Sister Wife Cast Members and TLC's Production Team Don't Like That Mykelti Has Found Her Voice

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  • Опубликовано: 23 авг 2024
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    First rule to Reality Tv, you must protect yourself because the production company is not going to. I wanted to take the time to address something that Mykelti brought up on her Patreon. According to Mykelti, as a child she had a rough relationship with Meri. When she mentioned this relationship she was told by TLC that the show Sister Wives is in jeopardy of being cancelled. This is a heavy lift anyone. Essentially, Mykelti was told to keep her mouth shut or her parents jobs would be terminated.
    Let's have the conversation.
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  • @laurenmaldonado6997
    @laurenmaldonado6997 8 месяцев назад +84

    It makes me think of how Kody asked the Mormon podcast guys if they could go back and edit something out (and they explained that it was a live show). Seemed like he was used to being able to do that.

    • @seameology
      @seameology 8 месяцев назад +11

      Right? He must run his mouth a lot, then regret it 😂🤣😅

    • @sansserif8839
      @sansserif8839 8 месяцев назад

      Kody is Special.

    • @kimberlym610
      @kimberlym610 8 месяцев назад +4

      That was so cringey when he asked that...on a live show...and I am so glad it was not edited out!

  • @DrofJustice
    @DrofJustice 8 месяцев назад +162

    K&R are the ones worried about the show being cancelled. They want Mykelti to zip it and she is super suggestible so they can tell her that TLC is gonna cancel if you keep yapping and she will believe it. Reality is that the show is coming to a natural conclusion and Kody has no marketable skills or true work experience. They are worried about their financial future in a way that the OG3 aren’t.

    • @catco8644
      @catco8644 8 месяцев назад +27

      You hit the nail on the head! I think Kody knows if the show goes so does Robyn! That’s how he got her in the first place she wanted to be on TV and was willing to do anything to get there!

    • @AshleahShortcake
      @AshleahShortcake 8 месяцев назад +30

      I completely agree, I HIGHLY doubt that TLC was talking about canceling the Brown's over allegations of Meri being "abusive" they're not even specific allegations, these kids can't even say what type of abuse it was. I think Robyn convinced Kody, the other wives and some of the kids that Meri was abusive. Ysabell lived with Meri, Gwen said Meri is "sweet" and all of Janelle's boys meet up with Mary for dinner and hang out with her, she can't be that bad.

    • @IndigoBellyDance
      @IndigoBellyDance 8 месяцев назад +16

      Robyn Nor Kody have Any good work skills 😂😂😂😂

    • @mollyc9038
      @mollyc9038 8 месяцев назад +6

      @@IndigoBellyDanceRobin does think about it please her best customer 😂😂😂

    • @IndigoBellyDance
      @IndigoBellyDance 8 месяцев назад

      @@mollyc9038 hahahaha Ok she does have a business and it has made her more $$ than me! I should be taking lessons, No one has bought me a million dollar house +land yet

  • @hpp867
    @hpp867 8 месяцев назад +15

    Does anyone remember the olden days when TLC started as The Learning Channel? It's a looooong way from there now.

    • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
      @stop_and_smell_the_roses 8 месяцев назад

      haha. It's a Learn What Not To Do channel.

    • @Genna01
      @Genna01 8 месяцев назад

      A total disaster of a channel,not worth watching any more

  • @ellenpapuga7469
    @ellenpapuga7469 8 месяцев назад +46

    Film crews on these shows should be mandated reporters when you think about it. They are in unique positions to see families for long periods of time in various environments including their homes. If they see signs of abuse they should be mandated to report it.

    • @user-qf2sj3dm6e
      @user-qf2sj3dm6e 8 месяцев назад +7

      They won't. Ratings and money are most important at the end of the day.

    • @autumnfeldpausch5539
      @autumnfeldpausch5539 8 месяцев назад +4

      They surely should. Public school employees are required and they’re not involved to the level as these tv crews are. A person who is a witness to possible abuse, murder, kidnapping, any crime is held accountable for reporting. If they refuse they’ll charged for it and possibly jailed for it.

    • @lp7857
      @lp7857 8 месяцев назад +7

      Yes. I have often thought that TLC needs to be held accountable for allowing, and maybe even contributing to, abuse.

    • @ellenpapuga7469
      @ellenpapuga7469 8 месяцев назад

      @@user-qf2sj3dm6e if you make them legally required, they have to. They face jail time if they don't.

    • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
      @stop_and_smell_the_roses 8 месяцев назад +2

      I agree. *I just watched footage of Robem kicking the dogs head to move it out of her way.* Robem has reached new lows, even for her. Allegedly she has done this twice to the same dog, with footage each time. Footage is on the channel, Down the Rabbit Hole at Bedtime, show called 3.New Sister Wives Footage: Robyn is Selfless Queen. I'm an animal lover and this is unexcusable. TLC does nothing about abuse, so could we get her charged for cruelty abuse to an animal 2x. If she's doing this in public, what's she doing in private? That dog should be removed from their custody. I can't begin to speculate why she would do this, unless it's K's dog and R is jealous of anyone or anything that gets in the way of devotion toward herself. James, could you please address this serious issue?

  • @kristinesharp6286
    @kristinesharp6286 8 месяцев назад +24

    Kody wanted TLC to sue kids that spoke bad about him. Why not bad about anyone? The man who talks bad about everyone.

    • @smlorrin
      @smlorrin 8 месяцев назад +6

      Yeah, that was unbelievably disgusting.

  • @catherinekeller7938
    @catherinekeller7938 8 месяцев назад +120

    My best show was the anthropologists calling Robyn out as the favourite and asking why Kody spends so much time at her house. Then R scrambled to say that Sol was sick. She gave a death stare to those ppl. Good for them to call R out!

    • @BerryHair405
      @BerryHair405 8 месяцев назад +31

      The guy that was portrayed as the anthropology professor asked which one was the "love wife" and which one was the "sex wife" and he was onto something there.

    • @VeroRochaEscorcio
      @VeroRochaEscorcio 8 месяцев назад +14

      I know! That was my favorite too, finally somebody called her out.

    • @sansserif8839
      @sansserif8839 8 месяцев назад +25

      Yes, it's not as if any of Kody's first 13 children ever got sick and wanted/ needed him.

    • @highjinx6519
      @highjinx6519 8 месяцев назад +5

      Which season was that? Does anyone know?

    • @MM-yh2mi
      @MM-yh2mi 8 месяцев назад

      @@highjinx6519S8 E5 Anthropologists move in

  • @chantaljames2755
    @chantaljames2755 8 месяцев назад +21

    TLC have done this before, i bet they knew about Josh Duggard all along

  • @rebeccastocks5769
    @rebeccastocks5769 8 месяцев назад +47

    Wow, James. You are really turning the videos out. Way to go!

  • @YoungVYoung5000
    @YoungVYoung5000 8 месяцев назад +27

    I need examples of what Meri did to Mykelti

    • @virgosbonnet7896
      @virgosbonnet7896 8 месяцев назад +13

      Probably nothing lol. Christine and her children have a tendency to over exaggerate situations. I think Meri was the disciplinary sister mom/wife while Janelle was working career driven sister mom/wife and Christine was overgrown immature sister mom/wife/babysitter who played with the kids and didn’t enforce any rules which explains the behaviors of 2 of her kids. Watching old episodes Christine’s kids always had some 💩 going always lol.

    • @Indigo565
      @Indigo565 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@virgosbonnet7896this is a shitty thing to say. If someone in your family is constantly berating you and beating down your self esteem do you know what that is? It's verbal abuse and from the book Meri wasn't just verbally abusive or doing abusive things to them

    • @UmmmAreUSerious
      @UmmmAreUSerious 8 месяцев назад +5

      I remember one time during filming Mykelti was instructed by Meri to go change her top. Meri was very firm, but also clear with saying I love you and I am not going to let you wear that. I can see down your shirt… or something along those lines. Mykelti was pushing back and showing out. I think it simply boils down to Mykelti not liking anyone to tell her what to do. I also think she may have likes someone on the film crew and wanted to dress up for them or just in general when filming.

