I dont want to judge anyone, but if you are seriously considering to live in some country permanently, and you chose it as residence, I think you need to learn their language, culture, traditions, even if you both are foreigners. It's just respect to this country and the only way for you to be accepted and respected. And i'm certain the most important is not if people are treating you as foreigner or not, but if they are friendly to you. And as i can see, most people in China are friendly to foreigners even in small places where they rarely see such.
Yes, you are completely right! I am german, moved to UK and learnt english, then I lived in Paris and learned french, went to work in Italy and learnt italian and my last step was to go to Brazil where I learned portughese! As I am passioned about China and would like to visit, I am learning chinese on youtube to be able to communicate with people! Each language is an expression of the mentallity of a nation and to know the people you must be able to interact in their own language!
The right thing to say is to "put effort" into learning the language , not everyone can or have the ability or the interest to learn a language so quite challenging for many ppl ;know many who have lived here in France for more than ten year but still cant speak french well and find super hard
@fatisummer9106 I think everyone has ability to learn. Just for some people it may take longer time. And I can say from my own experience it's really not easy to move to another country, and it took me about a year to start to understand and speak well. And it's truth, "Interest is the best teacher".
Generally, girls can drink for free in nightclubs before 23:00, because the bar owner wants to attract customers. After 11 o'clock, the owner wants the girls to leave because many people drink too much, and it will be troublesome if a quarrel occurs because of the girls. It is also troublesome if they drink too much, and the security guards need to find a taxi to take them home.
As a white guy married to a Chinese woman, I can relate to the girl from Ukraine. You definitely have to get along with the family and sometimes it can be exhausting. I also cannot communicate much with my in-laws, but I actually don't see that as a very good thing. Im still trying very hard to improve my Chinese so I can communicate better with them in the future.
@@jungk0081 Sometimes I need to, but using a translator to communicate with somebody is not ideal, it’s better to learn the language if you really care
I'm married to a Chinese too but I speak Chinese because I am doing postgraduate studies here. If you're not already, enrole in a Chinese language program at a university in your city. It is intensive , and in addition to language, you also learn culture and some extracurricular activities and by the end of one year you should be advanced enough, or have the needed foundation to do independent study of the language. You'll meet other foreigners too from all backgrounds and all over the world. I am still friends with people I met in my class, (including a fellow foreigner-chinese couple). The key to thriving in China is to stop comparing it to your country, and also make friends of your own outside of family and family friends.
@@emi62507 unfortunately I’m too busy with my current college courses to also be taking Chinese, but I have been studying on my own for a year and have a solid foundation already. I can communicate basics, but really it’s gonna take me many years before I can communicate my thoughts effectively in Chinese without some language barrier. I don’t need to use Chinese for my relationship, but I do need to use it to communicate with my wife’s family. Given that we are deciding to live in the US, and my wife’s family is in China, it’s not too big of an issue at the moment. It was just challenging and a bit awkward at times when I was in China visiting them and celebrating our marriage.
@@aidanschram9652 You could take a Mandarin Course, if you are planning for rapid progress in conversation. Other and easier way, you already has the Mandarin Teacher in your home, which is Your local wife. Try to communicate in Mandarin often in home with your love ones. It will make you, more fluent in Mandarin conversation.
Someone from Brazil! How cool! This shows that Brazil is diverse. I have to go to Ukraine to find a beautiful woman like that.I have the greatest admiration for the Chinese language, culture and people!
geezes, this channel should go viral. It's down-to-earth and informative. We just back from China on a 2.5-week trip ( Guangzhou->Shanghai->Beijing->Chongqing). It's an amazing country! We were drunk every night and walked back to the hotel without any fear of getting robbed, shot, etc. Excellent beer food on the way to the hotel tool. As a foreigner, watch out for the following: The squat toilet, the silent moped zipping through on the pedestrian walkway, dudes coming up to you asking "Do you want massage" girl, angry taxi driver because your VPN is slow as fuk and you're trying to pay him/her via Alipay. For Chongqing, the "hotpot" was not for me. The "real" street food tastes much better. Otherwise, the architecture in Chongqing is simply amazing!
So from this comment I assume that people should visit the country, when they want to be drunk every day and not beeing robbed, where you can't wire money for service, otherwise you will get yelled, where men harasse women on streets with inappropriate proposals and other man says that is the best comment.
Haha you have no idea - China is still just a country of new money racist farmers pretty much. Look how they treat ethnic minorities - Still low class simple racists in China mostly
This whole "you will never be accepted as Chinese but as a foreigner in China.", well, that's exactly what Chinese people experience in Anglosphere or other European countries.
True. So this isn't a one way street since Asians are never accepted as Americans. We get made fun of so much that we are basically outsiders. I laugh at the fact that people try to nail China for this when they also do it. Like "USA is not decent example of human rights buddy, let alone a good example."
there are many western cities that are surveilled as heavily or even more than chinese cities. but it has not much effect of crime rates. maybe it's something else. like socioeconomic, cultural and collective awareness stuff.
4:08 that’s definitely true that you need the parents approval! Maybe it is both positive and negative, but you aren’t marrying your parents! But also maybe, the parent are judgements, bc they want to find a good partner for their kid?
Нет но на западе если ты будешь слишком прислушаться к своим родителям - это плохо. Потому что чувак у тебя будет своя семья и мы ожидаем что она будет на первом месте. Это не значит что надо разлюбить родителей, это значит что мое мнение такое же важное или лаже важнее.
