All I observed..if father is alcoholic ...then there are two types of sons found in that House hold.... 1-kid will end up becoming more alcoholic n violent than father.... 2-kid will never ever touch it..never befriend a person who drinks either...never gives in peer pressure...NEVERRR... Me nd my bro falls in second category...m happy inspiring people like bhuvan exist 👍
Me dusre me padta hu, but I have distanced myself from friends who were alcoholics because they gave me bad vibes which wasn't good for my mental health
My father belongs to second category as well. Touchwood. May more and more youth get influenced by this second category people and may we stop glorifying alcohol and its addiction via films/series/reels.
At the end of video bro couldn't even control his tears. Even I do the same when I get crying kinda feeling. Stretching my hands , looking away from the person and voice getting heavy and trying to smile.
No one can reach his mindset, Bhuvan the most powerful human in the room, i know how hospitalisation is when your parents are going through that phase, no relatives help you, it's only you, you have to manage everything job business hospital tiffin everything.
i cant even imagine the pain he had felt when he lost his parents , i can see the pain even while talking about that , but he said one thing right , "Jis gully jana nhi uske bareme sochke kya fyda"
Recently met a schoolmate talked for a while asked how's his family he casually said my father passed yesterday (his father was alcoholic used to trouble his mother a lot even though he loved his father but deep inside glad that he's gone)
Yeah aisa baap family ke liye kisi curse se kam nahi hota parents are also humans they can make mistakes problem tab aati jab hum unhe bhagwan bana dete hai forgetting they are just as humans as we all are can make mistakes it's important to talk to them politely about these problems
This is a common problem in many indian families. Alcoholic farher and chaos in home. Oftentimes parents themselves don't understand how they murder their own children's future because of their disgusting traumatizing behaviour. I appeal to younger generation to not fall for alcohol and violence. I see a lot of gen-z clubbing and partying and somehow making it sound like "fun" nd like they're "not" like their father and they're in "control" of their alcohol addiction. But i call that a BS. Once you pick on the alcohol, its always downhill from there.. all your party friends will move on but you'll be stuck in the same rut , being depressed and victim blaming others just like our fathers did.. so don't be like that, be different. Go to gym, hit those PRs, love yourself, do yoga, meditate, hang out with people who inspire you to be a better human and not the other way around.
Even i lost my father due to alcohol and its been two years still Cannot except the fact he's gone forever i was 16 when he passed and I'll be turning 19 this 15th aug it hurts a lot I can never be happy again every night I cry secretly cause I'm the only one living with my mom and if she see's me crying she'll break down I never get over my daddy's death i miss him every day I'll miss him till the day I die
Directly or indirectly when parents are involved in any kind of toxic things it can impact kids a lot . Not good for upbringing and the chain is also made like this mostly where I live (metro city) violence between husband wife is pretty common and their kids turns out to be more toxic , aggresive or opposite weak , anxious etc. I think on parenting there should be campaigns in india ho jaye to half of the youth will be more bright and intelligent.
Same with my father he was also alcoholic phir unhone wo achanak se bnd kr diya jisse unki body function Krna bnd kr di dhire dhire wo kisi aur cheez se addict ho gye then hum sabko chhod ke chale gye kisi ko kuch nhi milta yaar aise addiction se sirf zindagi bhar ka dukh milta h bas
Bhai g fatti hai aise story sun k, bhuvan is telling it we are listening to it because he is popular person, but its not just his story' look around in your surroundings this story is so common in many houses 😢
Ad har koi actors ad dete hai Ajay vimal as deta hai aur Akshay bhi deta hai none of you hold them accountable. You all just wanna blame and judge srk but you know what? everybody is responsible for their own actions you cant just criticize srk.damn haters.
So many programs out there that promise you'll quit drinking from one day to the next and feel great for the rest of your life. Listen, Steffon Barkload's Quit Drinking Forever takes a lighter, safer approach which you decide to go with at your own pace. Best shortcut I go’ogled that only took days to rewire my brain to continually experience mental peace.
Bhai jivan ki masti mein doobe the... Parents k covid ko seriously nahi liya.. Aur ab pata nahi kaun kaun sa sympathy wala dukhda ro rahe hain. Pure evils of 21st century.. Like evil politicians. Angel from body, Soul of a devil.
