One Unexpected Reason Coming Out Is Hard
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- Опубликовано: 16 мар 2015
- "What if we stayed in the closet?"
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girl... you have a lock, use it
ikr XD
Seabastion Salt ikr
black mom + locked door = no
If the mom tried to open the door while it was locked, she’d be suspicious.
Ya but then her mom would know that something is going on between them
I like to think the mom was listening through the door
Bree Holthus right✔👉➡ 😁😁😁😁
Bree Holt
Me to
Bree Holthus me to
😲😲always
The black girl is painfully stunning.
Yes 😍
JuliaTheBookMonster ikr 😍
IMA a boy but Yass she cute
JuliaTheBookMonster I'm also gay
JuliaTheBookMonster yuup
I'm not gay but I support gay rights because I believe in freedom of LOVE.
comments like this make me feel happy
Thank you! ✌️👌👍👩❤️👩
Didn't know the only way you could support homosexuality was to be a homosexual..
+W A L D O ((I found u))
YOU. YOU ARE AWESOME
Aw! I wanted the Mom to be like " Gurl, I already knew!"
Me too, that would have been the best!
She seemed like a cool mom, I don't think she would have done that
That's what I was going to say to my daughter when she told me, but she immediately turned and went to her room. I talked to her about it later that day, she said she was scared. I felt really bad that she didn't know me well enough to know that I'd be fine with it. That was a few years ago. We laugh about it now.
Based on my experience (and what I've heard a couple people say) "I already knew" is one of the worst things you can say. Maybe "I had a feeling" or "I wasn't going to assume anything" would be better but working up the courage to come out to someone and having them tell you they already knew is devastating
Erin Burke
It really depends on the person coming out and the person they're coming out to; my friends said "We already knew" and it was a huge relief (it felt like I didn't need to explain or say anything more). And I WISH my mom had said "I already knew"; it would've been nice and made me feel understood. So, it really depends on the person; for some, it could be the perfect thing to say.
Disclaimer:
The "you're parents will still love you" argument isn't true if your parents are christian fundamentalists.
Well, honestly I am not sure...
Kai Sterling Well see, the thing is, I am talking about the kinds of idiots like those in the westboro baptist church.
Like my mum really.
I am deathly afraid of coming out of the closet because of that...
Elijah Ewing Oh, I'm sorry about that. if you do decide to tell her, and she gets super pissed, just toss some quotes at her about how God loves everybody, how Jesus doesn't judge, or something like that. You could also tell her about a friend of yours that came out and their parents were super mean about it and blah blah blah. With my parents, they don't see the bad in themselves, but they do in other people, so you could maybe try that. Do you have a tumblr? It'd be easier to talk there. Mine's kasundapinku.tumblr.com. just message me and let me know its you. Then we can talk about it more privately.
Elijah Ewing I think she was talking specifically about their parents.
Elijah Ewing It wasn't an argument. Not many people say that. Or maybe they do and I'm just unaware. But I usually hear parents say they would still love their child if he/she turned out to be gay, as a heads up in case the child IS gay and hasn't revealed it yet. Or by people who have babies or want kids in the future. In this video it sounds like the girl is saying that she knows her specific mom would still love her. She mentioned her mom would even think it'd help her get into a certain school meaning her mom has already probably displayed behavior that has hinted at such a trait.
Elijah Ewing Actually no, I am a Christian, but if my kid said they were gay I would fine with it, I think its Jesus who said it best "those who are sinless can cast the first stone"
The one girl is just like "I'm bored, let's come out."
she said "im aboard"
I know now.
+Keely Onspaugh PHANDOM
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lol...fr
THE GIRL. THE BEANIE THE GLASSES. THE SWEATER. MARRY ME.
wasa jazz YES PLZ
wasa jazz NOOO SHE IS MINE
Random girl Online HOW DARE YOU STEAL MY BABE
wasa jazz yesss I am glad someone agrees
yes
I loved Zach's "Ay, don't hate!"
He sounded like heath hussar!
Okay I get it, it's 2015 and straight is okay... but do straight couples HAVE to be in every video? I mean... we get it, just keep it to yourself...
oh my god right? I mean we get it but like there are kids watching please stop shoving it down our throats
You mean gay couples?
