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As believing (convinced) Muslims, something like this shouldn't be a topic that needs a discussion. Muslim women always see the prophet how he behaved towards his wives. Instead of seeing how the prophet's wives behaved towards the prophet. Women in general always try to shape men according to their ideas. Believers try to shape themselves into good ones. The woman's paradise lies at the feet of her husband.... Think about it....
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Thanks this is exactly what I have been saying about men that cry about cheating on their wives and blaming them. This is definitely something that goes both ways. You and you alone will be held accountable for what you do. So take full responsibility and accountability of it. Life is a test and Allah can test you with anyone, be it your family member or your enemies.
@@simonesimone1101 Cheating is so dumb, instead of fixing problems your basically ignoring the problem, its never acceptable to cheat if you have problems with your partner communicate!
@@simonesimone1101It is not wrong, 😅 It is Haram every soul going to stand in front of Allah and every soul shall be held accountable for what she did. No watering down over here we are Muslims. Period.
Cheating in marriage is adultery full stop and there is no justification for it. If a woman or man is unhappy or bored in an abusive or unfulfilled marriage then there are other 'moral' ways to solve the issue or come to a compromise; and divorce may be disapproved of but it is allowed.
They don’t understand the religion enough to respect Allah I’ve known a iman teaches Quran leads the pray but a trash human being aka cheating on his pregnant wife
@@ZM-et7zt why is it disgusting to talk about realistic reasons for cheating? Too much time has been passed since we Muslims shyed away with talking about it. We have to understand that we have to communicate topics within a marriage even if these are uncomfortable ones. Closing up on this makes things becoming worse.
no it's not nowadays people have so many options most men are turning into incels. Even islam can't stop this, most muslim girls go for chad and the drug dealer then settle. They are ran through and useless.
@@ZM-et7zt its the sad reality both men and women cheat, its important lesson for some unexperienced men since women wont accept polygamy in general then we need to learn to keep the one wife happily "engaged" :D
Since when did cheating on your husband or your wife became his/her fault? What about fearing Allah? Subhanallah! Why not just divorce him/her instead of cheating like Audu’Billah plus the topic of this video is just wrong I almost thought I was clicking on one of this Western Drama videos wallahi
So, do you think the problem will be solved by saying "fear Allah"? All I see is Ali Dawah giving the insight of women's reasons to cheating from a Muslim perspective. I don't agree with whatever they say and obviously they don't represent the majority but at the same time, we cannot bring the majority to the show, however we can see why we think they do it but we'll take it with a pinch of salt. So just don't go tossing around saying fear Allah as if that is the solution to everything and if it is and it was the solution of solving problems (always) then we would see it in the life of the prophet PBUH addressing these issues by saying "fear Allah" (always) but we don't we see he addresses them with wisdom. It's like the hadith of the man who killed 99 people you didn't see the solution to him was to say fear Allah instead we see a wisdom to how we approach the sinners.
@@jassimabdulwahed5261 So cheating on your Wife or Husband could be her or his fault? Is that what you saying here? And yes fearing Allah can and will solve every problem in this Duniya💯😏
Cheating is not acceptable at any cost,,,either husband is not giving her rights,,,,if husband is not giving rights ,,,u should take divorce ,,but cheating is not acceptable by husband and Allah ,,,,
!!!!!!To all my FELLOW MUSLIMS that read this please stop wasting time watching shows like this!!!!!!!! You can learn Arabic, study the quran, read tafsir and the seerah. Make this life count and let us all prepare for the day of judgement in the way allah and his rasool has prescribed for us and don't be tricked into thinking this is ''dawah''. If you truly ask yourself if this will benefit you judgement day I think we can all know the answer.... I have tried to warn you so please take heed and do not be of the heedless... May allah bless you all and ease your struggles
Follow the sunnah and do the same the prophet saw did when one of his wives didn't behave in a way that is in accordance with the sound teachings of islam@@shadmani9687
No offense dude but you are wrong about stuff like this. I agree with everything you said except that these things are beneficial. People have marriage problem even in islam so it's important to talk about how to fix them. Screaming in all CAPS won't solve anything.
@@chinesecovidanalswabs4752 if having problems then seek for professional advise and support. We have so many islamic sources, ma Shaa Allah a lot of them free of charge.
You are so right. I never stop in this type of videos, I feel not beneficial as none of them is a professional (nor Islamically nor in psychology or marital matters) I was just baffled by the topic and the amount of excuses they are using to support such an issue.
This is true, however, any man who is good in the bed, assertive, doesn't chase her happiness, and pander to her all the time while giving affection here and there will not have a woman that cheats.
everything has to do with men tho. do you no the saying there is no such thing as a no good woman every no good woman was made by a no good man? well the same goes with cheating. if you care for your wife. if you show her affection, love and listen she won't cheat if you don't she will be miserable and can A either cheat or B just simply divorce you. because no woman wants to stay in a miserable relationship. that girls didn't stay a virgin until marriage only to end up with a man who can't satisfy her emotionally and majority of the time from what i hear sexually either.
@hellokitty10117 women are far from saints, but they are programmable. Those women you are talking about that leave men with their money end up with men with no money but end up with them because they got game. Did you see me mention money in that list?
Weird justifying zina in that case let’s justify all haram. First fear Allah, respect yourself,be righteous to your partner,guard your family honour,work on your marriage and final this show is toxic for Muslims.
I agree this fitna show can where muslimahs commit Tabarruj openly and free mix with men is haram, talking about sensitive matters openly without any haya is just disgusting. Ask any reputable scholar they’ll agree. These western Muslims are a fitnah to this ummah!
Women often cheat due to a desire for excitement, increased affection, or falling out of love with their significant other. If you suspect your partner is being unfaithful, it's advisable to openly discuss your concerns with them before taking any further action.
What about if the wife doesn't find the husband attractive anymore for e.g. before marriage or during early on marriage the guy use to groom him self, go to the gym everyday, Wears good perfume, does facial routine but because his mental health declined due to losing a job or losing his loved ones and isn't making effort to look nice which is totally understandable and his wife isn't patient with him and cheats on him and finds someone else attractive. Is that justified...
Nothing justified cheating brother if she thing the not looking attractive to her so it's better to talk to him and still it's not working the devorce would be good instead of cheat and hurt someone feelings and giving her or him life time trauma and trust issue@@SikandarKhan-mf5pz
@@SikandarKhan-mf5pz Think about Allah questioning a person.. will it be acceptable when they’re asked why did they cheat , something very dishonorable they say because my husband stopped caring for himself.. will that acceptably take away their accounntability? not at all. We should all fear the position of Allah and his witnessing of everything we do it’s nothing light. We are each accountable for what we do. And ultimately seek help through patience and prayer Allah will open halal doors
@@user-fn8bs2mo1h Great response, people need to worry more about what they will say in front of Allah... Life is hard, sometimes we lose ourselves or struggle with health this is when we need our partner the most. We have to distinguish someone mistreating someone and someone who needs help or is lost, can happen to anyone. If you think you are justified in your responses to Allah, then leave the person but nothing will ever absolve anyone of cheating. We are accountable for our own actions, if we feel there's a risk or harm caused by something in our life then distance ourselves from it or let it go but do not take the path to hell thinking you can blame someone else.
Ali dawah is trying to tell us this is from the sunnah? This kind of discussion and free-mixing? Don' try to justify this is normal. Ask yourself, will you want your daughter to be sat with non-mahram men discussing "Islam" if the answer is no. Don't even promote such shows. This is fitnah vibes
My dear sister or brother (idk which mb 😭), I believe to an extent you're right, but if topics like this aren't discussed between both genders (with barriers and areas of limitation) how will one be able to become a better husband/wife, although they do linger/push past the line, I believe if done correctly this could actually be beneficial
“She needs an outlet “ LMAO maybe by STARTING TO BE CLEAR WITH YOUR HUSBAND. But if you CANT communicate with your husband have a mediator like a sheikh or both families. And if not, divorce if you can’t have that dialogue with your spouse.
a lot of women are very clear. as a psychiatrist i have women who tell me i literally told my husband so many times i need love, i need a laugh i need a kind word. i will be everything you want as a wife and mother but this is what is lacking in our relationship this is what i need to be happy to feel fulfilled. and everyone of those men will put in effort for about a week and than stop again. and they will start from zero. reality is men get comfortable. men forget they have a woman at home not just a wife and mother of his kids but a woman. one with needs and wants. sadly men are selfish so as long as they get from the marriage what they want and need they really do not give two cents about the wife.
@@Jessicaro Why do you believe women? Women say one thing but always mean another. Women say they want xyz and when given they are not happy in the long term, that happiness dissapears after few hours at best. Just because it makes her happy doesnt mean it makes her respect him. There are studies to show women do change what they want depending on where they are on their hormonal cycle. A man almost always provide love but she ignores it. He works hard because he loves his wife, he protects her during dangerous situations, but she ignores him. Women have to earn their love from their husband. Its not free. Men want to love. Those women that complain 99% of the time they nag, they overlook what he does for her to look at what he didnt do for her, they make him feel less of a man, they dont let him lead, talk back, bring up his weak momemts from the past just to name a few. And here you are saying "women tell me this all the time...".
Common thing with women is they listen to respond and not listen to hear. Brother Mahdi didn't say don't make them happy, he's saying what women generally THINKS makes them happy, ISN'T what actually makes them happy. What DOES make them happy, is what he's suggesting. It's a good point and boils down to psychology. I can't actually believe the brothers needed clarity from brother Mahdi on this.😂 He literally made it clear the first time.
the girls on the podcast are clothed feminists, while the guys including ali dawah are trying to tip toe around the girls, which makes the girls think what they are saying is more right, hence why they kept interrupting Mahdi.
@@vortexlight8387 I know right, always blaming men. In a previous episode, a sister said she sees boys all the time in public wearing shorts (haram for men) and that he is not conducting his proper hijab, but she said that while not covering significant part of her hair.
