How to STOP CARING what others think, letting go of their judgement & becoming confident.
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
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Thank you so much, pretty lady. I've been down ever since my family didnt support me for my dreams and you boosting my confidence. Ily mother i hope nothing but well for you❤❤ may Allah protect you aamiin❤❤
What is confidence:
Knowing about ur capabilities and sure about urself that you can do it without hesitation. All above not wanting ppls validation bcz ur strong enough frm within to know that you are best. You don't need other's opinion about that. weather they believe that or not, don't care cz u know but urself. let ppl say wtv they want bout u bcz u know what u r urself better than anyone else.LET PPL BARK. FEEL CONFIDENT ENOUGH TO DO WTV YOU FEEL LIKE DOING WITHOUT THE FEAR OF JUDGEMENT BCZ YOU DON'T HAVE TO FEAR OF BEING SEEN, DON'T LET ANYONE DESTROY UR CONFIDENCE BCZ YOU DEEP DOWN KNOW VERY MUCH ABOUT YOU, YOU DON'T NEED OUTSIDE VALIDATION
Thank you so much I really needed to hear this
love you, queen!! 🤍
Thank you
THAT'S LITERALLY A WAKE UP CALL FOR ME TYSM 😫🫶
I AUDIBLY SCREAMED OUT OF HAPPINESS LIFE IS SO GOOD WHEN YOU POST AND YOU LOOK GORGEOUS
Thank you my heart ♥️♥️♥️
@@Persephonesmindyou said your confidence is not because of others complement to you but it’s from your own but let’s add this too. You are awesome
@@Persephonesmind thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for being the lifesaver in my life.
“If you don’t know who you are inside, the world will tell you who you are and you will believe it.” This!!
That’s real!!!!!!
True
You are not their version of yourself.
1_ Accept the fact that you will be judged. 0:42
2_ your self worth is not attached to someones opinion or judgment about you . 1:22
3_ Don't let your confidence depend on other peoples opinion about you. 2:00
4_ you know who you are . No one needs to confirm it, and no one is able to destroy that. 3:26
5_ people only have the power over you that you allow them to have. 3:50
6_ stop ignoring your potential. You are here to embrace yourself. 5:47
7_ Transform their negative by imagining how every energy they lose by judging you is going to fill your cup positivity. 7:00
8_If you don't identify or agree with a judgment, if won't affect nor hurt you. 8:30
9_ We are all the villain in someones story. 9:59
10_ Some people project what they dislike about themselves onto others. 10:32
11_ whose thought is that? 11:26
12_You are not your thoughts .You are your soul experiencing your thoughts. 12:23
13_There's a thin line between hate and obsession. 13:15
Tysm! ❤
@@editsdharma108 welcome ❤
@@nxbxxha_1764(I’m a girl) and you’re not ugly baby you are so beautiful and gorgeous. (Judging by your profile picture 🩷) Don’t ever say stuff like that
Towards yourself. Even if you think you are ugly, if you keep saying that to yourself you would believe it. This actually worked for me and it’s to say your pretty/beautiful/gorgeous/worth it/cute etc in the mirror even if you don’t believe it at the time and you start to believe it after some time, it’s like your brain alters the way you think and stuff ifykwim. even when I think I look my worst I look in the mirror and still think I look beautiful like wow. On the other hand your gorgeous and it’s not an opinion it’s a fact 💗
@@nxbxxha_1764 you’re actually beautiful so idk what you’re talking about ….
That's perfect 🤍
I deeply hope that you understand that no one and nothing outside of you defines YOU. Embrace yourself fully and let go of any judgement that is sent to keep you down. I love you and I believe in you. 🤍
www.youtube.com/@Alinaviol
is the RUclips Channel of Alina that I mentioned in my video ♥️
Needed this. I'm working on self validation.
For example I would stop wearing a perfume I really like just because my mother said it's not a nice scent. I hate being like this!
I mean, we are different. She only likes flower perfumes so everything not flowers disgusts her. By the way, she never wanted me to be feminine, care free and happy so everytime something feels good to me, she said it's wrong!
And she's not the only one to do that so it's huge red flag when people around you just want you to never shine.🌅
Thank you for this powerful message 🌟
please recommend a book to deal with social situations like this...social intelligence
@@free_mind_writes I recommend: How to win friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie. This will help you a lot, it is a good book for you.❤
The problem is that I've been trying my whole life to be more yk friendly looking so with different people I behave a different way and it's gotten so bad I can't choose for my self I dont have a personal opinion most of the times( one because as i already said i cant think for myself or two because I would understand both sides) and I define my self worth by others and I know I should stop and defy my self worth from within but how can i even do that when i dont know myself
@@bozhanatoneva1973 It's the million dollar question
Earlier today I prayed to God to somehow teach me how to let go of people's judgements about me. I feel like He's answering me through this video ❤️
same !
