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Mark Rosenfeld hi , I am was talking to someone who was younger then me and was English he use to text me 24/7 and as soon as we get closer he said he needs space he stopped talking . I am so addicted to talk to him I am feeling like he want me to beg for attention 🙁 I need help why he is doing this
Hey Mark! Just wanna say you’re the best dating coach I ever watched here on youtube. Most coaches would always find a way to sell their books, seminar, workshops etc. But you’re different! Love how you enumerate the important things always. Also, commenting publicly is not my thing but I think you deserve this. Thank you!
I love your content and approach. A couple of the best things I learnt are from you. I am currently living in Australia. And I should say that you helped me understand men generally; but also the Australian (sense of) Masculinity- which can be *intimidatingly* *bold* *yet* *playful* in a way I would say. You too embody this (1) as a person and (2) in your very grounded, researched, real-world content. Thank you, Mark!
1 live your passions 2 spend time with your frnz, personal space 3 trust 4 acceptance of his help 5 let him lead 6 your love n appreciation 7 your respect to him.
I am fighting my Reactive Attatchment Disorder and Battered Women Syndrome so hard. The way you explain things works for me. I found something that works. My heart, my Rob, fights for me. So many of us never learned these things. There really are biological differences. Had a feeling. Maria. Richmond. Va.
Lisa am proud of you and what you're going through. Don't ever be a victim and you'll get through this and be able to help other women do the same. Thanks for supporting my channel x
Asking him for advise on 'serious' matters (even if they have nothing to do with him) is also one i have noticed. You show him you trust him and value his opinion and like you care about what he has to say
Narcissist don't appreciate the girl they are dating be around friends..i dated one that disliked the idea of me having any friends and wanted my family far from us.
Lol..i think y'all misinterpreting what shes saying. I believe shes just pointing out and stating facts. Nowhere does it say she's trying to hook up or dating a narci.
That moment when you said "Trust" and started explaining it in detail...Awww....touched me...your explanation has made me trust you with my life for some serious relationship advice!!! Keep up the good work.. You got a new fan and admirer from India...
Mark speaks the truth! I can truly think of perfect examples in my current relationship that check off this list. Such great information, you're a great coach!!!
WOW, that's incredible and beautiful, Von! Definitely going to screenshot your lovely comment and keep it for any time I have a down day. You're the best! x
@6:34 onwards ..ONLY IF I HAD SEEN THIS BEFORE....daammnnn it would have saved us from our just last weekend nasty argument. Lessons learnt and well noted!!( a relationship is not a game of "get me get me get me. Get you get you get you"). But, the best part is...we always talk about it, reconcile and move on. NO MATTER WHAT! THANK YOU FOR THIS POINT 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Love this it's old but that's why they say a man is the head of the house the king of the castle . They love respect but only if you respect yourself first as a lady. Keep up the good work Mark
I love this advice Mark I agree that each person should hang out with their own friends. It is healthy to still have your own friends and hobbies aside from a relationship. I have really worked on letting men help even though I'm very independent. Your videos and advice have changed my mindset 😊 thank you.
You're so full of wisdom and those advices actually make sense and help alot of married and dating women to be careful about these small but significant points. They make alot of difference in how our partner/spouse sees us. Thank you so much for putting out this video Mark! 💞 Blessings and prayers!
I wish I would have seen this video ages ago! I jut didn’t realize what my guy needed from me - I flat out asked him, but he said all he wanted was for me to be happy. And then I lost him. :(
i trusted and loved so much but he was lying and doing stuff behind my back...sometimes trust is taken for granted.."or, she trusts me, she will never find out bc she will never think I will do anything"
Number 8, have our back! Even the most confident man needs to know his woman will look into his eyes and gauge body language sense it when he's in doubt, pain or struggling. Many women miss this one. Being an alpha male I struggle to ask for theses things. Great video, thought I'd add my biggest frustration when dating to find that one.
You're spot on, Mark. If you're fortunate enough to have a high quality man, you should be doing all of these things. He will respond in a very positive manner. The love, appreciation, respect, & trust parts are SO very important. Love your videos.
You're very welcome, Mark. Thanks so much for replying back. Never expected it. I really enjoy watching different videos having to do with relationship advice. I've learned a lot in understanding how a man's mind works & what he wants from a woman. Some things I kind of already knew, but there were some surprises along the way too. Keep doing what you're doing.
Everyone like the feeling of being trust right? That motivates one to be responsible for whatever they do. Even for friendship. A feeling of capability to be counted on is just so right
Mark, thank you for all your great video's. It is informative, concise and relevant. I appreciate you making this available for us as woman to learn and to thrive!
Mark thank you very much , i’m dating this guy for 2 months and we are business partner and i offered help but i think he wants to lead and learn...So i’ll just respect and trust him..
Hello Mark, I just wanted to say I love your videos. They have helped me see things from a male perspective. It's funny how different men are in terms of how they view things in hooking up and dating. You've helped me have more fun with dating. Getting helpful advice from a really hot guy is an awesome combo. Thank you for making great videos!
