I know you said this 3 + years ago but it hits home. To look seriously at a man who is not looking to God for his very existence is a mistake.😮😊 I definitely need to make some reevaluations.
Whoever said that they want you to remove the jokes and slang from your teachings can have a seat. The mixture of serious to funny keeps me engaged and confirms that you are working in your gift. I am here for it!!! Too funny, but point always well taken.
I agree 100 percent! When he changes his voice and starts talking like the “woman” I get in the floor screaming! He drops the wisdom and cracks me up at the same time!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I’m 22 and dating a man who is 24 and I kid you not, 4 months in he has brought up marriage. We’re going on 6 months and he feels incredibly certain that I am his future wife while still submitting to the Lord. He’s been intentional about getting to know me since day 1 and truly walks like a man of God. Ladies please don’t settle!!! Know your worth and the man that sees your value will not want to let you go for anything! Tony is speaking FACTS! If he sees you as a wife, you will KNOW
@@wshelby83 thank you so much, we are doing really well. The vetting process doesn’t end until there’s a ring so I’m still keeping my eyes open for any red or yellow flags haha but so far so good☺️.
Amen! Thank you Tony! "Is He The One?" *If his Flaws are not Deal Breakers! *He will be everything in his Character that you are looking for. *You won't have any Trust Issues. *He Trust, Hopes & Believes in God! *He will be Evenly Yoked with you. *He operates from LOVE, Self Love! Be Blessed!🙏❤🦋
Thank you Tony. I wish I've known everything I've learned through your videos before going on dating and getting married. It's never too late to learn. Knowledge is everything!
"You'll know he's the one when his flaws aren't deal breakers!"📌 Tony said "GOD can I have some grace because Mrs. Sheri Gaskins doesn't let me get away with nothing!!" I'm 😄😄👏🏽👏🏽!
“you holding out hope in a man but ignoring God and talk about you a believer, you ain’t a believer you a atheist” whew chileeeeee. Thank you Tony for keeping it painfully real!!
GiiiiiirlI literally grimaced when he said that! Some of Tony's comments I can't take b/c he is so painfully honest...but it is so needed. There are so many women, young and old including me that have wasted time and believed the lie! We need to wake up to the real...Tony said "no more Mr. Nice Guy!"
Les E yes sis. We’ve all been there. I wrote that comment on an index card amongst some of his other comments that really spoke to me. I keep them with me as a daily reminder to keep my head in the game. I read over them daily until it sticks and I automatically remember, I can’t afford anymore wasted time with men that don’t see a future with me.
You are so right, I unfortunately went through this. Lived together 7 yrs married for 38 yrs. had 4 children together. Yes he cheated many times, I forgave him many times. Finally, after finding out he had been seeing someone for 5yrs behind my back, I left. Kids were grown & gone, we were close to retirement. Please Women listen and run for your life. This is the truth the honest Word!!!
“DJ Khalid” in reference to baby colic 😂😂🤣🤣 I died twice 🤣🤣🤣 Tony sense of humor is out of this world and the realness is to raw for some. God sent him to deliver the message to us women🙌🏽
I'm 56 been divorced and celibate for the last 4 years. I prayed and ask God to help me to love myself the way He sees me.These videos are so eye opening for me. Thank you brother Tony🙏🏽
Wow I'm thankful another person over 50 and divorced is on here ... I've also divorce & been celibate for 5 years. I recently reunited with a old flame and these vid's are life changing. Its horrible out here theses men are so different lawrdt Game playing, mind games, lawrd help me I'm too old to be playing games...
Now, you have told the whole truth and nothing but the truth right here!!! People can take you COMPLETELY out of character! You are right!!! If you are not use to dealing with something and you, all of a sudden, are exposed to something that rocks your world ....you will come out of your character! You might not do it but once, but you will turn into someone you dont even recognize. That's how you know the relationship is toxic. Never say you can't be taken out of character. The minute you do, God will humble your butt and show you! Trust Tony and trust me, when I tell you this! That's why we shouldn't become unevenly yoked. If a man is not raised morally correct and to have the right character, there is no way he can have good morals and a good character as a grown man. Break the generational curse, in the name of Jesus!!
@@thatgirlcocoa I understand. It's just almost "normal" that a man is acting badly. As women, we're not surprised by being used and ghosted, lied to, cheated on, and abused. It's expected. We're taught to deal with it instead of protecting ourselves. Like, toughen up if he sleeps with you and doesn't call you. Instead of don't sleep with him until marriage. I used to be very confident. My self-esteem has been chipped away by abusive relationships. And while I can rebuild myself, I still can't trust and believe in men.
100% true. A man dont even want to stay even if there was no cheating, a little argument hes gone... we woman should now know its time to stop putting up with disrespect and be strong..
I didn't realize I was not setting boundaries,had no deal breakers, never thought by about what type of man I wanted .I sorta fell into long term situations with good men but it wasn't what I needed. I have been single for two years and I have worked on myself and when I found out who I was then I understood what type of man I wanted in my life. Growing up without my dad did play a part in my choice of men. Self Love is Priceless!
