How To Stop Getting Played By Men

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  • @Markrosenfeld
    @Markrosenfeld  5 лет назад +28

    Who's here now still watching this video on How To Stop Getting Played By Men?? If so, hit 'reply' to let me know your thoughts on the video! You can also DM me on insta @makehimyours and come behind the scenes on filming! And don't forget your FREE download via www.makehimyours.com.au/personalities

    • @pamelatlynch
      @pamelatlynch 5 лет назад +1

      Hi Mark, I just recently found this video. I really like it, but I have a few questions. Is there a way I can read a man's body language from the first encounter at the bar or even the grocery store, that would give away that he is a player? Is there a way to tell from what he is saying in the first meeting, that he is a player? When you were stripping, what were some of the first clues that gave it away that the guy was playing the girl? What was he saying, if you could hear the conversation, that gave it away that he is a player? I ask this because if the couple is on the 2nd or 3rd date and he is doing all the thing you described a player would do down the road, there had to be signs in that initial meeting that he is a player.
      I believe that if a man is trying that hard to get a woman to go out with him that he is either overcompensating or he is playing. Another way I believe I have learned that a man is just playing, is if he tells a sob story and then immediately asks the girl out on a date. Yeah, she will go for the lost puppy syndrome if she has a heart, but how much is it just a line? A video that I think would go along great with these "player" videos is "Ways to not be a sucker in life". If a woman or a man is being played by someone of the opposite sex, who is to say that they are not being played in their everyday lives?

    • @dantekaiser7097
      @dantekaiser7097 3 года назад

      you probably dont give a shit but does anybody know of a tool to get back into an Instagram account??
      I somehow forgot my password. I appreciate any tips you can give me

    • @Sabrina-vw5dg
      @Sabrina-vw5dg 3 года назад

      Thank you so Much.
      You are an Angel 😇🙏🏾😌

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  3 года назад

      @@Sabrina-vw5dg 🙏🙏🙏

  • @branndymessier5081
    @branndymessier5081 7 лет назад +159

    1. Reinforce your life foundation.
    2. Take responsibility for any patterns.
    3. Meet more men and different types of men.
    4. Never ever assume exclusivity.
    5. Value your exclusivity.

  • @breklein3338
    @breklein3338 6 лет назад +258

    lol the best way to not get played is to sit back and do nothing. I've found it drives guys crazy and like you said--it helps filter out who is putting in effort and who isn't! However, make sure the ones that continue to put effort in are also not just doing it for the chase rather than them actually liking you....Dating is annoying and tricky. Cats are better.

    • @lavieenrose7925
      @lavieenrose7925 5 лет назад +9

      It works for both men and women. "The best way to get their attention is to remove yours."/"Nothing is so deafening as silence." When you act like a normal, healthy individual who is busy living their purpose and productive with life it causes people who are insecure and needy to lose their shit lol

    • @nazleenu
      @nazleenu 5 лет назад +12

      Cats are definitely better. All set to be the cat lady.

    • @lavieenrose7925
      @lavieenrose7925 5 лет назад +4

      (@@nazleenu) You've just never been with a real man. They're out there, go get 'em tiger

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 5 лет назад +3

      Dogs are better.

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 5 лет назад +2

      @@lavieenrose7925 No, they are not. Or they are older/taken.

  • @ahoyair
    @ahoyair 3 года назад +21

    1. Reinforce solid foundation
    2. Take responsibility of got played pattern
    3. Meet lots of men / different types of men
    4. Never assume exclusivity (he is seeing others)
    5. Value your exclusivity (keep seeing other men)
    6. Stop chasing
    7. Look what men do
    8. Wait and see (players drop off)
    9. Willing to walk
    10. Trust your instincts! (Eg. He is dodgy with his phone; disappear etc = playing you)

  • @RubiscoTalks
    @RubiscoTalks 4 года назад +6

    Feeling pathetic to be played by a guy I met only once, he met me for second time at his own terms, but refuse n called me clingy when I wanted to meet him...I’m not in love with him...but it sucks being played..I don’t even feel like confronting...too!

  • @oliviamacpherson6884
    @oliviamacpherson6884 7 лет назад +97

    why is it always the ones you don't like that chase you

    • @lavieenrose7925
      @lavieenrose7925 5 лет назад +1

      There can be a ton of reasons why this happens. It's not a single thing that explains this, it's circumstantial

    • @allaboardthegravytrain5987
      @allaboardthegravytrain5987 3 года назад +1

      You don’t like them for that reason

    • @Blurr_00
      @Blurr_00 3 года назад +3

      and they always think you’re playing hard to get too like no i just don’t want you

  • @domt4588
    @domt4588 5 лет назад +19

    You always give me hope that Mr. Right is out there! I’ve dated a lot of men who play so many games. I have definitely gotten smarter and walk away from those men that aren’t good for me! Thank you!!!

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  5 лет назад +1

      Nice Dom T- glad you're empowering yourself and feeling happy where you're at

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 2 года назад

      So three years later.....did you ever find Mr. Right?

  • @gerr2035
    @gerr2035 7 лет назад +93

    I think I need to put this video on auto replay and let it sink into my brain until I can repeat it like Mark does! :):)

  • @rosabecker2823
    @rosabecker2823 5 лет назад +40

    Basically don't get attached until he commits!

