This Is How You Make A Bad Situation WAY WORSE
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@Littlefoot. It's never too late to open your eyes. We're glad to have you, here in the Coalition of the Reasonable. Stay safe out there.
The officers "beat up by a chick" line isn't mysogyny but mysandry
Any C grade is too high. D at most. They literally just ensured this guy will never report future abuse and made sure he understands he's a B for allowing it to happen. Effectively perpetuating abuse.
The Officers Stupidity is outstanding
So let's victimize the victim. The cops logic is flawd...
So they're immediately threatening the victim of domestic abuse with jail? WTF.
Very mature right?
Yea, that interaction made my blood boil.
Doesn't matter if an officer does things correctly 9/10 times if that 1 time is as bad as that imo. Only getting a C- after having just tried shaming and threatening a victim of a crime is too much to allow them to continue doing that job imo. If there had been no marks on his body, and she had lied about the interaction, he could have been the one getting arrested with their attitude about the situation.
Imagine if they did that to a woman? Woman’s groups would make a huge public outcry (and rightly so) but us men still would never do that. As it’s seen as shameful and is treated like this cop treated it.
It has nothing to do with power and strength. He could kill her if he wished. But for whatever reason he won’t defend himself. Many reasons for that.
@@icarus_flying1994exactly. You can rack up a whole lot of atta’boys but the whole rack falls when you do an Oh’boy!
"We think you are a victim, so we will insult you, shame you, and victimize you more." The absolute ignorance the cops display when they say "you got beat up by a girl" with that tone... just gross.
never mind the whole 40% thing. if they were THAT worried about domestic violence, they'd start by cleaning their own house.
Imagine if cops talked to women who were beaten this way?
Well, he did get beat up by a chick, so I'd be embarrassed too
@@jsncrsoYou must be the cop in the video
@@daBEAGLE1017 oh they do! They only want to do anything when THEIR feelings are hurt.
"You look like you're the victim. Tell us who you are or we'll violate you some more."
Un friggin believable.
n we the idiots people pay them for doing this to us???
To serve and protect... their own quotas.
I was suspicious of that guy. I was thinking he might be a different guy, but I found it very suspicious he referred to identify himself
@@maker0824refused not referred
Got to love the irony that shortly after shaming the victim the he "got beat up by a chick", one of the officers gets beat up by the same chick.
Those were some killer scorpion kicks though, and well aimed from the sounds of it lol.
She’s an abusive piece of crap, but credit where credit is due: That was a sick kick.
After prison time, a lot of apologies, and a lot of therapy, she should join the UFC.
@@ShiningDarknesExactly, women shouldn’t be underestimated.
while she was handcuffed no less...lmao
Absolute cinema ❤
I absolutely hate the way this officer talks to this guy. He insists on saying, "a guy who was beat up by a girl" when he knows damn well that's a demeaning way to put it. You can't convince me he was actually "help" his community in that moment,especially when he threatend to take him to JAIL when HE was ATTACKED. Absolutely ridiculous
This is the 3rd time I've watched this body cam footage on various channels, and every time i see it, that part really irritates me. Its extremely demeaning to a male to word it that way.
@@emoliver80 As usual, the comment section is rife with hurt feelings. How do people like you navigate the world with such fragile sensibilities?
Cops just love victimizing the victim.
I agree felt like he was trying to trigger the guy and get a rise out of him.
He says it more than once, too. This officer is weak.
“You got beat up by a chick” what a demeaning and disgusting way to talk to an abuse victim.
And had that been a female, the treatment would have been much better.
He's a cop so he's used to beating his girlfriend
This is exactly why guys don't speak up when it happens to them. Dude was embarrassed and the piglets just made it worse.
...then the officers get kicked in the face by the same "chick" after she's handcuffed.
And cops often say "wanna be a victim"" as a way of asking if they're pressing charges
Imagine showing restraint, walking away from a bad situation where you were being assaulted, remaining calm and it being distilled to “getting beat up by a chick”
And then getting threatened with arrest if you don’t ID
Imagine getting beat up by a chick
Never underestimate a cop’s ability to make a bad situation even worse
You mean the victim turning themselves into a suspect based on their own actions? Sure buddy. You’re just thirsty and think this chick is hot. You’re thinking with the other head….
The victim-shaming from these cops is despicable.
Only because they are DESPICABLE human beings.
How did they shame the victim?
@@Solo-Road Get lost
@@Solo-RoadI suggest you watch the video again. His unprofessional manner was more than enough to insult the victim. To tell him if he don't identify and basically grass on his gf he will go to jail. It's domestic terrorists like this that don't deserve to make it home.
