Tom Talks - Ep19 w/ Mark Manson

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  • Опубликовано: 15 сен 2021
  • Mark Manson is a self-help author and blogger. He joins Tom Segura to discuss his books "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck," "Models: Attract Women Through Honesty," and "Everything Is Fucked." Mark talks about his approach to writing self-help for people that don't like self-help, how he dealt with feelings of despair after the success of "Subtle Art," his beliefs about social media, and what it's like working with Will Smith, whose memoir he's currently in the process of co-authoring.
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  • @russsavage1611
    @russsavage1611 2 года назад +149

    The Subtle Art of Featherin It

  • @Jeenyus
    @Jeenyus 2 года назад +96

    "You know when you go to Starbucks and they fuck up your order?"
    Nadav: *Explodes*

  • @marshalledmundson4851
    @marshalledmundson4851 2 года назад +21

    The subtle art of touching my camera through the fence.

  • @TRUTubeKY
    @TRUTubeKY 2 года назад +26

    Tom has become one of the best interviewers in current time.

    • @BorisBidjanSaberi11
      @BorisBidjanSaberi11 2 года назад +1

      Imagine if Bert tried to interview this guy. Oh god

    • @Braydog101
      @Braydog101 Год назад +1

      He is chilled and open which makes for great conversation - and Mark is a smart and nice guy too

  • @MyThirdUserAccount
    @MyThirdUserAccount 2 года назад +15

    That Will Smith book is gonna be a real slapper

    • @systemofadown945
      @systemofadown945 4 месяца назад +1

      Cant believe thay was already a year ago

  • @XKingMGX
    @XKingMGX 2 года назад +5

    What a great surprise of a podcast, for some reason didn't see this coming at all but glad it did

  • @hellohello-rd1vr
    @hellohello-rd1vr 2 года назад +5

    So happy to see this!! High quality interview.

  • @alex2911morgan
    @alex2911morgan 2 года назад +8

    This podcast had helped me get out of a mental rut that I had been stuck in for the last couple of weeks. Thank you Tom and keep feathering it brother 🤙

  • @mrbard1
    @mrbard1 2 года назад +4

    Awesome. Excited to watch tom and mark talk it out.

  • @amaanhussain3094
    @amaanhussain3094 2 года назад +4

    Appreciate this interview, love Mark Manson.

  • @jjthesavage
    @jjthesavage 2 года назад +90

    Marks not gonna be stingy.

  • @CarsonGolden
    @CarsonGolden 11 месяцев назад +2

    I love both of these people holy shit I’m so glad they did this! Tom and mark are both geniuses!!

  • @derrickniemann4774
    @derrickniemann4774 2 года назад +8

    And here I thought Mark was coming up in May.

  • @tomr4114
    @tomr4114 2 года назад +62

    "You know when you go to Starbucks and they fuck up your order?" hahah Mark has no idea who he's dealing with

  • @kevintroutman109
    @kevintroutman109 2 года назад +1

    Yessss. Been reading his stuff for a while now

  • @majavukman5595
    @majavukman5595 2 года назад +1

    I needed this. Thank you Tom

  • @carterthekenner
    @carterthekenner 2 года назад +10

    Thanks for another great episode TOM!

  • @besto764
    @besto764 2 года назад

    Tim is such a good host and getting answers out of them because he isn't obviously used to doing interviews but Tim puts them at ease.

  • @ikevin127
    @ikevin127 2 года назад +13

    C'mon Mark, tell me that you love me!

  • @yashwantsinghsankhla2106
    @yashwantsinghsankhla2106 2 года назад

    Loved all of your books mark

  • @ryanfouse5737
    @ryanfouse5737 2 года назад +11

    Tom got so excited when Mark mentioned Starbucks

  • @willmartinez1606
    @willmartinez1606 2 года назад +4

    Man this guys books helped me threw my sobriety. Half in a grave, almost immovable. My sis dropped those books on me an it helped my mental. Now years after the fact I still remember them.

    • @seraphinachantel8611
      @seraphinachantel8611 2 года назад +1

      @willmartinez what book is your favorite as far as for addicts or alcoholics?