    • @Bogna1
      @Bogna1 3 года назад

      Amen to that.

    • @sOofiiexD
      @sOofiiexD 7 месяцев назад +1

      Thats almost impossible if you’re already having sex with him 😭 basically don’t have sex w him unless u know he is serious about you

  • @bellerb493
    @bellerb493 7 лет назад +32

    "... wait and see. Qualify men over time!" - agreed & noted! Thank you Mark.. i'll keep this words.. ❤

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +2

      Yus! This!

    • @gerr2035
      @gerr2035 7 лет назад

      But over how much time? I look back & wasted time/months with guys who did everything right/no red flags & then decided they "need to date more". No woman wants to be a band aid in a string of relationships a guy may have while he's trying to figure out what he wants in life. Too many women, myself included, have been in this situation.

  • @avgonyma1
    @avgonyma1 5 лет назад +15

    I love how you're rooting for women!! It's joy to watch. Thanks!

  • @TaraSaAustralia
    @TaraSaAustralia 5 лет назад +5

    Saved myself from heartbreak while watching your videos. I got answers to my questions, gut feelings and understanding about male behavior. I know somethings off, now I wont be surprised of what might happen to us in the couple of weeks or i dont know. Thanks big time.

  • @gerr2035
    @gerr2035 7 лет назад +56

    Omg, this was AMAZING, Mark!! I need to listen to this every day. I recognized some things that I was guilty of: Assuming exclusivity, be willing to walk at any time-not just in the beginning, watch what he does, not what he says,,,,Qualify over time!!.....Ugh, too many! This should be renamed, "The 10 Commandments of Dating". I took notes and will hang this up and read it every day. You are right, I think most women don't trust their gut or I should say listen to their gut feelings. Thank you, Mark. This video was spot on!!

    • @MsBrock819
      @MsBrock819 7 лет назад +1

      Ger R you're not alone! And that would be a great title for the video. Added to my favourites cuz I have done some of these things too.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +2

      Ahhh I love this comment Ger - thankyou!!

  • @reverendmary-catherineryan2552
    @reverendmary-catherineryan2552 7 лет назад +6

    Where was this video when I was getting played big time? I saw the signs, but chose to ignore, and I also chose to ignore it when my friends were telling that I was getting played. Well, it all came to a head, and I kicked him to the curb, and when I did that, he acted immature and started saying untruths about me. I learned my lesson, and I say better late than never, but I'm going to watch this video until I have everything that you listed memorized.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад

      Glad you learned your lesson Mary. Better late than never to learn these things :)

  • @BokYza88
    @BokYza88 4 года назад +2

    Need to save this and listen again and again to sink in my mind

  • @blancarosasmusica
    @blancarosasmusica 5 лет назад +1

    this is so true.. don't assume his exclusivity... yes he has to tell you he wants to be exclusive to you..

  • @jenniferhanson6467
    @jenniferhanson6467 7 лет назад +4

    Wow. True. If I get the best foundation in my life (health, money, home life, social, mental etc..) then I won't be so reliant on this guy.
    I need to take responsibility and change my part in it. Meet a variety of people and get out there, it'll 'dilute' the player and it'll be a great break for me to finally date really good men with talent, great traits and types. This guy has NEVER said exclusive or interests in me. I need to get my head around that and still accept advances from really nice men and tell them who I am not waiting for this 'one special person' I fall in love with just because I had no contact with others before and got reliant.
    Efforts, yes, a man who makes me feel better and make efforts.. I am too eager, I need to chill and see over time. He needs to accept me as I am and be good enough for me to leave behind a great single life I will build up.. And I always need to be willing to leave, not make a crap thing work.. Prayers, intuition, bravery.. Amen!

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад

      That's a fantastic comment Jennifer - I love it. Go you!!

  • @luxy974
    @luxy974 6 лет назад +6

    Everything you said is so empowering. Mark. Thank you!! A lot of us ladies need to hear this because we’re interested and capable of changing our situations. Thanks for all the effort you put into your work!

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 лет назад

      Arw thank you - really glad you liked the video and got something out of it. Such a lovely comment!

  • @nicoler256
    @nicoler256 6 лет назад +1

    Oh I so needed this video today! I was playing by these rules and I Let one guy distract me and decided to do it different and be exclusive too soon and BAM I got stood up and ghosted. NEVER AGAIN! I am glad this showed up in recommended.

  • @msdnicety1
    @msdnicety1 6 лет назад +7

    Thank you for the reminders. I haven't been played but these are some good points to consider. I love that I have always kept my willingness to walk & I always trust my instincts

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 лет назад

      Thanks msdnicety1 - glad you are enjoying it and got something out of it. xx

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 лет назад

      Thanks for watching msdnicety1 - glad you got something out of it. xx

  • @romonasalas122
    @romonasalas122 7 лет назад +9

    I thank my stars that I'm not in that situation now, there's alot to think about and learn from it. Thanks Mark.

