Everything Must Be Gendered
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- Опубликовано: 27 июл 2021
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Why must everything be gendered? So much gendering, all the gendering. You can feel the will leaving my body the more you watch the video. 
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My lil bro was talking about a cuddly toy that I've had for years, and I asked "what's the toy's gender?", since it was never established. He decided that the toy was non-binary, and used they/them pronouns. I agreed wholeheartedly. And when he's talking about the toy, he'll CORRECT HIMSELF if he gets it wrong.
Seriously. If a child can use the pronouns of a stuffed animal correctly, then I honestly see no excuse for getting trans people's pronouns wrong.
Edit: Woah, thank you so much for the likes! My brother is delighted :)
THATS ADORABLE
There wasn't an excuse in the first place honestly. People correct themselves when misgendering animals, but can't give the same respect for other _humans._ It's really sad on their part. Children are pretty awesome.
Not just that, he was considerate of that toys gender despite it not being a person. It’s not a complicated concept to grasp
@@immaperson321 humans are not more deserving of respect even if you seem to feel that way. Killing a fly is killing an equal
Wholesome moment
As a mom of both a boy and a girl… a noise with dirt on it describes all children, not just boys.
From my own experience children are chaos with glitter on it
That's adorable
@@kaylawoodbury2308 the glitter is worse than dirt! The glitter never goes away lol we haven’t used glitter in years yet all of us end up with at least one piece on us every day
@@probably_notbob5794 My sisters used glitter in a project 4 or so years ago. Everywhere has been repeatedly vacuumed, swept, etc. Yet everyday we end up with some form of sparkle on us whether is it sequins, glitter, or these little sparkly stick on jewels😂
@@beth9880 lol sounds about right!
Once I was walking my service do who often wears bows and a lady stopped and said "What a pretty girl." When my dog hiked his leg to pee on a tree, she literally gasped and said "Oh my God, that's a boy dog. Why does he have a bow?"
I just looked her in the eyes and said plainly
"Anyone can have a bow and a penis." To this day I still giggle when I remember her facial expression.
“Anyone can have a bow and a penis” would look good on a t-shirt!
I would wear that and use that line
😂😂😂 I'm cackling at this image
And then there's my family's dog who has "female" bits and hikes her leg to pee anyway.
@@Rachel-fi4sc maybe she's trans?
My nephew loved snow white as a child. But my sister’s (now ex) husband refused to get him a “girl” toy.
So I not only got him a snow white for his birthday, I got him a “Barbie doll” style one. My nephew LOVED it. And since politeness meant his dad could not take away a gift a family member gave him, the dad was stuck with his son carrying a doll everywhere. 😜
I love you extra for this.
Sadly the 'girl' toy my nephew wanted, that his father refused point blank to get him for gendered reasons, about 15 years ago was a little out of my price range for gifts - An Easy Bake Oven. The really daft thing about that, though? My nephew's father did the majority of the cooking in that household. There's no reason why he should be associated an oven as a 'girls toy' when the reason the kid probably wanted one is because he saw his dad cooking a lot.
@Rya Fitz ☀️ When I was in kindergarten there was this one boy where the sole reason I talked to him at first was because we both had purple as our favorite colour
YES, my mom buys my brother baby dolls and ignores what people say because she says they will make him a good parent ^__^ it's adorable seeing him carry around a baby doll.
My little brother adores all of the pretty doll toys but he is mocked at by his father. His father is my uncle so he doesn't live in the same room as me but it's kinda funny when he is being bratty and annoying for whatever reason lol
I doubt he would be allowed to have nail polish, he even asked once i believe but he was denied.
"Could glitter not be dirt?"
No, it is a self replicating parasite that can never be eradicated once it has touched something. There is a finite amount of dirt, there is an infinite amount of glitter.
that is the best definition of glitter i have ever seen
Hahahaha- quite true, quite true.
Glitter is self-reproducing and cannot be eradicated once and there are an infinite amount of them.
Wait a minute, somewhere I know that...
Oh no, glitter are mini fargo robots. the biosphere and we are all in danger.😱
My friend group calls glitter 'craft-herpes'. It gets everywhere and you can't really get rid of it, just manage the mess. Just when you thought you got rid of it all, there's another flare-up.
True
I would put a tiny bow on a big dog regardless of gender hehe
Memento Mori my friend
same 😌🌈
Same
So would I. If I didn't think my dog would try to eat the silly thing! 😂
same and I'd choose gold cause that's a very good dog
"this kid wanted these flowers specifically because he likes their color, how about we repaint them? actually let's repaint his entire room." good logic chief, i'm sure he'll still want them after you change the color and cover his room in a color he couldn't care less about LUL
It might just be me, but I read the aunt/uncle reply as a little bit sarcastic and trying to highlight how silly it was to have "for girls" written in the description. Maybe I'm just optimistic...
@@lisachampagne7668 It's not just you. I think the reply was just pure sarcasm.