As an overseas China I would agree it's the same about getting the approval of my parents. I mean, if only my parents like the girl and I don't like her then it's a no no, but if I like her but my parents don't like her then it will probably not work out either. Because in racist Anglosphere countries you and your parents are usually a lonelysphere and they are truly the people that supported you there, hence you cannot marry someone that will make them feel bad because it's not fair for them.
Девочка с украины. Я могу тебе сказать что она подумала. Мужчины которые слишком слушаются родителей непопулярны, так как считается что они не способны сами принимать решения и еще не сепарировались от семьи. Это однозначно плохо и для своей семьи я хочу быть на первом месте, а не быть второй после родителей. В конце концов не они женятся.
Lool I can make a video about that. if you looking for more adventure, tinder or bumble is good, but many people look for fun tho. If look for more Chinese who never travel or been abroad, Tan tan is cool. Overall I don't recommend any of these lmao
It’s true what the girl at the end said most of the world used parents as a marriage and courting process. Some odd reason the Western countries are so against their own traditions especially in America.
Wrong. It's never been that way on Earth. Men prefer tan women, women prefer white men. In Japan, reverse colorism has acted against white women, whose complexions are stigmatized as too pale or "spotted" in comparison to local Asian women.[25] In Southeast Asia, beauty ideals created by Dutch white male colonists placed brown-skinned Asian women above white women in the female beauty standard, leading to the lower socioeconomic status of blond, light-skinned women in Indonesia.[85] Bonnie Adrian writes that American culture makes white women feel inferior for having pale complexions and reddish features, and that she risked skin cancer and wrinkles trying to darken her pale skin.[22] According to 21st-century research, women in China have recently asserted tan skin as the new female beauty ideal, which they view as healthier and more attractive. According to Tai Wei Lim, Chinese women in the media now sport bronze complexions, and this is viewed as a reclamation of women's autonomy from the fading Chinese patriarchy.[23] According to a 2014 study of Swedish women in Singapore, white women are not fetishized in East Asia, but placed beneath Asian women in the beauty hierarchy. European racial characteristics such as blond hair desexualized Swedish women in Singapore, and made them feel less feminine. Furthermore, their Swedish husbands found local Taiwanese women highly attractive, contributing to the low self esteem of the Swedish women.[75] According to Erica Lorraine Williams, White women in Brazil are considered less attractive than women of color.[76] White Brazilian women have complained that foreign male sex tourists are not interested in them, and that these men prefer brown and black women over White Brazilian women.[76] For this reason, White Brazilian women struggle to compete for the money of male sex tourists.[76]
@Systems_70 LOL dude where are you getting this info from? East Asian media is all pale skin, especially China and Korea. Pale skin has always been the ideal. It's o lying until very recently in the west that it has changed. Out of curiosity, are you a dark skinned and female?
I 100% agree I'm a Mexican American married to a chinese woman, she values more on her independence than her family values. However, her and I are giving as much respect as possible to the culture and values. Learning chinese is a fun challenge. Hopefully I'll be able to communicate effectively in a year from now.
What a difference between China and South Korea. When I was in China, I saw only white men/chinese women interracial couples but in South Korea I saw mainly Korean men/white women couples. I mean they're both Asian countries
That's the effect of Korean Hallyu...Korean men getting more famous because their persona and coolness that showed in Many Korean Dramas / K-drama. Not only white females, but also in many Asia, America, Europe countries, their women are big fans of Korean men or something that related to Korea (South Korea).
@@jimbi-j don't marriage to foreigners... china 🇨🇳 culture different from others country.. specially language.. foreign girls always fake attitude..fake promise.. india 🇮🇳 boy know foreign girls only 3 years good and your money down..they go other china boy..so marry to china girls... pakistani girls good they never forget you easily...as a india boy.. india girls follow USA girls type now
I am a foreigner - if you see foreign person having a difficulty (for example cannot read a menu, looking lost), ask in English if they need help. Where I come from, and also in America where I live now, it is common for strangers to offer helping people but I notice this is uncommon in China. Since you seem to have good English, maybe you can try to offer to help foreigners you meet on the street (if they seem to need help, don’t just bother random people 😂)
I think is quite interesting hearing some of these. I’m a brown skinned woman. I know it’s not for all but a lot of Chinese men won’t date because of their parent’s preferences. When I move there it’ll just be for peace and comfortability not to date lol
I am a brown skinned man with a Chinese wife and my sister is going to marry a (American born) Chinese guy. Not every man is the same! China has many cool and handsome guys who might like you, so don’t give up!
19:21 "You lose social credit." Is this sarcasm or not? The woman responds as if it is but there are lots of videos on China's social credit system. Is social credit program pervasive across the country?
The social credit stuff pushed by the West is nonsense. It just the usual China bashing from the West. The West has something called credit score that can affect if you can get a loan. How's that for hypocrisy.
Social Credit is a meme, but the closest analogy to reality is a Criminal Record. If you are a convicted felon then you have certain privileges restricted. Hence why the crime rate is so low.
18:40 She contrasting her views of so many cameras to other Westerners. She doesn't feel spied on but at the same time there's a very nosey woman in the background trying to figure out what going on. 😂
Korean girl’ English is perfect. Ukrainian’ girl needs to improve her English language skills and learn Chinese. Nobody fights or argues with in-laws even if they have disagreements.
Actually the relationship between the foreign daughter in law with the husband's parents would be good for both as seen with mixed marriages on RUclips.
why is the hapa in china but not dating asian.. thats weird and she has to dump on us asian men we're a lot better than other men theyre not better in any way tbh culture or not
It's cultural difference. In China being men is very difficult. Men have to prove that he can take care of you. He has stable income. Let's look at this way. Animal bird insects everywhere male has to impress female. That's exactly in China. Men has to impress women.