Rosalie Chisolm it's a joke.
Love it
seriously. what assholes. wanting us to conform and shit.
"Aye, dont hate."
Jayla Kiné that part cracked me up xD
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lol that was funny
0:51
That make out sesh felt like it CAME OUT of nowhere.
*cackles quietly
Dame.
+Rashavince Games *Same
get out just get out now
+my chemical fanboi lmao I can't help the cheesiness bro.
Ikr lmao
The one good thing about not coming out is you can have all the sleepovers you want and your parents don't have to know a thing...
Isabelle Matthews right
Are those "straight" guys in the comment section really complaining about lesbian content in a video? K.
Guys AND girls. Stop acting like a feminazi
What do you mean??
Creepus Explodus
Are you serious? That's not even a word. Assholes just use it when they feel threatened.
short nerdy psssst, let them dream.
^^^ oh look i spotted a feminazi
I'm so tired of people commenting about how Christians dont support LGBT... not all christians are like that. My uncle is a gay christian and he doesn't care if his atheists LGBT friends don't agree with it. GOD LOVES EVERYONE GUYS. DONT ASSUME IF WE ARE CHRISTIANS WE HATE YOU ! Cause that isnt true at all, ily to whoever is reading this.
"If a man lies with another man he should be put to death"
That's a quote from the Old Testament, God clearly loves LGBT people doesn't it?
+Flying Spectacles If you're going to play the "Let's pull any verse from the Bible" card, I'll play the "Let's pull verses out of the same chapter" card. "Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death. Because they have cursed their father or mother, their blood will be on their own head." Leviticus 20:9.
"If a man commits adultery with another man’s wife-with the wife of his neighbor-both the adulterer and the adulteress are to be put to death." Leviticus 20:10
"If a man has sexual relations with his father’s wife, he has dishonored his father. Both the man and the woman are to be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads." Leviticus 20:11
You pulled that from Leviticus 20:13 (in case you didn't know). It goes on like that for another 7 or so verses. A lot of those are extremely frowned upon. There are extremest Christians who are super conservative and will only accept you if you follow everything in the Bible. There are also Christians who accept people for who they are because times change and we can't keep living the same ways forever. I'm a Christian. If you're nice to me, I'll be nice to you. It's as simple as that. God loves everyone, even if you don't think so. He died for EVERYONE. He didn't just die for those who follow Him.
Alex Aumack Then i'm afraid you're in a minority, take the GOP as an example, most of them want to repeal gay marriage, many of them want to ban abortion via a constitutional amendment etc. That isn't because they're conservatives, it's because they're Christians.
Flying Spectacles I know very well that I'm in the minority. I can't do anything about gay marriage or abortion. Do I think it's wrong? Yes. Will I hate someone because they do it? No.
And don't use the word conservative if you don't know what it means. There are conservative Christians. They are the ones that stick to the old ways of the Bible (but not the stoning or killing everyone stuff). They are a much more hardcore type of Christian unlike the kind that I am. I'm fine with gays, abortion, or any other example you want to throw at me. But why are you ok with it if you're Christian? Because it's not my life to live. People can make their own choices on abortion and being gay and I'm perfectly fine with that
I'm a Christian and I support the lgbt+ community
MY CRUSH SMELLS SO GOOD AN D I SIT NEXT TO HIM 4th PERIOD AND HIS HAIR IS SO NICE AND CURLY AND I DIE EVERY DAY
crybabies! Luv ya fam
+Ayumi Uchiha Well we're not supposed to know that you could get us all killed
Thats so cute
ThAts So cuTe
Joshua Phonharath are you gay because I'm gay and i just came out to my cusion
I am warning you...
The chat is a war zone...
Please enter at your own risk.
Don't worry, I've got battle gear and popcorn. I think I'm ready.
Blaskievics Raymond *flies into battle on a dragon*
Caroline Rose F. What side will you choose brave one?
The side I was chosen for. It's my life's work…
The LGBT+ Supporter.
Caroline Rose F. Then go and battle against narrow minded christians and trolls!But beware,their idiocy might infect you!
I procrastinate when it come to telling my parents about my sexuality.