@@Solo-Roadby the way he kept saying they had a report of a "chick beating up a guy" and "you got beat up by a girl"
The cop legit just said, "we think you're the victim of domestic violence, now relinquish your rights, or you're going to jail."
Cops: we got a call you got beat up by a chick.
Karma: hold my beer.
Back the blue 'till it happens to you.
During a domestic dispute, cops seem to always believe the woman and charge the man.
This is level of intelligence that is used to recruit these morons. After no investigation, cop demands ID and threatens jail. You’re a cop that means, interview all parties, gather information and make LAWFUL decisions based on that and give citizens confidence the law will be applied. Not hunches and speculation.
As this idiot female citizen will now testify, nothing good will ever come from talking to a cop.
"You are the victim of a crime therefor you must comply with my orders or I will take you to jail."
I think it's hilarious that after they made fun of him for getting beat up by a girl, the cops got beat up by the same girl.
Karma is real.
Difference is the cops are allowed to fight back without being arrested.
lmaoooo good point
😂
Yeah okay, they took her down to the ground and she layed there and cried like a little kid.
and despite the position managed to kick the officer in the face twice lol@@DMONEY2000
"Hey we hear you got beat up by a girl"
"ow she kicked me in my face"
Between his shaming the victim and then underestimating the woman, we really get to see how the cop's preconceptions shaped this encounter.
It's nothing short of amazing they managed to stumble their way to arrest the right person. Hopefully, the dude's life gets better after this.
100% karma. Cops make fun of biy for getting beat up by a girl and then immediately after that get beat up by the same girl. And they say there are no gods...
Ah the irony.. Great point @rickflash448
👍👍
What I found glorious was after he tried shaming him by saying he got beat up by a girl, said cop gets kicked in the face by the same girl, while Sid cop had her on the ground in handcuffs. If that’s not karma, nothing is.😂
@@svbarryduckworth628 actually, it’s more embarrassing than that, he mentioned Tim by saying he got beat up by a girl, but then that said cop gets kicked in the face by the same girl, while said, cop has her on the ground in handcuffs. Said cop probably shouldn’t be a cop, but karma is especially delightful when it’s served immediately.😊
With cops like this is it really surprising that many victims of abuse are reluctant to engage with the police?
Is it surprising that citizens are reluctant to engage with the police for any reason now? It's always the same, the cops show up, immediately escalate the situation and say a bunch of crap that isn't true, treat everyone involved like a criminal regardless of what actually happened, then when their ego eventually gets bruised they look for any reason to make an arrest no matter how ridiculous or petty. They never actually do anything to de-escalate or protect their community, it's always about protecting their ego.
Agreed. I hate to think of anyone feeling trapped in a terrible situation because they think no one will take their part.
I myself was threatened with losing my son after his "father" a**sed me. I had gone to the ER because my hand was so swollen I thought it was broken. My sister had called the law on him, and a cop just barged into the ER where I was receiving care to question me. I wasn't even in a private room. I was in the hall where every patient there could hear and see me while I recounted the hours of hell I went through that night. He threatened to take my son for child endangerment if I didn't tell him what happened. I quote him now, "You will tell me what happened, or I will make sure you never see your child again", and with these words I was forced to retell everything while I could hear the whole hall go silent with everyone cranning their ears to hear every bit of my ordeal as if it was theirs to relish in. I felt so exposed, and battered again. It took me a long time to process this on top of what I had been through. The sad part is, I had no intentions on being with this man again, and every intention on getting me and my son out. This was actually the first and last time his "father" did this to me, and I was determined for it to be this way because my son has always been my priority. This cop treated me like it was my fault this happened, but I didn't ask for this. If he would've just dealt with me with respect and compassion I'm sure I would've actually pressed charges myself after I had time to process what was going on because it all happened so fast. It disgusts me when victims are treated this way. We don't deserve to be a**ed by the very people we should trust to stop it.
I have to disagree. This shows why male victims of DV dont go to the police.
It absolutely shows that if a woman claims DV the police WANT to arrest the male.
That scorpion kick was pretty impressive
"I can fix her." lol
Had he fought back and not let "a girl beat him up" the police would have called him a piece of trash for hitting a woman. I don't see how this guy wins. Moral of the story, careful who you hook up with.
He wins when we all win, and they enact new standards for police that make all the current ones unemployed.
@@Tijuanabillyeah because that is reasonable and doable
Moral of the story: police are not only not your friends; they are, in fact, your enemies
When it comes domestic abuse, men always lose. No matter which role or how involved they are in.
Additional moral of the story, cops will find a way to make a bad thing worse!
