Matthew Perry: "Reality Is An Acquired Taste" | Real Time with Bill Maher (HBO)
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- Опубликовано: 17 ноя 2022
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Actor, comedian, and author Matthew Perry joins Bill to discuss his best-selling memoir, "Friends, Lovers, and the Big Terrible Thing."
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Poignant to be watching this clip at this particular time. He disclosed himself so honestly. Remember thinking that he had this underrated type of wisdom about him. Rest in Peace Matthew Perry. You've left an indelible mark on this world
Bill talking about the dead pool makes this kinda creepy, he didn't sound very healthy here either
@@SnoopyReadsyes, well, it was acknowledged in his diane sawyer interview that the effects of what he'd been through had taken a toll on his voice & speech. And after his colon exploded from opioid abuse/being in a coma for 2wks and in the hospital for 5mths, he really never looked OR sounded like the same Matthew anymore. But as long as he was sober & finally doing well - that's what mattered. I'm so happy he was. A lot of damage was done to his organs though. So sad after all he'd survived and finally being secure in sobriety he drowned. Hot tubs can be too much for all kinds of conditions. He also had COPD. Ppl really need to be careful. I wish he hadn't been alone. 💔
Also the dead pool thing, yeah creepy. But ppl around him thought he'd die along time ago. Even himself. 😢😢😢
“Reality is an acquired taste”… as someone who has struggled with depression and addiction, this really hit home. RIP Matthew. This one really hurts
One of the saddest moments in the documentary of the singer Amy Winehouse came after she had won the coveted Record of the Year Grammy in 2008 (beating pop heavyweights like Beyonce). After her initial shock at the announcement, she remarked to a childhood friend, "this is so boring without drugs." So sad.
It doesn't get better
R.I.P. His book is a must-read. It's harrowing that someone enjoying so much success still had such a void inside him.
Fame and wealth only amplify what’s inside you already. What makes people happy is relationships and experiences and exploring interests and enjoying hobbies and pastimes and giving back to others.
@@thealternative9580 Yes, completely agree.
@@thealternative9580well he had all that too…it was the evil addictions that didn’t let him enjoy that
I'm thankful this interview is the last notable thing I remember of him. I hope he was still in this state when he passed. I thank God he left his mark, gave us joy and taught us lessons. I hope he's in a better place and he's truly at peace now.
I really really like his openness here. That's so important to tell the real story of what happened, and obviously he was doing that. Talking about stealing medicine from the open houses and such. People need to comprehend the grip it has on US.
I am agnostic but I agree with you. If there is a place known as heaven I truly hope he is there
"Reality is an acquired taste"...no truer words have ever been spoken
Especially by a male
Not really appropriate after this interview, but f*** it - cheers 🍻.
I'm going to try and remember that statement. Fits for lots of shit fting sands the day we're in. Many many people found themselves going from ruptured discs to bankruptcy and addicted homelessness. Many the morgue. Lot's of shattered dreams, broken hearts and fractured families. Just hearing 50 + a day, my brain goes... Oh , those first few hours of relief. From near non stop, excruciating pain, to a tremendous temporary... comfortable relief !
Glad there were good friends... Close. Humor eases the pain and struggle. Keep on trucking dude 😎 💙🕊️
There's a push out now, for making Narcan available over the counter. I'm for that ! Add that to the standard home, school etc, emergency kit, medicine cabinet. Wherever there's a defibrillator.. Narcan. Save lives. Great interview. Message there. Be well people.
Very true. Still trying to get it down personally, has a bitter after taste.
Yes, there is so much packed in such a short concise statement.
I'm so sad to hear of Matthew's passing. My first thought upon hearing the news was of this conversation. Bill later said during this interview that he believed Matthew's greatest work was still ahead of him. That was such moving thing to say, and I'm so glad Matthew was able to hear such an amazing compliment before he passed.
Yes!! I am trying to comfort myself believing that his work on earth is complete.♥️
Yes my 1st thought was this interview!
He is at peace in the presence of the Lord and waiting for the multitudes he helped through his vulnerability and transparency.
This is my favourite recent interview of Matthew. The spark was back and he had that twinkle in his eye.
I’ve just read an interview with Matthew’s pickleball coach and he said Matthew was in a good place, was happy etc. So it does seem this was a tragic accident.
Never met or knew him but feel immense sadness that Matthew is no longer with us. Sleep well Matthew.
Yes, I wanted him to survive. He was on my list of people I was rooting for to make it, and make a name for himself as a person who inspires recovery (and provides it).
“A lot of people had you in the dead pool”…. While he wasn’t wrong, what an eerily foreboding way to have phrased that sentiment.
