Your video came just in the nick of time, I will be consulting with the advocate of the family court for my ex and I to have a family plan because we never agree on visitation and the maintenance issue regarding our child. this was so useful and empowering. it was like God sent you to me.
"best interest of the child" is rubbish. I've been to court, they don't care about the child. First preference is the mother. Then as a father you have to prove the best interest of the child.
Good afternoon Mam. What can I do when the father violates visitation? Child misses school because she doesn’t return on Sundays and this was stated in court that the child must be returned on Sundays before 6pm.
Hi mama i was absent for about 4 years without supportin my child due to unemployed and i have not seen my kid since then, now that im workin i stepped in and its been 4months but the mother said i should support the whole year before i get access to the child. What do i do in situation like this??
4 years is a long time even if you are not working how do you think the mother was taking care of the child i think its a good thing for you to not see your child
In a case when one breaks the co parenting and leaves the child in another province and coming to the province shes currently working in. Whats going to happen
She left the province to the next without communicating with anyone after doing parental plan and denied access to the child I continue to pay money. Tomorrow I'm going to start another process parenting plan in her village but when I come back I will open a case against her here in Gauteng where she ran. One mistake I'm throwing her in jail because I know she will run again.
Good day advocate, bumped into your channel, and how refreshing. I am a grandfather of a beautiful 7months old son. We are paternal grandparents, where our son is working abroad. Him and biological mother is not married, and they split up now 3 months ago. Their relationship soured because of biological mother didn't want to bring baby to our house initially, but on 3 occasions. He's come home last month to meet his son. Adversity stepped in, and he decided to start proceedings for parenting plan for us. He was here only for 3 weeks. Proceedings have taken a turn where mediation didn't work, and we were in children's court today...the biological mother with her attorney, and my wife and I unrepresented. Biological mom don't want to agree to social worker's proposal. And we just want our grandson also at our house. Does her getting a lawyer messaging us that she dont want us in our little lad's life?
Advocate,my son's father resign from work.wht happen if he gets parkeages(money )from the correctional services.since last year he was not paying anything for him now him money is out, what do I do as a mother
This works best when dealing with reasonable woman. Imagine dealing with someone to whom you accidentally break up & still fighting😅😅😅 best of the child is achieved through reasonable parent.
The system is to destroy father's, there are good father's out there. What is the best interest in the child. Not to have a father in there life. I mean the law wants to determine how the father must spend there time with there children..I'm fighting this as well because of visiting rights. Not only the mother has got rights the father has got equal rights as well
Hello mama.Thanks i came across your video. Mama u spoke of a lot of things that were supposed to happen in my situation but are not. We are in a process of divorce and its been 3yrs now. I am not working and she is working oversees. She goes away for about four months. We have two kids. The court allowed me kids every week to go pick them up. Every Friday i send her a watsapp that im coming to pick up the kids. Now she blocked me. We no longer communicate. But the other time her mother who is not staying with my kids as she is away,was coming back. She sends me a message saying i shouldn't pick up the kids they are going to fit the school uniform and it was in June. I refused coz she didn't ask me on time n she tells me on Friday n i had plans with them. She then blocked me. From then my kids every Friday they come on their own n sometimes they run away from her mother's house. Last week Friday as she's back from oversees, i did watsapp her that im coming to pick up the kids n she didn't respond. When i got there i saw her with her brother then she rushed to her brothers car. Then she sends our elder son to come tell me not to pick them. I still refused coz she didn't ask me or communicate. Then her brother came on to me n assaulted me while she is watching infront of our kids. After he assaulted me they then left with the kids. She removed our little one f r om the creche i knw mainly bcoz i was attending mertings for the child. Every weekend kids complain about everything as they are now left with the uncle who is not taking care of them accordingly. Kids are everyday dirty n they dont bath properly when they go to school. I am currently not working but hoping to get employment soon. IF THERE'S ANY HOW U COULD HELP OR ADVICE PLEASE DO.
Thank you you've touched on important aspect of the the parental plan
Well said advocate I have a querry regarding my child
You are doing a great job advocate! So proud of you ❤🇺🇸
Thank you so much 💓
Thank you Advocate Puleng much appriciated
I needed this video.. love it ! Thank you advocate! I’ll reach out to my lawyers. I was hoping it wouldn’t go there but oh well, it’s life
Thanks a million for watching. All the best.
Woooooow very clear and sound 🙏 I've learnt so much thank you
I also wish to know which section of the law that deals with people in contempt of the law🙏
Glad it was helpful!
The father is always guilty in court, as if the children don't need their fathers. Courts are useless.
You need a lot of wisdom as a man
Your video came just in the nick of time, I will be consulting with the advocate of the family court for my ex and I to have a family plan because we never agree on visitation and the maintenance issue regarding our child. this was so useful and empowering. it was like God sent you to me.
I am glad you found it helpful.
All the best.
Thank you Mama. ..Yah ne this is double shit for us Men
Thank you so much for this. Your video has helped me 🙏
Only a pleasure.
"best interest of the child" is rubbish. I've been to court, they don't care about the child. First preference is the mother. Then as a father you have to prove the best interest of the child.