My first black eye was from an ex. Just because you don’t hit women doesn’t mean they won’t hit you. The way those officers talked to the victim is absolutely disgusting, immature, unprofessional, and just plain unempathetic
Yet over and over I see cops & medical staff trying to convince women in the ER to have their husbands arrested. Even though the woman is giving a perfectly reasonable explanation of how she got injured that didn’t involve her husband hitting her. A lot of them involve toddlers
I've been abused by an ex. How do you tell people in the moment that a 5'0" 100 pound woman hits you at 5'10" and 200 pounds? These cops were disgusting, but it's also disgusting that she thinks she can act like that and get away with it. Wish my ex had some consequences
Idk why people think women can’t do great physical damage to a guy . Like the human body is resilient but it has weak points and soft spots.
You soft 😂
This must be one of those hero cops we always hear about! Good job officer! You put that victim in his place! Who the heck does he think he is not wanting to talk to you and your ginormous ego!!!
I got punched in the face by my (now) ex-wife. I called the police, despite being terrified that I would be accused of being the aggressor because of my gender. I cannot speak of the Portland PD in general, but I was amazed that they not only showed up swiftly, but also did NOT attempt to criminalize me, but, in fact, asked me if I wanted to press charges.
I'm usually pretty anti-establishment, but I think I must call out the two unnamed officers that took my call seriously, gave me the opportunity to get my things in order, and, in fact, asked me if I wanted to press charges (I did not; we have children).
Sometimes, good people become cops for the right reason. Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk, good bye.
I was a victim of domestic abuse from my ex girlfriend, she got mad because I was kicking her out of my house when I found out she cheated on me, and I lived in Vidor, TX and she hit me multiple times and knocked the glasses off my face so hard it made my nose bleed. My neighbors called the cops when they heard the argument, and when the cops showed up they threatened to take me to jail for me telling them to leave when I seen that they were not interested in me filing potential battery charges on her. They didn't even stay to make sure she left my house, she didn't have any bills and wasn't on any lease agreement, and I explained multiple times that I just wanted her gone. I couldn't even get them to put a no trespassing order on her. After she vandalized another girls car 3 months after our break up, that was parked outside my house, I finally got a restraining order against her but it felt like pulling teeth. Vidor, TX PD is crooked and deserves an F in my book. Made me feel like being a male and a victim of domestic abuse was a joke.. still hurts to think about 3 years later.
I am so sorry you had to go through all of that.
I am incredibly proud of you for pushing through and getting a stay away order on her.
But I absolutely hate that your pain, fear, and rights were not taken seriously.
Because I guarantee that if it had been you hurting her, she would have been able to have you arrested and have a temporary no contact order THAT DAY.
I hope we can make that change in the legal system asap.
Your gender should never determine whether your pain is taken seriously in any situation.
I hope you are doing better now and have put her far in your rearview mirror, and that life will never do this to you again. 💜
Sorry buddy, but that just is not how the law works, when evicting an ex girlfriend. You don't get to just have people removed on the spot. You have to file papers, and give them notice. I'm sure she was awful, but these laws must apply to everyone, even people who are great. Think of the reverse situation and it is you who is being asked to leave, on the spot, with no notice. I'm sure you would find that difficult as well, depending on your financial situation that day.
@@Tijuanabill He said she didn't have any bills and wasn't on the lease.
And they absolutely can make someone committing domestic battery leave on the spot, either by arrest or making them separate by getting them to go somewhere else for the night.
And if domestic abuse is being committed, he could get an emergency no contact order and she wouldn't be able to set foot there (if the law worked the way it's supposed to).
I have known of a few men that were kicked out of their home in one of those three ways and half of them weren't even actually beating their partner, the woman just claimed that they were and the police arrested them.
Also I know it is a smaller thing but he is venting about being an abuse victim, so starting your comment with "Sorry buddy" has the same energy as the cop in this video.
@Tijuanabill she didn't even live with me all the time. She technically lived at her grandfathers house on the other side of town. She wasn't on any lease. She only stayed at my house about 3 days out the week if that cause we both worked so much. 🤷 I'm not sure why they didn't wanna help me get her the hell out of my house tbh, cause like the other guy said, if the roles were reversed they would've kicked my ass out, and taken me to jail for hitting her.
@@jamescarrell7412 lol I'm a woman but I don't mind being one of the guys. Either way I've got your back and you have every right to be hurt and angry about the way the cops handled your situation.
His girlfriend may be coocoo for Cocoa Puffs, but that being said, the way the cops handled the “victim” dude was out of line. Mocking him and then threatening to jail him. They deserve an F for that.
They deserve "pink slips".
Dude needs a new girl
She is a demon...I would avoid her like the plague.
@@theveryhighminister867 Yeah, he seems like an alright guy. He didn't even want her to get in trouble after she beat him
The victim should make an official complaint.