Ok why I'm watching this , 😂 I don't know. But why our (India-China) relationship is not that good😢. Feeling really sad🥹 we love Chinese boys🥹 ok just chill babe . Maybe in another life.❤
@@x01021 but mai toh apne Himachal se bahr kabhi nhi gyi toh china kb pahunchungi , isi dukh se zindagi jiyenge bhai,🤣😂 I hope aap mujhe kisi chinese ldke se jrur milayenge ,🤣😂🙈
It's okay 👍.. I'm obsessed with china.. maybe one day I will go to China and explore china 😊. It's my dream country.. but idk why India-China relationship is not good 😢😢.
Because majority Americans don’t save money to pass their children . They don’t believe working hard to pay for their children’s tuitions and save money to help their children to buy house for their children is necessary. For Chinese is very common and they do thaeir for the next generation and the next and next generation is the motivation and purpose in their life . If the family is well established they involve the choice of their son and daughter makes but if they are below average class , parents don’t really have much too say . In UK , Royalty don’t get married with anyone else either . Its not wrong and right. Its about culture differences
Says who? I come from a single parent household and have nearly 300k in savings at 34yrs old not including my pension, and my mother has nearly 1 mil and came from nothing. Everyone has their own priorities
@@Plez_ChillYou are more of an exception than the norm though. Whereas in China, it's a norm that parents save for their kids, which makes it unfair for kids from poorer backgrounds, because we don't get much help while all the other peers get everything from their parents. As someone who came from a poor background, I have seen too many of examples like that.
I think you have a very misunderstood perception of Chinese men looking through most of it using western lenses. Like you I also grew up in the west but I lived in China for many years as an adult and really integrated myself with the locals. For one, the Chinese men that are only looking for sex on dating sites is no different than the men from western countries on dating sites. Dating sites are not an ideal solution for finding a real relationship. Most of my Chinese local friends are actually quite respectful towards western women and are serious about dating them. Also in response to your perception of most Chinese men all being super shy, that is far from the truth. When you have a population of over 1 billion people, you are going to meet all sorts of different people if you integrate yourself with them. Some of the Chinese men that I befriended are actually no different than western men when it comes to being confident and assertive.
Больше открытости, меньше попыток купить. Это отталкивает. Ну или притягивает очень определенных иностранцев. Всегда помните что вы сами по себе ценность.
One of the girls talk like western girls do not care about the financial situation of guys at all. Does anyone really believe that? I have lived in a western country for over 30 years and I can say for sure that it's not true.
Yeah you’re right, I don’t believe that either, but than again the states is very diverse is term of culture and being westernize. It’s more or less depending of the individual person of caring to the extreme or less about the financial status of the male partner. Regarding in China it’s typical that Chinese woman are looking for a strong/wealthy male partner. They are concern and uptight about a men financially status. One of the woman in the video mention that it’s common the guys comes approach and introducing their CV/ family financial situation.
@@Drew-po6ju I agree with you. So it's a specturm. From degrees of 1 to 10, perhaps most women in China is a 8 and most women in the West is a 5. But it's still just wrong and a plain lie to make it out like all women in China go after finance and all women in the West do not care about finance. I am sure everyone with a brain can understand what I am trying to point out.
Господи я ответила наверное в каждой ветке. Мне очень любопытен китай. Лол. Чтож я попробую объяснить как я это вижу. Деньги важны да. Важны с двух сторон парень не должен быть бедным (ну тут гибко. Если он умный, заботливый и красивый с этим можно жить) и не должен быть слишком богатым (не стоит ходить с ножом на перестрелку) . НО помимо денег он еще должен быть интересным человеком, с ним должно быть приятно общаться. Он должен быть умным и видеть во мне человека, а не красивую куклу. Грубо говоря с ним должно быть лучше чем него, а когда я вижу что человек настойчиво предлагает деньги я делаю вывод что это все что у него есть и жить с ним будет трудно. Ну как-то так.
I didn’t say girls don’t care about money at all, but money is not the only thing that matters in a relationship. In China, guys think if they have money they can date anyone. But it doesn’t work for me. I don’t care how much money you have. I look at the personality, humor, intellect, and the way the guy treats me at first, and money is not the most important part. I don’t care how much the guy earns, his salary has nothing to do with me, he should just have enough for the necessities (I said it but it was cut from the video). Btw I’m proudly married to a Chinese person 😅
That’s not what he was axing you he was saying could you be his girlfriend for a day and he will pay you and there’s a couple things that you can do yeah there could be two options he could be paying you like a prostitute and he doesn’t need to know you who you are or he could pay you to be his girlfriend for a day and do girlfriend things and just show his friends and family that he has a girlfriend and he doesn’t still need to know who you are because that’s what they do in Asia especially China they pay people to be like their girlfriend or their wife There’s jobs out there like that in Asia I will not just say one particular country but all around Asia they do that
all these people and answers only scrape the surface. ask some that actually know, they will tell you about real cultural differences. because the 1st 5% is just talking about "apartment, salary, which school" etc. is still the "nice stuff". but life gets pretty real after dating or marriage and then western women realize they have noting in common with Chinese men. not even topics to talk about. and that can be eye opening. ok, some are different but if you see the majority it's still pretty traditional. Guy is the head of the family and he only wants his wife to adore him, not be equal or even challenge him. Many girls saw this at first date and said no to the guy. they mostly said there are no common topics to talk about.