  • @racheldennis5667
    @racheldennis5667 3 года назад +2

    This video right here is gold! Seriously awesome advice here, thank you. Back in the dating game after 15 years being out of it.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  3 года назад

      Such a beautiful comment, Rachel. Thank you! Enjoy and all the best to you! x

  • @ShelleyG1014
    @ShelleyG1014 7 лет назад +46

    Did you say " from your years in the stripping industry"? I can't concentrate now.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +4

      😂😂😂😂

    • @suescape
      @suescape 2 года назад +1

      @@Markrosenfeld I used to work as a stripper - so many years ago - great way to 'work out' so glad I got out of it!!

  • @cindym5896
    @cindym5896 5 лет назад +4

    Funny enuf.. i do end up comin back to marks vids. Dating is exhausting. Singlehood is so much easier most o t time. Thnku so much 4 ur great advice!

  • @claytonolsoncoaching
    @claytonolsoncoaching 7 лет назад +65

    Oh Mark, you're awesome. I knew if you mentioned you were a stripper the comments we're just going to blow up. Hahaha great content, great message, you're the man.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +4

      Thanks Bro - that means an enormous amount coming from you x

  •  7 лет назад +9

    Precious tips! Awesome job, Mark, as always!!

  • @simi6152
    @simi6152 5 лет назад +2

    I've been doing this and it really works! I've worked too hard to get played!

  • @mariamacias9578
    @mariamacias9578 7 лет назад +3

    Instincs/feelings VS overanalyzing/over exaggeration that is the inner battle.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +1

      I have a video coming out on this in time Maria! In the meantime, here's a live where we address this - ruclips.net/video/f8UWMOPtgPg/видео.html

    • @mariamacias9578
      @mariamacias9578 7 лет назад

      That was exactly what I was talking about and it had great examples to show how the two can be identified. Thanks Mark!

  • @kittknight9799
    @kittknight9799 7 лет назад +5

    Impeccable timing again Mark🤗

  • @colourkat4482
    @colourkat4482 6 лет назад +2

    Yes Mark! These videos are so empowering!

  • @dianeat_the_beach3741
    @dianeat_the_beach3741 4 года назад +1

    Damn Mark, you are like the Yoda of the dating world!!! This one is a gem, saved it and will watch it a few more times;)

  • @meteormadie3157
    @meteormadie3157 7 лет назад +49

    Your videos empower us women

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +7

      Thanks Meteor - that means a lot to me :)

  • @LuminousLife1
    @LuminousLife1 7 лет назад +44

    So many good tips!! Willingness to walk and trusting your instincts are such big ones!! My last ex.. my instincts were telling something was wrong at the very beginning, he was doing or saying nothing wrong at that point, but my instincts were so unsure of him. My instincts were proven right eventually and I walked. Such good content!! Thanks Mark

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +2

      Yeh nice Luminous. So important to trust them hey. It's amazing how often they're spot on!

    • @nikki1492
      @nikki1492 7 лет назад +2

      ohhhh my word, as mark says invest a man that invests in you!! well this guys seems he is using you, from the conversation you written, also he doesnt know what he wants, if a guy says to his guy friend that he doesnt have a girlfriend believe him. this guy is soo confusing to me, one day he will text the next he wont , but never phones you thats beyound wierd. he sends you a message when he likes then your not so valueable to him as you think you are to him. you know what hurts the most if a guy says to you, your not his girlfriend we were never more then friends, then finding out that he says that to a friend of his. this guy wants sex, then just stay away you will land up very hurt, no one should never force a woman to do sex if she isnt ready.
      he doesnt sound interested in you , he is not serious thats what i mean. self respect as mark says dear, if this guy carres for you he will make the effort to call you and text you often not disappear, thats not a normal behaviour, how many times will he say sorry to you, sorry is just a word, and when something constantly becomes repeative it starts to annoy me, then i know you should keep your distance a bit from him lets seee if there is a change. i wouldnt be surprised since you said you fload him with calls and messages and doesnt answer you, thats not a good sign after all , maybe he tried blocking you not ignoring you if you floaded with messages and calls.

    • @LuminousLife1
      @LuminousLife1 7 лет назад +2

      Hi rooksar s I hope you don't mind some advice from me... he seems emotionally unavailable for a start and focused on his sports. Also listen to his words he wants sex... believe him hun. He is more than likely too busy with his sports for an intense relationship. He is not investing in you either by ignoring you... don't invest in him go out be the happy confident woman that you are and attracted him to you in the first place! If he returns with his tail in between his legs... be civil but communicate ask him if he wants more than sex... see what he says. Also what is happening is not due to the sexual intimacy on the first date. I have a high sex drive and own it... I've had different sexual encounters on first dates, second dates or just whenever the mood turns that way and I'm really feeling the physical connection with a guy. Afterwards... I continue to act the way I behaved before the intimate encounter... which is living my life... a healthy balance of who contacts who first... etc. The guy too continues to act the same... unless we are not feeling the physical or non physical connection anymore. My point being it is not because of the intimacy it maybe because of an insecurity... oh I did this he won't want me now... I need to show him I'm not that type of woman and then bombard him with texts in an effort to win him back. I hope you see what it's I'm trying to say. Go out live your life... have fun with friends meet new people... but do it for YOU and not so he texts you. Just my two cents.