@@lisachampagne7668 yeah i thought so too! it's so over the top, feels very sarcastic.
I wonder if the aunt/uncle is trolling them? "i'd be willing to paint everything blue" sounds sarcastic?
@@lisachampagne7668 I also read it this way, I'm almost positive that was the intention lol
My son has regular rants about things being pointlessly gendered. He's 7. And he's tired of people calling him a girl just because he has long hair.
fun fact: pink actually used to be considered a “boy” color. it was seen as bold and strong as a man “should” be.
blue was seen a “girl” color. it was seen as a more soft color as a woman “should” be.
be you, alright? don’t let people tell you what you can and can’t be. you are whatever you want to be :)
love ya🤍🦋
In third grade, I hated pink and purple and loved blue. Said pink and purple were "too girly"
Still cis lol
I'd love to, I'm just afraid of being ostracized for it.
@@anitanielsen1061 ah yes oink is indeed very girly.
@@teenkitsune aw i’m sorry to hear that, i’m not going to force you to do anything! but whenever you’re ready, i’ll be hear rooting for you☺️✨!!
@@adelaidemckenzie4047 whoops, butt-dial, I fixed it now
*laughs in non binary cuz that means I don’t have to do maths*
*laughs in nonbinary because I was the smartest kid in my math class and everyone knew it*
*laughs along with you*
This is why I nearly failed all my math classes
Depending on the type of non-binary you are, you might have to do two maths :O
Nonbinary laughs of 'only reason I took Ap Calculus was spite'
"Any man who takes their shirt off like this- "
Bruh have you never seen any film ever? That's how all the hot dudes do it, cause you see abs first lmao
Apparently it's due to how the shirts are shaped/cut/made.
@@sdtwirix1126 hair length, too. Evidently with longer hair, the crisscross is easier, and with shorter hair, the collar is easier
Er, how ELSE are you supposed to take your top off? Unless it's an actual SHIRT that you unbutton.
... I've literally never done it any other way
@@diarmuidkuhle8181 I pull my arms out of the sleeves first, then reach up and grab the collar and pull it off. I feel like if you just start pulling from the bottom you're going to turn it inside out, and that's just making extra work for yourself.
As a mum of boys and girls all of whom get "dirty" and "glittery" and all they know is "noise" I can honestly say I prefere the dirt at least i can get rid of that .... GLITTER IS FOREVER lol xxx
IKR?!? I SWEAR small children exude/manifest glitter. It never leaves lol.
As a kindergarten teacher, I agree. Loose glitter is banned in my class, full stop. 😂😂
So plzed I'm not alone ... glitter is a supervised experience here because I craft and so does my mum so we can't avoid glitter lol
The only glitter that isn’t forever (because it’s literally plastic) is the biodegradable stuff that still sticks around for months.
Puppy! With a pink doe!
🐶
a pink doe on a big bog
Oh hello onetopic!!
One Christmas my mom got teeth whitening kits for everyone in the family: blue for the boys and pink for the girls. My brother looked at his and said he didn't know if he would use it because his was peppermint flavored and he didn't like peppermint and I looked at my pink one and said "well mine is bubblegum, want to trade?" and my mom was like "ohhh I didn't know there was any difference between the colors, I just thought it was for boys and girls" like ???
Teeth whitening kits?! For a Christmas present?!
well your brother didn't get mint. and that's a happy ending cause you traded. you both got what you wanted.
@@teasugarsalt sounds like a standard stocking stuffer in my home lmfao my mother in law gives us razors, fancy deodorant, socks, kitchen utensils…
Those kits can be like $70 a piece and who's Christmas statement is "my family's teeth are insufficiently white"?!
well ok
If I was a little boy & had a sign in my childhood bedroom that said "a noise with dirt on it".. well I think I'd just feel bad about myself LOL.
Yeah - I could imagine someone from the "traditional" side of our family giving us something like that when my son was born. And if they had I would have burned it and dissolved the ashes in acid.
“go ahead, drink the gendered water”
me, an enby: **chugs both bottles simultaneously**
You get all the water
That’s a power play and I support it
*Cooks the water to serve some LGBTea*
me: drinks the gay tap water
NO!!!!!
enbies are WAAAY OP
Nerf! NERF!
Not everything has to be gendered, and yet I give inanimate objects names. Like I named a chair Chairica
when i was itty bitty i did this with cars lmao- we had a toyota car that i named bella. i don’t know why
Well, enby objects need names too, right?