Forever Karsten Same here
I don't think you should. The longer you wait, the more fearful you become of what they think about you, is what i think will happen. Let them know now. There's nothing wrong that could happen.
And that's coming from a straight guy lmao
Eeeww... I feel you... But some day we will tell them... Good luck :)
Black Metal King if they live with there parents they could kick them out, if there under 18, there parents could take away all connection to the outside world, or send them to anti-gay therapy. I'm just trying to make a point that there fear may not be coming from nowhere. And sometimes its best to wait until your out of the house before you tell your family depending upon the situation.
But it's true. My girlfriend spends nights all the times and my parents don't know we're hella gay
Lmao
"Hey mom, can my friend come over tonight? "
"Sure honey, as long as there's no boys"
Living that gay liffeeee
wow
@@yubi8073 Haha I wish I was gay😂😂
Omg that sounds like a dream, I wish
The black girl sound like Alex Vause omg
TRU
OMFG YESH
YES
Smadar Contini WHAT I EXACTLY THOUGHT
Smadar Contini stg😂
To the entire LGBT+ community, I am deeply sorry for what you guys go though, I'm not only talking about this horrible comment section, but also the world as a whole. Although you guys are getting more and more accepted in today's society, there is still SO MUCH hate. If I ever had a kid and found out he/she was gay, I would be extremely sad, and maybe even cry. Not because I'm against it, because I'm afraid of all the hate they will receive, them feeling lonely and an outcast, and having to experience all this at such an early age. To all of the "haters" out there, I understand what freedom of speech is, but just because that's a thing, doesn't mean you can be rude and disrespectful. That's just disgusting if that's the way you think. I'm fine with you voicing your opinion about you stance and how you feel about this, but not in the way most of you are doing it now; death threats, bullying in general etc. What has this world come to, do you understand how stupid it is that two people in love can't get married? How idiotic it is to say, your disgusting for being a man and thinking a women is hot or the other way around? Sounds stupid right? I am privileged to be able to grow up with special conditions, I'm 14 and I am growing in a time where the world and it's people are changing like never before, I'm Arabic and from Syria, but I was born and raised here in America, I am able to step back and observe the world and how it works, it's culture, religion, technology, and it's people, and how different people react to different situations. And the fact that myself, a 14 year old straight boy, has to tell people to not be disrespectful and rude to others for who they love and what they identify as, is just plain stupid. To all the LGBT+ people out there, stay strong, there will always be haters but you will have to learn to overcome there hatred, because things do get better.
*applauds you until my hands are numb*
People like you give me hope
Thanks
We need more people that are as accepting as you.
Banter.
Make a Lez Be Friends series
That pun is so bad that it's amazing
Bobby the Blobfish it is a short film already, search it.
***** we can never be friends.
***** I appreciate people with a sense of humor, and if you didn't find my last comment even a slightest bit sarcastic; you lack that. So no we can never be friends ;)
Let's Begay freinds.
I understand what it's like to be in the closet, even though I'm not gay. I come from a very racist family, and I dated a black woman all through college. When the relationship started getting serious, I finally came out to my parents. My mother was disappointed at first and came around, but my father never spoke to me again - even to this day. It would have been great if the relationship lasted...but now I have no father or wife. It get's better? Hmm...not for everyone.
oggyreidmore that's horrible, and i know you only have one family, but regardless of whether the relationship lasted or not, if you judge someone for the colour of their skin that makes you a horrible person, full stop. If your dad can't love you because of who you love, then he is the one with the problem, not you or your girlfriend.
oggyreidmore I love that you used the "come out" in different situation. People should know, that everyone should be respected for who they love, who they are and what they do (you know..if they're not serial killer or something) and this doesn't always mean LGBT+. You can come out as someone in love with black girl, or as muslim, or as DJ, or as someone having third nipple.
What happend to you shouldn't even exist, but you need to know, that you are much better than your father and the fact, that he didn't "teach" you his racism, makes you strong person. You don't need him. Sorry for the brake-up, however a good person like you will find the one in a minute. stay strong
ojideagu unfortunately, but that doesn't really solve his situation.
Not quite the same thing, but I think you get it well enough.