What's with the bashing of Chinese men? Sounds like you're trying to push an agenda. Are you even Chinese? Firstly, there are more Slavic women than Western women in Chìna. They tend to be interested and open minded to the culture and learn the language. It's very arrogant and ignorant of you to automatically assume a Chinese man and Western women have no common ground. Do individuals not have different taste in movies, music, interests, and hobbies? Many Chinese men have lived in the West or Europe, so are familiar with the cultural differences anyway. As for your "head of the family" hogwash, you have clearly not heard of the Chinese saying: Women hold up half the sky. If you are implying China is male dominated, then go and compare American politicians Chinese ones. America is dominated by males in the lesdership roles, while China has a split of men and women. Your comment is full of generalisations.
Western women have a hard time dating in SE Asia. Western women who are 4s and think they are 9s can sometimes get away with that in the west. But in SE Asia the competition is much tougher. SE Asian women are petite, feminine and supportive of men. They are not infected by the woke virus and do not talk endlessly about the patriarchy.
@AidenQiu / @PRINCEOFCN : Mate, I hate to say it, but you should really consider taking a few courses in journalism. The way you react during some of those interviews came off a bit awkward, and you tried to put things in their mouth or challenge what they say too aggressively. In some cases, you had put some of those interviewees in a rather uncomfortable position. Another thing is that you seem to cut people's statements half-way (to save time?), but you had allocated more time trying to sus out people's languages, which is not central to the discussion topic. Not shit talking you in any way, don't get me wrong - I like the content you cover, but I'm sure you would agree as I would that it's always better to be better trained and prepared than not.
Thanks a lot buddy. I don’t like to be a journalism. I like the style I’m doing now. But I definitely need to improve the entertaining part of the content, you can tell me what kind of top he would be interested to you, that will be helpful instead of telling me what to do
I dont want to judge anyone, but if you are seriously considering to live in some country permanently, and you chose it as residence, I think you need to learn their language, culture, traditions, even if you both are foreigners. It's just respect to this country and the only way for you to be accepted and respected. And i'm certain the most important is not if people are treating you as foreigner or not, but if they are friendly to you. And as i can see, most people in China are friendly to foreigners even in small places where they rarely see such.
soft low pounding white boys: I dont give a shit about learning eastern lanuages, I am white I am superior in human history
Yes, you are completely right! I am german, moved to UK and learnt english, then I lived in Paris and learned french, went to work in Italy and learnt italian and my last step was to go to Brazil where I learned portughese! As I am passioned about China and would like to visit, I am learning chinese on youtube to be able to communicate with people! Each language is an expression of the mentallity of a nation and to know the people you must be able to interact in their own language!
The right thing to say is to "put effort" into learning the language , not everyone can or have the ability or the interest to learn a language so quite challenging for many ppl ;know many who have lived here in France for more than ten year but still cant speak french well and find super hard
@fatisummer9106
I think everyone has ability to learn. Just for some people it may take longer time. And I can say from my own experience it's really not easy to move to another country, and it took me about a year to start to understand and speak well. And it's truth, "Interest is the best teacher".
Generally, girls can drink for free in nightclubs before 23:00, because the bar owner wants to attract customers. After 11 o'clock, the owner wants the girls to leave because many people drink too much, and it will be troublesome if a quarrel occurs because of the girls. It is also troublesome if they drink too much, and the security guards need to find a taxi to take them home.
As a white guy married to a Chinese woman, I can relate to the girl from Ukraine. You definitely have to get along with the family and sometimes it can be exhausting. I also cannot communicate much with my in-laws, but I actually don't see that as a very good thing. Im still trying very hard to improve my Chinese so I can communicate better with them in the future.
Why don't you use app translator ?
@@jungk0081 Sometimes I need to, but using a translator to communicate with somebody is not ideal, it’s better to learn the language if you really care
I'm married to a Chinese too but I speak Chinese because I am doing postgraduate studies here. If you're not already, enrole in a Chinese language program at a university in your city. It is intensive , and in addition to language, you also learn culture and some extracurricular activities and by the end of one year you should be advanced enough, or have the needed foundation to do independent study of the language. You'll meet other foreigners too from all backgrounds and all over the world. I am still friends with people I met in my class, (including a fellow foreigner-chinese couple). The key to thriving in China is to stop comparing it to your country, and also make friends of your own outside of family and family friends.
@@emi62507 unfortunately I’m too busy with my current college courses to also be taking Chinese, but I have been studying on my own for a year and have a solid foundation already. I can communicate basics, but really it’s gonna take me many years before I can communicate my thoughts effectively in Chinese without some language barrier. I don’t need to use Chinese for my relationship, but I do need to use it to communicate with my wife’s family. Given that we are deciding to live in the US, and my wife’s family is in China, it’s not too big of an issue at the moment. It was just challenging and a bit awkward at times when I was in China visiting them and celebrating our marriage.
@@aidanschram9652 You could take a Mandarin Course, if you are planning for rapid progress in conversation. Other and easier way, you already has the Mandarin Teacher in your home, which is Your local wife. Try to communicate in Mandarin often in home with your love ones. It will make you, more fluent in Mandarin conversation.
Someone from Brazil! How cool! This shows that Brazil is diverse. I have to go to Ukraine to find a beautiful woman like that.I have the greatest admiration for the Chinese language, culture and people!
Solid content! I liked it!
nice interview, great job!
It’s interesting to see how different people will answer the same question. You did a great job!
geezes, this channel should go viral. It's down-to-earth and informative. We just back from China on a 2.5-week trip ( Guangzhou->Shanghai->Beijing->Chongqing). It's an amazing country! We were drunk every night and walked back to the hotel without any fear of getting robbed, shot, etc. Excellent beer food on the way to the hotel tool. As a foreigner, watch out for the following: The squat toilet, the silent moped zipping through on the pedestrian walkway, dudes coming up to you asking "Do you want massage" girl, angry taxi driver because your VPN is slow as fuk and you're trying to pay him/her via Alipay. For Chongqing, the "hotpot" was not for me. The "real" street food tastes much better. Otherwise, the architecture in Chongqing is simply amazing!
