you’re not boring, you’re just socially awkward

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 26

  • @kaitlyng7850
    @kaitlyng7850 4 месяца назад +40

    Literally me. I hid in my car and ate lunch alone for the months before Covid because I was so scared to be seen alone. I’d walk with my head down and never make eye contact with ppl bc of my acne scars and how insecure I was about them. Now, 5 years later, still insecure af but at least I make eye contact 🫠🫠🫠

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  4 месяца назад +11

      i know the feeling 🥹 trust me the inecurities loosen up with time, they start to loosen their gip once you're aware of them and take small steps, you got this 💘

  • @RoomWithJohnny
    @RoomWithJohnny 4 месяца назад +46

    The way I instantly clicked on this 🤌🏽

    • @ChristinaAaliyah
      @ChristinaAaliyah  4 месяца назад +5

      omg

    • @JordanS-ww4eu
      @JordanS-ww4eu 3 месяца назад

      @@ChristinaAaliyahyou remind me of an African American girl version of me

  • @GamerBoy.1761
    @GamerBoy.1761 4 месяца назад +16

    Dude ngl, in middle school I was very quiet and rarely talked in any classroom or lunch (bc of thinking not everyone is into what I talked about Sonic too much lol) and I also never really got out much outside of school to hangout with any classmates (I only went to three birthday parties of classmates so far). But I am doing my best to be more productive when socializing like: being more IN the conversation, reading the room, contribute to the conversation in any way, shape or form; and be more persistent with being the one to make the first move (instead of waiting for someone to start it). Like during High School, I been getting a little better socially but just need to get more socially active. And I already know who I am as a teenager and I was comfortable with myself, but need to show everyone my personality FULLY and my interests and hobbies they don’t know about!

  • @whateverflicks5822
    @whateverflicks5822 4 месяца назад +13

    You’re fire help me so much. You explain how I’ve been feeling for years so perfectly. I’m 19 and I guess I’ve been hiding my true self because when I show it to people they think I’m extremely weird and it makes me feel bad even tho I like myself and my personality. I’m getting out of the habit of not being true to myself no matter what it’s just hard when everyone is judging me

  • @weweweweee6
    @weweweweee6 4 месяца назад +4

    You’re a life saver❤️ the thing is people keeping on giving me comments like “I see you’re setting alone all of the time” I get comments like that all the time, in uni from my instructor and in gym from the coach
    I hate that people noticing me being socially awkward so I’ve been working on it for a while and I’m taking it easy
    Thanks again

  • @aiko1494
    @aiko1494 4 месяца назад +11

    i needed this

  • @elanortephundo2403
    @elanortephundo2403 Месяц назад

    Could you do a video on how to overcome the pressure of having to have already dated someone by 18 etc?

  • @muffinmikaela
    @muffinmikaela 3 месяца назад +1

    Omg thank you for your videos Christina! ❤ I watched this after seeing your ✨️ quiet confidence ✨️ video and I can totally relate to how you describe how you used to be and it's so refreshing to get actually applicable advice from someone who truly understands

  • @phoebem.2586
    @phoebem.2586 3 месяца назад

    Your vids make me feel so seen its actually crazyyyyy sending u sm love

  • @sofinkapoopyy1230
    @sofinkapoopyy1230 Месяц назад

    love your videos so so so much, you have a great energy and teaching skills ❤

  • @jalpirverdiyeva9696
    @jalpirverdiyeva9696 4 месяца назад +2

    That was so helpful. Thank youu

  • @userfum
    @userfum 4 месяца назад +1

    This is probably my favorite video of yours. (that I've watched)

  • @anyasour
    @anyasour 4 месяца назад +7

    Ur so pretty

  • @GoldenCooking77
    @GoldenCooking77 4 месяца назад +3

    I stutter or don't know what to say or how to convey it

  • @Aly-p5k
    @Aly-p5k 4 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful video ❤ i need it

  • @EmiTheGreat
    @EmiTheGreat 4 месяца назад +6

    Oh shoot i didnt know that this was a recent video until now 😔

  • @marielleadolfo7663
    @marielleadolfo7663 4 месяца назад +3

    Omg I just discovered your channel AND YOU HAVE NO IDEA how I’m so thankful to you for making these videos!! They really speak to me so much and help me have a better perspective on things I’ve been struggling with 🥹

    • @norahjanie
      @norahjanie 4 месяца назад +1

      I know!!! She’s really underrated!!! All of these videos she makes like directly target me and my struggles!!!