    • @nikki1492
      @nikki1492 7 лет назад +2

      luminous life i like all your points

    • @LuminousLife1
      @LuminousLife1 7 лет назад +1

      rooksar s and as for point 6 in your message... don't arrange to meet him and tell him you will find a place to relax and have sex... if your plans are not to have sex. This could potentially put you in a situation you're not ready for and or don't want to be in. For sure if you're determined to meet this guy and clear the air go to a public place communicate that you want more than sex... also don't just have sex to keep him in your life as this could potentially lead to more heartbreak for you as he has already said he doesn't want a girlfriend and he is focused on his sports. Believe what he has said and how he is acting. Stay safe!

  • @KatalovesLinkinPark
    @KatalovesLinkinPark 6 лет назад

    this is great! Because of dating advice on YT, when I learned he was playing me, I was able to walk away pretty easily, even when it hurt.
    But my fault was, as you said, being exclusive to him after a month and thinking he would be exclusive to me, too.
    Also his actions were ambiguous. I think he cared for me as a good friend and liked to be romantic with me, but as he told me later, had no ambitions for a comitted relationship. I just didn't think someone this romantic and caring would be like that

  • @rodalynpineda554
    @rodalynpineda554 7 лет назад +1

    So many tips and its so helpful for us Mark...

  • @melanialeal6791
    @melanialeal6791 Год назад

    Hi Mark I’m Melânia from Brazil Im just passing by to thank you for your high value advice cause Ive been a lot of times um a pósition to get played not only by men but by my own emotions towards an ideal relationship

  • @truthbknwn
    @truthbknwn 4 года назад +4

    Oh, I've had Players who showered me with affection, but its only until they get you. That's when they decide if you'll be their Friday, Saturday or Sunday girl.

  • @Bakerygo
    @Bakerygo 6 лет назад +3

    Once uppon a time I had a string of bad guys so I said to myself "the next guy that comes my way will have to pass a shitload of tests and prove everything he says". Well, this method worked pretty well in end, even if it took me 3 months. Of course I never told him that I was checking points in my head but 11 years later I don't think he will mind.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 лет назад

      I hope it turns out well. Thanks so much for watching Bakerygo xx

    • @mcal4387
      @mcal4387 2 года назад

      Are u married is the new question? I hope so after 11 years!

  • @nana.naghmana9
    @nana.naghmana9 7 лет назад +8

    You are so right as always.
    I don't have any problems but I really keep learning n tell others too about you as how nice n good illustrator you are.
    Take care n Thanks. :-)

  • @monicalevyt
    @monicalevyt 7 лет назад +5

    You have some beautiful backgrounds there!!! And birds!!

  • @annausf3887
    @annausf3887 7 лет назад +2

    Hi Mark and Mark's Viewers, I am so glad I discovered your channel last month. I wish I had discovered it last year, but I am grateful I have the advice now. My question is, how do I regain my confidence when entering the dating game again? I am 31 years old (so no, not in my 20's anymore) and work as a registered nurse (co. has a social media policy or I'd put an actual picture of myself here haha). I've done, and think I am done with the online dating scene, which kind of worked, for a bit, then discovered I am not a good "dater." This is not meant as a pity party (cue the violin), but my failure to date has really dropped my self esteem. Again, I do enjoy my career, have a supportive group of friends, and take pride in my appearance as I am a long distance runner, however; I am so nervous about losing my sense of self as I enter the 'dating game' once more. Any advice? Thank you and thanks for reading this paragraph. (Also, I have a date with an interesting guy I have been texting/talking to for a few coming up very soon, and even though I know I will hold my head up high I feel so defeated by being ghosted or pushed aside by guys, I won't call them men, in the past, I think I will, initially, just treat him as a friend.) Cheers, Anna

  • @nataliefrances6319
    @nataliefrances6319 6 лет назад

    Yeeeeesssssssss!!! Another video bang on. Especially number 9 & 10. Boom. No woman will ever get better advice about men than from a man.

  • @deessmohdzain902
    @deessmohdzain902 6 лет назад +3

    The very best of your making. Yes i watch it again and again

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 лет назад

      Thanks Diah - really glad you liked it :)

  • @teenaapperson5880
    @teenaapperson5880 6 лет назад +1

    Wish I'd seen this last week..got played again! Thanks for this :)

  • @audreyboissonneault6475
    @audreyboissonneault6475 5 лет назад +1

    You are very good Mark! I like your videos! You have a genuine experience and clever advice.

  • @sofiaramirezlandaeta9231
    @sofiaramirezlandaeta9231 7 лет назад +11

    I feel like your recent uploads have been dedicated to me hahah and I feel so related to this specific problem... anyways, thank you so much once again!!

  • @audreyboissonneault6475
    @audreyboissonneault6475 5 лет назад

    wow, I am impressed at all the foundations you go tru with your client to fully understand him-her! Tunning in from Quebec, Canada.

  • @bellerb493
    @bellerb493 7 лет назад +8

    Woww!! I end up watching this video over and over.. sooooo much great value of mindset you drop in here Mark.. i couldn't thank you eanough for this! Much Love.. 🤗🤗

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +2

      Thanks Belle. Super glad you enjoyed it and learned a lot

  • @marinellezjuan
    @marinellezjuan 7 лет назад +3

    It's great that you finally mentioned that Mark! ;) I've been reading your posts in thought catalog since time immemorial. Your bio amazes me since then. I always drop by.

