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many if your followers here in this comment section told you over and over stop these shows you are corrupting muslims minds, but you keep doing this over and over and when Sajiid post a video about your unbelievable poor listening skills you start badmouthing him. Incredible repulsive attitude.
This is why I unsubscribed from your RUclips channel. Sheikh Assim; ’It is kind of him to identify me as a student of knowledge which I am proud to be known for. However, when we start to make haram things halal based on fatwas of ‘big scholars” and we fail to name them, this shows how “weak” their argument is!! I have bib Bazz and Ibn Othaimeen backing my opinion about such gatherings and indecent topics to be totally prohibited and shameful in Islam. Ibn Abbas may Allah be pleased with him said to the people when they objected to a fatwa he gave by saying that Abu Bakr and Omer say something else, he said: hails of rocks and stones are about to fall upon you! I say Allah says and the prophet salla allahu alaihi wa sallam says and you counter that by saying Abu Bakr and Omer say??? Real Islam is corrupted and tarnished by such people who brush Quran and Sunnah off for the quotes of unknown “big scholars”! No one is above the sharia no matter how big they may think they are. Real men are known to stand down when they are wrong and admit it for the sake of truth and not to win an argument in this dunya and ending up finding that they have lost in their graves or the hereafter, may Allah make all our deeds sincere for His sake and give us a good ending on tawheed and the sunnah of our prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam. “
Stop Slandering Omar and Abu bark may Allah be pleased with them, Shiaa you are slandering the close companions of the Prophet do you realize that. Despicable
@@ALIBoldukSubhanAllah, sheikh said what the companion said. It just telling us that what the Messenger of Allah says and Allah says , matters the most. It has nothing to do with shias
A real man mate, was my dad. He loved my mother even when she became sick, stood by her, prayed for her akhirah while he was dying himself. My dad had every option to choose between women, married or unmarried. He chose to do right by his wife for the sake of Allah and took his vows seriously. People these days do not have a marriage, they're empty.
You claim you do this so we further understand divorce/relationships etc. My question to you is, what made these people that you bring on, an expert on the subject matter such that their opinions lead us to a better understanding on divorce/relationships etc?
@@AmindfulGem What? A council of lay people? A committee of the everyday man? A jury of the brothers and sisters down the road? If that is the definition of a panel then panels are fundamentally flawed.
@@hussamhussain6243 this show has taught me nothing and just feels like an entertainment while I fall asleep. Astaghfirullah. This show needs to go. They mosty talk like bunch of man vs woman twitter yappers
@@ZincZXzinx I feel you. It's just a show of people expressing their own opinions and feelings. If it's taught me anything it's that we love talking and we love listening to people talk unfortunately, no matter how lay they are. As a side note, I hate the way Ali expresses himself, he uses shaming language and expresses disgust towards others. There's just this taste of self-righteousness that you get from him.
Are these all husbands and wife? If not they have no business doing this bickering together it is forbidden in Islam Ali delete these embarrassing videos
Why is no one talking bout how he let sneako say terrible things about revert Muslimahs five days ago and instead of correcting him they tried to justify it. You lost all my respect as well as any other revert sisters.
I commented about it on another channel (IslamVibe) in which Sneako makes R21 crude jokes in Medinah, and I raised how he wasn’t corrected for his mistakes (except by brother Adel Ghadban) but everyone’s like “sneako is new, give him a chance”.
ukhti what?? I am a revert sister what has this got to do with me? I love all of you for the sake of Allah swt, please don't judge all reverts based off of sneakos mistake?
mb I just read this wrong, I thought you meant you lost respect for revert sisters. apologies I get your point 😭and yes I agree, the fact NONE of the men on the panel said anything
Bro ali, never too late. Change your way doing dawah. It is 100% wrong ask any scholars of any school of thought it will be the same. What you are doing un this show is haram. Take the advise of most them who has commented here in sha allah. May allah guide u and us. Aameen
Subhanallah, you still making these videos! And actually made it a point to show that everyone IS in the same room!! Subhanallah I’ve been questioning your intentions for some time now brother and this video says a lot brother!!! You have lost a LONG TIME subscriber with what has went down! May Allah forgive all of us and help you to have the best of intentions!!!!! I can’t keep supporting you with this kind of behavior so ma salamah!!👋
@@randomhuman2595 no it is not!!! this is just doing fitna. there is NO discussion needed why cheating is dofferent for men and women bc this will give ppl the wrong idea and impression astaghfirullah. there is no discussion needed on why some women can’t or can not accept polygamy etc. this causes so much fitna in the ummah bc especially the men in the video, they are not ready for real islam if it is not for having more than one wife!!
@@randomhuman2595because to constantly look at non mahram whilst talking of porn. And intimacy since when in the history of Islam was it halal can you answer me ?
@@randomhuman2595 I agree that is fine but they should discuss it with physical hijab because they have a big following and it's setting a precedence to new Muslims that not aware of the rulings that it's ok to discuss without any hijab ofcourse as Muslim we have utmost respect for our sisters so we want to discuss with dignity insha'Allah may Allah give us understanding ameen
Why waste time trying to understand the mind of a narcissist, they are too cowardly to step outside and ask for divorce so they think they can have their cake and eat it too. If they cheat leave and move on, it had nothing to do with ur character, other than showing their true character.
Ali Dawah talks too much, this show was made for him to get shi of his chest, the rest just observe, say a few words...then get cut off for another Ali rant 🤣
Does anybody know what Ali Dawah’s educational background is? Like what is his credibility to be going out and giving dawah to the public? Please enlighten me.
I suspect not too far off before people launch a #Boycott Ali Dawah campaign. Hundreds of people have advised him that his "Bitter Truth Show" is inappropiate. But he still persists.
@@g1mela The lie is that Islam supports and promotes this behavior. Muslim women are not objects, and will not be treated as such. They are not servants or pleasurers. they are human beings who have every right to practice Islam, get an education, job, and their struggles ARE supposed to be validatad in the Ummah as much as men struggles. Women are meant to be honored. When they are born, they have the ability to give their father Jannah if he treats her right, when they get married, they are the ones who births their child and go's though so much pain.She is the one who spends that tiny humans first days of life with. Jannah is under your mothers feet, honoring your sisters, mothers, wives are nailed into every practicing Muslims life. These people are ignoring all this so they can keep pushing the haram and shirk red-pilled narrative. . That's the lie, if you did research you would have found that answer yourself rather quickly.
@@socal2085Islam is not this, you will never learn Islam from these people. These people are doing fitnah. Learn Islam from Qur'an, Sunnah and true scholars.
