I’m 41. Got married for the first time last year at 40. I also took a work break during my 1st year of marriage. I’ll be re-entering workforce soon. We are also planning to have a child (yes in my 40s). The point is that you are not behind…you have a great place in life and are at a great age. I also like creating content but not over sharing. You got this sis.
Blessings to you ladies! You gave beautiful context and Syndie your person is coming. Do not rush yourself. Enjoy life! You’re in a great place. It’s all in God’s timing.
I’m 32yrs old and I agree with starting over, it can be a bit challenging at times but the right person for you will come. Enjoy your singleness until then❤
I started over at 29, and I found the TRUE love of my life at 31, so glad you are taking a positive route. I love your content - all the way from South Africa 💜
Although break ups are tough, it’s inspiring to see a woman walk away.💎 You look so beautiful! The hair & makeup is definitely a summer vibe. I enjoyed this chit chat. Good luck on your new chapter🦋
I am a 54 years young woman and I know that you are doing the best thing for you. I started over last year in September. It has not been easy but it is totally worth it. Keep putting your love towards you.
I have enjoyed watching you and started a few months before you moved to Texas. I think you share enough and honestly wouldn’t suggest sharing more. I’ve watched many creators be scrutinized for the dumbest things, please know that you cant please everyone. It is very weird that people expect you to share your every move. Wishing you well on this new chapter!
I just passed through to say that I notice and appreciate all of the time you take on your content and your editing!! It’s top tier! Stick with it and you’ll have loads of followers in no time!
Hey hunny!! I love watching you and I definitely agree with loving solitude I love my solitude and I have really been enjoying going out by myself it makes me feel cared for and really happy ❤
The great thing about Texas is there are amazing surrounding cities. Dallas is nice. As someone who left Houston, I can't wait to come home later this year. I hope you enjoy this next chapter!
I was so excited to hear that you are Haitian! I'm also Haitian. Its awesome to see someone from the same culture living the kind of successful and positive life that our Caribbean parents dreamed of for us. Cheers!
You are so elegant in all that you do. I enjoy watching you videos, in fact, I have tried a couple of the restaurant you have recommended. Stay true to yourself. Your style I love. You are classy.
Love Love this vlog I'm happy you're enjoying life and new beginnings.And just from watching you on RUclips you seem so genuine so anything you choose to do you will be very successful. Enjoy your solitude it's a beautiful thing. I'm looking forward to seeing you on your new journey in life and your new place 💌❤
first of all - love this content and you look STUNNING!!!! the hair, makeup, outfit, etc 14:40 share only what you want to share. no such thing as gate keeping tbh. we the new adults - cheers to your single era. God has great things in store for you
Downsizing sounds like a potential studio apartment and if so…I’m geeked! Lol I’m going to be living out my studio dreams soon before I really find my “forever home”. Either way, I’m excited for your new journey! Everything happens for a reason sis❤❤
K Syndie I see you.....I love the red dress and the new changes at the beginning. Your new hair and all is beautiful ❤. New beginning is great. You were given a new chance at life. Do you and be happy ❤❤
Hey syndie I absolutely love the hair it looks amazing on you!!❤❤❤❤ also love the red polka dot dress I am getting a tan one that’s shorter because I am only 5’1 so I find it harder to actually find a maxi dress that doesn’t drag on me❤❤❤😅
Hey Syndie, you such a gorgeous babe and I love it when am here ...love your fashion content so much and I was requesting whether you can do a week's office outfit to work...much love from Kenya❤
Hi Syndie! Thanks for the video. I didnt send any questions; however, I believe the questions asked by others echo my sentiments. I understand the desire not to share your goals until you achieve them for privacy reasons, or to limit the comments/judgments from others, or perhaps if you don't achieve the goal, but I feel as though content creators often forget that we (the viewers) enjoy seeing your progression. We want to be on the journey with you and your journey may inspire others in that moment. We want relatable content. The ups and the downs of life in the moment they happen. I've found that current content creators will randomly post videos about how they manifested a 6-figure salary (or something similar) and then we (your loyal subscribers) are confused. We are left wondering why the info wasn't shared with us sooner as loyal supporters. You (not you personally... just sharing the viewers' thoughts) create lifestyle content but you aren't sharing your lifestyle in the moment. We see the glamorized version later and even if you (again not you, personally) include the not-so-pleasant aspects it doesn't seem real because we didn't personally see/hear about the wins and losses at the moment. More importantly, I've found that YTers fall victim to recency bias so the re-telling of the story isn't the same as the true lived experience. Bring the real back, Syndie! The girls need you. Transparency is what the game has been missing (this YT game) and this is what the people want. I hope you grow to feel more comfortable sharing.
