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A grown boy is going to manipulate you into thinking you’re “doing too much” and will turn your standards/boundaries into “insecurities.” The RIGHT man, a grown MAN is going to respect you for standing firm on your beliefs and not compromising your standards.
Amen
I can attest to this. I put my insecurities out that and said what I needed to feel comfortable and I was told that I was too needy and an attention seeker smh
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Exactly! My ex made me feel bad, like I'm doing all I can. This guy only wanted to be a low income entrepreneur and not work for others. He stayed living in unfavorable conditions smh.
Btw, my Daddy also told me. "A man will continue to do what you allow him to do, until you say different."
bevill72able I say it all the time.
Your daddy was right. My daddy told me the same thing
Repeating the same gets the same
We must do different to receive different
That's people period. Children included
"Every man you meet gone need some work, and you gone need to learn how to work it" 💥💥
Whew. 🙆🏾♀️
Sighhh
Ok Ma😂
YES!!!
🤦 dating over 40 is like shopping at a thrift store. I'm used too. 😁
When he smacks his lips and says "oh!" 😂😂
Lmao, the fact that I can picture Tony doing this in my head is hilarious!
Somebody needs to tell Tony that real women don't talk like that. He is on some Martin Lawrence...She nay nay stuff.😁
@@anntoinetteboyd5098 I used 2 love that show back then...they dont make shows like that no more :( Any good ones u can recommend me?
AHAHAHAAH seriously.
That killed me too! 😂😂
I wish Mrs. Gaskins would inform us of her thought process when she went through these things with you. And also what made her feel like you were worth her time and patience to deal with. It's so hard to decipher who you should give those chances to, and when you should run due to those red flags.
Syretha Shirley second that!
Exactly. More often then not when they know that you are not hard them. Because you say that they are flawed and human. It is like they take it for granted.
He mentioned on one of his videos on March 27, 2020 that he is never gonna make his wife. He said he knows she will share her testimony & a platform to speak, but he will never ever make her to speak like him!
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That’s why I’m so excited about the new book too!!! It’s gonna have her input! And we only have 7 more days of waiting! 😄
Syretha Shirley continue listening . Please go thru as many videos as you can
If you are serious about being in a relationship you can’t be scared stand your ground. Be Blessed.
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his women impressions are HILARIOUS
Yup!
I be so weak!!!! Lol
FOODIE ASMR the best!
I live for it
FOODIE ASMR it’s always *cue stank face* “OHHHHHHH”
I met an amazing man a little under a month ago and let me tell you. Everything Tony is speaking is 100% accurate. We are taking things slow with God as the driver and as a result of both of us keeping God first, he has truly been faithful. God is an amazing God. Noone is on their back. Period. Stay Blessed Tony and Thank you.
Praying the best for you 🙏 sis!
@@MsHappy-xz2px praying 🙏 His will for you sis!
@@MsHappy-xz2pxI am tapping into your blessings sister.
Hey Sis, how're things going now?
A man after God's own heart...amazing may you both be richly blessed together ❤ 🙏
Be blessed I made it.
I’m ready to receive my husband ❤️
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Amen sis praying that the Father will continue to prepare me until his arrival
Leranda Brewer 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Me too Niki
@Linda Hines 😁
A friend once told me, "They don't come like that, you have to train them." However, I learned from this message, it's not about training them, but calling each other to be excellent! Thank you Tony Gaskins for this message!
In my country women say men are like children (hence they have to be trained). I never fully understood how and why that is until I started watch Tony Gaskin. It all makes sense now.
I now understand that I have been a mess in my relationship, immature, lacked emotional intelligence, a bad communicator, and more. I also now understand how to be better than I was. Lord I pray I get a chance to apply what I know now with the right man. Thank you Tony!
Kenyetta that's exactly how i use to be..these are my words and feelings exactly...
Same, girl! It didn’t work out with the past ones for a reason, God’s working on us to be the best version of ourselves for the man we deserve♥️.
Because your wife made the decision to respect and value herself and because you made the decision to respect yourself and honor her and your children and treat her like the Queen she is, countless lives are changed forever. ❤️
😂😂 So funny his impression of how some women talk. But Facts
Shungreer Potts, I deleted my comment after I read yours because I was going to comment the same thing, but his imitation of a woman's voice is hilarious. I thought that I was the only one that notice that.
I crack up EVERYTIME! "*sucks teeth* Ooooooh! How you gon'..." 😂
Well and least we know he is straight because he is horrible at it; which makes it funny.