Women know what a good man is they just don't want him. Having a father in the home or not is pretty much irrelevant to the type of men they will like.
This video made this scripture come to mind. "Hope deferred makes the heart sick. but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life." Proverbs 13:12. Thanks Tony!
This is so accurate that it's almost scary. Women be in relationships for years the man been & left mentally & emotionally year 1 😩 thankful that I haven't experienced this to a dramatic extent. I pray that we as women wake up. Our time is too precious to waste on the WRONG MAN
Yes, been there and done that. The man left year one but I didn't get the memo because I didn't know what to look for, I accepted crumbs. But no more. I now know that I am the prize to be won. Be blessed to everyone on this journey.
Listening to Tony's brutal honesty feels like a band-aid being ripped off my emotional wounds, but the scars are definately healing thanks to seeking therapy. Ladies, Tony is a man and he speaks the truth from a man's perspective and the truth hurts, but it is necessary for healing. Father God, I thank you for healing in Jesus name, AMEN🙌🏾
Tony is the Modern day Moses for relationships. He is literally taking us out of bondage ( Egypt) into the wilderness ( awareness,the work, healing) to the promise land (Healthy Whole relationships). God bless him richly forever❤️🙏.
You cheat on a man,,,if he stays its because he is gonna seek revenge. You might not wake up in the morning. So true and I knew a woman I worked with that lost her life and then he took his.
Awesome word. Please connect with high school, college women and men with these messages and help cut down the divorce rate. Wish I was more aware of these tyoes if things back then. To God by the glory for it now. Thanks
Tony, I felt the Holy Spirit in the last 9 mins of the video; when you realized you were behind in YOUR schedule and missing YOUR other appointments to finish this video is when the Spirit of the Lord took over; and when you started bringing in God's Word there was literally a shift in the atmosphere. GLORY BE TO GOD! More grace to you and keep putting Him above and first, my brother🙏🏾
I can't go one single without listening to his knowledge and wisdom. You are truly blessed with what you doing, teaching and preaching!! God bless you🙌🏽and greetings from Germany!
The truth in this video is so gut wrenching that it had to cut off and on so that we could all go ouch!!! 😩😩😩😹😹😹 it always cuts off when he makes a gut slamming point !!! To the gaskins family .. I hope you never come down to regular earthly problems.. you’re too good for those .. protect this family . Amen
Fatima Furr Yes Fatima! The “Enemy” doesn’t want to hear the truth! I’m having a difficult time trying to enjoy the teaching of this video due to it’s cutting off and on too! It is ashamed. Smh But Tony’s messages are so meaningful, I still get it when he speaks because when God is in it, the message WILL be delivered regardless! Be blessed EVERYONE!!
Just divorced after 10 years with a grown boy & you are right on the money Tony! So many signs & dealbreakers I saw & ignored. I paid the price & suffered unnecessary heartache for many years! It all was multiplied by 3 just like you said by the time I filed for divorce. Love the Blue Shirt👕❤️
Tony said a lot people ask why he only directs his videos toward women and he said because that’s what he was called to do NOW TOUCH YOUR NOSE 🤦🏾♀️🤣😂😭
I had to end a relationship with a "looks challenged" individual but financially he was set. I gave him a chance. He ended up being the worst man I had ever dealt with..cheater, liar, alcoholic, always in the club. Overall, he had issues. His character was off. Now I'm truly focused on character.
Good morning Blessed Tribe, This teaching was so on point. I am sitting here SMH because it was as if Tony witnessed my life over he past 35 years. Every scenario was point on. Yes, I finally left the situation after an attempt on the life that God spared. Unfortunately for the husband, he passed away a year ago. Ladies PLEASE listen to the man of God when he speaks! yes I think I too am a living, breathing testimony!
Paulette Howard My condolences go out to you, I’m too a survivor and appreciate you coming forth with your truth. Hopefully some of these ladies will take heed before it’s too late. I speak peace to your mind, body and soul.
Tony! Man you better speak!!!! Just moved out of my apartment because the guy downstairs smoked Monday thru Saturday from the time he got up until the next morning.🤦🏽♀️
My literal life. I’ve asked the manager to move me to a Townhouse. I got sick one from the heavy amount of 2nd ...smoke. I was scared because I had no idea why I felt that way. Smh
The Holy Spirit must be giving high five's all around every second this video plays! You nailed everything right on, Tony, and I don't mind being held constructively accountable for anything on my part so I can work even harder on myself, too, to keep persevering in the good race and fight. This message just has to be shared! Thank you for seeing this through at the expense of your studio and sports time. It means a lot! Be blessed!
This is heavy Tony Gaskins, I've never heard of to multiply by 3 a man's character and personality traits . Boy, you are truly informing me of some wisdom . Tony , i tell you this is really opening my eyes to a man just when you think you know i man . Through your teaching i don't know anything and have been a fool through the years and have fell in the traps. Bro Tony Gaskins , God bless you abundantly and may continue to give you strength.
