"Men Don't Want to be With Me Because of My Tattoos"
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- Опубликовано: 14 июл 2024
- In this video a woman thinks that men usually don't want to be with her because her body is covered with tattoos.
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She’s older, covered in tattoos, has multiple kids despite never having been married… Train wreck.
We’re not judging we’re just saying no to what we don’t want 😂
LOL, she’s a hard pass
@@ReceptiveKing93 We are judging. Not sure why people have such a hard time admitting to “judging” people. We make 10,000 judgments every single days about all sorts of things, and many of those are about people. It’s just developing opinions and we all reserve the right to do so. As long as you’re not going out of your way to treat a person you don’t even know like shit, or hurting them, or taking something away from them, then judgments can and should be made. As humans we make judgments about people in order to build a safe and effective worldview for ourselves. So judge on. If she wants to cover herself in tattoos and bang a bunch of dudes and get pregnant, then go right ahead, but I will judge her as a train wreck for that and I will adjust my preferences accordingly. I will not walk up to her and treat her like crap, rather, I will walk up to her and step aside and keep on walking.
She showed a great deal of grace during the interview. You can tell she is heartbroken over how she has mutilated herself in her younger years.
@@ReceptiveKing93 : One has to form a judgement before deciding to say no.
I've never looked at a beautiful woman and said to myself, "she'd probably look more attractive if she had tattoos"... but I have numerous times looked at beautiful woman with tattoos and thought to myself, "she'd probably look more attractive without tattoos"
Beautiful and tattoo's don't mix. It's an oxymoron.
Attractive women do not need to be drawn on.
Its like when women smoke, just makes them look dirty.
@@Hatrimn Agreed.
the only thing that makes men give more attention to tattoed women is that we know deep down she is more promiscuous and maybe more insecure
She states that most men don't want to date a girl with tattoos. Absolutely correct in that assessment.
Well, old girl with tattoos especially.
She has had her wild side and now she wants some good ole boy type to carry her through the rest of her life. Who wants a woman like that?
Tattoos on a woman are an absolute deal breaker. That is a 100% hard no from me.
Yeah sure. A blond swinger that owns a liquor store can tat her eyeballs if she wants.
It looks like body hair on men..
On women, we could use henna, or inkbox..
I like body art, but not permanent body art
Tattoos on women is absolutely disgusting, thy look so gross.
Yes. IQ is inversely proportional to the number of tatts a girl has. What exactly was her reasoning, such as it was, for doing it? The woman in this case has a nice mellow disposition, a good start, but she clearly showed NO judgment skills. I once knew a girl whose personality was similar to hers, but without tatts, who was ex-biker chick.
No, body hair on men is totally natural and manly! Tatoos are completely artificial!
Not having tattoos is the new tattoo.
Agreed! I use my naturally obtained scars as my story tellers.
Yup its different.
I wish women were seriously looking at it that way. It's a shocking rarity to see a desirable woman in her 20s/30s that is tattoo free and has no desire to get one.
Haha
thats what i say.
There is a large percentile of this young female generation, who are going to have massive regrets regarding their "body art".
Too many 🤦♂️
I've never seen chicks so covered in tats, it's ridiculous
Tattoos are fucking horrible on both men and women. And people automatically know a lot about you by simply looking at you. More dominant, more adventurous etc. Getting jobs will be harder, you can't date certain girls as their parents will disapprove etc
@@Warbr33d Tattoos are not the same on women as they are on men
@@max_rove I agree
She doesn't want to be judged for tattoos but judges her dates
Women hate being judged.
@@davidlawson4281 Goes BOTH ways!
@@DMSProduktions Sorry, but men are used to being judged. We judge each other every day, and ok with it.
@@davidlawson4281 I'm not!
Yeah, convenient isn't it?
Tattoos on a woman are like graffiti on a warehouse. It shows signs of abandonment issues, structural damage, and is most likely full of toxic waste from previous owners. I do appreciate them making so prominent who is seeking attention.
Men with many tattos are all about ego and false sense of power and masculine engergy
@@Corey-iw4ot 100% true also. They act tough but when you look closer you see they are big babies who will crumble, and generally they are very weak when it comes to women
@pa-dn1vhI think you spend too much time worrying about what other people think. I have lots of tattoos and I'm a good blue collar stand up guy. I pride myself on being a good man and a hard worker. I think your perception of tattoos is more of a projection of you and the inner problems you have.
@pa-dn1vhSay that to a Marine.
Well said and true! 😂
She has literally painted herself into a corner.
Lol
Good one :)
She looks awful so much painted all over her body.
Brilliant
😆
Tattoos are a HUGE HUGE HUGE HUGE red flag for me. 100% deal breaker if they're on the hands, forearms, neck, or face.
Even if you don't see it, the red flag is there and maybe is worse because you'll discover the mental issues that lead to that later on the relationship
Yes. It means that they donot like themselves
Tattoo = tramp stamp
She is getting what she did to men when she was younger
rather a forearm tattoo than a thigh tattoo, they are the absolute worst.
When she was younger, she dated the "bad boy" type. Now, she wants a "high value man". However, her past craziness is permanently tattoo on her skin....literally
Bad BOYS plural
@@zacatkinson3926 Right?
Two kids, wasn't married, hopefully they have the same father.
Bingo. Most women go crazy with the Bad Boys. 😂
More than likely
She wants an “Alpha dominate male” as a dating partner but can’t understand how being slathered in tattoos screams “I’m Alpha Female - hear me roar!”
