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Mark I have known this guy for 50 years and just recently we found each other again. I used to go with his brotherand was close with the family. I used to take this guy (I am 9 yrs older than him), and his brother who was 7 years younger than me to the movies and car races and he remembered how great I treated them. He referred to me as a big sister. Now though things have changed. I have feelings for him and told him as much. When he was 16 and I was 25, I developed a crush on him and did not act on it due to his age and mine. But now we are friends with benefits. He calls me every day we text every day and he just came yesterday to spend the weekend. He lives 3-1%2 hrs away from me so I found that admirable. The problem is he is a player and has these girls on the internet who he has never met yet they all want to come to his place. One is giving him the run around and stood him up once already. He has been married 3 times, but no children. He would like a daughter and wants hopefully a young woman he can have one with. When we are together we have a blast, even on the phone. I moved last month from one state to another and he actually came up with my daughter to help me move. So my question to you and anyone else reading this. Does he sound interested in me more than a friend?
10 Greatfulness 9 Naturally challenging 8 No agenda 7 Have opinions 6 Passion 5 Banter (wittiness) 4 Spontaneity 3 Down to earth 2 Confidence 1 Bring unique and positive experiences into there life
The 1 thing men are most obsessed with is not what you think. It’s an elusive combination of emotion and biological drive that is very rarely satisfied in life or love. When a women can satisfy this obsession, a man will please and pursue her to the ends of the earth. tinyurl.com/yceursss
You are so well mannered, well spoken, and good at explaining yourself, getting your point across, while displaying positivity and cheerfulness. Just found your channel today and I really dig your vibe. Thanks so much
You're right on point, sir. The only thing I would add to the "passion" one is showing they're passionate about you. Them showing their genuine feelings for you is amazing and helps show the confidence factor as well.
Passion at the beginning is a form of lust & not to be confused w love. It can certainly be rekindled thru the yrs. Principled love is a life long path
Another great video with top content. The best relationship advice on RUclips. I also like, Mark, how you stress it is important to have a healthy self first.
Mark, thank you for your dating tips. You’ve taught me things that my mom and girlfriends were not able to teach me. I was able to filter out the bad ones and found my husband.
Nazia I was thinking the same thing about myself, but I was like "I'm not gonna write that in the comments........they'll think I'm bragging." Then i scroll down and see your comment, first up. But i must admit I am enjoying loving myself, in a healthy way off course, not arrogant etc.
Those are deep thoughts, I will try to use it, very valuable advice. I think I need to work more on positivity and playfulness. Thank you Mark. And loved beautiful flowers on the background.
Number 8 can be good, but I'm a huge proponent of being brutally honest. If I'm looking for my forever person and they aren't then why waste our time? I e garnered more respect and driven guys crazy by being up front. They tend to find assurance that I'm serious.
Mark Rosenfeld Ok so I read the article in that link. I have to tell you, anytime I've ever had a "take him or leave him" attitude about some guy, it's because I wasn't that into him
Hey everyone, the best results that I have ever had was by following the Remarkable Reiki Expert (i found it on google) without a doubt the best resource i've followed.
There’s a relationship “secret ingredient” that a man craves in order to feel intense, committed love. Without it, he will always keep one foot out the door. t.co/6k08LOlz0j
I want to see you do a video on the balance between creating positive emotional experiences and showing your vulnerability when things aren't going so great in your life. I was raised in a home where I could only have positive emotions, and whenever I show any negativity I get punished so I learned to hide them very well. So when I meet men yes I do give them positive emotional experiences and there are many men who want to date me and are hitting on me constantly. However, when I pick one of those guys I am not truly happy. I want a guy who can be there for me to listen to my no-so-good parts. Of course, I get scared to open up when I meet a strong guy like that. I start to worry that he may not like me, or that I am not creating ENOUGH positive emotional experiences. What's worse, because of the way that I was raised, I CRAVE for men who doesn't come for me just for the positive emotional experiences I can give them, and I end up becoming very attached to those ones who can listen to my vulnerability and tend to overload them with my stuff. I am going through intensive therapy to deal with this issue and I am already feeling a lot better, but I would also love to hear your advice on how to balance between positive emotional experiences and being authentic and vulnerable. For example, if he asks me "how are you" and I am feeling a mix of good and bad, which ones shall I share first? I am so used to only saying the good things, which attracts naive men, yes, but can't fool really intuitive men, and I feel really sad deep down inside!