Same !!
Very same for me.
Same here
I bought an outfit a week ago. It's a cute black skirt that exposes my belly. I wanted to wear it to my boyfriend's birthday, but his family dislikes me. I put on this outfit and started to cry in my boyfriend's arms. He told me how beautiful I am, but I only cared about my fear of looking unattractive and that everyone could see my belly. Then I watched this video that reminded me that I actually like my belly. I had only cried because I thought they wouldn't like it. After watching this video, I told my boyfriend that I would wear my cute black skirt and that I no longer cared about their opinion. I'm sending a little piece of my positive energy with this comment to thank you so much for opening my eyes.❤
You did it right! Everything would be okay, love your belly😊❤❤
This reminded me of something. In my religion, if someone talks bad about you they actually lose good deeds and those good deeds are given to you. Just shows you why you SHOULDNT care what they say. Theres a story about this ancient Arabian prince. Someone came to him and told him: This dude talks really bad about you. Then, he literally sent a plate full with delecious fruits and gave it to the guy. His people were shocked and they asked him why he did that. He replied: "Well, he gave me his good deeds that he worked hard for".
are you muslim?
You're a Muslim girl?
EVERYONE WAKE UPP. THE QUEEN HAS POSTED😭🫶🏻
EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS FACTS, PERIODT.
Last week i started posting my poems on my socials. At first i was scared but the most important thing is that i'm doing what i love. I know i will attract the people that like my content soon or late✨️
girl im crying, your passion makes my heart melt
I love you so much. Thank you for this reminder. I'm a teenager who can't do public speaking because of my fear of being perceived and seen, and it has affected me and my school performance quite a lot negatively. I have so much potential but I'm not using it because of my fear. Thank you so much Alessia for being like a big sister to me ❤️ You have no idea how much this video has helped me and your words. I'm getting better now thanks to you 💌 (these words of mine aren't even enough to express my gratitude to you)
Try your hardest to lay that fear to the side even temporarily when you are performing publicly. I know you are great at what you do because of how self-aware you are.
❤
@@tripleb1960 Thank you for this reply. ❤️ One thing that I also learned recently is that I need to live for myself, not for anything or anyone but myself, and this really helped me with my fear of being seen and perceived
I’m 24 but I look very young, I started my first job and I have to talk to a room of 50 teenagers sometimes. And 2 times, 17 yo girls where laughing about me, mocking me and made me feel like sh*t…. I cried so much at home they don’t realize how mean they are. I have to work on myself to not care anymore if it happen again and know my worth… But it hurts so much
Oh my we are on the same boat. I'm 19 and I give tuition to a few teens and kids but boy they are SO mean. Most of the times I ignore it but sometimes it just stings really bad at my weakest points, and just like u I cry at home afterwards. But nonetheless it teaches me a lot about myself and i continue to evolve into my better self.
You have changed my life. I know you would probably read a lot of these comments but fr you helped more then my psychologist who I’ve been with for years for this exact reason you should be so proud of yourself luv you always! I’m really happy I can present n calls and talk in class now!
My heart I am so proud of YOU 🥹♥️
Your self worth is defined just by yourself and not other's opinions. ❤
Thanks for one more lesson mother, just when we needed it. Love your intuition and our divine connection 🙏🏻💞
honestly thank you, i'm a more gentle & calm reserved person and i've always felt i needed to be more "outgoing" and extroverted. don't get me wrong, i love talking to people but i am just more calm and can appear uninterested. and for years i thought i needed to be more loud or funny. i cared so much for years and it made me hate who i was & create this fake personality. now though, i've learned to just embrace who i am.
The best piece of advice I have been given on public perception is "You may hide your potential, but people SEE who you truly are. And if they don't see, you can bend over backwards, but they won't notice, because they're not ABLE to see."