I dated a girl with a few tattoos. She tried talking me into getting one. I said I don't like tattoos and if I want my body to look different I'll do it at the gym.
That’s always been my philosophy!
DAMN!
Quite a few of these girls could use the gym, rather than tattoos and peircings.
Gym is better
She likes tattoos. That's her business. Good for her. Her tattoos make me GAG. That's my business. Good for me. It's a simple world.
Finally, someone else gets it
Yep! So many things in life are made unnecessarily difficult.
I don't mind tattoos but not the whole body, a couple can be cute and not bellow the vrists or over the collar bone.
This could be another train wreck in the making , she wants someone grounded
his life in order and by 40 he will/ should be a property owner with cash in
the bank, no debt, but maybe not the man she finds attractive . 2 more years down the line she is bored with vanilla and wants a divorce and that poor guy
will get wiped out $$$ . Why would u even risk it ???
THANK YOU! If we all liked or agreed with the same things the world most likely wouldn't move and it would be VERY boring.
"My standards for men are higher than my standards for myself." Imagine that.
The belief of MANY women.
exxxxxxactly.
Right??? .....I mean...what a clown😂
Yep. Words just fail me. Sigh.
That is so annoying when women do that!🤣
Tattoos are always a red flag for me. It's also just a big turn off sexually.
Absolutely, not attractive at all to me. Best advice for women; don't get tattooed and if you do you'll have to find a tattooed dude then.
@LarryFleetwood8675 good way to put it.
Tattoos on women are a major red flag and turn off. So annoying to see so many women these days covered in ugly, childish tattoos
Never under estimate a woman’s ability to rationalize bad behavior and avoid all accountability
Well said 👏
They have PHD in it
U son of a gun...bloody facts...brutally honest tho
100%
🙏 Amen
tattoos are signs for a fun girl. not a wife
Yeah.. "fun girl"
More like 40 year old munter desperate to open up a conversation about favourite tattoos with Chad.
Yeah…. Safe to say unless she gets most of not all the tats permanently removed, she’s pretty screwed no pun intended. And she’s 40( she looks older, vices and bad habits will do that to you) which has most of us men know is “wall smashing” territory with God knows how many psycho-emotional issues and trauma going on with herself and she already has two young adult children. The mileage here is sky high and she should absolutely consider dating down, be the epitome of self modesty, be humble and honest with herself and those she dates and take accountability for her life choices and she should be ok finding someone over time if anything.
Tatoos are signs of past trauma, red flags
Not necessarily just for fun as some are incorrigible. Definitely agree…not wife material at all.
Eh, thats a stretch, l know a girl who has a memorial of friends who died in the Paris concert terror attack on her bicep. Not all of them are red flags.
Most men are interested in the natural beauty of a woman. Imagine a woman in a nice dress and in the same time exposing some tattoos, they don't match.
A chest tattoo is horrendous
And most of them are the crappiest tattoos as well. Quality, tasteful tattoos have a chance to be decent in the right locations.
She is NOT willing to drop her standards that she DOES NOT qualify for…
She’s delusional
She should find a broken down man that’s homeless and maybe change his life at this point
She Basically narrowed her dating pool down to guys that are really into tattoos. Her best chance at finding a date would be at a tattoo convention
Biker bars, Hell's Angels rally, heavy metal concerts.
And the guys that are really into tattoos probably have the same issues she has/had. Broken invites broken.
No one likes old tattoos
Sad thing about that is dudes extremely tatted up are oft times as problematic as the women.
@@jerometruitt2731 Totally. It's a red flag no matter what's between your legs.
It’s the age old cliché: she wants what she can’t have, and doesn’t want what she can have.
This will happen to a lot of late millenials/zoomers, mark my words
@@redf113 it’s sad seeing it play out. all, (and i mean all,) the women in my family are headed for this. one cousins got 2 daughters by 2 baby daddies, “didn’t need no man” but now she’s a globetrotter who just started a home cuisine “business”. aka cooking for everyone on the block except a husband cause men bad. Her mother is a single nurse who’s 60 and so overworked she’s delirious. my own mother is 50 and basically screwed in 5 years. I legitimately don’t think our economy and infrastructure can handle the amount of old single broke women we’re gonna have to care for.
@@redf113 whatta gut punch it is knowing your 100% correct 😪
She wants a 7/10 yet she is a 2/10 lol
These same chicks look down on housewives, conservative or normal women and 9 times out of 10 are on the feminist train and rode the CC. Why would anyone except beta simps wife that up?
No tattoo has ever increased a woman's attractiveness. It's either going to do nothing for her or it's going to make her less attractive.
I met an old navy vet who had a faded blue tat of a devil's head on one forearm and a woman's name in the other. When I asked about his tats he said: "this one is my first wife's name and this one is her picture."
Hahahaha Now that was funny!
😂🤣👌
😂😂
😂
No doubt by that time a well-rehearsed line on his part.
These days a woman without a tattoo is a rare jewel. It takes a lot of willpower for someone to not follow trends and do what everyone else is doing and for that it really makes me respect a woman who doesn't have them.
Exactly I'm not a slave to any dumb trend, so I wouldn't want a woman who is.
basic herd behavior there, as well as aposematism and lack of impulse control
Man, every year I hope the tattoo B.S. goes away. What a turn-off
@@993mike I completely agree
This made my day. I have no tattoos and I'm very happy about that.
A buddy ran a head shop and we got all kinds of folks with tats and piercings. My friend summed it up nicely.”They do it so they can be different. Like everyone else.”
Lol. Great great quote.