  • @xfaroutzx3637
    @xfaroutzx3637 5 лет назад +1

    I've never been played by a guy until now. I'm pretty clued on and tend to analyse guys to suss them out.
    I knew something was off but I wanted to believe he was legit. His lack of communication bothered me and I communicated this twice. I was ready to walk the second time but he made all these claims that he wanted a future with me, that he wanted to be with me more than anything etc. I bought into it because he had so many qualities and traits I wanted in a partner and was physically my type. He spoke about future plans, introduced me to his friends by inviting me to a birthday bbq, spoke about soul mates and that he believed we had a special connection, joked about us getting married in front of his friends and generally acted like we were a couple. After our first sexual encounter, his communication became less, one line message late at night, no phone calls and 6 days later I was blocked (at this point i had only been responding with one line messages back) No explanation, no goodbye. Nothing. This to me is borderline sociopathic behaviour.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  5 лет назад

      Ohh that sucks Carla - I can see how that would be frustrating. Thanks for sharing x

  • @JJ-xm2km
    @JJ-xm2km 6 лет назад

    You are the best coach ever..,,, 100s of comments and yet you reply.... thank for that .... I’m recovering from a break up over someone I met online .... who was very manipulative 😭😭....

  • @easygoing6397
    @easygoing6397 7 лет назад +2

    EXCELLENT Mark!! Thank you. At first - before I took some minutes to watch this video - I thought I didn't need to watch it, . . but wooo! (very) valuable information that I need overall. I'm 67 (trying to date in Los Angeles, CA), but I am of the type/circles/group that doesn't think 'oldish'. But I am thinking that perhaps this information and caveats apply to (all)? To some more (or less) than others, but still very valuable profound information in this video. I like it a lot. Thank you.

  • @Diamondbeach
    @Diamondbeach 4 года назад +1

    This is so good. Thanks for all the tips. It’s good to be reminded.

  • @pamjansenvanvuuren8280
    @pamjansenvanvuuren8280 6 лет назад +1

    Watch the video again. And again. Thanks Mark. Doing just that. Xx

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 лет назад

      My pleasure Pam - really glad you enjoyed and keep getting use out of it.

  • @The_Codependency_Cure_PsyM
    @The_Codependency_Cure_PsyM 7 лет назад +1

    Remember my ghost? I'm going to give him the same efforts that he is putting into chasing me. Not that I went overboard, I just did a little more than him but now I'm adjusting. I am realizing that I don't like interacting with people on a personal level because it's a waste of time most of the times. I know it sounds a little weird but I need to hold on to my life experiences and not always start ''tabula rasa''. p.s. you are very intelligent and you got a lot of emotional intelligence for a man, never underestimate somebody based on the book cover i.e. stripper but I must say that I think most strippers are not like you and to be perfectly honest with you, I do not like the sex industry for many good reasons and one of them is that the people must take drugs in order to cope with the work conditions.

  • @paradoxxxon
    @paradoxxxon 7 лет назад +2

    Thank you Mark for this video ! Great advices as always, I'm sure it will help a lot of women !

  • @patriciaearley4177
    @patriciaearley4177 5 лет назад +1

    Well I did that Mark dated a totally different guy he wasn't that attractive but had great conversations and still even this guy turned out to be a player!!

  • @全村的希望-k4h
    @全村的希望-k4h 6 лет назад +3

    Love you Mark! Keep doing what you are doing!

  • @chongher5347
    @chongher5347 7 лет назад +5

    I love this video!! Great points here mark! Def needed this video right now!

  • @MsBrock819
    @MsBrock819 7 лет назад +7

    Well, we are learning more about you every time...thanks for the tips :)

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +1

      Hahaha true. My pleasure MsBrock!

    • @gerr2035
      @gerr2035 7 лет назад +1

      Mark Rosenfeld You're going to have to surprise us with a video of your dancing moves, Mark. Whooo who! Yeah, baby!! ( Thunder from Down Under?) 😎😎😎 Love it!! 😙

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +1

      Hahaha I very nearly worked for Thunder! Turned it down with the vet job etc..., but I was almost a vegas trooper for a while there.

    • @gerr2035
      @gerr2035 7 лет назад

      Mark Rosenfeld I saw TFDUnder in Vegas! Andy was a top dancer. I think he went into managing the group....?

    • @MsBrock819
      @MsBrock819 7 лет назад

      Mark Rosenfeld again with the revelations. This is quite entertaining, I know next to nothing about this type of work. Thanks for sharing more about yourself! Probably have most of us thinking about you stripping down to your thong 😉😉 what was this video about? Just kidding!! Added to my favourites, this video is helpful, thanks again 🤗🤗

  • @42031x
    @42031x 2 года назад +1

    This helped me wow.