Hi Mark, I am the one who will be transitioning to Germany for the next six months leaving this beautiful guy here in New Zealand, I am so going to miss him, although we have only been seeing each other for 3 months it seems like I have known him forever cause of the fun times we have shared. Thanks to you I now know from just listening to you we are to part our ways and that it is best to just enjoy keeping in touch and sharing the experiences online. Thank you for making my decision a little easier to understand better ways of forming special relationships.
If spontaneity means that a man texts me on a Saturday to hang out with me, without making any prior arrangements (courting process); AND expects me to drive on the highway to meet him somewhere, then NO. I'd rather make other plans. If I say yes to men like that, I'd teach them to treat me in a way that I don't like to be treated. This has actually happened to me & the guy responded with: "What happened to spontaneity?" - I deleted his number & removed him from my social media. It was such a turn off.
Not wanting to be spontaneous is one thing, but tbh the way you reacted to the guy just wanting to converse about it makes you sound like a radical bitch
OMG Mark! You were so on point with this video! You struck so many of my heart strings; especially, with number one. I miss my ex (first love) because he was the first guy I went on actual dates with and shared my 1st kiss ever!! Even though, he was not good for me. Yet, I am grateful for the memories & life-changing experiences. Very well done!
Just YES YES YES ❣️ This works. Thank you Mark. Don't obsess, don't over think, just take it one day at a time and make him feel like he is the only person in the world who can make you feel so happy. It's hard to learn..but soooo worth it ❣️
Damn Mark you hit it on the head when you said “unique experiences that are positive to man” will make him go bananas because thinking of my ex I always go back to the good times. Thank you for sharing 🤙🏽
10 Things Guys Like in a Girl or How to Become a Better Person. Love how this advice is about making your life all it can be, then you'll eventually attract good men. AND you'll see how as you build your life, you'll worry less about not having a partner/lover. This is great advice. Thank you.
I love your rhetorical skills and all the energy you bring! Thank you for these amazing videos! They are a great source of positive knowledge and inspiration!
Oh boy,know too well bout this issue. Stay away from these type of men,they'll never change and are forever mentally f****up😒I've been around 2 of them,they are very toxic people!
i like your teachings because you reminded me what i already am/have, which are enough. Other coaches talk more about weird strategies which we need to use because we are dealing with "jerks". i am in an early stage of a relationship, and those coaches' advices made me so anxious and depressed. subconsciously they made me think that my date is a jerk so i have to do all that to win him. After watching your video, i learned to just be who i am and that my date is not a jerk until he proves himself to be. Now we are moving in a healthy direction. thank you!
WOW - that's incredible and beautiful Pinoko Yokoyama. Definitely going to screenshot your lovely comment and keep it for any time I have a down day. You're the best. Thanks for supporting what I do. Mark xx
That unique experience with my X was not a positive one. What I mistook for confidence was narcissism. It took 2 years and 8 months for me to figure it out. I am now in a LDR with a man who is confident, grateful, has definite opinions, loves to banter, is my equal in terms of spontaneity, down to earth, and just a great guy all the way around. Talk about grateful????? I am that and much more. We're going on a road trip together next month, and I just know we'll be off on a a few less traveled roads to add to our adventures! Thank you for this video. Every single note, from 10 to 1, made me smile and appreciate who I am and what I have to offer. Hugs. It's funny ... we were talking about our X's, and he said "I asked my X what it was that attracted me to her." Her answer = confidence. Interestingly, he said that even though that was a positive attribute in the beginning, it turned out to be the death of their marriage after 35 years. In his words, "I grew; I learned ... she stayed right where she was when I married her ... stagnant." I thought you would appreciate that little tidbit! He has his hands full with me, and he's lovin it!
