How To Overcome The Fear Of Success

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  • @DanLok
    @DanLok  6 лет назад +223

    Enjoyed the video? Subscribe, Give it a Thumbs Up and Comment Below.
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    FUCK OFF, it would be very much appreciated.
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    • @cls107
      @cls107 6 лет назад +4

      Dan Lok your videos are really educational and you deserve credit well done don

    • @jedo1115
      @jedo1115 6 лет назад +7

      Oh my God, Mr. Dan my greeting.
      I think this video missed one thing that is to mention my name, most of your words described exactly what I going through,
      This video along motivate me to act now for something ready from a while but I wasn't know why I'm procrastinate, please Mr.Dan continue on this subject to learn more about overcome this fear..
      Am sure that when day I will meet you and give you the admiration you deserve. ..

    • @mohit063972
      @mohit063972 6 лет назад +2

      How can a person from India work with you or I can say learn from you?

    • @steveinphillyswirl970
      @steveinphillyswirl970 6 лет назад +2

      hahaha awesome!

    • @norabermudez4040
      @norabermudez4040 6 лет назад +1

      Lv u Dan

  • @dylongarrett4779
    @dylongarrett4779 6 лет назад +318

    Fear of success is something that I think people don’t think about. I think most people just believe there is fear of failure, but fear of actually doing well and not knowing how to handle it is something that I feel I have.

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +19

      Exactly Dylon.

    • @jmannz1
      @jmannz1 6 лет назад +9

      and Fear of the unknown and unfamiliar

    • @7Logik
      @7Logik 6 лет назад +2

      Spot on brother

    • @rutht8570
      @rutht8570 6 лет назад +5

      harooni22 exactly! I never had the words to explain what it was I felt. "I feel problems come with more money" well put. Diagnosis is a step closer to cure.

    • @FaridaSultanaIchoosesuccess
      @FaridaSultanaIchoosesuccess 6 лет назад +5

      Again true, with success you are on unfamiliar grounds: "now you have money and now you have to know where to put your money to get 1. more tax deductions 2. More interest 3. protect it from scammers etc. etc.

  • @Luciusg666
    @Luciusg666 6 лет назад +244

    Addicted to drama, sounds scary, but true. Please do more videos on how to get comfortable with success. Thank you.

  • @reafab
    @reafab 4 года назад +90

    I feel like I have this fear of success because sometimes when I find out that the method I have tried works I suddenly freeze and get scared. I start to overthink and my doubts start to creep in..sometimes I feel relieved when someone cancels a call because I'm not confident in doing calls but I know I have to overcome that fear for me to become truly successful..I want to be successful for my family and for myself..it's like a battle I always have in my mind..appreciate your videos, Dan.

    • @simsim0000000000
      @simsim0000000000 3 года назад +1

      Same here 😐

    • @xxsnow_angelxx3953
      @xxsnow_angelxx3953 2 года назад +2

      sameeee until onetime I tried to cancel the appointment but my internet went out then they called me and at that point I thought I was f*cked but god was doing his miracles

    • @bbalokabeleka1979
      @bbalokabeleka1979 Год назад

      You got it right out of me.
      That's the description of my experience.

    • @stefanrinke5038
      @stefanrinke5038 2 месяца назад

      Same:/

  • @Quniverse
    @Quniverse 6 лет назад +96

    It's funny because as I continue on my path I think what scares me the most is the success of dissolving my identity. It's almost like throwing away everything you've spent so much time building. How can I just throw "myself" away like that? The attachment. The resistance to change. Resistance to evolution....

    • @vineetkumarpandey3003
      @vineetkumarpandey3003 5 лет назад +3

      @@jewbacca7777 nicely explained..loved it 💙

    • @dontlookatmyprofilepic4796
      @dontlookatmyprofilepic4796 5 лет назад +1

      @@jewbacca7777 this has helped me better than the videos. Thank you.

    • @bobmag5058
      @bobmag5058 4 года назад +7

      You are you. It's the criticism and down pulling by your parents, teachers and other people who have given you the identity of smallness. But you're expansion allow your expansion.

  • @dudewitgunz
    @dudewitgunz 6 лет назад +16

    That success fear is real! Omg everytime I'm about to move onto the next level, something happens. Dan please do a video.

  • @brianzak
    @brianzak 6 лет назад +6

    I am aware of my sabotage. Relationships dont last. You nailed it right on the head. I think the only thing that is holding me back is fear of success.