  • @2twentysix
    @2twentysix 6 лет назад +1

    Last week I asked the guy I dated for 2 months if he was seeing anyone else and he said he wasn't. Four days later he accidentally sent me a text supposed to go to another woman, asking her out. Men lie about exclusivity as easily as they can lie about anything else. I kept seeing other guys for the first month and I didn't chase him and watched what he did rather than what he said. Great advice but seasoned players are very experienced. I walked.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 лет назад

      Good that you found out early. Not worth your time perhaps. Thanks for watching and commenting. :)

  • @tigerfeet2813
    @tigerfeet2813 Год назад

    Thanks. Needed this

  • @traytyler2138
    @traytyler2138 6 лет назад +2

    Good tips.

  • @jackieg6926
    @jackieg6926 7 лет назад +3

    Wow 😯😯😯 another amazing video!!

  • @jenmanalo465
    @jenmanalo465 6 лет назад +1

    Thank you coach mark ! Your blog So much appreciated 🙂

  • @lisasunshine7654
    @lisasunshine7654 5 лет назад +17

    Great video! I think the reason some women lose the ability to ‘walk away’ over time is because of their investment into the person.

  • @sophiakiringooba9449
    @sophiakiringooba9449 6 лет назад

    I never stop watchithis video, it an eye opener. The Mark

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 лет назад

      Thanks so much Sophia- really appreciate it.

  • @reetkaur3247
    @reetkaur3247 7 лет назад +6

    Rock solid video

  • @sharonloh214
    @sharonloh214 4 года назад

    Good reminder!

  • @reneesampson6566
    @reneesampson6566 9 дней назад

    Again…awesome awesome awesome ❤

  • @lotty6078
    @lotty6078 7 лет назад +3

    Thank you so much for this advice its absolutely correct xx

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад

      My pleasure Charlie - thankyou so much

  • @trishl707
    @trishl707 6 лет назад +2

    This is sooooo valid!

  • @Noosiekins
    @Noosiekins 7 лет назад +4

    This one is a good one!

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks Noosie - glad you enjoyed it x

  • @zoez8185
    @zoez8185 6 лет назад

    You are so sweet to give this video to us, I learned a lot though I didn’t get played, you remind me of my own life foundation and choices of men, if girls whose foundation is good and choices of men are abundant then the girl shouldn’t be worrying that much about this particular man and value her exclusivity again, very wisdom video really, I like information that makes sense right after hearing it

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 лет назад

      Zoe Z Thankyou so much for saying that xx

  • @oopsididitagain4619
    @oopsididitagain4619 7 лет назад +1

    Hi Mark, I'm one of your silent viewer who love your channel.
    I have a few grandpa-esque comments and questions for you, hopefully it get answered :)
    1. I've tried the multiple dating, be less picky and give a guy time to prove himself. But what to do if the guy that you meet have bad breath, rains on you when he talk, or have a smell of coconut mixed with perfume that make me have headache? I'm too polite and try to see the good in him, so I won't point that out to him and despite my best, we both usually will know that there's no chemistry to proceed further.
    2. I had bad experience in dating a guy who say that he's single, but he's actually attached or married. How to spot a married guy as some of them don't wear a ring or put a tattoo in his head? Usually, I will rely on my instinct, but sometimes it'll take up to 3-4 meeting before I felt something off and it's just a bit annoying, especially if I made out or slept with him. I felt like I'm helping him to cheat.
    3. I casually sleeping this guy whom I have a very good chemistry and sex with. But he rejected me by saying that I'm not the one for him and that he realised that he's over casual relationship and looking for a commited relationship instead. It's not very often a guy did this, and I handled the rejection felt like a very bitter pill. Then after 2 weeks, I finally accepted the rejection, but then he changed his mind and want to fool around again. All I did was say no, as I value myself and won't be able to enjoy it like how it was before. Can you give tips on handling a rejection and a guy like that? I really need to check your book about types of guys.
    4. Why guys from online dating use the terms of hang out instead of date? Do they just want to be friend and how to make them to ask me out on a date instead of hang out?
    5. What kind of topics that you should discuss during the first meeting as it can't be just about me and what should I do if he's the one who's not making an effort to answer?
    6. I know its an excuse, but because of the bad experience, I entered a sharing unlucky story to this online dating guy and its became a 3 months chat-a-thon. We have a very good chatting chemistry (discussing about our unlucky story in online dating, like and dislikes in bed, and to daily or just tv series discussion) and we both (he said so, but no action) interested to meet. But he's got hand accidents, just got his permit to drive again last month and I'm not into meeting a new guy in his place. I tried and asked him to meet few times, but he always have other things to do, like cleaning his house or a bro-date. Now I'm tired as I'd like to have the real connection with him, but at the same time I like the attention and having him to share the story with. How to make him to just meet me or to just cut him loose elegantly after 3 months chat-a-thon?
    7. As I like chatting, how intense should you chat the guy that you're into or dating with? Right now people are glued to their phone, its just silly to not replying when you're doing nothing. I honestly even thinking of moving back to phone from year 2000 and just a laptop, but its not convenient in this era.
    Well, thank you for the space to put my grandpa-esque questions. All I want is to cover all of my pent up questions and no worries, I'll try not to text like this :p