Thank you for sharing your sentiments. I don’t mind sharing/documenting certain goals, I’m no longer feel comfortable going into depth with my financial goals. “Bring back the real Syndie” could you elaborate on that, because I’m still here but some things have changed.
@@BeautifullySyndie Hey! I appreciate that you were receptive to my comments. Allow me to clarify, my comment "bring back the real, Syndie." I realize now that it could be misconstrued. I added your name for emphasis only. I wasn't saying you aren't real. I guess my statement is similar to if someone said, "you are funny, Syndie." It is more like "Syndie, bring the real back." Like I need you to bring the real because the other YTers wont bring the real back. Hopefully that makes sense LOL. I appreciate that you asked for clarification rather than getting upset.
Influencers are people too. They share what they are comfortable sharing and don’t what they don’t want too. We have to understand as viewers that just because someone is an influencer, it doesn’t mean we are entitled to knowing all their business.
@@peaceandshine And it also means that influencers should know that the lack of transparency can impact their views. I am offering constructive feedback
Do not share your work information! Set those boundaries!! You may consider sharing something related to the industry, perhaps interviewing someone in a similar space. There are tech RUclipsrs that focus on careers and maybe you can connect with them. Or something like “Black Women in Tech”. Otherwise, people need to be more respectful.
I think you’re smart not to overshare work content. I’ve seen a few creators (on TikTok) lose their jobs bc their employers saw them post work content and weren’t ok with it. Don’t let anyone pressure you into sharing things you don’t want to.
Right! I’m not “gatekeeping” just being aware of what’s appropriate to share online. I saw! When I saw them sharing I was cringing because I knew they probably didn’t read their contracts carefully.
I think people wanting you to show them more of your work or you doing your work is a ..bit.. :/ Don’t feel pressure to share that, the innanets is crazy! Like there’s only so much sharing of our 9-5’s we can actually do without jeopardising our contracts. Don’t let nosey Nancy’s get you in trouble with compliance girl 😂
I really like your hair, makeup and definitely the dress. As usual, you look amazing. One of the best ways to keep your peace, is to keep your business to yourself. You share enough. Share only what makes you feel comfortable, nothing more. Thanks for sharing another enjoyable video. Take care.
I’m 41. Got married for the first time last year at 40. I also took a work break during my 1st year of marriage. I’ll be re-entering workforce soon. We are also planning to have a child (yes in my 40s). The point is that you are not behind…you have a great place in life and are at a great age. I also like creating content but not over sharing. You got this sis.
Sending you light and love as you embark on your motherhood journey. I’m in my “40’s” as well and hope to have a child as well.❤
Blessings to you ladies! You gave beautiful context and Syndie your person is coming. Do not rush yourself. Enjoy life! You’re in a great place. It’s all in God’s timing.
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Syndie only share what you’re comfortable sharing. Every time I overshare, I regret it.
I agree! I will continue to only share what I feel comfortable with. 🤍
I’m 32yrs old and I agree with starting over, it can be a bit challenging at times but the right person for you will come. Enjoy your singleness until then❤
I started over at 29, and I found the TRUE love of my life at 31, so glad you are taking a positive route. I love your content - all the way from South Africa 💜
Although break ups are tough, it’s inspiring to see a woman walk away.💎
You look so beautiful! The hair & makeup is definitely a summer vibe. I enjoyed this chit chat. Good luck on your new chapter🦋
I am a 54 years young woman and I know that you are doing the best thing for you. I started over last year in September. It has not been easy but it is totally worth it. Keep putting your love towards you.
