nd I was almost physically attacked for simply riding a bike through a parking lot of a Starbucks.... Then it happened again and again at 2 other locations about 7 or 8 times Women despise men... It suddenly stopped Then I got an actual motorcycle Women were following some type of tiktok attract attack trend now they smiling wave at me because they realize they couldn't make it without it...

    • @vincec727
      @vincec727 12 дней назад +1

      😂

    • @worldcomingtoanend
      @worldcomingtoanend 11 дней назад +1

      lol

  • @T11paraplegic
    @T11paraplegic Месяц назад +206

    Job's wife was telling him to just curse God and die but Job stood his ground.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +31

      Amen! He stood 10 toes down 😤

    • @Jer20.9
      @Jer20.9 Месяц назад +13

      I think she got replaced, in the end Job had another 10 kids, don't think she had 20 children.

    • @JamesFleming-h6y
      @JamesFleming-h6y Месяц назад +5

      Jobs wife wanted a new man.

    • @Jer20.9
      @Jer20.9 Месяц назад +9

      @JamesFleming-h6y haha, good point, even then women initiated 70% of divorce.

    • @Ommarrie
      @Ommarrie Месяц назад +1

      @@JamesFleming-h6yshe didn’t want a new man 😂 scriptures doesn’t even state that

  • @tesoro2250
    @tesoro2250 Месяц назад +367

    How many Christian women are submissive these days? A rare unicorn indeed. How many churches will even talk about this subject these days? Difficult for sure

    • @p9pitherin550
      @p9pitherin550 Месяц назад +39

      If you lead properly. They will submit naturally. They won't just submit because the Bible says so.

    • @SteelSaint749
      @SteelSaint749 Месяц назад +38

      ​@@p9pitherin550
      Proper according to whose standards? If not the Bible's then hers? Is she God?

    • @ERICK4431
      @ERICK4431 Месяц назад

      ​@@p9pitherin550 Keep telling you that 😂

    • @jakobsmith8899
      @jakobsmith8899 Месяц назад +12

      ​@@SteelSaint749the Baptist Church is still quite biblical. I'll pray for you. Good women are there, be a good man.

    • @J3.16-17
      @J3.16-17 Месяц назад +21

      Exactly - seems to me most churches won't touch this area with a ten foot pole, and then 'they' wonder why young people leave church..

  • @LongWalker730
    @LongWalker730 Месяц назад +221

    When you get in your 30s as a man you really start to realize that women arent worth it. The juice ain't worth the squeeze. Especially these days.

    • @Sungroove
      @Sungroove Месяц назад

      If women weren’t worth it, then god wouldn’t create them

    • @matthewvinson9214
      @matthewvinson9214 Месяц назад +19

      I'm in my late 30's I am lonely not lustful but good friendship is better then a toxic marriage, and like you say it's not worth it to look for a partner just let it happen and develop naturally. God know's best so who am I to argue with his plan.

    • @Bludobi9001
      @Bludobi9001 Месяц назад +1

      Facts

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +27

      The right one will be bro. Keep serving God/mission and let her be added unto you. Matthew 6:33 🙏

    • @wampuscat1340
      @wampuscat1340 Месяц назад

      Amen. You have to look for a younger woman who's Christian walk matches the talk. Single church girls past college age are usually born again virgin single mothers looking for a beta bucks to save them because Chad wouldn't commit.

  • @ConradClarke-jh3gb
    @ConradClarke-jh3gb Месяц назад +146

    If a woman doesn't help you in your walk with christ,don't have anything to do with her.

  • @nathangabbard154
    @nathangabbard154 Месяц назад +280

    I’m not joking most people will disagree with this advice but this is exactly what I’ve been feeling in my spirit. Thank God for this confirmation

    • @Humourous_Pie
      @Humourous_Pie Месяц назад +13

      @@nathangabbard154 Maybe that's what God is telling you personally. Not everyone is told the same thing. It isn't good for people who may need fellowship.

    • @bustjanzupan1074
      @bustjanzupan1074 Месяц назад +2

      Amen , me 2, Amen. Pwy.

    • @bustjanzupan1074
      @bustjanzupan1074 Месяц назад

      @@Humourous_Pie Yes, many are not so spiritually strong 2 endure alone with God , to not fall under the female's traps ,... or maybe said : the satanic traps trough females. Peace with you.

    • @nathangabbard154
      @nathangabbard154 Месяц назад +6

      @@Humourous_PieI totally agree we need fellowship and isolation is not healthy. I have a great brotherhood of Christian’s around me that sharpen me, what really has been my downfall and my biggest distraction is this idea of dating and attraction to women, entertaining women and spending time trying to find a good girl when I’m only beggining to start the call God has on my life, blessings!

    • @jl285
      @jl285 Месяц назад +5

      I’m here to confirm after I got divorced I continued to sleep with women I associated with, moral of the story I did not go through a good time.

  • @Bludobi9001
    @Bludobi9001 Месяц назад +121

    Considering the age we live in, it's best to stay single.

    • @scotabot7826
      @scotabot7826 Месяц назад +13

      So, so true, and what a evil and God-hating age we are in today. We have the Savior, so there is NO fear for his sheep. Amen!

    • @jamaneforrester168
      @jamaneforrester168 Месяц назад +8

      So true especially with the lack of faithfulness and deception, love is surely growing colder. Lets strive to get right with God and maintain peace and contentment 🙏🏽

    • @MikeMcclendon1377
      @MikeMcclendon1377 Месяц назад +2

      It's one reason I still look young at my old age (40) lol. I've been single & happy for a very long time

    • @GalaxyFrequencyRadio
      @GalaxyFrequencyRadio Месяц назад +1

      The WORD OF GOD says: 2 are better than 1. See my comments on this board. God has a plan and HE loves marriage otherwise HE would LOVE divorce. BUT GET HIS CHOICE: Isaiah 34:16....Pray in agreement. God wants you blessed.

    • @christianriddler5063
      @christianriddler5063 Месяц назад +2

      @@jamaneforrester168 Love is already ice cold buddy, finding love today is like finding a wild tiger on the south pole lol, just as unlikely.

  • @ifeawosika966
    @ifeawosika966 Месяц назад +220

    I messed with a fake christian who claimed to be catholic (I know my bad). Years of my life gone for nothing. She even tried to make me compromise with the world. When its time to walk away. Do not be afraid to do so. I am a bit ashamed of my actions, but I am here today moving forward.

    • @bustjanzupan1074
      @bustjanzupan1074 Месяц назад +9

      Thanks To Lord God , that saved you. I was in those Wrong Parts Tooo, ... and many times ... Luckily, in These Endtimes, i am "free" of these female's deadsouls ... Before the Second Arrival in the Next Decade. Peace with you until than.

    • @Ody-up6kg
      @Ody-up6kg Месяц назад +9

      Praise God that you are now where you need to be!

    • @bustjanzupan1074
      @bustjanzupan1074 Месяц назад +4

      @@Ody-up6kg Amen.

    • @scotabot7826
      @scotabot7826 Месяц назад +5

      And you're moving forward with the Lord which is all that really matters. Stay strong brother. You absolutely did the correct thing. Amen!

    • @JoséPeterson211-q7n
      @JoséPeterson211-q7n Месяц назад

      ​@@scotabot7826God bless.

  • @tubalcain6874
    @tubalcain6874 Месяц назад +139

    I'm 66, a lifelong bachelor (not for lack of concerted effort when I was a younger man), so it is what it is.
    With all due respect, and for what it's worth, young men, whether you're Christian or heathen, really watch your backs with these born again type women.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk Месяц назад

      Best to do what the video says: avoid them at all costs.
      Any of them that has the "born again" or "practicing celibacy" in their profile, FLEE! RUN! Her past will become your future, and if it's a past filled with tumult, your future will envelop it. You were blessed friend to avoid such tumult, even if you may not feel like it on a day to day basis.