Its showing the different views of how and why both genders cheat and helps youth know better and how bad cheating is and the negative outcome of cheating
the types of people on here, the brother at 8.30 was called a dayooth on his insta due to displaying his wife openly. Hes response was to this was to call people out for a fight and proceed to claim that your mothers and sisters all want a guy like me. these are the types of peoples who dead end opinions you ali dawah followers are absorbing
What is this? are these brothers defending our brotherhood? Adres the real issue brothers. These sisters in western countries aren't even worthy of talking to, and you brought them on your show to tarnish the reputation of the brothers who are the victim of the Fitna the sisters have been spreading? This is wrong on so many levels.
brother what are you saying? just because they are from the west does not devalue them in anyway if that is what you are trying to say which i hope you arent.
Yet they are saying there is evidence in Qur'an and Sunnah for this haram. Abu Said al Hudri narrates in ibn Mace, Prophet (pbuh) says: "You will follow nations before you, step by step. If they enter hole of a lizard you will enter too". Sahaba asks: "Which nations? You mean Christians and Jews." And He (saw) answers: "Who else will it be".
It’s so common in our desi community. A lot of ‘arranged marriages’ where couples are not compatible. The amount of men that cheat within a week or two or getting married. They go do it with non Muslim women or reverts to disrespect them. And then instead of getting divorced they stay married and cheat. Just to make the family happy but they don’t think for a second cheating is wrong and waste of their and another sisters time
Ali bro I love you as a brother. But please check with your scholar who gave you the fatwa for this show whether you can talk about intimacy and similar things with non-mahrams. I'm sure he didn't know about these things being discussed on the show. Yes these things are important to discuss for the ummah. But is this the setting it should be discussed in? Please look into it bro.
lol 😂are you really that sensitive to a woman’s appearance. Women have the right to exist everywhere and they shouldn’t have to hide their entire identity because of your perverted, twisted mind. What do you do when you go outside? Stop telling women to hide behind screens and veil. Be mature and realistic
The problem is we hav a sea of muslim men who are not properly practicing and don't have a proper connection with Allah SWT or mindful of Allah SWT, but we have brother Ali saying ok "you can get a second wife ! you can get a second wife!" and guess what whether it is you brother Ali saying that or someone else these men only want to look at this and jump into practicing polygamy and dismiss every other thing they need to work on that makes them a good husband, muslim and man overall. we have so many things to work on before promoting polygamy :)
I suppose feel bad for unsubscribing this channel but i actually feel bad for that i recommended many friend and family about this channel. Brother Ali you should listen to ustad Sheikh Assim; Fear Allah and stop this type of show for sake of yourself May Allah guide you brother,
Asif is that the ONLY thing your vulgar mind took from the whole show. You are a fine example of a persons credentials and title stand for zero if their mindset is not correct/clean. Have a wonderful day
@@zonerafarooq6714 I was wondering why you were so upset but then I saw your pfp. Sister, with respect, what are you doing? You'll never be happy straying away from Allah's commandments. True peace and tranquility is found only by embracing Allah wholeheartedly.
@@MH-bf4uu women's feet are an awrah too, one of them showing above ankle.. and I'm not male.. Don't encourage fitnah, we all are answerable to Allah SWT
I preferred when the women and men were separated, especially in a strong topic like this, to see if their answers matched up. The men’s answers will influence and impact the women’s answers everytime they’re in the same room
Ali dawah just makes me cringe and sick…worst of whatever. All Ramadan begged for his business,imagine making out his prayer mats are the soul reason people become Muslim for money.
Is anyone here an expert? Why can't you put a screen in between? Why can't it be a call in show? Why can't you have your own wives on? Didn't you apologise for guests speaking about intimacy? Isn't this episode simply about that? And not even giving hypotheticals, questions targeted at the sisters directly "what would you do if your husband cheated on you?"
A sin is a sin whether someone pushed you towards it or not, you take full responsibility on the day of judgement. and 2 people can be in the wrong, and one wrong doesnt make a right. when Allah asks u why did you commit zina, what r u going to say? that zina is different to a man? remove this delusional western, dunya orientated red pill ideology from dawah and turn to the haqq. your akirah should be your main priority, not what is considered acceptable in this dunya. May Allah guide us
Once you realize how easy it can be to get married, that you don’t need to tell the first wife or get her permission, how powerful Misyar marriage (voluntarily restricting your rights) can be and that most madhabs allow marriage even with the intent of divorce. You need to be within at least one madhab’s ruling. There is absolutely no excuse for cheating.
I agree with the sister in the white scarf < Gaining respect is when you dont demand it, It's when you do the right things practically and fulfilling your duties the right way to your full potential. Ali got a bit mixed up with gain and earn
I say this from my own personal experience and interaction. Even individual social media so called sheikhs are doing this. Yusha Evans is one of them. They think there famous and nobody will have a voice to raise against them but Allah is watching them. Before like any dua'ts I use to follow this guy. He slide on my DM and tried to manipulate me. When advising in return he block me immediately.
@@Rmveber He tried seeking sexual attention, time pass etc. It was few month ago. I'm a revert Italian Muslim. My close friend and her husband spoke to our local imam regarding this and he advised to inform this to someone righteous from his native country. At the time I tried my best to approach someone senior from USA to make awareness but I fail. Then after few month passing I was able to speak with a brother from San Diego, USA and alhamdullilah he took my concern very seriously. This might be a regular thing on online dawah but not many speak out due to shame and embarrassment. Allah knows best
SubhnAllah this is so true. This is why you don’t take knowledge or get influenced form these so called RUclips dawah people. We should stick to real Ulemas who would never condone free mixing. Name me one authentic well versed scholar or student of knowledge who condones such shameless free mixing. The Sahabas and Prophets never did either subhnAllah. I feel like we should avoid these dawah youtubers as they’re just misleading the ummah and creating fitna. May Allah guide us
@@ALIBolduk I know slandering is a big sin and I also know the existence of sexual predators in dawah. The ones you look up to are humans? Right? Your comment doesn't bother me a tol because you are sleeping and have no idea what goes behind closed doors. Am speaking from my own personal experience and knowledge.
I’m so over these debates. It all comes down to no fear of God. That goes for most bad things that people do. I’ve unsubscribed. I love uplifting & positive content. Maybe create something with tips on how to be better.
In America, it is wrong for men or women to cheat. Americans have largely taken forgotten that their values stem from Christian values, which teach us to love all people, and love is to will the good of the other. Loving your wife means not committing adultery. Loving your neighbor means willing the good of others by not engaging in acts that harm them spiritually. If you care about women in general, you would not use them and cast them aside for personal pleasure.