  • @lgianaro
    @lgianaro 6 лет назад +10

    I think some people become addicted to failure as a way of life because there is so much social proof of it everywhere and most people just want to fit in. Our identity can be a terribly hard habit to break. Ironically, people who feel inferior often do better because they are trying to compensate for their shortcomings and then work harder at success. People who have experienced trauma may associate the excitement of success with the same physiological reactions as trauma. They avoid subjecting themselves to excitement-inducing circumstances, which causes them to be almost phobic about success. There are many more reasons including the most obvious which is that most people are just not intelligent enough to be successful. Either way, everyone, no matter who they are, can always do better if they simply commit themselves to self improvement as a way of life. Thanks Dan for your continuing great advice!

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +1

      Well said Louis

  • @migipara2140
    @migipara2140 6 лет назад +8

    I was thinking about that just today, I was consumed by the thought that success must be overwhelming and intimidating. And Dan, as always your words fall right in place and suddenly everything makes sense. Self-esteem is the foundation of all success. We all would really appreciate it if you can touch more on the subject. The content you put out is absolutely PRICELESS! Thank you so much.

  • @vinitagrin4916
    @vinitagrin4916 5 лет назад +3

    Holy Shit! You've hit the bull's eye Dan. I'm spiritual, I meditate and stuff, read and follow a lot of self-help books and materials,.. But nowhere I got this blatant TRUTH. I've been struggling all through my career, full of highs and lows, always sabotaging when I got what I struggled for - by messing with supiriors' ego, getting low and over confident, getting into unnecessary trouble at work place, and what not. All this while I thought it's my lack of discipline, and I'm always working on it (forever), been so hard on myself. I am a high IQ multiple talented person, and for me to be struggling all the time, when i should be doing "real stuff" makes me sick to my stomach.
    And you tell me this. Just like that.
    I think today is the day that will change my life. God bless you.
    Love, Vinita. 😃
    🇨🇦🌈

  • @cena669
    @cena669 6 лет назад +31

    Very deep stuff sifu!!
    Total eye opener !!
    Thank you for sharing

  • @ZeldaPark
    @ZeldaPark 4 года назад

    I came here because thats how i feel today . I kinda fear of success . Thank you Dan for having this video . I learn that SELF ESTEEM is the foundation of SUCCESS. I deserve success. Cheers to everyone who are aspiring to be successful.

  • @Angelusdelaluz
    @Angelusdelaluz 5 лет назад +4

    I need to eliminate the lack of self-esteem and grow my self-love, and have the feeling of deserving success in all areas of my life. thank you! you really helping me!

    • @yourquestionsanswered.5451
      @yourquestionsanswered.5451 2 года назад

      I believe the social structure flourished ( and still does) by promoting beliefs of unworthiness, giving people feelings of low self esteem. If people don’t feel good about themselves they will never rise above their allotted station in life.
      We all have a inbuilt spirit who’s purpose is to move us towards our higher calling.
      Moving past the struggle into the flow, requires us to become aware of our self sabotaging beliefs, then pay attention to what we THINK, SAY, & DO, becoming conscious is the greatest step towards self growth.
      When we think of success, the image can create excitement, but it will bring to the surface our greatest fears, and this can stop us in our tracks.
      It’s like moving from slavery to freedom, slavery is the old benefits, freedom the new, so in order to move, come back and plan some small doable goal, then bit by bit like building a house one brick at a time, a new reality will be manifested.
      Success comes from overcoming obstacles, one day at a time, one step at a time.
      Life is a journey let us enjoy the process 😍

  • @edileneruiz2784
    @edileneruiz2784 2 месяца назад

    My father was that type. He succeeded so much but was addicted to struggle and he didn’t have enough self esteem to continue! I learned from him. I learn always; from what he did right and from he did wrong for me not repeating his same mistakes. I love my father ❤

  • @ngumabi
    @ngumabi 6 лет назад +11

    Thanks for this Dan. I discovered a month ago that I was afraid of success. I will love to know more about how to overcome it. It's really affecting my life and education.

    • @nvayvay4154
      @nvayvay4154 6 лет назад +1

      Hello Ngum Abi! I'm like you, it's so frustrating!!! I wish you can be successfull too, you deserve it, we all deserve happiness and success!