    • @Hsolis-wg4mg
      @Hsolis-wg4mg Месяц назад +11

      Yes sir

    • @keironmoore7480
      @keironmoore7480 Месяц назад +18

      Yes sir! Spoken like a wise man. Thank you for giving young men like myself your sound advice. I'm 35 and I am still learning and healing.

    • @romanmichaelhamilton8729
      @romanmichaelhamilton8729 Месяц назад

      Indeed. I found the biggest whores were the ones who attended church every week. They had so many men, they could have worked for Heidi Fleiss.

    • @boxerspause
      @boxerspause Месяц назад

      May I ask what you mean when you say”with these born again type women” ?

  • @DarrylPassow
    @DarrylPassow Месяц назад +49

    Proverbs- who can find a GODLY women. For they are more rare than ruby's. Most women, even "Christian" women, are so ungodly it's not worth it.

    • @KaziahKerenRose
      @KaziahKerenRose 7 часов назад

      Same can be said for "Christian" men. It's the human condition. Not one or the other. Quit with the division between men and women. Especially in the body of Christ. The "world" divides. That's Satan's plan. Please don't bring it into the church just because you can't find a wife. I'm a single Christian woman but I don't blame Christian men. I just accept God wants me single at this moment in His time and will.

  • @Dee-qo7gh
    @Dee-qo7gh Месяц назад +130

    I knew the devil was real when I started avoiding woman. It went from them avoiding me to them following me around stores in tight clothes.

    • @Jay2Official-n8j
      @Jay2Official-n8j 28 дней назад +1

      @Dee-qo7gh I experienced this only 1 time back in 2020 it was a stranger women she was possessed by demons she was talking too herself while she was following me it’s scary

    • @Dee-qo7gh
      @Dee-qo7gh 28 дней назад +3

      @@Jay2Official-n8j That's totally different. When your already in lust and sin they won't bother you because they know you'll chase them. When you stop lusting that's when you'll see them in action. Happen to me twice yesterday. When 2 female store clerks talking seen me ignoring them In self checkout one lied and said my machine won't working just so the most attractive one could come over and get in my face and ring me up at a self checkout machine she said won't working.. When she notice I won't looking at her, Then she made me put the money in my self when I tried to hand it to her just to give her enough time to run 10 feed away and face me in my path so I'd have no choice but to look at her leaving the store. Either your lying or lusting, ain't no way your going to stop lusting and the devil gone leave you alone.

    • @josephmoore9706
      @josephmoore9706 26 дней назад

      Nah, you just noticed them more because hormones were going crazy. So in your head, you think they were coming to you in tight clothes when they're just walking around like normal.

    • @CaucasianWhiteFemale33
      @CaucasianWhiteFemale33 14 дней назад +3

      ​@@Jay2Official-n8j I Never Had A Problem Getting Chicks ~ But Something Has Come Over Them In These Later Days That Is Absolutely Scaring Me

    • @Jay2Official-n8j
      @Jay2Official-n8j 13 дней назад

      @@CaucasianWhiteFemale33 are you a women ?

  • @cris7703
    @cris7703 Месяц назад +13

    The closer we are to the Lord our God , the hardest it get , the enemy starts using more people and more lies , more and more spiritual attack , more arrows , even family members and friends are used to try to get us away from the Lord. God bless you brother! keep sharing the Gospel!

  • @fishguru73
    @fishguru73 Месяц назад +86

    If she doesn't revere God then she won't respect you as the spiritual leader of your home and she will not be lovingly submissive. It will be a non-stop power struggle and constant bickering over trivial matters and you will be disrespected in front of your own children.

    • @samueljackson541
      @samueljackson541 Месяц назад +4

      Is well said brother well said

    • @elwoodblues9613
      @elwoodblues9613 Месяц назад

      Western women will do this, including those who self-identify as Christian.

    • @theguybehindyou4762
      @theguybehindyou4762 Месяц назад

      And she will have the law on her side, even if she m*rders you in broad daylight.

    • @thejjjwils
      @thejjjwils Месяц назад

      Well said amen

    • @reinhard8370
      @reinhard8370 8 дней назад

      In my own life and what i experience from others - i totally agree with you!!

  • @jlogan2228
    @jlogan2228 Месяц назад +344

    I'm tired of being told man up and get married. To who? The overweight single mom of 3 kids who doesn't want to have anymore and has the "if you can't handle a strong woman" attitude? There are no cute wholesome Christian women left. They all are eating up with their own ego

    • @MrDavidgiar
      @MrDavidgiar Месяц назад +24

      yeah “ my body my rules you don’t like what I have to offer. You’re not the one for me, honey.! “ ends up being a divorce it’s not like women want to please their husbands its goes both ways, even saying that I looked at as a narcissistic potential abuser or rapist.

    • @jakejudy5455
      @jakejudy5455 Месяц назад +43

      Yeah the preacher at my church basically said this. He said if our not married by 30 what are you doing? Hell no I'm not listening to this advice.

    • @telcobilly
      @telcobilly Месяц назад +18

      I have one word for you. Philippines. Watch some expat videos. I'm met a godly woman 9 years ago and now we've been married for over seven. It totally was God that brought us together.

    • @-lord1754
      @-lord1754 Месяц назад +13

      ​@@telcobillyOr the green card, lol

    • @tytyron4408
      @tytyron4408 Месяц назад +9

      Great people exist both men and women, but you have to understand the truth in life is that you get who you are, If you have certain values and they are genuinely what hold you, this will automatically place you in particular environments because that's where you get fulfillment that corresponds to your values, and don't be surprised to realize that's not only happening to you but to some woman somewhere. I'll try to be kind with this one, with a common saying that goes, "a goat will only graze within the length of it's tether". A goat might want or hear about "grass" that doesn't correspond to it's environment, and it will be unreal because the tether holds it down to its current environment or situation. Whoever you are will determine your environment; your environment will determine the people you meet, and the people you meet will have an impact on how you view the world.

  • @yaniqueques
    @yaniqueques Месяц назад +137

    No mother nature 😂 absolutely correct. Jesus is in control of everything. All glory be to Him!

    • @hordevran
      @hordevran Месяц назад

      Mother nature is seductive deceptive and brutal. Every animal needs to eat the other one or plant. Endless cycle of survival and suffering. This is not God's - YHW creation but fallen world created and ruled by female goddess although YHW is still in control and has the last world. Seek Him through Jesus. Lucifer is female and she is of this world, not us.

    • @martin6345
      @martin6345 Месяц назад

      Mother nature is seductive, brutal and deveptive.

    • @Star_Renegade
      @Star_Renegade Месяц назад

      Man was formed out of the earth tho

    • @hllyenaylleth9576
      @hllyenaylleth9576 Месяц назад +7

      ​@@Star_Renegadethe Earth was created by God

  • @Rev11CIB
    @Rev11CIB Месяц назад +68

    I JUST cut off one that claimed to be Christian.
    Talked a few months but bit by bit i kept noticing things not add up.
    Asked what church she went to and she said the one near her house.
    I asked her several things that she couldn't answer properly.
    "Do you know the Lord's prayer?"
    "Yea but i forgot it."
    Asked her denomination.
    "Im Christian."
    Then i started to notice thw lifestyle.
    Lots of drinking.
    Works at a bar.
    Hangs out with homosexuals all day.
    Believes men shouldn't be in charge, etc etc.
    Eventually i decided to confront her and tell her "I notice you dont follow the words in the Bible... Are you serious about your faith?"
    Once she realized i knew something was up she got VERY defensive and rude.
    Needless to say i told her i didn't think it was gana work out. Lol
    They will lie to you.
    Just stay away and wait for God's direction

    • @rich2209
      @rich2209 Месяц назад +9

      To be clear, denominations are a division. No denomination in the Bible. Just a Christian. But yes, that girl was trouble

    • @sportsmen3790
      @sportsmen3790 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@rich2209 Exactly. 🙏

    • @nestorcrespo1670
      @nestorcrespo1670 Месяц назад +2

      Not sure about that. If you are a Pentecostal you have no business with a Calvinist Baptist-different beliefs. A Unitarian Pentecostal with a Trinitarian Pentecostal-also different. Try to find a woman or a man in your denomination.