One's face, phisiognomy, quirks, personality just isn't enough anymore 🤷♂️ go figure!
@GlacierGlider2 I find I get a lot attention for NOT having unnecessary and bulky adornments!
I get a lot of attention when I pull out a roll of 100 Dollar Bills . Who gives a rats ass who likes Tats and who doesn’t . Some look good others don’t .
What is a head shop?
I love his reference to not putting bumper stickers on a Lamborghini in comparison to putting tats on a female body.
He struck a good balance of being straight up honest without being harsh and nasty.
Hypergamy 101 😂
they need it harsh
Rich is respectful but honest.
True! She was very honest. I give her credit for that.
@@pyhead9916very attractive too, with pleasant demeanour.
She actually seems likable and self reflective without the narcissism. Unfortunately, she is right about the tattoos. They are an instant turnoff.
@Max N. - Or rather she's rehearsed all the right things to say. There's something seriously off about this woman.
She probably humbled herself cause she hit the wall and shit got real. She had her options to find a good provider in her early years.
It’s only 13mins bro the worst person I ever met in my life so far portrayed herself so kind n sweet but she was the opposite once comfortable.
Gullible simps are everywhere
Women only become self-reflective when they’re old and no one wants them anymore.
Nothing screams "I make bad decisions" like tattoos.
And nothing screams "pussy gettin mfer" like a bald man with a super long beard in a puffy vest, sweater, and glasses 😂
100%
Amen.
@yo yo USUALLY PEOPLE WITH ISSUES GET THEM!!🤷♂️
The Bible says it's a reminder of a bad decision. Females with tattoos lack self esteem and or are self centered.
I absolutely loathe tattoos but I do admire someone who can be honest with themselves. Facing up to your mistakes is not always easy to do.
She had no other choice but to face her tattoo mistakes.
I see young women, with piercings and tattoos all over. I personally don't mind a couple of discreet tattoos, but it makes me despair to see them defacing themselves all over, and as with many men, (it has to be said), they are going to regret it big time when they're older, but by then its too late.
I wouldn't introduce a tattooed girlfriend to friends or family, I'm an adult male not a boy with a skateboard.
yikes I wander how people view me at 59 riding a surfskate
@@Fatelvis2 we view u as a damn chad
@jerry LOL I doubt that but I have gotten some thumbs up and once after a run around my agility cones a woman at the traffic light said you are doing good
If she’s a good woman who cares about her tattoos? Grow up.
@Dale Grant tattoos are nowhere near the social taboo they used to be. And job prospects are more about connections than looks these days.
Here's the thing, when I see a women that has a lot of tattoos, piercings, colored hair, it tells me that she has no self control, has poor decision making skills, is yearning for attention, unhappy with her looks, is generally unhappy with who she is and just straight up wild. That's not GF or wifey material, in my book.
I feel the exact same way.
@@williamwilson4642 Seriously, and all these women love getting attention but what they don't realize is that only specific men are attracted to those kinds of looks and those men aren't typically the kind of men women want to settle down with, lol. This is how different men and women think.
one thing that you forgot. Daddy issue.
@@ns.hidayat oh for sure! Because if they did have a strong caring father in their lives they wouldn't be out doing the dumb decisions they are doing.
Well said!
She tossed a guy away because he was in a sober living home. He's a project. she's a project too. She didn't even give that guy the opportunity to prove himself. Not saying it would have worked but why immediately dismiss it?
She also looks like she’s fucking 70 years old and is being picky lol
She is a Narc is why she does.
"Men Don't Want to be With Me Because of My Tattoos" True
Her: I dont think I want someone who makes less than me
Rich: Of course, Hypergamy 101.
LOL
What’s pathetic is she’s a used 304 no guy wants and yet she thinks she can be selective. So funny.
Tats, kids and 40ish - not an attractive combo. Find her tone deaf as she claims she is realistic -- she has all this going on and still refuses to date a guy making less than her. How exactly is she going to overcompensate for her drawbacks? Rich’s comment about hypergamy was lost on her.
she's 20 years too late and 100 bodycounts too high
"but why am I single?"
@@map3384 Yep. I wouldn't even sleep with her.
Another case of "screwed around my entire 20's and now regrets it."
facts
Yup.
Absolutely
Man, it must be a hard pill to swallow for some of these women, to come to the realisation that there aren't many opportunities left when she probably had a pretty successful dating life up to this point.....I feel a bit sorry for her really, because , apart from the tattoos, she seems like a pretty decent person .....
@@nix123ism i also feel sorry for her. if i where her i would blame her friends that cheered her on when she made these decisions.
Tattoo’s are like a mullet that you can’t cut off.
"Nobody wants to take me to parties, or take me to charity a event, or take me to meet their mom." Is she seriously asking that question and wondering why?
I'm 63, and am constantly amazed at the amount of younger people - men and women - getting tattoos these days. I think it's a HUGE mistake, which they will eventually regret.
I am 64yo and agree with you 100%.
@@stevegwizzle3560 I agree with this notion. Tattoos are an ancient practice & just because there’s a resurgence doesn’t necessarily make it a bad thing. Although, I don’t have any myself, some people look great with them. All in moderation of course.
I’m 37 and retired. I’m not looking to impress anyone so there’s no regrets on my end. I can’t say the same for all
And the people who say they don’t regret getting theirs are more often than not lying. Because honestly, what choice do they have? When a person can admit that they regret them, they deserve some degree of respect.
I have more than 10 tattoos and none of my coworkers actaul know I have tattoos. No regrets.