It’s shocking someone so alive and vibrant and present minded is gone now. RIP Matthew you have left an indelible legacy.
I was thinking the same
I am stunned. This is the last interview I saw him in. He seemed at peace. What a freaking tragedy. I am simply stunned.
Same. 😢
He had it all , a hit tv show , big pay check , handsome as hell , intelligent still something was lacking and he fought like hell to “get it” if I saw “ Friends” it was because of him I just thought he was so handsome but the greater power saw him in so much pain , he took him gently , yes we are going to miss him dearly and he still had so much to give , offer , so talented funny but the missing “ thing” in his life simply wasn’t there and you cant go on without it. Rest In Peace Matthew my gorgeous Matthew who I will miss terribly,fought like hell but a higher being took you from your horrific struggles now you rest my love , you rest and hopefully your at peace RIP dearest one my “ prince of a man”.
Rest in peace. Such tragic news. Prayers for his family and friends.
He's a very nice and sweet man who simply was a victim of a severe and very misunderstood disease. I think he gave his recovery all that he was able to. He gave happiness and hope to others, but never truly received it himself.
I'm so glad we got to see the Friends reunion. It's very sad about Matthew Perrys death, but over 30 years of substance abuse obviously took a big toll on his body.
55 hydrocodone a day, that's a SHIT LOAD of Tylenol. That's over 5 times the daily amount allowed. I'm sure it wrecked his kidneys and liver.
@@pnut3844ableone pill is already too much 😢
The moment he said "You dont have any on you do ya?" LOOKED EXACTLY LIKE FRIENDS his mannerisms and everything just looked straight out of the show damn Im happy he is still kickin.
Yeah, it was like he went right into character there. lol!
That was exactly Chandler.
had to go back and watch but yeah your right lol
"First of all, I'm glad you're here."is a great statement to you Matthew Perry ! God bless you. You are strong and you should be proud. Pushes me a little further.
Man reading these things hurts a lot know
RIP Matt. Friends was my childhood and you were one of my favorites.
People who dedicate their lives to making other people laugh are truly special, rest in peace Matthew and thank you for the happiness you brought to so many.
"A lot of people had you in the DEAD POOL" - Bill Maher was prophetic 😮😮😮😮
I gasped when I heard that.
This morning I woke up and saw Matthew Perry was trending on Twitter. I didn't know why, I never imagined that we were gonna lose him so early. And since this morning I feel awful like ı lost one of my friends. And wrote a tweet about how special he was to me and then some guys made fun of me because I was really sad about his death and he was nothing to them. I don't know maybe it's weird to feel so sad about his death but this guy was very special to me. I just wanna hug someone who loves him as much as I do. RIP Matthew and RIP Chandler.
Well fuck those guys. Matthew Perry was a gifted comedian, I always loved Chandler and my sarcasm and humour was inspired by him. A sorry day for many people, and just another day for others. That's how it is.
Man people can be so cruel. The truth is tho, more people wanna hug you than ridicule you for your admission.
It's not weird. I have been terribly for the past 8 months because Matthew Perry died😢
Reality is an acquired taste. I totally agree with you Matthew.
Glad to see Matthew in decent health, good spirits and so articulate.
Could you BE any more right? 😉
@@Ze_Moose could he be any more hotter?
@@lampheungkhatiya7637 🤣🤣🤣
thats what age does to you
He looked BAD not too long ago. He's really cleaned himself up and looks well.
I am a happy he is sober and still with us. I hope he keeps up that strength.
We love him, but he does not look sober to me......
@@tubester4567 He is sober...
He has that depressed look when an
alcoholic quits drinking. Life is just not
fun anymore without the booze or
chemicals.
@@tubester4567 RN here. He looks and speaks like someone recovering from brain injury sustained during his extensive hospitalization. Wouldn't be surprised if he's had a cerebral vascular accident, aka a stroke.
@@plaidpanda My wife said the same thing. She also mentioned how swollen he is and he may have congestive heart failure.
@@tubester4567 wtf ever go troll somewhere else
He at least did a major job by putting a smile to million faces for so long. That is a great gift to humanity. RIP.
It’s all anyone can hope for isn’t it? To make people in your life smile in whatever way that may be. Matthew had the opportunity that nearly all of us won’t get, through a successful tv show, to achieve that with many people throughout the world. Cheers for the laughs and smile, Rest easy.
"Chandler just stole drugs from my medicine cabinet?" Such a good line
The people that makes us laugh, i really like to know them when no ones looking at them.
Could he have stolen _any_ more drugs?
It would've been an honor.