Damn dude, best comment ever and encouraging 🙌🏼
I liked the Alipay payment with VPN story, that’s true! 😂😂😂
So from this comment I assume that people should visit the country, when they want to be drunk every day and not beeing robbed, where you can't wire money for service, otherwise you will get yelled, where men harasse women on streets with inappropriate proposals and other man says that is the best comment.
所以一个好的VPN很重要，还有支付的时候最好关闭VPN，会影响支付速度！
Good advice
The girl from New York got really good pronunciation for Mandarin and Cantonese for an ABC. Most ABCs I know only speaks English.
Half Korean, half Chinese, grew up in Korea, studied in America, now back to China ahaha
Haha you have no idea - China is still just a country of new money racist farmers pretty much. Look how they treat ethnic minorities - Still low class simple racists in China mostly
underrated video
underrated comment
Informative......good job 👍
This was a good video. You have a new subscriber.
Need more video like these!!!!
I like this type of contents, thanks and nice work
*content
all of the people interviewed seemed really nice
So interesting video ❤
This whole "you will never be accepted as Chinese but as a foreigner in China.", well, that's exactly what Chinese people experience in Anglosphere or other European countries.
Even when you’re born there
True. So this isn't a one way street since Asians are never accepted as Americans. We get made fun of so much that we are basically outsiders. I laugh at the fact that people try to nail China for this when they also do it. Like "USA is not decent example of human rights buddy, let alone a good example."
You clearly have never been to America.
In the Anglosphere it is worser for Chinese in terms of dating, working and especially safety!
@@shaquanjamison8161I am in America right now,I must say she is right 😂😂😂😂😂so many racists 😅还是说你超绝钝感力完全体会不到？？？
Interesting vlog. Nice having the perspective of a foreign woman in China.
An eye opener 😊
开眼看世界
Very interesting 👌
Great interviews! I’m a new sub from South Africa 🇿🇦 - looking forward to more videos from you Aiden ❤️🌺
Whats that cheese and onion sandwich thing yall eat there called shawty?!!! braybriae or something?
South Africa was racist just like China against blacks, etc.
Informative
Nice interview
Next video... 😊😊😊
it was nice video.
nice informative video
Love the channel! You will have many many subscribers soon. Great content
Language of love is all you need
there are many western cities that are surveilled as heavily or even more than chinese cities. but it has not much effect of crime rates. maybe it's something else. like socioeconomic, cultural and collective awareness stuff.
Very interesting 👍
Korean-Hong-Kong couple is beautiful, modest and both speak very good English
Now try to interview those that speak Chinese.
Nah f them - Why no Chinese RUclips lol scared racists
Very interesting video! Thank you
12:56 🤔What was that look for? Then in the next few seconds, "I don't really have any preference of race..."
4:08 that’s definitely true that you need the parents approval!
Maybe it is both positive and negative, but you aren’t marrying your parents!
But also maybe, the parent are judgements, bc they want to find a good partner for their kid?
Нет но на западе если ты будешь слишком прислушаться к своим родителям - это плохо. Потому что чувак у тебя будет своя семья и мы ожидаем что она будет на первом месте. Это не значит что надо разлюбить родителей, это значит что мое мнение такое же важное или лаже важнее.
As an overseas China I would agree it's the same about getting the approval of my parents. I mean, if only my parents like the girl and I don't like her then it's a no no, but if I like her but my parents don't like her then it will probably not work out either. Because in racist Anglosphere countries you and your parents are usually a lonelysphere and they are truly the people that supported you there, hence you cannot marry someone that will make them feel bad because it's not fair for them.
Девочка с украины. Я могу тебе сказать что она подумала. Мужчины которые слишком слушаются родителей непопулярны, так как считается что они не способны сами принимать решения и еще не сепарировались от семьи. Это однозначно плохо и для своей семьи я хочу быть на первом месте, а не быть второй после родителей. В конце концов не они женятся.
@@greenduck72553 Once the foreign girl is accepted the inlaws actually are quite helpful especially if you give them grand kids.
Hello! What's the best international dating app!!! I'm looking for chinese husband.
Lool I can make a video about that. if you looking for more adventure, tinder or bumble is good, but many people look for fun tho. If look for more Chinese who never travel or been abroad, Tan tan is cool. Overall I don't recommend any of these lmao
Chaina has old culture and wisdom with modern technology 🙏 🙌 ✨️!!
Foreign girls are pretty ❤
Whites look down at Asians while Asians look up at whites, what is this? How is it fair?
For about 20years
Black as well so cute
@@alanc457 Black girls as well so cute
hungarian wife and chinese husband👁️👄👁️
Nice video +1000000 Social credits👍👍
That's the way to go🙌🏼
It’s true what the girl at the end said most of the world used parents as a marriage and courting process. Some odd reason the Western countries are so against their own traditions especially in America.
it's not all true, many Chinese men do choose who they want to marry without parents agree
If you white girl or fair skin then Chinese boyfriend parents will like you
its been like that for us since men walked the earth.
Wrong. It's never been that way on Earth. Men prefer tan women, women prefer white men.