Well, in most languages everything needs a grammatical gender
As a kid I got a pink dog plush and guess what? I named HIM Francis. A PINK dog. World is in shambles as we speak /j Also, I named my favourite towel to cuddle Violet :) (because it was purple...I wasn't a very creative child lol)
@Nutella 71 I had a polar bear stuffy named "snowbear", I never gendered snowbear, snowbear was just snowbear. Gottem at 3 still haven'em at 29
alternatives for the bag one:
if youre gender-fluid you take both bags
if youre nonbinary you bring your own colored bag from home
and if youre a demi girl or boy you cut off the bottom of the bag
HAGHAHYYHAYAY
If you don't know more than not 100% boy nor girl?
haha i take both😎
I’m agender. I don’t really want a bag. Thanks anyway. 😁
My boyflux ass is so confused on how this would work for me 😂
Can we change the strerotype that girls have long lashes? Literally every boy i know has prettier and longer lashes
Right?!
Most of my guy friends have beautiful thick and long eyelashes.
I KNOW RIGHT???? My false lashes are jealous of my guy friends' natural lashes tbh, and I can't blame the lashes coz so am I.
I'm glad everyone agrees
Ikr 😔✨
The problems of brow brushes are that they add pigment and seemingly length but they also thin them out if they’re too long or brittle. A blond guy I know has the _longest_ eyelashes that only are visible in the right lighting because they’re blond.
I feel lucky that my mom never cared about me liking stereotypical “boy” toys. She just went along and let me get my TMNT and DC toys. She also didn’t object when I cut my hair and refused to wear dresses (dresses me me feel sick to the stomach).
But then she said that she’ll never accept me if I turned out trans or lesbian. I’m just a tomboy, but I am bisexual, and now I live in constant fear that she’s gonna crack the code to my diary and read it like she did with my last one, except this new diary has my sexuality written in it so it’s much more precious.
I need some laughs today. Gendered things make no sense to me. It feels weird to require permission to like something based on something that's a social construct.
everything gender makes no sense to me
The computer one really shows that the man making that comment doesn’t know much about computers otherwise he’d know the first computer algorithm was literally made by a woman
As was the first computer game.
And once they became commercial products most users were women, as they knew how to type.
Even worse for the TERFy normies, a trans woman turned electronic music mainstream while another holds the patent on the first CPU design.
Computers is one of my hobbies and I never knew that
I remember going to supermarket once and a little boy was looking at the pink Lego "Aimed for girls" and the mum turned round and said 'stop looking at that Lego it's for girls, the Lego for boys is blue' 🤦🏼♀️
the only man I've ever known that said the word "splendid" was my grandad, and he was potentially the most traditionally manly man I have ever met in my life
"Everything must be gendered"
*screams in doesn't know what my gender is*
Same here
Same
I'm in this comment and I don't like it
Same
Same :,D
When you buy earrings at Shein, “male” earrings come as single and “female” ones come in pairs, both cases cost the same, lol.
I should be mad at this, because it is just stupid cashgrabbing from their perspective. But from the outside perspective: some, if not a lot of, men will probably buy the "women" earrings because they don't accept getting less for their money and those are the little things that will eventually normalise men buying "feminine" things. It's probably not the right way. But at least it's a way
What a ripoff. Most guys who get pierced these days get both ears done.
First time that I've seen gendered products be more expensive for men, lol.
Companies are so weird.
@@JJapsen Everything you said!
Wow a rare occasion that males actually have to pay more for a beauty product.
Not defending this, though.
Pointlessly gendered products are one of me and my hubby's favorite topics when we go out! Like pointing out "blue instant cake mix for boys" and "pink instant cake mix for girls". Like...it's cake. Kids would eat cake if it was grey and colorless.
And thanks, Jamie! Discovering I'm trans has been SO MUCH EASIER with your channel! It seems less scary and way more...fun and normal. 😁😁❤❤
This reminds me of a failed social experiment from my media studies class a couple of years ago. I don’t remember what the subject was that day, but the lecturer started showing colours on screen and asking us what we related them with. When we got to blue everyone said things like “sad” and “the sky” and we got to a point where she said, kind of bewildered, “you all haven’t said what I was expecting yet”, so we said some more abstract stuff but he sort of shook his head and went to the next colour, which was pink and we all immediately got that he had expected us to say “boy” when he showed blue. Literally no one said that, and I didn’t even think it so bit of a fail on his part.
Isn’t it kind of weird that in our modern culture (modern, pink used to be seen as a boyish color) pink is almost exclusively associated with girls, while blue still has all sorts of other messages attached to it. Not only that, in gendered products boy stuff isn’t just blue, it’s pretty much any color besides pink and usually purple.
“A pink dow on their bog”
-Jammie 2021
reading this without having watched the video, all i can say is that i picture a dock painted dark pink with boxes of flowers sitting on it, near the edge of wetlands. why? who knows
This is hilarious to me because lots of people I know use the word bog to mean toilet😂😂😂
@@chaotic_lesbian for me it is funny cause bog is a danish word and means book. It is said very different from how Jamie said it though.
This is me trying to say anything- 💀
a pink doe pin on the bog witch’s hat yes
So, I'm a gal, but ngl, I am interested in those strength tested hair ties. I keep snapping mine.