If you have any shame left, all of you, stop this nonsense. Would you all men like your women sitting with strange man and talking these kind of things? You are not doing any good just causing fitnah.. don't know what's more important to you 'views' or your hereafter
We need more of brother Mahdi and Ali. How they are direct and don’t beat around. No excuses for cheating. Take accountability rather then shifting blame
Brother mahdi and brother hijab, are not the kind of guys most women want as husbands. They come across as controlling and lack emotional intelligence.
Girls will cheat anyway even if the husband is playing his part, she'll laugh and giggle with non mahrams and then show attitude towards her husband, even when I went see my uncle in hospital last year a hijabi nurse went into the next door room with another male nurse alone and he's telling her about his girlfriend and her issues with her and saying f ford and stuff, the fact that non mahram's are discussing that with muslim sisters in the work place means they've crossed the boundaries of him being a work colleague but making friendships with them its not just limited to just speaking when necessary strictly about work stuff
@@suhaibsuhaib5947 OK may be ur right. But spending more time with a non mehram is wrong . That's the part of the problem. Husbands don't know where the wives r . Go 2 work 2 what ever
Who cares? If you don't then you're arrogant and ignorant. Because by listening and understanding, both the men and women can become better people and avoid these things from happening.
Beautiful response! If a woman cheats she is the one that is getting used and abused she is the one that has no shame no haya. Same thing for a man if a man is not happy with his wife he has no right to cheat he can marry again ALLAH AZZAWAJAL had giving him that HAQ!
My grandad use to say when I visted him Pakistan that our Muslims will get miss lead and lose sham I only came on here to make this comments these podcasts are disturbingly concerning for the up and coming Muslim generations. We becoming shameless and losing haya women have no shyness left
I swear ur spot on. Never seen a fitna show like this in the east. All under the name of islam and they pretend they’re spreading the deen, not to mention the free mixing and fitna goin on here. Ask any authentic scholar or Da’ee this show is haram. May Allah guide these people
If a man cheats, it's his fault for not being able to control his nafs. If a woman cheats, it's the man's fault for neglecting her needs. Accountability really is kryptonite for sisters.
The sister with her face covered needs to work on her behaviour and manners. Constantly interrupting and speaking over others when they showed her courtesy during her turns in speaking
@Babycake. Where was he being disrespectful? The guy never even spoke until halfway into the video, the women here dominated the time in this video (except the one with glasses). She on the other hand kept disturbing others from speaking, talking loudly over them, acting like a man etc. Grow up.
@Babycake. You need to get over your heartbreak and take some accountability, instead of moaning online with your sour grapes. But I can't say I entirely blame you. At the end of the day the only people who understand women are women, and look at how much you hate each other.
@Babycake. Nope. He asked where he as being disrespectful, and all you can mention is his tonality. He didn't ask about his tonality. And besides, his tonality was perfect, direct, not like human pet would have that most husbands are.
The idea that the concept of “performing” in the bedroom has become a concept in the Muslim marriage is frightening. Because this concept originated from “corn”. In reality marriage is intimately together.
what you mean? so a husband shouldn't put effort in? you do realize how miserable majority of women are because their husbands can't fulfill their sexual needs?
The whole premise is predicated upon the idea that a woman cheats because of what her husband has done. The reality is that a pure woman would never cheat regardless of what her husband does and if the marriage is irreparable then she would seek khula. A woman who would cheat is described as vile in the Quran. Also this applies equally to a man who cheats, both are described by Allah as vile. There is never an excuse for cheating and the punishment in the sunnah is death. This program is a effort from the shaytan to normalise and find excuses for such vile behaviour. Know that the vast majority of muslims are not fooled by this and keep their purity InshaAllah, it is only the vile that fall into this then try to justify it. Shame on Ali Dawah and those that seek to say the cheating has any excuse none of this is justified in the Quran.
The only person that made sense who was very articulate and knows what he’s talking about is brother Mahdi, everyone else was talking with emotions and to win the argument and that’s NOT what the viewers want to see or hear!
Excatly. Let him finish explaining his point. They need to stop interrupting every sentence he makes. I'm not saying I 100% agree with, but he did have a point. What I have realized as you said is that these women are not listening to understand but listening to reply and with their emotions.
I want to say that in any relationship, the key to a good relationship is having the correct communication skills for that relationship. As a man, you should make every single person in your household feel genuinely heard and understood and that you will consider what they have said in whatever decision you are making, but ultimate final say is down to you. Between wife and husband, you need to be best friends that are able to discuss and even argue over things. Tension is not a bad thing as long as you make up and it doesn't happen continuously. Relationships need balance, not too much one way or the other.
Don't be brother, these are opinions which reflect their personal experiences and some from areas of assumption. It is very simple, if someone cheats it is 100% on them as there's no excuse or reason for it from Allah. Find your match, someone who understands you and someone you understand and build YOUR marriage which works for you. Every marriage is different and the only working formula is the one which works for you. The only things we need to take away from this is, bad people do bad things... Work on ourselves to follow the sunnah, if we follow the sunnah we are safe with Allah and if someone strays then the fault is in them and not yourself.
I think its just women in general and they don't have to be muslim where they have unrealistic standards and when those standards aren't met they would either cheat,lose interest show attitude to the husband but it's up to you as a man to use your judgement to the best of your ability and understand the psychology of women when you speak to her for the first time, i.e if she emphasizes the importance of looking after her husband and takes interest the things you like the man will show the appreciation back and both with be happy
Bro this only happens in the west trust me. This show is haram full of free mixing and fitna. Ask any reputable scholar they’ll tell you the same. I grew up in east and cheating there especially among women is very rare. However moving to west for uni I heard so many stories a lot of these guys have implemented the western lifestyle so they face the same problems. I’m making Hijra and I promised myself that I’d never raise kids in west!
@@luluah1198 your seriously comparing Muslim majority countries where 90%+ population is Muslim vs minorities in the west? I’ve live in the GCC and South Asia for many years. I know what I’m talking about. I’m not denying it happens there but relatively the levels are no where near that you believe. It’s just cause when the entire population is Muslim you’re bound to find bad apples. Still in the west where Muslims are a minority the filth that happens here can’t be compared with all due respect. Its cause in the west degeneracy is socially accepted unlike in the east. There’s a reason why Sharia doesn’t permit settling among Kuffars permanently and no way id ever raise kids in the west. Regardless may Allah guide us and keep us all steadfast on the Deen!
Honestly, young virgins who are god fearing are usually happy with little. A good place to check out is I3 institute, which has a matrimony aspect overseen by the Sheikh Usta and the students are young.
in every marriage honeymoon phase lasts a short term. After that, reality kicks in and the spark does eventually die. Thats when both of the couple has to light the spark again by communicating and trying out different stuff.
If a woman feels the need to cheat she should talk to her husband and if things aren’t the way she wants she should ask for a divorce. Its horribly disrespectful and deceitful for her to fulfil her physical and emotional needs elsewhere. Be a ‘’man” about it, have that conversation, divorce if necessary and move on. And good luck finding that nirvana you have envisioned.
@@noreenbi9079 yeah the term i think is "oofy doofy" guy im not sure if its the exact term but its like a woman is not physically or sexually attracted to you but mostly likes your money and security and maaaayybbbeee your personality aswell but thats it. And most men think "yeah my woman loves me cause she married me" while she is always dropping her jaws when seeing mister attractive and not to her husband.
Mahdi treats his wife like property don’t take advice from him! If your wife withholds from you will you also think it’s good like if she says “ I shouldn’t be so nice to him coz at the end he will cheat and will desire someone else!” That’s ridiculous 😂
@@nami20622 Oh yh don't take advice from a man that has turned his life around and now is in a polygyny marriage, take advice from men that are scared of their wife, and women who don't know what they want, or men with no far less experience than him. Mahdi treats his wife how they should be treated. Depending of your definition of property, she is to an extend, similarly to if a child is a property of a mother. Women like to be owned by an assertive dominant man that can say no to them, not a man that lives by happy wife happy life rubbish.
what is this? all I heard was justification for cheating and that the man was to blame for it. and narsicism where you seek your happiness like this world was meant to be Jannah. if you aren't happy it's part of life don't cheat or jump ship and seek it else where work through it. also, the emotional instability women have its also her responsibility to be self-aware and reflect on it that this is something that happens to her and try not to make the husband tiptoe around her. no matter how considerate he is as a human being we can't be perfect now does that give her the justification to blame her husband for not knowing her?
sorry but some women can cry, yell, talk sweet and do all that while telling her husband what she needs from her. some even beg for affection and love and don't get it. women don't just wake up one morning and say you know what after waiting years as a virgin until marriage following my religion today is the day i will go look for attention from another man. fact is your the man of the house right? your the head than take your responsibility. if your wife cheats than yes 99 percent of the time it is because you failed as a husband period.
@@Jessicarothis is just shifting the blame, regardless if the man wasn't on track with his duties. we can be inconsistent, we are only human. To say that working and providing coming home, having to deal with what ever issues there are at home, whether if its from the wife/children or parents/family amongst other things, isn't tough enough, we are expected to perform accordingly and we are scrutinised by general society and the women in our lives if we fail at any part of it. Women need to be considerate about this. you cant expect everything to be handed to you in this life like that, there are some things you'll have to compromise. best way to put it; You are not owed happiness, do not expected it to come from worldly things, that is including your spouse, good things will come and go, be grateful for them, but do not depend on them to keep you happy. Instead look towards abiding to your duties to your partner, this is something you must do, and if there is something that you need, communicate that with your husband. to assume that all mean are can't take care of their women is cruel as there are so many things a man can do for his wife that is left unnoticed. if you had a son, and you knew how vulnerable he was when you first held him, then he grew up and become a man and got married, and his wife berated him for not giving enough to her, when you know yourself how much he does, only then you will truly realise how tough we have it.
I think the term divorce is thrown out so easily espcially in this episode when it could be a simple case speaking , understanding each other and solving simple misconceptions, people could be watching this an emotional state make rash decisions and take the divorce route, the whole episode was just to make excuses for cheating women rather than offering solutions , the whole purpose of the show according to ALi is to help people not add fuel to the fire of peoples marriage issues
I love how its always about the Man being the root cause of any issue within a relationship. ive noticed that on every platform and every lecture its always about how that Man needs to keep the woman happy (or engaged) and never (or rarely) about the Woman fullfilling her duties, therfore giving the Man the time and energy to provide that emotional (and physical) support . An interesting topic would be 'what does a husband need from his wife to have a succsessful relationship'
Brother Ali, for future episodes, consider inviting Mohammed Hijab and Gabriel Al-Romani as regular guests and rotating random guests for each episode.