I remember this case, and the hilarity of the comment: "I just graduated from high school about 3 years ago." LOL
The fact he is the victim and doesn't want to press charges and is clearly no longer creating a disturbance and clearly calm and collected is insane.
I like how they make fun of him for getting "beat up by a chick" and proceed to get beat up by the same said chick.
If they told a female they got a call about her "being beat up by a dude", would they be making fun of the female victim?
@@Solo-Roadless likely, instead they victim blame.
@@bojohannesen4352 What did they blame him of doing?
@@Solo-Roadif they said it multiple times in a condescending way, probably. If they then demanded ID from the victim under threat of arrest, they're at the very least terrorizing a victim of abuse. Are you an incel? You really gonna defend the cops here?
@@SpencerfromEarth They didn't say it in a condescending way; they're were stating facts. You just assume that it is condescending to say a guy got beat up by a girl because you think he should feel embarrassed for some reason. Attitudes like yours were discussed in the video as the reason why many men are hesitant to report domestic violence at the hands of women. It's irrational for you to assume the officers share are making fun of the victim just because that's what you would have likely done.
This is why men dont want to admit to being abused by women. Look at the humiliation administered by the police.
it amazes me that the public still calls the cops when things happen unless they want someone or everyone to go to jail, they always turn every situation into a crime, its like they filling a quota
They aren't disgusting hogs for nothing.
That's exactly what they're doing. Filling literal quotas
Their job is literally to investigate whether or not a crime has been committed. Seems like you’d only want the law enforced when it’s convenient for you
I lived with a woman that was both physically and verbally abusive. I ended up calling the police and had to get a restraining order taken out on her. I had been secretly videoing all her abuse and showed the attending cops the footage of her beating me so the restraining order was placed that very night.
The police never called me to see if everything was okay, but they called her multiple times over the following week to check on her to make sure she was okay. The videos showed her being the abusive one, and me trying to get away from her or begging her to stop. To say the cops took the side of the abuser and completely dismissed the victim in my case is beyond a joke. They couldn't have been any more unprofessional.
"You got beat up by a chick" when he would've went to jail if he hit her back at all. Ridiculous.
The cops sure didn't like it when she hit them, and they are armed, have backup, and allowed to fight back much harder.
they're cops, they forget that most men don't like hitting women
Why would he go to jail if he hit her back?
@@Ben942K because HE is a man.
'I don't want to press charges'
'Okay, but we want you to... and if you don't, we're taking you to jail' basically 🤔
Came across this incident some time ago, and posted in the comments some questions about the officers’ behavior with the alleged victim. Thank you ATA for answering them and confirming my suspicions! Content of incredible quality once again. Well done.
i bet she's really on another level when they have alone intimate time together
The best
Can’t stand cops who just make up these “you need to identify or you’re going to jail” laws. Knowing how things work, the cops will get him to press charges on his gf anyway.
In nm state presses charges. They can compel him to be a witness though
Yeah my video is same clear situation
That's Nazi shit right there
On a positive note... they almost gave the guy a chance for payday!
That’s exactly how it works in many states though. I don’t know about this state, but “stop-and-identify” laws are a real thing.
Amazing how they belittled the man for getting beaten up by a female, and then got beaten up by the same female.
Karma is real.
Yeah they really had no idea what they were dealing with
Happy New Year ATA
@AuditTheAudit I have a question, after watching hours and hours of your content that I learn and really enjoy I was wondering if you had any law or lawyer background or if you picked up your knowledge over time?
Another one of those “we got a call” where they try to make the victim become a criminal by not knowing the basic laws. I commend the bf for not only putting up with his psychotic gf, but also putting up with these lowlife cops. And had the dude defended himself against his gf, he’d be imprisoned too. Can’t win either way.
They think getting a call is a full ride pass to act like Nazis
You commend him for putting up with a psycho girlfriend?? How about I would have more respect for him and commend him if he left a girl who was always putting hands on him and acting like a psycho....like he is not so smart to keep staying with her ...people talk shit about women all the time for staying with an abusive man...
@@PrimateProductions I think the OP was pointing out that the male civilian didn't physically retaliate against the female civilian.
@@PrimateProductions he prolly meant not assaulting her back.
You never used the word "commend" before you started watching this channel, did you?
Everything else aside, the flexibility of the kick that broke the glasses was impressive.