You made me CRY 😭 AND I’m still crying 😢 I’m so heartbroken, but I thank the Good Lord I found your videos....they bring me clarity and peace ♥️ Thank you for opening my eyes.
Thank God for wisdom and discernment. I’m 28 my son’s father is 34. We were together 4 years and no sign of marriage being in his mind unless I brought it up. I got out of that this year. I’m happy single and still hopeful. I know God has better because He opened my eyes to see. And now I’m hearing this video. Thank you for yet another confirmation I did make the right decision.
Thanks for the reminder. Yep, my ex husband started with weed. Ten years later it was opiates and cocaine. Addiction is a progressive disease. Be blessed.
You don't know Tony, I'm truly blessed by your videos. Never had much of a father to teach me the ways of a man. Learned through life lessons. Pray God continues to bless and annoint you daily. Thank You
TONY YONY TONY!!!!! This here video is EVERYTHING!!!! You PREACHED this.....Thank You God for using this man to teach, reveal and assist us all in this thing called life, love and relationships! I'm 47 and learning everyday! Forever grateful
Tony sound mad and fed up with yall taaaday! Real Talk! Yall betta start listening....He's like, "I don't know HOW many mo' times I gotta tell yall the same thing ova and ova"....I felt this message for all of yall!!! Be Blessed!
@@Glamrocs I know. This man has so much knowledge and wisdom to impart and some women are still bitter and hard headed. They need to keep it moving if they don't want to grow or become a better person.
"This is what you need to realize....He is the one if he has the qualities, the characteristics & the personality traits that you're looking for in a man."
Thank you so much!!!!!!!! I believe everything you say!!!. My fiancé proposed to me after 13 months and we have been full throtto. Thank you for all your inspiration.
Uncle G! You don't know me yet lol but I'm inviting you and your family to my future wedding! I know God has you here for US and our lives are better because of your commitment and obedience! My life is bearing more fruit because I wanted more understanding and I've been receiving it! I Thank God for You !!!!!! 😇
Great video Brother Tony. It's great for men to see this as well. It makes us check ourselves to see if were doing any of these things. And if we are then how much we need to change in preparation for marriage!
When he said, "a man was raised by savages", I could not stop laughing...Tony you real but funny...what's hilarious is your not trying...you just talking...Keep up good work. Do you have a cash app? I wanted to bless your ministry.
You are so right about everything it is so true!! Thank you for doing this I wish I knew this when I was in my 20's. SMH so much time I can not get back.
An ex told me it was his daughter’s underwear! He kept cheating...I left broken.2 yrs ago tried to friend me on Facebook! I heard he has a stomach tube! Blocked for life! 😂😂😂
Please don’t ever stop doing these talks and videos ever. You hear me? God called for you to do this and you must fulfill your divine assignment on this earth. I wish I would have listened to your videos many many years ago. Im 50. We did not have no Tony’s when I was in my twenties making these videos. I met a lot of grown boys! Unfortunately i did not have a father to teach me all this back then I So had to learn through the school of hard knocks!!! So for sure all you are saying is straight up truth! Don’t stop!
Thank you for this. I’ve been married for nearly twenty years and it truly seems like it was all a lie. Listening to you, you really had the waterworks going because everything you’ve said here is nothing but truth. I appreciate this message so much; and I hope this reaches countless thousands around the world. You have been and will remain a blessing.♥️
Tony, that woman has very low self esteem. Now, if he put a 'serious' beating on her, put her in the hospital, and/or keep her bruised up, her mind will change quick. She is slowly cruising for a beat-down brusing. There is nothing exciting about a man's anger. I am praying for this woman in the spirit. Men like that think they can hit any women because of women like her. Wow!!! Unfortunately, there are many like her. So sad. Blessings.
This sermon brought tears to my eyes! This ain’t nothing but God that is speaking through you! Your words just grabbed my heart and spoke to me! Thank you for sharing and honoring Gods calling on your life! God Bless you and your beautiful family!
Love, Love, Love this message!! Tony you deserve a standing ovation!!! 👏👏👏 God has not given me the spirit of fear...this was a true TKO!!🥊🥊 Thank you...💕
I wish men would naturally mature emotionally when they get into their 50's, 60's, but im finding out it aint so...I need to be more protective of myself and not so trusting, I need to do the work Tony has been talking about..im rather new to all of this and his videos have been a TREMENDOUS help...I pre-ordered the Woman's Influence on audio cd today!!..Thank God for Tony giving us the insight into the male psyche, soooo much I didn't know, comprehend or even want to believe...thank you for opening my eyes and ears to see/hear the truth. Be blessed
Tony I like that statement About Flowing In The Spirit Im goimg to flow in the Spirit too brother Tony Let GOD be the matchmaker and dont be so anxious to have someone in your presence or on your arm especially when scripture says Be Anxious For Nothing Tony my Pastor once preached Some people are TOO LOW FOR US they cant come to our Next Level of Greatness Just flowing Bro Tony Blessings to you.