In Japan, reverse colorism has acted against white women, whose complexions are stigmatized as too pale or "spotted" in comparison to local Asian women.[25] In Southeast Asia, beauty ideals created by Dutch white male colonists placed brown-skinned Asian women above white women in the female beauty standard, leading to the lower socioeconomic status of blond, light-skinned women in Indonesia.[85]
Bonnie Adrian writes that American culture makes white women feel inferior for having pale complexions and reddish features, and that she risked skin cancer and wrinkles trying to darken her pale skin.[22] According to 21st-century research, women in China have recently asserted tan skin as the new female beauty ideal, which they view as healthier and more attractive. According to Tai Wei Lim, Chinese women in the media now sport bronze complexions, and this is viewed as a reclamation of women's autonomy from the fading Chinese patriarchy.[23]
According to a 2014 study of Swedish women in Singapore, white women are not fetishized in East Asia, but placed beneath Asian women in the beauty hierarchy. European racial characteristics such as blond hair desexualized Swedish women in Singapore, and made them feel less feminine. Furthermore, their Swedish husbands found local Taiwanese women highly attractive, contributing to the low self esteem of the Swedish women.[75] According to Erica Lorraine Williams, White women in Brazil are considered less attractive than women of color.[76] White Brazilian women have complained that foreign male sex tourists are not interested in them, and that these men prefer brown and black women over White Brazilian women.[76] For this reason, White Brazilian women struggle to compete for the money of male sex tourists.[76]
@@TheALLisONE.TheONEisALL really?Then first man and women are from Africa then?! You guys become black to white!😂🥺
@@TheALLisONE.TheONEisALL women have a fetish for white skinned men
@Systems_70 LOL dude where are you getting this info from? East Asian media is all pale skin, especially China and Korea. Pale skin has always been the ideal. It's o lying until very recently in the west that it has changed. Out of curiosity, are you a dark skinned and female?
Listen to parents while choosing partner is a asian thing but now it's changing a bit.
I 100% agree
I'm a Mexican American married to a chinese woman, she values more on her independence than her family values. However, her and I are giving as much respect as possible to the culture and values. Learning chinese is a fun challenge. Hopefully I'll be able to communicate effectively in a year from now.
200000 RMB a month???? omg! that's a lot of money, you earn more then an executive in Germany
I visited HK awhile ago. I noticed the foreigners are stand offish, they socialize among themselves. Almost unapproachable. Maybe it's changed since.
Nah, they still think they are better than the locals....that's why they are percieved as arrogant.
Why Karina (using Valenciaga T-shirt) didn't said she is from Russia? Shame?
Why would she say she is from Russia? she is from Ukraine 😊 and it was not necessary to say where you came from
这哪儿个城市？
The Asian girl is so cute
This how they make money lol - also cooking rice
What a difference between China and South Korea. When I was in China, I saw only white men/chinese women interracial couples but in South Korea I saw mainly Korean men/white women couples. I mean they're both Asian countries
That's the effect of Korean Hallyu...Korean men getting more famous because their persona and coolness that showed in Many Korean Dramas / K-drama. Not only white females, but also in many Asia, America, Europe countries, their women are big fans of Korean men or something that related to Korea (South Korea).
In Korea that's because of kpop kdrama foreign women search their dream rich korean chairman in the end they meet just a simple man 😂😂😂
Bro in 2023, 10+ million foreign women visited South Korea vs only 3 million foreign men🤔
In North China, there's a lot more foreign women with the men compared to the South.
😂@@catsfan_M
Hello, I'm a Chinese living Guangzhou. How can make friends with foreigners in China? T_T
I guess go to a bar
@@PRINCEOFCN It's really a pity that I don't drink alcohol. Thank you for your advice. hhh
@@jimbi-j don't marriage to foreigners... china 🇨🇳 culture different from others country.. specially language.. foreign girls always fake attitude..fake promise.. india 🇮🇳 boy know foreign girls only 3 years good and your money down..they go other china boy..so marry to china girls... pakistani girls good they never forget you easily...as a india boy.. india girls follow USA girls type now
I am a foreigner - if you see foreign person having a difficulty (for example cannot read a menu, looking lost), ask in English if they need help. Where I come from, and also in America where I live now, it is common for strangers to offer helping people but I notice this is uncommon in China. Since you seem to have good English, maybe you can try to offer to help foreigners you meet on the street (if they seem to need help, don’t just bother random people 😂)
@@x01021 many thanks. it's so kind of you. haha
I think is quite interesting hearing some of these. I’m a brown skinned woman. I know it’s not for all but a lot of Chinese men won’t date because of their parent’s preferences. When I move there it’ll just be for peace and comfortability not to date lol
Honestly not easy for black female to date Chinese, majority Chinese guys are too conservative about that...but at least you got the good Chinese food
@@PRINCEOFCN haha 😂 very true
I am a brown skinned man with a Chinese wife and my sister is going to marry a (American born) Chinese guy. Not every man is the same! China has many cool and handsome guys who might like you, so don’t give up!
Chinese men working in Africa have married local black women.
19:21 "You lose social credit." Is this sarcasm or not? The woman responds as if it is but there are lots of videos on China's social credit system. Is social credit program pervasive across the country?
No, in real life, I have never heard about the social credit thing.
@@caijunxu3300 Thank you.
The social credit stuff pushed by the West is nonsense. It just the usual China bashing from the West. The West has something called credit score that can affect if you can get a loan. How's that for hypocrisy.
Social Credit is a meme, but the closest analogy to reality is a Criminal Record. If you are a convicted felon then you have certain privileges restricted. Hence why the crime rate is so low.
@@GalianMode @caijunxu3300, I was told to ask you two about how the term 积分制 is used in your personal experience?
its still the same, if a chinese guy go to Ukraine, he/she is still a foreigner!