Tamie's problem is revealed as she spoke of the 33 year old that she dated.
Her list of great things about him, in this order : "Has home, motorcycle, boat, truck."
Hope the next guy owns more STUFF.
He also owns a petroleum business 😂. Now we see why she went younger.
what a find. exactly it’s all about what they can have potentially for FREE
Take, take, take, I want, give me.
And really what I think, is that he has his shit together. Is what she see's. And....he HAS SHIT! Lol
She is a short term thinker. She knows non of this property owners will wife her up. They only enjoy her sex a few months then let her go. She is short term use only.
@@leonelorozco2514 facts
she bought into modern liberal culture in a big way, and now she realizes it's completely hollow and meaningless BS
I am a tattoo artist who works at a shop where honestly I get more women then men coming in to get ink (id say roughly 55% female, 45% male clients). My girlfriend has zero tattoos, and I like that. I've never tried to talk her into getting one and she mentioned considering getting matching tattoos with her twin sister a few years ago. I told her that if she had never considered getting one on her own, NEVER, EVER get one just because someone else wants you to. Even if it's your bestie (or me) or your sister who wants to get cute matching dolphins or whatever. I was honest with her and said that even though tattooing is my career, a girl with a bunch of tattoos are simply a turn off for me and I can't really help it. A young woman with zero tattoos is a rarity where I live. I can be cool with tattooed women and be friends and whatnot, but it's just a subconscious turn off. My mind says 'not my wife'.
Women follow herd mentality more than men. I am curious though. What percentage of women would you say that you ink come in because of someone else?
These days, a strong women is one with no tattoo's. These days, a woman gets a tattoo after a bad relationship. Might as well tell your date... Well this tattoo is from this guy and that tattoo is because of that guy.
@@IAmAHeater like litter with a return address or a worn out punched scorecard of bad past decisions/mistakes ...
if you have tattoos, but you are saying that women with tattoos are a turn off, you are a hypocrite.
@@thispersonrighthere9024 Don't u think though getting tattoo's is a masculine thing?
She has nothing to offer a man of value, She is already aged out and has more road miles on her than a Peterbilt Big Rig.
Peterbilt Big Rig.. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Guys are so mean. What an awful world. Makes me fearful of guys because of comments like this.
@@sandykl Good. You should be.
She does have something to offer, just not for the guys she's looking for. But to a, lets say, 55 year old biker who's got his life in order, had his kids etc - why not?
A man her age is in his prime and he's either made, which almost always means he already has a girl or spins plates / goes younger, or he's someone she's not attracted to. Like the sober home guy.
The problem with aging wahmen is that their market value drops, but their demands are still rising. Just imagine the guys that plowed her 20 years ago. Those guys didnt have to have their lives in order. But today they do, except that what they get is alot worse.
I know a girl that absolutely excelled at school, that is now a PhD in theoretical physics, that ran through at least two heroin addicts I knew back then when she was drop dead gorgeous. Today she's 34, not so gorgeous anymore, and her demands are probably through the roof.
Don’t comment to me, Hanz. You scare me.
We all know how this story goes. Even if she dates a respectable guy she'll put insane expectations on him that she didn't require of the drugged up tatted guys she dated when she was young, attractive and fertile. Charging new car prices for a car with 250,000 miles on it.
"DeLorean Time Machine. Used Once."
I was thinking the same thing, out of curiosity I looked up this chick on Facebook, who rejected me when i was in high school, now this chick was a major sloot from age 16 til now but she's currently post about how she's a good woman and how all men are no good but she's one of the biggest 304s ever
@@MK_ULTRA420 This finished me 💀😂
and even a bad paint job on top of it all.
@@MK_ULTRA420 Screw you, take my like
I'm so sick of all the tattoos on men and women. It's too normalized and excessive. One or two small ones maybe- but people are going nuts inking huge portions of their bodies. Whatever happened to the adage "your body is your temple"?
She took accountability and wasn't resistant to his advice at all. She was mindful of what he was saying and seems remorseful when it comes to her mistakes, I think she is mature and aware of her errors and I wish her the best.
It's too late now. Maybe if she's 30 year old, she'll get some guy willing to give her a chance (despite the tattoos). Not when she's moldy bread at 50.
EDIT: Wow it turns out shes 40. She looks so worn out, like a 50 year old! She must have really partied hard in her 20s and 30s. Of course, a girl tatted up like that would have that sort of crazy youth.
No matter how 'sweet' she sounds, her tattoos tell a story. Partying and breaking men's hearts because they were not "good enough", including the father of her kids.
You mean fathers of her kids I guess...
@@rosros2795 Then she smiles at the dude living with his mom at 40 something.. at least that dude has some values lol. He is probably taking care of her, or there is a good reason for it. And she just looks down on him for it. Well that's "okay" i guess, but now she is still single and she pushes away even the people she dates, you know they could've live together with that guy, but i guess she just wants a man for his money and sex and thats it. That dude probably looked good, that's why she dated him/talked to him, but didn't have much money, or he didn't tell her to dodge a bullet with her. Same thing with the alcoholic guy she went on to 5 dates.. she just discarded him for one flaw..
It’s funny how the man she had kids with. She didn’t set the bar high for him. But then raises the bar on the men after her baby dad or dads. It’s like honey.
Your time for trying to set the bar high was over the moment you had kids with the wrong men.
She’s obviously wants men to forgive her shortcomings. Meanwhile doing nothing for the mans shortcomings.