Good afternoon Mam.
What can I do when the father violates visitation? Child misses school because she doesn’t return on Sundays and this was stated in court that the child must be returned on Sundays before 6pm.
Yoh! Nna I need help because my husband is not supporting our kids
Check my video on when he refuses to pay maintenance.
@@advocatepulengok thanks Ma
Most of the times its man who struggle to see their children. Im going through this
Thanks for watching Bongani. Sad.
Hi mama i was absent for about 4 years without supportin my child due to unemployed and i have not seen my kid since then, now that im workin i stepped in and its been 4months but the mother said i should support the whole year before i get access to the child. What do i do in situation like this??
4 years is a long time even if you are not working how do you think the mother was taking care of the child
i think its a good thing for you to not see your child
In case where a father is not paying maintenance agreed apon what should i do as mother
Go back to court to ask for garnishee order.
In a case when one breaks the co parenting and leaves the child in another province and coming to the province shes currently working in. Whats going to happen
She left the province to the next without communicating with anyone after doing parental plan and denied access to the child I continue to pay money. Tomorrow I'm going to start another process parenting plan in her village but when I come back I will open a case against her here in Gauteng where she ran. One mistake I'm throwing her in jail because I know she will run again.
Good day advocate, bumped into your channel, and how refreshing.
I am a grandfather of a beautiful 7months old son. We are paternal grandparents, where our son is working abroad. Him and biological mother is not married, and they split up now 3 months ago.
Their relationship soured because of biological mother didn't want to bring baby to our house initially, but on 3 occasions.
He's come home last month to meet his son. Adversity stepped in, and he decided to start proceedings for parenting plan for us. He was here only for 3 weeks.
Proceedings have taken a turn where mediation didn't work, and we were in children's court today...the biological mother with her attorney, and my wife and I unrepresented.
Biological mom don't want to agree to social worker's proposal.
And we just want our grandson also at our house.
Does her getting a lawyer messaging us that she dont want us in our little lad's life?
Advocate,my son's father resign from work.wht happen if he gets parkeages(money )from the correctional services.since last year he was not paying anything for him now him money is out, what do I do as a mother
Check my other video on maintenance for your options.
I love you mummy 😢
Thank you so much 💓
@@advocatepuleng can I ask in detail about my situation specifically?
Hello if I need to contact you how do I do that I need some help
You contact me through an attorney.
Shes making it difficult for me to see my daughter 💔
This works best when dealing with reasonable woman. Imagine dealing with someone to whom you accidentally break up & still fighting😅😅😅 best of the child is achieved through reasonable parent.
I wish parents could put their feelings about each other aside for the sake of their children.
Hi Advocate, how can I reach you please?
Greetings.
You contact an Advocate through an attorney of your choice.
Imagine I have to fight just to see and be visited by my children.. it's soul breaking 😭😭😭😭
Sad, sorry about that.
As a father i chose to approach the children's court recently because i have lost 2 years of my children's lives because of their selfish mother
Sorry.
What are the rights of the Grandparentd to the grandchildten?.
Courts deserve contempt, because God doesn't respect your courts.
Hi advocate. How can I access your services please
Hi Lerato. My email address is pulengmatshelo@gmail.com
The system is to destroy father's, there are good father's out there. What is the best interest in the child. Not to have a father in there life. I mean the law wants to determine how the father must spend there time with there children..I'm fighting this as well because of visiting rights. Not only the mother has got rights the father has got equal rights as well
Hello mama.Thanks i came across your video. Mama u spoke of a lot of things that were supposed to happen in my situation but are not. We are in a process of divorce and its been 3yrs now. I am not working and she is working oversees. She goes away for about four months. We have two kids. The court allowed me kids every week to go pick them up. Every Friday i send her a watsapp that im coming to pick up the kids. Now she blocked me. We no longer communicate. But the other time her mother who is not staying with my kids as she is away,was coming back. She sends me a message saying i shouldn't pick up the kids they are going to fit the school uniform and it was in June. I refused coz she didn't ask me on time n she tells me on Friday n i had plans with them. She then blocked me. From then my kids every Friday they come on their own n sometimes they run away from her mother's house. Last week Friday as she's back from oversees, i did watsapp her that im coming to pick up the kids n she didn't respond. When i got there i saw her with her brother then she rushed to her brothers car. Then she sends our elder son to come tell me not to pick them. I still refused coz she didn't ask me or communicate. Then her brother came on to me n assaulted me while she is watching infront of our kids. After he assaulted me they then left with the kids. She removed our little one f r om the creche i knw mainly bcoz i was attending mertings for the child. Every weekend kids complain about everything as they are now left with the uncle who is not taking care of them accordingly. Kids are everyday dirty n they dont bath properly when they go to school. I am currently not working but hoping to get employment soon. IF THERE'S ANY HOW U COULD HELP OR ADVICE PLEASE DO.
Please contact Legal Aid South Africa. They will help with free legal services if you qualify based on their means test.
All the best.
Same thing with me...
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My wife left..with my son...keeps my son away.. allienate my son
Seek a lawyer.
Well said advocate I have a querry regarding my child