    • @nikki1492
      @nikki1492 7 лет назад

      ok, dear, you got so many questions above, i cant follow up, it is so confusing. you MUST ALWAYS RELY ON YOUR INSTINCTS, problem you have there, have you heard of the six sense that isnt developed well enough for your intincts to be strong and to listen to it, thats why you rely on the intincts. well you see the problem is you take longer period of time to feel that something isnt right and that can lead to a lot of problems. please WORK ON YOUR INTINCTS!!
      2. why would you casually sleep with a guy , theres where you wrong to, that why he rejected you. you must communicate with this guy see what he wants dont just jump to conclusions and do mistakes and make yourself feel useless infront of this guy. as well as you must know what you want from the guy is it casually or commited relationship there must be communication oky , you went wrong never ever do that, to HANDLE to not get rejection communication is the key please.
      3. hang out and dating is the same meaning, well guys tend to use this form of word because they want to get to know you first as friend, and see how things go between you two, not jump into conclusion and date you and land up disappointed for yourself and for the guy.
      usually online sites are not the best place to expect a guy to say lets go on date?
      please notice this!! well accept the guy to hang out with you, let the things between you to flow as it is, time will tell if feels anything for you or you for him, then the dating part will take place.
      4. on the first outgoing with the guy let the communication be simple, talk about likes, interests, what you like doing on your space time, what he works, where do you like going, simple questions please, never talkk fully about yourself that will make the communcation drain , and the guy wont look forward to see you again. make it interesting and valueable. the guy will make a effect if the communcation that it goes on the right direction and doesnt bore him, to much information can make a guy not make an effect talking to you.
      5. because of bad experience is not always the case its an excuse, its about how you see things, and how you process the situation and take action.
      6. if the guy you meet , avoids your questions and doesnt get answered, he isnt ready to be in committed relationship with you, if he says he is busy , i mean if a guy is interested in something no matter if he is busy he will come around.
      how to make him meet you, ok see here not much we can do if he avoids you. did you say to him you want to meet him.???
      7. depends on how intense you are and what you say to the guy, guys dont like long essays meesages rather speak in person with him. how intense are you with the guy???

    • @makehimyoursmastercoach4504
      @makehimyoursmastercoach4504 7 лет назад

      1. Sounds like you've figured the answer out for this one, but you can make suggestions that he might stink. The bad breath thing is a hard one, but if his odour gives you a headache then you can simply say it. If someone doesn't smell good, usually there wont be any chemistry, so as you stated, we tend to move on anyway.
      2.If they aren't wearing a ring or tell you they're married then there is nothing else you can do about it. And if you do kiss or sleep with him, and then you find out he is married, then thats his doing, not yours. He shouldn't be a terrible human being. What is your responsibility, is that you completely cut him out of your life the second that you find out he is married.
      3. With a FWB relationship, you need to understand that it is only temporary and it will end (and sometimes needs to end) quite soon. It is in our nature to fall for someone we are sleeping with, and he did the right thing in saying that he wanted to do more. If you felt rejected, it sounds like you're kind of falling for him. SO it is best that you two stop sleeping with each other, or work on pursuing a relationship. Its one or the other. Sounds like he missed you and wanted to keep what he had, but he might also have feelings as well. If you don't want anything more than FWB, i'd cut him away and go and find other men.
      4. Why guys from online dating use the terms of hang out instead of date? Do they just want to be friend and how to make them to ask me out on a date instead of hang out? "Hang out" is his way of making it seem less of a big deal. I always say "lets go out on a cute date" This is because I am demonstrating that I am interested in her, I am a sexual man and I don't just want to be friends. This is polarising, and I tend to push away the right people and attract the right people.
      5. What kind of topics that you should discuss during the first meeting as it can't be just about me and what should I do if he's the one who's not making an effort to answer? Passions, what you do for fun, things you've done etc. - anything that is interesting, fun, and allows each of you to see whats under the surface.
      6. I would just cut him loose. He doesn't seem interested enough to want to meet up. Which means he isn't worth your time. I would just stop messaging him and focus on other men. If he messages you, ask him when he's going to take you out on a date and leave it at that.
      7. How intense as in how deep? As deep as you want. But just understand that if you are talking about settling down and having kids with the guy on your first date, you might scare him off :)
      Thanks for asking the questions. You should join our FB group as alot of women would get alot out of them :)
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  • @lucyintheskywithdiamonds495
    @lucyintheskywithdiamonds495 4 года назад

    That's true. Guts is really really really damn accurate. Works every time!!!

  • @tooblessedtobestressed8343
    @tooblessedtobestressed8343 7 лет назад +3

    Awesome mark!!!

  • @apinchofsalt3487
    @apinchofsalt3487 5 лет назад

    One of the best videos made about how to read men! I LOVE IT THANKS👌😊

  • @joannarussell313
    @joannarussell313 4 года назад

    Come to a point in my life where I came to a place of making a life for my self and driving etc and men don't take responsibility and I thank u for the videos I have listened to you before thanks.

  • @joliemiranda5685
    @joliemiranda5685 5 лет назад

    Awesome video! Thanks Mark!!!!! 💞

  • @sunflowers2469
    @sunflowers2469 4 года назад +8

    “Chase men who chase you” but once you chase someone back, you’re the one chasing 🤢

  • @michelleg7360
    @michelleg7360 7 лет назад

    Great advice as always, Mark!!