    • @alongfellow4147
      @alongfellow4147 8 месяцев назад +3

      Mykelti is so annoying she acts like a know it all

    • @UmmmAreUSerious
      @UmmmAreUSerious 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@alongfellow4147 yes! You can see other siblings are uncomfortable when she’s around too.

  • @cathywithac
    @cathywithac 8 месяцев назад +73

    Paedon, Gwen and Mykelti have said that Kody was way worse. If his kids are saying that he was 'way worse', why is everyone focusing on Meri?

    • @BerryHair405
      @BerryHair405 8 месяцев назад +3

      I wonder if Kody and Meri were united on child punishment, whatever that was, and Robyn drove a wedge there, maybe justifiably, and cast Kody in a good light and Meri in a bad light.

    • @virgosbonnet7896
      @virgosbonnet7896 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@BerryHair405Could be why Sobyn would allow Meri to be alone with her kids. Remember when Meri tried to take Solomon on a road trip to Utah and Sobyn came up with every excuse as to why he couldn’t go instead of just saying No?

    • @mrssouleater5
      @mrssouleater5 8 месяцев назад +7

      That still doesn’t make sense because Robyn told Meri to take Breanna. She wasn’t that old at the time.

    • @chriscypret5365
      @chriscypret5365 8 месяцев назад +9

      That what I been saying I never seen meri mistreat any of the kids I have heard her yell , talking to older kids when they was acting out. I think these kids are like this with meri Bec of Christina Janelle Robin dislike of meri, Kody. I think Kody, Robin the one that started this bs about Meri manipulate the rest into believe it

    • @lh3952
      @lh3952 8 месяцев назад +8

      At the same time, messy Mykelti said that spanking is super, super normal. So, it couldn’t have been physical 🤔she puts up with Kody’s narcissistic behavior and tendencies, so she’s used to that…so what did Meri do?

  • @susanjoyce8053
    @susanjoyce8053 8 месяцев назад +86

    Let me just of all the 18 kids, Mykelti was most rebellious and hard to handle. I’m sure Meri got on to her for some of the behavior. I remember one scene where some of the kids were teasing and giving the younger kids a hard time. Meri ripped into them and told them it was not right for them to treat each other. Meri made the comment she could another adult to help her out. Christine strikes as the mom who plays with her kids, Janelle is away from her kids and spends quality time with the kids. Robyn’s kids would never do anything wrong. Kody doesn’t strike me as a parent who disciplines the kids, if he does it would be, discipline and leave. Meri may have been the only one that consistently kept the kids in line.

    • @virgosbonnet7896
      @virgosbonnet7896 8 месяцев назад +18

      Spot on response. Christine played with her kids and didn’t really parent them which resulted in 2 of them being out of control. I always thought(still do) thought Christine has ADHD

    • @RKMWYO
      @RKMWYO 8 месяцев назад +17

      I heard just the other day that MyKelty had stolen Meri’s car at one time. I don’t know if this is true or not…If that were true and she got in trouble for it that could be a reason MyKelty doesn’t like Meri. I had never heard that before. Have you?

    • @inbutnotoftheworld2237
      @inbutnotoftheworld2237 8 месяцев назад +12

      Glad for his point. The kids learn from the parents. Teens are natural brats and M being no exception (according to folks in comments), she is going to be especially bratty with someone I'm sure they've heard their mom's condemn and their dad berate (or hear the moms dismiss her relationship with the patriarch). Imagine what a bratty teena does with such dynamics. Poor Meri...good luck correcting.

    • @dawna1214
      @dawna1214 8 месяцев назад +7

      The only reason Meri was going off on Paton was because it was Rob-ems kids.

    • @karen81986
      @karen81986 8 месяцев назад +1

      Agree

  • @MrsBilla-nu8qb
    @MrsBilla-nu8qb 8 месяцев назад +11

    I think it’s clear that TLC doesn’t look out for any children in their reality series. There should be a legal system in place to look after every child in one of these series to make sure they are emotionally, physically and financially taken care of. It’s evident, especially financially, that kids in these series get nothing. Their parents screw them out of every cent.

    • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
      @stop_and_smell_the_roses 8 месяцев назад +3

      I think TLC should also be obligated to look out for any abuse toward animals. Even if it's not recorded from their own cameramen during the TLC segments. *I just watched footage of Robem kicking the dogs head to move it out of her way.* Allegedly she has done this twice to the same dog, with footage each time. I don't care if that footage came from the kids camera or from somebody down the street, it should be investigated and legal action taken. Like removing the dog from this type of abuse. Footage is on the channel, Down the Rabbit Hole at Bedtime, show called 3.New Sister Wives Footage: Robyn is Selfless Queen. I'm an animal lover and this is unexcusable. TLC does nothing about abuse, so could we the viewers get her charged for cruelty abuse to an animal 2x. If she's doing this in public, what's she doing in private? That dog should be removed from their custody. I can't begin to speculate why she would do this, unless it's K's dog and R is jealous of anyone or anything that gets in the way of devotion toward herself. James, could you please address this serious issue?

    • @saltinawenchito898
      @saltinawenchito898 8 месяцев назад

      I completely agree. TLC promotes the strangest lifestyles while pretending to be a safe channel. 20+ children in one family is strange. Polygamists are strange. MILF Manor is just disgusting. I think the people running TLC have strange sexual ideations and have promoted their strangeness under cover of a good name. The Learning Channel. It's become like the History Channel full of ancient alien nonsense.

    • @mera8785
      @mera8785 8 месяцев назад

      @@stop_and_smell_the_roses make a separate comment about dogs. This person was speaking about human children being used by TLC and their parents and requiring protection. That's important and I hope some kids sue TLC because they deserve it. Some dog getting in the way and being kneed away is not even in the same universe of importance.

  • @marcyarrowchis678
    @marcyarrowchis678 8 месяцев назад +16

    I think Mykelti is giving herself too much power 🥴

  • @autumn7031
    @autumn7031 8 месяцев назад +5

    These are some excellent, well articulated points here! I appreciate this. Some of these other channels have way too much nonsense going on. This was clear, to the point and courteous. Thank you.
    The point about TLC is exactly what is so frustrating to me. It's so illogical for them to select when their caution should be applied.
    Some of the disgusting content this network has polluted our airwaves with is intolerable, and here they are acting like they are treading delicate lines. Please!
    They exploit children, women, vulnerable persons, it's ridiculous.
    Meri IS a bully. All the kids have traumatic responses towards her. For her to act as if Christine was wrong for telling the ring story basically expecting some high level of priority from her, when she had no problem making Christine feel like the villian for leaving her toxic and abusive relationship with Kody just validates the entitled and hypocritical attitude she has. She is the aggressor. She stood with Robyn and treated Christine like she was not allowed to leave her horrible marriage, she should just sit in the misery like she does because of some delusional cult theory she believes in. She didn't support her one bit.
    Robyn didn't support any of those women when they left Kody, but Robyn expects all of them to support Kody in his mess with the other women. Robyn is married to a man who left his children for her. We know all we need to know there.

  • @gigglingchaos1795
    @gigglingchaos1795 8 месяцев назад +18

    Look at how TLC didn't cover anything with the Duggers. There is no way that the entire production crew missed the entire situation there.

    • @virgosbonnet7896
      @virgosbonnet7896 8 месяцев назад

      The Duggars are very good at hiding things so I’m sure production didn’t know Josh did what he did especially since it was done before they even had a show.

  • @jennifergrody
    @jennifergrody 8 месяцев назад +36

    Damage control on TLC part so they don’t get sued for child harm.. look what they had to do with the Dugger Family & what the one son did.. if true then they need their ass handed to them.. the product team & parents involved!!

    • @kristinesharp6286
      @kristinesharp6286 8 месяцев назад +6

      They should have completely dropped the show.