For me, all seem natural & doable aside from the “Down to earth” part haha I have a very exciting life full of vacation, travel and spontaneity, so I have a very excited and happy personality. I can’t be authentically down to earth when I feel ecstatic haha
the last one you talked about the ex's experience, actually made me tearing up. just like you said, logically, my friends and I told me again and again, "you'll have something new, someone who's better", but I can't forget and can't deny, I miss those unique moments with him, and I just couldnt meet any replacement... I don't know if you have any suggestion for a situation like this? I know I still love him so deeply and can't forget, but I also know that we can never go back.
How to make him obsess? Have a life so valuable that he wants to be in it. Have a schedule that doesnt cater to only him, be busy beautiful. Give him time that he deserve, but don't forget to make time for your friends and family, and most of all, to yourself, because when you value yourself you will be valuable to their eyes.
HI Mark, I just got in contact with a men 3 days ago. I felt we had a good connection. Lots of eye contact, and smiles. I teased him a little, and he reciprocated. I showed alot of those 10 things from my point of view. We were not alone together that day, but I felt very confortable around him. So I propose he could come play tennis with me, wich he answered after having some sparks in his eyes and big smile.... I'm taking some notes ! so I'm really not sure he was in the same space as I was. Anyhow I was myself and very happy I had that meeting with him and the mountain. Gratitude for all the small stuff, fun, challenging, banter, showed some of my passions, opinions, confidence, spontanious, smilling, all was there. Have no idea if the men got the same vibe.... lol
I must say that your #1; unique positive experience, was exceptionally well said. Using the example of ex's was something I had never thought of before. You seem like a nice and sweet person so keep up the good work. Carol
So awesome that you live in Brisvegas Queensland Mark......a fellow Qlder here lol Great video clip. So much common sense and yet often we make it so complicated :) Do to others as u would have them do to you with the C word Confidence :)
Love this! I like the word smitten over obsessed. I see I am on the right track. I am getting back into dating and feel so much more grounded in myself. It makes everything a lot easier. :) Have a wonderful day Mark!
I am lacking in confidence...thanks Mark, this is one heck of a special video. Am keeping this one in my back pocket for quick reference :) I will now binge watch all your other videos that I missed while on holiday :) You're an angel dude, Cheers from Canada
Other than that I am everything you have talked about, which tells me I shouldn't change who I am and that I never wanted anyway but has crossed my mind a few times.
MarkRosenfeld you made me cry. I wish I knew you before I dated my ex.I gave all to my ex and you're right. He had a child with me but he wanted another child. I later found out he was not getting a divorce his wife who lived across the country at the side he had a far long relationship with a girlfriend too. I had a great times with him. He died without telling me nothing. I wasted 13 years just to be with him and a daughter who looks just like him 😭.
Dear Mark, love your thoughts, your optimistic view of the (love) life! Thanks so much for making me believe there´s quite a potential in me to make a great match! As a divorced forty-years-old, I really need to hear this! Thank you!
I don't know how I came across your videos, but I am so glad that I did! I LOVE this one i particular. This almost feels like a refresher course for me. Lol thank you!
I would love to see a video that talk about an ex who's moved on but you share a child with. You know how to handle that situation properly. create that attraction but he can't have you.
:) loved the top ten... all so true. I'm still working on one of the points but the other 9... I'm good. My notification didn't come through for this vid... which was odd. But pressed the little bell again so I hope I get a notification next time. Great vid Mark!
Mark Rosenfeld same thing for me. Didn't get the notification 🔔. Thought maybe it was just b/c I was out of the country but other subscription notifications came in so??? But hey I checked my channels so all good regardless 🙂
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Who's here now still watching this video on The Top 10 Things Guys Like In A Girl | 10 Things That Make Men Obsess Over You?? If so, hit 'reply' to let me know your thoughts on the video! You can also DM me on insta @makehimyours and come behind the scenes on filming! And don't forget your FREE download via www.makehimyours.com.au/7secrets
So...what if you feel that you are truly this woman but you really feel you're not truly connecting.
