Why does your ex keep in touch?
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He's bored.
he's lonely.
he's trying to see if your open to being stupid. Yea he missing you... So what, of course he does... Don't answer the call or text... He had his chance... Move on
All of this!!
"Open to being stupid"😂😂😂
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Ericka Dillon POINT BLANK PERIOOOOD‼️‼️‼️ “in my Tony Gaskins voice”
Facts
He doesn't love you....he loves how you make him feel....there's a difference. It's all about the need for validation...paid for by you
That’s a very good point and it is actually something that I overlooked here recently. Thank you for this!
I went through this.
@Molly Cost what was it, dear, about my statement that triggered you so?
Ouch..thats often the sad truth at times..😶
@@marybenford That was a good point Mary...
I remember you saying, if a man come in & out my life, he NOT my husband...
Point blank perioaad...smh
Loreal Alford I know, I’m single..
@Nekole’ s Perspective i agree I was in love with a guy for 10 years. Always in and out took me 10 years to be real with myself after 10 years. But I'm here now and I'm not coming back
Or he's not being punished or facing any serious consequences when he comes back... sonics easy for him to do it because he's getting away with it. Be ready to make them pay a price and make it up to you.
He calls because he's aware that you'll answer.....stop answering lol
TaNitra Robinson THAT PART!!!! That’s what I need to do 😒
@@photogenic305 when you ignore him he will call and text till you pick up, wondering what the hell your doing and with who🤔try it!!
TaNitra Robinson drops the mic lol
Imma about to start this today..
@@tinaharris25 my ex came looking for me in the rain crying because I blocked him. I learned to pick up the phone and say hi and goodbye and he goes on about his business.💛✌
Ego...he just wants to know he still has a hold on you...😐
WHEW!!!!!!!!!!
Harsh Truth
Yep! Thats all it is!!
He better take his bum dusty behind on that way 👉👉 Don't want no parts of him
If The Woman Happy With It.... Nothing Wrong With It. Trust SOME LOVE Their Space n SINGLE HOOD! 💯
Ego plays a big role 👌
*My ex has been calling on block🚫 for 5 yrs!! You control what you entertain. Keep that door closed ladies and move on. Don't let those soul ties distract you. Be blessed!💯**#blockanddelete2020*
Lady Empress yesss mam! We ain’t entertaining these games in 2020! Don’t even want anything but to disturb your peace! 🗣
@@PrettiRissa ❤💯
True.. love this
Yesssss
Amen. I be finding myself still stalking him occasionally, and getting upset over his new relationship, and getting in my feelings and start doubting my new relationship and my current boyfriend. . I just dont want to think about him EVER again.!
Short answer is that he wants to keep you around as an option
FASTING & PRAYER is the key!!!!...once U keep your body clean. The Lord would put the right person for u..
Thanks
it works. it really works. prayer fasting and the relevant scriptures to the situation.
How long to fast and pray? Throughout the week, throughout the month? I believe in this.
Seek first the Kingdom of Heaven (while upon the Earth) and all things will come to you!
Thank you
Ladies if you don’t have kids with him then get your track shoes as Tony would say & GHOST HIM! He’s never going to choose you. Just my 2 cents. We as women deserve a whole man, not a raggedy 5%!
Yyaaasss run
I need to buy some track shoes! Lol!
I RAN 🏃🏽♀️ 😂
@@regale1995 good job 😁
@@CH-vu7ik you can run barefoot til then. 🤣
I block em all. And if they call from another number, I block that one even if I really wanna talk to them. I block em. I don't let anyone take up space that didn't do right by me when they had the opportunity.
Sounds like my ex...smh
Tiffany Nicole Global ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
I had to do that before too. Blocked everybody number.
I need to do this 👏
Yeessss!! Protect you peace!!