It's crazy how no one is talking about Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest. This book has secrets that could change everything, but people seem blind to it. Wake up and see for yourself!
they will jugde you
they will hate you
they will keep sending each others your stuff and laugh about you
they will dislike you
they will gossip at you
they will talk bad about you and your looks
but…
who cares ????
the description was cute. besides, could you perhaps talk about keeping your feminine energy (& yourself safe in general) in a toxic environment? i live with a narcissistic mother, & i cant move out any sooner. how do i protect my feminine energy (as well as mental health) from a woman who's completely in her masculine & has utterly destroyed feminine energy it seems. a lil request. i'd be super helpful if you mentioned it for even a few minutes in one of your future videos
Just a year ago, there was a group of people in my college who used to talk sh*t behind my back. They made a group just to spread rumors about me. One of the girl told rest of my classmate that not to share any notes to me. They used to make fun of me when I was studing in the class / library .How horrible you know? I have to face them each and everyday.
But I started focusing on myself. That's it. I know karma exists.
Imagine being that obsessed 😂 good on you sis, step into your power!!
@@slayfaee yeahh. Ikr ❤
AWW I'M SO FUCKING PROUD OF YOU BABE
Alessia sharing her knowledge with us is something i will never be not grateful for💗
6:40 wow, i've never thought about it like this! this is a fascinating and very helpful concept, people who talk about you actually lose their energy so it's their problem really. they are wasting their life and even sending you their life energy.
My literal angel! You uploaded this when i needed it the most. You have no idea how much love i have for you, thank you 🤍
well I am an artist and i was always afraid of sharing my art or my own stories and stuff because of "ppl opinion" y'know and when i started an ig acc they liked it and even complimented it but there was some aah negative comments even they harassed my art 😂😂😂
loving you is easy cause your beautiful 🤍 loving you is all i wanna do ✨
You sweet soul, I love you too 🤍
One someone says something about you that triggers you is the fact that u believe in inside of yourself. One someone says something about you that u have accepted within yourself that doesn't trigger you bcz you know about yourself. One someone says something about you that u know is not actually true because YK yourself is their opinion... I hope u understood the difference coz I was confused 💖
You have no idea how much I needed to watch this video today, thank you ❤❤
The silence around Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest is unbelievable. This book reveals powerful techniques, yet people remain unaware. Don't miss out - discover what everyone's ignoring!
Therapy✖
Alessia✔
What's your friend's RUclips channel?
Sadly I used to care about what other people thought of me until I found this video I found my self worth and love. And I honestly don't care if people don't like me I not always their type and that's fine. I really love myself and my happiness can't be find by anyone else but myself. So for my girlies who went through this similarity I'm so sorry and I'm proud of you don't give up and be unbothered cause you are a beautiful queen. God bless you😊❤🫂
I hope this message finds you well. I have been a big fan of your videos for a while now and I am constantly inspired by the content you create. I was hoping to reach out to you with an idea for a video that I believe could be of great value to your audience. HOW TO STOP BEING A PEOPLE PLEASER?
Please put the chanel's Alina here,i want whathing her
@alinaviol 🙏🏼🤍
@@Persephonesmind Thanks ☺️
Dear Alessia,
I hope this letter finds you well and thriving. I wanted to take a moment to express my gratitude for the incredible motivation and inspiration you provide to others, including myself.
Your words and actions have a unique way of encouraging and uplifting those around you. Your positive energy is truly infectious, and it has made a significant impact on my own journey. Whether it's through your motivational messages, achievements, or the way you navigate challenges, you serve as a beacon of inspiration.
Thank you for being a source of motivation and empowerment. Your resilience and determination are not only admirable but also a driving force for many. As I continue on my path, your influence continues to propel me forward.
Wishing you continued success and fulfillment in all your endeavors. Thank you for being a guiding light for so many.
With sincere appreciation,
(Gracèlyn)
What Comes after 7?? ATE QUEEN 🙏🏻🙏🏻🤪🤪
8 because you‘re my number 1 and I don’t want 2 4 get you
@@Persephonesmindomg queen ate and left no crumbs🤭🤭
Greattt apperciate u soo muchhh❤❤❤
thanks for the advice. as a teenager who lives in the modern world, i suffer a lot with online gossip, ppl post a lot of things abt me (the most r not true) EVEN VIDEOS!!
im tired of being insecure bc of this, im tired of being uncomfortable in my clothes bc what ppl say
im gonna stop caring abt these ppl bc their life is sooo empty that they need to talk about me to have smth !!!