    • @Humourous_Pie
      @Humourous_Pie Месяц назад

      Maybe you attracted her because it looks like your attitude reflects that in your videos. If you live like your into the world then you will reflect and attract the way you behave. I think thats why she was so in to you.

    • @Humourous_Pie
      @Humourous_Pie Месяц назад +1

      ​@@nestorcrespo1670 Why would you suggest him to be gay or bisexual?

  • @osbellgarcia7065
    @osbellgarcia7065 Месяц назад +121

    In five words: Man up! Stop seeking pleasure. God bless you I needed this, I need to focus in my finances, my relationship with God is good and growing, my fitness is better than ever. Keep working for God's kingdoms

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +5

      God bless bro. This is the way ✝️⚔️

    • @gatorchomp3371
      @gatorchomp3371 Месяц назад +5

      Me too bro! But I'm married, but she's in full support with me. Praise God.

    • @RideLight777
      @RideLight777 Месяц назад +3

      Also don't say " god bless you" it's "may God be with you" I say this because I remember I saw a video where a person had a app and reversed the voice and said "we shall die" words can have spells, many things have been done to twist ideologys and stuff , I follow Jesus Christ as well, but be careful what you say. Also don't follow religion, only Jesus Christ And we are all sinners no matter even if we never speak to lady's or any of that ! That's why we support Jesus Christ , accept we are sincere and that he died for our sins and he resurrected the 3rd day and believe in the gospel ...

    • @osbellgarcia7065
      @osbellgarcia7065 Месяц назад

      @RideLight777 The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace. Numbers 6:24-26, I can say may God bless you, It isnt supersticion or witchcraft it is a pray, to God move his hands in favour to that person. When people says God bless America its praying to God that God will help America to make it great. Blessed is a favour from God, you are praying and wish that God will do something great in that person life or country.

    • @osbellgarcia7065
      @osbellgarcia7065 Месяц назад

      @RideLight777 You can't see may God with you to a believer when God dwells in that person 1 Corinthians 6:19 NLT
      [19] Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself,
      Well if you want to be religious, I will show you the scripture for what are you saying is non sense, when you try to correct someone bring scripture, thing you haven't done.
      The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and give you peace. Number 6:24-26
      When we say God bless you, it is a pray to God to bring favour in that person or country, when we say "God bless america" we are praying to God to bring God's favour in that country. Even Jesus says Matthew 5:3 NLT
      [3] “God blesses those who are poor and realize their need for him, for the Kingdom of Heaven is theirs.
      If you keep reading until verse 12 will see how Jesus says blessed the one who are like this, or do this. Because move God's favour. So you can't pray for people then as well 🤣🤣🤣

  • @JesusLoverForeverAndEver
    @JesusLoverForeverAndEver Месяц назад +46

    I love the term “Paul Arc” that’s too perfect haha, I am definitely in that right now💪

  • @jerryavalos9610
    @jerryavalos9610 Месяц назад +112

    Put God first in everything and if God wants you to be with a Godly woman, it will happen because it would be His will, but do not go looking for it.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +4

      🙏🙏

    • @xjoemallardx
      @xjoemallardx Месяц назад +4

      A man who finds a wife finds a good thing.

    • @cherrydoctorpepper7
      @cherrydoctorpepper7 Месяц назад +6

      I think that is probably true. If being celibate is better than getting married, then maybe God will not provide a woman for you.

    • @jerryavalos9610
      @jerryavalos9610 Месяц назад +5

      @@cherrydoctorpepper7 If that is what the Lord wants.

    • @cherrydoctorpepper7
      @cherrydoctorpepper7 Месяц назад +3

      @@jerryavalos9610 I think you already know what God wants. I would advise you to give up dating, sex, and marriage. Do not seek it or take it when offered.

  • @nathanaelmeagher1098
    @nathanaelmeagher1098 Месяц назад +28

    Great video. I needed to hear this. Married for 12 yrs and she left. So, I'm trying to embrace singleness and work on myself, guided by the Lord.

    • @masew2012
      @masew2012 Месяц назад +3

      My heart goes out to you brother...

    • @nathanaelmeagher1098
      @nathanaelmeagher1098 16 дней назад +1

      Jesus, Bible, prayer, my kids, and the gym. Boxing also is great therapy lol.

  • @jamesvaughan9471
    @jamesvaughan9471 Месяц назад +115

    Men I made a terrible mistake marrying a foreign woman 10yrs ago. It was mostly trouble. It was mostly fighting one crisis she induced after another. You want to have relationship with the Lord that is free of distractions? Stay single. Avoid women. I totally agree. Get tight with Christ. Learn from my mistakes.

    • @Humourous_Pie
      @Humourous_Pie Месяц назад

      This is why you seek Godly counsel and God before you marry anyone. If God says no then you listen so you avoid all the bad stuff. I didn't get married to the wrong person and I was smart to keep my apartment. The guy I was with wanted me to give up my apartment to help him money wise and marry him. I didn't do it but I found out he was abusive. He hit me once and I warned him hit me again. You won't like what happens after. I wasn't afraid of him because God was with me.
      I got a stupid prophecy from a questionable prophetress to stay away from a guy named John. There were at least 5 guys named John? Which one? It wasn't clear so I didn't know who to avoid. After that I am cautious on who I listen to now. I don't like people who call themselves prophets unless I see the proof.

    • @turbo1gts
      @turbo1gts Месяц назад +6

      A person of the opposite sex from a different family and history is bad enough, but add a whole different culture in the mix and it can be total chaos.

    • @ExoticGTRX
      @ExoticGTRX Месяц назад +10

      U should've seek God on ur future wife

    • @GunnerL-g2e
      @GunnerL-g2e Месяц назад +5

      #jamesvaughan9471 Just a reminder, divorce is a sin. Lean on God in your marriage, he gave you your wife. Fullfill what God had told you to do in marriage, and God will be pleased.

    • @Ziegfried82
      @Ziegfried82 Месяц назад

      @@GunnerL-g2e men are not the ones getting the divorces for the most part. And the worst thing is men cannot prevent divorce in the West, if a woman decides to divorce you that's it, the marriage is over.

  • @arslansultanbekov
    @arslansultanbekov Месяц назад +8

    I often feel drained and sick after dealing with them.

    • @christianriddler5063
      @christianriddler5063 Месяц назад

      Same, most of them are probably demon possessed, they zap us of our energy and try to seduce us into sin with makeup, fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake nails, fake skin, fake breasts, fake butt, fake behavior, fake morality.
      I don't even want to deal with them anymore.

  • @bonniescully4150
    @bonniescully4150 3 дня назад

    Amen! Needed to see this!!🙌🙌 been on the Paul ark.. lots of fasting and prayer and so grateful! His timing is perfect!

  • @chrisr7597
    @chrisr7597 Месяц назад +8

    9 years single since breakup & divorce.
    She can't say the same.
    Disgusting.
    Zero consequences for them.
    Zero accountability.
    "Family laws" anything but.
    No wonder The West is falling face first fast.
    Pray every day my daughter continues to follow God unlike her mother.

  • @Neptuneman07
    @Neptuneman07 Месяц назад +9

    You are spot on. I'm set apart in this season of my life. A year ago, I had temptation from a Jezebel. I turned her down, and now she's got her new puppet on a string. I am grateful for God's protection and discernment.

  • @darthcrio1
    @darthcrio1 Месяц назад +106

    Most men would rather be single then deal with these modern women cuz us guys are tired of being treated like shit and we are done with the games

    • @srealone788
      @srealone788 Месяц назад +3

      Yeah. Women are too. It’s a 2 way street.