My husband always tells me I'm qoute I love you but your challenging and hard work is this a compliment or insult
Mark I have known this guy for 50 years and just recently we found each other again. I used to go with his brotherand was close with the family. I used to take this guy (I am 9 yrs older than him), and his brother who was 7 years younger than me to the movies and car races and he remembered how great I treated them. He referred to me as a big sister. Now though things have changed. I have feelings for him and told him as much. When he was 16 and I was 25, I developed a crush on him and did not act on it due to his age and mine. But now we are friends with benefits. He calls me every day we text every day and he just came yesterday to spend the weekend. He lives 3-1%2 hrs away from me so I found that admirable. The problem is he is a player and has these girls on the internet who he has never met yet they all want to come to his place. One is giving him the run around and stood him up once already. He has been married 3 times, but no children. He would like a daughter and wants hopefully a young woman he can have one with. When we are together we have a blast, even on the phone. I moved last month from one state to another and he actually came up with my daughter to help me move. So my question to you and anyone else reading this. Does he sound interested in me more than a friend?
Hate to ask but do you Russell Brandon you kind of ack like each other , except you don't seem as shady ?
C n: still here in 012020. See my comment below.
10 Greatfulness
9 Naturally challenging
8 No agenda
7 Have opinions
6 Passion
5 Banter (wittiness)
4 Spontaneity
3 Down to earth
2 Confidence
1 Bring unique and positive experiences into there life
We have a list for men too and has 20 points!
The 1 thing men are most obsessed with is not what you think. It’s an elusive combination of emotion and biological drive that is very rarely satisfied in life or love. When a women can satisfy this obsession, a man will please and pursue her to the ends of the earth. tinyurl.com/yceursss
Thank u for the summary
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Grateful
Basically, just be the healthiest you you can be
Very true Alexandra
Oh wow! I behaved this way with my husband! He was obsessed! 9 yrs later, still married : )
Your videos are useful, but your smile is everything!
Arw Vie you sweetheart aha. Thankyou xx
Vie Jean Right
You can't just "seem" on anything, you either are or your not, you can't fake a thing. Everything is energy and men aren't stupid
Definitely Becca!
@Joshua Tower tunaround and lemme see that bass
Your sentiment wasn't implied in this video. JS
absolutely...
I love how your videos are straight to the point!
Thanks Chel q - I'll aim to keep that up for you :)
You are so well mannered, well spoken, and good at explaining yourself, getting your point across, while displaying positivity and cheerfulness. Just found your channel today and I really dig your vibe. Thanks so much
You're right on point, sir. The only thing I would add to the "passion" one is showing they're passionate about you. Them showing their genuine feelings for you is amazing and helps show the confidence factor as well.
Passion at the beginning is a form of lust & not to be confused w love. It can certainly be rekindled thru the yrs. Principled love is a life long path
Another great video with top content. The best relationship advice on RUclips. I also like, Mark, how you stress it is important to have a healthy self first.
That's so lovely - thanks so much for saying so Photo gal. Definitely saved your comment :)
You're the best Mark, thank you!! :)
Agree!!
My gosh this man is beautiful
Well Said
Mark, thank you for your dating tips. You’ve taught me things that my mom and girlfriends were not able to teach me. I was able to filter out the bad ones and found my husband.
That's SO beautiful Mvgang - thankyou for sharing!!
Not to brag or anything but I genuinely feel like I'm all of this. ☺
Hahahah goddamn. Too sexy for all the boys Nazia!
Nazia I was thinking the same thing about myself, but I was like "I'm not gonna write that in the comments........they'll think I'm bragging." Then i scroll down and see your comment, first up. But i must admit I am enjoying loving myself, in a healthy way off course, not arrogant etc.