Yeah hilarious. How violated would you feel if some rando stole from your open house?
@@super8mate We're all joking in here, but go ahead, let's hear what happened to you. Don't get mad if we laugh in response though. Like I said, we were all joking in here.
Absolutely loved Friends growing up and breaks my heart to see all he's been through. Glad to see he can look back and talk about his experience. Hopefully he can help others avoid some of the mistakes he's made
It's a chic show
@@troll-fx2zc Well, truth be told 90 % of
all TV are. " Chic' shows.
"Chics are the people who buy what
is advertised on TV AND all other media.
@@troll-fx2zc Agreed... I found it trés chic.
That's how it works.
Bill Maher straddles the Line with joking about something so serious. But atleast he showed compassion too. RIP Matthew. ❤
He's a psychopath that uses the title "comedian" to justify his psychopathic behavior.
My entire working career was in medicine, and I realized many years ago just what Bill said…..that the human body/mind is so fragile, yet at the same time can go through so much and yet survive. That has always amazed me
When Mattew Perry mentioned to Bill that he believes in a higher power notice that Bill did not ridicule him as he would otherwise if a politician would have said the same thing. Instead, he respectfully acknowledges Perry's beliefs. Bill problems is how certain politicians want to impose their beliefs on us. I am glad that I had this opportunity to watch this clip. Matthew Perry has entertained me since I was a child. I will miss him.
Credit to Matt. What Bill said to him was eloquent, “Everybody is glad you’re here.” Totally true 💯 We’re rooting for u, Matty!! 🙏🏼
Ironic after the comments Perry made about being not so glad Keanu Reeves is still here, in his book, twice .. lol
@@mofishin2648 Don't you think it was goodnatured admission of jealousy? Perry always joked like that ...
@@musicformonsters Suggesting Keanu should be dead instead of River Phoenix and Heath Ledger is a good-natured admission of jealousy? ..What? lol
@@mofishin2648 uh? What's that about?
@@renobutters From the book he is promoting
After his colon explosion and he was the only one on the machine who survived - he was given a couple of extra years to do the following : stay in recovery, live one day at a time clean and sober, see his family, carry the message of recovery, write a compelling book which is his legacy and then…..gone. Matthew did great work, he completed everything he set out to do. Well done! He will continue to carry the message from the other side.
Rest in peace, Matthew.
✨🙏✨
Reminds me of Carrie Fisher
Matthew your free, we miss you, thank you for being “you”. Amen 👣❤️🙏💔
RIP Matthew Perry :( this interview really hits hard
If you don't know addiction, you will never relate. He didn't die from drugs, he died because he had no good friends.
It’s amazing he is so honest and open about his struggles and road to recovery. God bless this man. He’s going to help so many others!
I’m so glad he doing well… social media has painted him in such a poor light for awhile I felt awful for him but he seems happy so I feel better
Poor matthew and his millions of dollars and lavish lifestyle of sex with thousands of women and ability to do literally anything he wants.
@@ridiculouslycoolguy it’s hard for people to understand but none of those things make you happy once you’ve become accustomed to it… it’s kind of like a relationship with someone at first it’s great but then you start to take it for granted…
It's sad, but true. Addiction is not pretty.
Neither is suicide
@@toriless Heck :: life is not that
" pretty ". There are lots of sharp edges.
Hi Bill, “I’m waiting for the Man” is by The Velvet Underground” by Lou Reed, 1967, and not David. Not being a pedant, just a huge fan (still!) of The Velvet Underground & Nico. The Velvet Underground’s ‘I’m Waiting For The Man’ was a key influence on David Bowie. He performed it numerous times, both live and in the studio.
Thank you Kostana! I thought I was the only one that caught that. David did some great versions of that song (including Live Santa Monica 1972), but that is a true Lou Reed and the Velvet Underground classic.
It bothered me too!
@@christopherpike8552 I think Bill Maher believes that's a Bowie song; he knows his current events, but he's not the most knowledgeable rock fan.
But Bowie does do a fantastic version of Waiting For the Man off the album Bowie At The Beeb- performances at the BBC from 1968-1972. This version also features the Spiders (as in Mick Ronson!); I love it.
@@markb20 It did occur to me that David Bowie might have a version. After all, they worked together on Transformer. I thought Mick Ronson was really good playing with The Rolling Thunder Review. All of these Americana musicians and then there's this Brit playing a big part of the sound.
@@markb20 well, he’s ‘young’ and I’m a tad more mature, hence know about it 😉
One of, if not the only guest to say he's got a close relationship with God on this show and get cheers for it. And respect from Bill Maher as well.