The fact that she's crazy just makes her hotter lol
@@yellowsnow024 imagine what she’s like in bed 🤣🤣
@@yellowsnow024it's fun for a little bit, but after dating a woman like this I'd much rather have boring
@@cheesecurd100s didn't say I wanted to marry her but she would be fun
@@yellowsnow024 it's all fun and games at first, but these are the types that won't leave you alone an will destroy everything in her wake
Thanks ATA for breaking it down in detail. Very well explained 👏
Bravo Audit the Audit! I was furious after hearing the officers tell the boyfriend, they were responding to a guy getting beat up by a chic. I appreciate your discussion of this specific incident. The girlfriend, at least in any footage shown, wasn't spoken to in such a disparaging way. She kicked the officer in the face, etc., and they remained calm. That's great, except for the fact that they basically implied the boyfriend was a weak little loser. And, despite all of her behavior, she was cuffed in the front! Makes it a lot easier to kick a window and bash hands against a window when a subject is cuffed in this manner. Again, I really appreciate your discussion on the misogyny that these officers demonstrated. 👏
They laugh at him for "getting beat up by a chick" what is he supposed to do swing back and go to jail this is why men don't report the abuse it isn't treated seriously and and the guy just gets made fun of if they are even believed
yes, you get the right to hit the person back if said person hits you, regardless of gender, you know gender equality and all that.
I had a gf who would loose her shit in a fight and throw shit and hit me. Once the cops were called by a nabour and the police immediately hand cuffed me and put me in a car. The talked to her then told me she admitted to hitting me and that was why they weren't going to arrest me but gave me a warning that the mark on her arm from me grabbing her wrist in self defense was enough for them to take me to jail and that next time I would be going to jail. They made it clear to me that defending your self against a woman was NOT OK and that the only thing you can do if attacked by a woman is take it. Then when she has tired out from hitting you, be a real man and leave. Don't call the cops that's bitch behavior, just leave even if it's your house leave.
@@Dabby724 you don't get the right to hit back. That's not how that works. You'll end up in jail believing that.
Ironically the cop got beat up by the same chick.
@@Dabby724 in most places if you are attacked by anyone hitting them back makes you just as guilty. When i was a kid i had a bully and he was hitting me and i defended myself and we both got expelled even though he was the aggressor and they knew that but it didnt matter because both participated. Unless your life is in danger you cant really defemd yourself with put risking jail time
Insulted the guy, but even when she was in cuffs he needed backup to subdue her. Anonymous BF deserves an apology. 😤
not only did he just immediately threaten someone he suspects is a victim, with jail, but he also immediately and repeatedly said "got beat up by a girl"
Thank you for sharing!
There is zero chance that any DA in NM would prosecute this potential victim for refusing to ID himself under this circumstance.
I wouldn't say zero chance. After all, the DA works for the government just like the cops do.
@@gta4everrr you're right, good buddy, with human beings anything is possible, including really stupid things.
Can beat the charge but can't beat the ride. These officers don't care what has/will happen to any of the involved individuals, they just want leverage to make their jobs easier. This is why they throw around obstruction charges like candy when they know it won't stick and have been told it will not numerously.
'Don't want to identify? Ok, I will arrest you and now you have to identify.'
Oh they will because it'll be a nice $250 court cost and possible fine. You know that's all this petty shit is about
@@A_Stereotypical_Guy The DA has nothing to do with court costs. They could care less.
When talking to the victim it seemed like the cop was being antagonistic with his comments like “you got beat up by a chick” and “we got a call about a guy getting beat up by a girl”
And then she went on to beat up the cop 😂😂😂
Then said chic kicked him in the face.
You know there wouldn’t have been charges if she was smart enough to not attack the cop.
Heading out to investigate abuse, they end up abusing both the alleged victim, who didn't want to press charges, and a woman with no accusations or charges against her.
Way to go, heroes. With cops like these, who needs domestic abusers? We've got law enforcement officers running around, handing out public abuse and escalating situations from there.
Funny, the cop got beat up by the same girl, “WHOS GONNA BUY ME NEW SUNGLASSES” 😭
Imagine stopping a rape victim in public just after they were abused, and publicly forcing them to identify and threatening jail time otherwise. This shit is despicable.
Seems like that’s how a lot of cops like to do things, though. “Just got assaulted? Well, re-live it in front of witnesses or no one will care.” You’d think we
might have made some progress on this but apparently not.
no. they had no evidence anything took place. just because someone called and said some shit means nothing. cops are for crime in progress and nothing els. they dont even have a duty to act. @@bryanh6856
youre wrong but ok.@@bryanh6856
He got r*ped?
Oh eat shit Bryanh
This is why people, especially men, don't report domestic abuse. Cops are not there to scold, they are there to enforce the law.
I've seen it with a friend who was abused by their spouse. The cops gave them a lecture about waiting to call police about the issue...which happened because they lost consciousness after being thrown down a flight of stairs.
"Cops are not there to scold, they are there to enforce the law."
do you maybe have this backwards?
@@Batmann_ If a scolding requires a gun, taser, and handcuffs I think you're into some really kinky shit.