The main thing is that whp ever is cheating is a coward with np backbone. If u see that it's not working, eitber, u work on the marriage, or u just divorce. Cuz cheating/going behind one's spouse isn't going to fix things, just making it worse. To me, if my spouse cheats, there is no fixing anything or blame shifting (no attention/no connection).
There is no excuse for cheating period. I don’t care if you are a man or a woman. But I find it funny how when a man cheats and gives en excuse as to why he did it, society validates his reasoning (Ex. He’s not sexually satisfied or his wife is not having sex with him), but if a woman cheats, she is given no mercy even if her needs weren’t being met. Why is this?
Bc men can have sex with another woman and still not love her or want to be with her. It's just lust. But when a woman cheats it's betrayal and she's emotionally checked out way before. And usually women have someone planned out already who are they gonna cheat with before
Subhan Allah. We in 2024 but the folks on here with their jahalat, gender biases and nonsense views of 'hormonal women' living like it's 1024. Forget cheating who wants to get married after watching this lot 😂 When you have to continually justify one person, mahdi, and your views it clearly is a case of 'the lady doth protest too much.' 😂
There is no excuse. But, imagine a man putting down his wife, abusing her emotionally, denying her sex, and then turning around and using porn right in her face. In this case, as a woman, leave, rather than be led to sin.
If you want proof that Mehdi is right, look at 56 minutes where all the women are smiling and laughing but also clearly annoyed. Seems like engagement > happiness. Allah hu A3lam.
When brother Sajjid critisized this kind of settings i didn't agree with him at first but now i get his point... I have all respect for the brothers doing da'wa for the sake of Allah 'azzawajal and for trying to help the umma, but this goes to far. Yes, we shouldn't be shy to discuss any subject. But there's a place & time for this kind of talks. It should be done with qualified people and not with random people online where everybody has there own bagage & opinions. I write this because a thought crossed my mind while watching; Would Ali sit his wife in front of these men to engage in this kind of talks? That's a sincere question and i hope Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala guides us all. At least he should blur the women's faces like he does with his wife and separate them from the men with a curtain.
Ali Dawah has completely lost, I knew this some time ago but this is nailing it. Guy's not a scholar or remotely close to it, yet is audacious enough to bring in these kind of videos that serve no purpose other than to unwittingly entice and embolden others to cheat on their spouse. There's no discussion needed, if you feel as though you need to cheat, then first, divorce your spouse, then go and do as you please. These kind of men/women today in the Muslim world are a disgrace to the faith. My grandmother whose husband neglected her bore with patience for decades and there are many thousands of similar stories like this, but today's so-called "sophisticated" and "educated" men/women are indulging in pornography and then seek to justify their malevolent behaviour by saying "I've been neglected" or "not been given what I was due". It's a joke.
Brother Mahdi was very well articulated - raises good points and practical systemic troubleshooting methods to finding the root causes of the problem, which makes it easier to manage and solve the issue hopefully and ultimately.
Why these sisters were intimidated with brother Mahdi’s analogies (which was based on experience and expert on that field)? They couldn’t even give him a chance to finish his statements or even answer! They kept on interrupting him and that tells us something!
cuz Ali let them waffle for first half of the show without push back, so they thought they are dominating the convo, until mahdi came and threathened their authority, but ofcourse Ali and his simp friends on the couch sided with the illogical things the girls said and tried to put mahdi in the corner.
@@vortexlight8387 Not gonna lie, sister's waffling is funny. In the episode of what women want from their husbands they said "open communication" but that is rubbish because in another episode they hinted they want men to already know what she wants without her constantly telling her. Women waffle, never take advice from them. Mahdi's free advice changed my life and if I do better financially I will donate a lot to him InshaAllah
Just get a KHULLAH if you're not getting emotional support or getting satisfied physically. That doesn't give the right a woman to cheat. If the roles were reverse and the guy said hes cheating because his wife is not satisfying him physically rhen the Feminists in the comment section will go MENTAL 😂😂😂😂😂
With all due respect, it is exhausting watching this when some persons like the sister in Niqab are constantly interrupting, talking over the others and showing lack of adab..
Nothing says Prophet Muhammad would reject Mahdi's way. I am willing to argue that he would approve his way more than the way that most people say. There is only 2 way, Mahdi's way and Happy wife Happy life way. Happy wife happy life is unislamic.
@@shadmani9687where did prophet s.a.w say you can never make a woman happy or you shouldn’t care about her happiness but do what engages her like mehdi says??mehdi is preaching totally kufr mentality so stop pushing your western ideas and making it deen..it’s absolute disgrace to Islam and don’t speak without knowledge ..Allah s.w says وعاشروهن بالمعرف prophet s.w said خيركم خيركم لاهلي وانا خيركم لاهلي so show me where it says neglet what makes her happy😳
@@zeynab7435 Are you slow? No one said you shouldnt make a woman happy. Neither did Mahdi. A man should keep her engaged rather than short term happiness because aiming to keep her happy will make her miserable. Did you hear that part when Mahdi saod that or did you have selective hearing? Man keeps woman happy by temporarily annoying her to keep her engaged.
I don’t get this guy, your trying to do dawah and educate our young people and unmarried and married people by bringing people like this mahdi guy who obviously have an agenda for financial gain by uplifting a persona … you got divorced woman on here giving advice on what woman need .. why don’t you bring more brothers like the first one that seem like good people because even he was confused listening to all this malarkey. Brothers and sisters treat ur wife / husband how you would want ur dad / mum / sister / brother / son / daughter to be treated and show love and mercy , and if it didn’t work and you done all that, alhamdulilah it didn’t work it wasn’t meant for you by Allah .
Where is you evidence of Mahdi having "an agenda for financial gain"? And regarding his divorce, so when sisters get divorce its "don't judge her its not her fault" but when he got divorced its his fault? Don't be a contradiction.
@@shadmani9687he clearly got divorced because of his absurd behavior and beliefs about women 😂what’s soo hard about internalizing that?if his ways worked I wonder why it didn’t work for him and he ended up with several divorces from multiple women..so yes if we wanna get advice on marriage relationships we need people with deen and successful marriages,,I don’t see why a divorcee is tranna advise us on how to treat a woman..pure audacity when he couldn’t understand one woman 🤦♀️
@@zeynab7435 You were not there as a fly on the wall to see what she did that got him that enraged, yes that matters regardless of what liberal feminists say. And neither did you see what he was like with his wife on a daily basis. You dont know if his first wife is bad or not, considering someone who continously prevents the husband from seeing the kids plenty of times despite having a court order where he is supoosed to be able to see the kids, she seems like an awful woman. How is it that he is in polygyny he is not get divorced, rather he is in marriages that most men would dream of? Answer that big mouth?🤣 Mufti menk is divorced too. Do you go onto his videos to say the same thing? Or are you a hypocrite?
Brother Asad, I do think you are missing the point a little. There are many who think along the lines of the speakers hence the importance of having a diverse group of speakers so everyone can relate to someone subjectively, then we can use the Sunnah to get everyone to a good place objectively. May surprise you but many people struggle to sit through talks or lectures so discussion and more avenues for Halal discussions are important especially for the younger ones.
A valid point was made by the brother. Why cant women get those emotional needs from other women??? Like the example given by the woman. Women has issues at home. Tells her male colleague..and he is supportive to her. EVERYTHING done here can be done by a woman. But the feminists on the right are quick to shut him down saying "no no no..its not the same". SO CLEARLY shes seeking more than just "emotional needs".
Yes, I found her quite combative at every opportunity and tried to one up the guys at every point. Also quite a lack of accountability. Just my honest opinion.
Let's not target people, everyone has things they are working on... it may be one of her weak areas, we can all think it but when you say it or type it, we are accountable.
So let me get this right, one of the guys who stoned her to death was disgusted - not by the fact that he just brutally murdered a fellow human being - but that some of her blood splattered on his foot...?
Cheating is haram. Both men and women cheat. HOWEVER, disrespect and sexual dissatisfaction incentivise cheating for both sexes. When a society makes adultery easy and divorce difficult, that society is doomed to dysfunctional families.
I was a victim of a narcissistic woman, with the false hope of her improving which in the end it never did but only got worse. Luckily my backbone and gut feeling prevented from investing too much into her. (materialistic and financially) But it left me bitter and emotionally broken. It was a hard lesson.
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That’s cazy siz but all good if it works for you but to generalize it is idiocy..let’s not come up with anything and say this is what women want or this how they function bcz we all don’t function or think the same way..
@@zeynab7435 this is what women want iniatly, they might not like it, but this is what they yearn for. today's feminist have convinced girls that you are basicly equal to the man in the relationship, but once they go into that relationship, they leave the man because he was weak or wasnt man enough. whereas girls that accept this, and obey their husbands and see him as their leader, will most of the time last.
@@zeynab7435 maybe Mahdi didn't explain it well he didn't mean in a bad way , will start to take for granted when someone start to say yes to everything we say idk why even for parents that are soo good to their kids , their kids start to disrespect them . is true we all are different, a little bit is not bad too much of anything in life is bad we need balance. too much water is bad too much of food is bad , spontaneous like surprises dont you like surprises ? imagine your husband comes home with a bouquet of flowers like you didn't expect this from him . imagine he start to do it every Friday now is like a routine. imagine you want to wear mini skirt and your husband say yes , you want to drink alcohol he says yes , if something is harmful for you and your dine your husband you talk to you and explain and try to keep you in right path and say nooo ,because both want to help eachother do go to jennah. is true we dont like them to tell us no . but sometimes even if we get angry and sad but we start to cherish the good things and not take for granted what he did for us. we created in a way that until we dont loose we dont realize what we had. for exemple health, shelter protection a bed to sleep easy access to water , electricity. everything in balance is good too much of noo nono is bad same as yes yes yes.