  • @oOannina
    @oOannina 7 лет назад +4

    Your videos ❤️ they are awesome, super awesome!

  • @everbrightesipieterson3702
    @everbrightesipieterson3702 6 лет назад

    Great piece

  • @heavenculture1234
    @heavenculture1234 7 лет назад +4

    Thanks Mark!

  • @sia1127
    @sia1127 7 лет назад +3

    Hi Mark!!! Great video

  • @naghamlvly6306
    @naghamlvly6306 7 лет назад

    woo hooooooo!!!!!! , this is so great mark, as long as you there i just wait and flow you ,hahaha hahah,i appreciate your supporting us from your heart, really am very glad to have you..x. , whenever I feel l stressed about a relationship I just watch one of your videos so that become more excited and feel more powerful. MRK, you are so special to us wish you a successful life.

  • @andreakulp1177
    @andreakulp1177 7 лет назад +1

    Hi Mark, I've been watching your videos for awhile and I do have a question or two... Not to long ago I dated a guy for about 3 weeks, the first week and a half things were going really well and he was texting me constantly all the time and he would come over on the week days and spend time with me, and then the second week came around he wasn't texting me as much and he was telling me his family was coming from out of town a lot so he was busy with them being around, but then my birthday came around and we went on a date for that and then he came over and spent the weekend with my daughter's and I and we all went to my family's house that Sunday for my birthday up there and everything went great.. He talked to me off and on through out the week and it seemed like everything was going good and then my family invited us up for dinner that weekend and he told me he already made plans with his dad that weekend and he would love to join us another time when he wasn't busy, so I talked to him Friday afternoon and we were texting back and forth and everything seemed to be fine and then the weekend rolled around and that following week I never heard from him, not a word.. So I tried texting him and he never replied to my texts and I haven't heard from him since... so I guess my first question is, if he was real invested into really dating me and getting to know me, why would he put in the effort to even meet my family and make it seem like he was invested? And my second question is, even though we we're only dating, in your opinion shouldn't he have talked to me about what was going with us instead of just leaving me in the dark, walking away from me and leaving me wondering why?? Thanks for reading my post... :) And thanks for the great video's too!!

  • @florad629
    @florad629 7 лет назад +1

    great video, appreciate your effort and wisdom Mark

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад +1

      Thanks Flora - appreciate you watching and commenting

    • @florad629
      @florad629 7 лет назад

      Mark Rosenfeld you're welcome Mark. i have seen work n teachings of many love coaches but i have found you the best male coach at present for teaching women the dating and relationship tips

  • @thesoulonquest
    @thesoulonquest 2 года назад

    Great content👍

  • @sunshinedayz7032
    @sunshinedayz7032 4 года назад +3

    I have dated my type, fun, sexy, great kisser, but got played, he cheated, so I tried dating men the exact opposite, one was no fun, bad kisser, no chemistry on my part and still he stared at other women Soooo much that it was like I was not even there. He actually walked off of the elevator that we were on together, to chase after another woman! As I just stood there in the elevator thinking, "what the actual hell"?
    From now on I will only date men that are my type that are hot sexy fun funny and just find a great guy in that category because it's not worth it to date somebody that you're not attracted to that isn't compatible just so you'll be safe he won't be safe because there's jerks and creeps and every type of men.
    So date what you love! And be watchful of red flags!

  • @sweetilleyad
    @sweetilleyad 7 лет назад +1

    Excellent dating advice as always.

  • @dianachern4234
    @dianachern4234 7 лет назад +1

    This is very good! Thank you!

  • @user-ly2qs9xb9n
    @user-ly2qs9xb9n 6 лет назад

    This is very good advice, thank you.

  • @feimadoe4748
    @feimadoe4748 6 лет назад +2

    Amazing Video. So so True. We all have been vulnerable one way or the other. Thanks for sharing these tips, it sure helps me work on myself better. What is the name of the music played at the end of this video? i like it and would want a copy.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 лет назад

      Thanks Felima! This is the music here :) You Do It Just For Fun (Niclas G Rmx) - Kalle Engstrom - ruclips.net/video/6f7AnT-2G6g/видео.html

  • @jennypatton645
    @jennypatton645 5 лет назад

    Yes yes yes . This is great content .

  • @ritamark453
    @ritamark453 7 лет назад +1

    This is such an amazing video.
    Unfortunately I had to learn this know. But am so so thankful to come across this video. It has opened my eyes in another way I have never experienced. Thank you so much.
    You can't imagine how this helped me.
    Respectful Rita.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  7 лет назад

      Thanks so much Rita - that's a lovely comment xx

  • @LeafsIn2025
    @LeafsIn2025 6 лет назад

    One of your very best and well organized advice videos, Mark!
    Thank you.

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  6 лет назад

      Arw, my pleasure Amanda. Thanks so much for watching xx

    • @LeafsIn2025
      @LeafsIn2025 6 лет назад

      @@Markrosenfeld You're welcome, my friend. Thank you, too!

  • @901Andrea
    @901Andrea 5 лет назад

    Love this well said Mark Thanks

    • @Markrosenfeld
      @Markrosenfeld  5 лет назад

      Heya Andrea! Always appreciate your lovely comments here, thanks so much! Great to have you on the channel x