  • @KarenNewLife
    @KarenNewLife 5 лет назад +1

    The topic of my paragraph called, “Believing in the Dream of Success”.
    Love 💕 all your powerful wisdom, knowledge, talents, etc. that you share with the global community.
    I’m also a Karen refugee Immigrant from Thailand. All your contributions have a positive impact on my life. I do see my success in future, but haven’t reach it yet!
    Thank you so much Mr. Dan Lok. God bless you and your family with peace and prosperity. 🙏🙏

  • @paxnorth7304
    @paxnorth7304 6 лет назад +5

    I would a hundred million percent love you to talk more on this topic and about getting comfortable with success.

  • @capitalismconquerspoverty6018
    @capitalismconquerspoverty6018 3 года назад

    I started out being scared of success, and even know I still work full time and the business is still in its infancy I welcome whatever comes because I’ve been liberated from complacency and my clients ROCK

  • @youssefdlimi3972
    @youssefdlimi3972 6 лет назад +30

    Dan, can you make a video about the difference between "working" and "hustling", cause I found that a lot of people mix between the two!

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +5

      Youssef, watch this ruclips.net/video/SKIu0fcEh9s/видео.html

  • @2raydiggs
    @2raydiggs 5 лет назад +2

    This is probably one of the most important videos from you sir that I've watched. I've struggled for decades with fear of success and at this point of my life (I'll be 55 April 19th) I'm more than ready for a change. I've had some good successes in my life but I know I want more. I'm beyond tired of sabotage myself and I want to be successful. Mr Lok can you please do more videos on how (strategy wise) to overcome fear of success. I have taken notes while watching this video (i.e. Dress for Success on a daily basis and change my mentality). I've already downloaded your F. U. Money book & awaiting the release of Unlock It very soon. Thank you sir for your time & wisdom. Looking for towards watching more of your videos & reading your new book.

  • @CalesGarageTV
    @CalesGarageTV 5 лет назад +3

    This video hits me personally right between the eyes. I have actually been contemplating this subject for a while and I know where the root cause comes from, the fear of the kind of person that I would become if super successful. Every word you mentioned about the fear of success in this video is true. If I didn't know better, I would think that I just had an real conversation with you about the subject. Thank you for this video.

  • @lehelnagy3877
    @lehelnagy3877 6 лет назад +2

    Addicted to the ups and downs and the struggles. It is so true, I was here for 1-2 years after dropping out of college. And it was exactly by developing my self-esteem and confidence did I got out of this. Fantastic video. You're helping people through the most insightful videos. They're uniquely one-of-a-kind. Thank you, Dan!

  • @ahmedawad169
    @ahmedawad169 6 лет назад +14

    Yes please, more ways to get comfortable with success!

    • @ronsinclair619
      @ronsinclair619 3 года назад +2

      Yes Dan please make more videos on this. Thank you. ❤😀

  • @sharenstrongmatthews8549
    @sharenstrongmatthews8549 6 лет назад

    Dan Lok you have laser vision into the psyche behind success at so many levels. You are a man of wisdom beyond most. And of course, this is the reason for your success in the various areas of life. I appreciate that you have set yourself up in a way that shares what you know. Who would have guessed that people are afraid of success, it is counter intuitive but REAL. Much gratitude for all that you share.

  • @selfworthy
    @selfworthy 5 лет назад +5

    When you have ups and downs its not only fear of success. Its loosing the intrinsic motivation by reaching a set of a goal. When you are low on money and high in debt, you aim to get out of debt and finally break even. But when you reach the motivational turning point of breaking even and dont have your goal actualized from running away from something daunting to running towards something positive like akkumulating assets and still raising your income, you will loose motivation and enter disorientation. Like a runner reaching his goal and pausing. As soon as you near your turning point, adapt your navigation and set your new course.

  • @littlemisssunshine2931
    @littlemisssunshine2931 5 лет назад

    It's not the addiction to struggles its that they don't feel worthy of receiving riches so they block them. You touched on it with the self-esteem/self-worth.

  • @Graanvlok
    @Graanvlok 6 лет назад +7

    This video is so profound. Thank you. "Addicted to the struggles". I am that person who is waiting for something to be perfect. I am working on a blog and have been working on it for years now without making it public. It is getting ridiculous. :-) I am now trying to work on the things that are holding me back. I think I am afraid of success...PLEASE do talk about this some more.