Me to!
ok so on the subject of heavy duty things, they make kevlar shoelaces
Same, having thick, curly, unruly hair is truly a struggle.
yesss my hair is so thick and dense, I can't wear the same hairtie for a month without it snapping
@@Romanticoutlaw Same, that is why I try not to wrap the hair tie around my hair 3 times anymore, and that is also why I have so many hair ties. But I haven't used most of them yet because I keep reusing the same ones over and over again, like I had this one hair tie that I really liked and I would use it all the time, even after it snapped, and I wore it for about 9+ months before I threw it away because I was sick and tired of my hair getting caught in the elastic thing, and one time it got tangled in it so bad that I had to cut a small chunk of hair off.
I wholeheartedly believe that the reason women do not have pockets in their clothing is to get them to purchase handbags. Multiple handbags for multiple outfits and occasions. Just another way that the fashion industry capitalizes on gender.
Very good insight.
I (a woman) bought men’s body wash today because it smelled good. Men apparently aren’t allowed to smell like flowers otherwise why would there be gendered body wash? 🤷♀️
I also prefer shampoos for men because they smell fresher than the girl ones.
I've seen a post somewhere (can't actually remember where lol) that's like "Why do women get to smell like actual things like lavender, while men only smell like concepts like cool sports rush" talking about deodorant scents btw
God I can't get over the "men are handy" stereotype, have you ever met my dad? He tries, I swear he does, but recently he tried to grease up the hinges of the backdoor because it was making so much noise. The door ended up... making even more noise, after that. Somehow.
Sounds like something I would do :p
My Dad is the guy in the house that owns the power drill, but he is by no means handy. I would even go as far as to say we are of equal skill in that regard, so I can see your point.
That reminds me of my dad. He always insists on fixing everything himself, but something always goes wrong the first time he fixes something and my mom and I sometimes try to guess what will go wrong that time. It's often a lot quicker if my mom and I work together to fix something than to ask my dad, but he insists that since he's the man in the home, my dad needs to do it.
@@Alicia-zf3nq Oof, your dad may be going through something with that sentiment lol
😅
idk how that's even possible
I'm pretty sure that the last one has never actually met a girl, much less had a prolonged conversation with one. I do NOT want safety hazards near my computer or laptop, thank you very much. Also, why the frills? Why? The aesthetic in that picture is all skewed.
I can only imagine it heating the whole room since it's so insulated.. it's all fun and games 'til the computer doilies catch fire
Im a gamer lol
I came here to comment about the fire hazard, I'm a feminine person and I definitely don't want frills on my pc, I'm instead planning on giving my pc a custom rebuild in a pink case with white LEDs, not because I'm "girly" but because I like the colour pink and the rest of my pc setup except for the monitors is pink
I remember reading a children’s book when I was very young, basically goes
Girls are made of flowers and sweets, mixed with bright colours and all things nice.
Boys are made of worms and snails from the garden, dirty smells and grubby things.
I was like 4 or 5 and remember being upset cause I really did feel I was made out of dirt lol
When I was 4, I made my Mom switch the "That's what little boys/girls are made of" poem because I loved snails, dogs, and reptiles, so I wanted to be "snakes and snails and puppy dog tails." My brother got to be "sugar and spice and everything nice." 😁
As a girl who was obsessed with worms and creepy crawlies at that age, I'd have been offended too. It doesn't exist in my language though lol
Screams in agender because I can’t figure out where the middle of my minecraft build is because I don’t know any math.
i know it is daunting, but you will all get there. you may feel you’re not “progressing” like you should but honestly that’s not true. there’s no set timeline to follow; no set age you should do certain things okay? don’t tell yourself “i should have achieved this by now”, or “im falling behind in life” etc. all that does it tear you apart. you will all get there at your own pace. i promise you. just keep going and know you’re not alone, and never forget you are all very valid.
Thank you. I'm sure many people needed that
Thanks, I needed to hear that.
thanks cactus!!
I needed that today. Really feeling that early twenties "oh no I need to do everything now!" panic (even tho I know that's not true lol)
I heard someone the other day say that yogurt is a girly thing to eat 🤦
I'd like to see them tell that to Terry Crew's face lol
Bruh, what the actual fuc-
Ugh
Bruh moment
also wtf that's my name
What the fu-
The most common question I get about my 3 pound dog is "boy or girl?" I've started saying "they don't care either way"
facts
When I worked at McDonald's, we technically weren't supposed to say boy toy or girl toy but I swear to God some people were just too stupid to decide if their child wanted a doll or a car. They would say "Uh.... they're a boy/girl." Apparently McDonald's is the arbiter of what toy various genders can have. That was a lot of power to hand a freshman college student at their first job.
Yeah one time I got a happy meal and they asked bor or girl toy and everytime I chose the boy toy because I didn't like pink
@@alsokaitlin the boy toys are better tbh
@@Sunny00002 they are!