I wish I had a girlfriend ;(
SpiderProxy same
Arch Cee Same here
Can relate
Arch Cee Same
Same
all of these little short films are so cute. i love buzzfeed.
Ikr I just love it
Agreed~ :)
***** stfu
***** this was such a heart filled comment that nothing but help BuzzFeed and encourage them to make more pro-homosexual videos. There is no reason for you to spread hate.
I love them too
Just be yourself and love who ever the hell you love.
Shawnie Ellis Thanks for not being uneducated like 90% of people in the comments section
Shawnie Ellis I love you for leaving that comment
Shawnie Ellis THANKS YOU ARE NICE
Thanks for the love peeps, seriously life is short and unexpected. I want to spend my time loving and being loved and sharing love.
I show all love to you for being the nicest person on this comment chat #allhumansbenicetoeachother #love #makeanicerworld
I'm afraid I'll never be able to come out :/
+rebelgirlHannah 13 You don't have to come out... other people also don't say "I'm heterosexual so don't judge"
I thought I will never come out but I did. It felt like a good relief
It's okay I came out you'll be fine if they're your parents they will accept you.
Sadly, its not always like this. My girlfriend came out to her parents way before we got together. Even then her father was everything but accepting and as she told them we were together he started ignoring her for days and forced her to "break up" with me.
rebelgirlHannah 13 same here :/
I did not understand that argument at all 😂
Because if they do their parents might never let them alone in fear of them bein teens
@@vicjones3670 I agree
Ok I get it buzzfeed you want us all to be gay...
You dont "become gay" You were Born That Way, like Lady Gaga said!
Tove Lo
false :/ they use that as an excuse to say that if I now like a girl, that i was obviously born that way. being born gay is an excuse
douwe van randwijck
she hasnt said that cus she blows it out of her ass to TRY and make a point, but hurts her argument more
douwe van randwijck She literally has a whole album named "Born This Way" about self love and accepting who you are.
Tove Lo
that song is about loving your body :/ not being ok with gay.
Anyone else waiting for the homophobic comments?
:]
Tits.
Yeah
Reason i clicked on the video haha
Hahhaha don't even have to wait, so many quick to hate
That actually is the best reason to stay in the closet.
I. Agree
I'm not gonna lie, I was expecting the mother to already know.
LETS MAKE A GUY VERSION WITH EUGENE
Uhhhh.. Guy who replied above me... A woman posted this
Calm down, it's not that serious
OMG YASS
YASSSSSS
Jonghyun Kim I will tell Kibum what you are suggesting!
How do I come out of the closet? My parents think I'm gay but I'm straight :(
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just like Zorak, you are doing it wrong.
Toa Onua Holy shit I understand you. I do all those like "woman stuff" but I ain't no like cock! I act gay-y but I'm not...
That's not how it works...
candyman0002
they could always walk in on him doing it.
Toa Onua Just come home with a girlfriend. they will get the hint lol ;)
I'm bisexual, but everyone thinks I'm straight because I'm dating a guy.
+Carlie Pool Yeah, that's the problem "If you're dating [Opposite Gender] then you must be straight!11!!11!". Don't worry, I'm sick of hearing it too.
Carlie Mae I know the feeling
Carlie Mae bir tanem
Carlie Mae Same
Me 2. haha
this interracial couple gives me life
I'm so sick & tired of reading homophobic comments on a video that clearly mentions gays...you chose to click on the video & if you can't deal with a couple of the same sex, here's an idea, DONT WATCH IT. It's literally so simple. Quit commenting shitty things on perfectly great videos because you don't like the content, just don't watch it. Buzzfeed isn't "shoving gay down our throughs" or "promoting a gay agenda", they're incorporating a normal sexual preference into their channel, something all media outlets & tv should be trying to do...but I digress. Anyway, just keep your ignorant & homophobic comments off these videos, thanks! xoxo
C heart LOL you're cute. Pretending it isn't normal. *ruffles your hair*
Pick up a biology or animal-related science textbook, it won't take you long to find something saying that all species of creatures have been in same sex relationships since the beginning of recorded history.
Phantomhive animals and humans also kill each other and animals have engaged in incest, doesntmake it normal..weirdo
C heart Killing - You are not born with a craving to kill people.