The first brother hit the nail on the head. Immaturity, value of partner and sexual needs not being met. By the third reason, unfortunately pornography plays a part, some men’s desires are unachievable due to what they have seen which turns there desires into unrealistic expectation in terms of how their wife looks and what they expect from them. Immaturity is due to their upbringing, how their mother and father has raised them. Lastly, no respect for wife means no marriage. May Allah guide these types of men
This show feels so wrong. It gives viewers wrong impressions about both genders. They make matters seem complicated and confusing. Although listening to this is entertaining, it is misguided. We must be careful of what comes what we utter. In this case, all these debates bring none other than fitna and wrong ideas. I believe there is no need to argument such gentle topics between brothers and sisters. And not all what is said to be true in this video may be true, because it is done by random strangers with different views on islam. And Ali, what made these people that you bring on your show, an expert on the subject such that their opinions lead us to a better understanding on divorce/relationships etc(as most of us are wondering)?? If you are seeking answers for your questions, then it is appropriate to consult a professional with a real view on islam. Most videos from The Bitter Truth show bring fitna let alone benefit us. Most of the subjects that are discussed here are better off not to be discussed since no amount of discussing can change what really is. We must learn to love and support each other in relationships and try to make each other happy rather than diving too deep into why we do what we do since overthinking only results in depression.
This is a disturbing video, men and women casually talking about intimacy - Where is the Hayaa?? And this is Dawah? People turn to the Quran and Hadith and look at the life of the prophet Mohammad SAW he is an excellent example. Ali dawah speaks all this and brings women in his videos and where is his wife? Wake up people - do not be fooled. This video no benefit it is very dangerous. These people are not scholars and giving advice.
Subhan’Allah. Shaykh Assim was right about you. You are nothing but an influencer. Get rid of the word dawah from your name. You have disqualified yourself from being a da’ee
Because there idiots basically. I believe in same partner for life. Especially if you have a child with him/her! Myself have been with the same beautiful sister since 2001. 💚🙏.
@@MohsinAli-jt5rk that isn't my place to say brother. I'm still learning about islam and am yet to take the shahada. I've had a difficult but blessed life 🙏 and insha'Allah I pray that I'm guided to do the right thing every day and to help others!. Stay blessed 🙏.
@@MohsinAli-jt5rk I do know thank you and I'm learning. It's free speech and your in no position to even try to tell me what's what my G ! and since you got an opinion, what's your take? You sleep with other women whilst your wife is at home? I've seen what happens when you mess around and there's a few I know of that have done this and not long after there in the gutter holding there intestines.! Hope you have a blessed evening G.💯✌️
Everyone commenting on these videos do you not know how to lower your gaze? Where do you guys live and work. Do you not see any women in everyday life 🤦.
Salaam Ali Dawah. I hope this finds you well. I really appreciate your efforts in gathering both genders to speak out on this matter that's been happening in marriage homes. This will help a lot of single and married couples so they may know how to keep their marriage from breaking apart. I understand you reached out to knowledgeable scholars about this issue of having both genders in the same room to have both opinions on certain topics. However, I was wondering if maybe you can try to put a curtain between both genders to avoid any fitnah that may arise between them. As humans we're weak, being in the same room with the opposite gender to talk about these topics could cause some hidden fitnah for both the men and the women in this beautiful show. I was hopping you'd please accept my opinion and request in adding a curtain between them. I apologize if I might've said anything that's caused you pain. May Allah SWT keep the peace in our homes. Ameen. Jazzakallahu Khaira. ☺
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu . I didnt watch the whole show but heard alot of controversy about it. Free mix is present and chatting to a non muharram. I understanding if a imam was present with you and you discusses issues that effect society. Maybe the intention is sincere but would people accept seeing there sister or daughter or wife with non muharram men discussing such sensitive issues. Ali would you allow your wife to go on a show with non muharram men and discussing such issue on a show. If there was like a q& a without seeing the sister who ask the questions
Perhaps you should put your ego aside and listen to what all the comments and other figures of authority are telling you. There is literally nothing to gain from this show
@@luluah1198 I agree. its important to be able to name scholars bro, there is absolutely no point in hiding their names if they are people who speak on knowledge and truth
I agree with the topics being discussed. However, doesn't this show diminish the whole purpose of "lowering ones gaze" "Second gaze is haram" and the concept of "Ghayrah" A man with Ghayrah wouldn't allow his wife to go on this show especially alone. Many major scholars agree the voice of a woman is her "awrah". Allah hu alam
to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until parted by death. This makes sense. Marriage has become a joke nowadays
I find this show very full of fitna and pointless. Non of these convos are beneficial and Islamically point less. Men and women sat together in the same room yapping about useless convos like “why men cheat” blah blah. So dumb. Some may disagree with what I’m tryna say but I just find this stupid like these won’t help you in the grave, unless you speak about actual Islamic knowledge like allahuallam Islamic facts and share cool Islamic knowledge that’ll benefit us for the Akirah but even then you won’t need women in your show. Idk I just find it wrong as that the guys are looking at these women and these women are looking at them, and talking about intimacy, useless debates ect ect. May الله guide us all. Ameen
Ali talks too much and when other people make a point, he has to interject and “correct” their views. Why have a show like this if you’re talking most of the time and correcting everyone? Also, they keep mentioning the same points over and over again. 🙄
Screw that I’m stopping my donations to this guy. This is so uncomfortable to watch. None of them are lowering their gaze. Just seems like these guys want to sit around women. Begs.
I really appreciate the dialogue here but I have to say, there’s a lot of talking points that are indeed circling the drain but not really getting to the nitty gritty and that’s a problem. For the majority of MUSLIM brothers that struggle with waswas and the desire to not be with multiple women (as that applies to all men), but rather to full on cheat, have a girlfriend or two, and essentially have ones cake and eat it too, all boils down to having a NEGLECTFUL wife. Not sure why no one has brought that up as of yet 49:31 into this episode but by far, it’s the biggest issue concerning these situations. If your wife doesn’t handle her responsibilities and neglects you, it will negatively effect you, the way you view her, the way you feel about being married to her, etc MOST married men go without in their marriages. Without fun, without something pretty and shiny to look at (as their wives have fallen off and are far too comfortable), without sex and sexual favors, and without a base line of fun as it relates to simply being with a woman. If a man is continuously denied what he needs, turned down by what he wants, and made to feel like he’s insignificant and not worthy of his wife’s love and affection then he’ll naturally want other things and other people. It’s not rocket science. Speaking from personal experience, I was neglected and turned down soooo many times that I simply stopped asking, I stopped expecting, and I learned to live as a married man for my kids and hope for a better future whilst repressing that side of me. Getting a second wife isn’t always a viable option either. What if you just compound your problems? What if she’s disloyal? What if you don’t have the money and means to do that? What if you getting another wife means you lose access to your children? There are so many variables on the table that are simply not being discussed, and it’s kinda pissing me off because so many brothers (and sometimes sisters) deal with this punishment and degradation in silence and this platform hasn’t been doing them (us) justice.
Brother ali dawah,why don't you get your own wife to join the panel with the brothers and sisters,then you might get a more clear insight 'why men cheat' instead of other men's wives point of view,If im being honest your show needs to be banned men and women talking intimate things is not in islam
For the material rights in the marriage contract with the other wives. Duty to deal with justice and payment of mahr. Weak discipline and trauma makes troubles, especially if no boundaries as a system.