Thank goodness that youtube recommend me your channel! I cannot thank you enough,all of your tips and advices are so informative.I realised my mistakes and wrongs.Thank you very much.
"- My dear husband, on a scale from 1 to 10, how much do you love me? - From 1 to 10 I love you very much, but at 11 I'm going out with my friends to drink a beer."
Great vid Mark! I look forward to you discussing the love languages. I’ve taken the test with quality time and physical touch being first while receiving gifts and acts of service being toward the bottom.
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I always think relationships are so complicated. Like a game. I am like super blur abt guys. Now I understand it’s all from different perspective. Thanks for sharing your knowledge Mark. Appreciate it so much.
What beautiful information. Awesome! Thank you again Marc for your very helpful enlightenment. All of this information makes sense to me, and I am soooo looking forward to when I find and am with my man.
Mark Rosenfeld Thank you very much Mark. And (because of your info./your video about online dating and Tinder), I signed up onto Tinder. It's going fine, and I am applying the knowledge you taught on your videos. I am applying all of the very valuable and educating guidelines, caveats, and information that you - and a few of your colleagues - post on your awesome dating coach videos. I also see examples of what you say in my experiences and observations with men. A lot of times, after I learn through the videos, I see exactly that on my observations of men in different situations. I've even shared a couple of "pearls of wisdom" with a couple of my girlfriends, and I really think it helped them. And thank God for (me) that I even (discovered) the dating coach videos - and (Your) videos - after I went through a difficult time due to (at that time) not knowing how to deal with or act with men - in romantic/dating situations. But now, I apply the dating education that I've gotten, and man let me tell you, I get to see everything you all say right before my eyes. I see it in men when I observe, and it's awesome. Lastly, I can't thank you enough for your very helpful dating information Mark. Have a happy day. Sincerely.
This video popped up on my feed. It's older but I found it very entertaining. You seem very relaxed and funny. Thanks for the content. These seem mostly common sense but I think I need a regular reminder. 😍
Another great video, Mark. I'm a new subber and I already love your videos. Your advices are on point and your explanations are really easy to understand, never going in circle. Thanks for expanding my mind on the relationship area, Mark :D
"Me and you need to have a word..." about that pillow in the background! It's upside down! Also. Good content and nice reminders. There has to be a balance between nurturing someone you care about and making them feel incompetent. Something, something, the road to hell is paved with good intentions...
Ahhh I love this saying. My dad says it all the time. And yeh... someone was bound to pick up on that. There's another video where it disappears entirely :\
Mark Rosenfeld I was thinking a few videos back that I might tease you about whether or not you were sitting on your grandmother's porch to film, but I try not to be too mischievous with my comments every time you post because you really do put out some great content and I wouldn't want you to think I'm not paying attention to the point. Thanks for all of it, Mark. No matter how often you post before I've had my coffee... ;)
Hi Mark, I am not sure how to feel about my current situation with a man that I met a couple of months ago. He is kind, consistent with communication (daily or 6 days a week), we work out 5 days a week together, and have gone on 4+ real dates in public during the morning, afternoon, and early evenings. All his family and close friends live in another country but I have met his coworkers but yet to meet his friends he has made here. The issue is that I feel like we are moving forward but I think back to the first week we started talking and we both said that we were interested in getting to know each other but not interested in a relationship. We are both divorcees and in our late 20s. We haven’t put a label on us yet but he continues to get me small, thoughtful gifts (my favorite candies), sending me his favorite music playlists, and he reaches out to me more than 50% of the time. We have been intimate and both have wanted more. We have talked about our families, passions, hopes, and weaknesses. We prefer to talk over the phone or in person instead of texting. I’m just not sure if I’m starting to want an exclusive relationship before him? Does it seem like we are just going to stay stuck in this relationship limbo? Should I just move on since now I have changed my mind about wanting a relationship? I was really afraid of getting hurt again.
Borunda sounds to me like things are going really well... a couple more months of quality like this and I think you'll both be in a great place to be exclusive (if you're not already) and get more serious. Checkout the video I put out this week on label - I talk about progression and how important it is x
Thank you very much Mark. You are a real treasure of help. I love watching all your videos even when they are irrelevant to my need!Thank you again and again. God bless you.
Hello Mark, another great video! From someone who did not see respect being modelled in my home, will you create a video demonstrating the primary ways his woman/children may show him the respect he deserves in his home and relationship? Many thanks and deepest appreciation for your contribution to loving relationships in our beautiful world
funny every time i tried to give them the opportunity to lead my two exes just never stepped up. One I get, he's emotionally struggling for very personal reasons (he was like a puppy instead of a boyfriend. was done with that rather quick). The other ex... well he didn't know what he wanted. So no surprise that that didn't last. It's just rather hard to meet new guys in my life. I'm looking for a different job, I play team-sport twice a week (all girls almost), I go running twice a week after work, I do strength training at home twice a week (gym is too expensive), I go grocery shopping with my grandmother weekly and I sometimes go out with friends on friday or saturday. Next to trying to learn to play guitar, crochet and learn to knit... I just don't meet new guys. I suppose it's not a great time with a career switch, but still...
love and appreciation, he's always asking for it, I always give it with or without asking. He says I set the bar high as I gave so much all along, he barely gave back. So when I ask to feel love from his touch, he won't give anything. And the helping me part, he's always expecting me to help him. I guess the writing's on the wall and I'm still not seeing it. Always giving so much, my mistake was thinking some day I'd get some back.