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +1

      The first step is to recognize it. The second step is to watch this video: ruclips.net/video/tilA5Y-MUB4/видео.html

    • @Graanvlok
      @Graanvlok 6 лет назад

      You're awesome. x Thank you.

  • @PocKetWizarD
    @PocKetWizarD 6 лет назад +1

    Hey Dan, Liked, Subscribed, been watching your stuff for two weeks now. I share them with my friends, I rewatch a video at least twice to let it soak in, I will admit that I have fears that have been holding me back. I had a history of stumbling but I'm not going to let it happen anymore. Your advice is something I use as my inner voice at work, and it's helping me grow more. And it's not a push (getting rid of addiction to the struggle). It's taking action. It's showing results little by little already. You're doing a great service to people, Dan. I'm going to be a very regular follower of your work, and most importantly, your teaching. Much love from Trinidad & Tobago 🇹🇹

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +2

      Excellent.

  • @GroundbreakGames
    @GroundbreakGames 6 лет назад +5

    Thanks man. I've never watched you before but this was something that's been on my mind as I release my first video game, and it really helped break down some of my feelings and behavior lately.

  • @MiketheNerdRanger
    @MiketheNerdRanger 6 лет назад

    I can see this becoming the most popular series you make on youtube; a simple concept of taking a car ride, talking one on one listening to some of the most valuable straight forward answers to burning questions about how to be successful. This is a gem of an idea.

  • @danielhuang738
    @danielhuang738 6 лет назад +15

    Dress for success!

  • @liusetarajensen9586
    @liusetarajensen9586 5 лет назад

    Dan, I like you said:’ get comfortable with success. Believe this is something, its part of who you are. It’s your identities.”. I like you every video I watched. Thank you so much for you made them.

  • @princessmau28
    @princessmau28 4 года назад +3

    This video was really impacting!!! Can you do more on this topic? I would really appreciate it

  • @sidekickcomedy
    @sidekickcomedy 6 лет назад

    I am addicted to finding the truth about success and how to solve problems but once I got the answer I don't take actions because I seek more truth and more answers instead. I also make friends primarily on how much they can validate my intellectual discoveries instead of how much they can help me succeed. Now I am working on changing. Dan is one of the first person who introduce the concept about self esteem to me that make sense I never really understood it before. Low self-esteem cost me a lot I was never believing I was ready so I kept seeking more knowledge instead of sieging the opportunities as they come

  • @stevemcdonald6981
    @stevemcdonald6981 6 лет назад +5

    Yes, Sifu Lok, please develop the video on becoming comfortable with success.

    • @drbenedictraj
      @drbenedictraj 4 года назад

      I would like to see the video on the fear of success, please.

  • @whatifeverythingisslow8542
    @whatifeverythingisslow8542 4 года назад

    Yes,here I am.I'm addicted to the struggles and not always comfortable with good things and really want to change it and wish me luck.

  • @DonVantelPhotography
    @DonVantelPhotography 6 лет назад +6

    Damn Dan! That was probably the most powerful video that I have watched. Thank you for taking the time and making these videos. At first I was put off by the level of confidence that you portray. I've been watching your videos for about a month and I can really see your personality. I believe you give more insight and understanding on the mindset and thinking than any other motivation speaker or professional sales trainer that I have seen or heard. I would like to know your thoughts on when someone is so successful and they know whatever they put their mind to it will be successful but yet lack the motivation to do that. I don't know if I'm making sense. I wish I could afford the phone call to you. Thank you again and please keep it up.

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +1

      Welcome Don.

  • @muiscnight
    @muiscnight 6 лет назад

    Wow "addicted to struggle" hit me hard out of no where that describes me perfectly. I need to change that now.

  • @DanielKaranwolf
    @DanielKaranwolf 6 лет назад +4

    Great video Dan. It's crazy that people just get comfortable in the struggle/failure. That's their area of certainty and the possible success upon success is the uncertainty so they avoid it at all costs. When you are at home doing work, are you also wearing a suit?

  • @selmag3284
    @selmag3284 4 года назад

    I have always felt afraid of success, and still struggling. The most annoying thing about it is that people think it's silly and dramatic, but it's so real and scary to me. Besides, I haven't just decided to be afraid of success; it is rooted in my subconscious because of early associations of success with negative outcomes.
    I'm working to overcome it one step at a time.