Incest - What is really wrong with it? What if they are both 18 and are being fully consensual? I am pretty sure the only real harm to it is that it increases the odds of certain diseases happening, much like with pure bred dogs.
And yes, I am a weirdo. That has nothing to do with homosexuality, though.
Phantomhive yeah, bye you just said incest is okay..
C heart I said consensual sex is okay. I know, two adults having consensual sex is so gross, right? Bye, have a wonderful homophobic life!
Why don't they just make BuzzFeed rainbow and keep entertaining content on here?
Edit - Sorry guys, guess I'm unable to voice my opinion. For a community who consider themselves open-minded and all accepting you sure don't accept my opinion.
Stop complaining. You chose to watch it
Boo hoo, gay people exist. There's nothing you can do about it. You can either sit there complaining about it, or get outside and do something to take your mind off it. The second option would be more enjoyable for everyone. Sorry for being so blunt, but that's just the way I am usually, and I am so done with homophobic people spreading their lies and nonsense over the internet. Okay? Okay.
Orcchii I don't think he was complaining exactly, he said entertaining. And I think that might be good too, like, maybe we could be free of the homophobic comments? Yeah I know, probably not, but at least there wouldn't be this much hopefully.
I don't know why people are offended by his comment. I would totally like to see Buzzfeed rainbow. It's not that it's segregated it is a place for LGBT members to find content that helps us or entertains us. I think it's a great idea.
Instead of complaining about videos including homosexual people, go complain about straight people. Seriously, ignoramus.
Me and my gf tbh. We were friends for a while but we found out we liked each other and started going out during a sleepover
Luv her sooooooo much 😙
I want this to be my best friend
literally that's how me and my gf got together too
Aww that’s so cute
Artistix fangirl
Why is this me?
my mom didnt believe me because im too young (because apparently 14 year olds have no opinions)
ALLISON DERPLA or that you're too young to know your sexuality unless it's straight.
ALLISON DERPLA my mom said that I know by now and I do I'm into girls and only girls I just don't have a gf so that sucks
+Kiona Paul-Dedam Uh. No? You're wrong..
- I Lie To Myself - I think she was being sarcastic...
+Mello Definitely not. That was quite... Hmm... Out there? I don't know how to describe it but it was not sarcasm.
Thank god I'm not gay. It seems so stressful and traumatizing to come out of the closet. Not saying that being gay is bad, I think whoever comes out of the closet are strong individuals.
***** I bet it is.
***** Ehh, depends on your friends. Like, my friends make pansexual jokes all the time and jokingly try to keep me away from the drawer in their kitchen with all the pots and pans in it.
But they are doing it to show me that it is not a bad thing to them and they are just trying to make me smile instead of feeling guilty or worried about it.
Yeah I mean, you just have to read some of these coments here and you already know what will come up to you for the rest of your life :(
Ignore the haters. Love who you want to love, as cheesy as this sounds "love can make the world go round".
Oh my god this is the cutest thing!
Is your contact photo kitten Cas?
laurenisahippogriff I think it is! Also, May The Fangirling Killjoy, I see you like MCR. Good choice!
laurenisahippogriff it is! :3
Percy Prior-Everdeen yeah thanks it's one of my favourite bands! :D
IT IS! JUST LIKE KITTEN CAS ! ITS SO KAWAII
Thanks ^~^
I want to see the story end!!!
yeah this was too cute
I think that ... was the ending?
Okay, guys.
Your parents are not entitled to know your sexuality. That alone is your decision, but they're not entitled to have that information. Sometimes it's nice to still be in the closet.
+Micael Vertureoay actually they are because they pay the bills and buy all your stuff and food. if you were an adult not living with them then thats different
Micael Vertureoay then you can get out the house and pay your own damn bills...
ObitoTHEwraith And how is *that* a solution?
My original statement had mean to say that you shouldn't feel pressured into coming out--especially by figures who make you feel unsafe telling them that, if that hadn't been obvious.