This was interesting to me. It makes sense but, yes it's okay to say men are not the best at communicating and at times, even myself I can become confused. I at time can get "clingy" if you will. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and half, we have a great relationship and he's an amazing guy, the best I've ever had in all aspects however, I fear just like a lot of women do if he will in time become annoyed with my habits. What are key things to keep a relationship? What are things as a couple or just as a woman we can do to "keep that spark" relationship are hard, they take work. What is that work? There are obvious ones but again, we are not clairvoyant. I'm sure there are some we struggle with. I would love to hear from you Mark!
"Give him respect...even if he isn't giving you respect, because a man needs to feel respected"..... Is THAT really what you said? I respect a man from the beginning, because PEOPLE need respect/deserve it...until they don't. If anyone cannot treat me the way I have been treating them, then they don't need to feel respected! They WILL be rejected, at that point, tho.
I need to admit something, you are incredibly cute , you look so manly, i love your wonderful amazing smile and positive vibes you put out there and everything you said on that video is what EXACTLY I love seeing a man doing for me or any other woman.... it just proves that men are Men, males, there is nothing in a world more attractive, beautiful, sexy and admirable than men who want to protect, love, lead and help out their lady, to me they are 100& males. And we do really love such men, we admire them for being so protective and manly :) I watch all of your videos, you have helped me a lot and I'm so grateful you make such a good job and help us ladies understand you better:)) big thank you! !! Please do keep up the great work, we need you so much!
These sound like the basics of a healthy relationship to me Mark. Nothing that I wouldn't expect to have to think twice to give or to do, just things that would be a part of my relationship naturally. I honestly thought this video was going to be about an entirely different context, but maybe that's just my naughty way of thinking 🙈 I hope you've managed to get in some much needed rest this week? Don't forget to look after yourself too x
Thx u Mark! I’m still taking your advice..even I think I’m happily married for 18y to only boy ever hold my hand...bc I’m alway looking forward to better myself n my relationship w my hub!
isnt all this advice pretty sexist and dominating... so when you are with him, submit, let him lead, but then go away a lot from him so he will miss you... means... he will miss feeing in control.. that makes him feel like a man... dumb
Went on a date with a guy on friday. We met at a bachelor party and hit it off. We danced the entire night. He even canceled plans to stay and talk to me. So on friday we went to a fair. He paid for everything, which I really appreciate and we had an amazing time. We laughed, joked and talked the entire night. He had plans to go out and celebrate a friends birthday so I thought the date would end at a certain time but he surprised me by inviting me to go with him. The next day, barely any conversation. But I knew he had a busy weekend so I gave it a pass. We’re monday now and still no contact. I’ve send him a text thanking him for the amazing evening. He’s been online since me sending that text but nothing. What do I do? I really like him!
did he get sex? the reason no relationship actually works unless there is a need of something from each other is that men dont respect anybody they have fucked. or 'made love to' . that is why they dont want their daughters having sex ever. the truth is men release their anger and frustration during sex and rarely are actually loving while having intercourse. that is why, you gotta tell him that aged care is full of abuse and perversion and sick people that work there, so you want to have your own kids and raise them kindly so they will be kind to you when you are old. tell him that is what you want, then he will treat youkindly and make babies and look after you and the kids, because its what he wants in return. humans are basic.
It is all true what you say, I have given a man 3 chances over a 5 year period, already and he does the same things all over again and again, just got worse with the 3rd and the last time we broke up, he has got 0% respect, lies, does not except me, compairs me with his ex, takes his kids side, does not matter weather they are wrong or disrespectfull, coming up with all sorts of excuses everytime, you can do everything and it is still not enough ever,
Hey Mark, thnx for the videos it's such a tremendous work your doing; be blessed I have really grasped wisdom out of this & my friend i shared to of some of your vidz wooooouu she's testifying 👍👍
Thank you for your videos! I think everything you suggest most women do naturally as an automatic response to men who are trustworthy and respectable. When we reward bad behavior, we create cognitive dissonance and begin to slip into denial. We begin to “love” an imaginary man. These things are earned, not automatic. You did say maybe it might be time to end a relationship but never disrespect your man. That’s an interesting statement. Questions come up like - is disrespect a feeling or an action? Is ending a relationship a sign of disrespect? Or maybe it’s a sign of respecting oneself? Maybe this type of message should be prefaced with a disclaimer indicating it is for healthy relationships ?