Cass Cass That's so cool. Go girl. 😄
Mark Rosenfeld maybe 😏
Nazia Bieber hell yea girl! Work that confidence 😊
Anybody else get Jon Snow vibes from Mark? 😍😍😍
Gulab it's so funny you say that...
Mark Rosenfeld Why? 😊
Gulab Jamman but Mark knows things 😉
Who the hell is Jon Snow?
Gulab Jamman Omg! I was wondering who he reminded me of. Yes, yes, and yes!
Yes you're right the first one l will go for that one
Those are deep thoughts, I will try to use it, very valuable advice. I think I need to work more on positivity and playfulness. Thank you Mark. And loved beautiful flowers on the background.
Number 8 can be good, but I'm a huge proponent of being brutally honest. If I'm looking for my forever person and they aren't then why waste our time? I e garnered more respect and driven guys crazy by being up front. They tend to find assurance that I'm serious.
Have a look at this article Mary Jane - I talk quite a bit about it here :) makehimyours.com.au/940-2/
Mark Rosenfeld Ok so I read the article in that link. I have to tell you, anytime I've ever had a "take him or leave him" attitude about some guy, it's because I wasn't that into him
Hey everyone, the best results that I have ever had was by following the Remarkable Reiki Expert (i found it on google) without a doubt the best resource i've followed.
I think because its harder to do when you really like a guy and want it to work. To stay true to yourself and let him go :)
You radiate lots of confidence. I like you!
There’s a relationship “secret ingredient” that a man craves in order to feel intense, committed love. Without it, he will always keep one foot out the door. t.co/6k08LOlz0j
Wow - that last tip opened my mind✨ thank you.
Thanks Lena - definitely the most important one. Glad you enjoyed it x
Same.
I want to see you do a video on the balance between creating positive emotional experiences and showing your vulnerability when things aren't going so great in your life. I was raised in a home where I could only have positive emotions, and whenever I show any negativity I get punished so I learned to hide them very well. So when I meet men yes I do give them positive emotional experiences and there are many men who want to date me and are hitting on me constantly. However, when I pick one of those guys I am not truly happy. I want a guy who can be there for me to listen to my no-so-good parts. Of course, I get scared to open up when I meet a strong guy like that. I start to worry that he may not like me, or that I am not creating ENOUGH positive emotional experiences. What's worse, because of the way that I was raised, I CRAVE for men who doesn't come for me just for the positive emotional experiences I can give them, and I end up becoming very attached to those ones who can listen to my vulnerability and tend to overload them with my stuff. I am going through intensive therapy to deal with this issue and I am already feeling a lot better, but I would also love to hear your advice on how to balance between positive emotional experiences and being authentic and vulnerable. For example, if he asks me "how are you" and I am feeling a mix of good and bad, which ones shall I share first? I am so used to only saying the good things, which attracts naive men, yes, but can't fool really intuitive men, and I feel really sad deep down inside!
Hi Mark, I am the one who will be transitioning to Germany for the next six months leaving this beautiful guy here in New Zealand, I am so going to miss him, although we have only been seeing each other for 3 months it seems like I have known him forever cause of the fun times we have shared. Thanks to you I now know from just listening to you we are to part our ways and that it is best to just enjoy keeping in touch and sharing the experiences online. Thank you for making my decision a little easier to understand better ways of forming special relationships.
Simply put......LOVE LIFE, LAUGH AND BE THANKFUL!
If spontaneity means that a man texts me on a Saturday to hang out with me, without making any prior arrangements (courting process); AND expects me to drive on the highway to meet him somewhere, then NO. I'd rather make other plans. If I say yes to men like that, I'd teach them to treat me in a way that I don't like to be treated. This has actually happened to me & the guy responded with: "What happened to spontaneity?" - I deleted his number & removed him from my social media. It was such a turn off.