    • @jessicahale5793
      @jessicahale5793 2 года назад

      @@seraphinachantel8611 also curious about this answer, my dad is struggling with alcoholism & idk how to help him.

  • @derockin2103
    @derockin2103 2 года назад +69

    Tom you should always remind your guests to drink water. It's hot out today.

    • @logansmith9437
      @logansmith9437 2 года назад +10

      Watch for whaspiz

    • @andrewtregoning
      @andrewtregoning 2 года назад +1

      Have a great day

    • @timtim3582
      @timtim3582 2 года назад

      He didn t because he isn t the real water champ. #teamchristina

    • @patrickbateman7453
      @patrickbateman7453 2 года назад +1

      I love all the different spellings of waspesss

  • @marybeth808
    @marybeth808 2 года назад +1

    Awesome episode!

  • @yourhomieHAUNTS
    @yourhomieHAUNTS 2 года назад +10

    Dream guest that I didn’t know I wanted. Thanks Tom!

  • @mattmorse6849
    @mattmorse6849 2 года назад +15

    Great chat. Agreed, I hate “used car salesman” type energy

  • @cristiannieves8714
    @cristiannieves8714 2 года назад +12

    Your not hard on the eyes, and I like your personality.

    • @Plumbdoggg
      @Plumbdoggg 2 года назад

      Who is this in regards to?

    • @samscheiter22
      @samscheiter22 2 года назад

      @@Plumbdoggg it’s about Chris Sunberg

  • @catiesmith3641
    @catiesmith3641 2 года назад +1

    Gotta love when 2 big interest in life collaborate!

  • @blairjjohnson
    @blairjjohnson 2 года назад

    So good, man! Thank you!

  • @under_artist
    @under_artist 2 года назад +1

    This needed to be longer

  • @BodyByBenSLC
    @BodyByBenSLC 2 года назад

    Oh goody. I am huge fan of Mark and Tom!

  • @nathanrice3890
    @nathanrice3890 2 года назад +3

    Great interview and some very thoughtful and probing questions. Good job.

  • @anthonypillarella
    @anthonypillarella 2 года назад

    Mark's the GOAT. Models changed my life.

    • @case_0223
      @case_0223 Год назад

      I’m reading it right now and it’s definitely given me a lot of changes to work on. Great book

  • @discopotato675
    @discopotato675 2 года назад +1

    That's the thing I've recognized... Getting stuck on what was. In the past. Not being able to adjust

  • @NikiG5040
    @NikiG5040 2 года назад

    That was so enjoyable!

  • @rijadahmic4271
    @rijadahmic4271 2 года назад +6

    Omfg didnt expect this, awesome guest and im sure this is 10/10 before even listening.. Thank you tom

  • @tylerjenerick9507
    @tylerjenerick9507 2 года назад +5

    "[On social media] There's a silent majority of people mostly in the middle..."... his writing is how he talks for real. This was a very cool listen!

  • @clowndance6730
    @clowndance6730 2 года назад

    what a sick talk i enjoyed that a lot

  • @robertpaulchampagne27
    @robertpaulchampagne27 2 года назад +4

    I read the Four Agreements while doing a stint in rehab and I really like the authors books. OG Mandino is another amazing author about this stuff.

    • @rusbell2981
      @rusbell2981 2 года назад +3

      Lmao that is a great pic

  • @birdette79
    @birdette79 2 года назад

    30:43 I love this in relation to depression and/or work burnout as well. (If your pants were low and loose in the past you know you can pull them up high and tight again, you've done it before!👖)

  • @TheSeakr
    @TheSeakr 2 года назад +1

    Thanks TOM

    • @KushKussh
      @KushKussh 2 года назад

      🙌🙌🙌🙌 jeez right!

  • @FreedomRenegades
    @FreedomRenegades 2 года назад +3

    DUDE THANKS FOR USING MY NEW SONG IN YOUR VIDEO TOM! FUCKING LOVE YOU MY GUY

  • @billhawwis7810
    @billhawwis7810 2 года назад +1

    I found that subtle fuck book at goodwill and started it. This reminder to finishing it has been a gift. Great convo bra. Thank You

  • @markhansen7580
    @markhansen7580 2 года назад +1

    Best podcast interview I've seen in a really long time!! Great job guys! Tom I can't wait to see you live in SLC at the upcoming show.