Micael Vertureoay that has nothing to do with what i said nor what you said. you said its you dont have to tell your parents if you dont want to i said if youre living under their roof eating their food and using up their resources for free then yes you owe it to them to be honest to them at the least. otherwise you can get your own place it can be done before you get out of highschool
ObitoTHEwraith My being their child does not require me to disclose information that might make people HURT me. That I might get beaten up because my parents are homophobic. Why should I disclose information to people I deem unsafe to be disclosing about?
Why is the fact that I'm their child relevant to my anxiety about my own safety?
Easier said than done.
Please make a video that has a bisexual in it!!! No one wants to talk about us. Bisexuality is a real sexual orientation and it should be showed on buzzfeed too. Also I'm sure all the transgender, transsexual, asexual, pansexual, genderfluid people would like some representation too. I know it's a lot but keep it in mind. I really appreciate all of your videos about the LGBT community. It's nice to not feel alone.
and how would you go about doing that exactly? don't get me wrong i'm bisexual as well but making something showing someone as bisexual would rather be hard to do unless someone said it in a video straight out that they're bisexual. and as you said it is indeed alot and some of those would also be rather hard to represent unless again someone said it straight outright like asexual pansexual. genderfluid and transexual i could see happen.
Marie Levy They've made a few already if you just go through their videos :)
Seishin Being Bi is great, so many options and no pressure.
Marie Levy How I feel about being pansexual, though...
Marie Levy Bisexual ... always hit me like someone who goes to a smorgasbord and can't make up their mind.
Damn I gotta get myself a girlfriend. Haha
If I wasn't taken I'd offer lol
That's a shame! haha, lucky guy...
😂
Hi fellow lesbian?
You talking to me ?
I used to to the same thing. I always used to say" well I'll come out another time.the time isn't right" even though it was. I just started to make up scenes in my mind how it would go. My head went from - mom will scream and cry- to- she will kick me out of the house- to- she will never talk to me again.... so I was scared as hell.
When I finally came out my moms reaction was just amazing. She just said " I could never imagine to be with a women but if that is who you are it's great. I will not love you less." I started to cry and questioned myself why I waited so long to finally tell her. I love my mom
How did you tell your dad?
Well he pretty much found out by other people telling him, since I don't have the best relationship with him. He was the last person of my family and friends to know. So I don't know what his first reaction was. He seems to be okay with it though. And even if he didn't I could not care less
Dani KM awww!!! That’s so cute and awesome, congrats on coming out!!
Yeah, like your brain is the worst enemy
Wow that girl with the glasses was soooo pretty😍😍
*sees video name*
Well let's just scroll down in the comments and see how many idiots are hating on me and the rest of the lesbian community!
Cori The Demon Spawn cori you are literally on every video i see everywhere
XD
we has such a close relationship on the interwebs
yesh we do xD
Cori The Demon Spawn Same
cori....
I absolutely love lgbtq squad but it hurt me soo mad when my dad says he doesn't like it
You know what's ironic? On this video I got an Ad for Voting No in the Ireland Gay Marriage Referendum.....
no I won't vote no
"VOTE NO TO
THE GAY"
That's RUclips working it's magic, someone in RUclips put that ad in to an audience that will most likely vote yes, because RUclips didn't like what the ad was for.
i like how they never folded the clothes
the darks not taking prisoners tonight
Lila Herdman ODE TO SLEEP!
yesss
I swear I will like this.
Remember you swore.
Internet explorer user here -_-
I liked it...
Then unliked it...
I don't have to like the comment. I swore I would like it (ex. I like candy) so it just means I like it.
Fucking hell make some damn bisexual videos! We exist too!
***** oh shut up they were saying they would just like to see it and i agree
***** They did for the LGBT tho..
They have made a couple bisexual-specific videos :0 also, either one of these characters could have been bi o.o
They have
Choro Gaming They have made quite a few.
THEY KISSED IN FRONT OF A CLOSET THATS BIZZAR
Temper Lol.
Lol. Her name is Maggie too. This is a cute video. I'm bisexual, personally though.
Maggie Wright yeah, maggies are cool😏😎
Me too
Maggie Wright ....hey Maggie..
Prity Biswas me too
Hi maggie
if i was a lesbian i'd definitely want the zack attack to be my fake boyfriend
I can't even f-ing
Get a bf how the f can I get a girl lmao
And plus I'm 13 😂
This sad life....can't even come out to my parents cuz I'm scared they'll disown me....