Tony is sooo low key... funny... you hear mee...but he only speaks the truth ...God bless and keep him protected, humbled and honest ...he is a blessing.....and he really really loves his work....❤
"You cant put your trust in a man that's not putting his trust in God!!"
YESSS!!!
I know you said this 3 + years ago but it hits home. To look seriously at a man who is not looking to God for his very existence is a mistake.😮😊 I definitely need to make some reevaluations.
Whoever said that they want you to remove the jokes and slang from your teachings can have a seat. The mixture of serious to funny keeps me engaged and confirms that you are working in your gift. I am here for it!!! Too funny, but point always well taken.
They want to block his blessing of delivering these teachings. I pray he continues to be a messenger of the most high GOD.
I agree 100 percent! When he changes his voice and starts talking like the “woman” I get in the floor screaming! He drops the wisdom and cracks me up at the same time!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I agree 💖
Yes indeed!!!!!!!!! Please have several seats. He is so relatable and brings real life situations to reality through humor!
I enjoy the jokes with the seriousness too..in life you need to laugh too!
"It's hard to find a good woman, because you're not a good man". Y I K E S
Woo - beautiful - check & mate
Whoop! Whoop! 🤣I loved it !!
💯👌
LOL. Not being a good man is the easiest way to get good women.
And Amen!
I’m 22 and dating a man who is 24 and I kid you not, 4 months in he has brought up marriage. We’re going on 6 months and he feels incredibly certain that I am his future wife while still submitting to the Lord. He’s been intentional about getting to know me since day 1 and truly walks like a man of God. Ladies please don’t settle!!! Know your worth and the man that sees your value will not want to let you go for anything! Tony is speaking FACTS! If he sees you as a wife, you will KNOW
Wow!!!! That’s amazing!! I hope things are going great for you!!!
@@wshelby83 thank you so much, we are doing really well. The vetting process doesn’t end until there’s a ring so I’m still keeping my eyes open for any red or yellow flags haha but so far so good☺️.
Praying it works out for you.
Plenty of long marriages started with a short courtship. When you know you know. How are things going?
How are things going hun?
Looks and sex. That's what this generation is quick to "fall in love" with.
Exactly
Tiffany so true
Man I admit I have falling into that so many times looking for love in all wrong places
Men. Need. To. Stop. Playing. Head. GAMES. Bottom line
Men are visual creatures
Amen! Thank you Tony!
"Is He The One?"
*If his Flaws are not Deal Breakers!
*He will be everything in his Character that you are looking for.
*You won't have any Trust Issues.
*He Trust, Hopes & Believes in God!
*He will be Evenly Yoked with you.
*He operates from LOVE, Self Love!
Be Blessed!🙏❤🦋
Tony, you are the best friend we’ve ever had. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. You’re helping change me from the inside out.
Agreed
Couldn’t have said it better.
Amen!! I agree
Thank you Tony. I wish I've known everything I've learned through your videos before going on dating and getting married. It's never too late to learn. Knowledge is everything!
Fr!!
"You'll know he's the one when his flaws aren't deal breakers!"📌 Tony said "GOD can I have some grace because Mrs. Sheri Gaskins doesn't let me get away with nothing!!"
I'm 😄😄👏🏽👏🏽!
Is her name pronounced Sherry or Sheriq? The country drawl throws me off
😂😂😂
“you holding out hope in a man but ignoring God and talk about you a believer, you ain’t a believer you a atheist” whew chileeeeee. Thank you Tony for keeping it painfully real!!
💯💯💯
Yesssssss Tell It Sis
GiiiiiirlI literally grimaced when he said that! Some of Tony's comments I can't take b/c he is so painfully honest...but it is so needed. There are so many women, young and old including me that have wasted time and believed the lie! We need to wake up to the real...Tony said "no more Mr. Nice Guy!"
@@East.143 Yes
Les E yes sis. We’ve all been there. I wrote that comment on an index card amongst some of his other comments that really spoke to me. I keep them with me as a daily reminder to keep my head in the game. I read over them daily until it sticks and I automatically remember, I can’t afford anymore wasted time with men that don’t see a future with me.
You are so right, I unfortunately went through this. Lived together 7 yrs married for 38 yrs. had 4 children together. Yes he cheated many times, I forgave him many times. Finally, after finding out he had been seeing someone for 5yrs behind my back, I left. Kids were grown & gone, we were close to retirement. Please Women listen and run for your life. This is the truth the honest Word!!!
Wow. Thanks for your testimony.
You are still beautiful. May God bless you with a good Sun of God. 🙏🏾
Thank you for sharing your testimony. It will bear fruit and bless.
I'm so sorry for the pain he put you through. You did not deserve that. May God send you comfort and healing sis.⚘
Wow. Some of them never grow up. Praying Gods' blessings upon you.
“You shouldn’t hold on out of fear, and you never need to hold on out of love. Cuz if it’s love... love will be holding you.”