That's why he gonna meet the woman he wants and she gonna break his heart because what comes around go around 👋😁😋
Good I hope so cause the pain he caused while I sit alone is hell on Earth
YeS this i firmly believe. What go around comes around! I just saw a t-shirt on amazon it said ha ha ha Fuk u it called Kharma. 😆 🤣 lol
I agree with this 💯
Amen Sis!! I believe it!
Amen
He’s trying to keep u as an option and it keep u from moving on
Absolutely 💯 👍
He wants to have his cake and eat it... 🎂.He wants you to keep the door open ..Keep that door closed and throw away the key.. .Keep it moving...👍🏾
🔐🔐🔐
Yes absolutely pay him dust leave him in the rearview and treat him as if he never existed .
He don't want "nurturing by nature", he wants "naughty by nature" because his priorities are nasty. While his needs are being fulfilled elsewhere in the bedroom, he's missing you speaking into his life. He didnt value what you brought to the table, but he misses it! 🎯🏆
Demetria Calvin 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
This!
Facts!
This is is Real Thank you!
Preach it. Great mind
Ladies he doesn’t know what to do when you BLOCK HIM🥴😩😂😂😂.... Social Media, phone number, everything!! Block his family and friends too. God restores, trust me🙏🏾..... No shortage of kingdom men, but are you READY? ❤️
Amen 🙏
I second that. No shortage in the kingdom
EXACTLY. Thanks so much🤣🤣
You said a MOUTHFUL!!
I did that to 1 of my ex’s! Moved across the country & blocked him, his friends, his mama. His son, his daddy, his sister, his entire family! I blocked they house they number too! When you tired everybody gotta go
They'll try to come back to where they got the most fuel. Every time you choose not to check up on, respond or reach out you demonstrate that you value yourself, your time and your new life.
Ohh yes!!!
This is what I have to learn myself. The hurt bc ex 4yrs causes when he broke up with me 3mths after I was in coma was just too much. I never ever thought that would be him but that just showed me God nor me was his top in his list. One my friends said to me my EX took me for granted. GOD has already shown his displease in his life at least 4x back to back but last yr his moms passing of a heart attack really opened his 👀 eyes. Ow well I know the next relationship he has she gonna burn 🔥 ass to the core! 🤷♀️🤷♀️
Narcs🤢🤮
I needed this badly.
The woman has to close the door. If a woman let a man use her as a revolving door, he 'will' continue to keep you revolving. Shut that door when the relationship is 'over'. Blessings
Exactly
Yes slam the door and lock it don't let them in at all !!
exactly
I'm guilty of this and maybe if I have loved myself more, I wouldn't continue to put up with just anything and everything in search for what I feel is love.
That part! Sadly, I use to beg him to leave me alone and just stop.... Never would. I infact... Was the one who HAD to close the door. Hard stuff but grateful
He dont value what you bring to the table, but hes missing it.SISTERS KEEP ON WALKING .
That's why we sweep the streets
He Waited Until Today Mother's Day To Call Me But Its A Trap. I Am Not Entertaining Him. He Abandoned Our Marriage A Long Time ago With His Repeated Disappearing Acts He Will Disappeared Like Clockwork Then Come Back With A Thousands "I Am Sorry"
I Am Done. I Am Free And Much Happier GOD Set Me Free. I Am Not Looking Back Or Trying To Figure it Out. I Have My Life Back Thank You LORD GOD. AMEN
Sounds like a narcissist to me. Someone possessed by the jezebel spirit.
It's definitely narcissistic abuse what he is describing. Going no contact forever is powerful.
He’s still seeking SUPPLY!! Checking your temperature and seeing if he still has access to you! Nothing more. Nothing less. Either you entertain it or you don’t🤷🏽♀️
Exactly
My husband Dr Joseph Ochieng left me to another woman who he feels is better than me, he's cheating on me but l have told him several times to keep off he still wants to come back to me
Privacy is POWER!!! What people don’t know they cannot ruin. Be blessed!!!
I like this statement
Ruth Wells Absolutely True
manisha major yasss!!