    • @s2ncurai
      @s2ncurai 8 месяцев назад +2

      Let’s not forget that the youngest son on Little People Big World was s.a.’d by a member of production. Kate +8 and her B.S. to Colin. One day theses kids will sue TLC for endangering them, or turning a blind eye to things done to them.

    • @kristinesharp6286
      @kristinesharp6286 8 месяцев назад

      They would have to see something. Maybe they have a NDA agreement and hands tied? The interview with the sisters with Josh in room, questionable. CPS should have removed any minor kid from M and JB custody when they talked to them all after the letter incident and never approved for guardianship over the nephew. @@s2ncurai

    • @chriscypret5365
      @chriscypret5365 8 месяцев назад +1

      I think it true I think Kody Robin made it up manipulate kids think. She was abusing them. If you think about it only the kids that hang out with Robin. No one noticed it until Robin, even when Kody was going to get treatment with him meri for their marriage Kody accused Meri being mean . Meri kept asking what she done Kody never answered I think It lied for all of them to get meri throw off show what I think after Robin married Kody. I think that what plan was. Meri wouldn't leave Bec they screwed her out of her life saving everything she worked for. She made Kody keep her on what I think, Bec all , money and Robin Kody both nos they f her out of half of everything if she would of fought the divorce that she thought she doing for the kids not to get manipulate f by the whole family

    • @shebaspurling605
      @shebaspurling605 8 месяцев назад +1

      I am sure they did the same thing for Kate Goslin.

  • @mariehoward9753
    @mariehoward9753 8 месяцев назад +5

    The mom's allowed Kody to behave in a way most of us would not due to their CULTure, that being said watching the adult children share now is heartbreaking. All the mom's allowed certain things to fall by the wayside for the CULTure and fear, I think

    • @dawncelestino2086
      @dawncelestino2086 8 месяцев назад +1

      And they all point and blame eachother, instead if the main person to be blamed, Kody. Because it is apart of the CULTure as you said. To keep him held in high regard and everyone else is fair game.

    • @mariehoward9753
      @mariehoward9753 8 месяцев назад

      @@dawncelestino2086 yes!! Truth!

  • @Alysia.in.Wonderland
    @Alysia.in.Wonderland 8 месяцев назад +4

    Mykelti was probably told to shut up because Robyn was desperately trying to hide the truth and protect her sister wives storyline that they were all one big happy family until Christine left

  • @kimberlyporter9555
    @kimberlyporter9555 8 месяцев назад +60

    Melting down a ring to make another implies that he didnt even have enough negative feeling towards Meri to pawn it. He thought of the enitire relationship as "useless" so he made something out of it that he found aesthetically pleasing. The implication that at the end of the day he is merely an opportunist scamming women out of their hard-earned cash is finally evident.

    • @doyouhaveawristband
      @doyouhaveawristband 8 месяцев назад +10

      i think he did that to punish her

    • @Alysia.in.Wonderland
      @Alysia.in.Wonderland 8 месяцев назад +11

      I disagree about Kody not wanting to pawn the ring in favor of melting it down: Kody wanted to obliterate any trace of his marriage to Meri. If Kody were to simply pawn the ring, the ring would still be in existence and may have even somehow miraculously made its way back into Meri’s hands. Kody made sure that would not be possible because he destroyed it. No more marriage & no more symbol of the marriage 🔥💍

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 8 месяцев назад +2

      He’s cheap ring never meant anything to him and doesn’t care if it meant anything to you

  • @mandykelley4883
    @mandykelley4883 8 месяцев назад +18

    Or Mykelti had to make something up (like the show being canceled if she talks) to explain her back peddling because someone may have warned her about the consequences of false or exaggerated allegations. That's just my theory though.

    • @mrssouleater5
      @mrssouleater5 8 месяцев назад +6

      Or someone rewatched the Depp v Heard case and was reminded of that outcome. I think Meri was the disciplinarian because Christine didn’t want to be “bad cop” with all of the kids. I think it’s ironic though that Christine, Mykelti and Maddie, who have referred to Meri as being “unsafe” for so long, actually all worked for Meri for awhile doing LulaRoe (Mykelti still sells it) under Meri’s leadership? Were you just using her or are things embellished for ratings?

  • @tammywillilams2730
    @tammywillilams2730 8 месяцев назад +4

    Kate (Kate plus 8) institutionalized Collin as a boy, they left him there, no birthdays, no Christmas, nothing for years!! and refused to tell his father where he was. TLC funded. TLC is dangerous for children. It needs to change.

  • @californiadreaming567
    @californiadreaming567 8 месяцев назад +9

    I can’t imagine how difficult it was for Mary being with two other wives who are pumping out babies while she can’t have anymore. Woman who have been in that position know how painful it is just to be around other women having babies but to live in the same house. Janelle and Christine would have to walk through Mary’s living room to get to each other’s apartment. 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢Mary had to have been angry and hurt especially having Kody treat her the way he does Mary had to bring out those feeling someway. I’m not saying it’s ok but she is human

    • @UnPluggingThePlayer
      @UnPluggingThePlayer 8 месяцев назад +4

      I thought of this too. Could you imagine being treated like a non-person by Kody only keeping you on for the money and non-divorce beliefs, meanwhile having the other wives kids trotted through your room? It's no wonder she isolated herself in anger and resentment. Why didn't TLC do a counseling show with them about this... oh yeah, because better drama trauma for better ratings and $

  • @user-ou2km5gu5w
    @user-ou2km5gu5w 8 месяцев назад +4

    TLC likely put a stop to it due to previous problems on other shows. These allegations did not come up until after Christine left, and the dog piling on Meri by Christine’s family began. Past shows show Meri getting along with all the kids, including Paedon and Mykelti.
    What a teen perceives as abuse is often not abuse at all. TLC may have questioned the crew, who stated they saw no evidence of abuse, then told those talking that they could be sued for libel or slander. The defense for these types of charges is simple, if it’s the truth. If it isn’t the truth they lose.
    This season has been a Meri redemption arc, which TLC hasn’t done for her before. This is telling. I personally think that TLC may be doing this because Meri was unfairly accused of abuse.
    There are 17 seasons of the kids being perfectly okay and even seeking Meri out. This speaks volumes.

  • @becky1l
    @becky1l 8 месяцев назад +15

    Mykelti wasn’t treated well by her own mother either. Mykelti literally left home because her mother couldn’t control the bullying in her home. Christine is no saint and people worshiping her is sick!

  • @cathyferran7291
    @cathyferran7291 8 месяцев назад +4

    Batman and Robyn need to have their TLC contract cancelled and let Kody have his Karma.... Kody Poverty is coming and the wives are moving on from you and your kids are sad you dont want to be their Dad

  • @lh3952
    @lh3952 8 месяцев назад +4

    Mykelti is knocking on 30 years old. She’s still holding on to this child image. She’s dining on the scraps Rob and Kody throw at her. She better get a back bone and some therapy. Tell Kody and TLC to kiss her ass. She already said they don’t pay her and for her to hate Meri so much, they have a lot in common

  • @colleen1219
    @colleen1219 8 месяцев назад +18

    To me, this is nothing new. We’ve known this for a long time. TLC and the Browns pick and choose. What they want to amplify. A lot of us stick to recaps and clips enough is enough.

  • @sylviahendrick
    @sylviahendrick 8 месяцев назад +8

    How has Kody treated the kids through the years?
    And how did he punish the kids? What did Kody do to Meri that he accepted blame to then Meri”s daughter- now Leon about accusations that he had caused Meri to be vulnerable enough to be catfish?
    How has Kody treated his OG3 wives? ….
    I believe they family and TLC are protecting Kody not Meri!

    • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
      @stop_and_smell_the_roses 8 месяцев назад

      TLC are also not protecting the kids. How has Kody treated his kids? Not to mention the dog whom Robem is camera footage exposed for kicking it in the face 2x and and making it fly. They are protecting the man, Kody, which is exactly what the AUB does. AUB is always loyal to the man priesthood holder and everything and everyone else is silenced.