    • @bellapool
      @bellapool Месяц назад +10

      @@srealone788hahaha yeah right, you women decide it’s time to stay single when men start ignoring you, but men start to stay single because they’re tired of women’s crap, totally different reasons on both sides 😂

    • @srealone788
      @srealone788 Месяц назад +1

      @@bellapool honestly? I got really tired of men. But I’m not single. So..
      but I can’t say us women are all the same in order to be generalized like that. Because we’re honestly not. I get no shortage of male attention, fs. But I wouldn’t want to be with most those people. It’s not like there’s an abundance of great options like you’d assume for women. More dudes are pretending to be great guys than actually are.
      I can’t even honestly see my last comment here. I have no idea what I even said.

    • @MissB69
      @MissB69 Месяц назад +3

      As a woman, I can say the same thing about men. Sick of the games they play and everything else. Now and days there's this whole " men vrs women and women vrs men. It's sad. When we should be there for one another but instead we bash on each other. It's more of stay away from a narcissist period not man vrs women and women vrs men, whether it's a man or a woman a narcissist is a narcissist. Not all men are evil and not all women are either.

    • @Ziegfried82
      @Ziegfried82 Месяц назад

      @@MissB69 all humanity is evil, that's your largest error here. We are ALL sinners every single one. All fall short of the glory of God. As for being there for one another, as a man my personal experience is that women in the West are not helpers. There's no reason for me to put one single speck of effort into pursuing Western women because they provide me zero benefit. They are not there for me when I am down. They provide conflict and drama, which can be fun in small doses but it's not something I want in my daily life. Women talk a lot about how worthless men are and how they don't need us then have the nerve to expect to freeload off us with a bad attitude.

  • @kjadams4996
    @kjadams4996 11 дней назад +6

    “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.”
    ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭6‬:‭18‬ ‭NIV‬‬

  • @JerryPenix-iy8dl
    @JerryPenix-iy8dl Месяц назад +29

    I was with my wife for 30 years she passed away from cancer. I. Don't want to get married a Again I got a autistic daughter I am trying to be a god man for her

    • @Feraeond
      @Feraeond Месяц назад +2

      God bless you and keep you, brother.

    • @MrSoothsayer
      @MrSoothsayer Месяц назад

      Marry my brother. Ask Jesus to send a Righteous woman. Both of you will serve lord and make the society more better. 🤗

    • @liladanhernandez
      @liladanhernandez Месяц назад

      May God forever be in your favor 🙏🏼

  • @jesusnegotiators
    @jesusnegotiators Месяц назад +82

    I had a girl get close to me recently, she was the mom of my daughters best friend. I later found out she's a Muslim, I continued in the situation to see how it turned out in the end and it just fizzled away.
    I see she got with someone else now that I was showing less and less interest.
    My point is that being that I walk in the spirit this relationship just died on its own.
    Thanks for the vid

    • @sonOfTheL1vingGod
      @sonOfTheL1vingGod Месяц назад +7

      if your first spouse or someone else's first spouse is still alive you do not get married. Anyone that divorces/re-marries while their first spouse is still alive is going to hell unless they repent and remain single or reconcile with their first spouse. Just letting you know.

    • @jesusnegotiators
      @jesusnegotiators Месяц назад +2

      @sonOfTheL1vingGod I believe this can be wrong in many ways, but I'm sure in at least one way.
      Thank you for trying to sharpen my iron but I believe in this case your thought process to this scenario is wrong

    • @patrickstogsdill74
      @patrickstogsdill74 Месяц назад

      It's ok for a man of God to end up with a woman if God but outside of that dn ebofre that master life being single 1st

    • @HeartOfFaith4Jesus
      @HeartOfFaith4Jesus Месяц назад +1

      @@jesusnegotiatorsof course your gonna think he’s wrong , sign of repentance of divorce by getting with another women and making another covenant?

    • @jesusnegotiators
      @jesusnegotiators Месяц назад

      @HeartOfFaith4Jesus Nah, nice try with you as well, but if you want to accuse me of being wrong and then state a statement that ends in a question mark but isn't a question, you should try harder next time.
      I did enjoy that tho 🤣

  • @samuelvandyke1824
    @samuelvandyke1824 Месяц назад +11

    I recently had to let go of a toxic relationship. It was a loving relationship, but not healthy at all. It was all in the dark behind closed doors because no one in my family would approve. As you can imagine, this led to sexual immorality quite quickly for over a year before everything was exposed and i had to let her go. She was Christian, but still searching and growing in the faith, and also fell prey to lust as I did. This relationship was taking a toll on me mentally and spiritually because of all the secret sin and lies. I can now walk freely and not in bondage, and I'm looking forward to seeing what God has planned for me in the not so distant future. I did love this woman deeply despite the circumstances, so I am completely prepared to remain celebate and single until the right woman comes into my life, if it is the Lords will.

  • @babalooey4969
    @babalooey4969 14 дней назад +2

    You’re right on brother. Thank you for speaking about this topic. So many of us Christian men are falling from God’s grace because of us giving in to the flesh. I subscribed to your channel. I love the content you provide all for God’s glory. God bless!

  • @GEORGIOARCADE
    @GEORGIOARCADE Месяц назад +21

    David I appreciate your honest, bold way of sharing God word for us 😁🙏🏽💥. It definitely got me pumped up to continue my walk with Christ. I'm 34 and I'm on my Paul for years now. It's been challenging here and there but I believe God is working through me and bettering my life for his will. I love what you are doing here and I wish you continued success in Jesus name AMEN!

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +3

      God bless G keep enduring the path solider. ✝️⚔️

  • @ezekielarraez7045
    @ezekielarraez7045 Месяц назад +17

    Man lately you’re videos i was able to relate to them and understand them in a more spiritual level ever since i started going to this new church my friend invited me to. God bless your ministry!

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +2

      That’s awesome man keep it going amen! 🙏✝️

  • @meeks4004
    @meeks4004 11 дней назад +11

    I know a lot of you are going to hate me for this comment. I was a MGTOW for most of my life. Went through many disappointing relationships mostly with narcissistic "christain women"... Gave up on finding a wife, gave up on believing there was any woman with virtue, gave up on the idea of love completely. One day the Lord started working on my heart to quit listening to Red pill content. It was very hard because the content is pretty addicting and the real trap of that kind of content is most of the things they say are true. But what I feel to realize is that they were only true for women that didn't truly love Jesus. Jesus said that very few would make it into the kingdom of heaven, so how much more would it be harder to find a woman who is sincere in her faith? I got to the place where I was so serious about making it into the Kingdom of heaven that I did not want to fornicate anymore and I did not want to do with the sin of masturbation and pornography. I got on my knees and beg the Lord to please give me a virtuous woman who truly had a heart for him so that I wouldn't have to deal with sexual sin anymore so that I can serve him more acceptably. Long story short he did. When I started dating my wife she was 21 and I was 30. We would read the Bible together, pray together, and talk about the Lord for hours.. Her version of dressing modestly is wearing skirts and blouses that cover her back side. Even though sje has an amazing body, she doesn't wear pants or show cleavage. When I began to date her I found out she was a virgin and had never even kissed a guy before.. I knew she was telling the truth because the church we were both attending was very strict and she had grown up pretty sheltered in this holiness church her entire life. All the dates that we went on were in groups or chaperoned which really sucked for me because I wasn't used to dating that way. After about 2 years I proposed to this woman and about 6 months after that we got married. She truly loves Jesus and has a heart for evangelism and helping those who are less fortunate. She has a very good job at a law office, but she basically gives me her entire check because she understands that as a family unit we are a team. This woman is amazing. She doesn't drink or smoke, she doesn't even like watching TV shows with too much cursing in them. She understands her role and honors me as the head of the house. There has been about a year's time where I have been between menial jobs while I was looking for more permanent employment and she stuck by me the entire time. she is a homebody and would rather be with me at the house than hanging out with friends. Many times our arguments are her complaining that she doesn't want me washing the dishes or doing chores around the house. Shes a freak bkus she never had the chance to express herself sexually as the church she grew up in was very strict. I used to think that I had a high sex drive, but this woman gives me a run for my money.. She doesn't believe in having male friends and doesnt even hug other men in a friendly way like at church or anything. She does everything for me by choice and if I don't let her she gets angry or sad. This woman is truly a blessing from God. Now in hindsight I realized that if I would have kept watching red pill content it would have kept me in bondage to the belief that there are no good women out there. Whether you would like to admit it or not, red pill content keeps men seeing themselves as victims which in turn isolates you and keeps you in a mental prison. At the end of the day it comes down to believing God is bigger than the culture that makes women toxic. Do you honestly feel that you're the only righteous person in this earth? Many men say things like no woman is worth it, but are you worth it? Are you worth a woman making you her leader? It's pretty silly because I was consuming so much red pill content and telling myself that I didn't care about women and I didn't want to be married because it wasn't worth it. But at the end of the day if you truly don't care and if it isn't worth it why do men and women constantly feed on red pill content or feminism crap in order to feed the bitterness that they have inside?