Nina Brown i go to a christian school
+Dinamite RockinX me too
Ccamila Jaureguii ;-; this sad life
hope u find someone :)
I have the same exact problem
And I'm 13 too
I love this! The beginning was a twist XD
This was so well done, I’m tearing up thinking of how wonderful all the recent changes have been. You never could have seen such wonderful things on mainstream media even 10 years ago. It’s so beautiful
Seriously.. Again BuzzFeed?
Yes.
Seriously? Again bigots?
Oh boo hoo gay people exist,
Jayme No JAJAJAJAJAJAJAJAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!
trey daniels Im not sure what that meant
Part 2? 💕
No please no! Don't do this to me Lana. I freaking love you!
THANK YOU AHH YES THERE NEEDS TO BE ONE
That would be so awesome!
***** Hell yes!*
I'd really like them to continue this video series
(This comment is in regards to all of the comments from people who were offended)
I'm just curious why people watch this video if they are uncomfortable with people who are same sex oriented....? Like I would understand if the video thumbnail had no clues or if the description didn't have any clues to what the topic was, but really? The thumbnail is of two girls kissing and the title of the video is "What if we stayed in the closet?" Which is a pretty obvious indicator that the couple in the video is not straight.... Someone please help me understand, if you are offended by same sex couples why did you watch, do you like spreading hateful comments or did you just not believe that they'd be lesbians??? Someone who was offended by the video please explain this one to me, I'm actually really curious why you watched?
IM CRYING THIS IS ADORABLE
I'am gay, ive never told anyone and i cant belive im saying this in a buzzfeed comment
Even harder is coming out as the lesser known sexualities and romantic orientations. Asexual, Pansexual, demisexual, lithromantic, aromantic..
This list goes on forever
***** Feel ya there
***** TRUUUUUUUUEEE
my mother jokes all the time and asks "are you a lesbian?" (i s2g she's asked that at least six times at this point) and i'm always like no.... -~internal conflicts bc how to explain pansexuality??~ but oh well i already tipped off her gaydar so... if i ever do need to actually come out, it's just the explanation i'm dreading
AwesomeBrickSauce there's a large debate about what pansexuality is compared to bisexuality (because some pansexuals see their sexuality different from others and it gets really confusing between the two to others), but it basically means your attraction to someone isn't entirely dependent on gender -often known as "gender blind". Bisexuality is attraction to two genders, male and female, although sexuality is fluid and some bisexuals may stray from that. Pansexuality, with pan meaning "all", kind of sees gender as irrelevant. Well, that's not really the right word to describe it, but pansexual people can fall in love with anyone regardless of their gender identity (so male, female, genderfluid, agender, etc)
CELLY M demisexual isnt a fucking thing stop treating it like it is and trying to take away from others. jesus fucking christ.
PLEASE MAKE MORE VIDEOS LIKE THIS!!! THERE SHOULD BE A TV SHOW FROM THIS VIDEO 😭😫💞
buzzfeed make more of these kinds of videos i love them
"Hey don't hate."lol
So how exactly does one tell there slightly homophobic Christian friend that their bi without entirely wrecking the friendship?...I'm open to suggestions I'm seriously thinking of staying closeted because I don't want to have my friends thinking every time I hug them "OH MY GOD WAS THAT A SEXUAL HUG" ...but I feal like I'm lying to myself. I've known I'm bi for 2 years and said nothing... is it better to leave it that way or say something.
Emily Byrne I came out as pan to a slightly homophobic friend without realising she was and it was kinda awkward but she warmed up to it so I would say just go for it their bit worth your time of they don't like you as a person anymore 😀
Emily Byrne i came out as gay to my Christian friend and she didn't accept me at all the worst part is we had been friends for 7 years..
and we stopped hanging out i found new friends though and to be honest i am so much happier because i am being honest with myself and i don't have to hide who i am. i know you might be scared to come out but you need to and if she doesn't accept you she is not a true friend and you shouldn't be hanging around people like that. if she really loved you and was your friend she wouldn't let who you're dating to get in the way.