  • @UnPluggingThePlayer
    @UnPluggingThePlayer 8 месяцев назад +14

    I like your take on this. I know these kids aren't little anymore, but if ya know anything about grown adult dysfunction you'll find a common pattern... the adult still carries childhood wounds. Usually they come off as big wounded children. The fact is that no matter how old the kids are they'll still always be their parents kids, and unless the parents grow up and come to the kids to find ways to mend and heal then they'll always have that unresolved or in denial. That's not healthy, especially for the adult kids partner and friendship relationships, or for the next generation.

  • @ketonaturally
    @ketonaturally 8 месяцев назад +13

    Or this is Mykelti bs

  • @inbutnotoftheworld2237
    @inbutnotoftheworld2237 8 месяцев назад +9

    Oh, please. A bratty teen and a much-maligned sister wife mom and dad despise.
    Good luck crossing paths with them let alone parenting as other mom. Meri likely not perfect but team Meri all the way.
    These guys have all been toxic: Janelle in her grimey move coveting Meri's husband (her sister-in-law's, no less), joining with little to no grace (current behavior being the indicator), teaming up with Kristine, who has been shocking toward Meri on camera...can just imagine off- (remember her venomous behavior toward Meri when she missed Axel's birth?? She had shown up but after). Not all the kids hate Meri, and that's great...good sign.

  • @lrishsighs3689
    @lrishsighs3689 8 месяцев назад +6

    Mykelti is a scammer. Neither she or Tony works. I think she is a liar.

    • @becky9103
      @becky9103 8 месяцев назад +1

      Just a couple of weeks ago, watching Meri scream at Jen like a psychotic preschool teacher ("What shape is that light?! What shape is that!? Circles are stupid!) tells me all I need to know about Meri's ability to keep her anger in check.

  • @seameology
    @seameology 8 месяцев назад +24

    The kids are adults now. I'm pretty sure the adults didn't make trust funds for the time they were on the show JUST LIKE the Duggars. They have every right to speak about their experiences and make money if they can. No one, including TLC should be able to exploit them any further.

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  8 месяцев назад +10

      Great point. To add, some of the wives arent being taken care of so you know the kids were left out

  • @Avmuhammad64
    @Avmuhammad64 8 месяцев назад +9

    Hey, Brother James...two "takes" in one day!! 🙌🏾👊🏾

  • @DavidJohnson-dc8lu
    @DavidJohnson-dc8lu 8 месяцев назад +3

    The next time Mykelti says this, I would advice her to remove herself from social media, go to a seek legal advice and press charges. If one is going to make mega accusations in public, do it properly, speak to people, prepare siblings to back you up, and there is a whole justice system out there who will support victims of abuse of matter what. At this moment Mykelti is going to sound like Meghan and Harry repeating the same story with different sauce on it, until everyone gets bored. What the royal family racist....3 years later....yeah yeah yeah, they queried Archie's skin tone..yawn.

  • @oge7867
    @oge7867 8 месяцев назад +8

    It’s obvious that the children tried to fight their mother’s battles and it appears that the mothers were always at war.

  • @lindadhill
    @lindadhill 8 месяцев назад +51

    Its unfair to accuse Meri of abuse and not tell what it was about. Maybe TLC didn't like that and it would hurt the show. We have no idea what constitutes "abuse" to MykeltI or Paedon. No other kid has accused her . Some kids think abuse is just being yelled at or not being allowed dessert. Please don't buy into condemning someone based on someone else's accusation without proof

    • @UnPluggingThePlayer
      @UnPluggingThePlayer 8 месяцев назад +7

      Yeah. It's a different era. I'm from a time when the wooden spoon was taken out, or a flip flop was thrown at the kid. The pants were dropped and the spanking began. My dad took off his belt to keep my brothers in line. We were always told what we did wrong and dang but we never did it again. And none of us went to jail. Sure there are different discipline methods now, but I'm pretty sure Meri's from an era where the polyg cult never researched better ways to discipline.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 8 месяцев назад +2

      Meri tattled to Kody. She played first favorite wife for years. She couldn’t be trusted. Meri knows why the OG’s don’t have a relationship with her. Her daughter knows also. Her indoctrination and plural marriage brought all this survival mode out. It’s just a shame they put themselves thru this.

    • @dawncelestino2086
      @dawncelestino2086 8 месяцев назад +5

      @@laneneal3510 All the wives were garbage to eachother. They were all competing for one man's affection. None of them are good people, they all lie, and they all were terrible to eachother because that is what that lifestyle breeds. Everyone wants to blame all the people, when the issue is this show was meant to be propaganda for polygamy, and the issues were all created by polygamy. That needs to be talked about.

    • @emma2370
      @emma2370 8 месяцев назад

      @@dawncelestino2086 exactly.

    • @jandedick7519
      @jandedick7519 8 месяцев назад

      @@UnPluggingThePlayer I’m from the wooden spoon era and just a mentioned of the spoon was enough for us kids to smarten up.

  • @creativevanspace
    @creativevanspace 8 месяцев назад +5

    Excellent points, James! Beyond the reality part, there should have been a non-abusive, loving but structured parenting plan followed by all parents. There should have been parameters on what the non-biological moms can or cannot do. TLC should vet the families and put in their own parameters in order to continue filming.

  • @shortylucy
    @shortylucy 8 месяцев назад +4

    I think Mykelti holds grudges, she’s very much like Kody, IMHO. And I think it’s interesting that Kody says he can’t stand being around Meri and has shunned her for years. And who’s the child desperately trying to stay in Kody’s good graces? I don’t think that’s a coincidence.

  • @KerbyKast
    @KerbyKast 8 месяцев назад +38

    As viewers, this also goes back on us. Now that we know that something serious occurred that TLC wants not to be discussed, and that the parents are ok with this... Why are we enabling that by continued viewership? It's making me think about that.

    • @wintergirl8
      @wintergirl8 8 месяцев назад +1

      No we don't know that. That's what Mykelti has said and we know she's full of crap.

    • @tammywillilams2730
      @tammywillilams2730 8 месяцев назад

      And it's not the first time. TLC is notorious for this with other shows. They exploit children, they gag them and they enable the unhealthy and abusive parents while alienating good parents.

    • @KerbyKast
      @KerbyKast 8 месяцев назад

      @@wintergirl8 That is possible. But given the track record of TLC with the Duggars, it wouldn't surprise me that they didn't learn their lesson.

  • @emirom2
    @emirom2 8 месяцев назад +5

    I remember Kourtney Kardashian saying once, that in one of the early seasons of “Keeping up with the Kardashians” she had to go into the bathroom and quietly cry, so the microphone wouldn’t hear it and then have it shown on TV.

  • @b.m.t.h.3961
    @b.m.t.h.3961 8 месяцев назад +2

    Once again Meri is used as a scapegoat whilst Meme-kelti says she is abusive whilst giving Kod and Robber a pass with their abusive ways. Meme-kelti is so like her father . Sly.

  • @VibesAndDiagnosis
    @VibesAndDiagnosis 8 месяцев назад +3

    “Meltin the b**** down” bwahhaaaaa. I literally can’t stop laughing. James you a fool!!!!!😂

  • @Palomitapalomita
    @Palomitapalomita 8 месяцев назад +2

    It’s just like how TLC continued to air the Duggars, even when everyone knew Josh was a pedo, and all the kids were abused and severely parentified.
    There are no protections for kids in reality tv.

  • @kiab2324
    @kiab2324 8 месяцев назад +2

    I honestly believe that this family will never be able to move on and heal old wounds because no one is fully authentic and truthfully towards each other, only when they are on camera in a separate space. At this point, the coverups have caused irreversible harm. Truthfully, everyone need to stop talking on the internet and talk HONESTLY with one another.

  • @brookenicole7209
    @brookenicole7209 8 месяцев назад +13

    James:
    Episode of Recommitment Ceremony with all of the food festivities, photos, etc. Look for the scene where Meri's Mom reviews mathematical breakdown of measurements for Meri.
    I think it displays a parenting style that explains a lot.
    You may have an interesting perspective.
    Keep up the videos!