    • @russellerichsen1849
      @russellerichsen1849 Час назад

      After getting my heart ripped out by my ex who I thought was my forever I started reading the bible because I wanted to see if self checkout would land me in hell essentially. Thou shalt not kill, but is it murder if it's self inflicted was basically what I wanted to know. Long story short I found GOD and for a while there I was doing pretty good but just like always seems to happen with me I started backsliding and now I am worse off then I was before I found GOD. I'm not gonna go into all the examples because it would take too long but there have been multiple times in my life where there were things that happened that I should not have survived. After the breakup and up until now I just have this question in my mind like what the hell am I doing here? What does GOD want me to do with my life? I have been asking him every night and day for the past 2 1/2 years to give me a sign, a path, a purpose, a freaking direction to walk in...SOMETHING...ANYTHING. I still have not gotten even a hint. I don't know what to do with my life. Every idea that I come up with as far as work, fails miserably. Even if it starts off good it inevitably ends bad because either I screw something up, which is usually the case, or I just feel like it is pointless and it can't be why I am here. Enter red pill content. I happened upon the mgtow movement and obviously after being thrown away like trash because you were going through a rough patch in life not knowing why your working all the time and have nothing but more work and more bills in front of you ANYBODY would be depressed and hearing that it was WAY more common than I could ever imagine, I got hooked on it immediately. Like you said 90% of everything they say is absolutely true. They decimate feminism and make you believe that dating is completely hopeless and even if you do find someone to be with in the end they will always leave for a laundry list of reasons, which is EXACTLY what happened to me after 4 years. I started consuming pretty much NOTHING BUT red pill content. I don't think I have ever felt this hopeless and disgusted with not only women but LIFE itself. Something weird happened about a week ago when I was watching these videos of men saying how women were lied to and how they were told that men are no good and that they don't need a man for anything and it hit me like a ton of bricks...THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE DOING! You ARE basically the feminist movement for men. The damn MENIMIST movement. All they are doing is dumping all over women (the trashy ones and the obnoxious loud female rapper brainwashed type) and making it seem like that is how EVERY SINGLE WOMAN ON EARTH acts and carries herself. I know that there definitely ARE a large majority of women who are nice to look at but are shallow and heartless inside (like my ex she was insanely attractive) but it is not all of them. I don't know what GOD has planned for me as far as a life path I currently have a job but I haven't worked at all yet and they won't tell me when and why but that is another story. It is really nice to hear somebody tell a success story because it gives me hope. I am happy for you and your lady brother she sounds like a really amazing woman. I wish you both prosperity, love and happiness. I hope that one day GOD will bless my life as he has clearly blessed yours.

  • @IndigovSoul
    @IndigovSoul Месяц назад +14

    Spittin that holy fire of truth, thank you once again my brother. You truly motivate me.

  • @Littlekitten_
    @Littlekitten_ Месяц назад +15

    I’m a female I started reading the Bible 3 months ago . Have a boyfriend for 12 years and celibacy is such a huge struggle for me as a women. . Thank you for making these videos because as young adults we struggle . But I needed to hear this to improve myself and prove that I’m ready for marriage.

    • @Feraeond
      @Feraeond Месяц назад +4

      Read the whole chapter. The only part of the whole Bible that advises staying single is Paul's personal sentiment which he explicitly expresses is not from the Lord and stands in direct opposition to how the chapter starts with how every man and woman should be married. "This is not from the Lord, but I wish everyone was single, anguished, and ornery like I am" is not a compelling counterpoint to that. ; )

    • @Littlekitten_
      @Littlekitten_ Месяц назад +3

      @@Feraeond thanks friend ! I will make sure to read the entire chapter ! I’m still in the OT !

    • @Feraeond
      @Feraeond Месяц назад +1

      Amen! Genesis chapters 1-11 is definitely a perfect starting point in understanding the redemptive work of Christ and why it is applicable to humanity and forever relevant. I'm vicariously excited for the many wondrous discoveries awaiting you in the journey ahead. Learning the Word of Truth is like drinking from an endless fountain, from which all thirst is fully quenched whenever you drink but whose quantity will mostly pass by unabsorbed no matter how much you partake. Like an infinite fractal, the more you examine and learn the more you will realize there is still to learn.
      Hebrews 4:12 For the word of God is living and active, sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing to the division of soul and of spirit, of joints and of marrow, and discerning the thoughts and intentions of the heart.

    • @christianriddler5063
      @christianriddler5063 Месяц назад +4

      Just know that celibacy within a marriage is sinful. It is wickedness to deprive your spouse of intimacy.
      As the bible says for spouses to not deny each other.
      1 Corinthians 7:5 "Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control."
      Satan wants spouses to withhold intimacy from each other so that he can tempt the wife or the husband with another person outside of the marriage.
      This is why it's so important to be close both physically and emotionally with one's spouse so that no one outside of the marriage can tempt you.

    • @exelmans8855
      @exelmans8855 13 дней назад

      @@christianriddler5063do not get married to start with.

  • @david-noel
    @david-noel Месяц назад +8

    Brother thank you so much for this 😭 I had to let her go today and I listened to this video over 20 times to keep my mind focused because of the anxiety and pain I felt

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +1

      Keep enduring solider ✝️⚔️

    • @david-noel
      @david-noel Месяц назад

      @@thedavidhammond thank you brother, PAUL ARC LOADED 🔥 I needed that comment 🙏🏼

  • @e.l.4860
    @e.l.4860 Месяц назад +29

    He tries to get you by using your weakness against you, the woman might not be evil, but your own desire will be used against you.

  • @rodrigabtonio2203
    @rodrigabtonio2203 Месяц назад +2

    BLESS YOU YOUNG BROTHER...KEEP IT UP WITH CHRIST....AMEN...

  • @Markds181
    @Markds181 Месяц назад +24

    Burned bad enough in my divorce (2013) that I no longer possess the ability to trust. Swore off women. No regrets. Monk life does not suck!

    • @HenrySimmons1225
      @HenrySimmons1225 Месяц назад +1

      Why would you not trust people because you got divorced?

    • @bclements011
      @bclements011 Месяц назад +7

      @@HenrySimmons1225 He means trusting women.

    • @HenrySimmons1225
      @HenrySimmons1225 Месяц назад +1

      @@bclements011 Lol that's immature asf

    • @theguybehindyou4762
      @theguybehindyou4762 Месяц назад +5

      Making it to 35 without ever connecting with anyone socially will also have an effect; I now feel like intimacy is a fictional concept altogether, so in a way, I don't feel like I'm missing out on anything.