“DJ Khalid” in reference to baby colic 😂😂🤣🤣 I died twice 🤣🤣🤣 Tony sense of humor is out of this world and the realness is to raw for some. God sent him to deliver the message to us women🙌🏽
M2😭😭😭
I was like did he just say, DJ Khalid 🤣😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 DJ Khalid 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Me too 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
He needs his own dictionary, love it! 💕😂
"WHEN YOURE HOLDING ON TO SOMEONE WHOS NOT HOLD YOU...THEN YOURE HOLDING ON TO SOMETHING THSTS DRAGGING YOU."---Tony Gaskins
Loved this piece sir
This was a tough one. The Truth hurts but it also makes you free
Thank you Tony I love ur videos I watch them every time I get a chance.
I'm 56 been divorced and celibate for the last 4 years. I prayed and ask God to help me to love myself the way He sees me.These videos are so eye opening for me. Thank you brother Tony🙏🏽
Dewanda Runnels God bless you,👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@@jodinarrowpath9998 I'm trying one day at a time!
Wow I'm thankful another person over 50 and divorced is on here ... I've also divorce & been celibate for 5 years. I recently reunited with a old flame and these vid's are life changing. Its horrible out here theses men are so different lawrdt Game playing, mind games, lawrd help me I'm too old to be playing games...
I’m 54 and divorced as well ladies. I’m here to let you know you’re not alone. I enjoy these videos and in my opinion, the information is spot on.
Another person ever 50 and learning a lot. I truly enjoy TG videos.
“His flaws won’t be deal breakers” that’s good!
Now, you have told the whole truth and nothing but the truth right here!!! People can take you COMPLETELY out of character! You are right!!! If you are not use to dealing with something and you, all of a sudden, are exposed to something that rocks your world
....you will come out of your character! You might not do it but once, but you will turn into someone you dont even recognize. That's how you know the relationship is toxic. Never say you can't be taken out of character. The minute you do, God will humble your butt and show you! Trust Tony and trust me, when I tell you this! That's why we shouldn't become unevenly yoked. If a man is not raised morally correct and to have the right character, there is no way he can have good morals and a good character as a grown man. Break the generational curse, in the name of Jesus!!
Montrice C Amen!!
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Flaws can become deal breakers if not effectively addressed early on.
Anger issues..not cute LADIES stop the immature acceptance behaviors just to complain later💥💥💥
It_isWhat_it_is True So true! Anger issues are deadly.
It's so hard... I've been conditioned to expect and accept bad behavior
Taghazout Moon It’s hard work but you can rewire your brain to know that you are deserving of good things. Start watching YT videos on self worth.
@@thatgirlcocoa I understand. It's just almost "normal" that a man is acting badly. As women, we're not surprised by being used and ghosted, lied to, cheated on, and abused. It's expected. We're taught to deal with it instead of protecting ourselves. Like, toughen up if he sleeps with you and doesn't call you. Instead of don't sleep with him until marriage. I used to be very confident. My self-esteem has been chipped away by abusive relationships. And while I can rebuild myself, I still can't trust and believe in men.
Anger issues lead to domestic violence.
“You in a jacked up situation-ship, not a relationship and you’re playing yourself”🤯
100% true. A man dont even want to stay even if there was no cheating, a little argument hes gone... we woman should now know its time to stop putting up with disrespect and be strong..
C Thomas I jus went thru this last week & I’m setting boundaries Right now
@@taraMimi717 believe me i can relate, setting boundaries is the key , a man will still try if he knows you'll eventually give in, keep strong
"Your daddy didn't talk to you 7 days a week for an hour, that's why you're here listening to me." 😂😁😂😁
It’s facts 🥴😅
I didn't realize I was not setting boundaries,had no deal breakers, never thought by about what type of man I wanted .I sorta fell into long term situations with good men but it wasn't what I needed. I have been single for two years and I have worked on myself and when I found out who I was then I understood what type of man I wanted in my life. Growing up without my dad did play a part in my choice of men. Self Love is Priceless!
Women know what a good man is they just don't want him. Having a father in the home or not is pretty much irrelevant to the type of men they will like.
@@dasani6055 Incorrect. Women do not know unless they have an example. Same with men. Stop making excuses for single motherhood.
This video made this scripture come to mind. "Hope deferred makes the heart sick. but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life." Proverbs 13:12. Thanks Tony!
I love the manner in which u include God in your messages!
That means evrything!!!!
I say it all time bro. Tony, sistas need to flip the strip...if you cheat, he leaving. So when he cheats, u need to🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶🏃.
💯💯💯💯💯🤣 Yes!!
Latonya Bell , * script
I agree. We need to stop putting ourselves last all the time.
@@nessparadis6948 Forreal Forreal...
All the time..cmon my sistas.
ABSOLUTELY 100%
@@cookieladycarriej8829 okkkkk!