  • @DailyRollcall
    @DailyRollcall 8 месяцев назад +4

    Safe is tossed around like laundry in a dryer, it is cause "they" don't want a "conversation" don't want to "deal" because they puss out, they are not "safe" what is Jason at the door, or Freddy or is anyone screaming in terror, NOPE it is a simple conversation they don't want to have due to have so many others to talk to, if they had NOBODY they would be Force to Deal with it. Safe to them is a cop out

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  8 месяцев назад +2

      Great point. It does feel like they use the term "safe" to describe any situation/conversation that makes them feel uncomfortable. Unfortunately, life is full of uncomfortable situations so we have to learn to deal with it not run away.

    • @DailyRollcall
      @DailyRollcall 8 месяцев назад +2

      @@mytakeonreality Perhaps you can do a clip and use receipts on how they use Safe, betrayed (what are they a king and queen)

    • @UnPluggingThePlayer
      @UnPluggingThePlayer 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​​@@DailyRollcall​​​ Yes, actually the Mormon doctrine teaches that they are Kings and Queens unto their husband's and wives. They are The Elect. Doctrine specifically uses those 2 terms as teachings phrases. This gives them the superior edge on the rest of the common folk plebs who are not the elect therefore they have to do missionarywork to redeem the great unwashed a.k.a. anybody who isn't baptized into the faith. I'd bet that the break-off groups share the same LDS teaching foundations.

  • @hes3
    @hes3 8 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you about speaking out about this James. I see a lot of people justify meris alleged abuse and I appreciate you for validating Mykelti regardless of her other takes on the family.

    • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
      @stop_and_smell_the_roses 8 месяцев назад

      While it is important to validate a child's abuse it's equally important to protect adults from being wrongfully accused. I saw a man's life demolition for being accused of incest after his adult daughter heard about her friend's story and associated it to herself. The family were LDS mormon and the sickness was far reaching, but the dad died a few months later because he couldn't handle being wrongfully accused. Later the daughter admitted she didn't have an actual memory of that. I suspect all the garbage beliefs were conflated in her mind, body and emotions and just released and lashed out at her dad. Her dad and her had always had a good relationship. When the said woman first told me I didn't accuse her or her dad, but I knew she had some head problems, so kept telling her that they need to take lie detector tests and other types of counseling to get to the root of it. Of course the family is entrenched in the cult habit of hiding secrets, so that never happened. If you had a kid that claimed you abused them wouldn't you want some protection? We don't know what these abuse allegations are. For that reason their stories (whatever those are cos they aren't telling) need to be approached neutrally.
      That said, we do know that there were a lot of kids and C and J and R were M.I.A., while K was a loose cannon. If it was a matter of yelling hell I'd be yelling as a parent too under those identical circumstances. Their circumstances are all crap as AUB acceptable discipline traditions are very religious and not very modern. Meri may have been acting how they were taught, and how she was treated as an AUB child. Janelle was raised LDS, which shares similar problems. The silence is deafening. If it were horrific abuse I'd think that by now the adults, or someone in TLC would have reported it. Mind you, TLC didn't report Robem kicking the dogs head in 2x so that the dog flew. So who knows.
      TLC needed to investigate and get to the root right away. But you know..... $$
      I think as viewers we need to go over TLC's head and report all this to actual authorities, to protect the smalls and the animals.

  • @farmgirl-nursedoc
    @farmgirl-nursedoc 8 месяцев назад +5

    I like the shorter clips- quick focus works for me!

  • @cherylwright5540
    @cherylwright5540 8 месяцев назад +3

    Mykelti is friends with Robyn therefore I do not trust or believe anything she says.

  • @Trixiefirecrackerrrrrrrrrr86
    @Trixiefirecrackerrrrrrrrrr86 8 месяцев назад +2

    Your takes are spot on every single time! Love your content man!!!

  • @UmmmAreUSerious
    @UmmmAreUSerious 8 месяцев назад +1

    Christine said the kids cold decide who they wanted around…. Other kids want Meri around. Gwen invited Meri to her wedding.

  • @DazedbutStillConfuzed
    @DazedbutStillConfuzed 8 месяцев назад +2

    As a fan I don’t I appreciate tlc shutting up the kids just to perpetuate a lie! Their stories are the most important since the whole premise for this messed up family structure was how good it would be for the “family”. So then let us hear from the family!

  • @MeganVictoriaKearns
    @MeganVictoriaKearns 8 месяцев назад +2

    Hey James. I subbed a while ago but rarely have commented. Just want to say I think you're doing a great job. I watch several of the "reality reaction and analysis" type of channels (for SW, yes, but also several other reality shows) and for whatever it's worth coming from some random 41 year old chick from Ohio who likes reality TV... lol 😂😂😂 I think you stand out among others operating in the same/similar genre here on RUclips.
    I just wanted to encourage you and let you know that I believe if you keep it up you will gain more and more followers and get more people to tell their friends to watch.
    I had to say something because I was so so so so happy you did a video about the kids perspective. Mykelti in particular, but you immediately pointed out that ALL these kids have a RIGHT to be heard. And also you get MAD RESPECT from me for not hesitating to call out TLC for pulling bullsh*t like literally threatening one of the kids (now an ADULT - with, I think, ALL THE RIGHTS TO FREE SPEECH AS EVERY AMERICAN WHO EXISTS...right?!?!
    Thank you for calling it out. I didn't put together before you said it that a network is calling the shots and silencing people who grew up in this family! How "reality" is it when there's corporations invoking freaking 1ST AMENDMENT CENSORSHIP on American citizens speaking about THEIR OWN LIFE EXPERIENCES?!
    I hope you dig deeper here. It would draw in a lot of viewers I am telling you. American viewers × a million because we Americans DO NOT DEAL WELL with hearing about people's basic rights being violated or controlled by threats or intimidation. Not cool and we don't stand for it.
    Don't let TLC off the hook. They are money over human decency, basic rights, honesty and integrity. They air footage of people's most humiliating moments, making MILLIONS $$$ every day and paying the cast maybe 5% of what TLC itself makes. And that 5% is split among everyone on a show. It's disgusting honestly if you investigate you'll see the disparity in $ in vs $ out. It's exploitation and I don't get why they get away with it.
    I'll go now. I ramble sometimes. 🤷‍♀️❤❤❤❤❤

  • @suzannecairns8282
    @suzannecairns8282 8 месяцев назад +41

    She's a grifter. She's lucky Patreon exists so her husband doesn't have to get a job.

    • @countrybeachgirl
      @countrybeachgirl 8 месяцев назад +2

      her husband does have a job. Need to update.

    • @kalnedlewil2897
      @kalnedlewil2897 8 месяцев назад +3

      Amen suzanne!

    • @suzannecairns8282
      @suzannecairns8282 8 месяцев назад +7

      @@OWinterDay OH THE TRAMA!
      Mykelti : I'm so neglected, let's get engaged on TV.
      Mykelti : I'm been so emotional abused let's get married on TV.
      Mykelti : I've been so exploited let me give birth on TV.
      Mykelti : I'm so craven let me insert myself where it's none of my business, on TV.
      Mykelti : grifter? Just because I take fans money of the TV show that apparently scared me?
      🤣🤣🤣 Suckers.

    • @peacefuldays4255
      @peacefuldays4255 8 месяцев назад +4

      I'm sooo glad somebody finally called it out. Irregardless to how you feel the kids have no business creating shows etc... airing out all the family business. If you notice it's only Christine's children. You don't have the right to sink the whole entire ship just because you one person are upset.

    • @lisadawn2275
      @lisadawn2275 8 месяцев назад

      Someone who has a patreon and gives their opinion is not a grifter. 😂

  • @Dwayne46
    @Dwayne46 8 месяцев назад +3

    You are definitely right tlc has covered up a lot of, maybe they should go to the police if they were this serious just disgusting.