Whats the point of these discussions! This is not dawah. How is this calling someone to Allah ? This is beyond ridiculous , all the content is about women second wives and marriage!
@@shay5566 If the muslim men did get caught with zina/cheat they would probably cover it with marrying the mistress under the name of islam allows polygamy 😅 ... True case that happened in Malaysia
I know why it was done byt discussing different moves in a bedroom in this environment isn't good. I could see the brother with a besrd struggling to keep a straight face, I'd struggle too as it is awkward in this setting. So glad no one mentioned anything specific like the wheelbarrow 😅
The guy with the red top made sense the sister did not like because he was on the point, only a person who has gone through that can explain, women tend to look at others and there is no excuse of cheating and before any woman does this have the guts and tell your man not lie when you get caught
The sisters were not ignorant, they simply disagreed and they're entitled to have their own opinion and challenge a different mindset. It's not ignorance, it's difference. He changed his tone when he was challenged hence why they all eventually seemed to agree.
@@PatriciaBanks-m3s He didn't change his tone, those sisters were ignorant and were pretty rude towards him at first. Sisters were mainly waffling no offense, women don't know what they want. Mahdi is right.
I wonder if sisters have this much insight in why men get second wives (halal) as they do why women cheat (haram)? When talking about women cheating they speak in such a way in which the man is acting in an inadequate way which makes her cheating a natural consequence. So can we do the visa versa? Can we speak about men who get second wives as if what they did is a natural consequence of the inadequacies of their wives? Either BOTH people seek another sexual partner because of failure to contain their desires, or everything we do is a consequence of what other people do. Allowing a space for a middle ground feels like we’re gonna starting making certain cheating situations “understandable” which is scary.
Asalamualaikum. Was thinking the exact same thing. I believe some of the sisters are not even married and they have so much to say about divorce/ cheating?
The women on the panel were simply justifying a woman's cheating on the man in someway as if it's somehow his fault and he could've acted differently thus she wouldn't have cheated. It really doesn't matter what the other partner does, if she/he is going to cheat, she/he is going to cheat.
O Muslims please wake up May God guide me and you from the name of the channel, Dawah, it it's supposed to be a channel with Islamic content . but Unfortunately, women with makeup and incomplete hijaps . mixing among men And women, without any need to discuss the causes of adultery “under the name of cheating.”!!! I did not even watch the video. it appeared to me as a suggestion, but from the title and its picture alone, I became frustrated. I am not here to criticize anyone. God knows that all those people might be much better than me, but that is not what our religion looks like. when you have a channel classified as an Islamic channel specifically for (Dawah), you are supposed to be a role model for Muslims and present what true Islam is. as a Muslim nation we are going through the most difficult times, seeing what is happening to our brothers and sisters, whether in Palestine, Syria, Sudan, Kashmir, the Uyghurs, Yemen, and many others and we are just witching , not doing anything maybe waiting for a miracle . we must help each other to obey God in the way he wants from us. to be a real Muslims Perhaps God will guide us, unite us in His word, and help us to support our oppressed brothers and sisters, wherever they are .
If a women can even hypothetically rationalize cheating shes not the women for you..great question to ask to see how she answers..if she does like the women on this panel red flag
Why you don't bring your wife here? So she can talk with non-mehrams also and discuss bedroom talks. You quick to attack other daees but what about yourself??
Asalamualaikum! Our sisters seem to have a lot of information on why women cheat?.. SubhanAllah! What's going on? 😂 Do women often think about what would make them cheat on their husbands? This is worrying
You're exactly the man the sister in blue hijab described when she explained that men will question her integrity if she raises a physicality concern with her husband. Vile comment to make and totally unislamic of you
This shows why discussion is important, in the end everyone ends up on the same page. There is truth, women do need engagement AND need happiness but chasing her happiness is a moving goalpost which ends badly. Keep her engaged, Understand what works for your partner and that will lead to happiness in the end but the end goal should always be happiness, the route we take is specific to each individual
I think thats avoidable by being a man with priorities and a routine before getting a wife. Then when you get married you just (partially) replace the things you did in your free time with quality time with your wife. I think biologically, chasing her makes her feel as if you dont have nothing in your life.
@@weirdstrafer9263 Have to agree, you look weak if you have no direction or anything. People start by trying to mould themselves to someone else but it genuinely starts with you.... be your best you!
Omg you have period once a month for a week so you gona blame the period get a grip. We not gona do anything once a month for seven days because we are on our period.
Accountability is like krytonite for women. This is why women shouldn't work or have social media. Women check out of a relationship before she physically checks out.
Why are Muslim men and women talking about cheating in this manner? As if it is a permitted but not preferred thing? Giving excuses and reasons for cheating? Cheating is a sin in Islam, and that’s it.
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*Do Muslim women in Hijab commit zinah when they cheat on their husbands and vise versa?*
Great show
As believing (convinced) Muslims, something like this shouldn't be a topic that needs a discussion.
Muslim women always see the prophet how he behaved towards his wives. Instead of seeing how the prophet's wives behaved towards the prophet.
Women in general always try to shape men according to their ideas.
Believers try to shape themselves into good ones.
The woman's paradise lies at the feet of her husband....
Think about it....
Apologies ! but my brothers and sisters where are the believers of other faiths that we are supporting and showing our love and generosity with? I have now made 3 contributions above average pledge, as my Guru's divine teachings decreed is my holy obligation as a believer in the truth of god's eternal love for creation ad infinitum !
If they cheat it has nothing to do with that ma. It’s lack of fear of Allah and no respect for herself or her husband.
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Thanks this is exactly what I have been saying about men that cry about cheating on their wives and blaming them. This is definitely something that goes both ways. You and you alone will be held accountable for what you do. So take full responsibility and accountability of it. Life is a test and Allah can test you with anyone, be it your family member or your enemies.
@@generalali7609 key word goes both ways. No one is better in the eyes of Allah except Taqwa/ someone who fears Allah in any action they do.
@@zemzemadem3831 no it doesn't lol...men cheating is a simple issue
Ma maann bro
There is absolutely NO excuse for cheating.. period!
I think there is, it’s wrong but I get why some women do
@@simonesimone1101 Cheating is so dumb, instead of fixing problems your basically ignoring the problem, its never acceptable to cheat if you have problems with your partner communicate!
@@simonesimone1101 thats exactly what acheater would say
if men cheat then there is an excuse
@@simonesimone1101It is not wrong, 😅 It is Haram every soul going to stand in front of Allah and every soul shall be held accountable for what she did.
No watering down over here we are Muslims.
Period.
Cheating in marriage is adultery full stop and there is no justification for it. If a woman or man is unhappy or bored in an abusive or unfulfilled marriage then there are other 'moral' ways to solve the issue or come to a compromise; and divorce may be disapproved of but it is allowed.
100% people need to take ownership of their lives and stick to the halal instead of passively falling into haram
Sure. But “marrying” 4 women at once and hving
Families w them
All is fine!
I think the main reason of women or men cheating is lack of FEARING ALLAH 😢💔
They don’t understand the religion enough to respect Allah
I’ve known a iman teaches Quran leads the pray but a trash human being aka cheating on his pregnant wife
100% this conversation is disgusting
@@ZM-et7zt why is it disgusting to talk about realistic reasons for cheating? Too much time has been passed since we Muslims shyed away with talking about it. We have to understand that we have to communicate topics within a marriage even if these are uncomfortable ones. Closing up on this makes things becoming worse.
no it's not nowadays people have so many options most men are turning into incels. Even islam can't stop this, most muslim girls go for chad and the drug dealer then settle. They are ran through and useless.
@@ZM-et7zt its the sad reality both men and women cheat, its important lesson for some unexperienced men since women wont accept polygamy in general then we need to learn to keep the one wife happily "engaged" :D
Since when did cheating on your husband or your wife became his/her fault? What about fearing Allah? Subhanallah! Why not just divorce him/her instead of cheating like Audu’Billah plus the topic of this video is just wrong I almost thought I was clicking on one of this Western Drama videos wallahi
True
So, do you think the problem will be solved by saying "fear Allah"?
All I see is Ali Dawah giving the insight of women's reasons to cheating from a Muslim perspective. I don't agree with whatever they say and obviously they don't represent the majority but at the same time, we cannot bring the majority to the show, however we can see why we think they do it but we'll take it with a pinch of salt. So just don't go tossing around saying fear Allah as if that is the solution to everything and if it is and it was the solution of solving problems (always) then we would see it in the life of the prophet PBUH addressing these issues by saying "fear Allah" (always) but we don't we see he addresses them with wisdom.
It's like the hadith of the man who killed 99 people you didn't see the solution to him was to say fear Allah instead we see a wisdom to how we approach the sinners.
@@jassimabdulwahed5261 So cheating on your Wife or Husband could be her or his fault? Is that what you saying here? And yes fearing Allah can and will solve every problem in this Duniya💯😏
Exactly I'm glad to see some comments like this
so true
Cheating is not acceptable at any cost,,,either husband is not giving her rights,,,,if husband is not giving rights ,,,u should take divorce ,,but cheating is not acceptable by husband and Allah ,,,,
!!!!!!To all my FELLOW MUSLIMS that read this please stop wasting time watching shows like this!!!!!!!! You can learn Arabic, study the quran, read tafsir and the seerah. Make this life count and let us all prepare for the day of judgement in the way allah and his rasool has prescribed for us and don't be tricked into thinking this is ''dawah''. If you truly ask yourself if this will benefit you judgement day I think we can all know the answer.... I have tried to warn you so please take heed and do not be of the heedless... May allah bless you all and ease your struggles
So when a virgin man gets married, and the wife is throwing a tantrum, what does he do if he doesn't watch Mahdi speak?
Follow the sunnah and do the same the prophet saw did when one of his wives didn't behave in a way that is in accordance with the sound teachings of islam@@shadmani9687
No offense dude but you are wrong about stuff like this. I agree with everything you said except that these things are beneficial. People have marriage problem even in islam so it's important to talk about how to fix them. Screaming in all CAPS won't solve anything.