i loved the video!!! thanks a lot 💘
yesss just what i needed! i love you so much Alessia 💝🎀
Girl you are glowingggg you look amazing. This video is so well timed because I was thinking about this yesterday 😭
"You are not your thoughts" that hit hard
Mother how? Please how? I NEEDED THIS TYPE OF VIDEO I NEEDED THIS OMG you really r a divine being.😭😭😭
🤍🤍🤍
the first thought when i saw this video was ... is she thewizardliz's sister 😂
Queen, you're kinda wonderful tho. It's such a weird experience - to live nowdays. You help me to stay calm and undamaged. I mean, the whole world broke apart and you helped me to overcome through it.. so thanks, stay as healthy, beautiful, mindful and brave as you are now! Love y'all, have a nice day♥︎
first omg
I am literally sad because I watched all of her videos and there aren't any left to watch hahahaha
I absolutely agree with everything you said! Thank you, Queen Alessia! ❤ And the best thing is - I have already started implementing this into my life ❤❤❤
4:55 I didn’t know you were German
ALESSIA OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH ❤ i really needed to hear this right now
I love you so so much and everything you have ! I'm having fun watching your videos please always take videos for us queen
I was just watching one of your videos. Missed buuuh♡😭
hey, persephone. I wanted to ask you that, earlier u mentioned that we should heal that inner trigger we get after we hear those hateful comments of people about us. you said that deep inside we might've believed in it ourselves. so plz tell us how to heal from that inner believe we had on the comment. how to not get triggered anymore and heal...
alessia. this is actually getting scary. this is EXACTLY relevant to what is happening in my life rn. thank you alessia ily🌟🌟💌💌
I love your videos
And we need more of it 😩❤
This video was helpful ❤
i LOVE your videos and seeing you get more and more comfortable in each one. the passion in this video invigorates me so much! now i want to go and get stuff donee
Thank you so much for posting this I really needed this kind of video💗💗💗
Why is it always that, whatever you post is always exactly what i need, THANK YOU MOTHER❤❤❤
MY FAVOURITE VIDEO SO FAR, THANK YOU, BEAUTIFUL QUEEN!
THANK YOU SO MUCH!! I really needed this and I’m so grateful for your advice, you taught me so much from all of your content! I’m so proud of you
"if someone doesn't want to like you, they will always find something that's wrong with you"(you can do anything to make them to luke you but they still hate you and judge you and gossip about you)
"The goal is not that they judge you, the goal is that it doesn't affect you"
Should they affect you?No
Should you care?No
You better know about ur own self worth, caring what others thinks about u proves that u define your self worth by other's opinions.Your CONFIDENCE should come from within not by other's compliments, u should not be dependent for that, but ur mind should be strong enough to know what you are.(positive self talks, you are what you think, affirmations,meditations,start acting like ur best version)u don't need others opinion to tell u what you are, you know it urself.
i was today very anxious because of the fear of judgement because I failed an exam and I thought everybody thinks that I am stupid😢 Thank you for this video ❤ It helps me a lot ❤
Hi queen!it seems that everytime I see you,you get even prettier!!
caring about what anyone else thinks about or says about you proves that you define your self worth by their opinion about you. your self worth is not defined by anyone or anything else outside of you but yourself.
don't let your confidence depend on other people's opinion about you.
my confidence came from within, and if your confidence is not coming from within, you will spend your entire life searching for someone else outside of you validating what you can't even validate about yourself
don't let anyone outside of you who doesn't even know you tell you about who or what you are.
you know who you are. no one needs to confirm it and no one is able to destroy that.
if you don't know what you are inside, the world will tell you and you will believe it.
you give these people the power they have. if u dont give them the power over your self worth, decisions, they are powerless. people only have the power over you that you allow them to have.
stop ignoring your potential.
if you don't identify or agree with a statement it won't affect nor hurt you. sometimes we subconsciously believe these things because our inner voice tells us this, and when we hear it from someone else we believe it.
if you believe you're not you're not good enough you're not pretty enough you're not smart enough and someone tells you these things of course they hurt you because they reflect your inner voice they reflect something that is within you that you don't want to integrate into yourself because you do not like that part of yourself. you need to heal and work on that part of yourself to build that confidence.
if someone says something abt you, it is their opinion about you. they don't even know who you truly are at the end of the day except you and Allah. so it doesn't mean that it's true.
we will be a villain in someone's story but if you know who you truly are it's not going to affect you.
most people are also projecting see we all have Shadow Parts about ourselves and the less we integrate this Shadow part into our conscious self the more we will try to fight it on the outside we don't accept that part of ourselves and whenever we see someone else representing this part that we deeply hate about ourselves this is where we fight it on the outside.
some thoughts are not yours, they are planted by others, doesn't mean it's true, and doesn't mean you should believe it.
if they are obsessed with you, they won't ignore you. when you don't liek a show you own't watch it. same with people. they like you enough or are obsessed with you to a point znd care so much they would spend their time and energy on you and your life.