Powerful statement.... privacy is everything....
Amen!!!❤️🙏🏽😘
You didn’t value me when I was present so why should I value you now that you are absent.
Ok now have they head to mexico yet do they know what happening since they want to be tough
That part
Amen
19.5 ... "He doesn't value what you bring to the table. But, he missin' what you bring to the table."
What exactly is he referring too by that?
Regina Craig scripture here
Wow.. I listen to that part 7 times.. that's a message
@@kimberlybarry6286They act like what you bring to the table isn't of any value, but they keep coming back because what you offer is something their main person is lacking as far as they are concerned. But, in reality, they are just greedy, spoiled b!*ches who got everybody treating them like Kings and kissing their azzes, and they know it. That's why they behave the way they do!
I can’t stop thinking of my ex I wish I didn’t meet him praying to God to break this soul tie
I'm going through the same thing. It's not easy
Same here smh
Same here and we just broke up!
is so hard. I am like that now. 😭😭😭
Same💔💔💔
OMG listen at 25:30 until about 30:00 then read the scripture below...
“When an evil spirit leaves a person, it goes into the desert, seeking rest but finding none. Then it says, ‘I will return to the person I came from.’ So it returns and finds its former home empty, swept, and in order. Then the spirit finds seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they all enter the person and live there. And so that person is worse off than before.
Matthew 12:43-45 NLT
Father!!! We are not fighting against flesh and blood, we are fighting against spirits, wicked rulers, and principalities in higher places.
Talicia Stringer so true
Talicia Stringer You show right Sis! Amen 🙏💕
Talicia Stringer You show right Sis! Amen 🙏💕
Wow!! 🤯
I was just thinking about this right here! Reason why I Refuse to reconnect. No more STD's!!!(Spiritually Transmitted Demons)
We become ex's for a reason, be it at our own hands or God's. Because we had history doesn't Grant you access to that same position you once held in my life.... you're history....my past!
Yes yes
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Amen !
“My husband is looking for me”.... yes love that❤️
Yes sis....mine to
Its A Trap
He only comes back around to see if you’re still stupid not because he loves you and hell never leave you alone if you don’t close that door but again doesn’t mean he loves you
Thank You
I changed his name in my phone to “not your husband” so that every now and then when I get a text I know it is not my husband. 😉 I have blocked him on all social media. I need to just block him on my phone too. Curiosity killed the cat
😭🤣🤣 good one
I blocked my ex’s on my phone and on messenger because it’s a privilege to be able to speak to me and if abuse that it will be taken away. I unfriended them on social media but left my page public so they can see me living my best life because I know they are watching and wondering...that’s all the access you are getting once you mess up!
Lol lol lol...luv it "not your husband", stealing this! Lol
Yass! 🙌😂
I put in place of his name,Shit with feet.That’s how I see him.😆
I caught my boyfriend lying and when I confronted him he got extremely upset at me and yelled, cursed and told me to shut up consistently. When I told him I'm leaving he said yes goo ,do what you want however the next day he calling me and saying sorry lmao.
Don't worry I walked away. I thank god for showing me this kind of behavior. We've been together 3 years and some months.
I pray that you stay away from him in Jesus name. It doesn't do you any good to be around people that disturb your peace and joy.
He thought he had you up the creek without a paddle in the words of tony lol
I was dating my ex-boyfriend for 2 years he never gave me a reason not to trust him we recently broke up Thursday i recently barely introduced him to my kids after 2 years of dating because I needed to make sure he was the one... after all that I found out he was cheating 2 years wasted and I can't believe I introduced him to my kids I'm so upset... he keeps blowing up my phone I told him he's pathetic and to lose my number and don't ever contact me again I blocked him..
Never answer the phone when they call..they'll stop calling
They still call even when blocked. At least 2 of my exes did 😩🤣🤦🏾♀️
I just unfriend my ex off Facebook because of this video. He has been all the things you just talked about to me for years. I’m not letting him have any access to me anymore.