I have enjoyed watching you and started a few months before you moved to Texas. I think you share enough and honestly wouldn’t suggest sharing more. I’ve watched many creators be scrutinized for the dumbest things, please know that you cant please everyone. It is very weird that people expect you to share your every move. Wishing you well on this new chapter!
Thank you for being a long time subscriber. I agree entirely! I’m very intentional with what I share and my boundaries. 🤍
30 is not old you’re going to be just fine life’s great girl love this video 💐
Maybe it's just me but I'm absolutely loving this new vibe! Yesss Syndie I'm rooting for you and you appear to be in a good space. Love it!
I just passed through to say that I notice and appreciate all of the time you take on your content and your editing!! It’s top tier! Stick with it and you’ll have loads of followers in no time!
You look stunning 🤩 you are killing this content creator thang!!! Love your progression 🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Hey hunny!! I love watching you and I definitely agree with loving solitude I love my solitude and I have really been enjoying going out by myself it makes me feel cared for and really happy ❤
The great thing about Texas is there are amazing surrounding cities. Dallas is nice. As someone who left Houston, I can't wait to come home later this year. I hope you enjoy this next chapter!
The opening.... time alone is beautiful.
The thing is people have to respect boundaries and space! You don’t have to share what you don’t want to share. Keep up the great content ❤
Well said! 🤌🏽
I admire your elevation and how genuine you are to yourself. Stay beautiful Syndie😌
YOUR GODDESS MOMENT HAS ARRIVED! That intro was giving PON THA REPLAY⏪⏮️⏯️💃🏽
YES! I've been letting my goddess/diva aura shine throw lately! 🥰
I was so excited to hear that you are Haitian! I'm also Haitian. Its awesome to see someone from the same culture living the kind of successful and positive life that our Caribbean parents dreamed of for us. Cheers!
You are so elegant in all that you do. I enjoy watching you videos, in fact, I have tried a couple of the restaurant you have recommended. Stay true to yourself. Your style I love. You are classy.
Always relaxing to watch. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
I loved the chill vibe of this video. Thank you for your transparency and the way you talk about challenging topics with such grace. 💛
I’ve been enjoying your content girly keep it coming! I also enjoy when you cook in your vlogs!
Oh Syndie you’re looking so beautiful 👑💕
And your hair!!! 💕
The way you set boundaries is very admirable. Look is amazing 🤎
Love Love this vlog I'm happy you're enjoying life and new beginnings.And just from watching you on RUclips you seem so genuine so anything you choose to do you will be very successful. Enjoy your solitude it's a beautiful thing. I'm looking forward to seeing you on your new journey in life and your new place 💌❤
Love your content sis! And don’t forget, you are the prize!!!❤
I hear you about better starting over now than 10 years later especially at 30
Yes I agree with you keeping things private! It’s not gate keeping … you share what you want period! I do the same. Love your channel 💕
Hey Lil Sis, good to see you. Loved the wig and always your personality and kindness.
I really enjoy your videos. Congratulations on setting new goals. You can do it! 👏🏾🙌🏾
Thank you so much!! 🫶🏽
wow this was cinematic - girl that hair looked amazing on you!
Good catching up, love how you always do you.
first of all - love this content and you look STUNNING!!!! the hair, makeup, outfit, etc
14:40 share only what you want to share. no such thing as gate keeping tbh.
we the new adults - cheers to your single era. God has great things in store for you
Downsizing sounds like a potential studio apartment and if so…I’m geeked! Lol I’m going to be living out my studio dreams soon before I really find my “forever home”. Either way, I’m excited for your new journey!
Everything happens for a reason sis❤❤
I was watching Peyton’s live the other day and seen you were on there, I was like yay my other fav RUclips Syn❤
K Syndie I see you.....I love the red dress and the new changes at the beginning. Your new hair and all is beautiful ❤. New beginning is great. You were given a new chance at life. Do you and be happy ❤❤
Thank you so much 🤗
Hey syndie I absolutely love the hair it looks amazing on you!!❤❤❤❤ also love the red polka dot dress I am getting a tan one that’s shorter because I am only 5’1 so I find it harder to actually find a maxi dress that doesn’t drag on me❤❤❤😅
I really appreciate you answer the questions. Enjoy yourself cherie
You are so welcome 🤍
The view at the end looks like TX wine country! Lovely makeup look and hair!