It is haram because it is free mixing and women on camera without even proper hijab. The amount of haram outweighs the so called benefit of this show. Its a pure fitna. If someone wants to solve the problem, they should have called a scholar to the show and ask questions. People may comment "lower your gaze" but its not an appropriate answer.
@@Nikoomilano I am not blind. If its happening infront of us, we are allowed to say that its haram. So that we can warn people. Its not judging at all. Some women on the show were not wearing proper hijab. I have not seen a single episode of this but i have seen some clips. Just dont say "ALLAH will judge" or "Do not Judge" as an excuse for every sin. With that statement, people can justify every sin they are commiting. Indeed, ALLAH is the judge but we as slaves of ALLAH can say haram is haram. Thats the right path. May ALLAH grant us Guidance.
It’s haram becuase it spread misinformation about Islam , degrades women, promotes vulgur behaviour and encourages conversations about intimacy between men and women
@@mohamedkhan3703 it is not an excuse, allah is most merciful and forgiving. They possibly have been told this before since many people are hating or perhaps know and are trying to become better!
Both men and women are commanded to lower the gaze. I see the men desperately trying to keep their gaze lowered but the sister not so much, do women not take this as seriously as the men?
lowering the gaze for men and women works differently. same way that women have more body part to cover than men. for men, lowering their gaze is more emphasised and for women wearing hijab
@@MH-bf4uu you’re reaching here. Read the verse, tell the believing women to lower their gaze AND guard their modesty. There isn’t less emphasis because their aurah is broader than a males.
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Brother Ali if U INSIST your show, just make the hijab between them. Put the girls in other building only girls and just show the siloute.
Akhi, I don't mean to be rude but why is it that the brothers are covering their legs more than the sister?
many if your followers here in this comment section told you over and over stop these shows you are corrupting muslims minds, but you keep doing this over and over and when Sajiid post a video about your unbelievable poor listening skills you start badmouthing him. Incredible repulsive attitude.
This is why I unsubscribed from your RUclips channel.
Sheikh Assim; ’It is kind of him to identify me as a student of knowledge which I am proud to be known for.
However, when we start to make haram things halal based on fatwas of ‘big scholars” and we fail to name them, this shows how “weak” their argument is!!
I have bib Bazz and Ibn Othaimeen backing my opinion about such gatherings and indecent topics to be totally prohibited and shameful in Islam.
Ibn Abbas may Allah be pleased with him said to the people when they objected to a fatwa he gave by saying that Abu Bakr and Omer say something else, he said: hails of rocks and stones are about to fall upon you! I say Allah says and the prophet salla allahu alaihi wa sallam says and you counter that by saying Abu Bakr and Omer say???
Real Islam is corrupted and tarnished by such people who brush Quran and Sunnah off for the quotes of unknown “big scholars”!
No one is above the sharia no matter how big they may think they are.
Real men are known to stand down when they are wrong and admit it for the sake of truth and not to win an argument in this dunya and ending up finding that they have lost in their graves or the hereafter, may Allah make all our deeds sincere for His sake and give us a good ending on tawheed and the sunnah of our prophet salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam. “
Can you please share the link? Thank you.
"bib Bazz and ibn Othaimeen" watched the Bitter truth show?
Stop Slandering Omar and Abu bark may Allah be pleased with them, Shiaa you are slandering the close companions of the Prophet do you realize that. Despicable
@@ALIBoldukSubhanAllah, sheikh said what the companion said. It just telling us that what the Messenger of Allah says and Allah says , matters the most. It has nothing to do with shias
Yet you’re here writing an essay.
A real man mate, was my dad. He loved my mother even when she became sick, stood by her, prayed for her akhirah while he was dying himself. My dad had every option to choose between women, married or unmarried. He chose to do right by his wife for the sake of Allah and took his vows seriously. People these days do not have a marriage, they're empty.
honestly ur dad is a legend and this is how a man should treat his wife
may Allah bless him high rank in jannah ameen :)
Look at the requirements and grounds for divorce in quran
From a practical standpoint, it is far easier for a man to stay with a sick woman than the other way around.
You claim you do this so we further understand divorce/relationships etc. My question to you is, what made these people that you bring on, an expert on the subject matter such that their opinions lead us to a better understanding on divorce/relationships etc?
It’s a panel! Do you guys not understand how panels work?
@@AmindfulGem What? A council of lay people? A committee of the everyday man? A jury of the brothers and sisters down the road?
If that is the definition of a panel then panels are fundamentally flawed.
@@hussamhussain6243 this show has taught me nothing and just feels like an entertainment while I fall asleep. Astaghfirullah. This show needs to go. They mosty talk like bunch of man vs woman twitter yappers
@@ZincZXzinx I feel you. It's just a show of people expressing their own opinions and feelings. If it's taught me anything it's that we love talking and we love listening to people talk unfortunately, no matter how lay they are. As a side note, I hate the way Ali expresses himself, he uses shaming language and expresses disgust towards others. There's just this taste of self-righteousness that you get from him.
Are these all husbands and wife? If not they have no business doing this bickering together it is forbidden in Islam Ali delete these embarrassing videos
Why is no one talking bout how he let sneako say terrible things about revert Muslimahs five days ago and instead of correcting him they tried to justify it. You lost all my respect as well as any other revert sisters.
This guy is a beg along with hijab not gonna watch these guys make their own ways of Islam anymore 😂
I commented about it on another channel (IslamVibe) in which Sneako makes R21 crude jokes in Medinah, and I raised how he wasn’t corrected for his mistakes (except by brother Adel Ghadban) but everyone’s like “sneako is new, give him a chance”.
@@lockheartx He is new. Have some compassion.
ukhti what?? I am a revert sister what has this got to do with me? I love all of you for the sake of Allah swt, please don't judge all reverts based off of sneakos mistake?
mb I just read this wrong, I thought you meant you lost respect for revert sisters. apologies I get your point 😭and yes I agree, the fact NONE of the men on the panel said anything
I love you for the sake of Allah ya brother Ali. Please do us a favor and help us lower our gaze by not posting these women. May Allah guide us all.
Agreed, they should be in niqab at least if he wants to do the show.
@@Kage-Da why niqab?
These women are dressed modestly, I think you need to work on yourself
This is such a pathetic comment. The sisters are all dressed modestly. Get a grip
SoldierOfAllah786.why are Muslim men so obsessed with keeping women of our society. Women exist and they have the right to speak on issues as well
Bro ali, never too late. Change your way doing dawah. It is 100% wrong ask any scholars of any school of thought it will be the same. What you are doing un this show is haram. Take the advise of most them who has commented here in sha allah. May allah guide u and us. Aameen
One more thing though. All the street dawah they do to woman that arent dressed right, they are wrong too? I just wanna understand.