Hello. I'm looking for advice or opinions. I am thinking about dating again. I moved in with my mother and have committed to helping her with the house until we can sell it. She is 71 and can no longer care for it by herself. I am 38. I understand this is not an ideal, but it's how things are for right now. My question is when/ how do I communicate this with a potential dating partner? We are updating/remodeling the house and it will likely be 1-2 years before selling. Thank you so much in advance!
6:18 His Playfulness, tho! Normally, I view dating coaches brotherly or fatherly. But the moment he expressed his thoughts, playfully, sternly, with a hint of flirting, my ladyheart skipped a beat. I feel as though this an epiphany for me; hopefully, I can mimic this technique in my own interactions with people.
Always great advices from you Mark.. Learning so much from your videos and am incorporating alot into my relationship and am seeing so much positive difference now compared to those before I get to know you haha..
great advice ..all men are unique but have same desires it don't matter what race or colour. do all this with the right man, surely you be a happy woman.
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Mark Rosenfeld hi , I am was talking to someone who was younger then me and was English he use to text me 24/7 and as soon as we get closer he said he needs space he stopped talking . I am so addicted to talk to him I am feeling like he want me to beg for attention 🙁 I need help why he is doing this
Hey Mark! Just wanna say you’re the best dating coach I ever watched here on youtube. Most coaches would always find a way to sell their books, seminar, workshops etc. But you’re different! Love how you enumerate the important things always. Also, commenting publicly is not my thing but I think you deserve this. Thank you!
I love your content and approach. A couple of the best things I learnt are from you. I am currently living in Australia. And I should say that you helped me understand men generally; but also the Australian (sense of) Masculinity- which can be *intimidatingly* *bold* *yet* *playful* in a way I would say. You too embody this (1) as a person and (2) in your very grounded, researched, real-world content. Thank you, Mark!
Great video Mark! Can you make one on how to show your man you respect him and how to follow his leadership?😊
Is it weird that I'm a woman and I felt like these are exactly the things that I want from my husband but won't ask for? 🤔
1 live your passions
2 spend time with your frnz, personal space
3 trust
4 acceptance of his help
5 let him lead
6 your love n appreciation
7 your respect to him.
I am fighting my Reactive Attatchment Disorder and Battered Women Syndrome so hard. The way you explain things works for me. I found something that works. My heart, my Rob, fights for me. So many of us never learned these things. There really are biological differences. Had a feeling. Maria. Richmond. Va.
Lisa am proud of you and what you're going through. Don't ever be a victim and you'll get through this and be able to help other women do the same. Thanks for supporting my channel x
Yet another mini masterclass in the art of love and good balance. I'm so grateful to have found your channel.
Asking him for advise on 'serious' matters (even if they have nothing to do with him) is also one i have noticed. You show him you trust him and value his opinion and like you care about what he has to say
They love that, and it’s mutually beneficial. They open up through that medium. ❤️
Narcissist don't appreciate the girl they are dating be around friends..i dated one that disliked the idea of me having any friends and wanted my family far from us.
This should go without saying but this isn't "how to make a narcissist like you" and why would anyone want an advice video for that?
Why u dating a narcissist in the first place loooll
Lol..i think y'all misinterpreting what shes saying. I believe shes just pointing out and stating facts. Nowhere does it say she's trying to hook up or dating a narci.
@@marial3650 she literally said she "dated one" in her original post
That moment when you said "Trust" and started explaining it in detail...Awww....touched me...your explanation has made me trust you with my life for some serious relationship advice!!! Keep up the good work.. You got a new fan and admirer from India...
Mark speaks the truth! I can truly think of perfect examples in my current relationship that check off this list. Such great information, you're a great coach!!!
WOW, that's incredible and beautiful, Von! Definitely going to screenshot your lovely comment and keep it for any time I have a down day. You're the best! x
@6:34 onwards ..ONLY IF I HAD SEEN THIS BEFORE....daammnnn it would have saved us from our just last weekend nasty argument. Lessons learnt and well noted!!( a relationship is not a game of "get me get me get me. Get you get you get you"). But, the best part is...we always talk about it, reconcile and move on. NO MATTER WHAT! THANK YOU FOR THIS POINT 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Sorry to know that. At least you now know how to handle things better next time. Communication is key. Thanks for sharing, Eunice! x
Love this it's old but that's why they say a man is the head of the house the king of the castle . They love respect but only if you respect yourself first as a lady. Keep up the good work Mark
Arw that's a sweet comment, Andrea, thanks! Great to have you on the channel x
Saw a man i liked but realised he was toxic thanks to your videos YOU SAVED ME MARK
That's great Aly - dodged a bullet. Good to hear :)
I love this advice Mark I agree that each person should hang out with their own friends. It is healthy to still have your own friends and hobbies aside from a relationship. I have really worked on letting men help even though I'm very independent. Your videos and advice have changed my mindset 😊 thank you.
You're so full of wisdom and those advices actually make sense and help alot of married and dating women to be careful about these small but significant points. They make alot of difference in how our partner/spouse sees us. Thank you so much for putting out this video Mark! 💞 Blessings and prayers!