  • @thompsoncindy42
    @thompsoncindy42 8 месяцев назад +1

    I've wondered if it was actually Curlylocks and Crybrows that told Mykelti that TLC was going to shut down the show to shut her up. Mykelti herself has admitted she wants to believe whatever he dad tells her. And both she and Tony protect Crybrows every chance they get. I have also wondered what TLC knows about this supposed abuse from Meri. Three of the kids have said that their dad was even worse! Defintely and interesting study in dysfunctional human behavior!!!

  • @IndigoBellyDance
    @IndigoBellyDance 8 месяцев назад +2

    The irony of the parents trying to shut up the kids…. Oh the irony

  • @SusieQ-mn3qf
    @SusieQ-mn3qf 8 месяцев назад +3

    Would love to have access to TLC's vault for the unbroadcast footage.

    • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
      @stop_and_smell_the_roses 8 месяцев назад

      If we all stand up for the kids and petition the police and CPS they would have to open vaults for investigation. TLC has had full reign for too long. or as I call it, The What Not to Learn Channel.

  • @cathywithac
    @cathywithac 8 месяцев назад +20

    Most of Christine and Janelle's kids love Meri and see her as another mom. Headstrong Mykelti and Paedon don't like her because she was the only disciplinarian in the family. Janelle was working and not interested in discipline. Kody was an absent dad making fun guest appearances. Christine was all rainbows and unicorns for all of the kids. Not into boundaries and discipline. Robyn opted out entirely. She did not want her kids to be raised with such a wild bunch. In their early 20's, Maddie and Mykelti were in Meri's Lula Roe downline. Maddie got angry with her for calling her out for underperforming in an private online group meeting. Maddie was embarrassed. Maddie retaliated by attacking Meri on social media globally. Business is business. Family is family. Their lines were blurred. Leon loves Meri. Per Meri, Robyn's kids see her as Dad's 'other wife', like a distant Aunt who shows up for some holidays. Family is family. Their lines were blurred. Gwen loves Meri. Gwen and Leon hate Paedon. No one has ever had conflict resolution skills. The kids grew up in chaos and who yells the loudest wins. It is so sad.

    • @catherinekeller7938
      @catherinekeller7938 8 месяцев назад +4

      Well summarized.

    • @Cindy_from_Oz
      @Cindy_from_Oz 8 месяцев назад +9

      I agree the other moms lacked discipline

    • @becky9103
      @becky9103 8 месяцев назад

      I suppose Meri carries that same philosphy over to best friends who are helping you remodel a carriage house. ("WHAT SHAPE IS THAT LIGHT?! WHAT SHAPE IS THAT?! IT'S A CIRCLE! CIRCLES ARE STUPID!") I can only imagine what the wrong laundry dteergent, the wrong pantyhose and oranges in the fridge caused. Wives, kids, and friends, let's face the fact. Meri is super controlling, and loses her temper easily and sometimes goes too far.

    • @Zinky16
      @Zinky16 8 месяцев назад +2

      This summary is probably closest to the truth

    • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
      @stop_and_smell_the_roses 8 месяцев назад

      @@becky9103 I'm not making excuses for M, but she stayed in a relationship being mentally and emotionally tormented by K for years, because she couldn't have kids. She still gave money although she was made fun of and threatened to be relegated to the barndominium as a reminder of her zero status. So this was ongoing abuse from K. K also said he had to ex M because M was trying to take his control from him ( E18 S1.) M might very well be too controlling on the man, and that's an AUB taboo for any SW. She must stay sweet and know her place under the husband and not criticize. Another AUB taboo which C got the consequences of being shunned for (so says K in E18 S1). When M was heavily abused by K, and stayed in the relationship for years, I could see her temper escalating into crazy town. Or MORE crazy town. I could see her taking it out on the kids and wives. She was the wife who was no good and couldn't breed to expectation standards. I'm not excusing it, but I def could see it happening, especially when J & C didn't look like they were very consistent disciplinarians and M already had anger, jealousy emotions of all kinds.

  • @nurserobin
    @nurserobin 8 месяцев назад +1

    Focusing on Meri one of the women in the group instead of their master KODY?!!!!! WHY DON'T WE TALK ABOUT THE REAL PROBLEM...THE MAN-KODY!!

  • @blu3622
    @blu3622 8 месяцев назад +2

    Another one today! Thanks 😎

  • @DaniTowns0227
    @DaniTowns0227 8 месяцев назад

    What we have learned this season and what I like to call the "tell nothing" is they either lied to us in the past 17 seasons or they're rewriting history now and lying to us now. Either way, this family has lied to us. We are not idiots and understand some of the storylines were forced and they created opportunities for engagement for this family. However, the picture perfect family they tried to sell us for years seems to have been a lie all along. Going back this summer and re-watching the first 16 seasons hits differently now that we know what we know. Things stand out that before we may have glossed over because we were buying their ideal of this family.

  • @margodubose1166
    @margodubose1166 8 месяцев назад +3

    Mykelti has known to Not get along with her parents also. I don't agree with the story she is telling. I don't know what went on with her, Paiden and Maddie. Even Paidon does not say Meri ever put her hands on them. Gwen loves her dad even though she stated her dad threw her up against a wall. Why did Mykelti go live with Robyn. Everyone says she was having issues at home. My understanding Meri was mean and did not tolerate bad behavior. Paidon picked on younger children. I don't trust Mykelti or Paidon. Just my opinion.

    • @UnPluggingThePlayer
      @UnPluggingThePlayer 8 месяцев назад +1

      I remember Paedon was a handful who need some strong discipline and re-direction and consequences for his actions. Usually they don't like it when they're kids but it makes sense when they become adults.

  • @user-hk6jf6tm5d
    @user-hk6jf6tm5d 8 месяцев назад +11

    Mykelti seems to be upset w/Meri when it suits her, because for a while she was actually part of Meri's "downstream" MLM clothing scam. They all follow the money

    • @ketonaturally
      @ketonaturally 8 месяцев назад

      Yeah I always wondered about that too but the chain could be Meri then Christine and she’s under Christine

  • @KimberlytheQueen2023
    @KimberlytheQueen2023 8 месяцев назад +4

    Maybe they are waiting for a spin off with the kids when SW ends

    • @UmmmAreUSerious
      @UmmmAreUSerious 8 месяцев назад

      I think Mykelti is pushing hard to get a show.

  • @KimberlytheQueen2023
    @KimberlytheQueen2023 8 месяцев назад +4

    👋 James 😊

  • @virginiagroff5191
    @virginiagroff5191 8 месяцев назад +1

    I wonder if Meri was in reality the only one that disciplined the children. I feel Christine may have spoiled them and Janelle was too busy trying to provide for everyone. I may be wrong, but I’ve noticed that a spoiled child will say they are being mistreated if one of the parents tries to finally discipline them!

  • @SusanSilvis-vn2bd
    @SusanSilvis-vn2bd 8 месяцев назад +13

    I think Meri was a more strict parent. I have been doing a rewatch we know hindsight is 20/20, I am looking and the happy faces are their but when they think the cameras not looking the eye rolls, facial expressions of exasperation crack me up. I think the infertility issues raised extremely hurt feelings and I believe Christine and Janelle could have pressed that button with harsh words when angry.

    • @Indigo565
      @Indigo565 8 месяцев назад

      Nothing on that show was real. Your rewatches wouldn't show the beginning of the family or the kids experiences growing up. The show also stopped certain behaviors. The fact that Meri's own child cut her off at one point is telling to me

  • @cassiehobbs5751
    @cassiehobbs5751 8 месяцев назад

    I find it sooo disrespectful of Kody to tell anyone what he did to Meri ring. Before he told her. She was at that time, the only wife who was legally married to him.

  • @marshalynn22
    @marshalynn22 7 месяцев назад

    alright - started w/ the ring melting video - You have a lot of great insight. thanks for your videos - happy to HBO

  • @catherinekeller7938
    @catherinekeller7938 8 месяцев назад +2

    Or Kody or others could be in jail. Not to mention he was illegally selling items at gun shows without a licence.