Its called: "BLOOOOCKT!" You ladies should try it sometimes. Works like a charm. Sever ALL ties once the relationship is done.
Amen.. !!! ....
Yasssss Chile, I'm loving this SELF LOVE!!!
delicate jewel I have block parties all the time!
delicate jewel what if you have kids
He showed up at my front door talking about he's not just a person like everyone else...
When Tony said “tell the Persian rug happy birthday.” I nearly deleted his page. He dragged it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😩😩😩. The man telling the truth tho. Wow
Lmbo!!!!!
Juss Jess lol
LMBO😂😂🤣😂💕Right Chile me too
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Juss Jess 💀🤣😂
I was in a relationship with a narcissist and a year later he's back. With the history we have , I couldn't go back to him if I tried. I won't.
I blocked and deleted in 2018 so when he showed up at my door in 2020 I called the cops 🤣🤣boy please lol👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽
This topic is perfect timing ...
Perrrrr-feck!!! In my TG vernacular 😂😂🤣🤣
I know right... he keeps emailing me.. yesterday I was about to fall for it.. he offered me work and I was going to do it and then I was like what am I doing??!!!! I’m too lazy to delete my email cause then all my RUclips videos will be gone 😩. I broke the no contact rule.. I was going strong and hadn’t replied back for 24 days... every day he has emailed me even if it’s to say the stupidest thing.. it’s like he’s writing in a diary talking to himself cause I’m not responding but the need for money made me break my no contact 😭😭😭
@@citygirl713 hang in there...we all fall down at some point I'm sure..my no contact has been since 12.30.19 and its killing me as this has been over 20 years, BUT...over 20years I'm not his wife🙄🤨THAT is my repellent as long as I hang on to THAT😔😔💔💔
LeRhonda Jones-Bates yessssss he’s the man Tony talks about in his videos.. what does Tony say... two years... I think is the max to give a man.. I wasted three and it was breaking up and making up for three years.. the longest I went was 8 months of no contact and then he sent me flowers on my birthday and a left a letter on my car and I fell for it... now I’m right back to where I was before.. had I not fallen for that bull crap... and he’s laughing all the way like damn all it took was some
Flowers and a letter and I had her back eating in the palm of my hand.. meanwhile Lord knows what he did those 8 months we weren’t together.. uhhhh writing that makes me feel even more dumb
Yes, I just had to cut him out because I want someone who wants me for real.
OMG, I feel so foolish. You just described what I’ve been dealing with for months. You have no idea how much you just cleared things up for me. When that joker hits me with a casual text the next time, he is in for a rude awakening. Thanks, Tony!
Got an ex STILL contacting me after YEARS. He says " You're so smart, you're such a good woman, I messed up, didn't I? you're a good friend, what's your take on THIS, etc" cut him off.
Naw. You WON'T use me as a development tool. I feel nothing.
Bye.
He still reminiscing. I'm like " You ain't changed, goofy still saying the same mess". F*cking energy vampire.
Real Goofy time he's on...keep running🏃🏃🏃🏃
He's an idiot, got out there and saw shit wasn't out there!!!
Samantha Roberts Well said “development tool”
Run and don't ever look back because it will be the same thing again and he doesn't value you. Cheers
@@NewEyes25 Best term ever lol🤣
We can't ask God for answers and then not listen when He sends you one you don't really like.
He's playing you....Meanwhile you walking around singing Yearning For Your Love by the Gap Band!!!! Lol
Lol lol
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Proverbs 31:30 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lol
Lmaooo
He has not found anyone to replace you.....let him go Ladies. He is blocking you from Gods' blessing..A New Good, healthy relationship.
Oh wow Sis..This is goin on now..He want to buy ring,car, get married..I left him but he is now realizing he cnt find better no1 like me 🤷🏽
Facts!!