You want a 6 ft tall man. 6 figure income. 6 pack abs
Then you should’ve thought of that before having bastard kids. This woman that’s 40 shouldn’t even be raising the bar that high.
she's playing victim card here bro just looking for someone who fall for it
@@ElvenMans and how is it any different when a man looks after his mom and a single woman looking after her kids from various fathers. You would think a matured woman like her would make the connection
Two kids out of wedlock and covered in tattoos. A lifetime of fantastic decisions.
😂😂😂
I was gonna say that. Even without the tattoos, you already divided your score by 3 with the two bastards.
This woman is being very honest about her mistakes and acknowledges them and wants to improve herself, you could at least speak respectfully
@@meddlingmage23 I love antiquated words like bastard and hussy. The carnival side show freaks. The bearded lady and the tattoo.
@@daveyjoneslocker4703 It's sad for her that there's just not too much she can do at this point. Most of the guys that like fully tatted women aren't the kinds of guys who want to settle down and have a nice, domestic life. One or two tats is one thing, totally reasonable. When you cover yourself you're really limiting your options.
Tattoos on women are absolutely disgusting. I had to put up a sign to cover her from those tattoos. She was nice though
Girls with Tattoos are absolute "not dating" criteria
Why not??
For all you younger ladies: We don't like tattoos on the neck,chest or face. Don't do it UNLESS you want to be like these older women that can't keep a man.
Then men should also not do tattoos...
@@debayanpal3181 irrelevant. A guy with Tattoos will have little issues getting women. Having said that- any guy that has the tattoos this girl has will have a problem.
And FYI- I don’t have tattoos
@@chosenoneinakilt9495 all facts
I am a man
Men are visual creatures
I love boobs
I do not want to see any tattoos covering or even close to boobs
I want to see a naked boob. Not a permanent bikini I can't remove.
I love legs and a well shaped toes
Still don't want anything covering parts I enjoy and appreciate on women.
My current SO has a very cute ass.
I definitely do not want that little piece of perfection ruined with a whim of an idea that happened one day.
Or even if you thought it out for quite awhile.
It is a snap shot of time in your life and you might change and grow as a person and that thing you thought to be a good idea at 18, is not a good idea at 30 going to grown up events
I will quote Norm McDonald
A tattoo is so permanent
I mean get married, buy a house, have a few kids.
But a tattoos is so permanent.
@@debayanpal3181 Of course men having tattoos has ZERO to do with issue discussed in this video.
Never waste time on a woman who wants you to love her unconditionally, under her conditions.
I am going to steal this one!
Genuinely dont get how woman keep throwing around this whole "unconditional love" thing. Like theyre basically saying "i want you to never leave me" but will have no problem leaving you if they feel like it.
That’s great!
She wants a dog that she can control and will love/obey her
🤣 stop man. nah that's a good one and true
It breaks my heart to see a beautiful female with TATTOOS all over her body or even any tattoos.GROSE!Why do they bring themselves down.?I just think they are not overly female or INTELLIGENT!
A heavily tattooed woman is a walking red flag
Why do you say that??
@@THORR-mh9px you shouldn't have gotten tattoos. i'm guessing that's why you are leaving so many replies to disapproving comments
I dont speak to women with tats
Amen. Tattoos are masculine. Women get tattoos because they’re projecting what they are attracted to, not realizing that men don’t want women to have tattoos
Honestly a couple are ok. To each his own way.
Some men love women with tattoos however most don’t. Me, personally it depends, if their feminine looking I don’t mind, just not heavily tattooed.
@Kyuku that’s a reach
@Kyuku yea now she does since she’s hit the wall and no longer attractive and aging
Tattoos, especially on her scale, are degenerate.
Masculine yes, still degenerate.
Even for men, it shows what's supposed on the inside on the outside. For people who understand people just enough, can read people with tattoos like a book.
She represents the majority of single moms in North America: train wreck.
Not true. Train wrecks can be cleaned up....her on the other hand
As a man I can confirm that I permanently remove candidates from my dating pool if I notice tattoos. It doesn't matter how beautiful they are or how good personality they have.
I has a short relationship with a woman who had lots of tattoos, and a nose ring. She turned out to be the absolute worst woman I'd ever met in terms of being able to be straight with me, lots of gaslighting, always had something inappropriate going on with some other guy either at work or even just the guy at the corner store. She had tendencies that no woman in her right mind would have that was trying to settle down or have a healthy relationship. She was not afraid to disrespect me with words or actions. Some of the tattoos she has were there in honor of ex bf's who she still had as "friends" on fb. I ended up just kicking her out after she blamed me for something that had nothing to do with me. looking back I was completely played by this woman. I will steer clear from woman who look like this unless it's just for a one nighter or she just wants friends with benefits but never again take one serious.
This woman would’ve been in the back of a carnival 30 years ago.
That's the crazy thing about modern day dating. The women who would have been considered to be insane a few decades ago now expect to be taken seriously as wives.
Yeah that's wild
I was thinking exactly the same. She's judging all these dudes, but clearly doesn't like the same treatment...
And rightfully so. She's gonna put on a cocktail dress and look elegant? Never.
@@kuunami good observation... I see it too.
She actually seems quite nice. However, with all those tat’s .....I’m afraid she’s narrowed her pool of men down to tattooed bikers and ex-cons.
Brian, I Agree With You.
thats what she liked in her 20s.......
@@888ssss
Exactly women believe that becoming and copying the men that they are attracted to equals marriage.
But women like her don’t realize that bad boys still want to marry nice good girls
Brian. Quite true. No one wants to take that around to meet the family no matter how nice she is. She looks like a bag of bad decisions.