  • @willalton1267
    @willalton1267 2 года назад

    Great Chat!

  • @buskersdiaries7332
    @buskersdiaries7332 2 года назад

    Thanks Tom your Solid as fudge

  • @DeanBiddler
    @DeanBiddler 2 года назад

    This whole "Be honest with your words" revelation is some real Coastal District 1 shit.

  • @-Osiris-
    @-Osiris- 2 года назад

    I read Mark Ronson first and got hyped

  • @smiley-nf2qr
    @smiley-nf2qr Год назад

    This man is brutally honest 😅 💯

  • @Yousuck00
    @Yousuck00 2 года назад +1

    I completely zoned out 5 minutes into this.

  • @ElT1greVerde
    @ElT1greVerde 2 года назад +4

    ha, I used to ride the bus with Mark in middle school. If I recall, he's quite a good guitar player

  • @seannaddeo6061
    @seannaddeo6061 2 года назад

    I was so wishing Mark would connect the social media thing with the snipping coupons old lady.

  • @MarcoundMarco
    @MarcoundMarco 2 года назад +3

    I know Mark longer than Tom, what a surprise and a interesting talk, love this.

  • @BlackExcellenceProductions
    @BlackExcellenceProductions 2 года назад +1

    Models changed my life.

  • @greyforge27
    @greyforge27 2 года назад +1

    "Wisdom is accumulated via fuck-ups" is a good formulation

  • @stuartmccormick3977
    @stuartmccormick3977 2 года назад

    Does anyone know the name of the instrumental from the podcast version?

  • @MartyMcflyz
    @MartyMcflyz 2 года назад

    This was a great surprise today. Models was a great book and one of the few to make me cry with hope by the end of it.

  • @IAm010110
    @IAm010110 2 года назад +7

    Tom is really good at self reflection. Even tho he farts out of his ass. Love this interview. ☺️

  • @KushKussh
    @KushKussh 2 года назад

    "Thanks Tom"

  • @MREpicIpodApps
    @MREpicIpodApps 2 года назад

    What a great guest! Picked up "Subtle Art" years ago as a high schooler and it pretty much changed how I approached my whole life.

  • @MexicanAndaJew
    @MexicanAndaJew 2 года назад +1

    I'm certainly going to research the 90-9-1 rule

  • @mariamshireen7632
    @mariamshireen7632 2 года назад

    I really wanna know how mark looks and sounds so humble?

  • @heluxg
    @heluxg 2 года назад

    “Toooommm”- Mike Tyson

  • @TevDaSkel
    @TevDaSkel 2 года назад

    Found you Tom! - from Carl’s Jr.

  • @collinponzo
    @collinponzo 2 года назад

    Tom, the comments you are talking about. It's the same ppl who used to write letters into you local TV station. Remember those?! They'd come out and say, "after a few letters from viewers, we regret the comment we made on Tuesday about ...."

  • @baydenmurphy9158
    @baydenmurphy9158 2 года назад

    Would love to see a Tom talks with J B Mauney

  • @Dante9345
    @Dante9345 2 года назад

    When’s the next drop son!?

  • @patternbreak360
    @patternbreak360 2 года назад +1

    Dope, Tom. Endlessly surprised at how you curate what you put out there.
    HI CHRIS-TEENA!
    Coming up in May in 4 Strokes,
    Love

  • @Bittamin
    @Bittamin 2 года назад +5

    I missed this so much last week. For real 😅 I was worried for a minute

  • @Christopher-md7tf
    @Christopher-md7tf 2 года назад

    Ok, you come (on the podcast) now.

  • @STAMPER-DESIGN
    @STAMPER-DESIGN 2 года назад +1

    Fucking amazing.

  • @mrbungle3310
    @mrbungle3310 2 года назад +21

    Mark dont be stingy...

  • @havasurider
    @havasurider 2 года назад

    I think it would be cool to reach out to jaryd lazar for an interview

  • @austinmurray5444
    @austinmurray5444 2 года назад

    There’s one other book that women buy for men that I know of and I’ve read countless times and it’s called “How To Be A 3% Man” By Corey Wayne.