I wish I would have seen this video ages ago! I jut didn’t realize what my guy needed from me - I flat out asked him, but he said all he wanted was for me to be happy. And then I lost him. :(
Trusting each other is that #1 "sweet spot"!! 💞🍬
So. Fucking. True.
i trusted and loved so much but he was lying and doing stuff behind my back...sometimes trust is taken for granted.."or, she trusts me, she will never find out bc she will never think I will do anything"
Number 8, have our back! Even the most confident man needs to know his woman will look into his eyes and gauge body language sense it when he's in doubt, pain or struggling. Many women miss this one. Being an alpha male I struggle to ask for theses things. Great video, thought I'd add my biggest frustration when dating to find that one.
You're spot on, Mark. If you're fortunate enough to have a high quality man, you should be doing all of these things. He will respond in a very positive manner. The love, appreciation, respect, & trust parts are SO very important. Love your videos.
Nice thoughts sandra, really appreciate it. Thanks for watching xx
You're very welcome, Mark. Thanks so much for replying back. Never expected it. I really enjoy watching different videos having to do with relationship advice. I've learned a lot in understanding how a man's mind works & what he wants from a woman. Some things I kind of already knew, but there were some surprises along the way too. Keep doing what you're doing.
Everyone like the feeling of being trust right? That motivates one to be responsible for whatever they do. Even for friendship. A feeling of capability to be counted on is just so right
Mark, thank you for all your great video's. It is informative, concise and relevant. I appreciate you making this available for us as woman to learn and to thrive!
This should be called what “normal” men want!
Julia this is actually 1000000% true
Julia Reed Lmaaoooo😁😁😁😁😁
Hahaaha
Most guys arent normal though XD
Julia this is so true
My man HATES my friends
He has never disrespected me. Awesome guy who I have up most respect for. I love you Manny forever and always.
Awww! Let him know that I appreciate him and guys like him too! 😊
appreciation only for a good man like you , its not working for a crazy narcisstics /toxic man . 🙏
Mark thank you very much , i’m dating this guy for 2 months and we are business partner and i offered help but i think he wants to lead and learn...So i’ll just respect and trust him..
Give respect and receive is important for a healthy relationship with everyone no matter who are
Mark, you are really helping a lot of people. I hope you know we are very appreciative and grateful for your advice and support xxx
I was studying UNTIL I saw this video appear in my notifications. I really needed this! Thanks Mark! :)
Hahaha love it Maritza
Hello Mark, I just wanted to say I love your videos. They have helped me see things from a male perspective. It's funny how different men are in terms of how they view things in hooking up and dating. You've helped me have more fun with dating. Getting helpful advice from a really hot guy is an awesome combo. Thank you for making great videos!
Arw Tracy that's an absolutely lovely comment! I'm totally saving it. Thankyou so much and I shall endeavour to keep making more for you
I totally agree entirely with helping a woman! For me it's genuinely atractive.
Facts: 3 out of 7 cannot actually be discussed in any detail on RUclips, so some others were substituted muahaha 🤣
😂😂😂
Love your videos, not only do they make a lot of sense, but the way you smile when you speak is very engaging to watch and pay attention to
Thank goodness that youtube recommend me your channel! I cannot thank you enough,all of your tips and advices are so informative.I realised my mistakes and wrongs.Thank you very much.
Brilliant... So relaxing also... Real treat. Thank you for speaking up for men like you do and sharing with us here, Mark!
"- My dear husband, on a scale from 1 to 10, how much do you love me?
- From 1 to 10 I love you very much, but at 11 I'm going out with my friends to drink a beer."
Great vid Mark! I look forward to you discussing the love languages. I’ve taken the test with quality time and physical touch being first while receiving gifts and acts of service being toward the bottom.
I added one , SUPPORT. Support them in all their decisions and needs.
Women also want respect and love and appreciation from men.
You don’t say.
You are always gorgeous Mark. Thank you very much. God bless you.
Daw. Blushing
Thank God I discovered ur channel XOXO
Arw thanks Lydia - great to have you on here xx
so true !!!
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Hi Mark, you are my new go-to guy now. Keep doing the good work and help us crack the code of men.
Aww that's such a lovely comment, S.M! Thanks so much!
I always think relationships are so complicated. Like a game. I am like super blur abt guys. Now I understand it’s all from different perspective. Thanks for sharing your knowledge Mark. Appreciate it so much.
What beautiful information. Awesome! Thank you again Marc for your very helpful enlightenment. All of this information makes sense to me, and I am soooo looking forward to when I find and am with my man.
That's great Easy going - glad you enjoyed the video and excited for that moment for you as well!