  • @auntieyaa4196
    @auntieyaa4196 4 года назад +3

    There are so many people who are afraid and fear to be great especially me because it seems like the whole world 's burden will be on you

  • @robstack3712
    @robstack3712 3 года назад

    FIRST TIME WATCHER, impressed by your insight on this, I’m a lawyer & been fighting a MULTI- Million Dollar corruption case, I’m at the Supreme Court Level & I’ve been writing & writing & writing & I assumed my block was “Learned Helplessness”, illl check out more, but this is literally a fight of GOOD vs EVIL!!!✊

  • @langstonrichardson3828
    @langstonrichardson3828 5 лет назад +4

    I needed tk see this, I started a fitness Instagram and was about to quit at 3500 followers bc I was afraid of what I didnt know... Great Video again Dan Loc I will continue it what I needed

  • @fletchdavidson6079
    @fletchdavidson6079 6 лет назад

    Getting comfortable with success is a needed video.

  • @enlighteninggoddess8900
    @enlighteninggoddess8900 6 лет назад +5

    TALK ABOUT THE THINGS DO TO OVERCOME THE FEAR OF SUCCESS

  • @JoyWanakwanyi
    @JoyWanakwanyi 6 лет назад

    Thank you Dan for everything. God will bless you🙏 I haven’t encountered anything like this online before.
    I was struggling for almost a year trying to make money online, I got customers but was always broke. Then when I encountered one of your videos about high ticket sales, I recently decided to start my own luxury brand online.
    And I followed all your steps for my website. I literally read FU Money everyday to change my mindset and get motivation because most people around me aren’t supportive. It’s hard to get support.
    So many people try to remind me of where I come from yet I’m so excited about where I’m going.
    If I manage to make my first sale, I’ll defiantly pay for the high ticket sale course because you helped me. And hopefully one day I’ll meet you to thank you. 🙏

  • @cmaharshdhawal8641
    @cmaharshdhawal8641 6 лет назад +3

    Definitely..sir only watching video willnot give us success...action is needed in the direction which you told us

  • @BaconMountainMan
    @BaconMountainMan 5 лет назад

    I know this has been me. I had believed -- for so long -- that I was bout worthy of success. I am slowly changing that....and I do wear a suit most days....for the very reason you stated. Thanks for putting all of these videos out there...they are much appreciated.

  • @josephmedearis9691
    @josephmedearis9691 6 лет назад +4

    Do you have a podcast?

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +2

      Listen to them here: www.shouldersoftitans.com/

  • @surajdhone1285
    @surajdhone1285 3 года назад +1

    Marvellous Video Dan Sir...👌🙏🙏

  • @Ace-xm3qv
    @Ace-xm3qv 6 лет назад +6

    This dude is gold 😆🤘

  • @thejonasonstyle
    @thejonasonstyle 5 лет назад

    Thank you, Dan, for this video! And PLEASE DO MORE ON THIS TOPIC! I am a style coach und I help my clients to see a better self of them, or to say it better, they get an idea who else they can be. Clothes are so powerful, the hairstyle, make-up are tools to change your mindset of your potential. And when you see it, you believe way easier in it. And then every step is way easier to go. I want to make a second compliment to you Dan: I see myself so clear in videos like this, also in other videos where you talk about fear of success or lacking the mindset to become rich and really successful. Because.....although I am getting super results for my clients, I could do way better, with better clients and being higher paid. When I think back for how long I am self-sabotaging my own success....but you inspired and helped me to go the next step. Although I have little money, I found highly successful business and mindset coaches and on Wednesday they will get my money and I will take their knowledge. But I had to make a clear decision for quitting all the self-attempts to grow and earn money and step out of the comfortzone I am living. Stepping out of my average surrounding and let myself grow and overcome the fear of success. A HUGE THANK YOU! Maybe one day we will meet. :-)

  • @lisamoseley4577
    @lisamoseley4577 2 года назад

    Thank you darling. I just found you today because I'm trying to understand my brother who is afraid of life. I see him like a Angry Ostrich. You just helped me so much💋

  • @lillianandersoncpacandidat4427
    @lillianandersoncpacandidat4427 4 года назад +1

    Mr. Lok, you are on fire🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥!!! Please do more videos on the fear of success AND overcoming the fear of success!!!

  • @communicationmastery727
    @communicationmastery727 6 лет назад

    I wrote that in my book. Self-image is your foundation. Confidence, power, success, and fulfillment are centered around your self-image.