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It kills me every time lol
My boyfriend told me that I had a lot of influence. He told me the music that I play had an affect on him. I usually play calm,instrumentals or music without curse words. He told me he was use to women playing trap music and rap that was vulgar. Every morning when I wake up I play calm music and he told little things like that has had an influence on him.
After my last few relationships and a situationship I asked my ex's what was "wrong" with me. Two of them said, that I didn't make him commit (aka the status of the relationship was truly up to me and I should've required it). Another said I was like the perfect girlfriend but he wanted someone with some game (aka i was a bit boring and predictable). Those were easy pills to swallow because when I asked, I realized i was too available and always trying to prove that I am worthy. I also let them and everyone else disrespect me. I was so naive that I didn't see it as disrespect then. I just knew it didn't feel good. I was definitely a pickmeisha, smh. I am mature enough to realize my flaws and admit. I am also committed to not making those same mistakes while being graceful enough to know that I am still not perfect and the man that's for me, will not be perfect either!
@Taylor Metoyer I still have a soft spot for the guy I was in a situationship with. The kicker is that he is married with children to a woman who said that if she wanted him as her man, she will have him! She literally made it a requirement. I like to grow and learn from my mistakes and was over the pain so it was easy to hear and accept at that point. Blessings to you and those new babies.
I'm.a Star I think this is true in a lot of cases. I can also see where I did not require commitment. However, I would also say when I met my fiancé I didn’t have to require commitment he told me exactly what he wanted and he wanted commitment so not all guys need you to point the direction because they are already headed that way and sure about you. The type of guys that need you to require something before they be the man they need to be seem to not know what they want and need you to tell them but you also have to be vocal about your needs and wants as well.
I'm.a Star 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯 I think I have/had the same problem . Still working today
Beautiful words... The best is yet to come ❤️
I'm.a Star that’s a good inside look. But please lose that soft spot that guy doesn’t care for you best wishes
If he can't keep his word I can't trust him. ✋🏾😩NOPE! Be blessed, blessed tribe. 🌸❤
I do wish all men can hear this.....most women do have some kind of insecurity-some just won’t admit it. Love us anyway while we heal!!
Some women don't recognize the insecurity. Some are truly unaware.
TYEECE MARSHALL -True-That’s all a part of self awareness with the intention of becoming one’s best self. IF that’s a desire.
Marsha Griffiths -no doubt....I’m a woman though so I care about us! They’ll be alright-they can have their own sessions!
That “Oohh” gets me every time 😂
Me too 😂😂😂
Lmaoooo
me too, it reminds me of Shenay-nay from Martin tv show! LOL!
Girl I started catching cues and say Oohh with him. 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes 🤣
I think I speak for most women that we already understand most men aren’t perfect. We as women just fall into the trap of not being able to discern what you can help a man with and what should be deal breakers. Women who rant about wanting a man already 100% together are just trying to compensate for doing too much for a man in a previous relationship or giving a man who wasn’t together a chance and he still played around.
Yatora Remble Sis...you are spot on!!!
You hit the head on the nail with this one
Hello there I agree!
Yes! Well said!
I believe a good remedy for this is for women to sit down and determine/write out her absolute non-negotiables.
What are certain things she’s just flat out going to refuse dealing with? Sadly the reason women get talked out of putting their foot down and having standards is because they’re shamed and socialized into doing so. Women are supposed to be nurturing, caring and forgiving. If a man “appears to be a good guy or “could be” one she’s expected to throw aside her “petty/boujee” annoyances and give that man whatever he wants at her expense.
If women were encouraged to stick to their standards, whatever they may be, and women dropped their fear of judgement or ridicule from naysayers, many wouldn’t fold over and self sacrifice for a man under the guise of being a “good woman”.
And you know what? Who defines that anyway, besides God? We’ve gotta learn to start listening to GOD more than other PEOPLE as well!
I just sat in an empty room, focused on your words and looked you dead in your eyes and LISTENED to everything you said. This is THEEEE greatest video I could ever watch on RUclips as a young woman. Done cried off my face mask all messy now. My father, unfortunately, wasn’t able to spell it for me the way you just did here. I learned things I’ve been trying to figure out for 26 years. Thank you so much for recording this video Tony G. Sincerely.
Who else is here already watching?
Im two days late, but im here now
@@mrzsanders7460 Better late than never
It’s 2024 and watching
I cannot wait to meet my imperfect man who will accept my imperfections so we can be happy together in our imperfect world. Thank you Jesus Christ for what is coming into my life. I am positive that I will meet my mate😍
Mrs Sheri Gaskins was not playing....I’m over here laughing like Tony No! 😂😂😂
TiffanyB TV, I love that woman! All need to listen up! 👂
That is profound!! You have to heal a woman’s heart to have a woman’s heart!