Precious Luv my opinion he is future faking. If you put him to the test, most of what he is promising, will still be promises a year from now. He just is trying to find a way back in. To wash and repeat.....
Thanks u. GOD BLESS u
They are selfish and a set of narcissists
My ex moved on but thought he was gone be sneaking back to me when she get on his nerves. I told him you ain gone use me to relieve stress so you can be able to deal with her. He finally stopped contacting when his lies didn't get him no where and he realized I meant it.
Same here. But no more moved on.
Smart woman🌸🌸
👏👏👏👑 smart. Dont be the desperate ex that he breadcrumbs to inflate his ego when the woman he wants is rejecting him...
When he said Men don't like me they like the fantasy of me!!! That hit home HARD!
Let it ring LADIES hit the block and delete 💥💥💥
Yessssssss i say a quick blessed sigh annd then block lmboooo
Why em I so scared to block😪
Already did
Heavenly Father I, truly thank you for Tony Gastins becoming a life coach and you using him for the Kingdom, Lord continue to cover this true man of God and his family amen be blessed
Amen yes I thank God for you and your ministry brother Tony. God bless
In the mighty name of Jesus Amen 🙏🏽
@Simon Sez In mighty name of Jesus Amen😌🙏
Amen x
Amen 🙏🏽
This video brought back memories from my 20s when I had the most difficult dating experience with men. I was so lost confused hurt and broken. I appreciate all of the knowledge I received over the years about love relationships and men. I’m so glad I’ve healed from my past pain. Me listening to your videos since 2015 has really made a difference in my life. 🙌🏾✊🏾
First watched this 2 months ago right after my breakup. Been watching Tony ever since. Watched this again since my ex is now texting me back, and listening a second time, after prayer, and filling my mind with the right wisdom, I am in a place where I UNDERSTAND what Tony’s saying. Before I was waiting waiting waiting for my ex to come back, and at the same time I was listening to Tony and praying to God to take my unhealthy desires away, to reveal truth, and give me maturity.
Now that my ex is texting me, I am not responding, I am not flattered, I am not disillusioned by false hope.
Ladies, please listen to wisdom. Maybe your feelings havent caught up yet, but you will really start to come around after distance & boundaries. You will see things just as clearly as what Tony is saying right here.
God Bless you on your journey.
Guy hits me up 2 days before valentine's day. I told him from the rip I will not be bussing it open for you. I know what this is buddy. Havent heard from him since✌
😭😭😭 You told him right!
You caught that thief at the door.
I've discovered throughout the years that some men have a hard time completely letting go.
Rev. Gaskins, I'm a middle-aged white woman and been married for almost 35 years. I enjoy your nuggets of wisdom and your delivery. You are spot on and so dang funny!
My ex called my best friend looking for me and when she told me I laughed so hard because i moved on and I know have a good man who treats me like a queen and not like a piece of trash
They always reappear when it's too late😂😂😂
👏🏾 happy for you queen!
Amen!
Wow this is a message from God directly himself speaking to me.
Girl god been trying to get me to watch this man videos for days. I finally clicked it today and whew!
Ladies, we do this same thing. We’ve got hold me down men too, and they are just as toxic as being the hold me down woman. If it ain’t your husband, he’s got to go.
I feel attacked 😂😂
I Refuse to go back to something I prayed to get out of .
THAT'S INSANITY 🤯
Thanks for this talk I needed this one and Thanks for all the comments its some funny ladies on here😂❤
You are PREACHING !!! Literally dealing with this now. Blocked someone who said he didn’t want me and 6 months later he found a way to hit my line again...on my birthday lol. That rope analogy on soul ties was spot on. I’m no longer standing still and waiting for a man to make up his mind about me .
did u reply to the birthday text? i just got the same thing!!! it flooded me with emotions all over again when i saw happy birthday i miss you soo much!