    • @donnafisher6212
      @donnafisher6212 8 месяцев назад +1

      Curious as to where this info is. Where was he charged?

    • @catherinekeller7938
      @catherinekeller7938 8 месяцев назад

      @@donnafisher6212 you need a licence to sell what he was selling. Then he recently stopped. Mykelti also mentioned he does the gun shows.

  • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
    @stop_and_smell_the_roses 8 месяцев назад +1

    *I just watched footage of Robem kicking the dogs head to move it out of her way.* Robem has reached new lows, even for her. Allegedly she has done this twice to the same dog, with footage each time. Footage is on the channel, Down the Rabbit Hole at Bedtime, show called 3.New Sister Wives Footage: Robyn is Selfless Queen. I'm an animal lover and this is unexcusable. TLC does nothing about abuse, so could we get her charged for cruelty abuse to an animal 2x. If she's doing this in public, what's she doing in private? That dog should be removed from their custody. I can't begin to speculate why she would do this, unless it's K's dog and R is jealous of anyone or anything that gets in the way of devotion toward herself. James, could you please address this serious issue?

  • @yallvoir
    @yallvoir 8 месяцев назад +3

    TLC is business whose prime directive is "make money". and to expect them to act otherwise may be naive. As per the threat to cancel the show, that most strongly affects people who are reliant on the show to support themselves. Hmmm? Mykelti, Tony, and three very young children, yet none of them has a real job. You bet they'll toe the line to keep their major, if not only, income stream supporting them.
    I believe most families edit what to share publicly. Hopefully it is more of a "please don't tell the ____ story in your speech at the wedding" and not "don't anyone that talk Uncle ____ is a predatory paedophile.

  • @valadia4715
    @valadia4715 8 месяцев назад +2

    I agree James.😊

  • @wendyredd9890
    @wendyredd9890 8 месяцев назад

    Thanks for your videos!!

  • @deemattina6234
    @deemattina6234 8 месяцев назад +1

    I don't believe that was abuse as far as Meri. From Mykelti's account she was TOLD that Meri was abusive and that she got the lions share of it. I think that all the parents parent differently and Meri was a yeller. I also, believe all of the parents support corporal punishment. Meri being the least liked by everyone is of course the one getting all the heat.

  • @SarahAsYouWish
    @SarahAsYouWish 8 месяцев назад +2

    Completely agree that the kids deserve to have their voices heard as much as the parents.

  • @ocg-tax817
    @ocg-tax817 8 месяцев назад

    My concern is that we're expected to believe everything we hear, without knowing if it's rumor. One incident, or even based on a lie. Without proof, how do we judge?
    Kids often use the "abuse" card, when it's only a parent being strict. Also, I've heard Mykelty say she would like her mom and dad to make up. That's a kids wish, not an adults wish. When my parents divorced after 25 years of pure torture for my mom, my 3 younger siblings cried and begged my mom to take my dad back. Which she didn't do. And when she married my step dad, they claimed they hated him. That is until they saw how differently he treated mom. It took several years before they actually decided that it was mom who married him, and he treated her like a queen. That's when they started appreciating him for the good guy he was.
    Mykelty may be an adult, but she too was raised in the cult, so even her thinking could still be a bit off.

  • @natalielawyerchick
    @natalielawyerchick 8 месяцев назад

    Too many of the kids, some of them don’t even like each other, have confirmed Meri’s abuse. I believe them. People just aren’t comfortable with liking a person who abused kids.

    • @UnPluggingThePlayer
      @UnPluggingThePlayer 8 месяцев назад +1

      Sure, but what were the exact abuse allegations? If was throwing a flip flop at them for being tyrant brats, then the kids haven't realized that Meri is from a different era where polyg parents were very old school hands-on with discipline. My parents were very religious old school and it took me 2 minutes to figure out that modern views of discipline is very different than what they used. They all need counseling to help those grown kids.

  • @wintergirl8
    @wintergirl8 8 месяцев назад

    I don't buy that for a second. Meri hollered at the kids and Mykelti has framed it as abuse. She's full of it.

    • @UnPluggingThePlayer
      @UnPluggingThePlayer 8 месяцев назад

      Could you imagine being around all those kids who were emotionally reacting to Kody's over-the-top narc personality? Kids that you were being belittled over for not bringing more in? While the wife relationship was sour? I'm not saying it's ok to abuse kids, I'm just imagining that if I were in Meri's shoes, without proper counseling, I'd have screamed and gotten pissy too. TLC needed to bring in counseling to help, but of course that wouldn't provide on-going drama and $

    • @emma2370
      @emma2370 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@UnPluggingThePlayerI live in Las Vegas and I’ve heard that the brown kids were nightmares. Apparently the neighborhood they lived in were threatening to sue it was so bad. Maybe Meri was just trying to discipline the kids which they claimed were all their kids so she was entitled to do? I think it’s so odd people are willing to ruin Meri over allegations that keep changing but Kody gets off scot free.

  • @TulipsandCats
    @TulipsandCats 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you for your sensitivity in speaking about this. I do believe Mykelti is in a difficult spot of wanting her father’s love vs how her father is treating her siblings. I also think Mykelti will end up taking her hurt and pain and write the first tell all book.

    • @UnPluggingThePlayer
      @UnPluggingThePlayer 8 месяцев назад +1

      It's interesting how Tony seems to protect Kody.

  • @karen81986
    @karen81986 8 месяцев назад +1

    Mykeski is so annoying. She flip flops Don’t believe a word she says

  • @Lost_Again_
    @Lost_Again_ 8 месяцев назад

    Another awesome show!

  • @kristinxox
    @kristinxox 8 месяцев назад +1

    I want to know so badly what Mari did to mykelti …. Mykelti constantly alluding to all this abuse but never saying what it was automatically makes me think it was verbal and physical … but I don’t think oh you not tapped in the mouth for being nasty rather you got backhanded … or rather than someone who will not put up with a disrespectful child and bring strict with that (because I can totally see Mari being the strict “mom” out of all of them. I can see Janelle being the “do whatever you want just don’t burn the house down or break any bones” mom and Christine is the flowery mom and the delicate mom who even if her kids were out of control, which they weren’t at least on tv, she’d still try going out things in the same way even though it’s clearly not working) being just all out nasty and constantly screaming at her and just taking it to the highest level ….. because the other kids said KODY was the abusive one, he’s the one who hit or paddled … Gwen said he used to throw her up in the air and left bruises on her …. But then flying monkey mykelti comes in and said Kody WASNT abusive and kody NEVER did that … Mari was the one who was abusive and she was the one who was abused. I do not like mykelti at all. I think she’s a flying monkey for Robin AND Kody … I think she’s 2faced and a pot stirrer and I do not like her homeless Tarzan looking husband … however, I will be on mykelti’s side with this abuse thing … until she finally comes out and says what it was …. And the only way I’ll change my mind is if she’s exaggerating or lying.
    I’d also like it is mykelti afforded her siblings the same respect she wants from them…. She’s always seemingly pushing Kody and robin on EVERYONE- people who were actually abused by them- and she needs to not call them out as liars for their experiences with Kody. Saying Kody never slapped, or paddled or was so mad at Gwen he was throwing her up in the air and hit her so hard he left bruises…. If even just one of them said Mykelti you’re being dramatic Mari did not abuse you, she was strict get over it she’d be pissed and probably very hurt. I see a lot of Kody in mykelti … I also see a lot of Kody in Gwen as well.
    And this maybe the unpopular opinion however, I think that Christine was wrong for not just staying on track with the whole Mary, noticing Cody‘s new ring in the scene at her house, but deciding that, even though she clearly knew it was not her story to be telling that fuck it I’m gonna do it anyway i’m putting a story out there that Mary had never told, clearly something that was extremely hurtful and painful for Mary… And I know people are saying, Mary never told it because she was protecting Cody and that may be true to an extent, but when something is that painful and hurtful and embarrassing I wouldn’t want to be telling the world about it either. I also know that Mary’s catfish had put it out there along with a bunch of other stuff and no one ever knew if it was true or not but again it wasn’t Mary that put it out there for the world she told, one person, they told the world. I love Christine she’s 100% my favorite and that’s not changing but I do think that she was wrong for doing what she did and I think that she owes Marie an apology. And not her interview with Janelle acting like it wasn’t that big of a deal, and that she has culpability. I do not want Christine to be like Kody and robin and do something wrong and not take ownership of it or at least acknowledge hey I know I shouldn’t have done that but I did it anyway and it was wrong.