I hate stuff being gendered, especially when it comes to girl stuff. I walked around target once, and the only superhero shirts for girls were in pink. Like am I not allowed to wear something that isn't pink as a girl? I like pink but too much of it gets annoying
Especially that one that affects you but you don't really care about the kids who do not have the right to dolls, pink and soft clothes or any useful toy set. You do not live it so who cares
I hate the differences between men and women aisles at stores, like at Walmart. Half the women's clothes are shitty Facebook mom text on shirts or fake prints that come from some sorta outside culture (like shittily printed Aztec designs. If I wanted something with a design from an indigenous culture I'd actually shop at a place led by people of that culture). The men's sections have all the cool graphics from old videogames, superheros, retro-styled prints, and even some wacky abstract stuff. I even bought one of those abstract cool print shirts because it's SUPER FUCKIN COOL.
Another thing is that I saw autism prints (like, the sorta cheesy but still cool looking designs and prints that are uplifting to younger kids with autism and stuff), but they were ONLY IN THE MEN'S SECTION. As an afab person with autism, that who idea that only amab people have autism INFURIATES me, especially since I KNOW A LOT MORE AFAB FOLK WITH AUTISM THAN AMAB PEOPLE.
Seriously, gendering stuff is annoying as hell...
I know this really annoys me 🤣
Ikr, like i don't really like pink and most of the girls section is just pink and glitter.
Like H&M kids section here...went there to buy baby clothes for a family member and I was so confused. All girls' clothes were pink, rose, purple etc and all pictures on the shirts were Disney princesses or unicorn/fairy stuff. Literally nothing else. The boys' section on the other hand: cars, Marvel/DC stuff, Peanuts, Disney cartoons, dragons, dinosaurs and the best: wild animals. Like, cute foxes and hedgehogs etc. Why on Earth would that one especially be only for boys? Why even gender clothes for small kids at all
You know what’s kinda sad to me: yesterday me and my fam were out pottery painting, and my sister picked out a Mandelorian cup to paint. When she was done, she kept asking if it looked like a “boy painted it.” My parents kept saying, “no of course not.” But it just made me kinda sad that she had to ask that 😞
that is a weird question to ask, what difference would it even be? the only difference that would be truly apparent and reasonable to ask about is the level of skill and experience someone has in painting
@@lunacanyonrose8436 that’s the point. There is no difference. My parents are trying to teach her that it doesn’t matter if it was painted by a boy or a girl. Everyone can like he Mandelorian
I would have loved that mug I'm a big fan of star wars and I love all things mando related ( I own three different baby yodas/ Grogu ) the show is for every one .
@@kirstygunn9149 I know right? I just added a giant Baby Yoda pillow from costco. I think that's my 5th B.Y./Grogu 😂
when i was working at an art store a lady complained to me that there weren't any diamond art kits for boys because they were all of "girls animals". i asked "what about the alpacas?". she stood there thinking for a sec and decided to buy that. and that's how me and some random lady decided that alpacas are a boys animal.
"Drink the gender water." I believe you mean _gender fluid._
Fun fact, the reason JK Rowling didn't have her actual name (Joanne, she doesn't even have a middle name) on the book is because they thought boys and men wouldn't buy the book if they knew a woman had wrote it.
Rowling doesn't even have a middle name? *How many other lies have I been told by the council?*
Well jokes on her I won't buy her books because a transphobe wrote them
I always thought she was a boy when I was little because of that. I also always thought her name was pronounced R-owww-ling.
It's really double standards for her terf viewpoints. -.-
Her name is really 'JK' because she's a joke.
This has happened with a lot of female writers in history. Going the initials route or using a pseudonym has a lot of precedence.
@@pluto3194 I only get the legendary Overrated Harry Potters books because they still buss tho
I invite y'all (especially that dog with the bow) to the gender-optional beach.
I’LL BRING SNACKS!!!!!!!
Also dog treats for the bow dog!!!
*sits*
-throws myself into the sea-
@Rya Fitz can I eat one?
when i was little i had a husky stuffed animal and for a long time it was always a girl but one day i was like actually never mind it’s a boy now and ever since then, he’s been a boy, i was like 6 and i didn’t even know being trans was a thing, to this day i still think that’s the cutest thing
lol I did this with my stuffed animals too. mostly because I would forget what gender I assigned them in the first place.
At 3:27 I'm guessing it's what's IN the bags that's gendered, not the bags themselves? I think it says "grab bags" behind the sign so it was probably toys or party favors or something. Which still doesn't need to be gendered really.
Also don't worry, we definitely had those anti-piracy ads in the US too!
I just wanted to share because this community helped me come to terms with my sexuality. Me & my first ever partner (who is gender fluid) were confident enough to hold hands in public today! I’m so happy!!!
That's awesome! I'm so proud of you two
Yay!
How wonderful!! I'm glad and so proud of you two! =) Take care!
As a nonbinary person, this title made me nearly yell, "OH GOD YES, GOD THE STRUGGLE!"
/lh /gen
If I may be so bold, what are þose tone indicators you used?