How is it wrong?
@@Brokenhearted894free mixing potentially
@@g1mela you don't need to be scholars
Why are you watching then?
Subhanallah, you still making these videos! And actually made it a point to show that everyone IS in the same room!! Subhanallah I’ve been questioning your intentions for some time now brother and this video says a lot brother!!! You have lost a LONG TIME subscriber with what has went down! May Allah forgive all of us and help you to have the best of intentions!!!!! I can’t keep supporting you with this kind of behavior so ma salamah!!👋
I 💯 agree
BITTER TRUTH SHOW " Show" It is a Show, not an Islamic lecture
Good point. I'll just watch Ali Dawah for news from now on i guess.
It is important to discuss these issues
@@randomhuman2595 Not in this way, go to Islamic scholars or do it in a halal appropriate way
@@zd1281 There are some things on this video that are inappropriate, but other things which are fine to discuss
@@randomhuman2595 no it is not!!! this is just doing fitna. there is NO discussion needed why cheating is dofferent for men and women bc this will give ppl the wrong idea and impression astaghfirullah. there is no discussion needed on why some women can’t or can not accept polygamy etc. this causes so much fitna in the ummah bc especially the men in the video, they are not ready for real islam if it is not for having more than one wife!!
What causes a man to be disloyal? Nastiness,weakness low morals,no ethics,selfishness.
Stop this rubbish show for Allah's sake. This kind of shameless was nor expected from you Brother Ali Dawah. Aren't you aware of sharia in Islam?
Why is this haram
Why is this haram
@@randomhuman2595because to constantly look at non mahram whilst talking of porn. And intimacy since when in the history of Islam was it halal can you answer me ?
@@RumonHoque-v8t They shouldn't talk about those intimate issues with each other. But other things like child custody and finances are okay to discuss
@@randomhuman2595 I agree that is fine but they should discuss it with physical hijab because they have a big following and it's setting a precedence to new Muslims that not aware of the rulings that it's ok to discuss without any hijab ofcourse as Muslim we have utmost respect for our sisters so we want to discuss with dignity insha'Allah may Allah give us understanding ameen
We never seen your wife Ali in show why you taking to others wife's?? Just been honest!
👉🏾👈🏾
💯 agree
Really appreciate the community coming forward to stand against this stupidity
For views he will show her as well. Just a matter of time. He is good at boiling frogs.
So true
Why waste time trying to understand the mind of a narcissist, they are too cowardly to step outside and ask for divorce so they think they can have their cake and eat it too. If they cheat leave and move on, it had nothing to do with ur character, other than showing their true character.
Ali Dawah talks too much, this show was made for him to get shi of his chest, the rest just observe, say a few words...then get cut off for another Ali rant 🤣
He has good points mind you
Do a call-in show rather than directly bringing over females in the same room with you.
@@luluah1198 Good point
we all knew that all of you just bots.
Does anybody know what Ali Dawah’s educational background is? Like what is his credibility to be going out and giving dawah to the public? Please enlighten me.
he read the quran and saw prophet muhammed banging aisha when she was 9 in a dream so that is his background. I hope it helps mashallah
I believe he has a honours degree in bruvenomics
Nothing
@@lilyrokin1822what?
I suspect not too far off before people launch a #Boycott Ali Dawah campaign. Hundreds of people have advised him that his "Bitter Truth Show" is inappropiate. But he still persists.
This show is an insult to Islam
islam is an insult to itself tbh
@@lilyrokin1822Can you stop b3living lies about Islam and do research first!!?
@@g1mela The lie is that Islam supports and promotes this behavior. Muslim women are not objects, and will not be treated as such. They are not servants or pleasurers. they are human beings who have every right to practice Islam, get an education, job, and their struggles ARE supposed to be validatad in the Ummah as much as men struggles. Women are meant to be honored. When they are born, they have the ability to give their father Jannah if he treats her right, when they get married, they are the ones who births their child and go's though so much pain.She is the one who spends that tiny humans first days of life with.
Jannah is under your mothers feet, honoring your sisters, mothers, wives are nailed into every practicing Muslims life.
These people are ignoring all this so they can keep pushing the haram and shirk red-pilled narrative. .
That's the lie, if you did research you would have found that answer yourself rather quickly.
"Today's topic is..." When was it not controversial ahki? 🤣
Is this the "islamic" version of fresh n fit...fear allah man talking about these topics openly with no shame infront of the world is haram
So ?? It’s help the youth learn about Islam. This is 100% so much better than watching some old Mufti or imam talk about sunnah.
@@socal2085Islam is not this, you will never learn Islam from these people. These people are doing fitnah.
Learn Islam from Qur'an, Sunnah and true scholars.
@@socal2085Your last statement tells a lot about you
This i is showing the youth unrealistic and untrue versions of Islam. Have some shame ya akhi.
Its showing the different views of how and why both genders cheat and helps youth know better and how bad cheating is and the negative outcome of cheating
hope my future husband has shame and protective jealousy and wouldn’t want me to go on such a show.
What is this Fresh n Fit for Muslims, please upload teachings and understandings of the religion to bring in more believers
the types of people on here, the brother at 8.30 was called a dayooth on his insta due to displaying his wife openly. Hes response was to this was to call people out for a fight and proceed to claim that your mothers and sisters all want a guy like me. these are the types of peoples who dead end opinions you ali dawah followers are absorbing
He is a joke if he said that. Link?
He also invited a Moroccan woman who thinks the Prophet pbuh isn't the last prophet astagfirullah
What is this? are these brothers defending our brotherhood? Adres the real issue brothers. These sisters in western countries aren't even worthy of talking to, and you brought them on your show to tarnish the reputation of the brothers who are the victim of the Fitna the sisters have been spreading? This is wrong on so many levels.
Thats pretty true the west is pretty done.
did he give the scholars name who told him his show is halal? or not yet
what on earth are you talking about? are you blaming women for zina??
brother what are you saying? just because they are from the west does not devalue them in anyway if that is what you are trying to say which i hope you arent.
@@ii3.isome women in the west do like to stay at home, don’t listen to haters
I pray people stay away from this sin, but with the way society is, and the way it's going, things are just going to get worse.
َ'' What led you into Hell Fire?
They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an, 74:42-43)
🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers🌹😊
Ali needs Dawah, free mixing is completely prohibited let alone speak about intimate relationships. Shame
Ali needs dawah, I am unsubscribing, shame on you.
WHY?
a muslim dont cheat divorce ;) , if u do cheat u lack on ur deen .
Literally quoted fresh and fit, 😮
Yet they are saying there is evidence in Qur'an and Sunnah for this haram. Abu Said al Hudri narrates in ibn Mace, Prophet (pbuh) says: "You will follow nations before you, step by step. If they enter hole of a lizard you will enter too". Sahaba asks: "Which nations? You mean Christians and Jews." And He (saw) answers: "Who else will it be".