Mark Rosenfeld
Thank you very much Mark. And (because of your info./your video about online dating and Tinder), I signed up onto Tinder. It's going fine, and I am applying the knowledge you taught on your videos. I am applying all of the very valuable and educating guidelines, caveats, and information that you - and a few of your colleagues - post on your awesome dating coach videos. I also see examples of what you say in my experiences and observations with men. A lot of times, after I learn through the videos, I see exactly that on my observations of men in different situations. I've even shared a couple of "pearls of wisdom" with a couple of my girlfriends, and I really think it helped them. And thank God for (me) that I even (discovered) the dating coach videos - and (Your) videos - after I went through a difficult time due to (at that time) not knowing how to deal with or act with men - in romantic/dating situations. But now, I apply the dating education that I've gotten, and man let me tell you, I get to see everything you all say right before my eyes. I see it in men when I observe, and it's awesome.
Lastly, I can't thank you enough for your very helpful dating information Mark.
Have a happy day.
Sincerely.
Always great to have that coverage. My significant other has a kind heart, fierce mind and a brave soul.
That's so great Romona :)
I LOVE love LOVE your advice! You're basically saying get a life, make him feel like a MAN, and appreciate and respect him
This video popped up on my feed. It's older but I found it very entertaining. You seem very relaxed and funny. Thanks for the content. These seem mostly common sense but I think I need a regular reminder. 😍
Another great video, Mark.
I'm a new subber and I already love your videos.
Your advices are on point and your explanations are really easy to understand, never going in circle. Thanks for expanding my mind on the relationship area, Mark :D
Oh thanks Mya. That's so lovely of you to say! Great to have you on the channel - lots to come in the future for you :)
Mark x
"Me and you need to have a word..." about that pillow in the background! It's upside down! Also. Good content and nice reminders. There has to be a balance between nurturing someone you care about and making them feel incompetent. Something, something, the road to hell is paved with good intentions...
Ahhh I love this saying. My dad says it all the time. And yeh... someone was bound to pick up on that.
There's another video where it disappears entirely :\
Mark Rosenfeld I was thinking a few videos back that I might tease you about whether or not you were sitting on your grandmother's porch to film, but I try not to be too mischievous with my comments every time you post because you really do put out some great content and I wouldn't want you to think I'm not paying attention to the point. Thanks for all of it, Mark. No matter how often you post before I've had my coffee... ;)
thank you so much for the kind encouragement back. maria
My pleasure Maria :)
Great points. It's hard to understand that "space" is something positive (for us as well as for the guys!!!).
For both parties!! Absolutely.
Hey! Love your straight to the pointness! Tnx for sharinggg
Hi Mark,
I am not sure how to feel about my current situation with a man that I met a couple of months ago. He is kind, consistent with communication (daily or 6 days a week), we work out 5 days a week together, and have gone on 4+ real dates in public during the morning, afternoon, and early evenings. All his family and close friends live in another country but I have met his coworkers but yet to meet his friends he has made here. The issue is that I feel like we are moving forward but I think back to the first week we started talking and we both said that we were interested in getting to know each other but not interested in a relationship. We are both divorcees and in our late 20s. We haven’t put a label on us yet but he continues to get me small, thoughtful gifts (my favorite candies), sending me his favorite music playlists, and he reaches out to me more than 50% of the time. We have been intimate and both have wanted more. We have talked about our families, passions, hopes, and weaknesses. We prefer to talk over the phone or in person instead of texting. I’m just not sure if I’m starting to want an exclusive relationship before him? Does it seem like we are just going to stay stuck in this relationship limbo? Should I just move on since now I have changed my mind about wanting a relationship? I was really afraid of getting hurt again.
Borunda sounds to me like things are going really well... a couple more months of quality like this and I think you'll both be in a great place to be exclusive (if you're not already) and get more serious. Checkout the video I put out this week on label - I talk about progression and how important it is x
Hello, Mark! I instantly connect to you..with every words you said..i gained more knowledge..thank you, coach!
Really good tips...very sensitive to both men and women's needs...I watched this today for a second time...VERY helpful!
Wow! You have a good Heart. So genuine and sincere😊❤
Arw, so sweet of you melissa! Thanks so much for watching xx
Trust is earned over time.
Yes.
Thank you very much Mark. You are a real treasure of help. I love watching all your videos even when they are irrelevant to my need!Thank you again and again. God bless you.
Mwah! Thanks so much Ishtar
Mwah! Xoxo
Hola!! Great video Mark!! I am learning!! I have to work out on not being so proud!! I know I know... i am working on it!!! Keep educating!!!
Hello Mark, another great video! From someone who did not see respect being modelled in my home, will you create a video demonstrating the primary ways his woman/children may show him the respect he deserves in his home and relationship? Many thanks and deepest appreciation for your contribution to loving relationships in our beautiful world
funny every time i tried to give them the opportunity to lead my two exes just never stepped up. One I get, he's emotionally struggling for very personal reasons (he was like a puppy instead of a boyfriend. was done with that rather quick). The other ex... well he didn't know what he wanted. So no surprise that that didn't last. It's just rather hard to meet new guys in my life. I'm looking for a different job, I play team-sport twice a week (all girls almost), I go running twice a week after work, I do strength training at home twice a week (gym is too expensive), I go grocery shopping with my grandmother weekly and I sometimes go out with friends on friday or saturday. Next to trying to learn to play guitar, crochet and learn to knit... I just don't meet new guys. I suppose it's not a great time with a career switch, but still...
oh non my ex hubby was like this.. he doesn't want me to go with a friends.thankful that we're separated now.
love and appreciation, he's always asking for it, I always give it with or without asking. He says I set the bar high as I gave so much all along, he barely gave back. So when I ask to feel love from his touch, he won't give anything. And the helping me part, he's always expecting me to help him. I guess the writing's on the wall and I'm still not seeing it. Always giving so much, my mistake was thinking some day I'd get some back.