Koi bhi mard jaan booj ke shauk me nahi peeta jawani ki baat alag hai magar family aane ke baad jab responsibility aa jaati hai stress aa jaata hai wo ho jaata hai magar pata hai isko jayada worse kuan banata hai ghar ke log biwi bacche baar baar us insaan ko koske galat bolke jhada karke. Jisse chodna toh door woh or jayada or jaati hai hai because he is too stuck in that hole and wants to get out of it As a family if you can't understand your father or better half you failed him as a member there are exceptions but most of the cases jab mard ko wo pyaar or support family ke side se mil jaata hai na toh wo apne aap chuth jaati hai Isliye to all the ones out there if you have something like this in your family go and talk to him sit with him, spend time with hum before it's too late.
I agree with your point that stress causes addiction but not all people who have stress and responsibilities are addicts , they choose to be addicts. The biggest problem with addicts is that they themselves don't consider themselves as one and deny it causing trauma and harm to the entire family. Also another problem is Indians don't go to therapists and think " mental problems" as something dirty and secret . Only an addict can make themselves be free , nobody else. They are not the victims and themselves should want help from rehab if they want to better themselves.
All I observed..if father is alcoholic ...then there are two types of sons found in that House hold....
1-kid will end up becoming more alcoholic n violent than father....
2-kid will never ever touch it..never befriend a person who drinks either...never gives in peer pressure...NEVERRR...
Me nd my bro falls in second category...m happy inspiring people like bhuvan exist 👍
Psycology in hindi
agreed
I also fall in the second one
Me dusre me padta hu, but I have distanced myself from friends who were alcoholics because they gave me bad vibes which wasn't good for my mental health
My father belongs to second category as well. Touchwood. May more and more youth get influenced by this second category people and may we stop glorifying alcohol and its addiction via films/series/reels.
At the end of video bro couldn't even control his tears. Even I do the same when I get crying kinda feeling. Stretching my hands , looking away from the person and voice getting heavy and trying to smile.
True 💯
😢😢😢
No one can reach his mindset, Bhuvan the most powerful human in the room, i know how hospitalisation is when your parents are going through that phase, no relatives help you, it's only you, you have to manage everything job business hospital tiffin everything.
i cant even imagine the pain he had felt when he lost his parents , i can see the pain even while talking about that , but he said one thing right , "Jis gully jana nhi uske bareme sochke kya fyda"
Recently met a schoolmate talked for a while asked how's his family he casually said my father passed yesterday (his father was alcoholic used to trouble his mother a lot even though he loved his father but deep inside glad that he's gone)
The person who is not protective or being problematic for families, families doesn't even care about them even at the bed of death 💯
Yeah aisa baap family ke liye kisi curse se kam nahi hota parents are also humans they can make mistakes problem tab aati jab hum unhe bhagwan bana dete hai forgetting they are just as humans as we all are can make mistakes it's important to talk to them politely about these problems
Lesson for the elderly misusing alcohol dependency
This is a common problem in many indian families. Alcoholic farher and chaos in home. Oftentimes parents themselves don't understand how they murder their own children's future because of their disgusting traumatizing behaviour. I appeal to younger generation to not fall for alcohol and violence. I see a lot of gen-z clubbing and partying and somehow making it sound like "fun" nd like they're "not" like their father and they're in "control" of their alcohol addiction. But i call that a BS. Once you pick on the alcohol, its always downhill from there.. all your party friends will move on but you'll be stuck in the same rut , being depressed and victim blaming others just like our fathers did.. so don't be like that, be different. Go to gym, hit those PRs, love yourself, do yoga, meditate, hang out with people who inspire you to be a better human and not the other way around.
Your father also alcoholic 😕
As a gen Z, I hate this generation
Ok I'm crying 😭
So cry 😊
Could not have seen more real video in 2024
Sab kuch mil Jane ke bad bhi bhagvan kuch na kuch chin leta hai. I think this is life 🥺🙁
Life is a game of ups and downs those who accept this play this game of life easily while others struggle even to live
Yes
3:17 this made me tear up! 🥺
MEN ARE BRAVE...