    • @Markds181
      @Markds181 Месяц назад

      @@HenrySimmons1225 after dating for decades and hearing crap like, you don’t make enough money to take care of me the way I want to be taken care of, or it’s all in your head, amid a myriad of others, I got tired of being a time pasifier until a better one came along. Been cheated on, lied to, two timed, now I’m 62 and women have caused nothing but grief! I only married once. I learned the first time. Women are the personification of greed & evil!

  • @scotabot7826
    @scotabot7826 Месяц назад +1

    Speak the TRUTH my Brother. The truth always prevails and will never be held back! Truth can not be stopped!! God Bless You Brother, Amen!!

  • @williamsporing1500
    @williamsporing1500 Месяц назад +15

    When dating my now wife, I told her she would always be second. She got a little upset until I told her God always comes first. She understood. Today is our 10th anniversary.

  • @jvirtus1523
    @jvirtus1523 Месяц назад +1

    I've been celibate since April. Stopped approaching women and have self focus. Now I thank God that I am happier and healed. I took accountability of my mistakes and move forward!

  • @TrevorQuinn44
    @TrevorQuinn44 Месяц назад +70

    I turned 18 the other day and I fell into sin with a Jezebel God always puts ur videos on my screen for wisdom, a righteous man falls seven times but gets back up ,it’s not worth it fellas it’s a trap ,it’s always before a breakthrough so don’t loose ur anointing

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +16

      Amen bro this is the way keep going bro. The best is yet to come follow his path. ✝️⚔️

    • @thensaidJacob
      @thensaidJacob Месяц назад +13

      She’s not a Jezebel bro you just sinned. Don’t blame her. Take responsibility.

    • @Humourous_Pie
      @Humourous_Pie Месяц назад +4

      ​@@thensaidJacob Yes it takes two to tangle. Jezebel will control you. If she didn't have control of you or had him over a barrel. That's what Jezebel would do. She would have to black mail him or have some sort of control over him. Even if she had that spirit of she's not submitted to that demon then if she was a Christian she may have submitted to God. Apparently I had been delivered from one. So if I had it and I was surrendered to God over a course of time then that must mean that God is way too powerful for demons. Another thing to think about is that if God gives us the authority to trample on snakes and scorpions then we are given that power on high. So we have to trust Jesus.
      I Have Given You Authority (Luke 10:19 - NIV)
      ruclips.net/video/mHanZw2jbZA/видео.htmlsi=fikRNNP3TN2GqRmQ
      God's word has the final authority not the devil's lies. The proof is in what God does not what we think or what the devil would have us think. The body of Christ is believing in lies because they are being held back by their own false beliefs.
      Remember who is Lord!
      Jesus Christ Is Lord
      ruclips.net/video/l6TIPDaCNjU/видео.htmlsi=1fZRaWDX9zxoeFC4
      Love conquers all things. Be devoted to the Love that God can teach you.
      1 Corinthians 13:7 AMP
      Love bears all things [regardless of what comes], believes all things [looking for the best in each one], hopes all things [remaining steadfast during difficult times], endures all things [without weakening].
      Learn God's Love and Learn to Love yourself so you can Love others. This is what a group of believers taught me outside the church.
      By My Spirit
      ruclips.net/video/YyStz6BXWH0/видео.htmlsi=YnJnoE1grv8-6axg
      God has given me the job to Love the Church. The church is made up of my brothers and sisters who truly love God. The L word is Love.

    • @Humourous_Pie
      @Humourous_Pie Месяц назад +5

      Dude I have been around 10 non Christian guys and I didn't fall into sin with any of them. God was always there and at the time I didn't know what a Christian was? I needed deliverance. You guys need to be careful you don't start up a cult because this is bordering on a cult. You don't avoid people because you live in fear of demons. You live as you live free in Christ. This is ridiculous teaching. I don't agree with any of it. We aren't supposed to fear demons or people. I have been there. I was under a spirit of fear because they were superstitious. Be free in Jesus! ❤

    • @mrlighto7996
      @mrlighto7996 Месяц назад +2

      Remember ahab, the only reason she had the influence was because of a passive man

  • @lukemoone4702
    @lukemoone4702 Месяц назад +8

    Brotha man, let me say, you’ve given me such inspiration. I’m actually going on a short term mission trip, and then going to possibly get a long term missionary position!

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +1

      Glory to God bro amen. Keep serving him. ✝️⚔️

  • @mijailov1c
    @mijailov1c Месяц назад +6

    Thanks brother, i really needed this, I've been single for almost 2 years, andd I've been getting closer to God and made a decision to stop chasing women, and it's hard sometimes, but i know it's for good, i know i have to wait more for my wife so this is so true, Thank you brother appreciate this video , God bless everyone watching this Amen❤🙏🏻

  • @sandrodahlstrom147
    @sandrodahlstrom147 Месяц назад +1

    This video is priceless! Thank you David 👏 may our Lord keep you in safety, virtue and truth 🙏

  • @TestimonyTuesday
    @TestimonyTuesday Месяц назад +13

    God bless you David for your obedience, this is truly what the father is seeking in His sons in this hour. Restored order, obedience to the father, seeking first the Kingdom and His righteousness, discipline and self-control also Faith in the word, that He can bring anything to pass. I pray that many brothers would be inspired by your ministry and obedience

  • @christopherdebattista6190
    @christopherdebattista6190 3 дня назад

    Bro, thanks for this Godly message. Truth sometimes is like a beat down from Mike Tyson. Tough love is the best kind of love.

  • @Hsolis-wg4mg
    @Hsolis-wg4mg Месяц назад +13

    I met my wife at a bar we both don’t drink much as I was drinking she was with her friends as a designated driver. We are now having a kid and I am sober. We don’t attend a church but we are now a family. I understand this message especially as a married man, no woman can compare to what the lord has placed in my life. The Paul arc is true and the testing is the spirt is true. We talked so much had difficult conversations about lust. I am not a pure or good person before the lord but I do know that the Lord requires our worship and for us to deny ourselves and seek his kingdom. So forget about finding a women and let it happen by getting out into the world and meeting a woman who is willing to follow the lord “not you” but the lord for our understanding is limited and our pride can lead to self righteousness

  • @PrinceofPeace2000
    @PrinceofPeace2000 Месяц назад +1

    I love peace so much, I have no intention on sharing it. The more you have it, someone is itching to take it!

  • @jeffodonnell9551
    @jeffodonnell9551 Месяц назад +8

    I haven't dated in over thirty years . My ex girlfriend broke me completely went through hell she married my ex best friend. Hit the drugs alcohol and cigarettes hard tried to escape through this 1997 god saved my life he took away the pain offered me a beautiful wife i couldn't even speak to her i had absolutely no trust in women i have decided to stay alone i just don't have the trust anymore. If another woman broke me all the work and grace that god has done would be a waste i don't drink smoke or take drugs god has done marvellous things for me. I could never do this in my own strength all praise to glory and jesus and holy spirit thanx.

  • @j_0278
    @j_0278 Месяц назад +1

    Amen brother! People who don’t have their finances, health, mindset, or spiritual wellness intact tend to either flop or are currently having a miserable relationship. Give God full control of your life and He will lead and guide you in the right path. Keep up the good work.

  • @mycupofcocoa1125
    @mycupofcocoa1125 Месяц назад +8

    Even as a married person this message spoke to me about not getting close to sin and God does reward I experienced the reward too

  • @Inov8r.x
    @Inov8r.x Месяц назад +1

    Very encouraging brother. Convicted like crazy right now.

  • @JahmareeBanks
    @JahmareeBanks Месяц назад +26

    I love how you said Paul arch 😎let’s do it

  • @The_Christian_believer
    @The_Christian_believer Месяц назад +2

    Glad I found this channel blessing to whomever reads this

  • @jdog929
    @jdog929 Месяц назад +6

    Glad you mentioned the forced celibacy. I prayed for God to allow me to remain single, so I can just focus on him. I grieved the Holy Spirit in this prayer, the Lord spoke to me, and said “It’s okay to love another”.
    Now I also knew at this time that the Lord did have a women for me in the future.