Hey Syndie, you such a gorgeous babe and I love it when am here ...love your fashion content so much and I was requesting whether you can do a week's office outfit to work...much love from Kenya❤
Hi Syndie! Thanks for the video. I didnt send any questions; however, I believe the questions asked by others echo my sentiments. I understand the desire not to share your goals until you achieve them for privacy reasons, or to limit the comments/judgments from others, or perhaps if you don't achieve the goal, but I feel as though content creators often forget that we (the viewers) enjoy seeing your progression. We want to be on the journey with you and your journey may inspire others in that moment. We want relatable content. The ups and the downs of life in the moment they happen. I've found that current content creators will randomly post videos about how they manifested a 6-figure salary (or something similar) and then we (your loyal subscribers) are confused. We are left wondering why the info wasn't shared with us sooner as loyal supporters. You (not you personally... just sharing the viewers' thoughts) create lifestyle content but you aren't sharing your lifestyle in the moment. We see the glamorized version later and even if you (again not you, personally) include the not-so-pleasant aspects it doesn't seem real because we didn't personally see/hear about the wins and losses at the moment. More importantly, I've found that YTers fall victim to recency bias so the re-telling of the story isn't the same as the true lived experience. Bring the real back, Syndie! The girls need you. Transparency is what the game has been missing (this YT game) and this is what the people want. I hope you grow to feel more comfortable sharing.
Thank you for sharing your sentiments.
I don’t mind sharing/documenting certain goals, I’m no longer feel comfortable going into depth with my financial goals. “Bring back the real Syndie” could you elaborate on that, because I’m still here but some things have changed.
@@BeautifullySyndie Hey! I appreciate that you were receptive to my comments. Allow me to clarify, my comment "bring back the real, Syndie." I realize now that it could be misconstrued. I added your name for emphasis only. I wasn't saying you aren't real. I guess my statement is similar to if someone said, "you are funny, Syndie." It is more like "Syndie, bring the real back." Like I need you to bring the real because the other YTers wont bring the real back. Hopefully that makes sense LOL. I appreciate that you asked for clarification rather than getting upset.
Influencers are people too. They share what they are comfortable sharing and don’t what they don’t want too. We have to understand as viewers that just because someone is an influencer, it doesn’t mean we are entitled to knowing all their business.
@@peaceandshine And it also means that influencers should know that the lack of transparency can impact their views. I am offering constructive feedback
Do not share your work information! Set those boundaries!!
You may consider sharing something related to the industry, perhaps interviewing someone in a similar space. There are tech RUclipsrs that focus on careers and maybe you can connect with them. Or something like “Black Women in Tech”.
Otherwise, people need to be more respectful.
Good for you, I'm starting over at 59.
I think you’re smart not to overshare work content. I’ve seen a few creators (on TikTok) lose their jobs bc their employers saw them post work content and weren’t ok with it. Don’t let anyone pressure you into sharing things you don’t want to.
Right! I’m not “gatekeeping” just being aware of what’s appropriate to share online. I saw! When I saw them sharing I was cringing because I knew they probably didn’t read their contracts carefully.
I think people wanting you to show them more of your work or you doing your work is a ..bit.. :/ Don’t feel pressure to share that, the innanets is crazy! Like there’s only so much sharing of our 9-5’s we can actually do without jeopardising our contracts. Don’t let nosey Nancy’s get you in trouble with compliance girl 😂
I really like your hair, makeup and definitely the dress. As usual, you look amazing. One of the best ways to keep your peace, is to keep your business to yourself. You share enough. Share only what makes you feel comfortable, nothing more. Thanks for sharing another enjoyable video. Take care.
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You are so beautiful love the look on you
Great views
Ou bel San plim je yo. 😍😍😍
Haha, merci.
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People really have nerve if they had a job and a life of their own they would be able to enjoy your videos and walk through their own life
The way they’re thirsty to know people’s personal business is very concerning.
🤭 Promo SM