10 signs that the person you’re with no longer wants to be with you but won’t say it

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  • Опубликовано: 27 авг 2024

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  • @cookie-gb3xn
    @cookie-gb3xn 7 месяцев назад +43

    I DON'T WANT NOBODY WHO DON'T WANT ME PERIOD!!!

  • @karynmartin2141
    @karynmartin2141 6 месяцев назад +13

    I don't need closure. Your actions told me enough.

  • @dharmon8798
    @dharmon8798 8 месяцев назад +21

    When the first sign starts to show people, just leave. Don't waste your time and energy

  • @AngeLola1003
    @AngeLola1003 8 месяцев назад +127

    1) Ignore you
    2)Continue to cheat without remorse.
    3) Quit communication - only talk about things to their benefit
    4) Ghost you- leave and come back
    5) in addition to #4 revolving door with their emotions
    6) Disregard your feelings
    7) start belittling you.
    8) Stop spending quality time with you.
    9) physically and emotionally abuse you.
    10) Become Moody and annoyed with you.
    I've experienced all of the above in my last relationship. He's a 55 yr. Old man with child-like thinking. They always choose the weaker one.

    • @Jillian15
      @Jillian15 8 месяцев назад +3

      Thanks 😊

    • @AmericanDreamer
      @AmericanDreamer 8 месяцев назад +9

      these people come in all ages..

    • @lynahines7366
      @lynahines7366 8 месяцев назад +2

      I’ve experienced everything, but the belittling and the physical abuse for the last 2 yrs😢😢😢

    • @Hardworkdedication777
      @Hardworkdedication777 8 месяцев назад +4

      Everything you said💯🎯you are literally reading my mind. 🙏🏽

    • @VanessaLClark
      @VanessaLClark 8 месяцев назад +4

      SAD BUT TRUE...WHAT A SHAME‼️😐

  • @raykabre4928
    @raykabre4928 8 месяцев назад +75

    Once they show you....just go. Actions speak louder than words and you don't /won't get closure. That's the Narcissist way😊

    • @lynahines7366
      @lynahines7366 8 месяцев назад +3

      I totally agree! Going through this right now. 9 yrs down the drain. 2yrs being ignored and cheated on.

    • @donnajeffreys8252
      @donnajeffreys8252 7 месяцев назад +3

      Show that you have respect for yourself when someone treats you like this or shall I say mistreats you like this. Walk away block them 📱🚫💻🚫

    • @audreynicoletti7329
      @audreynicoletti7329 6 месяцев назад

      ​@@lynahines7366why would you stat so long ? That is not love. Think more of yourself. Stop giving your heart away to a loser.

    • @lynahines7366
      @lynahines7366 6 месяцев назад

      @@audreynicoletti7329 we are no longer living together, however we still have to deal with each other. Kids, house, etc.

    • @lorettadavis2195
      @lorettadavis2195 5 месяцев назад

      They try to string you alone. So what you do tell them bye don't try it.

  • @cynthiadickerson5403
    @cynthiadickerson5403 7 месяцев назад +28

    Close your legs ladies, and change the locks on all of the doors! Don't ask him any questions because there aren't any to ask. Give his backside the gift of goodbye!

  • @ilabadoni1647
    @ilabadoni1647 7 месяцев назад +10

    My partner told me once the opposite of love is not hate..
    It’s indifference. And he gave me a practical lesson on that

  • @kauigirl808
    @kauigirl808 8 месяцев назад +17

    Oh I can tell if someone doesn't care anymore. No need to tell me. The house will be empty when you're back from work.

  • @aprilfontenot9354
    @aprilfontenot9354 8 месяцев назад +33

    Thanks for this. I am experiencing most of those key points in my marriage and have not had the courage to leave because of my children. After listening to your videos and getting advice from the higher power and family and friends, I am going to do the right thing for not only me but for my kids. Thanks for speaking from a man's point of view as it always helps to hear it from you all's side.