  • @ChristTheOnlyWay777
    @ChristTheOnlyWay777 Месяц назад +1

    Amen, brother. “Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart.”
    ‭‭II Timothy‬ ‭2‬:‭22‬ ‭NKJV‬‬

  • @MRHIDEF
    @MRHIDEF Месяц назад +9

    David, everything you said was spot on. Every time I have these kinds of thoughts on my mind, you drop a video about it right when I open up RUclips. I really appreciate your vulnerability and honesty because it helps me a lot with my own journey. You are truly anointed. You’re making these videos, but God is leading as far as the content goes to help others. God bless you and your ministry brother ✝️🙏🏾

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад

      God bless bro this is the way. Keep ensuring G ⚔️✝️

  • @EXALTWISDOM-cu8ff
    @EXALTWISDOM-cu8ff 10 дней назад

    DEAR DAVID PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS FOREVER THANK YOU..🌹 💘 😃.....

  • @jamessinegal2285
    @jamessinegal2285 Месяц назад +3

    Amen to the Amen.this message was right on time for me.thank you Abba father for this brother in Jesus name Amen.

  • @Hendos411
    @Hendos411 9 дней назад

    You’re speaking truth, my brother. A lot of content on RUclips, but not many point out that our first priority is to be of service to the advancement of the kingdom.
    Seek first the kingdom and everything else will fall into place. Thank you for this message ❤

  • @HelloNewWorldPodcast
    @HelloNewWorldPodcast Месяц назад +28

    Proverbs 18:22
    He who finds a wife finds a good thing,
    And obtains favor from the Lord❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️❗️

    • @stevehernandez1357
      @stevehernandez1357 Месяц назад +3

      I heard that the sense that this verse has is like walking down the road and finding a wallet, not losing yours and going to look for it. Or something like that.

    • @timcollins9711
      @timcollins9711 Месяц назад +3

      Yea sure. What if you cant find one? A godly woman that hasn't been snatched up already. Or worse yet want to date a woman that rejects you. The list goes on.

    • @stevehernandez1357
      @stevehernandez1357 Месяц назад +3

      @@timcollins9711 that's where GOD comes in, followed by faith, but if you want one of HIS true daughters, you have to be a true son, one HE can trust with her.
      LORD make me that man.

  • @HolyHyo
    @HolyHyo Месяц назад +1

    Bars, good to hear some real men standing up for truth and not bowing out to the world/Satan. Continue to seek Christ with all your heart, mind and soul; take care!
    In Christ,
    Mikey

  • @JayJay-cy2fg
    @JayJay-cy2fg Месяц назад +3

    So very well said! Nearly perfect

  • @ultralyrics1
    @ultralyrics1 7 дней назад +1

    Just got out of a toxic 7 year relationship, I almost dies several times. This very topic has been on my mind ever since the breakup. As of now I have no desire to seek out a partner or any kind of relationship. Women scare me now.

  • @IandMStudios
    @IandMStudios Месяц назад +4

    i have been fighting with lust because the body does feel lonely. But it is clear from your message sir that until i am ready i have to continue seeking the Lord with all my heart. Even though i have fallen so many times I will have to get up because guess what whoever wants to follow Christ Jesus must deny himself and take up their cross daily. Thank you for the kind and encouraging words Sir.

  • @mr.c3650
    @mr.c3650 9 дней назад

    I feel empowered after listening to this. Thank you.

  • @marcofemto9417
    @marcofemto9417 Месяц назад +31

    Im not down for monk mode at all. I've been a loner my whole life and Im ready to introduce a Godly woman in my life

    • @hllyenaylleth9576
      @hllyenaylleth9576 Месяц назад +1

      It's ok

    • @scotabot7826
      @scotabot7826 Месяц назад +4

      And there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with that my man!! Just take it slow, and you will see the kind of person she really is. People, with time will always show their true self with enough time spent with them. Be very careful my man!!

    • @stevehernandez1357
      @stevehernandez1357 Месяц назад

      Pray and let GOD introduce one.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +11

      Yeah man monk mode isn’t a life long thing it’s just a temporary building phase to prepare for wife 😊

  • @christsgospel7
    @christsgospel7 Месяц назад +2

    🎉❤Dear brother David, right now, we must focus on, believing and proclaiming the gospel. We believe, how, Christ died for our sins, he was buried and he rose again the third day, amen. Maranatha🎉❤

  • @ashtonrene1524
    @ashtonrene1524 Месяц назад +7

    Really good content you’re putting out brother, I can feel the spirit. I personally would take it easy on some of the clickbait titles. I understand the nature of them, but personally the one saying God hates lazy Christians rubbed me the wrong way. Sometimes how we say something is as important as what we say. God bless brother

    • @officialthomasjames
      @officialthomasjames Месяц назад +1

      Next video will be “How to find your wife.” It’s getting ridiculous

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +2

      100% G. Yeah last title was a bit extreme I can see that. But yeah I mean what I say and stand 10 toes down!

  • @rickyryanmusic
    @rickyryanmusic Месяц назад +1

    AMEN. Great preaching mate

  • @WhosMathew
    @WhosMathew Месяц назад +19

    I have been avoiding them, a lot of my coworkers who are female are attracted to me, my manager tried to come at me, but i see passed a lot of these people. I'd rather wait for something magical to happen instead of searching for it.

  • @drewt1926
    @drewt1926 Месяц назад

    I approve this message. Lesson 1 from the garden showed us a lot of things.

  • @larrysimmons5628
    @larrysimmons5628 Месяц назад +4

    I’ve been a virgin by choice for 45 years now, everyone thinks I look like I’m 25 🙄 this wasn’t easy at all and the world changed fast! I want love more than experiencing sex,but I have no idea where a woman that understands that is at. Or doing the same .

  • @paulosicne8498
    @paulosicne8498 Месяц назад +1

    Good day brother. I'm passed the whole courting thing now being at 54 years old. But I do struggle with abstinence and semen retention. I need to pray more for strength. God bless you.

  • @πατριχορ
    @πατριχορ Месяц назад +10

    Either become a monk, or get married. Advice from my priest.

    • @Feraeond
      @Feraeond Месяц назад

      Sounds about right. Roman Catholicism was definitely the source of unscriptural celibacy requirements and normalization in the church.

    • @πατριχορ
      @πατριχορ Месяц назад +1

      @@Feraeond I'm not Roman catholic

    • @Feraeond
      @Feraeond Месяц назад

      Glad to hear it! The elevation of "priest" as a unique title ascribed to some members of the body of Christ but not others is also unscriptural, and also the product of marrying Pagan policies of priestly prominence with the church.
      1 Peter 2:4-5 [4] As you come to him, a living stone rejected by men but in the sight of God chosen and precious, [5] you yourselves like living stones are being built up as a spiritual house, to be a holy priesthood, to offer spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.

  • @jonatanschmidt7844
    @jonatanschmidt7844 Месяц назад

    I am an returning viewer and i think your videos are on point…. Thank you…. Regards from denmark

  • @ambassadorscall
    @ambassadorscall Месяц назад +4

    Listen to him. Getting divorced after 28 yrs of marriage thought me the error of letting the flesh reign with all its false promises

    • @s1n4m1n
      @s1n4m1n 12 дней назад

      Dude man me too. And I’ll add for me marriage has been extremely damaging spiritually, emotionally and even financially.

  • @stevehernandez1357
    @stevehernandez1357 Месяц назад

    Great stuff! All praise to our LORD and SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST!!!