Exactly men flirt with women and men cheat physically regardless
It's hard to watch subhanallah atleast put a curtain in between! Men and women talking about intimacy in the open looking at each other 🤮
🤡
It’s so common in our desi community. A lot of ‘arranged marriages’ where couples are not compatible. The amount of men that cheat within a week or two or getting married. They go do it with non Muslim women or reverts to disrespect them. And then instead of getting divorced they stay married and cheat. Just to make the family happy but they don’t think for a second cheating is wrong and waste of their and another sisters time
Fear Allah, Ali! You know in your heart what you are doing is not permissible.
Ali bro I love you as a brother. But please check with your scholar who gave you the fatwa for this show whether you can talk about intimacy and similar things with non-mahrams. I'm sure he didn't know about these things being discussed on the show. Yes these things are important to discuss for the ummah. But is this the setting it should be discussed in? Please look into it bro.
And on top of that you writing free Palestine over that . Remove it don't use it on Unislamic videos. Our brothers and sisters are precious. 😢
Lol! What is wrong in this show?
Can you put woman in other room lower your gaze and disscuss separately
Exactly there should be a screen or curtain between them
Yes exactly we don't need to see the sisters face also. You can have discussion behind a screen. May Allah Guide us All to the right path.
lol 😂are you really that sensitive to a woman’s appearance. Women have the right to exist everywhere and they shouldn’t have to hide their entire identity because of your perverted, twisted mind. What do you do when you go outside? Stop telling women to hide behind screens and veil. Be mature and realistic
mo mo was removing his pants during the conversation like your prophet
@@lilyrokin1822 and your soul will be removed from your body oneday, repent before it's too late
This isn't "Dawah" anymore. Change your name or change your ways.
The problem is we hav a sea of muslim men who are not properly practicing and don't have a proper connection with Allah SWT or mindful of Allah SWT, but we have brother Ali saying ok "you can get a second wife ! you can get a second wife!" and guess what whether it is you brother Ali saying that or someone else these men only want to look at this and jump into practicing polygamy and dismiss every other thing they need to work on that makes them a good husband, muslim and man overall. we have so many things to work on before promoting polygamy :)
I suppose feel bad for unsubscribing this channel but i actually feel bad for that i recommended many friend and family about this channel.
Brother Ali you should listen to ustad Sheikh Assim;
Fear Allah and stop this type of show for sake of yourself
May Allah guide you brother,
Ali just cuts everyone off, I want to hear the other people too bro.
Wasting time & brain power discussing strangers dirty laundry has NO influence or place in your home when you live with moral standards.
Ali truly needs dawah
Unsubscribed. Brother fear Allah and please stop this show.
I knew that Ali was disingenuous the very moment I heard him criticize Shamzi while praising Lauren southern 🤮.
is it suprising this is the face of islam
Brother well done for requesting sisters to be less dolled. Too much taburraj on previous episodes.
Much love Dr Asif - P.S. did you participate in the last show of The Apprentice and are you going to be in the last show (The Final)?
I think the oppo9site happened
Asif is that the ONLY thing your vulgar mind took from the whole show. You are a fine example of a persons credentials and title stand for zero if their mindset is not correct/clean. Have a wonderful day
@@zonerafarooq6714 I was wondering why you were so upset but then I saw your pfp. Sister, with respect, what are you doing? You'll never be happy straying away from Allah's commandments. True peace and tranquility is found only by embracing Allah wholeheartedly.
@@zonerafarooq6714I can see why you’re triggered. Brainwashed feminist to the highest degree
This feels so wrong brother. Shameless may Allah swt guide us ya Allah guide us.
ladies can be comfortable if you make your studio on a table that cover their legs , just my opinion brother
@@kordei-7839 why are you looking at their shape when they are wearing abaya
@@MH-bf4uu
women's feet are an awrah too, one of them showing above ankle.. and I'm not male..
Don't encourage fitnah, we all are answerable to Allah SWT
There is no khair in these shows
Khair and shar comes from Allah s.w.t.
I preferred when the women and men were separated, especially in a strong topic like this, to see if their answers matched up. The men’s answers will influence and impact the women’s answers everytime they’re in the same room
Wtf is this
isnt it islamic to do this. Prophet ibn nonsense al ham dul lilah said discuss these topics with girls and gossip like them
@@lilyrokin1822bruh what😂😂 where did you get this information. Don’t compare prophet Mohamed saw with these people who are full of flaws.
@@lilyrokin1822 please stop yapping
Ali dawah just makes me cringe and sick…worst of whatever.
All Ramadan begged for his business,imagine making out his prayer mats are the soul reason people become Muslim for money.
Is anyone here an expert? Why can't you put a screen in between? Why can't it be a call in show? Why can't you have your own wives on? Didn't you apologise for guests speaking about intimacy? Isn't this episode simply about that? And not even giving hypotheticals, questions targeted at the sisters directly "what would you do if your husband cheated on you?"
Good to see that women have full rights under the law of England & Wales.
A sin is a sin whether someone pushed you towards it or not, you take full responsibility on the day of judgement. and 2 people can be in the wrong, and one wrong doesnt make a right. when Allah asks u why did you commit zina, what r u going to say? that zina is different to a man? remove this delusional western, dunya orientated red pill ideology from dawah and turn to the haqq. your akirah should be your main priority, not what is considered acceptable in this dunya. May Allah guide us
Once you realize how easy it can be to get married, that you don’t need to tell the first wife or get her permission, how powerful Misyar marriage (voluntarily restricting your rights) can be and that most madhabs allow marriage even with the intent of divorce. You need to be within at least one madhab’s ruling. There is absolutely no excuse for cheating.
I agree with the sister in the white scarf < Gaining respect is when you dont demand it, It's when you do the right things practically and fulfilling your duties the right way to your full potential. Ali got a bit mixed up with gain and earn
women generally are ungrateful
I say this from my own personal experience and interaction. Even individual social media so called sheikhs are doing this. Yusha Evans is one of them. They think there famous and nobody will have a voice to raise against them but Allah is watching them. Before like any dua'ts I use to follow this guy. He slide on my DM and tried to manipulate me. When advising in return he block me immediately.
What did he try to manipulate sorry you experience that
@@Rmveber He tried seeking sexual attention, time pass etc. It was few month ago. I'm a revert Italian Muslim. My close friend and her husband spoke to our local imam regarding this and he advised to inform this to someone righteous from his native country. At the time I tried my best to approach someone senior from USA to make awareness but I fail. Then after few month passing I was able to speak with a brother from San Diego, USA and alhamdullilah he took my concern very seriously. This might be a regular thing on online dawah but not many speak out due to shame and embarrassment. Allah knows best
SubhnAllah this is so true. This is why you don’t take knowledge or get influenced form these so called RUclips dawah people. We should stick to real Ulemas who would never condone free mixing. Name me one authentic well versed scholar or student of knowledge who condones such shameless free mixing. The Sahabas and Prophets never did either subhnAllah. I feel like we should avoid these dawah youtubers as they’re just misleading the ummah and creating fitna. May Allah guide us
Who tried seeking sexual attention? Yusha Evans?