It’s Hard To Find A Good Woman 👀 Cuz You Ain’t No Good Man 💯💯💯 You betta talk right 💯The only way you can do Tony 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
“When that red flag has sirens lol” u slap crazy if u ignore it.
This is so accurate that it's almost scary. Women be in relationships for years the man been & left mentally & emotionally year 1 😩 thankful that I haven't experienced this to a dramatic extent. I pray that we as women wake up. Our time is too precious to waste on the WRONG MAN
Yes, been there and done that. The man left year one but I didn't get the memo because I didn't know what to look for, I accepted crumbs. But no more. I now know that I am the prize to be won. Be blessed to everyone on this journey.
Whew Chile the last 10minutes of this video was TOO REAL. The spirit of God is truly speaking through you. Wow, God bless you and your family 🙏🏽
@Authentic Leatrice.... Yes it was!! I was saying the same thing!!
FACTS! Once they cheat, they'll keep doing it. Believe who they show you they are...the first time. 💯x💯
Listening to Tony's brutal honesty feels like a band-aid being ripped off my emotional wounds, but the scars are definately healing thanks to seeking therapy. Ladies, Tony is a man and he speaks the truth from a man's perspective and the truth hurts, but it is necessary for healing. Father God, I thank you for healing in Jesus name, AMEN🙌🏾
Amen.
I have always said that I’m not dating a guy for more than 2 years and we’re not married 🙅🏾♀️
Me too
Same!
I said the same, I’ve always been in long term relationships (7,11,6) that’s all my life really 😥😥😥
Me either
EXCELLENT CONCEPT-- WILL FOLLOW!
Tony is the Modern day Moses for relationships. He is literally taking us out of bondage ( Egypt) into the wilderness ( awareness,the work, healing) to the promise land (Healthy Whole relationships). God bless him richly forever❤️🙏.
You cheat on a man,,,if he stays its because he is gonna seek revenge. You might not wake up in the morning. So true and I knew a woman I worked with that lost her life and then he took his.
Awesome word.
Please connect with high school, college women and men with these messages and help cut down the divorce rate.
Wish I was more aware of these tyoes if things back then.
To God by the glory for it now. Thanks
Actually they have to learn the hard way
The younger women aren’t ready for this message. They have to get their heart broken at least once in order for any of this to hit home
20 year old college student here soaking everything off this channel
@@LEXZAYful Praise God! You will greatly blessed, this is the way walk in it.
That whole explanation about multiplying a behavior by 3 was so on point! ✊🏽
Tony, I felt the Holy Spirit in the last 9 mins of the video; when you realized you were behind in YOUR schedule and missing YOUR other appointments to finish this video is when the Spirit of the Lord took over; and when you started bringing in God's Word there was literally a shift in the atmosphere. GLORY BE TO GOD! More grace to you and keep putting Him above and first, my brother🙏🏾
Amen
I love the message but I really get a KICK OUT OF when you start talking like us ladies lolll... You always start with Ohhhhh.
I wait for the impersonations... hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That cracks me up every single time🤣🤣🤣
Mrs. E fr😂🤣 and the “you hear me? “ is my favorite
I can't go one single without listening to his knowledge and wisdom. You are truly blessed with what you doing, teaching and preaching!! God bless you🙌🏽and greetings from Germany!
The truth in this video is so gut wrenching that it had to cut off and on so that we could all go ouch!!! 😩😩😩😹😹😹 it always cuts off when he makes a gut slamming point !!! To the gaskins family .. I hope you never come down to regular earthly problems.. you’re too good for those .. protect this family . Amen
Fatima Furr Yes Fatima! The “Enemy” doesn’t want to hear the truth! I’m having a difficult time trying to enjoy the teaching of this video due to it’s cutting off and on too! It is ashamed. Smh But Tony’s messages are so meaningful, I still get it when he speaks because when God is in it, the message WILL be delivered regardless! Be blessed EVERYONE!!
Tony sounds like Major Payne every time he smacks his tongue and say "OHwa' 😸
Just divorced after 10 years with a grown boy & you are right on the money Tony! So many signs & dealbreakers I saw & ignored. I paid the price & suffered unnecessary heartache for many years! It all was multiplied by 3 just like you said by the time I filed for divorce.
Love the Blue Shirt👕❤️
Same here sis! Get healing and in position. It's not going to happen again. We got Tony this go round. Be blessed!
Tony said a lot people ask why he only directs his videos toward women and he said because that’s what he was called to do NOW TOUCH YOUR NOSE 🤦🏾♀️🤣😂😭
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Exactly
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I had to end a relationship with a "looks challenged" individual but financially he was set. I gave him a chance. He ended up being the worst man I had ever dealt with..cheater, liar, alcoholic, always in the club. Overall, he had issues. His character was off.
Now I'm truly focused on character.
Good morning Blessed Tribe, This teaching was so on point. I am sitting here SMH because it was as if Tony witnessed my life over he past
35 years. Every scenario was point on. Yes, I finally left the situation after an attempt on the life that God spared. Unfortunately for the husband, he passed away a year ago. Ladies PLEASE listen to the man of God when he speaks! yes I think I too am a living, breathing testimony!