Если проживёт достаточно долго и пример культуру сможет говорить что он украинец. Это будет нормально воспринято.
18:40 She contrasting her views of so many cameras to other Westerners. She doesn't feel spied on but at the same time there's a very nosey woman in the background trying to figure out what going on. 😂
Korean girl’ English is perfect. Ukrainian’ girl needs to improve her English language skills and learn Chinese. Nobody fights or argues with in-laws even if they have disagreements.
well done，aiden
wait what foreign women going over to China to date Chinese men? What dimension are we living in? Coming from a shina guy myself
❤💯🇨🇳🇨🇳🇨🇳🇨🇳🇨🇳🇨🇳
Nice
What about for foreign men?
No one give af about them
whoa korean chinese chick can speak 4 languages.
“Who is paying for dinner” is so outdated.
LMAO best way to avoid conflicts with your in-laws is to NOT speak their language, just smile. Thanks
Честно это звучит очень плохо.
Actually the relationship between the foreign daughter in law with the husband's parents would be good for both as seen with mixed marriages on RUclips.
男的网上放飞自我了，online dating环境确实差，可能和男多女少有关
First one was irritating for some reason 😒
woooo I like Isabelle.... she looks more like Japanese.... she seems like one tough woman!
Taiwan’s weirdo going to Toronto will go out soon
why is the hapa in china but not dating asian.. thats weird and she has to dump on us asian men we're a lot better than other men theyre not better in any way tbh culture or not
It's cultural difference. In China being men is very difficult. Men have to prove that he can take care of you. He has stable income. Let's look at this way. Animal bird insects everywhere male has to impress female. That's exactly in China. Men has to impress women.
The young girl seems grounded and thoughtful. Here boyfriend is a flake. What do these young girls find in some of these guys????
Ok why I'm watching this , 😂 I don't know. But why our (India-China) relationship is not that good😢. Feeling really sad🥹 we love Chinese boys🥹 ok just chill babe . Maybe in another life.❤
There are Chinese boys who will like you. I’m a Desi man with Chinese wife and my younger sister is a Desi girl with Chinese fiancé!!
@@x01021 but mai toh apne Himachal se bahr kabhi nhi gyi toh china kb pahunchungi , isi dukh se zindagi jiyenge bhai,🤣😂 I hope aap mujhe kisi chinese ldke se jrur milayenge ,🤣😂🙈
It's okay 👍.. I'm obsessed with china.. maybe one day I will go to China and explore china 😊. It's my dream country.. but idk why India-China relationship is not good 😢😢.
@@renukaraj8300 1962.
Wo lebt sie in Deutschland? In Deutschland sollen sich Leute auf der Straße oder in Bars anschreien? Berlin. Kommt mir nicht bekannt vor?
In Bremen. Fahr dort mal mit der Straßenbahn - es passieren immer ziemlich wilde Sachen 😂 Ebenso auf der Straße
Because majority Americans don’t save money to pass their children . They don’t believe working hard to pay for their children’s tuitions and save money to help their children to buy house for their children is necessary. For Chinese is very common and they do thaeir for the next generation and the next and next generation is the motivation and purpose in their life . If the family is well established they involve the choice of their son and daughter makes but if they are below average class , parents don’t really have much too say . In UK , Royalty don’t get married with anyone else either .
Its not wrong and right. Its about culture differences
They do pass inheritance.
Says who? I come from a single parent household and have nearly 300k in savings at 34yrs old not including my pension, and my mother has nearly 1 mil and came from nothing. Everyone has their own priorities
You are spot on! I totally agree with you on this.
@@Plez_ChillYou are more of an exception than the norm though. Whereas in China, it's a norm that parents save for their kids, which makes it unfair for kids from poorer backgrounds, because we don't get much help while all the other peers get everything from their parents. As someone who came from a poor background, I have seen too many of examples like that.
Hmmm.. ask some foreign men.
I think you have a very misunderstood perception of Chinese men looking through most of it using western lenses.
Like you I also grew up in the west but I lived in China for many years as an adult and really integrated myself with the locals.
For one, the Chinese men that are only looking for sex on dating sites is no different than the men from western countries on dating sites. Dating sites are not an ideal solution for finding a real relationship.
Most of my Chinese local friends are actually quite respectful towards western women and are serious about dating them.
Also in response to your perception of most Chinese men all being super shy, that is far from the truth. When you have a population of over 1 billion people, you are going to meet all sorts of different people if you integrate yourself with them.
Some of the Chinese men that I befriended are actually no different than western men when it comes to being confident and assertive.
Thank you for sharing, I grow up in China until 16, and returned at 21. I didn’t grow up in the west
Ukraine model wife. Lucky guy
做一期如何让洋妞爱上中国男人
好主意耶
Больше открытости, меньше попыток купить. Это отталкивает. Ну или притягивает очень определенных иностранцев. Всегда помните что вы сами по себе ценность.
如果你费尽心思想让你一个人爱上你，那么这个人永远不会真的爱上你。
One of the girls talk like western girls do not care about the financial situation of guys at all. Does anyone really believe that? I have lived in a western country for over 30 years and I can say for sure that it's not true.
Yeah you’re right, I don’t believe that either, but than again the states is very diverse is term of culture and being westernize. It’s more or less depending of the individual person of caring to the extreme or less about the financial status of the male partner.
Regarding in China it’s typical that Chinese woman are looking for a strong/wealthy male partner. They are concern and uptight about a men financially status. One of the woman in the video mention that it’s common the guys comes approach and introducing their CV/ family financial situation.