  • @jeffersonpierce5297
    @jeffersonpierce5297 Месяц назад +10

    We need to remember that sex is not for pleasure. It's intended to bond with your partner and to procreate. The enemy twisted it in the way that traps us in our own bodies. Are you satisfied with sex the one time you do it? Or do you want more? The demons hunger for lust is insatiable and it will never go away if you follow them. Focus on God and he will give you peace

    • @omofumaighodalo432
      @omofumaighodalo432 Месяц назад

      Amen

    • @dustygatrell-ru7tg
      @dustygatrell-ru7tg Месяц назад +1

      He did create sex for pleasure. An multiplying. As long as its in marriage. Sex doesent just feel good for no reason. Its supposed to be pleasurable. Otherwise it wouldn't be

    • @Ommarrie
      @Ommarrie Месяц назад +5

      Even if it’s for bonding and to pro create it’s still considered pleasure. You enjoy it within the context of marriage. Pleasure in itself isn’t a sinful because you can take pleasure in the context of eating foods you find tasty, working out etc. Hypothetically if I was married and I have sex, even if I’m bonding with my wife, we both will still feel pleasure from intercourse. It’s nothing wrong with it but if done outside of the covenant between wife and husband, it’s considered sin.
      We have to establish whether the pleasure is healthy or unhealthy. Where Hedonism becomes a part of a persons lifestyle where you seek self pleasure as the main focus instead of on Christ
      SN: I’m open to opinions on this topic.

  • @NotJustAPhase777
    @NotJustAPhase777 Месяц назад +2

    I agree with everything David is saying. Ive been married to my wife since 2018 & Im 32yrs of age. we celebrated our 6 yr anniversary just earlier this month. As far as being financially prepared & being able to provide for her & my 6yr old, thats just not the case. My point is God has given me the grace to survive & even thrive. So for any godly Christian men out there who can be hard on themselves like I'am, just know you're not the only one lol. God provides. Amen 🙏🏼

  • @MourningDove-bn4dk
    @MourningDove-bn4dk Месяц назад +25

    Paul also says something along the lines of if you are single then you have nothing stopping you from Worshipping God. If you are married, then your love will be split, and you cannot serve two masters. In my opinion, Most men worship sex and the female.

    • @garybulwinkle82
      @garybulwinkle82 Месяц назад +1

      A woman at best will be a distraction in a man's relationship with God! Those men who are called, will be single; a woman will interfere with putting God first in his life. By joining with a woman, a family and wife becomes a man's priorities. This shall be especially problematic in the coming end times!! How is he to provide without taking the Mark of the Beast!!!

    • @ReapingTheHarvest
      @ReapingTheHarvest Месяц назад +5

      Money, sex, and power are the 3 main idols of the world. That is why monks/priests take vows of poverty, chastity and obedience. Marriage is still a great blessing but obviously you have to give time to your wife, and children if you have them. Some people are called to the devout religious life to spend all their time devoted to God and his Kingdom. It's a higher calling though. Most people who choose to remain single these days do so for selfish reasons and not beause it's their calling.

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +1

      Exactly that’s basically what the verses were about.

    • @LouisVonDaGoat
      @LouisVonDaGoat Месяц назад +1

      Serving two masters was used in the Bible as serving God and the world. Instead marriage works on the same side as God. In fact it is the true representation of Gods relationship with the church (us).

    • @MourningDove-bn4dk
      @MourningDove-bn4dk Месяц назад +1

      @@LouisVonDaGoat The bible mentions that Peter is trying to represent Jesus, and that he would prefer that everyone would be like him. (childless and single like Jesus) However, if you cannot control your passions, then you have to be married, for it is better to be married than be burning with passions forever.

  • @arya3104
    @arya3104 5 дней назад

    Really useful bro. Needed to hear this as a 19yr old as I was beginning to drift from my Paul arc due to women but you gave that exhortation to keep pushing on ❤ God bless

  • @ronniehenwood8580
    @ronniehenwood8580 Месяц назад +5

    Thanks brother! Your videos are very edifying. Love the commitment and zeal for the things of God. I'm praying for you, you are a rare breed follower of Jesus. We need more like you. Please keep them coming. God bless!

    • @thedavidhammond
      @thedavidhammond  Месяц назад +2

      Amen God bless. This is the way let’s go. ✝️⚔️

  • @quagsiremcgee1647
    @quagsiremcgee1647 23 дня назад +1

    Good morning Brother. The heavans are truly Gods tapestry.

  • @cleangoblin2021
    @cleangoblin2021 Месяц назад +4

    To my fellow bachelors, God is not asking us to rid of sexual feelings but rather reserve it to the one that's appointed to you.
    This was sent to me at an impeccable timing
    Proverbs 5: 17-20
    Your spring water is for you and you only,
    not to be passed around among strangers.
    Bless your fresh-flowing fountain!
    Enjoy the wife you married as a young man!
    Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose-
    don’t ever quit taking delight in her body.
    Never take her love for granted!
    Why would you trade enduring intimacies for cheap thrills with a prostitute?
    for dalliance with a promiscuous stranger?
    So yeah. Let's do our best to avert our eyes from lustful looks to women.
    I was really afraid since the world has taught me that it's manly eyeing women.
    On the street, at work, while driving, eating and everywhere.
    Lets be the better men here and rise to the standards of God.

  • @Etaviel
    @Etaviel Месяц назад

    This! It feels like confirmation that this video popped up on my timeline and that I felt drawn to watch it (and I am a woman). I have a desire to find someone to love, but I am isolated since years and now I understand why. Thanks to the Lord for revealing this to me and thank you, David for talking about this! 🙏🏻

  • @Gianin-m3l
    @Gianin-m3l Месяц назад +10

    pure wisdom, thank you David

  • @kenny_j0749
    @kenny_j0749 Месяц назад

    Thanks brother for the truth/confirmation! I’ve recently been in a fog due to a called off engagement.. trust the Lord in the process.

  • @albodakine1
    @albodakine1 Месяц назад +3

    Proverbs 27:12, A prudent person sees evil and hides himself; But the naïve proceed, and pay the penalty. (NASB)

  • @rubenm1238
    @rubenm1238 18 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing those wise words, I really needed this right now. I must have patience and have more faith in when the time is right The Lord will provide. :)

  • @daiyansultan9538
    @daiyansultan9538 Месяц назад +8

    Im not even a Christian but i really loved your message

    • @scotabot7826
      @scotabot7826 Месяц назад +6

      Turn your heart to the Lord God my friend. It is the most important decision you will ever make in your life. Your eternal life depends on it. Don't wait because no one is promised tomorrow!

    • @billh.5360
      @billh.5360 Месяц назад +3

      Scott, Amen! Tomorrow is promised to no one.

    • @OFFICIALBROTHERBOLDLYMUSICNTV
      @OFFICIALBROTHERBOLDLYMUSICNTV Месяц назад

      ​@@scotabot7826amein

    • @OFFICIALBROTHERBOLDLYMUSICNTV
      @OFFICIALBROTHERBOLDLYMUSICNTV Месяц назад +2

      Be a real Christian, beware of the fake ones on your journey and don't let the fake ones turn you away from Jesus.

    • @christianriddler5063
      @christianriddler5063 Месяц назад

      The truth of Jesus will set you free, my chains were broken, your chains can be broken too.

  • @DK-br5sk
    @DK-br5sk Месяц назад

    I needed this video. Thank you brother. I’m in the process of trying to become the best version of myself I can be, and I’m constantly tempted by outside factors and it can be a struggle. This video helped remind me what’s important and what young men should be doing with their lives. I will stay strong and I will stay on track. God bless!

  • @CarRant
    @CarRant Месяц назад +3

    So have to call this out, Payl's call to celibacy is not to avoid women/relationships. It was more for the betterment of oneself from the lust of this world. Its not misogyny, its purity. Gotta keep that straight. Ultimately marriage and sex is a gift from God, not some evil to be avoided at all costs. The trick is finding a woman who exemplifies Proverbs 31 and truly follows the Word. Hormones are powerful, and its important to have the flesh under subjection/control to the Spirit. Its why we are called to run from temptations not challenge them.