That's just sounds like a booty call Taron! Nexxxxxt
Not wanting to be spontaneous is one thing, but tbh the way you reacted to the guy just wanting to converse about it makes you sound like a radical bitch
This woman is the epitome of class, strength & self love. Blessings to all the beautiful women who landed on this amazing video 💕
OMG Mark! You were so on point with this video! You struck so many of my heart strings; especially, with number one. I miss my ex (first love) because he was the first guy I went on actual dates with and shared my 1st kiss ever!! Even though, he was not good for me. Yet, I am grateful for the memories & life-changing experiences. Very well done!
Just YES YES YES ❣️ This works. Thank you Mark. Don't obsess, don't over think, just take it one day at a time and make him feel like he is the only person in the world who can make you feel so happy. It's hard to learn..but soooo worth it ❣️
Damn Mark you hit it on the head when you said “unique experiences that are positive to man” will make him go bananas because thinking of my ex I always go back to the good times. Thank you for sharing 🤙🏽
I love your personality ❤ and how nicely you speak
You are the best relationship guru for women I've seen on youtube. To the point, understandable, not cheesy and easy to apply authentically. Yuss!!
10 Things Guys Like in a Girl or How to Become a Better Person. Love how this advice is about making your life all it can be, then you'll eventually attract good men. AND you'll see how as you build your life, you'll worry less about not having a partner/lover. This is great advice. Thank you.
I love your rhetorical skills and all the energy you bring! Thank you for these amazing videos! They are a great source of positive knowledge and inspiration!
Mark once again excellent information! Thank you for giving us ideas for improving our relationships, whether old or new!!
You are so right. I so remember those unique positive experiences. We need to make new ones with the right person.
Wow you're spot on with number one. (All of them) but #1 completely resonates with me. That is sooooo true!!!
Mark would you post a video about narcissism?
marina emonale yes!!!!!
Oh boy,know too well bout this issue. Stay away from these type of men,they'll never change and are forever mentally f****up😒I've been around 2 of them,they are very toxic people!
i like your teachings because you reminded me what i already am/have, which are enough. Other coaches talk more about weird strategies which we need to use because we are dealing with "jerks". i am in an early stage of a relationship, and those coaches' advices made me so anxious and depressed. subconsciously they made me think that my date is a jerk so i have to do all that to win him.
After watching your video, i learned to just be who i am and that my date is not a jerk until he proves himself to be. Now we are moving in a healthy direction. thank you!
WOW - that's incredible and beautiful Pinoko Yokoyama. Definitely going to screenshot your lovely comment and keep it for any time I have a down day. You're the best. Thanks for supporting what I do. Mark xx
You are a breath of fresh air ..thanku
Ooh. No wonder!! I'm witty and banter... and yes so down to earth i guess. No wonder bf says i deserve better..
That unique experience with my X was not a positive one. What I mistook for confidence was narcissism. It took 2 years and 8 months for me to figure it out. I am now in a LDR with a man who is confident, grateful, has definite opinions, loves to banter, is my equal in terms of spontaneity, down to earth, and just a great guy all the way around. Talk about grateful????? I am that and much more. We're going on a road trip together next month, and I just know we'll be off on a a few less traveled roads to add to our adventures! Thank you for this video. Every single note, from 10 to 1, made me smile and appreciate who I am and what I have to offer. Hugs. It's funny ... we were talking about our X's, and he said "I asked my X what it was that attracted me to her." Her answer = confidence. Interestingly, he said that even though that was a positive attribute in the beginning, it turned out to be the death of their marriage after 35 years. In his words, "I grew; I learned ... she stayed right where she was when I married her ... stagnant." I thought you would appreciate that little tidbit! He has his hands full with me, and he's lovin it!
For me, all seem natural & doable aside from the “Down to earth” part haha I have a very exciting life full of vacation, travel and spontaneity, so I have a very excited and happy personality. I can’t be authentically down to earth when I feel ecstatic haha
well traveled woman is somewhat a cliche` you should not always reveal to a man unless he brings up travel 1rst or he is an obvious traveler
the last one you talked about the ex's experience, actually made me tearing up.
just like you said, logically, my friends and I told me again and again, "you'll have something new, someone who's better", but I can't forget and can't deny, I miss those unique moments with him, and I just couldnt meet any replacement...