😭😂💀 at the Tiffany Haddish. Woooo chile, someone had to say it 🥴😂
Ikr!! 😩😭😭😭
Exactly ive never considered her funny lol
😂😂😂😂😂
Lol
Lol 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Stupidity has an expiration date but some people are stuck on it! 🤦🏾
My ex never reached out in 4 years so I’m in the clear 😂
He said he never wanted to see me again in life because I was such an awful person. Okay then 😌
The rest of y’all stay strong 💪🏾
Oh no
He only said that because he knows that you know your worth, and you won't settle for anything less than what you deaerve. Be blessed queen. Greater is coming!
@@janiemartin1408 after not being able to get in touch with an ex for over 4 yrs, I recently found out he passed away 1 yr ago. What a shock
This is so true. After I broke up with my bf, I had to change my ringtones so that I would not be triggered to think of him because he used to call and text me more than everyone else. It was not love it was the addiction being conditioned to interacting with this person.
Mr. Gaskins you are God Sent........Majority of your messages such as "How to end a situationship" & " what to look for in a man" & "Why does your ex keep in contact" are messages that be on POINT at the right time dealing with my EX.... Your message AWSWOME & GREAT information I need hear....... Thank you for these messages......I 100% believe you that your messages are the absolute The TRUTH................I thank God for you & your wife of helping hurting people......BE Bless In Jesus Name. Amen
Could not have said it better!
Be blessed, too!
Like you’ve said in videos before, the ex who keeps in contact just wants a human teddy bear. I had an ex recently contact me and I’ve been letting that phone ring and text messages left on “read.” I haven’t communicated with any exes in years. I’m good lol
Sometimes when the ex try and get back in touch you is because now they don't want what they have now. They thought they were going to go out and find another you but they didn't. Now they think that you have forgotten what they done to you but you didn't forget. No contact means exactly that so keep going with that. My ex tried for a year of trying to get me to response to him but it didn't work, delete lol. Then after that year, he tried texting these GOOD MORNING, GOD BLESS, delete lol. I don't want him and he knows it. My string broke along time ago with him. I don't think I miss anything about him because he is a ghost and I don't see him.
Be blessed! I know my ex wants to come back I can feel it. But I guarantee you this, if you think you coming back on bs he bouta have a rude awakening. I'm serious about my life and the love I share with people. Gots to go! My husband is looking for me can't play them games anymore. Tony thank you sir for your sense of direction. With God and your videos has taught me to Rejoice in Rejection!! 🙏🏾Thank you so much.
I soooo agree with you sis!
I never could understand why when a man and a woman break up they keep in touch and be best friends something they was not when they was in the relationship why is that all hell broke loose and he was cheating on her but they're friends in the end really it'd have to be a soul-tie that's the only explanation
I do agree, never understood the friends after the relationship ends.
My high school sweetheart and I are still friends after almost 30 years. We did try again in our mid 20's but I'd just gotten out of a long term relationship and I wanted to breath before getting involved again. So we stayed friends.
@@NODE1975 but you see, wasn‘t it disrespectful to your new partner that you stayed in touch with that ex that you actually tried to get back with afterwards? That is never fair to a new partner and that’s why staying friends while in a new relationship just calls for drama and heartbreak and disrespect...(unless you didn’t stay in touch and I misunderstood).
Thank God he didn’t see value in me 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
This is an uplifting comment. You turned something that could’ve been perceived as a negative and turned it into a positive.
This is why I stopped talking to exboyfriends and male friends you will not use me
Tony. You got my phone tapped or something? Cause how you know all my business?👀
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"Indian rug bday 🤣🤣" They do find ways to try to get your attention. You never know what they want specifically. All I know is they weren't my husband. I have changed my numbers and blocked them on social medias. Talking to them just brings confusion to me. I had/have to protect my peace.
Amen Sista🤩💕
@@coachnatishamommatish185 yes luv, amen🙏🏽
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Tony hit every nail on the head as always. Every single thing he said on this video is exactly what these fools be doing.