I still can't believe he's gone
R.I.P. brother
I’m so happy he is with us still.
Breaks my heart to come back and watch this. Rest in peace Matthew… 🙏
So glad this man is still with us. Friends was my childhood obsession and Chandler my favourite of all. It’s great to see Matthew back to his talented and healthy self
Not anymore.
I'm so sorry, bro
Rip
This didn't age not even a year
Devastated for his loved ones
RIP MATTHEW PERRY, you'll be missed GOD BLESS YOU, thank you for making the world a better place
He needed to go through what he went through and he needed to sober up to write that book. It will surely save many lives. Once his mission was complete, he could go.
RIP Matthew Perry. You were funny, charismatic, and gracious in your acting roles. I wish you had an easier life. Thank you.
OMG, why am I just falling in love with him now? His level of self-awareness and insight are disarming, and his humor is just brilliant. Heartbreaking that this was just a year ago. Rest in peace our Chanandler Bong. ❤️
Reality is not for the faint of heart.
God! I fucking love this man! So glad you are still here mate. PS. Hands-down funniest friend, not even close.
As someone still fighting the battle with opioid addiction, I can relate to many of Matthew's stories and demons. And also to Bill's reference of "Waiting For the Man", the classic song about waiting for your dealer, as much a prisoner as a customer. (Btw, it's a Lou Reed/Velvet Underground song, though Bowie did some great versions).
I wish you success.
@@Aquamarine325 Appreciate it, thanks
I wish you success, brother. I struggle everyday (my vice is alcohol). A new day is one Im going to waste, or it it one Im going to live and thrive in. But you can do it, bud, I just have a feeling. Take it easy!
Mark, i know you can do this. I may not know you but i know you can beat this horrible disease. I was prescribed dilaudid and fentanyl for a myriad of reasons, in my teens. Obviously, not the best time to prescribe those meds. Everyone was taking oxy then and i thought i had found this magical drug in fentanyl… stupid me, it was the hardest time in my life and i had the help of MAT. People have opinions about methadone, but it’s the reason I’m alive. I’ll have 15 years on 12/8/22… I was written off by almost everyone & rightfully so. I don’t know where you are … but I work in Drug & Alcohol now. Let me know if you want resources… or maybe just to talk. It can be isolating, when you’re trying to get sober and all your friends are a part of the problem. I had to change a lot. Anyway, I’ve written too much. I just wish you well, friend ❤️🩹❤️🩹
Appreciate your perspective 💯 wishing you better days ahead 🌄
Rest easy Mr Perry 😢
He looked amazing here
“Deadpool” oofta.
Guess what Chandler, most of you fans are glad you are here and had the strength to deal with addiction. You are so not alone.💜
I watched his interview with Bill almost a year ago, I guess that's why it's hitting me a little hard.
“I’d go upstairs, to the medicine room…” lol
I loved Matthew in the movie "Numb". It's a little less known movie about a guy experiencing depersonalization. It hit home for me at the time, because I was kinda going through the same thing. I cherish that movie a lot to this day. He is a great actor and I can tell - a good person too.
I watched that movie to understand better what was going on with me, that was like 15 years ago... I never fully recovered but I am a lot better. He helped so much.
Oh man! I felt really bad for Matthew. He was such an amazing actor and a beloved person ❤
Loved seeing Matthew Perry. He’s the best from Friends & his movies. God Bless you. 🙏💙
He seems so well now, so happy for him and proud
I never watched friends but after his death watching his interviews he seems very thoughtful.
😢😢😢
This hurts a little more today. RIP Mr. Perry
Wow. Brutal honesty. RIP
Thank God, he’s one of the lucky ones to to be able to survive. Hopefully, others will be sav’d after hearing his plight.
Everybody makes choices. Some people have to suffer for their choices. I think Matthew would be excellent as a standup comedian. I hope he learned at depth from his suffering.
RIP Matthew Perry
Great to see Matthew Perry looking healthy and happy. So glad you made it!
Didn’t age well
2 people I love together . Mathew you showed regular people that life is fragile and resilience - and some times good luck as you chosen by nature, - are all we need. However, You did it. I’m absolutely glad you made it - Have you ever thought going to high schools to share the obscure part of that , the beginning, the middle and the difficult to get mentally out of it. I love you.👏🏻💛. artist are human people like regular ones. That crazy way to see them make them, sometimes, get out of the centre. They go through the same existential questions and dilemas and suddenly crowds of people - each of them like them . Dialogue with your daughters and sons. Always ➕
RIP Matthew
“The Deadpool” … Wow, the irony.