@@chinesecovidanalswabs4752 if having problems then seek for professional advise and support. We have so many islamic sources, ma Shaa Allah a lot of them free of charge.
You are so right. I never stop in this type of videos, I feel not beneficial as none of them is a professional (nor Islamically nor in psychology or marital matters) I was just baffled by the topic and the amount of excuses they are using to support such an issue.
if she cheat, she is no longer deserved to be in relationship. Take accountability, nothing has to do with men.
This is true, however, any man who is good in the bed, assertive, doesn't chase her happiness, and pander to her all the time while giving affection here and there will not have a woman that cheats.
everything has to do with men tho. do you no the saying there is no such thing as a no good woman every no good woman was made by a no good man?
well the same goes with cheating. if you care for your wife. if you show her affection, love and listen she won't cheat if you don't she will be miserable and can A either cheat or B just simply divorce you.
because no woman wants to stay in a miserable relationship. that girls didn't stay a virgin until marriage only to end up with a man who can't satisfy her emotionally and majority of the time from what i hear sexually either.
@@shadmani9687 thats not true lmfao, not all women are saints she could be married to him just for his money and goes behind his back and does stuff
@hellokitty10117 women are far from saints, but they are programmable. Those women you are talking about that leave men with their money end up with men with no money but end up with them because they got game.
Did you see me mention money in that list?
Weird justifying zina in that case let’s justify all haram. First fear Allah, respect yourself,be righteous to your partner,guard your family honour,work on your marriage and final this show is toxic for Muslims.
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“Partner” 😹
I agree this fitna show can where muslimahs commit Tabarruj openly and free mix with men is haram, talking about sensitive matters openly without any haya is just disgusting. Ask any reputable scholar they’ll agree. These western Muslims are a fitnah to this ummah!
Word brother
how is it toxic? a virgin Muslim man doesn't know how deal with women they are programmed to be simps by the media.
Women often cheat due to a desire for excitement, increased affection, or falling out of love with their significant other. If you suspect your partner is being unfaithful, it's advisable to openly discuss your concerns with them before taking any further action.
What about if the wife doesn't find the husband attractive anymore for e.g. before marriage or during early on marriage the guy use to groom him self, go to the gym everyday, Wears good perfume, does facial routine but because his mental health declined due to losing a job or losing his loved ones and isn't making effort to look nice which is totally understandable and his wife isn't patient with him and cheats on him and finds someone else attractive. Is that justified...
Nothing justified cheating brother if she thing the not looking attractive to her so it's better to talk to him and still it's not working the devorce would be good instead of cheat and hurt someone feelings and giving her or him life time trauma and trust issue@@SikandarKhan-mf5pz
@@SikandarKhan-mf5pz Think about Allah questioning a person.. will it be acceptable when they’re asked why did they cheat , something very dishonorable they say because my husband stopped caring for himself.. will that acceptably take away their accounntability? not at all. We should all fear the position of Allah and his witnessing of everything we do it’s nothing light. We are each accountable for what we do. And ultimately seek help through patience and prayer Allah will open halal doors
@@user-fn8bs2mo1h Great response, people need to worry more about what they will say in front of Allah... Life is hard, sometimes we lose ourselves or struggle with health this is when we need our partner the most. We have to distinguish someone mistreating someone and someone who needs help or is lost, can happen to anyone. If you think you are justified in your responses to Allah, then leave the person but nothing will ever absolve anyone of cheating. We are accountable for our own actions, if we feel there's a risk or harm caused by something in our life then distance ourselves from it or let it go but do not take the path to hell thinking you can blame someone else.
I agree
If a woman cheats it’s the man’s fault, if the man cheats it’s the man’s fault. Sisters logic
Brotherss logic is the opposite. Like Ali dawah
Cheating is haram for both genders. End of story. This podcast was so unnecessary
From when non-mahram men and women in the same room talking about their bedroom life becomes normalized.
Since braindead modernist sects influence normal Muslims.
Normalising adultery like it's a misdemeanor. You don't justify that. Obviously content creators gon create. Shameless
This what happens when a tiktok and instagram society merge with islam, wallahi no shame discusting
Money does this to ppl
They not taking about themselves
Why cheat when there's a halal way ? It's called divorce.
the worst halal act
@@englishbladeIt's halal ... It's better than cheating.... And zina
@@englishblade proof?
This podcast is mad cringe 🤮
So are you
Don’t go fast to judge
@@dawah_power English please
Mahdi is a narcissist
@@mai0033he a legend speaks facts 90 percent of the time only feminists get triggered feminists call men narcissistic misogynistic 😂
Ali dawah is trying to tell us this is from the sunnah? This kind of discussion and free-mixing? Don' try to justify this is normal. Ask yourself, will you want your daughter to be sat with non-mahram men discussing "Islam" if the answer is no. Don't even promote such shows. This is fitnah vibes
He shoud change hes name to ali dajjall
My dear sister or brother (idk which mb 😭), I believe to an extent you're right, but if topics like this aren't discussed between both genders (with barriers and areas of limitation) how will one be able to become a better husband/wife, although they do linger/push past the line, I believe if done correctly this could actually be beneficial
“She needs an outlet “
LMAO maybe by STARTING TO BE CLEAR WITH YOUR HUSBAND. But if you CANT communicate with your husband have a mediator like a sheikh or both families. And if not, divorce if you can’t have that dialogue with your spouse.
Women do not communicate. They want men to just get it.
a lot of women are very clear. as a psychiatrist i have women who tell me i literally told my husband so many times i need love, i need a laugh i need a kind word. i will be everything you want as a wife and mother but this is what is lacking in our relationship this is what i need to be happy to feel fulfilled. and everyone of those men will put in effort for about a week and than stop again. and they will start from zero. reality is men get comfortable. men forget they have a woman at home not just a wife and mother of his kids but a woman. one with needs and wants. sadly men are selfish so as long as they get from the marriage what they want and need they really do not give two cents about the wife.
@@Jessicaro Why do you believe women? Women say one thing but always mean another. Women say they want xyz and when given they are not happy in the long term, that happiness dissapears after few hours at best. Just because it makes her happy doesnt mean it makes her respect him. There are studies to show women do change what they want depending on where they are on their hormonal cycle. A man almost always provide love but she ignores it. He works hard because he loves his wife, he protects her during dangerous situations, but she ignores him.
Women have to earn their love from their husband. Its not free. Men want to love. Those women that complain 99% of the time they nag, they overlook what he does for her to look at what he didnt do for her, they make him feel less of a man, they dont let him lead, talk back, bring up his weak momemts from the past just to name a few.
And here you are saying "women tell me this all the time...".
@@Jessicaro "a lot of women are very clear"
Press X to doubt
@@Jessicaro THEN LEAVEEEE. DPONT CHEAT
Common thing with women is they listen to respond and not listen to hear. Brother Mahdi didn't say don't make them happy, he's saying what women generally THINKS makes them happy, ISN'T what actually makes them happy. What DOES make them happy, is what he's suggesting. It's a good point and boils down to psychology.
I can't actually believe the brothers needed clarity from brother Mahdi on this.😂 He literally made it clear the first time.
women only hear what they 'want' to hear and if they hear the opposite they tend to react
@@luluah1198 your comment went over my head, and I'm female
the girls on the podcast are clothed feminists, while the guys including ali dawah are trying to tip toe around the girls, which makes the girls think what they are saying is more right, hence why they kept interrupting Mahdi.
@@luluah1198 ok sorry
@@vortexlight8387 I know right, always blaming men. In a previous episode, a sister said she sees boys all the time in public wearing shorts (haram for men) and that he is not conducting his proper hijab, but she said that while not covering significant part of her hair.
If you have any shame left, all of you, stop this nonsense. Would you all men like your women sitting with strange man and talking these kind of things? You are not doing any good just causing fitnah.. don't know what's more important to you 'views' or your hereafter
The sisters were not letting brother Mahdi talk without interrupting him. They did not even let him speak for a minute without interrupting him.
We need more of brother Mahdi and Ali. How they are direct and don’t beat around. No excuses for cheating. Take accountability rather then shifting blame
Brother mahdi and brother hijab, are not the kind of guys most women want as husbands. They come across as controlling and lack emotional intelligence.
Accountability and women.
Lol.
it's natural to cheat we are just animals 😀😀
no lol @@ahmedloski6673
Mahdi is vile
Don't say this talk show is in the name Islam. Most disgusting thing I've seen recently. Wow the ummah is in a terrible terrible State.
Girls will cheat anyway even if the husband is playing his part, she'll laugh and giggle with non mahrams and then show attitude towards her husband, even when I went see my uncle in hospital last year a hijabi nurse went into the next door room with another male nurse alone and he's telling her about his girlfriend and her issues with her and saying f ford and stuff, the fact that non mahram's are discussing that with muslim sisters in the work place means they've crossed the boundaries of him being a work colleague but making friendships with them its not just limited to just speaking when necessary strictly about work stuff
That's the problem.
Women talk more 2 the work colleagues and not husbands.
They all just want 2 work.
And not stay home look after the kids
@@suhaibsuhaib5947
OK may be ur right.
But spending more time with a non mehram is wrong .
That's the part of the problem.
Husbands don't know where the wives r .
Go 2 work 2 what ever
They keep making excuses. WHO CARES WHAT THE REASON IS. MOVE ON AND DONT CHEAT. JUST DIVORCE OR TALK ABOUT IT WITH YOUR HUSBAND
Nothing wrong with discussing the reason
Who cares? If you don't then you're arrogant and ignorant. Because by listening and understanding, both the men and women can become better people and avoid these things from happening.
They're not making excuses and the reason is very important and needs to be discussed
Beautiful response! If a woman cheats she is the one that is getting used and abused she is the one that has no shame no haya. Same thing for a man if a man is not happy with his wife he has no right to cheat he can marry again ALLAH AZZAWAJAL had giving him that HAQ!
If you don't learn from your life then how will you grow?