  • @blueberry139
    @blueberry139 3 года назад

    Very powerful message. Fear of success is something few talk about. It is usually more the fear of failure. I’ll make a change

  • @mslovely3129
    @mslovely3129 3 года назад +2

    Hi Dan. I have been watching your videos for some time now and up until seeing this one I had no idea that I had “fear of success”. I originally was going to start a business with my close friend but she kept holding us back, causing delays and shooting down all my ideas. But I’ve now decided I’m going to do it on my own because I did all the research, I put in the hours and I came up with the idea and the financing. I’m so glad that you make these videos as you have helped me so much. I’m going to get incorporated this week after over a year of preparation and waiting. Thank you so much!!!!

  • @rueliligan2801
    @rueliligan2801 4 года назад

    Fear of failure is the fair of success because every successful person has a painful story behind...
    That's why I will never surrender no matter what happen....
    Your videos is very helpful to guide me how to become successful....

  • @abiwav
    @abiwav 5 лет назад

    I didn't realise this at all. Thank you Sifu Dan. #Believe There was a time I got famous, got praised and was supported. But with these it comes with the haters. I was hugely affected by it when I was young at 16. I didn't know all these success brought me so much "pain". I didn't want to be special but soon I realised people says what they want to say. You cannot change their own beliefs but you can control what happens in your life. We should not struggle to fit in but be at ease with being ourselves. Be who you really are and be at your best potential, those who will stay will stay. Thumbs up Sifu.

  • @n.d8001
    @n.d8001 6 лет назад

    Thank you Dan for all your helpful teachings

  • @ancabaciu2711
    @ancabaciu2711 5 лет назад

    Hi Dan i just discovered your channel and it is one of the best in many ways. I found exactly what I need right now since I am starting a new program and you gave me sooo many great ideas. Please talk more about success because in my experience I had a lot to suffer from reaching a level of success, people envy and betrails , telling lies about me to get me down or out of the picture, so my self trust and confidence got so bad that I was depressed for years. But now I put myself together to start anew and I Need to power to not let myself influenced and just do it,. Thank you so much I appreciate your no nonsense approach.

  • @WittyScoop
    @WittyScoop 6 лет назад

    You are absolutely right. Something that we even fear to accept that we actually fear the success.

  • @NhyiraPremium
    @NhyiraPremium 6 лет назад

    Dan Lok, I have implemented strategies and techniques you have shared in my business and personal life and I am seeing great improvement. Thank you Dan.

  • @renegoldsylvestre7183
    @renegoldsylvestre7183 5 лет назад

    Wow! You did manage to catch my attention with those videos. I am just glad that I have nothing to stop me as I look forward to this new year. The reason is because I believe in success and I wouldn't like any negative habits or bad words to stop me from making connections and progress. Therefore, I write this simple message as a method of encouragement. I write it as a way of expressing my idea of self-confidence and open-mindedness in my ability to reach a higher level of comfort!

  • @nickbelmares
    @nickbelmares 6 лет назад +1

    I lost being fearless when I was a freshman in high school all because I let someome talk down on me every little fuck up I did when I was trying to do my best at practices. I never gave it my all ever since then but was still part of the team and teamates looked at me as a captain cause of my voice and yelling and just feeling the need to dominate the fuck out the other team, I ended up getting injured my last year of high school and couldn't play my last tournament of the season and all because i wasn't fearless...I hate regreting but Ive been exploring the entrepreneurial world from good to bad cause I feel the need to stop being shy and yell and let my story be out there to always be fearless and just fuck it go all in! Thanks Dan for the videos you and your team create!

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад

      Nicolas, don't let anyone hold you back from success. Especially haters. Go all in.

  • @izzo5082
    @izzo5082 6 лет назад +2

    Thanks, Dan. You've finally filled in the blanks for me.
    I realised that the harder I worked to improve my ex-fiancee and me's lot in life - and we were reaping the rewards socially and materially - was the harder she tried to stifle our progress. And this never made sense to me.
    We'd always spoken about me (because she expressed a desire to sit it out) building our financial empire - and the realer the dream was becoming, was the more fights (from random things that weren't even our problems, relationship-wise) surfaced.
    At least now your explanation makes sense to me why I always thought she was self-sabotaging, to the point that it was affecting me negatively.
    After ruining things several times, she'd always go out of her way to play hero. But she'd also always find a way to play victim during our most monumental successes.