@@alexbireta4668 light hearted and genuine, iirc.
@@alexbireta4668 /lh is "light-hearted" and /gen is "genuine".
@@alexbireta4668 if you'd like to learn about tone indicators to make your speech less confusing, here are some of them:
/lh- light-hearted
/gen- genuine
/j- joke
/hj- half joke
/srs- serious
/s- sarcasm/satire
/pos- positive
/neg- negative
I have never seen somebody use thorn in the comment section
2:31 Holy shit this unlocked a very deep memory. My mum used to buy these for me as a special treat, and I'd only ever use the dinosaur sprinkles cause I was (am) absolutely obsessed with dinosaurs. God they tasted good on a bowl of cookies and cream icecream
"I am significantly too hot." Hell yeah, me too, and you, reader, are too
the dog reminds me of the time a dude at the dog park got super angry and upset at his (male) dog because it wasn't lifting its leg to pee like male dogs are apparently supposed to do. How, whyyyy, that level of insecurity and toxicity is just unfathomable to me 😂😬
Fun fact: "You wouldn't steal a car" adverts were also a thing in Canada. Truly the anti-gay agenda is everywhere. ✨
And in the US!
Australian here and they were everywhere growing up
That was huge in the US omg
@The Ancient Avocado believe it or not you’re the third person to say this to me, and thank you! It is hands down the highest compliment I have ever received to even be mentioned in the same sentence as that goddess 😅
I'm in the US and never saw that. I did look it up and don't see how it's anti gay or trans, though.
I love how skin care products are now available for men while being 3 times more expensive than the "normal" ones and the variety is also quite narrow compared to the "normal" stuff.
Finally not just the "pink stuff" that is more expensive.
The shirt removal thing actually depends on the cut of the shirt. Tight shirts get double hand over hand, back of neck is loose shirts. Yes, these tend to be gendered, but not always. 🤷♀️ There is a difference though. But do whatever you want, no one should be the shirt removal police
Hi Jamie, I’m a trans guy, and your videos make me really happy. You give me hope for the future that one day I can move out of my parents’ house and finally be myself.
Good luck :)
You'll get there someday my friend. We'll get there together. You and I, and our trans/nonbinary siblings. One day, one step at a time.
You’ll get there, be pacient and one day you will be around supportive, accepting people. Stay strong!
You're gonna be okay.
I wish you the best of luck my guy you can brave through it
How they gonna blame girls for roads when the roads need to be kept up by the government?????
I mean by that guy’s logic shouldn’t the stores keep the roads up if they want any gender of people to come shopping at their establishment?
They weren't blaming the roads on women, he was saying we need to fix the roads for the womenfolk. It was a weird argument.
No matter how you look at it, that was one of the weirdest infrastructure statements I ever heard.
@@elaexplorer Yes, because men don't drive to work?
There are like, 50 other ways in which what he said makes no sense XD
the water one.. I literally jokingly said earlier today "These ppl really gotta gender everything. What's next? Water?"
Jamie! I'm getting a binder soon and I'm really happy. I'm non binary (They/Him) and I was really nervous to ask for one. When my mum said yes I actually cried ^^"
Yay! I’m so excited for you! Good luck on your transition much love
Congrats!! I'm proud of you for asking! Good luck!
"can we please make pockets equal and make it so dresses and skirts also have pockets"
Pretty sure Yelena Belova would approve of this lmao
those "you wouldn't steal a car" ads were definitely not UK exclusive btw, they were all over the place in the USA
Australia, too.
I'm sure they were equally ignored in all places.
And the older I got, the less I cared about them.
Funny thing is if I was dared and I knew how to drive I probably would steal a car
I think I remember it being on my Spy Kids VHS along with at least a few others.
"a giggle with glitter" "a noise with dirt on it"
these people want to make sure that their children turn out that way just so that they then can complain about it
the genius is mind blowing
Even tho I’m a cis girl: I’d be a noise with glitter on it. Talkative and crafty. Mud can be washed away, glitter not so much
I agree. I am kinda pretty but also loud
As someone who works in retail, glitter is absolutely dirt
Im sorry, but it has just hit me today how much Jamie looks like young dad James Potter. Oh my god. (Not the one in the movies, more like headcanon James Potter)
Great Video! :)
Sweet Circe i see it 😂
Oh WOW
He really does!
OMG YES
I was raised in an opposite way. Since a kid, whenever I wanted dolls or dresses, my father would tell me “no, those are for little girls.”, however when I go for the ‘boy toys’ section he would be so happy.
Tbh, I have always been confused about my gender and not sure if I was supposed to be this way...
5:41 it must be specifically from the Glitére region of France to be glitter, otherwise it's just sparkling dirt.
The product:
Boys sprinkles
Pretty sprinkles
Me, a genderfluid: mom can I buy both?