Thanks Mark have a very Happy New Year 😊
Thanks Lori - you too!
Spend times with my friends more. Trust.
Accepting help.
Let him lead,
love
appreciation
respect
Some just guys want sex.
This was interesting to me. It makes sense but, yes it's okay to say men are not the best at communicating and at times, even myself I can become confused. I at time can get "clingy" if you will. I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and half, we have a great relationship and he's an amazing guy, the best I've ever had in all aspects however, I fear just like a lot of women do if he will in time become annoyed with my habits. What are key things to keep a relationship? What are things as a couple or just as a woman we can do to "keep that spark" relationship are hard, they take work. What is that work? There are obvious ones but again, we are not clairvoyant. I'm sure there are some we struggle with. I would love to hear from you Mark!
"Give him respect...even if he isn't giving you respect, because a man needs to feel respected"..... Is THAT really what you said?
I respect a man from the beginning, because PEOPLE need respect/deserve it...until they don't. If anyone cannot treat me the way I have been treating them, then they don't need to feel respected! They WILL be rejected, at that point, tho.
One can reject another respectfully. The rest of the statement was keep your standard high and walk away if needed.
@@rachellindsey8660
I can understand that.
Funny how much a person can grow in 8 months....
respect is earned
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I used to think the Same thing...until I realized that Respect is given...TRUST Is Earned!!
👍👏You're doing fine! You are wise and worthy! Never betray your principles, do not betray yourself! You are worthy of all respect!
I need to admit something, you are incredibly cute , you look so manly, i love your wonderful amazing smile and positive vibes you put out there and everything you said on that video is what EXACTLY I love seeing a man doing for me or any other woman.... it just proves that men are Men, males, there is nothing in a world more attractive, beautiful, sexy and admirable than men who want to protect, love, lead and help out their lady, to me they are 100& males. And we do really love such men, we admire them for being so protective and manly :) I watch all of your videos, you have helped me a lot and I'm so grateful you make such a good job and help us ladies understand you better:)) big thank you! !! Please do keep up the great work, we need you so much!
What a beautiful comment Mary... read it twice because it was so lovely. Thankyou so much... I'm keeping this one in my "best comments" folder :)
5MARYANNA5 🤣👍
speak for yourself
Oh My ❤
An other awesome video of yours !
Very helpful. Thank you Mark :)
Xoxoxox
Thankyou So - glad you enjoyed it xx
These videos are great!! RESPECT IS KEY
Thanks Raquel :)
Awesome Mark.....always always and always enjoyed and appreciate your talk...💙💛💜💚💪
These sound like the basics of a healthy relationship to me Mark. Nothing that I wouldn't expect to have to think twice to give or to do, just things that would be a part of my relationship naturally. I honestly thought this video was going to be about an entirely different context, but maybe that's just my naughty way of thinking 🙈
I hope you've managed to get in some much needed rest this week? Don't forget to look after yourself too x
I really looove this video! It literally expresses with words men's nature 💚 so true and helpful :)
Your so handsome coach and so much positively words from you... Wowwww!!!!!!
God bless!
@@Markrosenfeld I do liked it and while working still listening ... I'm addicted now and thanks I can apply those messages to myself 😍
Thx u Mark! I’m still taking your advice..even I think I’m happily married for 18y to only boy ever hold my hand...bc I’m alway looking forward to better myself n my relationship w my hub!
Ahh you're the best H L - make sure you're in our Facebook group if you're not allready ;)
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Mark x
This is depressing for women! I do not want that men desire me when I am out of reach, I want the contrary. Sadly doesn't work that way.
saset sasha well biology is unfair :/ a guy feel luseless and meaningless if he doesnt fullfill primal desires/instincts .
It goes for woman too, trust me, you will feel the same when in a long relationship.
isnt all this advice pretty sexist and dominating... so when you are with him, submit, let him lead, but then go away a lot from him so he will miss you... means... he will miss feeing in control.. that makes him feel like a man... dumb
Social value is attractive for both men and women
gabriela gabriela Feminism will keep you single. You will only attract weak men. You sound lost.
sending you kisses and hugs Mark! thanks for this useful vid x
Thanks so much Brenda!