@@TheShowOff2I its not even that. they would actually marry the bad boy but the bad boys are pennyless losers after 30.
A tragedy. I feel sorry for her. We all make mistakes when we're young. I'm glad the ones I made were't etched on my face forever more.
"Because I wasn't raised properly..." That's what tattoos say. She seems like a little sweetheart, I'm sorry she did this to herself.
As a Criminal Defense Attorney, I've represented so many women like her... This is what every Millennial girl; not a woman, who has tattoos will end up just like her. No man in his right mind would ever consider having her as a partner in any type of fashion.....
You nailed it! I rest my case (Because you just made it!)
She will cut her hair short and dye it pink or purple then start dating women in a few years.
@@jayreedart right on the nose
All you have to do is look at their skin and you can read their mind, they stain their body with their past so that they can never change.
Means a lot coming from who deals with these kind of women. I see girls with tattoos meaning trouble.
Tatoos.
The sign of a person willing to act impulsively without forethought of the long-term consequences.
She's the living embodiment of regret. Smh. She could easily find a guy into tats, but she want's a HVM, or someone that's sensible. That ship as sailed.
Dating past your prime sucks
Bingo!
All she needs to do is go to the local biker hangout.
@@kevincrockett5155 they don't want her. Bikers have money. Many of them have families and kids too. Even the so called outlaw bikers are mostly normal men and want young women.
What's an HVM?
She’s GOT to do something about the hair. Tattoos have diminished her dating pool size, but the hairstyle exacerbates the ink’s effect.
At least she's got long hair and that's a start. Natalie Portman & Halle Barry are unattractive when they had short hair. Tamie should get her long hair restyled and improved.
She looks like she's 50+ at 40 too, she's lived a hard life, definitely wasn't being completely transparent about her past, probably an alcoholic, drug user, cig smoking 100 plus notch count kinda chick
It does...I generally don't think bangs make women look pretty. Just grow those out. They're outdated.
Dudes, hair covers the fainted forehead tattoo. That's all. That 304 is case of its own.
It's to cover up her forehead tattoo
“Bumper stickers on a Lamborghini”... EXACTLY!!! 💯
I cannot even imagine the horror of what all of these chicks loaded with tattoos will look like at 60-70 years old.
Thank you for the idea! I am going to Google this!!
Ugh! Depressing!!
That's the point. Inability to project yourself. Lacking accountability
Look at old tweakers with tats.
@@nickgomez6272 dude I don't know whether to thank you or kick your ass for that one.
All younger girls who are thinking about getting tattoos should watch this.
I'm as attracted to women with tattoos the same as I am to train cars covered in spray paint. 😂😂😂😂
When my kids were about 7-8 years old I started preaching how I didn’t like tattoos and that they could never have even one. I was successful.
Good for you. I worked for a woman who told her two boys, that if they came home from college with even one tattoo, the gravy train was ended!
They believed her! They knew she would have cut them off.
The difference between this woman and alot of others, is that she seems to take full responsibility for past poor choices. She's not blaming men at all, just wanting help to try to fine someone. She's one of the very few woman I wish all the best.
She blamed her poor upbringing and said she didn’t know the difference between good attention and bad attention. She takes some responsibility admitting the tattoos were a bad idea but I wouldn’t say she takes full responsibility
It sucks too cuz she actually “gets it” and would work with a man. But it’s too damn late! They figure this shit out when no one wants them anymore
Yet she's still too good for a guy living with his mom? She has been humbled somewhat. She has not yet fully accepted Christ.
@@cookncrook6902 Upbringing part is not wrong. In the West, coupled with Hollywood, and the 60-70s degenerate 'liberal' movements, spoiled the minds of many youths afterwards. Manipulating them into making very bad decisions. She is one of those victims. Now she realizes the bad influence shes had, but was too reptilian at the time to see it.
@MR. RICKLES FARTTENHOOS it’s very frustrating
"you don't put bumper stickers on a Mercedes"
-Dave Mustaine's response when a report asked him why he doesn't have tattoos
Old comment. First time I heard it was in the late 1970s. Instead of Mercedes, it was Ferrari.
Ladies, pay attention!
"Take you home to meet their mom"? Yeah! 😂😂😂
Let's hope mom is blind
She's relatively honest. She should give lectures in High Schools. She knows she has screwed up.
@iMagUdspEllr they are
@iMagUdspEllr I just find tattoos unattractive. Especially when they're on the neck and head.
Her problem is not her tattoo's.
@@18632ewa8 if you don't think that one of her problems you're deluded.
@@frankie7529 Imagine when she had the face tattoos.
So she was wild in her 20's and now that she's hit "the wall" she's upset that she's not drawing the attention she wants. SInce she's a little older now she wants to attract someone other than addicts, abusers, and users but her past life choices have ruined her opportunities. Young women should watch this and take note, you won't be 20 forever and this is what happens later in life.
As her value goes down her standards go up
But she was humble enough to admit it. While she knows she screwed up, I really do hope she finds a guy that makes her happy.
Her daughter's are the ones that need the dating advice, this woman is way out of dating range and doesnt even know.
Never date a branded woman.
I've never understood how a beautiful woman can permanently mark up their body with pictures of devils and demons and then complain how men no longer make advances at them, and even act surprised when they don't.
Its not the tattoos actually... Plenty of young 20 year old women with tattoos have guys throwing themselves at her... Its her age. She's in her 40s... Younger women are better date options for guys.