    • @kofoworolalawanson5003
      @kofoworolalawanson5003 8 месяцев назад +5

      Hmm.its what am passing through.i thought I would manage this nasty relationship because of the kids,but I have discover I also have my life to live and needs to be happy too.

    • @mom2suns857
      @mom2suns857 5 месяцев назад

      Same thing I’m going through

    • @judy62pierre49
      @judy62pierre49 5 месяцев назад +2

      Walk out ladies and don't turn back most of the time they comes back begging don't go back it will be worse they will bring down the moon and the stars don't go back it's better to be single and have peace of mind you will get over it,it will be hard at first but you will never regret it,I did am strong and Independent so you all can do it with a strong mindset 🙏in Jesus mighty name we pray 🤗❤ much love ❣️

  • @alhayanoor446
    @alhayanoor446 8 месяцев назад +17

    Painful and very clear 💔

  • @sibongisenikhumalo8198
    @sibongisenikhumalo8198 6 месяцев назад +4

    I once said am coming to her over the weekend and she asked my why, i hung up and never called again

  • @houston10
    @houston10 7 месяцев назад +3

    U don’t want to deal
    With someone u disrespect. That is sooooo true! WOW extremely insightful! If I’m honest I’ve been guilty of doing some of these things when I’m absolutely fed up.

  • @carlamitchell466
    @carlamitchell466 6 месяцев назад +2

    You are correct actions speak louder than words

  • @Melli510
    @Melli510 8 месяцев назад +13

    It happened to me recently because he was dealing someone else

  • @user-in4uu9jd1c
    @user-in4uu9jd1c 6 месяцев назад +3

    Emotional going and coming is very dangerous for the psyche.

  • @NatashaOllivierre
    @NatashaOllivierre 6 месяцев назад +3

    Dont know how i came upon your videos but something lead me here all i can say i need to listen to that inner voice

  • @seraphxangel9353
    @seraphxangel9353 3 месяца назад +1

    My heart hurts that i tolerated this yet made excuses BECAUSE they didn't leave

  • @DimakatsoG
    @DimakatsoG 4 месяца назад +2

    Cheating usually presents all the ten. Sometimes one starts an argument just so they could go out or do whatever they want claiming they are justified in doing so. Quite sick psyque. Very immature personalities.

  • @chiradavis4265
    @chiradavis4265 7 месяцев назад +7

    Ive always said this exact same thing you just talked about. I would tell my husband your telling me more with your actions than with your mouth. I never needed confirmation on what i believed because ive been a people watcher since i was a child. Non verbal communication is so very important. Yes i use to believe people should tell you how they feel but i believe 100 percent if we pay attention they've told us. @Konscious kirk thank you!❤

  • @Decades-pl2kl
    @Decades-pl2kl 4 месяца назад +1

    I know someone like this who keeps making lame excuses as to why they have to stay after the other person has shown them all of these signs. Some people are use to being the victim.

  • @dellsanders6549
    @dellsanders6549 8 месяцев назад +17

    I'm married to almost all of this; there's just no infidelity or abuse. Those vows are real and marriage ain't nothing to go into lightly

  • @misswill8488
    @misswill8488 7 месяцев назад +4

    This happened to me verbatim with my ex-husband.

  • @cindysantos9300
    @cindysantos9300 4 месяца назад +1

    Exactly, we had a long distance relationship and when it comes to talk about dificult he gave me silent treatment
    After giving me the second time i left i felt that it was that he wanted

  • @mickeyc2788
    @mickeyc2788 3 месяца назад +1

    9 out of 10...it is time to go. And when I point blank asked him, he could not answer.

  • @annaa6259
    @annaa6259 8 месяцев назад +12

    Brilliant video. If at least 1 is noted time to move on

  • @moonlight9605
    @moonlight9605 3 месяца назад +1

    100 percent right every word

  • @carolyngriffinn2187
    @carolyngriffinn2187 8 месяцев назад +12

    Real shit💯💯💯

  • @abigailwilliams613
    @abigailwilliams613 8 месяцев назад +7

    Well said my brother thank you for your knowledge I just started watching your videos today I'm a new subscriber thank you and God bless

  • @stk9714
    @stk9714 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks I just went through this. Now I see clearly.