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +1

      Izzo, appreciate you sharing your story. I'm glad you were able to understand more of her psychology.

  • @yasaralzubaidi5989
    @yasaralzubaidi5989 4 года назад

    I love the way you deliver your experience Dan, unlike others, you don’t shout and scream. It is very comfortable listening to you all the time!! Thank you indeed 🏅💪

  • @thebrosboxdawg908
    @thebrosboxdawg908 6 лет назад +1

    Hey, Dan Lok,
    I just want to say thank you.
    Your videos have become an eye opener. I am not an entrepreneur but I am music composer.
    However, I want to apply your lessons and advice into alot of the things i practice.
    Music, Martial Arts, Writing, and other aspects of life.
    I want to succeed, and i know i can do it.
    Ill do my best.
    Thank you

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад +1

      Well done Jose. You can do it.

  • @surething119
    @surething119 6 лет назад

    Oh master I've never think like that! You are always telling things that never told before. And I know I have to think and realize those things on my own, in my whole life. But this one was the real deal, like no one asks themselfs "What if I am not as smart as I consider?", the question about fear of succes is the same way. Nobody would admit that at the first try. Thanks a lot, there is so much value in this video, with your words.

  • @badaboehm
    @badaboehm 6 лет назад

    Yes! Please do. I have high level skills in multiple areas of the arts and started a company with them. Getting/being comfortable with success has been a crippling mental block. Love your channel. I am an Asianised Westerner who grew up in Singapore.

  • @JacobslifeinVegas
    @JacobslifeinVegas 6 лет назад

    Yes! Please do more videos on being comfortable with success

  • @nehemaialord2653
    @nehemaialord2653 3 года назад +1

    And also my behavioural pattern for fear of success is one of the things you said. “Always waiting for things to be perfectly aligned to take action” I literal got all the tools, education from top entrepreneurs and start up money to start my business but I find my myself not taking action and my excuse is “it’s not the right time” lol

  • @TeeLipLim
    @TeeLipLim 6 лет назад +1

    Yes initially I thought what you say felt arrogant but I asked myself and try to confront my inner demons, and you are absolutely RIGHT! I am afraid! F**king coward me of my own success. I had small successes but why am I always playing the second fiddle, always the best man never the groom? I feel there is a cap, a ceiling I have always averted and avoided to move onto the next level. Maybe its maturity or fear now of being stuck in the middle class, I have watched a number of your videos online and slowly but surely I feel a small change, and I want to go forth and leverage more and more. Please do share with us what else can make us feel that success and be comfortable with it! Thanks man! Bless you and your crew 8)

    • @DanLok
      @DanLok  6 лет назад

      Appreciate it Tee. Good self-reflection.

  • @cerebralmindgame9818
    @cerebralmindgame9818 5 лет назад

    This video was talking directly to me. I am very competent and overdue for success but my fear has been holding me back due to the new unknown responsibilities and a way higher plane to fall from grace flat on my face. To have everyone in my family counting on me in a major way gives me anxiety if I ever reach success.

  • @djomilodonjio7867
    @djomilodonjio7867 5 лет назад

    Since i started watching your Videos my fear of success disappeared.Thanks Dan😘😘

  • @sunandmoon9279
    @sunandmoon9279 2 года назад +1

    appreciate it my man may God bless you❤️✨️

  • @slee3157
    @slee3157 6 лет назад

    Yes, PLEASE do more about how to comfortable with success like you said in the end. I realized that I always struggle for nothing and making really difficult everything and that is killing me.. Can’t wait next video! Thank you Dan.

  • @gui2020
    @gui2020 5 лет назад

    I was looking for ‘fear of success’ and found this video. I’m very impressed that you answered it completely! Thank you so much. Subscribed

  • @arcangel5598
    @arcangel5598 6 лет назад

    I just asked you this yesterday and this showed up.... I can realy feel how youtube is spying on people. Thanks Dan.

  • @phillyflytee9849
    @phillyflytee9849 2 года назад

    Thank you Dan I was once struggling and suet being the fixer I would call myself.. Now that I worked to become success it's been hard for me to embrace the new success I have incorporated into my life. I didn't realize I was fearing success. Wow I feel so much better. Now I have my answer from you. I finally can go forward and not being in fear of success.THANK YOU DAN:)

  • @kendall9758
    @kendall9758 6 лет назад

    Sifu Lok. You're so on point on every video. Don't stop making videos. I will visit you and meet you one day to greet and thank you for all the free lessons.