I am blessed, and I made it. You be blessed❤
Awee “I’m yours! I belong to you!” Can’t wait for someone to feel that way about me ❤️
I know God has a man for me who is willing to treat me like a Queen. If only more men had the same mindset like Tony .
Be Blessed I made it.
Kiia bath & body but that’s what he said at the beginning, he didn’t. His wife brought it out of him by setting her standards and his interest in her motivated him.
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A lot of men have these mindset..some even start better than Tony started cos like hes said time and time again, he started as a grown boy and she called d man out of him, manifest them through prayer,patience and the help of the Holy Spirit.
@@nikkyshamz2696 I do
No degree, but you're operating on the PhD of wisdom and insight the Lord gifted you. So proud of you, youngman.
"Don't complain about the hand you were dealt. Just play it, and you're gonna come out on top."
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We truly have to teach men how to treat us. I always thought men would be good if they were "so called good men". Now I know women have the reigns
Tony kill me that woman voice he does. 😂😂
Tony thank you my man! I dont watch tv but even when I did watch you are so much better. Real humble funny wise Godly inspiring. Respect to your honesty and consistency thats God working in you. Peace n blessings!
The more I watch him the more hope I have that I'll find someone like him 😭 I thought I did but he only wants sex but yet he friend zoned me..that's the makings of a situationship and I'm too old for that mess..I told him that too..
Tika L. Good for you! I was just in this situation two weeks ago. This quarantine has been exposing people’s true intentions. I see it as time to take it slow and continue to learn each other. They see it as an opportunity to have dates at each other’s houses 🥴🙄🙅🏾♀️
I'm there now. Due to the fact, he doesn't want a relationship 👫 right now. He was in a lengthy relationship and he wants to be single for awhile. But, he wants to be a friend with romantic involvement. I stated what I wanted. He basically went around that. Then he says: "You never know what God has for us down the road." 🤷🏾♀️🙄🤣🤣 I'm sick of the foolery! I'm frustrated with dating & relationships. I'm going to walk 🚶🏽♀️ away from this connection. I'm 40 years old and so is he. I can't keep settling. 💯💪🏾
I went through this too. But I cut him off as soon as I felt like I was an option. I feel women must recognize that most men don’t come out and tell women clearly whether they are or NOT looking for a relationship. They want to keep women in the “grey area” as much as possible. It’s up to the women to recognize this “game”. Its deceiving. If you are comfortable, could either of you share the timeline of your relationships?
You have to be comfortable being who you were called to be by loving & respecting yourself! Utilize your GOD given unique skillset to speak life and accountability. Be ready to turn your back on any man who shows no rules of engagement. 🏃🏽🙌🏽
"Stay out the comments comment warrior" lol Tony's is hilarious 😆
TG, "Don't come crying bout the hand you was dealt, Just Play it." Thank you Coach Gaskins God Bless yah
This is so true tony I have a problem with my words sometimes I come across very agressive and I have pushed good men away I am working on my temper and attitude know.
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 You a Queen...
🙋Amen sis.
You not alone-at least you acknowledge this!
@Sandra Parsons thank you but I only get like that when I feel like a man is taking me for granted
@@bridgetjones6819 thank you
I love that you said everything changed when you starting treating your wife like a queen. YES!! 🙌👏 Be blessed I made it!
She had no time for foolishness . That was how you set boundary . ...... so she can be taken seriously . She don play !!
Its my favorite thing to do, hold a man accountable. If he refused to elevate, i dont hesitate to walk away💃 Great video Mr. Gaskins, thanks for the insight.
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You go Woman!! YESSSSS
We have to understand that as women we are the influencers! I can’t wait for this book! So glad I preordered it!
I’m so happy I came across these videos! I’m 23 and just got out of a bad relationship. I came across this right on time to prepare for what God has in store for me. I’m taking notes.
Ya hear me in my *Mr. Tony Gaskins voice*
Be blessed, I made it!
Wish I was 23 again😂
“What you breathing for, you act like you got to breathe” 😂💀 I was too weak. Great video. #BeBlessedIMadeIt 🙏🏾
Tu Bella he is so hilarious!
I’m about to be 31 yrs old and I think I finally understand. It took me a minute and I’m still working at it but things are clearer than they have ever been!
Made some life changes, got your Audible books to not repeat negative behavior, one on pre-order, and am half way of Make It Work, right now. Thank you for all you and the Coaches do. You being on RUclips is so appreciated, you may never know.