Sha Ruiz I’m telling you!!
Faccccts!
Looking back on my past relationships, boi I was a fool. The last one I had given me mixed signals I couldn't see it. He emotionally tortured me thinking things will get better Now I'm focusing on myself. God bless you tony and good luck ladies
Can you dig deeper I feeling In have been emotionally tortured myself.
I’m a new subscriber. It hit me when you said “if he loved you, he wouldn’t have left you.” Boom. This wisdom blessed me. I am a mid-life woman and have learned a lot from your videos on dating after 50. Keep them coming! 🤎
Tony you just descripted my previous situationship to a tee. Straight from God to my ears. Keep feeding us this daily bread. Be blessed!
Highly Favored same here! I thought that just because we where gonna have a baby we had a reason to keep in contact but he’s just keeping me stuck. I’m so glad Tony addressed it in every way possible!
Mine too. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Amen
If Beyoncé left Jayz I guarantee you everybody would’ve left their sorry man !!! Oh well 😐
Tell the truth!
No they would not they would still hold on
That's depressing a rich and famous woman keeps a stooge around
Speak the truth and shame the devil!
Kenisha Perkins What does Beyoncé have to do with other women leaving their man? I’m really curious. If a woman is contemplating leaving her man based on if Beyoncé, who has nothing to do with someone else’s life, leaves her husband? I just can’t connect the correlation.
That rope analogy is a great visual of a soul tie, that was good!
Ladies, your CUT OFF game must be on fire 💥, block him and keep him blocked.
He hot and ready like Lil Caesars 😂
Yes Ma'am!!! Sure is Chile😂💕
And you know that pizza ain't that good. Lol.
@ Ladenna Oh huntie😂💕da hot pizza dat big Bigbro Tony serves is always 😇 Good FRIUT for da spirit amen
Ladenna Young 😂
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I was in this situation and I totally stopped talking him all together and blocked him on social media absence speaks volumes
He may also want you encouragement and building up for the next person. He needs this to keep going on, to continue the cycle.
God has truly anointed and gifted you to do what you’re doing. Bless you Sir. You’re helping a whole lot of women get their lives together. We’re better because of what God has done in your life. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Nah Tony you were supposed to be an actor or a comedian or both !!! This crazy now 😂😂😂😂😂😂
👌👌👌 Kenisha Perkins I can't stop laughing... This is so true... Smh... He ain't healing he h o ing... 👀👀
"He don't want nurturing by nature, he wants naughty by nature" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I can't with you big brother, but it's true🤣🤣🤣🤣.
Anointed Stilettos 😂😂 Funny but it’s sad
@@photogenic305 Very sad
This man be having me laughing with the knowledge he speak. Had a hard day today but your message give me a laughter with substance....be blessed
And they call when you are a FORNICATOR. Men like to "get some". A lot of women are calling men no good, no one male or female are "good" partners until they have Christ and "close ya legs". Ladies gotta keep it real with who they are/type they are if they want healing and better...
Tony IDENTIFIED some things here.
If he didn't recognize his woman was "a real one"👆🏽 as a couple.There will no need to double back and fake pretend an epiphany now that we're broken up. The position has long been terminated bc someone didn't take his role seriously. Don't let no one (and I mean NO ONE) play with our emotions, purpose & healing!🙏🏽🙌🏽❣
Amen
Jewel Safire Yasss! Sista Dat Way🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Amen
AMEN. I Had To Block My Husband Because He Thought After Being With Someone Else I Guess Because of Covid-19 She Don't Want Him Around. I Was Supposed to be So Dumb To Let Him Back in My Life. I am Free Praise The Lord I Am Free!!
You gotta have your track shoes ready out here in 2020 LADIES 💥
On your March get set go🏃♀️😂💕
Good grief Tony! I haven't been in a relationship for years (by choice) just enjoying myself, friends, and family. I said 2020 would be the year that I would "open up" and allow someone in but I don't know now. I like not having soul ties and not having to deal with all this foolishness LOL!