  • @jeroyegen7282
    @jeroyegen7282 8 месяцев назад +4

    Sad truth... It hurts

  • @yvettedupree3675
    @yvettedupree3675 7 месяцев назад +1

    TRUE AT THE END OF THE DAY I REPEAT ITS NOT WORTH WASTING YOUR TIME THAT PAST YOU BY TIME WAIT FOR NO ONE 👉🏾🤥

  • @akstylez_ak5037
    @akstylez_ak5037 6 месяцев назад +1

    ThI most realest shit I’ve seen and so true.

  • @ZonyWest
    @ZonyWest 8 месяцев назад +7

    Yep, I know a man like the one you're describing.

  • @lydiarobinson-wd5ie
    @lydiarobinson-wd5ie Месяц назад

    Alot of women don't see it can't identify it. . but sometimes we can have a hutch bout it.

  • @ishastevens6830
    @ishastevens6830 7 месяцев назад +4

    So I don’t understand.they don’t want to tell u with words because they don’t want to hurt ur feelings so they show with actions like thts not goin to hurt even more.
    Taught they say actions speaks louder than words right 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @ninath13
    @ninath13 8 месяцев назад +7

    They show

  • @rubymorgan8557
    @rubymorgan8557 8 месяцев назад +3

    All this is so true.

  • @madeleinetepa4455
    @madeleinetepa4455 3 месяца назад

    Thank you sir, for your informaton as men.

  • @marlenejones7738
    @marlenejones7738 5 месяцев назад +2

    Jesus Jesus Jesus I thinkbwe all have been through one time or another in life. God bless an yes God fights our battles wen we have been Used Abused an Fooled Big time.

  • @marlenetrimnal4368
    @marlenetrimnal4368 8 месяцев назад +3

    A man that don't want let him go... He's a funny ditty...😁....if really realizes he really loves you believe me that funny ditty a be back
    Bagging for forgiveness!
    upon his Keen's..

  • @debratownsend5495
    @debratownsend5495 8 месяцев назад +1

    ALL FACTS, MY BROTHER, NEW SCRIBY ✌️👌🌻👋🏽🦋♥️🙏🙏🙏

  • @santinapierre7873
    @santinapierre7873 8 месяцев назад +2

    Yes this true even tell lies on your name his behaviour is true narcissists as he was stalking me gangstalked monitored me other things which he did just let him go let God fight our battles let him have his karma

  • @elaineo.peppers8683
    @elaineo.peppers8683 8 месяцев назад +2

    He was gonna leave me for dead the day after my mother's funeral. I am in shock. They hate me and I loved them. I feel so ashamed. They were just gonna leave lying on the ground. 7 years of nothing.

    • @tilatsiddiqui3969
      @tilatsiddiqui3969 7 месяцев назад +1

      They should be ashamed, end off!
      Stay strong

    • @Braveh3artGirl
      @Braveh3artGirl 7 месяцев назад +2

      You deserve so much more darling. God bless you and i pray for someone kind and truly loving to enter your life. ❤ im sorry for your loss and hope you can hold onto the memories. You’ll see her again in Heaven xx

    • @audreynicoletti7329
      @audreynicoletti7329 6 месяцев назад +2

      That as cold as it gets.

  • @jacquelinefarquharson5848
    @jacquelinefarquharson5848 8 месяцев назад

    💯 out a 💯
    Kirk
    Don't know whe yuh come from bro
    Trust mi A
    FACTS...
    Fe reeeeel bro...

  • @FilipinaEscala-jk6ht
    @FilipinaEscala-jk6ht 4 месяца назад

    I'm careful today,I don't want attachment

  • @alecialong5248
    @alecialong5248 7 месяцев назад

    Soo true no spendying time with you at all.