I don't know if you have any suggestion for a situation like this?
I know I still love him so deeply and can't forget, but I also know that we can never go back.
Excellent video, Mark!...suggestions for other topics: "making Love in the rain", " turning up the volume", n "leveling up - my thoughts on it"....
Mark, "you are AWESOME!" Thank-you, for your advice!
100 % true.
I appreciate your work and insights. Thanks for answering questions I’ve always had.
My pleasure. 😊
Your advice always make sense and I love your videos
I appreciate this comment, Steve Klimentos. Thanks for the ongoing support!
U r indeed amazing Mark with ur stuff.v wld like more videos of this kind
#1 is spot on. This makes me wonder about ex's and it's the memories that do it.
X
How to make him obsess? Have a life so valuable that he wants to be in it. Have a schedule that doesnt cater to only him, be busy beautiful. Give him time that he deserve, but don't forget to make time for your friends and family, and most of all, to yourself, because when you value yourself you will be valuable to their eyes.
This is so great Mark, thanks so much. you have increased the strength of my relationship.
That's amazing :) Thanks Izetta x
HI Mark, I just got in contact with a men 3 days ago. I felt we had a good connection. Lots of eye contact, and smiles. I teased him a little, and he reciprocated. I showed alot of those 10 things from my point of view. We were not alone together that day, but I felt very confortable around him. So I propose he could come play tennis with me, wich he answered after having some sparks in his eyes and big smile.... I'm taking some notes ! so I'm really not sure he was in the same space as I was. Anyhow I was myself and very happy I had that meeting with him and the mountain. Gratitude for all the small stuff, fun, challenging, banter, showed some of my passions, opinions, confidence, spontanious, smilling, all was there. Have no idea if the men got the same vibe.... lol
Great video! But most important is if there is chemistry..
I must say that your #1; unique positive experience, was exceptionally well said. Using the example of ex's was something I had never thought of before. You seem like a nice and sweet person so keep up the good work. Carol
Thanks for the lovely comment, Carol. Always appreciate your support! x
I really appreciate for your amazing videos! Every single one is useful and fun to watch.
Thank you Mark.. These advice are awesome.
My pleasure Shyshta. Thanks so much for watching and commenting- really appreciate it xx
I always feel more confident after watching your video's thanks mark
Awww looove this comment, Lisa! Thank you! Means a lot. 🙏
Your advice worked once for me. Here I am again.
Hello handsome. Love your videos ❤
Aww thanks for your sweet comment, Miya! Really glad you love the videos. x
So true:) thanks for the videos and I do see other videos about how be good Relationships with a good real woman.
Thanks Princess Sarah - really glad you liked this video! xx
Haha. 'Playing hard to get is unattractive and very weird'
Very. Freakin. Weird.
Really? That's how courtship is in Philippines.
Indeed. Cos it's only temporary, before the man starts realising her act
great info
I just found your channel. I couldn’t agree more but you nailed the number one Mark. Thank you for your video!!!
This was great 😊 very helpful 🥰👋😀👌😜💪 gracias
Awesome videos Mark!! Thank you for posting! So authentic and powerful messages!:)
Thanks so much A T - glad you enjoyed!
Thanks Mark! Your awesome!! I do everything you mentioned and im loving the attentionim getting
So awesome that you live in Brisvegas Queensland Mark......a fellow Qlder here lol Great video clip. So much common sense and yet often we make it so complicated :) Do to others as u would have them do to you with the C word Confidence :)
Love this! I like the word smitten over obsessed. I see I am on the right track. I am getting back into dating and feel so much more grounded in myself. It makes everything a lot easier. :) Have a wonderful day Mark!
Ahahaha that is a bit of a nicer word isn't it ;) Thanks so much Amanda!