  • @BradyHold
    @BradyHold 2 года назад +1

    I read subtle art…, models, and everything all 3 in a row and while subtle is his most famous models helped me so much in my entire life as a whole. It changed me as a person and fits so well with my personality and who I am! Read models! I now date multiple women who all know about each other all because I was honest about who I am and what I want. READ MODELS!!!

  • @tylerrupp81
    @tylerrupp81 2 года назад +3

    touch my camera through the fence

  • @MichaelJames707
    @MichaelJames707 Год назад

    🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @jackal242
    @jackal242 Год назад

    Anyone make a "you know what's funny" count on Mark Manson? I stopped counting at 3 in the first 10 minutes.

  • @jonaswox
    @jonaswox 6 месяцев назад +1

    I always felt, ever since the beginning of my history with womanz, that these "the game" guys sucked balls. Also its fun to hear Tom say how he was clueless and insecure. Sometimes looking back my behavior was sometimes borderline predatory, and im not saying its "ok", but I was absolutely desperate for sexual experience, .... In my naive young mind this was the most important skill to acquire :D :D :D So I spent a couple of years just doing everything I could to get to the fun stuff. Absolutely clueless about what I wanted, needed and what I was doing. I hurt a lot of people in that process.
    I really think we tend to forget when judging high school kids, that they are kids - they are completely new to the "grown up" world,.... And so their behavior will seem fucked at times, but they dont even know themselves what they are doing. They dont even know yet who they want to be. They dont know how to be who they want to be either ...

  • @BearBFC
    @BearBFC 2 года назад +3

    Seems like abit of a Cool Guy...

  • @birdmann9197
    @birdmann9197 2 года назад

    I mean... that neck hair puts ol'Timmy in a category from now on, that's for sure...

  • @jessespencer9910
    @jessespencer9910 2 года назад

    His IG is the best out there

  • @_jerrycs_
    @_jerrycs_ 2 года назад

    Tom Talks - Ep19 "The funny thing is"

  • @katieanderson7139
    @katieanderson7139 6 месяцев назад

    Bring him on 2 Bears!

  • @jynx2501
    @jynx2501 2 года назад

    Will Smith would be an interesting guest. Can you imagine him on YMH? Lol

  • @hectorscustomrods2606
    @hectorscustomrods2606 2 года назад +1

    Watch for Waspes. It's hot out.

  • @rjbrown1650
    @rjbrown1650 2 года назад

    Please please get michael bisping on the podcast!! He has a wild story about getting assualted in new orleans

  • @seandawson5899
    @seandawson5899 2 года назад

    Gotta get his dad, Charles next

  • @pimbu936
    @pimbu936 2 года назад +2

    Maybe introduce your guest?

  • @BodyByBenSLC
    @BodyByBenSLC 2 года назад

    Tom invite Mark Blyth on your show.

  • @mariamshireen7632
    @mariamshireen7632 2 года назад

    Okay loved the whole interview, but the will smith part made me wowwwwwww.

  • @Tacit_Tern
    @Tacit_Tern 2 года назад +1

    This is like a far more coherent version of 2B1C.

  • @KyBray
    @KyBray 2 года назад

    Touch my Models through the fence Tom.

  • @AlecPanetta
    @AlecPanetta 2 года назад

    Mark 'It's funny how' Manson

  • @LittleRussianDoll
    @LittleRussianDoll 2 года назад

    To this day I still use the fuck yes / fuck no way of living

  • @Tom-ql2vi
    @Tom-ql2vi 2 года назад

    RIP TOP DOG

  • @Bradgreyeyes
    @Bradgreyeyes 2 года назад

    57:23

  • @joshbond4873
    @joshbond4873 2 года назад +6

    Give us the wisdom, cmon mark, don't be stingy

  • @1Big1Mack
    @1Big1Mack 2 года назад +4

    Could Tom Talks be > than YHM? Tom has fantastic interviewing skills. It’s nice to hear an intelligent convo & not dumb shit thrown in by dumb people as well!

    • @ltheil8030
      @ltheil8030 2 года назад

      Agreed! I don't know if it's better, but the balance of the two is really refreshing!

  • @evfields24
    @evfields24 2 года назад

    The subtle art of Tim being the absolute f*cking man with Tom Talks