Paulette Howard My condolences go out to you, I’m too a survivor and appreciate you coming forth with your truth. Hopefully some of these ladies will take heed before it’s too late.
I speak peace to your mind, body and soul.
So so true💯Real Talk✔👩🏼
These women nowadays are thirsty and desperate.
So guilty of that, but I'm learning to love myself and stop settling for less
Tony! Man you better speak!!!! Just moved out of my apartment because the guy downstairs smoked Monday thru Saturday from the time he got up until the next morning.🤦🏽♀️
My literal life. I’ve asked the manager to move me to a Townhouse. I got sick one from the heavy amount of 2nd ...smoke. I was scared because I had no idea why I felt that way. Smh
The Holy Spirit must be giving high five's all around every second this video plays! You nailed everything right on, Tony, and I don't mind being held constructively accountable for anything on my part so I can work even harder on myself, too, to keep persevering in the good race and fight.
This message just has to be shared! Thank you for seeing this through at the expense of your studio and sports time. It means a lot! Be blessed!
This is heavy Tony Gaskins, I've never heard of to multiply by 3 a man's character and personality traits . Boy, you are truly informing me of some wisdom . Tony , i tell you this is really opening my eyes to a man just when you think you know i man . Through your teaching i don't know anything and have been a fool through the years and have fell in the traps. Bro Tony Gaskins , God bless you abundantly and may continue to give you strength.
You made me CRY 😭 AND I’m still crying 😢 I’m so heartbroken, but I thank the Good Lord I found your videos....they bring me clarity and peace ♥️ Thank you for opening my eyes.
Thank God for wisdom and discernment. I’m 28 my son’s father is 34. We were together 4 years and no sign of marriage being in his mind unless I brought it up. I got out of that this year. I’m happy single and still hopeful. I know God has better because He opened my eyes to see. And now I’m hearing this video. Thank you for yet another confirmation I did make the right decision.
Thanks for the reminder. Yep, my ex husband started with weed. Ten years later it was opiates and cocaine. Addiction is a progressive disease. Be blessed.
Tony G said “HE AINT TALK TO YOU 7 DAYS A WEEK FOR AN HOUR”
You ain’t never lied😂🤣😅
You don't know Tony, I'm truly blessed by your videos. Never had much of a father to teach me the ways of a man. Learned through life lessons. Pray God continues to bless and annoint you daily. Thank You
TONY YONY TONY!!!!! This here video is EVERYTHING!!!! You PREACHED this.....Thank You God for using this man to teach, reveal and assist us all in this thing called life, love and relationships! I'm 47 and learning everyday! Forever grateful
The word of the day "Look at his vices. You got to look at Him"..All facts.. Thanks!!
Tony sound mad and fed up with yall taaaday! Real Talk! Yall betta start listening....He's like, "I don't know HOW many mo' times I gotta tell yall the same thing ova and ova"....I felt this message for all of yall!!! Be Blessed!
Peaches I feel him it’s frustrating that some women come here to argue because they don’t want to change
@@Glamrocs I know. This man has so much knowledge and wisdom to impart and some women are still bitter and hard headed. They need to keep it moving if they don't want to grow or become a better person.
"This is what you need to realize....He is the one if he has the qualities, the characteristics & the personality traits that you're looking for in a man."
I read this the same time that he said it lol
“Colic, calic,DJ Khalid” almost took me to the upper room. TG truths!
We must inspect what we expect....Tony has taught me this concept.
"Calic...Colic...DJ Khalid...whatever you call it"😂😂🤣😅 Be Blessed
Tony said Mrs. Gaskins ain't having it. 😁😂🤣 I love it. Be Blessed.
Thank you so much!!!!!!!! I believe everything you say!!!. My fiancé proposed to me after 13 months and we have been full throtto. Thank you for all your inspiration.
I’m up outta here. I’m up outta here. I ain’t got time and energy to be going through all of this. mood all 2020 😂
That's what I said also.
Omg, I couldn't stop laughing.
Nicole Smith same lol
Say it !!! No sir no more.
That’s true. People act how the world has treated them
Uncle G! You don't know me yet lol but I'm inviting you and your family to my future wedding! I know God has you here for US and our lives are better because of your commitment and obedience! My life is bearing more fruit because I wanted more understanding and I've been receiving it! I Thank God for You !!!!!! 😇
My God! Smh 10yrs in no ring. Tony I'm tired. Thank you
I'm full of the WORD on today. Praise God
I have never heard such raw honesty . It's absolutely painful as i face it, but I thank you Tony . God bless.
Every girl needs this🙏🏻👌🏻
Good morning Tony, ready for my daily inspiration!!
H Cohane yes indeed!
Great video Brother Tony. It's great for men to see this as well. It makes us check ourselves to see if were doing any of these things. And if we are then how much we need to change in preparation for marriage!