Be blessed, I made it
Relationship goal: "What do you need.. What do you expect...asking and expecting with respect"
BOOM!
Tony your best!
Queen status 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾👑👑👑. I'm not settling for anything less than I deserve. Amen
Don’t deactivate your activation!! You are needed!!! That’s a whole entire word!!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼 point blank perioddddd!! 😂❤️Be blessed!!
The Woman is the Activator for Men. Yep we sure are!!
Be blessed I made it 💞 I was married for 14 years, my ex and I have 9 children together. It’s been one month we’ve been divorced, it’s been an emotional journey. I love listening and hearing your videos. I believe what you say and know that God is going to bless me with my husband. Who wants to treat me as him Queen, as well as I want to treat him as my King. God bless you and your family 💞
Wow. God bless you. 14 years didn't make him change? I am in the same situation as well.
14 years is a long time. would you say the dealbreakers that led to your divorce were red flags that you dealt with early on in the relationship, or were they issues that came up later on? thanks for sharing.
Yvonne Nation be strong! God will take care of you! You’re in the right place gaining new Knowledge. It’ll help you to see your situation in a new LIGHT 💫🔥🔥🔥🔥
This Spoke to me in so many ways. It was as if you were speaking to all the things that were unspoken . Thank you for allowing your light to shine bright . Thank you for not watering down who you are and what you believe in and stand for. This is ministry our side of the four walls thank you sir for your obedience. I know doing this isn’t easy but it’s necessary. Thank you for your sacrifice you make on a daily basis to make sure you are doing what God has called you to do. Thank you for making sure the lives that are locked up in your belly hear what they need so they can heal and grow. Thank you and I Thank God that he will continue to feed you so that you can feed others . I thank him for allowing you to speak life into the lifeless and to speak love peace and understanding to a unknowing nation . Thank you sir .
"Tony you rubbing that 19 in yo eye" got me laughing!!
Ready for my daily dose of "The Tony Show "❤
This was a whole preach! Praise God for this kind of love 🙌🏾🤎
Omg i was dyin laughin wit the breathin joke! 😂😂
Girl me too. So funny😂😂
Heal my heart then have my heart. I love it Tony
I don’t know what an attractive man is but I know what ugly is 😂😂 I hollered. Love your videos
"I know what ugly is" did it for me.
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The redirection part is the best piece of advice I could ever receive! I am gonna use it on my man AND my 7 year old son! You are a godsend!
The way you Love your W👑FE is Beautiful... I've neva wanted anyone's man or husband, howeva I wish GOD would hear my prayer's and send me someone when I'm done healing.. Not only was I dating grown bois who weren't emotionally unavailable, I was toxic as well.. I will continue serving GOD.. I KNOW GOD GONNA BLESS WITH MY OWN HUSBAND🙏🏽
I asked the Lord for discernment last night and he woke me up to this video. Be blessed!
Listening to this channel just confirms how much of an awesome husband God has blessed me with, I’m in tears.
Ask, you shall receive , knock , the door will be opened .
Tony, you took a 50% in might getting divorced. To 100% in staying married. God bless you and your family. Keep doing what your doing. In helping women open there eyes 👀
Tony is hilarious 😂 he said I know y’all think I rubbed that 19 in my eye but I’m covered with the blood of Jesus
I'll be his ACTIVATOR 💥!
My GOD MY GOD! This is so true! When my man popped off and yelled at me the first time I checked his butt. Sure did. Put that finger up and told him, “Wait one minute don’t you holler at me and I suggest you lower that tone”. One day we were sitting and talking and he told me that one of the main reasons he loves me and knows I’m different is because I check him. I was like woooooow
I can't wait to read A Woman's influence. I sear he on point!
Lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣Tony said "that's what Nimo doing in the ocean"...
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She don’t like her hair she don’t like her Ph Balance 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 that is funny!!
I would love to hear your wife's story... how she developed into such a strong woman before meeting you Tony. Did she go through heartache before meeting you and learned from it? Or was she just raised very well? Or struggled in childhood and learned her lessons there? Just curious?!
You need to speak on narcissism in men. Would be interested on your thoughts.
Be blessed I made it! Thank you Tony…I needed this ministering today. 🙏🏾
Hey hey hey. I’m yours made my heart melt . You Romeo , she Juliet . Amen
God gave me just what I needed to hear, right on time. Thx for letting God speak through you.