Thanks again Tony for another eye-opening video! We all need to heal and take care of our souls & mind by cutting the soul tie forever and not continuing to hope and pray for what was never there to begin with. Thank you again for what you are doing for the world daily!
Before i was the one always going back to his toxicity now he beg me to take him back
That soul tie is strangling him
Mwah ^_^ yep but he is sooooo toxic. Its hard to move on because he was my first love
He's your first love but he's not your husband. You have to cut him out of your life to make room for your husband. Otherwise, he'll have you stuck on him while he does him
@@mwah_3210 ooooo that's sooo true, he will have you stuck on him..while he's doing him...until Sally Sue and Vicky cut ties with him
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Tony is so comical, but speaks all facts!
Very comical lol😂😂😂 & real definitely💯
Exactly!😂😂😂
I am breaking my toxic soul tie today...hit that block button today...need to detox from him completely.
What Tony said hurt me deeply, but I had to face it. Been listening to him for 2 months now, he's changed my life. Thanks for the truth and be blessed! I have to heal.
This is so true even to the ones that you never even made it to a full blown relationship smh… my my my close the door and shut him down PERIODT!!!!! MIND GAMES are so old..
I’ve come to see it as like a drug addiction, the man is addicted to the sex and the comfort and the woman is addicted to what he could be in her mind. He’s never going to be that though, he’s just a drug I’m addicted/attached to and I need detox, rehab and a sober living house.
Yes so true..ugh
Omg this touched my soul. I'm in tears. I've been in this situation for 27 years. You answered every question I've had in my head. I promise if I could afford you I would be in your presence. Thank you for giving back some of your knowledge for free. Keep doing what your doing. I walked away with our kids in 2005 but the back and forth my God. 😥😥🙏
Once you close that door & he realizes that door is shut for good, he's going to throw a fit. He can't handle that he no longer has you for an option. GOOD!😆
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Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
That celebrity client of yours nailed the way I feel about man, they like the idea of a smart independent woman but they don't like the reality of being with one. That is a fact. Cut them clean ladies, self focus and moving along is beautiful. 💖✊🏼
My sickening ex husband has done this. He remarried and tells me his new wife is not his wife!!! Sick. We have children, unfortunately the only way is NO CONTACT with some of these sick ass people. He asks to come over for Birthday's & Hollidays. Uhm hell no......have fun fornicating with ugly. He has no respect for no one. Not even himself. 😱😥
Rebecca Hov 🤣
Yeah unfortunately they don't even respect themselves. It is sad really. They don't realize how damaging that is for them.
Copy the messages he sends you about his new wife, and forward EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THE, EVE THE OLD ONES! Then block his ass and have your team people coordinate and necessary communication relating to your children.
@@divaextraordinary I've thought about that. I recently spoke to her & she's feeble as hell. She committed adultery with him, she's down with the messiness. He can tell her whatever and she'll buy it. I asked her if she loved him and she said "of course I love him I give my body to him" okay!! I cant deal with these demons. He has a demonic spirit of lust and she is a Jezebel. After I basically ripped her a new one and ratted him out. He sat on the phone with me for 2 1/2 hours in her face. It's DIABOLICAL. Over my dead body would a man talk with his ex for 2 1/2 hour in my face. Admitting he wasn't over me etc. It's a twisted mess I must let go and put behind me. She can see how he is, she's just so desperate she doesn't care.
So me and my babies will move on, they are grown and know his number. He serves no purpose for us. As a family we will excell and press on. He can have fun with that grimace looking lady. We're good!!!
I appreciate your insight though sis❤🙏
Tony Gaskin, your so funny and speaking real business. My soul tie is dead with divorce papers sent to me..
KNOWLEDGE IS POWER....to make it. THIS THERAPY IS HELPING ME. THANK YOU TG!