My grandad use to say when I visted him Pakistan that our Muslims will get miss lead and lose sham I only came on here to make this comments these podcasts are disturbingly concerning for the up and coming Muslim generations. We becoming shameless and losing haya women have no shyness left
I swear ur spot on. Never seen a fitna show like this in the east. All under the name of islam and they pretend they’re spreading the deen, not to mention the free mixing and fitna goin on here. Ask any authentic scholar or Da’ee this show is haram. May Allah guide these people
If a man cheats, it's his fault for not being able to control his nafs. If a woman cheats, it's the man's fault for neglecting her needs. Accountability really is kryptonite for sisters.
Not all sisters. We are accountable to Allah and cheating is first and foremost a sin that no one should go near.
If a woman cheat is done. No forgiveness no matter what.
That’s true, I feel like 90% of Muslim men would instantly divorce in that situation
Same for the men? Or is the woman always to blame? Men are worse
And if a man cheats?
@@TheTruthSeekerMe it’s equally messed up. But women are more likely to forgive than men. That’s just the reality of things.
@@slovelyyx7718 true but they shouldnt honestly
The sister with her face covered needs to work on her behaviour and manners. Constantly interrupting and speaking over others when they showed her courtesy during her turns in speaking
@Babycake. Where was he being disrespectful? The guy never even spoke until halfway into the video, the women here dominated the time in this video (except the one with glasses).
She on the other hand kept disturbing others from speaking, talking loudly over them, acting like a man etc.
Grow up.
@Babycake. You need to get over your heartbreak and take some accountability, instead of moaning online with your sour grapes.
But I can't say I entirely blame you.
At the end of the day the only people who understand women are women, and look at how much you hate each other.
@@AZK91 Ouch
@Babycake. No one cares if you didn't like his tonality. The world doesn't have to pander to your feelings.
@Babycake. Nope. He asked where he as being disrespectful, and all you can mention is his tonality. He didn't ask about his tonality. And besides, his tonality was perfect, direct, not like human pet would have that most husbands are.
The idea that the concept of “performing” in the bedroom has become a concept in the Muslim marriage is frightening. Because this concept originated from “corn”. In reality marriage is intimately together.
what you mean? so a husband shouldn't put effort in? you do realize how miserable majority of women are because their husbands can't fulfill their sexual needs?
The whole premise is predicated upon the idea that a woman cheats because of what her husband has done. The reality is that a pure woman would never cheat regardless of what her husband does and if the marriage is irreparable then she would seek khula. A woman who would cheat is described as vile in the Quran. Also this applies equally to a man who cheats, both are described by Allah as vile. There is never an excuse for cheating and the punishment in the sunnah is death. This program is a effort from the shaytan to normalise and find excuses for such vile behaviour. Know that the vast majority of muslims are not fooled by this and keep their purity InshaAllah, it is only the vile that fall into this then try to justify it. Shame on Ali Dawah and those that seek to say the cheating has any excuse none of this is justified in the Quran.
The physical act of cheating is 100% the woman's fault. The reasons she does it is a different story but the reasons do not justify the act.
Cheaters Cheat simple... those who have issues, find a way to fix it or leave, cheaters look for reasons and excuses. SImple as
The only person that made sense who was very articulate and knows what he’s talking about is brother Mahdi, everyone else was talking with emotions and to win the argument and that’s NOT what the viewers want to see or hear!
Excatly. Let him finish explaining his point. They need to stop interrupting every sentence he makes. I'm not saying I 100% agree with, but he did have a point. What I have realized as you said is that these women are not listening to understand but listening to reply and with their emotions.
You all sound like narcissists how disgusting
I want to say that in any relationship, the key to a good relationship is having the correct communication skills for that relationship.
As a man, you should make every single person in your household feel genuinely heard and understood and that you will consider what they have said in whatever decision you are making, but ultimate final say is down to you.
Between wife and husband, you need to be best friends that are able to discuss and even argue over things. Tension is not a bad thing as long as you make up and it doesn't happen continuously. Relationships need balance, not too much one way or the other.
As A convert I am terrified to get married hearing these perspectives, seems like you need to be a perfect man to get loyalty. SMH
Don't be brother, these are opinions which reflect their personal experiences and some from areas of assumption.
It is very simple, if someone cheats it is 100% on them as there's no excuse or reason for it from Allah.
Find your match, someone who understands you and someone you understand and build YOUR marriage which works for you. Every marriage is different and the only working formula is the one which works for you.
The only things we need to take away from this is, bad people do bad things...
Work on ourselves to follow the sunnah, if we follow the sunnah we are safe with Allah and if someone strays then the fault is in them and not yourself.
I think its just women in general and they don't have to be muslim where they have unrealistic standards and when those standards aren't met they would either cheat,lose interest show attitude to the husband but it's up to you as a man to use your judgement to the best of your ability and understand the psychology of women when you speak to her for the first time, i.e if she emphasizes the importance of looking after her husband and takes interest the things you like the man will show the appreciation back and both with be happy
Bro this only happens in the west trust me. This show is haram full of free mixing and fitna. Ask any reputable scholar they’ll tell you the same. I grew up in east and cheating there especially among women is very rare. However moving to west for uni I heard so many stories a lot of these guys have implemented the western lifestyle so they face the same problems. I’m making Hijra and I promised myself that I’d never raise kids in west!
@@luluah1198 your seriously comparing Muslim majority countries where 90%+ population is Muslim vs minorities in the west? I’ve live in the GCC and South Asia for many years. I know what I’m talking about. I’m not denying it happens there but relatively the levels are no where near that you believe. It’s just cause when the entire population is Muslim you’re bound to find bad apples. Still in the west where Muslims are a minority the filth that happens here can’t be compared with all due respect. Its cause in the west degeneracy is socially accepted unlike in the east. There’s a reason why Sharia doesn’t permit settling among Kuffars permanently and no way id ever raise kids in the west. Regardless may Allah guide us and keep us all steadfast on the Deen!
Honestly, young virgins who are god fearing are usually happy with little. A good place to check out is I3 institute, which has a matrimony aspect overseen by the Sheikh Usta and the students are young.
in every marriage honeymoon phase lasts a short term. After that, reality kicks in and the spark does eventually die. Thats when both of the couple has to light the spark again by communicating and trying out different stuff.
If a woman feels the need to cheat she should talk to her husband and if things aren’t the way she wants she should ask for a divorce. Its horribly disrespectful and deceitful for her to fulfil her physical and emotional needs elsewhere. Be a ‘’man” about it, have that conversation, divorce if necessary and move on. And good luck finding that nirvana you have envisioned.
Have not watched this episode yet, but can we get part 2 for "what women want in a husband" [the whole format as in "what men want in a wife"] please?
We need Mahdi on that show.
Women want a rich man
@@noreenbi9079lets not forget attractive aswell
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Of course 🙂
But they prefer rich
@@noreenbi9079 yeah the term i think is "oofy doofy" guy im not sure if its the exact term but its like a woman is not physically or sexually attracted to you but mostly likes your money and security and maaaayybbbeee your personality aswell but thats it. And most men think "yeah my woman loves me cause she married me" while she is always dropping her jaws when seeing mister attractive and not to her husband.
Ali Dawah brother I never felt once wanting to subscribe to your channel and honestly I intend to continue that way.
I must say brother Mahdi raised some good points. Very well articulated.
The others were talking way too much they make dumb points Mahdi and Ali are the only ones who don’t waffle
Mahdi treats his wife like property don’t take advice from him! If your wife withholds from you will you also think it’s good like if she says “ I shouldn’t be so nice to him coz at the end he will cheat and will desire someone else!” That’s ridiculous 😂
@@nami20622 Oh yh don't take advice from a man that has turned his life around and now is in a polygyny marriage, take advice from men that are scared of their wife, and women who don't know what they want, or men with no far less experience than him.
Mahdi treats his wife how they should be treated. Depending of your definition of property, she is to an extend, similarly to if a child is a property of a mother. Women like to be owned by an assertive dominant man that can say no to them, not a man that lives by happy wife happy life rubbish.
Mahdi is traumatic narcissistic
@@asma_zafar Nope, you are just a feminist.
If a woman cheats, dump her immediately. Never take back a cheating wife.
what is this? all I heard was justification for cheating and that the man was to blame for it. and narsicism where you seek your happiness like this world was meant to be Jannah. if you aren't happy it's part of life don't cheat or jump ship and seek it else where work through it. also, the emotional instability women have its also her responsibility to be self-aware and reflect on it that this is something that happens to her and try not to make the husband tiptoe around her. no matter how considerate he is as a human being we can't be perfect now does that give her the justification to blame her husband for not knowing her?
Its same for men yall have billion excuses
Men are designed to seek multiple partners
bro ali dawah is the worst, the guy is litterally just a simp.
sorry but some women can cry, yell, talk sweet and do all that while telling her husband what she needs from her. some even beg for affection and love and don't get it. women don't just wake up one morning and say you know what after waiting years as a virgin until marriage following my religion today is the day i will go look for attention from another man. fact is your the man of the house right? your the head than take your responsibility. if your wife cheats than yes 99 percent of the time it is because you failed as a husband period.
@@Jessicarothis is just shifting the blame, regardless if the man wasn't on track with his duties. we can be inconsistent, we are only human. To say that working and providing coming home, having to deal with what ever issues there are at home, whether if its from the wife/children or parents/family amongst other things, isn't tough enough, we are expected to perform accordingly and we are scrutinised by general society and the women in our lives if we fail at any part of it. Women need to be considerate about this. you cant expect everything to be handed to you in this life like that, there are some things you'll have to compromise. best way to put it; You are not owed happiness, do not expected it to come from worldly things, that is including your spouse, good things will come and go, be grateful for them, but do not depend on them to keep you happy. Instead look towards abiding to your duties to your partner, this is something you must do, and if there is something that you need, communicate that with your husband. to assume that all mean are can't take care of their women is cruel as there are so many things a man can do for his wife that is left unnoticed. if you had a son, and you knew how vulnerable he was when you first held him, then he grew up and become a man and got married, and his wife berated him for not giving enough to her, when you know yourself how much he does, only then you will truly realise how tough we have it.