The prehistoricbunny thank you
Emily Byrne no problem just do what you think is right
Emily Byrne if she doesn't respect you, she's not worthy of your time 😘
I can out as lesbian to my parents and I got kicked out of my house. I was 18.
Kate Marsh are you okay now?
ooh parent can be very harsh
omg hope u are ok
That prom thing could've been easily figured out, I didn't go w/the girl I had feelings for but I went w/a girl I thought was cute and just said we had nobody else to go with. Which was true but I still went with a cute girl, going to prom w/friends or a supposed "friend" still works.
Chanay Please i went with my friend
it's so hard to get a girlfriend + this video is my goals in life okay?
same
+Vianna Moody same here :3
hiii
Hello
My mom came in right when they were making out. Thanks buzzfeed!
Sadly this doesn't happen to me with pretty girls. only with my neighbor old lady...
Kakashi Hatake 😂
Kakashi of the sharingan
lmao
THANK YOU!!!! These short are phenom!!!!
My mom straight up has said that if I ever say I like girls then I'm deceived. Guess what. I like girls. I'm bisexual. But the option is not there for me to come out. She absolutely will think it's me being deceived and will kick me out and I'll lose everything.
this is your life u choose what you want to do
What I suggest is wait until you have somewhere safe to be and you're able to live before you come out to her.
Such a good video . Thank you Buzzfeed :-)
How I knew I was gay
See's a guy and girl kissing- 🤢
See's lesbian's kissing- 🤩❤️
Buzzfeed did an amazing job realizing a common situations that occurs in a lot of people's life's that go unnoticed.
I can't be the only one who wants this to be a recurring series on buzzfeed.
I can't believe how far they drifted with promoting gay couples. ''Lez Be friends''? Seriously?!
In Total Violation of confusing little Children
Master Diamond Delores126
What Does That Mean?
Gays make up 2% of the population but about 75% of buzzfeed video topics
Hmmm, more likely 10%. But what's your point?
Actually almost 25% of people are lgbt+
Corrie Sachs That's what I believe, but people aren't ready to accept that yet. They're still getting their head around 10%.
What about bisexuals/pansexuals , asexuals/demisexuals , aromantics , transgender , people that are genderfluid and so many other groups that I don't have time to list. Don't they bring the lgbt+ population up a little ? Maybe even your percentage of gay people is off .
Let's not forget the Q ;)
This is the most accurate thing I've seen on Buzzfeed.
make this a series!
I usually keep my opinions on gays to myself because the argument would go on forever, but 2 fine ass girls kissing? HOW CAN YOU HATE ON THAT?! lmao
You're a hypocrite aren't you?
What you mean?
rofl nahhhhh.Thats not it at all.
Aw this was cute! ^_^
I don't think anyone should be pressured to stay in or come out of the closet; whatever you feel is most comfortable for you.
Love everything about this video!!! From beginning to end!!! Make more!!!!!!!!!!!!
The orange is the new black reference gave me lifeeeeeee
i'm seriously in love with the girl in the grey top
literally my gf and I though 😂😂😂
how old are you
Why do you care???¿¿¿
+Amanda Old enough to be fabulous AF.
Ashton Hornbeck SLAY
Lølly Høwlter No seriously though how old are you
I really really like this video. I haven't "come out" yet but this makes me feel 200 times better about waiting.
The "Lez Be Friends" thing at the end just made me completely lose it XD
Just make a BuzzFeed gay and keep all your crap there
Or don't click on a video which clearly has two lesbians kissing in the thumbnail.
That would be discrimination stupid
ChocLactic Gamer because segregation worked out so well in the past...
Sam Booth
They're gays. strait people don't like seeing that kind of stuff.
Actually segregation worked out beautifully.
And I have to complains:
1. The thumbnail kinda spoils the video...
2. They don't show what happens next! I want a part 2! Preferably uncensored!
You know you should totally do a small serie !!!
1:45 "Oh sh*t someones coming!"
girl with glasses:What are we gonna do!?
other girl: I'll jump on my bed, good thing I run everyday!
ZACH ATTACK
mina maria HE HAS RETURNED.
THE COFFEE SHOP GUY REALLY DID REWRITE HISTORY.
This made my day!
You two are so adorable. It just melts my heart to see this.
That escalated so quickly