Basically no one, regardless of gender, reports domestic abuse.
The statistics of reporting are even lower for victims of a female perpetrator, whether they be in a lesbian or straight relationship.
The sooner someone starts getting someone's abuse on record the easier it is to protect the victim and prosecute the offender. Should they just not highlight this or what?
@@lazydaisy2292 ...to someone beaten unconscious? I've heard a lot of horrible things...but what the actual fuck man.
"You got beat up by a chick". Then he gets kicked in the face by a chick. Brilliant.
I was like oh the irony the cop talking down to that dude that is a victim of DV because he got beat up by a woman ... And got kicked in the face by woman.
The officer keeps on saying “you got beat up by a chick.” That’s how you make a victim feel isolated. He did the right thing by not fighting back but the officer still tries to belittle the guy
Hard to believe that law enforcement refers to someone as bro or a chick. So professional.
He's basically saying because a crime was committed against you I have the right to ID you as if you did a crime ... messed up
Love my home state! Giving this channel plenty of content
As a lawyer, I have to say the statutory and case law analysis on this channel is very impressive. Keep up the great work!
Imagine telling a victim of a crime that if they don't help you with your investigation you will make their life worse, directly after their assault. I suppose he's a Man, so he's not allowed to have any negative emotions regarding his recent assault and should react totally rationally and be ready to give a detailed report to law enforcement.
A witness not identifying in nm can be arrested.
@@WitchyBishyhe’s a victim not a witness
@@tiptop1263 yes they are a pivotal witness and can be compelled to testify in dv in nm and are required by law to Id for such purposes. Seen the conviction of one of my close friends on this. She was convicted of concealing identity and compelled to testify in the states case against her husband.
Ever see the video where the female victim was attacked by a cop ? That may have been nm too
@@_D_E_N_N_I_S_ nm has a lot of video cuz we been under federal oversight for over a decade. You'll see a lot of nm body cam out there. Ever since bcso killed that homeless guy for camping.
I can relate to this woman. I used to be a little child too
😂😂😂😂😂
Yeah I remember being 5 too
Dude, she did a rolling cartwheel kick while handcuffed... she went full toddler
Pretty sad when she says "I just graduated Hugh school, 3 years ago" like 3 years ago is not just doing it. acting like a little kid still
“I just graduated high school 3 years ago” she peaked in high school 🤣🤣
the disregard of the justice system for the danger this woman imposes to society is certainly the most disturbing. I'm outraged to know she was released after beating the cops and offering a bribe.
she wasn't? lol
she's psycho
Wait, the cop detained him for.. being suspected of being the victim of a crime?
i guess technically he was also a witness to a crime. and i think ATA has had a few episodes were a person who had done nothing illegal, was detained until they got their info because they were a witness to a crime and were required to provide it.
They got a call for domestic violence. If they had let him walk off, and later found out he was beating on the girlfriend, you would crucify the cops for letting him walk away. In a domestic violence situation; it's best to keep both or all parties involved on the scene until the situation is sorted out. You learned something today.
@@Solo-Road except they did just get a call for "domestic violence" They got a call for a girl in a pink shirt beating on a guy in black clothes.
And even if it did turn out that it was the other way around they would just put a warrant out on him. It's not like she doesn't know who he is. "Letting him walk away" isn't really an issue in the situation.
@@Solo-Road🤡 😅😅😅😅
@@ryancrazy1 So they should just show up and arrest the first girl they see in a pink shirt? Not ask any questions? Not do any investigation? Do you have any idea how asinine your comment is?
Wow. I hope this is more of a life lesson for the guy:
1. Don't sleep with crazy.
2. Don't talk to cops. Ever.
If he didn't talk to the cops it's unlikely his attacker would have gone to jail for her crime. Silence is violence bro.
Silence is violence sounds like propaganda to me 😅
Well the crazy ones are generally the best, so it’s cost benefit. Hit it for a while then bounce with a scratch and a bad afternoon. Might be worth it.
It just sucks that the crazy ones are the best in bed lol. Just make sure you pull out or where a condon. Last thing you want is a crazy baby mama.
@@Solo-Road oh no the situation would have deescalated to nothing, what a nightmare
Cop.. "You got beat up by a chick."
Also Cop.. "Waah, she kicked me in the face and broke my glasses."😅
Spot on with your assessment of the officers! Obviously they were not interested in helping him but instead insulting him
More people need to say to cops “is my ID going to magically tell you what happened?” Seriously, cops, maybe try doing some actual investigations. Any lazy moron can say “give me your ID!”
No they should not say that. They should say "I have nothing to say until the public defender is present" If they threaten to arrest them, say "I am not resisting" and go with them, assuming they actually arrest you when you call their bluff. I get what you're saying, but saying something antagonistic that is likely to escalate the situation is playing into the hands of abusive cops.