Now i understand why muhammad pbuh said " most of the person in hell are women , they are ungrateful to their husband "
I think the term divorce is thrown out so easily espcially in this episode when it could be a simple case speaking , understanding each other and solving simple misconceptions, people could be watching this an emotional state make rash decisions and take the divorce route, the whole episode was just to make excuses for cheating women rather than offering solutions , the whole purpose of the show according to ALi is to help people not add fuel to the fire of peoples marriage issues
Half agree and half disagree.
There should've been more focus on the solutions.
@@mags7054 What is the solution to a woman who doesn't respect you?
@@mags7054 what bit do you disagree?
divorce and another woman who does@@shadmani9687
@@shadmani9687 divorce
I love how its always about the Man being the root cause of any issue within a relationship. ive noticed that on every platform and every lecture its always about how that Man needs to keep the woman happy (or engaged) and never (or rarely) about the Woman fullfilling her duties, therfore giving the Man the time and energy to provide that emotional (and physical) support .
An interesting topic would be 'what does a husband need from his wife to have a succsessful relationship'
Brother Ali, for future episodes, consider inviting Mohammed Hijab and Gabriel Al-Romani as regular guests and rotating random guests for each episode.
The main thing is that whp ever is cheating is a coward with np backbone. If u see that it's not working, eitber, u work on the marriage, or u just divorce. Cuz cheating/going behind one's spouse isn't going to fix things, just making it worse. To me, if my spouse cheats, there is no fixing anything or blame shifting (no attention/no connection).
There is no excuse for cheating period. I don’t care if you are a man or a woman.
But I find it funny how when a man cheats and gives en excuse as to why he did it, society validates his reasoning (Ex. He’s not sexually satisfied or his wife is not having sex with him), but if a woman cheats, she is given no mercy even if her needs weren’t being met.
Why is this?
Stupid logic and highly biased. Not even an argument.
It shouldn't be seen differently. Why? Because Allah SWT legislated the punishments for adultery for both genders.
Bc men can have sex with another woman and still not love her or want to be with her. It's just lust. But when a woman cheats it's betrayal and she's emotionally checked out way before. And usually women have someone planned out already who are they gonna cheat with before
Yes ,I agree ,why should men be treated differently to woman
Subhan Allah. We in 2024 but the folks on here with their jahalat, gender biases and nonsense views of 'hormonal women' living like it's 1024. Forget cheating who wants to get married after watching this lot 😂
When you have to continually justify one person, mahdi, and your views it clearly is a case of 'the lady doth protest too much.' 😂
There is no excuse. But, imagine a man putting down his wife, abusing her emotionally, denying her sex, and then turning around and using porn right in her face. In this case, as a woman, leave, rather than be led to sin.
If you want proof that Mehdi is right, look at 56 minutes where all the women are smiling and laughing but also clearly annoyed. Seems like engagement > happiness. Allah hu A3lam.
I caught that. Even the girl in glasses who only spoke once had a huge smile.
When brother Sajjid critisized this kind of settings i didn't agree with him at first but now i get his point...
I have all respect for the brothers doing da'wa for the sake of Allah 'azzawajal and for trying to help the umma, but this goes to far. Yes, we shouldn't be shy to discuss any subject. But there's a place & time for this kind of talks. It should be done with qualified people and not with random people online where everybody has there own bagage & opinions.
I write this because a thought crossed my mind while watching; Would Ali sit his wife in front of these men to engage in this kind of talks?
That's a sincere question and i hope Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala guides us all.
At least he should blur the women's faces like he does with his wife and separate them from the men with a curtain.
Ali Dawah has completely lost, I knew this some time ago but this is nailing it.
Guy's not a scholar or remotely close to it, yet is audacious enough to bring in these kind of videos that serve no purpose other than to unwittingly entice and embolden others to cheat on their spouse.
There's no discussion needed, if you feel as though you need to cheat, then first, divorce your spouse, then go and do as you please.
These kind of men/women today in the Muslim world are a disgrace to the faith. My grandmother whose husband neglected her bore with patience for decades and there are many thousands of similar stories like this, but today's so-called "sophisticated" and "educated" men/women are indulging in pornography and then seek to justify their malevolent behaviour by saying "I've been neglected" or "not been given what I was due". It's a joke.
Brother Mahdi was very well articulated - raises good points and practical systemic troubleshooting methods to finding the root causes of the problem, which makes it easier to manage and solve the issue hopefully and ultimately.
Why these sisters were intimidated with brother Mahdi’s analogies (which was based on experience and expert on that field)? They couldn’t even give him a chance to finish his statements or even answer! They kept on interrupting him and that tells us something!
cuz Ali let them waffle for first half of the show without push back, so they thought they are dominating the convo, until mahdi came and threathened their authority, but ofcourse Ali and his simp friends on the couch sided with the illogical things the girls said and tried to put mahdi in the corner.
@@vortexlight8387 well said BarakAllah fik
@@seekfactsnotfiction9056 how was that well said, no adab or aklaq just straight up slander? May Allah guide us
Because they were triggered, women are not logical. The wife is always the oldest child in the family.
@@vortexlight8387 Not gonna lie, sister's waffling is funny. In the episode of what women want from their husbands they said "open communication" but that is rubbish because in another episode they hinted they want men to already know what she wants without her constantly telling her. Women waffle, never take advice from them. Mahdi's free advice changed my life and if I do better financially I will donate a lot to him InshaAllah
Just get a KHULLAH if you're not getting emotional support or getting satisfied physically. That doesn't give the right a woman to cheat. If the roles were reverse and the guy said hes cheating because his wife is not satisfying him physically rhen the Feminists in the comment section will go MENTAL 😂😂😂😂😂
What??? are we normaliing this filth ?? zina/?
Perfectly said brother mahdi !
With all due respect, it is exhausting watching this when some persons like the sister in Niqab are constantly interrupting, talking over the others and showing lack of adab..
She is confronting the narcissism of Mahdi. Kudos to her
There is no excuse to cheating. huge sin and there is a huge punishment for it in the afterlife. This shouldnt be a discussion.
In summary don’t just arbitrarily follow the ways of brother Mahdi, follow the ways of prophet Muhammad who’s character Allah himself attested to.
Nothing says Prophet Muhammad would reject Mahdi's way. I am willing to argue that he would approve his way more than the way that most people say. There is only 2 way, Mahdi's way and Happy wife Happy life way. Happy wife happy life is unislamic.
@@shadmani9687where did prophet s.a.w say you can never make a woman happy or you shouldn’t care about her happiness but do what engages her like mehdi says??mehdi is preaching totally kufr mentality so stop pushing your western ideas and making it deen..it’s absolute disgrace to Islam and don’t speak without knowledge ..Allah s.w says وعاشروهن بالمعرف prophet s.w said خيركم خيركم لاهلي وانا خيركم لاهلي so show me where it says neglet what makes her happy😳
@@zeynab7435 Are you slow? No one said you shouldnt make a woman happy. Neither did Mahdi. A man should keep her engaged rather than short term happiness because aiming to keep her happy will make her miserable. Did you hear that part when Mahdi saod that or did you have selective hearing?
Man keeps woman happy by temporarily annoying her to keep her engaged.
I don’t get this guy, your trying to do dawah and educate our young people and unmarried and married people by bringing people like this mahdi guy who obviously have an agenda for financial gain by uplifting a persona … you got divorced woman on here giving advice on what woman need .. why don’t you bring more brothers like the first one that seem like good people because even he was confused listening to all this malarkey. Brothers and sisters treat ur wife / husband how you would want ur dad / mum / sister / brother / son / daughter to be treated and show love and mercy , and if it didn’t work and you done all that, alhamdulilah it didn’t work it wasn’t meant for you by Allah .
Where is you evidence of Mahdi having "an agenda for financial gain"?
And regarding his divorce, so when sisters get divorce its "don't judge her its not her fault" but when he got divorced its his fault? Don't be a contradiction.
@@shadmani9687he clearly got divorced because of his absurd behavior and beliefs about women 😂what’s soo hard about internalizing that?if his ways worked I wonder why it didn’t work for him and he ended up with several divorces from multiple women..so yes if we wanna get advice on marriage relationships we need people with deen and successful marriages,,I don’t see why a divorcee is tranna advise us on how to treat a woman..pure audacity when he couldn’t understand one woman 🤦♀️
@@zeynab7435 You were not there as a fly on the wall to see what she did that got him that enraged, yes that matters regardless of what liberal feminists say. And neither did you see what he was like with his wife on a daily basis.
You dont know if his first wife is bad or not, considering someone who continously prevents the husband from seeing the kids plenty of times despite having a court order where he is supoosed to be able to see the kids, she seems like an awful woman.
How is it that he is in polygyny he is not get divorced, rather he is in marriages that most men would dream of? Answer that big mouth?🤣
Mufti menk is divorced too. Do you go onto his videos to say the same thing? Or are you a hypocrite?
bruh the first guy was so clueless about relationships, he had no anwsers and no wisdom. all his anwsers were "i dont know".
@@vortexlight8387 I know right? Then he would say to mahdi "I disagree with you".But bruv he himself had no clue 🤣🤣
If you cheat you need to be stoned 😂 wat are this sensless debates
Exactly
JazakhaAllahu khayran brothers and sisters who were in the show, awesome topic and it's so relevant. 👌 ❤
Ali I watch all your videos but I can never watch these videos because everyone thinks they know everything!
As salam u alaikum people are sharing their opinions. And we resort back to Quran and sunnah.
@@AliDawahmashallah
You are validating possibilities of it happening
Opions on an antisocial behaviour. You are getting disalutioned. You Wasthagfirula. You are using your platform in a wrong way, Chi chi chi.
Brother Asad, I do think you are missing the point a little. There are many who think along the lines of the speakers hence the importance of having a diverse group of speakers so everyone can relate to someone subjectively, then we can use the Sunnah to get everyone to a good place objectively. May surprise you but many people struggle to sit through talks or lectures so discussion and more avenues for Halal discussions are important especially for the younger ones.
A valid point was made by the brother. Why cant women get those emotional needs from other women???
Like the example given by the woman. Women has issues at home. Tells her male colleague..and he is supportive to her. EVERYTHING done here can be done by a woman.