Went on a date with a guy on friday. We met at a bachelor party and hit it off. We danced the entire night. He even canceled plans to stay and talk to me. So on friday we went to a fair. He paid for everything, which I really appreciate and we had an amazing time. We laughed, joked and talked the entire night. He had plans to go out and celebrate a friends birthday so I thought the date would end at a certain time but he surprised me by inviting me to go with him. The next day, barely any conversation. But I knew he had a busy weekend so I gave it a pass. We’re monday now and still no contact. I’ve send him a text thanking him for the amazing evening. He’s been online since me sending that text but nothing. What do I do? I really like him!
did he get sex? the reason no relationship actually works unless there is a need of something from each other is that men dont respect anybody they have fucked. or 'made love to' . that is why they dont want their daughters having sex ever. the truth is men release their anger and frustration during sex and rarely are actually loving while having intercourse. that is why, you gotta tell him that aged care is full of abuse and perversion and sick people that work there, so you want to have your own kids and raise them kindly so they will be kind to you when you are old. tell him that is what you want, then he will treat youkindly and make babies and look after you and the kids, because its what he wants in return. humans are basic.
It is all true what you say, I have given a man 3 chances over a 5 year period, already and he does the same things all over again and again, just got worse with the 3rd and the last time we broke up, he has got 0% respect, lies, does not except me, compairs me with his ex, takes his kids side, does not matter weather they are wrong or disrespectfull, coming up with all sorts of excuses everytime, you can do everything and it is still not enough ever,
Bleh. Sounds awful Riette. Really hope you've gotten away from this toxic sounding situation.
what amazing info, thank you, big thumppppp 👍🏼👍🏼 👍🏼👍🏼 and respect to the great coach, i enjoyed as usual.
Arw thankyou Nagham - always appreciate your lovely comments
Mark - spot on as always 🙏
Thank you Mary Ann. That's such a beautiful comment. Made my day. x
Thanks mark!😊 Great videos as always 👏
You're the best coach so far
am just 18 years old and yo videos made me to know my man more and more.... thanks so much👏❤❤
Mark i absolutely love your videos compared to most very enlightening and 100% accurate.
Arrrw thankyou Shelli!
Thanks...needed to hear this tonight👍🙌
Hey Mark, thnx for the videos it's such a tremendous work your doing; be blessed
I have really grasped wisdom out of this & my friend i shared to of some of your vidz wooooouu she's testifying 👍👍
Amazing advice as always mark 👌🏻
Thanks Julie! Are you in the facebook group? facebook.com/groups/766326563553359/
I’m not on Facebook at moment, I’m busy writing , will be on just before Christmas mark xxx
Thank you Mark.
I learnt a lot for you
Thanks for watching, Sara Balu!
Thankssss dear Mark🙏🏻🙏🏻💐💐
My pleasure, Arezou Moaiedi! 🙂
Thanks Mark. I'll definitely use this :) it's so helpful
Cheers Nissie!
Thank you for your videos! I think everything you suggest most women do naturally as an automatic response to men who are trustworthy and respectable. When we reward bad behavior, we create cognitive dissonance and begin to slip into denial. We begin to “love” an imaginary man.
These things are earned, not automatic. You did say maybe it might be time to end a relationship but never disrespect your man.
That’s an interesting statement. Questions come up like -
is disrespect a feeling or an action? Is ending a relationship a sign of disrespect? Or maybe it’s a sign of respecting oneself? Maybe this type of message should be prefaced with a disclaimer indicating it is for healthy relationships ?
Hello. I'm looking for advice or opinions. I am thinking about dating again. I moved in with my mother and have committed to helping her with the house until we can sell it. She is 71 and can no longer care for it by herself. I am 38. I understand this is not an ideal, but it's how things are for right now. My question is when/ how do I communicate this with a potential dating partner? We are updating/remodeling the house and it will likely be 1-2 years before selling. Thank you so much in advance!
You are too handsome. I can't concentrate to understand ur words
Ilov him 😍😍💋💋
True💯
It's a real problem 😐
6:18 His Playfulness, tho! Normally, I view dating coaches brotherly or fatherly. But the moment he expressed his thoughts, playfully, sternly, with a hint of flirting, my ladyheart skipped a beat. I feel as though this an epiphany for me; hopefully, I can mimic this technique in my own interactions with people.
Great tips! Thank you Mark... :) x
My pleeeeasure Luminous
Always great advices from you Mark.. Learning so much from your videos and am incorporating alot into my relationship and am seeing so much positive difference now compared to those before I get to know you haha..
Thanks Vee - that's so great to hear I really appreciate you sharing
I just watch your videos to see you blushing while you talk....nothing else😁
I always learn so much..thanks for keeping me aware of the make brain..
My pleasure - thanks Susan
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great advice ..all men are unique but have same desires it don't matter what race or colour. do all this with the right man, surely you be a happy woman.
Thanks nora, glad you liked it. Thanks for watching xx
Thanks for the nice video Mark👍❤️ enjoy alwsys watching you...it relates much to reality👍❤️
Thanks for the nice comment, Lourdes Kraetschmann! 😊
Very nice video Mark.
Thanks, soma pradhan! Hope you got something from it.
@@Markrosenfeld true Mark I understood..Your videos are amazing and I am a biggest fan of yours..
Always enjoy watching your video clips.
Thanks so much, bebe dkny!