  • @CaliforniaHairExtensions
    @CaliforniaHairExtensions 2 года назад

    Boy you are on point! I have been having this fear for 20 years and I know that I have what it takes!!

  • @chandratdigital8460
    @chandratdigital8460 6 лет назад +1

    Hi Dan Lok, I feel priviliged to look into your content. I have watched many of your videos and I refine myself by them. I was searching for content that elevates my thought and action for many many years, your's is rare one of them that satisfied my hunger to improve myself. Thank you a lot. God bless you.

  • @BryanHiggins
    @BryanHiggins 6 лет назад

    A video of becoming comfortable with success would be beneficial. Thanks for sharing Dan!

  • @FaridaSultanaIchoosesuccess
    @FaridaSultanaIchoosesuccess 6 лет назад

    The emotion and the feeling that comes with looking better just simply takes out the obstacle, now one doesn't have to worry about how people judge you for the way you
    dress....and that takes one a long long way. Recognise it and make it work to your advantage.
    By dressing well, you have already distinguished yourself....people already think you are SUCCESSFUL !

  • @salampk7362
    @salampk7362 5 лет назад

    Dan ,
    When i came to see this video actually I am shocked. You are telling everything super true .
    I am actually trapped in the addiction of struggle. Obviously it stops me for my forward step to be successful in my business . Surely i am waiting to hear from you .
    Thankyou

  • @inspirationfortheworld9756
    @inspirationfortheworld9756 6 лет назад

    @Dan Lok... Great Message... Thank You for your Experience in business and Life

  • @TrilhaMusiki
    @TrilhaMusiki 6 лет назад

    This is my first video. I've subscriped and got the notifications on. Yes to more tips on becoming comfortable with success, I love your voice and clarity.

  • @tentoilanam
    @tentoilanam 6 лет назад

    I F*cking love to see you make another video about how to get COMFORTABLE WITH SUCCESS!!!!
    Thanks Dan!
    Because of you, I started taking action instead of just watching videos. Not only that, I'm also trying to reflect everyday to see how I can make adjustments to improve what I do.
    The goal is the design a model, a plan so I can take small steps everyday along the right direction.

  • @hatchinghumor
    @hatchinghumor 6 лет назад

    Yes, Dan! Please talk about how to get comfortable with success!

  • @servicioslinguisticos5502
    @servicioslinguisticos5502 4 года назад

    Yes, please! More vids on becoming comfortable with success!

  • @7Logik
    @7Logik 6 лет назад

    Dude !!!!I needed this , please make a future video on this!!!! This has impacted me more than any other video because you must be comfortable with success before you can even begin to truly harness it ..brilliant

  • @ConniesFitness
    @ConniesFitness 6 лет назад

    Please Dan, make more videos with practical suggestions on feeling comfortable with success. All your viewers will appreciate!

  • @RobertGenito
    @RobertGenito 4 года назад

    Dan THANK you for providing an answer and solutions :) I’m going to search now to see if you have more videos on becoming more comfortable with success !

  • @HAliShah
    @HAliShah 6 лет назад

    Thank you. Love it. Stay blessed.

  • @nimfacasiraya701
    @nimfacasiraya701 4 года назад

    Since I heard your mentoring., I became addicted to success

  • @BusinessMinded0328
    @BusinessMinded0328 5 лет назад

    You just explained my life perfectly ,i suck.
    Fear runs me away from great opportunities a lot.
    The unknown is a scary life decision to actually go thru with,always holding me back

  • @stephennjuguna315
    @stephennjuguna315 6 лет назад

    Thanks for the honesty Dan, most people are uncomfortable with the unknown, worse still is when they cant figure out how to do it. they know they is something to do, but the how , is an issue. I am going full swing and not getting comfortable with less.

  • @ritchiehornak3917
    @ritchiehornak3917 6 лет назад

    Everyone can be successful but not everyone can be handsome. Thx for the videos and the book Dan!

  • @SuperMenaman
    @SuperMenaman 4 года назад +1

    Dan, this is me all the way. Trying to turn the corner and break through but I’m addicted to the struggle I guess. Afraid of getting too high to only fall down. I’m motivated and inspired by this video. Any further advice on how to not be afraid of success I would love to hear. Thank you for posting