    • @UnPluggingThePlayer
      @UnPluggingThePlayer 8 месяцев назад

      Meri told the ring story to the catfishing person in that catfishers book. At the time, nobody could confirm it because TLC edits the crap that they put out, and the 5 don't tell the truth to the public while still having a public platform. If it were all private I'd say yes, but it's public.
      In a polyg relationship the theme is, "where we go one we go all."
      I think Christine is trying to tell some truth as it affects them all, and still deny other truths when it might be too hard for her to confront. I don't agree with Christine's denial choice not to seek counseling, because that choice also involves how she might relate to kids, and go public. These 5 are all about protecting in denial for themselves. At this stage it's kinda too late for that. I agree with James on this one. Christine gets to be the bad guy, while Kody gets another free pass, even though the ring thing really affected Christine and her kids, like a knife to their liver. In real life they might have the luxury of cherry picking their crap, but this is a TLC show about polyg that should be about the truth. It seems like they're all programmed to hide the truth and protect polyg and Kody.
      It's also interesting that Kody used the word liver. In ancient Chinese medicine the liver has a specific relation to the psyche. They don't seem to care to explore health, and Meri's boundaries are misplaced because her and Christine didn't have a good relationship.
      Notice Kody's placement of his arm on the table. Was it scripted to show the ring and cause more drama? Or was that an unconscious behavioral pattern. Rob'ems response played the avoidance denial card.
      Anyway, we will have to agree to disagree on this one.

  • @lupinedew
    @lupinedew 7 месяцев назад

    I think you're take is very insightful.

  • @Southernheathen13
    @Southernheathen13 8 месяцев назад +2

    We’re assuming it’s TLC who said they might not air the show but it could have been any of the adults who said they wouldn’t participate

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  8 месяцев назад +1

      From my understanding of what Mykelti said, TLC threatened to cancel the show.

    • @Nevermindjess
      @Nevermindjess 8 месяцев назад

      How do we know mykelti didn't make this up tho? Or an adult said this happened to shut her up about a situation? I thought I read somewhere meri threatened Christine and mykelti with lawyers to shut their mouths. We will only find out the actual t r uth when their tell all book comes out when tlc decides to stop the show.

  • @J-en9ku
    @J-en9ku 8 месяцев назад

    If I ever saw kody in real life, I wouldn't be able to stop myself from asking him if he realizees that HE never caught Robyn, Robyn wanted the tv show and the power of being favored.

  • @ferolboyd9700
    @ferolboyd9700 8 месяцев назад +1

    I would of went butt shit too...all them living in a trailor together..with Jannelle sitting on her ass n Christine so passive. I could imagine the kids all running amuck.i imagine these children had no boundaries..then several parents..the children were just in survival mode.

    • @UnPluggingThePlayer
      @UnPluggingThePlayer 8 месяцев назад

      Plus Meri being tossed out of 1st wife role and abused by Kody for not having kids and for trying to take his control as the man of the house. (See S18 E1 for K's admittance that M wanted control and he weren't havin his king position dethroned by her. ) Imagine being around all the kids when your failure to procure more is one cause of being abused? Poor parenting always takes it out on kids, and like you said I bet all these incorrectly disciplined and undisciplined kids would make a preacher turn to booze. OH, K as a polyg preacher *did* go to booze.

  • @southbound804
    @southbound804 8 месяцев назад

    Why did Mykelti go to Robyns house???? Not all the kids were little angels.

  • @joykennedy1445
    @joykennedy1445 8 месяцев назад +1

    Jon & Kate all over again

  • @Nightbird1914
    @Nightbird1914 8 месяцев назад +1

    I don’t know about Mykelti’s accusations. Look how much went on with Duggars before they finally got cancelled. Not just Josh but the blanket training and all kinds of deplorable things. Gwen and Paedon have said Kody was physically abusive but then they too stopped talking about it.

  • @user-wc8em2it6d
    @user-wc8em2it6d 8 месяцев назад +2

    Well if the children were abused by Meri? Christine and Janelle own it too. They could have called CPS. Had charges filed against Meri. Crickets from ALL 5 adults.

    • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
      @stop_and_smell_the_roses 8 месяцев назад

      They couldn't because they are AUB cult and were trained to hide dirty little secrets. And I mean they were literally trained via shaming and threatening consequences in this life and in the next life. For example, S18 E1 K slammed C for talking badly / criticizing her S.W.'s. He basically said he was done with her. AUB rule #1 is You never criticize (keep sweet) and never EVER report. Ever! That's why they go into denial, like C who won't go for counseling by using a lame so-called boundary that their not in her life anymore so she doesn't have to deal with it all. These unhealthy teachings are deep rooted and very hard to break. That's why cult programming is dangerous for children and adults alike.

    • @emma2370
      @emma2370 8 месяцев назад +1

      Honestly, it scares me how many people try to claim they are good mothers. They all had children they couldn’t afford. They let TLC exploit the children for a tv show. Also, they didn’t seem to have any boundaries for the children. I live in Las Vegas and it was well known that the children acted like monsters to the point where they were being asked to leave the neighborhood they lived in.

  • @nanciephillips7750
    @nanciephillips7750 8 месяцев назад

    It seems McKelti is under Kody and Robin's thumb. I think they are trying to put the spotlight on Meri to defuse the bad publicity of Robin and Kody. Maybe they are trying to get her thrown off the show.

  • @katrinaDS
    @katrinaDS 8 месяцев назад +1

    TLC is the worst about airing reality shows and acting like the family is great and knowing behind closed doors abuse is going on. We see it show after show. TLC don’t care. They just want their money. It’s really sad actually how many shows TLC has put out where we find out later the kids were being abused.

    • @UnPluggingThePlayer
      @UnPluggingThePlayer 8 месяцев назад +1

      Yep. People trying to analyze the truth get censored, but TLC keeps on going. As Oliver Anthony song would say, "It's a damn shame what the world's come to, for people like me, and people like you."

    • @katrinaDS
      @katrinaDS 8 месяцев назад

      @@UnPluggingThePlayer amen 🙌!!!

  • @r.peterson1779
    @r.peterson1779 8 месяцев назад

    I think there are a couple of important factors here. 1) When the alleged abuse took place. If it was prior to the show, I don't think you can contend that TLC is complicit. Even if they have hot mic material of someone discussing the past, they aren't obligated to air it. 2) what contractual obligation does Mykelti have with TLC right now? If she's airing dirty laundry on her platform while under contract with TLC, I can see the conflict of interest. I don't know who threatened her, but clearly the profit of the show continuing is her priority. If she was abused, that sucks big time. However, I'm not sure I agree that she's being mistreated now. She's a grown woman and her decisions have consequences. She could drop TLC and write a book. She could walk into the sunset and never associate with the show again. For me, she's just a milder version of her dad with some questionable scruples. I don't condone child abuse and even more disgusted by parental coverup but I'm more concerned with whether it was handled correctly by the family at the time than I care about it being shared for the world to comment on.

  • @gellaevans
    @gellaevans 8 месяцев назад

    How can we implore Mykelti to give up what happened? What it be legal for us to start a bribe fund? What is mykelti's price? If that okay or maybe not.

  • @perfumelady9089
    @perfumelady9089 8 месяцев назад +1

    Well of course it’s Mykelti fault Robin & Kody are blameless as usual. It’s never ever their actions

  • @mollyc9038
    @mollyc9038 8 месяцев назад +1

    They need to a show with Mari going fishing 😂😂😂😂

  • @Dwayne46
    @Dwayne46 8 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for your video it was great .