Reject boy, become p r e t t y
@@cinder6775 so true
5:50 I am non-binary and therefore a continious scream with chip crumbs on it
Nice. I’m agender. I’m absolutely silent and able to repel debris of any kind. lol 😁
6:14 That comment on the "flowers for a girls room" was definitely sarcastic
But Jamie whooshed it adorably
book: real men don’t say splendid
my dad, who says splendid all the time when he’s on the phone with his mum:
the gendered brown and white bags reminds me of when I was buying a new bed frame for my kid and the shop assistant told me that the grey frame was for boys and the white was for girls.
All I asked for was the price and if it could be delivered.
I do support bows & flowers on dogs 😃. Regardless of gender, I have a huge subwoofer rottweiler and everyone would step out of our way🙁. Bow & flowers attract smiles and hugs for the pupper, who loves it 🥰
I love the contrast of a pink bow on my dog.
Rotties are so adorable I love them so much
Just started watching and the pink bow on the dog reminded me that every year the Australian Dog Registration Board produces the dog regsitration tags in a different colour. About 15 or so years ago, they produced pink ones and owners who had male dogs went berserk! The Board quickly had to produce a different colour because apparently colour-blind dogs actually give a toss! Our male dog would have worn it with pride but they changed the colour before I got around to paying xxx
I used to have 2 Labrador retrievers. One had blonde fur, and the other had black fur. Everyone always assumed the blonde one was a girl, and the other a guy. It was the other way around. My black lab is named Sophie! We still have her, but we don’t have the blond one, Bentley, anymore. So yeah just weird how everyone assumed Sophie was a boy, and they still do haha
I have a male pomeranian, and a female black shepherd mix. I definitely relate to this
I have this with my service dog. She is a girl but everyone assumes she is a boy because she is a working dog. Some even insisted that she can't be a service dog/is a fake service dog because she's a girl. Blows my mind that the woman's can't do jobs stereotype is still around and gets applied on a flippin dog. Just let her do her job in peace.
5:51
Non-binary (n.)
A yawn because we’re tired of life at this point
i work with kids, and the earring thing reminded me of a really cute moment.
i was showing an 8 yo boy a pic of my earring collection (he asked about collecting things) and he was so amazed by it. he asked me if boys can wear earrings too.
it’s sad for me to think that he thinks that there are things he can’t do just because he’s a boy but i’m glad he asks so i could educate him and tell him that if he wants to wear earrings with gummy bears on them he definitely can :)
My mum point-blank refused to teach me to _crochet_ when I was in primary school, but she happily taught my older sister instead.
She literally said to me: _Boys can't crochet._
I cleverly tried to circumvent her ban by secretly asking my older sister to teach me. But that beatch just lorded her new skill over me and refused to teach me. 😡
However, my _wife_ happily taught me to crochet, and I love the hobby now. And she doesn't think I'm any less 'manly' because I crochet! 🤣
Fun fact: I have a trans doll named Thomas, and a transphobe helped him transition.
My aunt and uncle (who don't support LGBT) used to give me an American girl doll for Christmas every year. One year, I decided I wanted a boy doll. Since the company didn't make boy dolls, they bought a customized 'girl' doll with masculine-looking clothing. Then they cut his hair short and clipped his eyelashes shorter. I was very happy with the boy doll. Later, I found out that he used to be a 'girl' doll. At first, I was a little upset that he wasn't a 'real' boy (I didn't know anything about trans folks back then), but I quickly got used to the idea. He was a real boy to me and it didn't matter to me anymore how he was made. Now as an adult, I know more about trans people and think it's cool that my doll is trans. I also find it funny that a transphobic couple helped him transition. I'm thinking of maybe knitting Thomas a scarf in the trans colors.
A few years ago, American Girl Doll released their 'first boy doll', Logan. I thought that was fun, but Logan wasn't the first, because Thomas was first :)
After watching your content for like.. what 4 years now?
I have FINALLY come to terms with my gender, I hated myself so much, I felt disgusted with myself and all I wanted was to be 'normal'
But you've shown me that it's okay to be who I am, and thanks to that I've made some amazing friends, and come so far!
Thank you for giving me the courage to be myself
(From a gender fluid, bisexual)
The stripy sock literally looks like how I feel attempting performative femininity 😂😂😂
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6:36 I really hope that this kid told his parents that he wanted the flowers, and they bought them for him and had a talk with the aunt/uncle.
6:30 This breaks my heart. A kid should be allowed to have whatever they want in their room. It's THEIR living space, not their parents'.
5:21 actually shows a gay sock puppet couple where one enjoys wearing much more flamboyant clothing
Hey, idk, I’m rlly happy I wanna share this hehe. A few days ago I went to met an online friend and her brother thinks I’m a boy (He saw me from like 10 meters away) and her mother thinks I’m a girl. (She was next to her brother) and they are “fighting” abt that. I’m agender ksksks
😂😂😂
Them: Which are you?
You: No.