  • @buhleshezi3274
    @buhleshezi3274 8 месяцев назад +2

    Thank u for confirming

  • @marybethwhatford1883
    @marybethwhatford1883 7 месяцев назад +2

    OMG I have been sensing for so long that my man wasn't in love with me anymore, and sadly, every single one of those are true. Makes me so sad, I have been consistently loving him and meeting his needs and staying loyal and keeping him on a pedestal. Ignoring every one of the things listed here. Bc when I confront him with one of these, he denies that it's anything to do with me or us... So I just look away, despite the red flags and blatant disrespect. I don't know what to do! Occasionally he does more than the bare minimum and I know that when people get too comfortable with each other, they stop trying. So is it just that? Or has he fallen out of love with me?? 😢😢😢

    • @audreynicoletti7329
      @audreynicoletti7329 6 месяцев назад +1

      How was it in the beginning?? How does he treat you now ?? Is he worth your time?? Does he treat you good ?? If he can care less time to say goodbye!!! Ask him if he has fallen out of love with you. You should already know by how he treats you.

  • @patriciancube157
    @patriciancube157 4 месяца назад

    Very true

  • @KateriAbeyta-lv9qj
    @KateriAbeyta-lv9qj Месяц назад

    Some of this applies but alcohol is whats contributing to our disaray. Im not foolish n i can see certain aspects n how they apply but im sure i want to hang on n i know why cuz my man-/partner is better than this. N i say man cuz that's how his love feels when he is on point. N i say partner cuz were in this together. Someone please comment as i have faith in humanity to help my spirit stay strong n help guid me in a good way. Ive been through alot n so has he. Watching my children's father commit suicide in front of my face to feeling abandoned by my own people. He to lost his wife a few months ago n is broken. Im no saint by any means but i know i have what it takes to be there for me my kids n him simultaneously. Ill never punk out n cry for respect but i will lay some powerful words down without being petty i only deal with facts and receipts.

  • @bluebutterfly8993
    @bluebutterfly8993 8 месяцев назад +3

    Love the intro…

  • @amouralove9857
    @amouralove9857 8 месяцев назад +7

    I AGREE💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @user-fo3wt6lf1i
    @user-fo3wt6lf1i 3 месяца назад +1

    You are at Liberty to tell someone you don't want them and you've been with them and been sleeping with them all this time yeah you owe that to them communication is verbal grow up you must be trifling like that you in this video how mature is that dude grow up

    • @PreparewithRealEstate
      @PreparewithRealEstate 2 месяца назад

      I think it's more that they want the benefits w/o the relationship.

  • @MiamiKia
    @MiamiKia 8 месяцев назад +3

    Factz

  • @debragoodwin5505
    @debragoodwin5505 5 месяцев назад

    Thank you

  • @sharchannel1836
    @sharchannel1836 5 месяцев назад

    Guys that do this have in backbone

  • @melm2740
    @melm2740 3 месяца назад

    💯

  • @roannawatkins5443
    @roannawatkins5443 7 месяцев назад +1

    They actions and behavior , and they live with you and and all Bill's are in your name , and you are buying everything , he needs you for 3 hot,s and a cot.

  • @user-rv6fg2xo1x
    @user-rv6fg2xo1x 5 месяцев назад

    Very correct

  • @tawandam8729
    @tawandam8729 6 месяцев назад

    This came on time😢

  • @offairhead
    @offairhead 8 месяцев назад +1

  • @shariacook640
    @shariacook640 7 месяцев назад

    🎯🎯‼️

  • @tramelparker2085
    @tramelparker2085 7 месяцев назад

    🙏🏽🥀

  • @Jane-fv9hu
    @Jane-fv9hu 8 месяцев назад

    😮 yes

  • @TonyaWilliamstheLady
    @TonyaWilliamstheLady 7 месяцев назад

    I'm with no1

  • @kerethajackson2435
    @kerethajackson2435 7 месяцев назад +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @robinrobertson8690
    @robinrobertson8690 8 месяцев назад

    👍🏽💯