You preaching Tony. God is Faithful🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
When he said, "a man was raised by savages", I could not stop laughing...Tony you real but funny...what's hilarious is your not trying...you just talking...Keep up good work. Do you have a cash app? I wanted to bless your ministry.
Thank you for being real and honest. God bless you!
Tony said "so touch your nose" 🤣🤣😅😅 I just can't with him
You ain't playing about these uploads! Keep it up!
Gotta come back to some old videos just to refresh my mind 🙌🏾🙌🏾
You are greatly appreciated!!!
You are so right about everything it is so true!! Thank you for doing this I wish I knew this when I was in my 20's. SMH so much time I can not get back.
An ex told me it was his daughter’s underwear! He kept cheating...I left broken.2 yrs ago tried to friend me on Facebook! I heard he has a stomach tube! Blocked for life! 😂😂😂
😂🙏🏿karma
Damn
His daughters?? Did he not realize how actually perverted that sounded?? Lol Jesus...
@@TheeBratzDollxox Yes! However he didn't care. He had no respect for me. I learned a lot from him!
Yes been there, oh my cousin had to change for work 🤦🏾♀️
I'm definitely attracted to certain feature, but now I date based off character. I do have to date someone I'm attracted to.
Please don’t ever stop doing these talks and videos ever. You hear me? God called for you to do this and you must fulfill your divine assignment on this earth. I wish I would have listened to your videos many many years ago. Im 50. We did not have no Tony’s when I was in my twenties making these videos. I met a lot of grown boys! Unfortunately i did not have a father to teach me all this back then I So had to learn through the school of hard knocks!!! So for sure all you are saying is straight up truth! Don’t stop!
Thank you for this. I’ve been married for nearly twenty years and it truly seems like it was all a lie. Listening to you, you really had the waterworks going because everything you’ve said here is nothing but truth. I appreciate this message so much; and I hope this reaches countless thousands around the world. You have been and will remain a blessing.♥️
I always appreciate how smooth you are with your self-advertisement 😂 every video I notice and laugh good stuff Mr. T
Tony you telling the truth! Character is everything!
First, I thank God that you are giving us this message and for an hour video instead of 30mins 🙏🏾 God bless Tony for his sacrifice today and everyday.
Tony, that woman has very low self esteem. Now, if he put a 'serious' beating on her, put her in the hospital, and/or keep her bruised up, her mind will change quick. She is slowly cruising for a beat-down brusing.
There is nothing exciting about a man's anger. I am praying for this woman in the spirit. Men like that think they can hit any women because of women like her. Wow!!! Unfortunately, there are many like her. So sad. Blessings.
This sermon brought tears to my eyes! This ain’t nothing but God that is speaking through you! Your words just grabbed my heart and spoke to me! Thank you for sharing and honoring Gods calling on your life! God Bless you and your beautiful family!
Love, Love, Love this message!! Tony you deserve a standing ovation!!! 👏👏👏 God has not given me the spirit of fear...this was a true TKO!!🥊🥊
Thank you...💕
The Lord was really speaking through you to me. I truly feel encouraged today. God bless you and thank you for letting God use you.
Time wasting to be with someone 1 year or more and no marriage commitment etc. Knowledge undiluted ❤️❤️❤️
He probably don’t even have a sister and we still fall for it 🤦🏽♀️ Lord help us lol
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Lol 😅🤣
And when he has a sister his sister is the eldest and lives with a pet 🦅
I wish men would naturally mature emotionally when they get into their 50's, 60's, but im finding out it aint so...I need to be more protective of myself and not so trusting, I need to do the work Tony has been talking about..im rather new to all of this and his videos have been a TREMENDOUS help...I pre-ordered the Woman's Influence on audio cd today!!..Thank God for Tony giving us the insight into the male psyche, soooo much I didn't know, comprehend or even want to believe...thank you for opening my eyes and ears to see/hear the truth. Be blessed
It is so much game out here! I started a mature woman channel here called The mature woman channel. Please check it out! TY
This video is so powerful that’s all I can say !!
😅 Oooooweeeee.....this message is tight, but it’s RIGHT!!!
Facts it's real tight in here girl had to some water with this one!!!!
Tony out here dropping jewels!!!!
Tony I like that statement About Flowing In The Spirit Im goimg to flow in the Spirit too brother Tony Let GOD be the matchmaker and dont be so anxious to have someone in your presence or on your arm especially when scripture says Be Anxious For Nothing Tony my Pastor once preached Some people are TOO LOW FOR US they cant come to our Next Level of Greatness Just flowing Bro Tony Blessings to you.
Tony is sooo low key... funny... you hear mee...but he only speaks the truth ...God bless and keep him protected, humbled and honest ...he is a blessing.....and he really really loves his work....❤
When I tell you Big Brother teaching today 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💙💙💙💙💙.....In his words " Yall hear MEEEEE!!!! LOL.....I LOVE IT
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Thank you Tony! love how you add some humor into your videos too! wisdom up in hereeee!!! 😀👌🙏