Do you know slandering someone is illegal and a big sin in Islam?
@@ALIBolduk I know slandering is a big sin and I also know the existence of sexual predators in dawah. The ones you look up to are humans? Right? Your comment doesn't bother me a tol because you are sleeping and have no idea what goes behind closed doors. Am speaking from my own personal experience and knowledge.
I’m so over these debates. It all comes down to no fear of God. That goes for most bad things that people do. I’ve unsubscribed. I love uplifting & positive content. Maybe create something with tips on how to be better.
In America, it is wrong for men or women to cheat. Americans have largely taken forgotten that their values stem from Christian values, which teach us to love all people, and love is to will the good of the other. Loving your wife means not committing adultery. Loving your neighbor means willing the good of others by not engaging in acts that harm them spiritually. If you care about women in general, you would not use them and cast them aside for personal pleasure.
The first brother hit the nail on the head. Immaturity, value of partner and sexual needs not being met. By the third reason, unfortunately pornography plays a part, some men’s desires are unachievable due to what they have seen which turns there desires into unrealistic expectation in terms of how their wife looks and what they expect from them. Immaturity is due to their upbringing, how their mother and father has raised them. Lastly, no respect for wife means no marriage. May Allah guide these types of men
Whats next demonstrating how to climax on the show or watch it together astagfirulah wtf is this this is no islamic at all
This show feels so wrong. It gives viewers wrong impressions about both genders. They make matters seem complicated and confusing. Although listening to this is entertaining, it is misguided. We must be careful of what comes what we utter. In this case, all these debates bring none other than fitna and wrong ideas. I believe there is no need to argument such gentle topics between brothers and sisters. And not all what is said to be true in this video may be true, because it is done by random strangers with different views on islam. And Ali, what made these people that you bring on your show, an expert on the subject such that their opinions lead us to a better understanding on divorce/relationships etc(as most of us are wondering)?? If you are seeking answers for your questions, then it is appropriate to consult a professional with a real view on islam. Most videos from The Bitter Truth show bring fitna let alone benefit us. Most of the subjects that are discussed here are better off not to be discussed since no amount of discussing can change what really is. We must learn to love and support each other in relationships and try to make each other happy rather than diving too deep into why we do what we do since overthinking only results in depression.
This is a disturbing video, men and women casually talking about intimacy - Where is the Hayaa?? And this is Dawah? People turn to the Quran and Hadith and look at the life of the prophet Mohammad SAW he is an excellent example. Ali dawah speaks all this and brings women in his videos and where is his wife? Wake up people - do not be fooled. This video no benefit it is very dangerous. These people are not scholars and giving advice.
Calling Shias kuffar and then doing this)
Subhan’Allah. Shaykh Assim was right about you. You are nothing but an influencer. Get rid of the word dawah from your name. You have disqualified yourself from being a da’ee
Because there idiots basically.
I believe in same partner for life.
Especially if you have a child with him/her!
Myself have been with the same beautiful sister since 2001.
💚🙏.
Would you say the same about the prophet Muhammad? who was married 9 times
@@MohsinAli-jt5rk that isn't my place to say brother.
I'm still learning about islam and am yet to take the shahada.
I've had a difficult but blessed life 🙏 and insha'Allah I pray that I'm guided to do the right thing every day and to help others!.
Stay blessed 🙏.
@@MrNathan32smith don’t make comments you don’t know about then.
@@MohsinAli-jt5rk I do know thank you and I'm learning.
It's free speech and your in no position to even try to tell me what's what my G !
and since you got an opinion, what's your take?
You sleep with other women whilst your wife is at home?
I've seen what happens when you mess around and there's a few I know of that have done this and not long after there in the gutter holding there intestines.!
Hope you have a blessed evening G.💯✌️
@@MrNathan32smith you shouldn’t be on social media go see a therapist
Most women forgive when men cheat
Acceptance and forgivness is the strongest character in a person.
@@Mitro-mitrovicaMitrovina doesnt have to be promoted though in the slightest
Everyone commenting on these videos do you not know how to lower your gaze? Where do you guys live and work. Do you not see any women in everyday life 🤦.
That's different , he is literally free mixing right now , talking to women , does HE really needs those women to talk about the topic ??
People need to stop watching ali dawah. He gets his deen from the wrong people and teachers who dont even have the right aqidah.
Salaam Ali Dawah. I hope this finds you well. I really appreciate your efforts in gathering both genders to speak out on this matter that's been happening in marriage homes. This will help a lot of single and married couples so they may know how to keep their marriage from breaking apart. I understand you reached out to knowledgeable scholars about this issue of having both genders in the same room to have both opinions on certain topics. However, I was wondering if maybe you can try to put a curtain between both genders to avoid any fitnah that may arise between them. As humans we're weak, being in the same room with the opposite gender to talk about these topics could cause some hidden fitnah for both the men and the women in this beautiful show. I was hopping you'd please accept my opinion and request in adding a curtain between them.
I apologize if I might've said anything that's caused you pain. May Allah SWT keep the peace in our homes. Ameen.
Jazzakallahu Khaira. ☺
Astagfirullah one of the woman is showing her ankle
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu . I didnt watch the whole show but heard alot of controversy about it. Free mix is present and chatting to a non muharram. I understanding if a imam was present with you and you discusses issues that effect society. Maybe the intention is sincere but would people accept seeing there sister or daughter or wife with non muharram men discussing such sensitive issues. Ali would you allow your wife to go on a show with non muharram men and discussing such issue on a show.
If there was like a q& a without seeing the sister who ask the questions
Stop slandering our Prophet with weak Hadiths Brother Ali.
أنَّ رَجُلًا علَى عَهْدِ النبيِّ صَلَّى اللهُ عليه وسلَّمَ كانَ اسْمُهُ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ، وكانَ يُلَقَّبُ حِمَارًا، وكانَ يُضْحِكُ رَسولَ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللهُ عليه وسلَّمَ، وكانَ النبيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عليه وسلَّمَ قدْ جَلَدَهُ في الشَّرَابِ، فَأُتِيَ به يَوْمًا فأمَرَ به فَجُلِدَ، فَقَالَ رَجُلٌ مِنَ القَوْمِ: اللَّهُمَّ العنْه، ما أكْثَرَ ما يُؤْتَى بهِ؟ فَقَالَ النبيُّ صَلَّى اللهُ عليه وسلَّمَ: لا تَلْعَنُوهُ، فَوَاللَّهِ ما عَلِمْتُ إنَّه يُحِبُّ اللَّهَ ورَسولَهُ
Perhaps you should put your ego aside and listen to what all the comments and other figures of authority are telling you. There is literally nothing to gain from this show
A lot of good points but the main thing is having Taqwa as cliché is that my sound. It is the truth.