@@Drew-po6ju I agree with you. So it's a specturm. From degrees of 1 to 10, perhaps most women in China is a 8 and most women in the West is a 5. But it's still just wrong and a plain lie to make it out like all women in China go after finance and all women in the West do not care about finance. I am sure everyone with a brain can understand what I am trying to point out.
Господи я ответила наверное в каждой ветке. Мне очень любопытен китай. Лол. Чтож я попробую объяснить как я это вижу. Деньги важны да. Важны с двух сторон парень не должен быть бедным (ну тут гибко. Если он умный, заботливый и красивый с этим можно жить) и не должен быть слишком богатым (не стоит ходить с ножом на перестрелку) . НО помимо денег он еще должен быть интересным человеком, с ним должно быть приятно общаться. Он должен быть умным и видеть во мне человека, а не красивую куклу. Грубо говоря с ним должно быть лучше чем него, а когда я вижу что человек настойчиво предлагает деньги я делаю вывод что это все что у него есть и жить с ним будет трудно. Ну как-то так.
I didn’t say girls don’t care about money at all, but money is not the only thing that matters in a relationship. In China, guys think if they have money they can date anyone. But it doesn’t work for me. I don’t care how much money you have. I look at the personality, humor, intellect, and the way the guy treats me at first, and money is not the most important part. I don’t care how much the guy earns, his salary has nothing to do with me, he should just have enough for the necessities (I said it but it was cut from the video). Btw I’m proudly married to a Chinese person 😅
China is very very safe…😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What do u mean? China is very safe!
@@avayang6172 It just means he watches to much western media. Idiots like them don't know anything. Let it be
That’s not what he was axing you he was saying could you be his girlfriend for a day and he will pay you and there’s a couple things that you can do yeah there could be two options he could be paying you like a prostitute and he doesn’t need to know you who you are or he could pay you to be his girlfriend for a day and do girlfriend things and just show his friends and family that he has a girlfriend and he doesn’t still need to know who you are because that’s what they do in Asia especially China they pay people to be like their girlfriend or their wife There’s jobs out there like that in Asia I will not just say one particular country but all around Asia they do that
is it true ? I watched many c-dramas with one night stand but i felt just for drama not real.
آقا این چیزایی که اینا میگن مگه عادی نیست؟ 💀 اگه نه که مردای ایرانی ده هیچ جلوئن.
Why do I feel like you are interested in the 174cm girl😜? btw very nice content
I got that vibe too. Even trying out his Portuguese 😅
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they want asian chad, if you're not a chad go away pls
all these people and answers only scrape the surface.
ask some that actually know, they will tell you about real cultural differences. because the 1st 5% is just talking about "apartment, salary, which school" etc. is still the "nice stuff".
but life gets pretty real after dating or marriage and then western women realize they have noting in common with Chinese men. not even topics to talk about. and that can be eye opening.
ok, some are different but if you see the majority it's still pretty traditional. Guy is the head of the family and he only wants his wife to adore him, not be equal or even challenge him. Many girls saw this at first date and said no to the guy. they mostly said there are no common topics to talk about.
The girl who’s married to her Chinese husband seems very content.
What's with the bashing of Chinese men? Sounds like you're trying to push an agenda. Are you even Chinese? Firstly, there are more Slavic women than Western women in Chìna. They tend to be interested and open minded to the culture and learn the language. It's very arrogant and ignorant of you to automatically assume a Chinese man and Western women have no common ground. Do individuals not have different taste in movies, music, interests, and hobbies? Many Chinese men have lived in the West or Europe, so are familiar with the cultural differences anyway. As for your "head of the family" hogwash, you have clearly not heard of the Chinese saying: Women hold up half the sky. If you are implying China is male dominated, then go and compare American politicians Chinese ones. America is dominated by males in the lesdership roles, while China has a split of men and women. Your comment is full of generalisations.
@@thomast.9191 because she's a hot blonde housewife
All the women he interviewed were white he needed to mix up the pot Thank you for reading my comment
Will do it, thank you
Western women have a hard time dating in SE Asia. Western women who are 4s and think they are 9s can sometimes get away with that in the west. But in SE Asia the competition is much tougher. SE Asian women are petite, feminine and supportive of men. They are not infected by the woke virus and do not talk endlessly about the patriarchy.
Thanks for sharing, I often travel there, guess Asian women are similar
If you want a real answer, you should have asked someone who cannot speak English.
What language should speaks
the video is about foreigners datoing in china, not chinese dating...
all ok.. ecxept when the german girl started with cat calling..muahhhaaaaaa.... some pseudo woke thrown about
What you mean
The guy's reaction at his gf's statement from 7:14 - 7:16 LOL 🤣😂
@AidenQiu / @PRINCEOFCN : Mate, I hate to say it, but you should really consider taking a few courses in journalism. The way you react during some of those interviews came off a bit awkward, and you tried to put things in their mouth or challenge what they say too aggressively. In some cases, you had put some of those interviewees in a rather uncomfortable position. Another thing is that you seem to cut people's statements half-way (to save time?), but you had allocated more time trying to sus out people's languages, which is not central to the discussion topic. Not shit talking you in any way, don't get me wrong - I like the content you cover, but I'm sure you would agree as I would that it's always better to be better trained and prepared than not.
Thanks a lot buddy. I don’t like to be a journalism. I like the style I’m doing now. But I definitely need to improve the entertaining part of the content, you can tell me what kind of top he would be interested to you, that will be helpful instead of telling me what to do
The 1/2 Brazilian / Chinese girl is definitely Brazilian - look at the constant hand gestures lol - I’m also Brazilian we talk with our hands