💯 Exactly 💯 👏🏾
@@centripetal6157 Men are approaching those chicks because they assume that they're easy to get in the sack, not because they perceive them as being quality life partners.
@@cj7139 It doesn't matter because the girl will get the final say.. She will decide who she wants - and she will always have a steady list of guys interested.... Until she gets too old or gets fat.
Hilarious. Sort of like blindness.
#1- She's hit the wall. #2- Tattoos signify emotional issues.
#3- If she blew all that money on tattoos and even more money getting rid of them, she'll have no problem financially wrecking you.
#4- That haircut.
1) she hit the wall
2) her standards are too high
Everything else (including the tats) are moot points because even if she was tattoo free, she’s too old to attract and keep an “alpha” (the type of man nearly all women go for).
She put a tattoo on her face!!! WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@Boy George the haircut alone would be enough to turn me off.
I've known many people with emotional issues who have no tattoos and some who have tattoos but don't have any emotional issues. We've reached an age where tattoos are more normal so there are plenty of people with then who are not all emotional messes.
@Boy George that's not true, some people plan their tattoos for years or months in advance. Most people who go into a tattoo parlor had the concept for their tattoo planned out and then consult with the tattoo artists about the concept and then make an appointment ahead of of time. I've talked to people and watched interviews with tattoo artists about the process. It sounds like you are under the impression that most people think "I wanna get a tattoo! I'll go do it today!" Tattoos are a form of art to some people and I've just known so many people who plan them out and enjoy the art. Research the industry/consumers you are criticizing (in this case the tattoo industry/consumers) before making such a nonsensical assumption. Of course *some* people may get it the day or week of an idea but that's not most people.
I already know she won't respect a man because of her tattoos. She thinks she's the stuff and is going to cause a lot of trouble if she doesn't get her way.
Tats, piercings other than ears, smoking and drugs / alcohol are deal breakers to me.
Yep, she's a prime example of what men always say women shouldn't do in their younger days, and women yell at all men for trying to tell them the truth in their youth
that’s what makes it hard for me to find empathy. someone told her “tamie , you probably shouldn’t” and she told them to fuck right off. and now she only wants a man because her kids are gone 🤷🏾♂️ i’ve seen countless women scramble as soon as the kids head to college. the lonely reality sets in
I picture a house that is a total stinking pigsty, sink full of dirty dishes, garbage cans overflowing, litter boxes overflowing, ashtrays overflowing, filthy bathrooms, dirty clothes strewn about…….I could be wrong
@@c.s.s.1723 I'm thinking like something you'd see on the tv show hoarders with 80 cats everywhere
I'm not even 90 seconds into the video and I had to stop it to respond. When a woman says she is into alpha dominate males and then says that men she dates aren't alpha when they claim to be, that tells me two things.
One, her idea of alpha male is financially successful, young, domineering, and very aggressive in sex. What she is dating are men who are domineering in public but have no other alpha characteristics.
Two, her body art isn't going to draw a alpha males. Most guys can ignore one or two small tattoos that are not in visible areas. But when a woman has tattoos covering her upper chest, it means her tattoo artist has seen her practically naked more times than any guy she has probably "dated". Further her face isn't that of a young attractive woman. So she isn't going to draw alpha males at all.
Ladies, you want a clue about alpha males? When they are dating and are out in public, they want the focus to be on them. When they are out with eye candy, even as other men appreciate the beauty of the woman he is with, it ultimately comes back to being about him as he is at least temporarily admired for attracting such a physically attractive woman. This woman as an example ... the looks she gets isn't going to be one of admiration or approval. It will be more along the lines of WTF and this takes away from his general admiration. In short, an alpha male isn't touching this lady with a ten foot pole.
The men this lady is going to attract will fall into one of two categories. Men who are also into heavy tattooing and guys who look at her and think she has low self esteem and will be easy to bed. And yes, she is a one and done for the latter category.
And the last thing to point out is the most obvious. Alpha males (young, rich, successful, and physically attractive) are top tier men. They get to chose from pretty much all the women. This lady without the tats was a four in the looks department. With the tats she is a three or a two. The only alpha male she is going to attract is the furry four legged variety.
@@superdave8248 Hah, i just noticed your name after reading through your comment. Explain to the folks at home.. 😁
So, why does she think she is worthy of only dating alpha males.. she doesn't look good anymore to them.. As i see it and as you said in your comment men go for the younger women, who doesn't have anything extreme done to her bodies.
I guess we prefer rational women, or and least try to look rational lol, cause we know there aren't many women like that..
She is kind of delusional thinking her tattoos are sexy to anyone but to those who also have full body tattoos. Even if she had a sexy body, those tattoos would not help her, especially in online dating nowadays, where you only see a few pictures of somebody, and you come to conclusions very fast.
Why do I get the feeling people told her to stop with the tattoos and she knew exactly what she wanted to do. She decided she knows best and now she has to live with the consequences of her own actions. Like I friend of mine once said. You can't tell them anything.
Yep, spot on
You can always tell a damaged female but you can't tell them much
Why do you get the feeling? And even if so, perhaps she wanted them then and has now changed her mind.
@@cjojay Ya! now she can't get a guy with a glass full of spanish fly and a fist full of hundreds. Gee I wonder what changed her mind?
I respectfully disagree. Rarely do people tell young women to stop with the tattoos. Once that ball gets rolling, most people think, "What a lost cause. She'll probably get a tat every month from now on." The worse it gets, the more quiet everyone around her becomes. It's a vicious cycle until there's nothing left for her to cover. These women walk around thinking everyone's okay with it because they hang around other women doing the exact same thing! They enable this foolishness by complimenting them on the new designs. When they wake up and start dating in their 40s, it's too late. And here we are.