My man got permission from real scholars bro so it's all kosher
His sources are "trust me bro"
@@luluah1198 I agree. its important to be able to name scholars bro, there is absolutely no point in hiding their names if they are people who speak on knowledge and truth
@@zuki7776 I have 12 different ai scholar bot to sell, all brown people languages supported. DM for my bots.
Why you watching then akhee?
I agree with the topics being discussed. However, doesn't this show diminish the whole purpose of "lowering ones gaze" "Second gaze is haram" and the concept of "Ghayrah" A man with Ghayrah wouldn't allow his wife to go on this show especially alone. Many major scholars agree the voice of a woman is her "awrah". Allah hu alam
to have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, until parted by death.
This makes sense.
Marriage has become a joke nowadays
I find this show very full of fitna and pointless. Non of these convos are beneficial and Islamically point less. Men and women sat together in the same room yapping about useless convos like “why men cheat” blah blah. So dumb. Some may disagree with what I’m tryna say but I just find this stupid like these won’t help you in the grave, unless you speak about actual Islamic knowledge like allahuallam Islamic facts and share cool Islamic knowledge that’ll benefit us for the Akirah but even then you won’t need women in your show. Idk I just find it wrong as that the guys are looking at these women and these women are looking at them, and talking about intimacy, useless debates ect ect. May الله guide us all. Ameen
I don’t remember Ali’s content like this
Ali talks too much and when other people make a point, he has to interject and “correct” their views. Why have a show like this if you’re talking most of the time and correcting everyone? Also, they keep mentioning the same points over and over again. 🙄
Great conversation … please bring more of these conversations with sisters in the debate 💐💐🙏🙏
I loved this episode
Screw that I’m stopping my donations to this guy. This is so uncomfortable to watch. None of them are lowering their gaze. Just seems like these guys want to sit around women. Begs.
What are these themes..💀
Neon bulbs lighting
islamic inspired
I really appreciate the dialogue here but I have to say, there’s a lot of talking points that are indeed circling the drain but not really getting to the nitty gritty and that’s a problem.
For the majority of MUSLIM brothers that struggle with waswas and the desire to not be with multiple women (as that applies to all men), but rather to full on cheat, have a girlfriend or two, and essentially have ones cake and eat it too, all boils down to having a NEGLECTFUL wife.
Not sure why no one has brought that up as of yet 49:31 into this episode but by far, it’s the biggest issue concerning these situations. If your wife doesn’t handle her responsibilities and neglects you, it will negatively effect you, the way you view her, the way you feel about being married to her, etc
MOST married men go without in their marriages. Without fun, without something pretty and shiny to look at (as their wives have fallen off and are far too comfortable), without sex and sexual favors, and without a base line of fun as it relates to simply being with a woman. If a man is continuously denied what he needs, turned down by what he wants, and made to feel like he’s insignificant and not worthy of his wife’s love and affection then he’ll naturally want other things and other people. It’s not rocket science.
Speaking from personal experience, I was neglected and turned down soooo many times that I simply stopped asking, I stopped expecting, and I learned to live as a married man for my kids and hope for a better future whilst repressing that side of me.
Getting a second wife isn’t always a viable option either. What if you just compound your problems? What if she’s disloyal? What if you don’t have the money and means to do that? What if you getting another wife means you lose access to your children? There are so many variables on the table that are simply not being discussed, and it’s kinda pissing me off because so many brothers (and sometimes sisters) deal with this punishment and degradation in silence and this platform hasn’t been doing them (us) justice.
You are still make this , Why you dot bring your wife in this show , if you are jealous for your wife and not for another women this is a hipocrisy.
Min 24:25 - 25:25!!!👹an explanation of the nature of "outwardly religious but inwardly 👹 devilish character of some evil men!!!!
Brother ali dawah,why don't you get your own wife to join the panel with the brothers and sisters,then you might get a more clear insight 'why men cheat' instead of other men's wives point of view,If im being honest your show needs to be banned men and women talking intimate things is not in islam
These sort of shows need to stop. Embarrassing man.
45:53
I didn't understand why polygamy was for women, can anyone explain it?
For the material rights in the marriage contract with the other wives. Duty to deal with justice and payment of mahr.
Weak discipline and trauma makes troubles, especially if no boundaries as a system.
When are u bringing ur wife on podcast? I want to see her too.ask ur buddy m hijab and smile2jannah to bring theirs too.🤓
Brother Ali if U INSIST your show, just make the hijab between them. Put the girls in other building only girls and just show the siloute.
I don’t understand why everyone is saying the show is haram. Can someone explain to why people are saying this? Thank you
It is haram because it is free mixing and women on camera without even proper hijab. The amount of haram outweighs the so called benefit of this show. Its a pure fitna. If someone wants to solve the problem, they should have called a scholar to the show and ask questions. People may comment "lower your gaze" but its not an appropriate answer.
@@mohamedkhan3703how is it not proper hijab? How much more can these woman do. Do not judge, allah (swt) knows best
@@Nikoomilano I am not blind. If its happening infront of us, we are allowed to say that its haram. So that we can warn people. Its not judging at all. Some women on the show were not wearing proper hijab. I have not seen a single episode of this but i have seen some clips. Just dont say "ALLAH will judge" or "Do not Judge" as an excuse for every sin. With that statement, people can justify every sin they are commiting. Indeed, ALLAH is the judge but we as slaves of ALLAH can say haram is haram. Thats the right path. May ALLAH grant us Guidance.
It’s haram becuase it spread misinformation about Islam , degrades women, promotes vulgur behaviour and encourages conversations about intimacy between men and women
@@mohamedkhan3703 it is not an excuse, allah is most merciful and forgiving. They possibly have been told this before since many people are hating or perhaps know and are trying to become better!
That's not okay Brother ali
Islam doing its best to be as violent and shit as possible
No it isnt, you can obviously see others Muslims for not valuing islam correctly. Shame on you.@@lilyrokin1822
There should be a Curtain in between in order to continue with this.
I find this show that is very beneficial.
Please bring Dr. Mona Alyedreessy Ph.D. on bitter truth show.
I don't know why there are people who follow these embarrassing debates, this page only shames the ummah
Both men and women are commanded to lower the gaze. I see the men desperately trying to keep their gaze lowered but the sister not so much, do women not take this as seriously as the men?
lowering the gaze for men and women works differently. same way that women have more body part to cover than men. for men, lowering their gaze is more emphasised and for women wearing hijab
@@MH-bf4uu you’re reaching here. Read the verse, tell the believing women to lower their gaze AND guard their modesty. There isn’t less emphasis because their aurah is broader than a males.