RIP MATTHEW PERRY 💔😭
Rest in Peace Matthew Perry.
Great line! Thank you for the medicine of laughter 😼
I am in Monterey Park 🌟💛✨️
Rest in Paeace my sweet Matman
Matthew Perry is going to live forever ❤
Wow…this comment is spooky.
WOW! Always was my favorite friend, RIP Mr. Perry.
I was never a Friends fan and never really got connected with the actors from the show, but I’m glad he has survived and is trying to be better… good luck 🍀
My father had a V-Fib heart attack (9.5% chance of survival on a good day) in the middle of nowhere and had a 45 minute Med Flight and beat the odds and was never once thankful for surviving to see his grandkids grow up. I understand his Survivors Guilt, PTSD and fight with Agent Orange exposure. It is good to see someone survive something like that and be thankful...
I was never a Friends fan either, but I love a survival story...great show tonight...George, Canada
@@Wolverines77 Maybe your dad would've been ok with dying after everything he'd been through. I'm sorry for him and anyone else whose had trauma thrust upon them and as his kid it must of affected you as well. I wish you the best.
May Matt rest in peace.He had a tough ride in life with drugs,I know how he felt I did too.3 years sober now.I hope his soul is finally at rest.
I appreciate Matthew Perry's honesty. To me, his best acting part was in *_The West Wing._* I wish they had kept him in that series for longer.
He truly is a great actor...he also made guest appearances and had a recurring role in The Good Wife where he played a corrupt politician, nothing like Chandler and didn't even think of Friends because his performance was amazing.
@@Kim-dm4yb I fell for him when he played Sandy on Growing Pains. Ironically his character dies from internal injuries after getting into a car accident after drinking. Carol visited Sandy in the hospital. The phone's ringing when she gets home and they tell her Sandy died from "those tricky injuries."
I thought of this interview almost immediately when I heard the news of his passing. So glad he was able to do this.
Damn, this one hurts. His sarcasm and delivery is impeccable.
That open house story is simultaneously the saddest and funniest shit I've ever heard. Matthew Perry is a genius level addict. Happy to see him heathly.
❤️💪👊
@@pekka75 Umm, go aid someone directly. That is what works.
@@kevinmunger1842 Say what?😳
this man single handedly inspired the comedic persona that governs my everyday thought and behavior. he's managed to dodge so many bullets and i'm glad he's still around. i hope he gets to use his legacy now to educate people to stay off the path he ran.
him and ted danson on becker for me.
So basically you’re admitting or being unfunny and untalented. Congrats
"I KNOW!"
You act like he did on the show? Bad choice. In real life, everyone would hate someone who was a negative sarcasmo 24/7. Go watch another show and pick someone else.
I don't think he dodged the bullets as much as he survived them.
He was ready to do such great things and would have lead so many to a greater path. Taken too soon, such a loss.
He did great things after Friends, Fools Rush In and the Whole Nine Yards...but his career was pretty much over
Rest in Peace Matthew Perry 🥀 🔥
Starting off with "a lotta people did have you in the dead pool"....goddamn, I honestly can't imagine how more literal those words could have been 😞
R.I.P Matthew
Awwww man …. MattMan😭💔
I was following Matthew's struggle for years now. Reflection on people and a deep sadness. I wish all his loved ones some closure.
R.i.p Matt.
Excellent interview Bill. I’m so glad Mathew Perry lived to see another day and is doing well that line that reality is an squired taste was priceless and true
Rip Matthew. Your sarcastism will never be forgotten. Thank you for making all of us laugh. 😢❤
Sad to watch this interview after his death 💔
This interview is so timely and I think that Matthew and his story are a testament to the reality of the human condition
Yeah, for sure. Definitely timely, with the epidemic. Billions being paid out by our pharmaceutical companies and dispensaries. But so many trips through recovery. Many people wouldn't survive that ! Always thankful and grateful for reminders ❤️🙏
God will be laughing with your Jokes Matt
Such an smart guy funny.Brilliant mind.
It seems that people who have everything, but everything, they want, end up doing drugs and having great chuckles about it....what a strange life this is...
What?
"I'm Waiting for the Man" was a Velvet Underground song, not a David Bowie song.
I was about to say this. Though there is a video of Bowie singing it onstage with Lou. Maybe that's the confusion.
Close enough for Rock ‘n’ Roll.
❤Matthew Perry❤
Oh my gosh, he was so fragile. That beautiful smile tho😢❤
Rest easy
Damn what a way to start the interview in retrospect. Maher was just 11 months off.
Wow...........had to go back considering today's news. Classic line: "Reality is an acquired taste." RIP Matthew!