@@yourfavbtxh7398 accurate✨ 😂
"Why categorize brown and white as being gendered" ok but my school colours are brown and white and when students graduate, the boys get a brown cap and gown, the girls get a white cap and gown, and the nonbinaries (at least a nonbinary friend of mine did) can mix and match
A couple of years ago I went to a jewellery shop because I needed to get a present for my mom, and also get new earrings for a weddings I was going to. I chose a set for my mom and a nice pair of earrings for myself. When it was time to ask the lady for them, she pointed to the pair I chose for myself and said "oh, are you getting these fora boyfriend?" And I responded "no, they are for myself" and explained to her that I needed them for a wedding, and she looked horrified and said "b-but these are for men! Let me show you a pair for women" and I don't even know what look I gave her, because she said "oh... uh... nevermind"
Man, OneTopic AND Jammi post on the SAME day?? I am truly blessed
noah had just mentioned the “you wouldn’t steal a car” commercial in one of his recent videos😂
Pockets!! Yes please, I need pockets in my trousers and skirts!! Everyone has a right to have good pockets
So when I was in grade two, my class made a cat in the hat craft where you would cut out a print of the red and white striped hat and color it and glue it on a print of your head. The girls had to do glitter on the red parts of the hat, while boys had to just color in crayon. I asked my teacher why I couldn’t put glitter on my hat. She said that I don’t need to. And I told my parents and they were like “that’s stupid! Glitter is pretty”
So yeah that’s my pointlessly gendered story
I have spent the past few days arguing with transphobes, I am here for some positivity
That sounds rough. Here are some positivity to you ❤️
I don't get transphobes. They're all just like "tHeRe aRe OnLy 2 gEnDeRs, If YoU hAvE a StIcK yOu'R a GuY aNd If YoU dOnT yOu'Re a GoRlL"
@@notinsideyourwalls these people would prefer people kill themselves before they get the chance to make anyone uncomfortable. It’s impossible to mind your own damn business I guess
Many of us come here, for that.
When I was little I genuinely thought Yorkie bars were poisonous to girls so never ate them.
I was older when the ad campaign came out, I ate them as an act of defiance and "sticking it to the patriarchy" lol.
@@hawkeyescoffee6399 I LOVE that
The Yorkie bars in UK army ration packs have "Not for civvies!" printed on them. So if you're female and want to eat Yorkies, join the army (!)
@@grumpyoldman3458 no way! That’s so interesting
@@hawkeyescoffee6399 I did the same exact thing as a kid and thought I was so rebelious doing it. Lol 🤣🤣
When I was little some kid said I wasn’t allowed to like brown and green (my fav colours) because I was a girl, and I was only allowed to like pink. For years, pink was my least favourite colour out of pure spite. Also I hated “girly” things and would always get “boy” toys. Btw I am a cis girl. I just didn’t like the things society shoved down my throat.
I was always a very girly girl (and still am) but never liked pink. Pink is still one of my least favorite colors.
this reminds me of when my grandma took me to pick out a car seat when i was 5, and there was one with flames on it, (that i thought looked cool at the time) and there were pink ones with zebra stripes, and i asked for the flames one and she said "no, that's for boy's car seats" and i fought her on it for so long and i cried bc she yelled at me and said she'd pick for me if i didnt get a pink one. so, little five year old me was very very upset, and every time I got in the car i'd get a little bit sad. but what really made me mad was when my childhood friend at the time, (who is a boy) had the exact same flames car seat i saw at the store, and he told me that it wasnt really that cool, and it was just like the other car seat. and that made me feel a bit better.
lots of sea captains call their boats “she” if i remember that correctly
it's a thing with most vehicles for some reason, don't really get it
@@dotjpeg-bng me neither, it’s like *for what? 😀*
I think it’s actually because back in the day, sailors related this to the idea of a strong female figure (such as a mother or a goddess) guiding and protecting the ship and crew. It’s pretty interesting :D
@@Lukas-np1kt oh! thanks for sharing :D
@@Lukas-np1kt I thought it was because these men loved their ship just like they loved women.
Coca cola zero was originally ment for “tough manly” men and the coca cola light for women. I still don’t get it years later what is manly about the zero coca cola?
the can is black of course /s
Probably because "diet" is a word for girls. Only girls diet, don't you know? 😉
Pepsi max likely started the same way, come to think of it...
It honestly makes zero sense tbh
I looked to see if anybody said, "Don't worry your pretty little head about it", and I don't have the nerve either. Good post, Elyne.
I'm Italian, and when in elementary school our teacher was teaching girls and boys to idk be quiet, she said to the girls to learn: "please boys, be quiet, stop that noise!" while being all composed, while the boys had to say loudly:"shut up girls! Stop that noise!" while standing up? I'm still extremely pissed off to this days.
I love how these are exactly all the things that conflicted me as a child. Glad to know so many people are against them too. Also as a person who never identified as either male or female and instead a little bit of both is nice to know there are other people out there like it.