Always sad to see the victim in handcuffs.
Sad to see for decent folks... but not for the "legal system" they love "abusing victims" more than anyone else. Seen so many of these video's... it's crazy how much "the legal system" fake cares about victims in just about everything. What they do care about is getting money out of it. Reminds me of that one case where a woman was raped and they put the rape victim in jail... to make sure she testifies.... how crazy is that madness?
And if he had freaked out thinking he was getting illegally arrested, they'd have charged him with resisting or some bs, too. Unnecessary cuffing really should be treated like battery, not an administrative procedure. No one else gets to cuff people for being mildly annoyed around them,police really are cowards.
Police put him from cuffs to keep him from interfering with the arrest of his scofflaw girlfriend. He was released and went home.
@@Solo-Roadthe fact he was released and went home doesn't mean much. They treated him like a criminal the entire time, and not the victim he was.
@@Solo-Roadare you the biggest bootlicker on this platform or what
I am only 5 minutes into this video, and already am enraged. To any past, present, or future officer: this is a prime example of why so many dislike and/or distrust police officers.
I realize that there are situations where the state needs to step in on a domestic dispute in order to protect someone; but it has been my experience that more often than not, it's used as a way cops to entangle themselves in a situation that neither party wants them in. It's just ridiculous that they seem to be more concerned about making pointless arrests instead of actually going after violent criminals.
Should have to file paperwork so thiers a record but otherwise stay out of it unless someone's seriously hurt.
As an ER nurse I saw way too many male assault victims that failed to report their abuse by their partners (females) or fear of just this situation. I hope this guy learned his lesson and ran but likely is still with this insane individual because being codependent is likely part of the problem in most of relationships 🤷♀️
Did your coworkers insult said victims? Because you know you should report said assaults as a medical professional if you suspect domestic violence and unsafe homes. You know you would if it were children.
But I do give the lady respect for admitting she was the aggressor and standing up for him.
I feel it would be a hard relationship to get out of. I would imagine he feels sorry for her. And wants to help her. And probably has mostly good moments. But it looked like it was ending. She said she was moving.
@@gregorybower2759 I mean, she'd probably just use that against him later on if they hadn't taken her to jail. She seems like the type to act sweet and nice and then drag you for it later.
@@Cotelw8345 Honestly you right. He could've broken up with her and that's why she started clawing him
Cop: You got beat up by a chick
Also Cop: Gets beat up by the same chick
Your channel is really one of the Best, you look at the facts like Data or Spock! But honestly it's a fair way to look at it, I don't always agree with you, but your always right. I get to involved in the Heat of things, I'd make a Bad Cop... LoL
last two times i was stopped it ended when i said hey pal im a vet and your alone...they left ...
“Your wife cheats on you 3 times a day”
“Well I’m not married so 😂”
There is one thing that I have learned from watching these videos. When interacting with the police your best option is to say and do as little as possible
"I exercise my right to not answer questions without my attorney being present"
Yurp. She talked herself into what could have been a pretty decent stretch if she didn't cut a deal.
@@JosephKano It's adorable that you both would have preferred she get away with beating on her boyfriend. I can only you assume you think domestic violence against men "isn't a big deal". As stated in the video, this is why men are unlikely to report domestic violence.
“You got beat up by a girl”
Nek minnit
“She broke my glasses” *charges her with battery and assault*
I live in Roswell New Mexico, RPD showed up after my son's mom got done physically abusing me, they took pictures. Knuckles for being a vet and then left and never did anything...
This woman is insane. I feel bad for anyone who gets involved with her.
Run, don't walk.
She's hot.
Yes....fast. And don't look back. Dope cops also may have put the dude in danger by being jerks. Horrid....
I see two big ol' reasons why you might though.
Definitely a loose screw up in that head of hers.
Girl has issues and and these goons are "helping" here. Insulting and demeaning the guy shows just how awesome these "heroes" are.
Sounds like you are excusing her violence against the male victim because she has "issues". I didn't hear the officers insult or demean anybody.
@Solo-Road OK Karen McBootlicker
Get your hearing checked.
@@p12423073 I heard she plead no-contest. Seems like the officers made the right call in arresting her. What did you hear?
i can fix her
As always, an immaculately researched video.
been thru a similar situation, minus the assault on an officer and resisting.
for any Men out there dealing with domestic violence, leave the first time it happens not just because they go to jail.
I have personally witnessed a female beating the living shit out of her then boyfriend while he was trying to walk away from her and get away from her. He never laid a hand on her whatsoever. When the cops showed up they arrested him even after I told them everything that I witnessed. HE WAS CHARGED for HER beating the shit out of him.