Bhuvan is srk of youtube ❤❤❤
Bhuvan bham true fighter ❤❤❤
Even i lost my father due to alcohol and its been two years still Cannot except the fact he's gone forever i was 16 when he passed and I'll be turning 19 this 15th aug it hurts a lot I can never be happy again every night I cry secretly cause I'm the only one living with my mom and if she see's me crying she'll break down I never get over my daddy's death i miss him every day I'll miss him till the day I die
*accept hota hai woh gawtii
Directly or indirectly when parents are involved in any kind of toxic things it can impact kids a lot .
Not good for upbringing and the chain is also made like this mostly where I live (metro city) violence between husband wife is pretty common and their kids turns out to be more toxic , aggresive or opposite weak , anxious etc.
I think on parenting there should be campaigns in india ho jaye to half of the youth will be more bright and intelligent.
Same with my father he was also alcoholic phir unhone wo achanak se bnd kr diya jisse unki body function Krna bnd kr di dhire dhire wo kisi aur cheez se addict ho gye then hum sabko chhod ke chale gye kisi ko kuch nhi milta yaar aise addiction se sirf zindagi bhar ka dukh milta h bas
Sang hoon tere is a phenomenal song❤
You are a GEM bhuvan❤
Men
Just men
Bhuvan is the real alpha male
God bless you bhuvan,,, ❤❤
Bhuvan trying to control a lot.
Still some people ask him about their parents like in interview it hurts yar 😢🥺
Yes
@@saragaminggx yeah
My father used to smoke cigarettes from his childhood. And now he passed away at 60. The doctor said the reason is cigarette
bros acting like his therapist
hes far from a therapist, the host instead seems so uncomfortable for some reason
@@JanKuthost looks like a rich kid who haven't feltl 10 percent of buivan's pain
@@zipzap1906 well you dont know what the host has gone through, the host should have been a bit more empathetic
Same here bro😢
why can't we have some interviewer who actually ask some good question rather than talking like a 🤡
Soch te nahi h fida nahi h
💔😮💨
Bhai g fatti hai aise story sun k, bhuvan is telling it we are listening to it because he is popular person, but its not just his story' look around in your surroundings this story is so common in many houses 😢
BB needs no introduction.
Bablu ji toh alcoholic nikle😢
He is next shahrukh khan❤
Gujrat me daru??😊
Anyone in 2024/2025/2026? 😕
Alcohol destroy family. His father drink RS. SRK promote RS
Ad har koi actors ad dete hai Ajay vimal as deta hai aur Akshay bhi deta hai none of you hold them accountable. You all just wanna blame and judge srk but you know what? everybody is responsible for their own actions you cant just criticize srk.damn haters.
So many programs out there that promise you'll quit drinking from one day to the next and feel great for the rest of your life. Listen, Steffon Barkload's Quit Drinking Forever takes a lighter, safer approach which you decide to go with at your own pace. Best shortcut I go’ogled that only took days to rewire my brain to continually experience mental peace.
Bablu ji daaru pite hai?
Bhai jivan ki masti mein doobe the...
Parents k covid ko seriously nahi liya..
Aur ab pata nahi kaun kaun sa sympathy wala dukhda ro rahe hain.
Pure evils of 21st century..
Like evil politicians.
Angel from body,
Soul of a devil.
....
Koi bhi mard jaan booj ke shauk me nahi peeta jawani ki baat alag hai magar family aane ke baad jab responsibility aa jaati hai stress aa jaata hai wo ho jaata hai magar pata hai isko jayada worse kuan banata hai ghar ke log biwi bacche baar baar us insaan ko koske galat bolke jhada karke.
Jisse chodna toh door woh or jayada or jaati hai hai because he is too stuck in that hole and wants to get out of it
As a family if you can't understand your father or better half you failed him as a member there are exceptions but most of the cases jab mard ko wo pyaar or support family ke side se mil jaata hai na toh wo apne aap chuth jaati hai
Isliye to all the ones out there if you have something like this in your family go and talk to him sit with him, spend time with hum before it's too late.
I agree with your point that stress causes addiction but not all people who have stress and responsibilities are addicts , they choose to be addicts.
The biggest problem with addicts is that they themselves don't consider themselves as one and deny it causing trauma and harm to the entire family. Also another problem is Indians don't go to therapists and think " mental problems" as something dirty and secret .
Only an addict can make themselves be free , nobody else. They are not the victims and themselves should want help from rehab if they want to better themselves.
I have been in that situation it's too hard and it's come to me now and then
Bhuvan ram threshold breach kar gya hai