JUST AT THE RIGHT TIME I NEEDED THIS SO BADLY, THANK YOUUU🌷💞
If you don't identify or agree with a judgem, it won't affect nor hurt you. Let's say name , if you don't identify urself with this name and someone tells u it's ugly, it shouldn't matter, don't care, or if someone tells u that ur ugly, you better know bout urself so don't care.Focus on perfectly knowing bout urself so that other energies don't hurt u because in er voice don't believe it. if that affect you then that's bcz the inner voice tells u the same.
This video is truly inspiring! I don’t usually share recommendations, but I have to tell you about the book women’s magic truths on borlest. It offers unique perspectives on wealth and self-care that you won’t find elsewhere. Wishing everyone all the best
Test: Wtv thought you hv in mind think about who sent this thought to me, whose thought is this,who planted this, society creates diff thoughts, ask urself if this thought even mine?and if not return to sender,you don't need to worry bout their thoughts, cz you know what u but negative thoughts built when ppl tells u smth and you believe it so u think about it and stress although like in childhood, we didn't believed it cz we didn't faced enough judgements but with time , you feel bad and bad cz you absord and believe other's opinions
It’s shocking how Women’s Magic Truths on Borlest isn’t being discussed. The book is full of life-changing insights, yet no one seems to notice. Time to break the trance and read it yourself!
We all are the villian in someone's story, u should better know who u r so it doesn't affect u like I'm ok by being not always the good guy,not always perfect, not always hero in some person's eyes
get to know what triggers you that gets the rxn oout of you, defensivemood, hurt you. Heal that part.like things like ur not worthy enough, not pretty, don't deserve attention, I deserve ignorance and stuff if you believe shit like this so when ppl tells u things like this treats like this your belief will trigger and get uncomfortable with urself so better know that and heal that work on that so tell urself and belief good things like you r valueable kind, precious, deserve everything,loving, beautiful,smart and if someone tells u other than that then that's their opinion of u
This video helped me so much thank you💞
Idk how to thank you, you changed my life tysm
I did hug a tree though as i had free will. You added me in the story' ( your secret society magazine) thankyou for recognition!
Early
Your videos are helping me so much. Thank you ❤️
Thank you smm Alessia for this video. i wuv watching your videos, I have learn so much from u thank you
3:30 REAL. and 2:18 !!! love u queen ur spitting straight FACTS
I love fashion and cute girly hairstyle and selfcare but im to ashame of doing this and for the first time a video describe clearly my problem. I fear people's opinion . And if im ugly with that ( even if im not i Will not believe my own self ) if my face looks weird , if , if , if .... I live in fear and i swear my eyes are tearing up , just because of shame and embarassment i dont act like myself ( i act like if i was the male of the situation even tho im not ) i force myself to be anti-love sometimes and it kills me inside . Even asking i can't. I want to be the girl i feel like i am and to stop being ashame of taking care of myself ... Those people know that i fear they're jugment when they look at me i feel insecure about my look
if you don't like someone, just ignore like the movie u don't like, the ppl that talk about u r obsessed let them bark and wtv.there is a thin line between hate an d obsession you should flattered for that
this is what enlightenment feels like, thank you alessia♥
You’re an enlightened being and your words make life worth living. So grateful💐
Yes. When people say woah you did a good job. I feel happy. But started that work , the whole progress by myself. I encouraged myself. I had fire within myself. That kept my passion alive. Others complement didn't boost my confidence. I know some people will judge me . And I know how to react
You are not your thoughts.You are your soul experiencing your thought and later on these thought become energy that radiate out of u and in most cases it isn't even my thought it was planted in my mind i mena all cases
What if they are right like I'm the smallest girl in my class and people are bullying me for it like, i already know I'm small..
Omg i really needed this!! I have been thinking about so much things nowadays as my boyfriend says i am a gold digger i am delusional this and you think you are better than others blah blah and i cant get it out of my head!! Thanks for this alessia❤
Thank you for sharing your voice darling, love you so much ♥️
When Alessia is in all black then it's a sign that you shouldn't ignore or you'll regret it!
How mother post everytime when I'm in my luteal phase and I needed it most😭😭
This video was really I was meant for to watch. Thanku soo muchh
Girl thank you so much. This is very helpful ❤❤