As we get older, we realize that life is easier either being alone, or having a small group of friends. An intelligent and wise man will seek to be in silence so that he can meditate and think about the direction of his life
ive had this problem all my life, just the dumbest clingiest jerk-offs forever attaching themselves to me in sequence. needy, annoying people friending me over and over and over
Wise words and I completely agree! I have found that many people who are unable to be alone or even slow down for a just a bit....are afraid of the thoughts that will come up from past regrets or the FOMO as you stated. Being still and knowing/working on yourself is such a superpower. Thanks for sharing and best of luck on your YT journey!
Most people actually think it's weird when you choose to be alone. It's almost as if they automatically assume it's because you're unable to make friends, or you don't have options. They don't consider the fact that maybe you just don't wanna be around most people at that point in your life. It's crazy.
I’m in isolation season currently. Self-reflection is essential to growth. I made a mistake of liking someone who was for everyone, they went back to the streets-it’s disgusting. This vid is SO important!
This sounds like "Women in a Nutshell": «people who can't be alone» - although they pretend they can be alone. We hear often from other women: «I don't need a man! I'm a strong independent woman» - ironically, i see these same women always surrounded by people. They can't stand being a weekend alone without inticing their friends, family, or even their coworkers into going out during their days off or holidays. Make no mistake into thinking that being alone is gonna turn you into a super-human or a better version of yourself than you were before, or that you will do so much self-reflection or meditate to the point hat you'll achieve nirvana or some sort of spiritual state of mind that will help you deal with everything in reality. - Most of us, don't have the kind of lifestyle that will allow us to be pseudo-monks, nor at teh same time have we the kind of personality compatible with esoteric "mambo-jambo Nr 5" by Lou Vega. And the best way to know oneself, is not by being alone! You might learn nothing at all or you might realize too little about yourself. - The best way to know yourself Is by being challenged, being tested, risking your neck or pacience on unpleaseant situations, that you usually avoid or that you're afraid of. Lots of people were not made to be alone and they crave a fix of Socialization on a regular basis. Contrary to what women say, women care too much about what other people think about them. The fear of being judged for refusing or saying NO, can be way bigger than a woman's Common Sense.
Its more deep rooted in their personality, people like that dont change, but yeah i cant stand those types, they are usually the biggest attention seekers, and they need people as their crutch to get through life. Some of what you said true too, but yeah, its usually how they learned these patterns in childhood, most of them are narcissistic
And someone said to me that if i comment on your videos you won't reply back but i didn't listen to any of them here i'am watching and listening to your video and for that i have just one word to say to you 'I Love You'❤❤
i like woman with deep thinking! its so rare but sexy. this matters in life not how much u can drink. selfcontrolle is very important to men. its easy to go for drugs, lust
I was fine alone all my life, then I got into a 14 year relationship, I ended it two months ago, it took me awhile to get away from feeling lonely, and there is a slight feeling that remains. Am I someone women should not entertain?
You're speaking facts. Sadly most people are too scared to be real look in the mirror and be alone to truly become their best selves.
As we get older, we realize that life is easier either being alone, or having a small group of friends. An intelligent and wise man will seek to be in silence so that he can meditate and think about the direction of his life
ive had this problem all my life, just the dumbest clingiest jerk-offs forever attaching themselves to me in sequence. needy, annoying people friending me over and over and over
Wise words and I completely agree! I have found that many people who are unable to be alone or even slow down for a just a bit....are afraid of the thoughts that will come up from past regrets or the FOMO as you stated. Being still and knowing/working on yourself is such a superpower. Thanks for sharing and best of luck on your YT journey!
Most people actually think it's weird when you choose to be alone. It's almost as if they automatically assume it's because you're unable to make friends, or you don't have options. They don't consider the fact that maybe you just don't wanna be around most people at that point in your life. It's crazy.
I’m in isolation season currently. Self-reflection is essential to growth. I made a mistake of liking someone who was for everyone, they went back to the streets-it’s disgusting. This vid is SO important!
Good talk
Slay queen. You're so beautiful. 🏆🥰✨
E X C E L L E N T ! ! !
I agree with your thoughts. Thank you for making this video, appreciate your time to do
Of course!❤
It's called 'Only child syndrome'. I've found that people that were an only-child cannot survive without a constant babysitter.
If you can sit in the back of the car by yourself and feel good about it you’re on the right path.
This sounds like "Women in a Nutshell": «people who can't be alone» - although they pretend they can be alone.
We hear often from other women: «I don't need a man! I'm a strong independent woman» - ironically, i see these same women always surrounded by people. They can't stand being a weekend alone without inticing their friends, family, or even their coworkers into going out during their days off or holidays.
Make no mistake into thinking that being alone is gonna turn you into a super-human or a better version of yourself than you were before, or that you will do so much self-reflection or meditate to the point hat you'll achieve nirvana or some sort of spiritual state of mind that will help you deal with everything in reality.
- Most of us, don't have the kind of lifestyle that will allow us to be pseudo-monks, nor at teh same time have we the kind of personality compatible with esoteric "mambo-jambo Nr 5" by Lou Vega.
And the best way to know oneself, is not by being alone! You might learn nothing at all or you might realize too little about yourself.
- The best way to know yourself Is by being challenged, being tested, risking your neck or pacience on unpleaseant situations, that you usually avoid or that you're afraid of.
Lots of people were not made to be alone and they crave a fix of Socialization on a regular basis.
Contrary to what women say, women care too much about what other people think about them.
The fear of being judged for refusing or saying NO, can be way bigger than a woman's Common Sense.
I need that microphone. In fact I want it.
Its more deep rooted in their personality, people like that dont change, but yeah i cant stand those types, they are usually the biggest attention seekers, and they need people as their crutch to get through life. Some of what you said true too, but yeah, its usually how they learned these patterns in childhood, most of them are narcissistic
Amen !
Can’t tune into others if I’m not in tune with myself. 🎶
I agree.
And someone said to me that if i comment on your videos you won't reply back but i didn't listen to any of them here i'am watching and listening to your video and for that i have just one word to say to you 'I Love You'❤❤
i like woman with deep thinking! its so rare but sexy. this matters in life not how much u can drink. selfcontrolle is very important to men. its easy to go for drugs, lust
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I was fine alone all my life, then I got into a 14 year relationship, I ended it two months ago, it took me awhile to get away from feeling lonely, and there is a slight feeling that remains. Am I someone women should not entertain?
Should hop on my livestream later-- debate some of these topics
Stop bothering the piece of people who want to be alone
Do you have Instagram?