A simple sad truth is that tattoos are most prevalent among people you would not want to be like, emulate, or even associate with.
That should inform your decision making.
I think nice guys who don't want to hurt her feelings are not going to outright tell her that it's because of the tatoos that they are not interested in her. They are just going to avoid her instead. Not everything in life is spoken. Actions and silence can speak much louder.
Tattoos are an indicator of risk-taking behavior. For men, the risk-taking behavior is the possible pain of death from injury, so tattoos demonstrated a tolerance for pain and injury thereby indicating a strong mate who can protect. For women, the risk-taking behavior is casual sex despite the possibility of pregnancy.
That's an interesting take actually. Good observation 👍
BS. All the 30IQ men have tattoos and the same is true for women.
Unless they have a unique reason for having them, widespread tats are objectively a negative character indicator, for whatever reason.
This- I can kind of understand the appeal of a bad-boy guy with a few tasteful tattoos, but on a girl if you have more then 1 or 2 small ones, you are a skank. Period.
Whenever I say this on Reddit, I get down voted heavily. They don't like the truth over there
Well small sexy tatoo? Lets go. But this is.. like having sex with member (male) of biker squad. At least for me. Small.. somewhat sexy tatto? ok..but this? wtf
"owns a home, bike, boat..."
Nothing about him, only what he has. To the streets, you inky slinky
That disappointed me too
Hahahahaha typical woman views, no sorrow from me
"inky slinky" lol
This is a much bigger red flag than the tattoos......and exposes the real reason why she is single....
Damn, i'm just 4 minutes in and i sensed that she speaks like a gold digger, and who would've guessed... she is one. A tatted, not so good looking anymore women with probably some mental problems.. No men wants that in a serious relationship. No wonder she is alone.
It's courageous of you sharing your experience to the younger generation, may you find the good you desire.
I love how she says her kids are from when she was younger and that they are super smart and independent.
They need to be as she clearly doesn't want them around!
Yeah, which meant she was a party monster, and she left her kids with babysitters, and her kids probably have PTSD and a variety of trauma from what they endured by the babysitters and her boyfriends in and out of the house. I’ve seen that story repeated many many times. The children are always collateral damage.
I think tattoos are a massive turn off. I find the female form to be beautiful and for somone to come along and defile that beauty with someone's mediocre drawings is kinda sad. It is like someone scribbling all over the Mona Lisa and then arrogantly calling it art.
Bingo! This guy gets it! Hell I even made it through prison when I went in at 19 for stupid mistakes I made as a teen, and while everybody else was getting honestly amazing cheap tattoos, I never wanted to get something I would regret. Hell my mother, father and brother have tatoos, I never wanted any lol. Tattoos artistically can look cool and all, but I just don't get wanting to ruin your body especially on a woman where guys like them to look younger for longer. When you add tats and you are 40 with them all over your body it makes you look even older and haggard.
Snap. That Mona Lisa example you just gave nails it.
Not only is it ugly to look at but the mindset a woman would have to have in order to do that to herself is a huge red flag.
Yeah, I'm amazed by women who treat their bodies like a Los Angeles freeway underpass.
this right here speaks so much.
This girl has hit the wall going 100 mph in reverse and now she tryna do damage control. This what happens after 20 years on the C.C.
serious
Super delusional
I only have 4 standards for women and I still haven't met any women my age who meet them. I would like to have children someday, but it likely won't happen.
1. No Tattoos
2. No drug users
3. No blacks
4. No Hispanics
Yeah, I hear you. Also, depending on where you are in the country it is going to be harder. Another deal-breaker for me is smoking... I've never had a relationship with a woman who smokes that lasted or that I wanted to last.
This is just a beginning. She'll face far more lack of respect in her 60th. Her tattoos directly pointing to her past behavior in the youth.
I drive past a tattoo parlor every night on my way home from work. Since covid the customers are asked to wait outside to limit capacity. Every night at least a half dozen young girls waiting outside to get tattoos. It's a disturbing trend.
They want to look like convicts. And to look "unique". As unique as the other couple 100,000 females that have the same tat
They are trying to broadcast their disaffection for "the system" and assert dominance over their own body/support for bodily autonomy. What they don't realize is they are permanently branding themselves and the wall comes for all and nothing is sadder than an old maid covered in tatts.
Another trend feminism is pushing, is women pumping iron. They’re told they must be as physically strong as men if they want equality. Tatted up she-hulk? I’m good, thanks.
the body art isn't the only turnoff to me about tattoos; it's the "everyone's doing it" mentality. If she she's gonna get tatted or pierced, she's trying to ride the trendy wave. Those are a dime a dozen.
I have seen that where I'm at also. Its freezing outside and there is a tattoo line outside of young women. Its crazy!
I have run into so many of these, as she describes herself, "40 year old barren" women who actually have expectations. All who have baggage, tattoos and out of touch. It really is pitiful.
She had guy she was dating 5 times but he lived at a place she didnt like, with ZERO hesistation, she dropped him. I bet its a marriage retirement plan shes looking for.
I’m 61, zero tats, I look like a mental patient with no tats in my town.
I stand out!
I have no idea what possesses people to vandalize their bodies to this extent.
PAIN for whatever reason
Mental instability.
Marketing
I like tattoos
It's self mutilation, and suggests a disturbed ego. And when you hear the list of poor choices made in the past your suspicions usually get confirmed.