Thanks, I thought I knew lists like this, but yours give me new input and very helpful
That's great Damoch - glad you enjoyed the vid and found it so helpful :)
I am lacking in confidence...thanks Mark, this is one heck of a special video. Am keeping this one in my back pocket for quick reference :) I will now binge watch all your other videos that I missed while on holiday :) You're an angel dude, Cheers from Canada
Other than that I am everything you have talked about, which tells me I shouldn't change who I am and that I never wanted anyway but has crossed my mind a few times.
Thank you😊 It's great that you share your opinions with people, specially women.
What a meaningful video. All points discussed are incredibly genuine.
Thanks so much Reet :)
Great list! Thanks Mark.
Thanks Barbara :)
Hehehe I really love the smile,
Thanks for this video its helpful,
Great video. It’s true.
Thanks Sammie C! Glad you liked it.
Fabulous great advice and positive input thanks again !!!
Nice reference. I'm actually trying to write a novel and this helped a lot. Thanks!
Glad to be of help. My pleasure Dawn Cuevas
Really good video. Thanks. You ❤
Thanks for watching and leaving a lovely comment, Triona! x
Your insights are brilliant! I love your videos thank you for sharing!
i like the way xplained,,,direct
Thank you, baidido! x
Excellent video!
I love ur videos and appreciate ur candidacies!
Arw, thanks so much Suzannah for your kind words. Thanks so much for watching and commenting xx
You are awesome adviser
MarkRosenfeld you made me cry. I wish I knew you before I dated my ex.I gave all to my ex and you're right. He had a child with me but he wanted another child. I later found out he was not getting a divorce his wife who lived across the country at the side he had a far long relationship with a girlfriend too. I had a great times with him. He died without telling me nothing. I wasted 13 years just to be with him and a daughter who looks just like him 😭.
Happy New Year 🥰 Mark ! ! You 🥰 have such great body language 🙂
Awww thanks, Bianca! Happy New Year to you as well. x
Love listening to you
Thanks Terri Tran! xx
Your videos are the best!!
Thanks Camila :)
Thank you so much for the advice 😍😍👍👍👏🏻👏🏻
My pleasure!
Dear Mark, love your thoughts, your optimistic view of the (love) life! Thanks so much for making me believe there´s quite a potential in me to make a great match! As a divorced forty-years-old, I really need to hear this! Thank you!
Absolutely Smitten-- DODIE CLAARRKK
the last one was on point and very true. its the unique experience we are triggered too.
I don't know how I came across your videos, but I am so glad that I did! I LOVE this one i particular. This almost feels like a refresher course for me. Lol thank you!
Thanks Cherrelyn J - glad you are enjoying it and got something out of it. :)
I love confidence and down to earth in guys a lot, I find that I don't get attracted to guys who lack confidence
I genuinly love your advice
Wow i love your fun attitude mark.. this is exciting topic
Hahahah thank you pisceanrat - made my day 😘 x
@@Markrosenfeld keep it up... i just realized i already watched this last year
I found this.. very true!
So well said, I can relate to it from my own experiences. Well done video.
Arw, thanks so much Roxette- really appreciate it. x
great video. very comprehensive
Thanks Alexandra - glad you enjoyed :)
I would love to see a video that talk about an ex who's moved on but you share a child with. You know how to handle that situation properly. create that attraction but he can't have you.
:) loved the top ten... all so true. I'm still working on one of the points but the other 9... I'm good. My notification didn't come through for this vid... which was odd. But pressed the little bell again so I hope I get a notification next time. Great vid Mark!
Thanks Luminous. That's weird. Let me know if that keeps happening I can have a chat to RUclips and ask them
Will do Mark
Mark Rosenfeld same thing for me. Didn't get the notification 🔔. Thought maybe it was just b/c I was out of the country but other subscription notifications came in so??? But hey I checked my channels so all good regardless 🙂
You and your videos are really really awsome mark,,.thank you..
Thankyou Lezah - looking forward to making more for you on Friday!