I'll take things that didn't happen for $500 alex
@@DMONEY2000 ... You are incorrect and now have lost $500
To hopefully clarify why a officer needs a date of birth. I used to live in a city where there was another man with the same name first middle and last his birthday was one day off from mine his birth year was 10 years younger however I kept getting served from collection agencies and the state for child support for him and had police at my door several times looking for him. Had the state and collection agencies done their jobs they would have figured out that I wasn't the one they were looking for.
not surprisingly, if you search "police acting unlawfully" you barely find anything. but, this channel popped up. it seems to be un monetized, whatever reason that may be, i feel its a little sour. not every cop is bad, but so many coos are not good. sucks that we still try to act like that isnt reality, so thank you for being honest no matter what. subscribed no cap frfr
Bravo to the level headed cops here. Their patience was impeccable
Just because you got a call doesn’t mean that you can demand ID from someone who hasn’t committed a crime 🤦♂️ when will they understand this. They’re just handing money out left and right.
Its not their money - so they dont care - no direct hardship resulting from your incorrect actions = no changes in behavior😅
This is another example of abuse of men not being taken serious by the system.
This is "intended" and you are right, definitely a solid example of it.
He didn't think it was serious, she didn't think it was serious, and in the end, she was arrested for it. How is this an example of abuse of men not being taken serious by the judicial system?
They took her to jail..how is that not taking it seriously?
@@PrimateProductionsThreatening a victim with arrest is not taking him serious
The police are not the judicial system lmao
The fact they laughed at him shows they would’ve NEVER allowed themselves to be in that situation insinuating they would hurt her instead .. probably why they have the highest rate of DV
As someone who has spent more time than I care to admit in Carlsbad, this is par for the course for them and most other jurisdictions in New Mexico.
“I’m going to arrest you for not telling me what I want. If I arrest you, you have a right to remain silent.”
that over the head scorpian kick she pulled to break his glasses was a wild move...
So instead of making sure that a (possible) victim is secure in their believably and encouraging/helping them to come forward with the abuse. These cops decide to antagonize the victim and make sure that they never get help for any abuse. Great work
People need to stop answering questions. You need to tell them you prefer to exercise your right to remain silent until you can talk to a lawyer. It is their job to investigate a crime. You are not required to give them that information for their investigation. Officers who threaten to arrest you if you don't talk should be charged with violating peoples rights.
threatening to arrest a domestic violence victim is some wild shit.
It’s sadly common for victims to be arrested for not providing their identity. Like he said, he doesn’t want to press charges, the problem in most jurisdictions is this: they can’t choose whether charges are pressed, that’s up to the county/city/district attorneys from what I gather.
Which is why compulsory DV charges aren't as good as they sound on paper. If a butt hurt cop or bad prosecutor gets involved, the a sue if the court can be worse than the abuse of the partner. And often that abuse is levied on the victim.
At first, I was a little bit surprised by the c rating for the police officers however after it explained I happen to agree. When I first listened to the video hearing him talk that way to the victim really upset me... But I'll tell you that her losing her mind in that way made me completely forget the way the police officer was talking in the beginning. Personally knowing men who have been abused makes everything he said 100%!
I hope the dude is smart enough to file a complaint or take legal action for the police mocking him, a potential abuse victim, with that inappropriate language and threat of arrest.
You can’t arrest someone for refusing to help an officer with their investigation especially if you’re not the subject of a crime.
it's honestly so insane how police immediately take any phone callers word for it?? I could literally call and lie about seeing a couple being abusive and if they HAPPEN to have any marks on their skin they're guaranteed a charge? that's not okay
All they care about is making an arrest anymore. Not doing the right thing or investigating
Is it actually insane? The idea is a random person isn’t very likely to make a call to the police about people they have no relationship to with the intention of creating charges for them to be arrested on.
In this case, the info turned out to be true, and while at the scene, the officers ascertained themselves repeatedly, by asking factual questions and referring to the phonecalls, what happened. I'd say that they found out pretty quickly what was going on, unfortunately, they messed up in their treatment of the victim. But they didn't mess up with regards to checking if the sources (the phonecalls) were true or not.
@@RKLS90yeah it is lmao. With more than 330 million people in the US it’s definitely not a minuscule possibility of someone making a false report.
@@jhallo1851 for a person who has no relation to the people they called on, yes it’s extremely rare. It changes when there is a connection between the two people because then there is likely some motive. You listen to any court case with an eye witness who is not a convicted felon has no relationship to the defendant, their word means a lot in the eyes of the court system and juries because it’s pretty well agreed upon that this person has no reason to lie.
“I don’t want to take you to jail because I know you haven’t done anything wrong.”
How does the conversation go beyond that statement?!