But the feminists on the right are quick to shut him down saying "no no no..its not the same". SO CLEARLY shes seeking more than just "emotional needs".
The sister in the niqab was very rude to one of the brothers with a gesture. Manners don't cost a thing
Yes, I found her quite combative at every opportunity and tried to one up the guys at every point. Also quite a lack of accountability. Just my honest opinion.
She has masculine energy
Let's not target people, everyone has things they are working on... it may be one of her weak areas, we can all think it but when you say it or type it, we are accountable.
@@eclipse4283 cuz Ali was simping and reinforcing her. Ali really needs to man up.
@@vortexlight8387Ali wants to get in her Niqab
So let me get this right, one of the guys who stoned her to death was disgusted - not by the fact that he just brutally murdered a fellow human being - but that some of her blood splattered on his foot...?
Cheating is haram. Both men and women cheat. HOWEVER, disrespect and sexual dissatisfaction incentivise cheating for both sexes. When a society makes adultery easy and divorce difficult, that society is doomed to dysfunctional families.
The most educational video on women's psychology yet. And the women on the panel hated it😂 Thanks Ali Dawah!
Selfish responses from womens side, there is no responsibility
I was a victim of a narcissistic woman, with the false hope of her improving which in the end it never did but only got worse. Luckily my backbone and gut feeling prevented from investing too much into her. (materialistic and financially) But it left me bitter and emotionally broken. It was a hard lesson.
Hey Ali, AOA! I absolutely love your content and the way you shed light on important issues. 🌟 I wanted to bring to your attention the alarming democratic violations and oppression happening in Pakistan. It's crucial to use your platform to raise awareness about these issues and encourage discussions that can lead to positive change. Your voice can make a significant impact, and together, we can work towards a more just and fair society. Keep up the amazing work, and thank you for being a voice for the voiceless! 🙌💙 #RaiseAwareness #StandForJustice
I agree with brother mahdi he is right about not knowing what will keep her engage spontaneous leader
That’s cazy siz but all good if it works for you but to generalize it is idiocy..let’s not come up with anything and say this is what women want or this how they function bcz we all don’t function or think the same way..
@@zeynab7435 this is what women want iniatly, they might not like it, but this is what they yearn for. today's feminist have convinced girls that you are basicly equal to the man in the relationship, but once they go into that relationship, they leave the man because he was weak or wasnt man enough. whereas girls that accept this, and obey their husbands and see him as their leader, will most of the time last.
@@zeynab7435 maybe Mahdi didn't explain it well he didn't mean in a bad way ,
will start to take for granted when someone start to say yes to everything we say idk why even for parents that are soo good to their kids , their kids start to disrespect them . is true we all are different, a little bit is not bad too much of anything in life is bad we need balance.
too much water is bad too much of food is bad ,
spontaneous like surprises dont you like surprises ? imagine your husband comes home with a bouquet of flowers like you didn't expect this from him .
imagine he start to do it every Friday now is like a routine. imagine you want to wear mini skirt and your husband say yes , you want to drink alcohol he says yes , if something is harmful for you and your dine your husband you talk to you and explain and try to keep you in right path and say nooo ,because both want to help eachother do go to jennah.
is true we dont like them to tell us no . but sometimes even if we get angry and sad but we start to cherish the good things and not take for granted what he did for us.
we created in a way that until we dont loose we dont realize what we had. for exemple health, shelter protection a bed to sleep easy access to water , electricity.
everything in balance is good too much of noo nono is bad same as yes yes yes.
Whats the point of these discussions! This is not dawah. How is this calling someone to Allah ? This is beyond ridiculous , all the content is about women second wives and marriage!
These married sisters are real thanks for reminding us married men how to communicate better with our partners
😅 women just point fingers when they are caught
But three fingers of their own point back at them
N what do men do when they get caught ?
@@shay5566Take it on the chin and accept responsibility for their mistakes unlike you feminist 🤡
Some men lie when they get caught also
@@shay5566 If the muslim men did get caught with zina/cheat they would probably cover it with marrying the mistress under the name of islam allows polygamy 😅 ... True case that happened in Malaysia
I know why it was done byt discussing different moves in a bedroom in this environment isn't good. I could see the brother with a besrd struggling to keep a straight face, I'd struggle too as it is awkward in this setting. So glad no one mentioned anything specific like the wheelbarrow 😅
The guy with the red top made sense the sister did not like because he was on the point, only a person who has gone through that can explain, women tend to look at others and there is no excuse of cheating and before any woman does this have the guts and tell your man not lie when you get caught
The sister made a valid point to the fact that he differentiated between happiness and engagement
@@PatriciaBanks-m3s valid point at the end? before they were ignorant towards the brother in the red he was 100% right
The sisters were not ignorant, they simply disagreed and they're entitled to have their own opinion and challenge a different mindset. It's not ignorance, it's difference. He changed his tone when he was challenged hence why they all eventually seemed to agree.
@@PatriciaBanks-m3s He didn't change his tone, those sisters were ignorant and were pretty rude towards him at first.
Sisters were mainly waffling no offense, women don't know what they want. Mahdi is right.
Mahdi is back Masha Allah 😅❤
Oh yeah
I wonder if sisters have this much insight in why men get second wives (halal) as they do why women cheat (haram)?
When talking about women cheating they speak in such a way in which the man is acting in an inadequate way which makes her cheating a natural consequence.
So can we do the visa versa? Can we speak about men who get second wives as if what they did is a natural consequence of the inadequacies of their wives?
Either BOTH people seek another sexual partner because of failure to contain their desires, or everything we do is a consequence of what other people do.
Allowing a space for a middle ground feels like we’re gonna starting making certain cheating situations “understandable” which is scary.
Asalamualaikum. Was thinking the exact same thing. I believe some of the sisters are not even married and they have so much to say about divorce/ cheating?
The women on the panel were simply justifying a woman's cheating on the man in someway as if it's somehow his fault and he could've acted differently thus she wouldn't have cheated. It really doesn't matter what the other partner does, if she/he is going to cheat, she/he is going to cheat.
Exactly , completely against the commandment of Allah. We honestly just need to focus on Allah swt.
If they cheat no matter who she/he that shows that their Iman and culture
if you don't like you partner,, divorce is an option .. cheating will make you go to hell .
Bring Mahdi on more! He brings so much excitement and controversy but he make strong points
O Muslims please wake up May God guide me and you from the name of the channel, Dawah, it it's supposed to be a channel with Islamic content . but Unfortunately, women with makeup and incomplete hijaps . mixing among men
And women, without any need to discuss the causes of adultery “under the name of cheating.”!!!
I did not even watch the video. it appeared to me as a suggestion, but from the title and its picture alone, I became frustrated. I am not here to criticize anyone. God knows that all those people might be much better than me, but that is not what our religion looks like. when you have a channel classified as an Islamic channel specifically for (Dawah), you are supposed to be a role model for Muslims and present what true Islam is.
as a Muslim nation we are going through the most difficult times, seeing what is happening to our brothers and sisters, whether in Palestine, Syria, Sudan, Kashmir, the Uyghurs, Yemen, and many others and we are just witching , not doing anything maybe waiting for a miracle .
we must help each other to obey God in the way he wants from us. to be a real Muslims Perhaps God will guide us, unite us in His word, and help us to support our oppressed brothers and sisters, wherever they are .
U should invite Mahi more into the show
and give him more time to speak. the guy was cooking, but they kept interrupting him and not allowing him to speak
If a women can even hypothetically rationalize cheating shes not the women for you..great question to ask to see how she answers..if she does like the women on this panel red flag
One push-up for every like
Who cares bro
do 5 per like
@@Yusuf3hassani asked 🗿
Do a million for every like, only stop for Salah
@@TheArsenal21 popular opinion approved 🗿
These bushras justifying cheating is peak irony
Why you don't bring your wife here? So she can talk with non-mehrams also and discuss bedroom talks.
You quick to attack other daees but what about yourself??
Asalamualaikum! Our sisters seem to have a lot of information on why women cheat?.. SubhanAllah! What's going on? 😂 Do women often think about what would make them cheat on their husbands? This is worrying
You're exactly the man the sister in blue hijab described when she explained that men will question her integrity if she raises a physicality concern with her husband. Vile comment to make and totally unislamic of you
Aliii I need ep 2 of marriage documentry😂
Not rlly… Tbh i thought it was garbage
Why though? Focus on your own life, brother. Why do you care about someone else's marriage
If she cheats , it’s either that she was promiscuous pre marriage , or she is being completely neglected by her husband .
This shows why discussion is important, in the end everyone ends up on the same page. There is truth, women do need engagement AND need happiness but chasing her happiness is a moving goalpost which ends badly. Keep her engaged, Understand what works for your partner and that will lead to happiness in the end but the end goal should always be happiness, the route we take is specific to each individual
I think thats avoidable by being a man with priorities and a routine before getting a wife. Then when you get married you just (partially) replace the things you did in your free time with quality time with your wife. I think biologically, chasing her makes her feel as if you dont have nothing in your life.
@@weirdstrafer9263 Have to agree, you look weak if you have no direction or anything. People start by trying to mould themselves to someone else but it genuinely starts with you.... be your best you!
@@FactsCanHurt its just the nice guy syndrome. Dont be a nice guy, be a good guy
Cheating is a choice not a mistake .
Omg you have period once a month for a week so you gona blame the period get a grip. We not gona do anything once a month for seven days because we are on our period.
Everyone is misreading. "Why" is asked to find out the reason, not to excuse the reason. Reason and excuse don't mean the same thing.
Accountability is like krytonite for women. This is why women shouldn't work or have social media. Women check out of a relationship before she physically checks out.
Says the male gender😂😂
If you not happy. Get divorced done. Can’t believe people are defending cheating.
Some sisters are immature on the panel
I mean.. 42:29 lol😅 There was no need
Why are Muslim men and women talking about cheating in this manner? As if it is a permitted but not preferred thing? Giving excuses and reasons for cheating? Cheating is a sin in Islam, and that’s it.
Fully Agree 👍