God Bless You! This here video blessed my WHOLE LIFE you hear?! I’ve been watching you Tony for years, and your voice speaks in my head when I’m acting stupid or about to act unworthy! Thank you for obeying God in your calling, especially when you’re tired and feel like giving up sometimes! Happy Anniversary to you and your wife, and may the blessings and favor of God continue to follow your family, in Jesus name!
You know what, all I got to say is you are teachable. My ex husband didn't learn anything from me and maybe because he is a narcissist and they are hard to teach. Narcissism is a mental illness and there is no working with them. I didn't know what was wrong with him until after 20 years of trying to help him. I had four children by my ex husband and he never appreciate or respect me. I cry hard when I watch Rocky when he praised his wife for giving him a son.
Be Blessed "I made It"
Tks for teaching; woman how to love and respect ourselves 1st and then sitting the tone for our "soon to come husband!" CONGRATULATIONS on 13yrs of Marriage!
Oooooooo this was a good one. I’ve been working on moving past self doubt and doing what I need to do for myself. It’s not easy, but have to move forward. I was starting to resent being there for everyone else and abandoning myself until you started talking at 53 minutes. All of what you were saying really did hit home. I also need to work on my temperament and learn to be 🤐. Thank you again for this video! Everyone be blessed and stay safe! Covid-19 doesn’t discriminate.
Good afternoon Blessed Tribe. Be blessed I'm with ya sis.
Every time I date a new man I have to go back and rewatch a few videos to make sure I stay up to par. Tony u really help me not waste timeee. Do u hear me. I owe so much to u.
BE BLESSED.....I MADE IT.
MR. GASKINS AFTER LISTENING TO THIS TEACHING TODAY, I TOLD MYSELF..."YOU GONE LEARN TODAY!!!" AND I DID. I RECEIVED KNOWLEDGE THAT I KNOW IS APPLICABLE TO MY PRESENT RELATIONSHIP AND A MINDSET SHIFT AND GREAT UNDERSTANDING. I'M SO THANKFUL. KEEP RELEASING THE WISOM GOD HAS GIVEN YOU BECAUSE YOU ARE HELPING WOMEN TO GROW AND BECOME IN A WAY THAT GLORIFIES GOD. WHEN GOD IS GLORIFIED....HE IS PLEASED. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR AWESOME WIFE. AMEN
Be blessed I made it. I pray God continues to bless your hands Tony Gaskins as you put them to the plow to bless your family. In Jesus name Amen
You are so right every man need some work I thank God for my son
You are so right every man need some work I thank god for my Husband
I get what you are saying .However you had the self awareness to want to change and allow her to to teach and influence you. . But when you are dealing with a narcissist they have no self awareness. And in my case I had to walk away! I love the part that you talk about healing her heart ❤️ and how Jesus love for us is a representation of a true relationship between a man and a women. Ephesians 5
Great video 👍
This man is a Godsend. Thank you for giving us this information! I’ll be buying the book as well.
Tony is hilarious but the accuracy is dead on!
Is there hope, Mr. Gaskins, for a grown boy after the age of 30? Stay blessed.
Be blessed, i made it. I learn something everytime i watch a TG video. Im learning how to improve and be better. God bless all of us 😊😇
I'm know apart of the blessed tribe!!! Every women need to join! This is certainly your calling Tony! Keep listening to the holy spirit and letting him guide you no matter the opposition or nay sayers!!! They judged christ too but his purpose was more important than his reputation!!! Being the outlier means favor with God!!! God bless yall
PREACH TONY!!!
YOUR WISDOM!!
THANK YOU!!
You are my little big brother.
(I'M 49)😁
Be Blessed I Made It.
Be Blessed, I made it.
Hey Blessed Tribe !!
👋🏼 hey luv
Hello to you! Stay blessed
Be blessed, I made it! I'm not going to receive anything less than what I deserve! I deserve greatness, in Jesus name.
You are a blessing to us, the Gaskins. We love you for positively impacting our lives and bringing out the best version in us. Many blessings always.
When You Know Better, You Do Better.
This video is so on time though!
This is soo good. The influence of a Godly woman is truth. This is was a beautiful message. Be blessed, I made it.
I made it! This was really good! Because I am an influential woman, I had to get your book!!!Blessings ✌🏽
🎉Mrs Gaskins ty great boundry work, i have far to come. Sacrificial love of a man 😊
Tony...you preached today nye! I made it to the end. This is a message I will listen to over and over. Thank you for letting God help us to a different level through you. Faith comes by hearing. I'm built to help him!
This might be the best one yet... wow. So real.. thank you
Tony most of us honestly dont or didn't have expectation/standards because most grown boys are consistently inconsistent....
be blessed i made it! you speak life into me sir, i appreciate you