I have dealt with that type of people on too many occasions and I don't allow them into my life anymore if they're abusive to me I shut them down quickly don't allow them to treat me this way I was too much the victim at one point in my life and I refuse to be a victim anymore
@6:00 wow you’re onto it.. 🤓 i came upon a guy “John Taylor Gatto” has a book on it.. and some lectures on youtube.. yes Gatto is a mafioso name.. he seems to make a very good case though. Against the Rockafella foundation gang and company
The perfect conversation! We Empaths need to support each other. I did some crazy things to avoid attention but craved love and acceptance. My mom was my issue. Moved out my senior year. 13 years of school and I got a cookbook! 😂 Married very early! Married my mom! 42 years together when he passed. The boundaries and growth have been exponential!
yes, yes we do need to support each other.. much of it comes from the schooling system.. makes everyone competitive and everyone thinks they are better than everyone else.. apparently.. 🤓 no it does.. ive been doing my own research 😬 started just after they had children working in coal mines and factories late 1800s.. and please be cautious with “the truth community” .. villa lobos 🤠
11:47 What you are asking of your partner is Borderline behavior. You are telling your partner he must fix you. So that if you don't succeed then it must be his fault that you succumbed to the narc. If your partner isn't Co-Dependent you'll make him into one by continuing this behavior of him regulating your emotions and decisions for you. Then one day you'll call him controlling and discard him. As you read this, you'll deny it, because it's not something you plan or scheme. But it's what Borderlines end up doing. Honestly, if you cannot stay away from or not fawn over narcs by yourself, then what will happen when your man isn't around to stop you? It's one thing to have your man defend you and fight for you, it's a whole different thing to ask him to fight YOU to fight for you.
Definitely a work in progress. A big step for me has been doing what I really want to do FOR MYSELF and no one else. No more carrying trauma from my childhood into future relationships
@@PhickleChickle That's the right approach. It was Brice at 11:47 I was addressing not you. I should have been more specific given this is your channel I was commenting on. All the best.
Miss Angie I hope you're doing well. Miss you! Much love ✨️💖
And it's SO hard when a sibling/nephew are conrolled and don't see it...😥🙏
For sure!!🙌 Same here!!!
I have dealt with that type of people on too many occasions and I don't allow them into my life anymore if they're abusive to me I shut them down quickly don't allow them to treat me this way I was too much the victim at one point in my life and I refuse to be a victim anymore
Good for you, Donald!
👍🏻 very important topic…
@6:00 wow you’re onto it.. 🤓 i came upon a guy “John Taylor Gatto” has a book on it.. and some lectures on youtube.. yes Gatto is a mafioso name.. he seems to make a very good case though. Against the Rockafella foundation gang and company
VERY validating video. Thanks for sharing and encouraging.
You’re very welcome. ❤ We plan on continuing talks on this topic.
The perfect conversation! We Empaths need to support each other. I did some crazy things to avoid attention but craved love and acceptance. My mom was my issue. Moved out my senior year. 13 years of school and I got a cookbook! 😂 Married very early! Married my mom! 42 years together when he passed. The boundaries and growth have been exponential!
yes, yes we do need to support each other.. much of it comes from the schooling system.. makes everyone competitive and everyone thinks they are better than everyone else.. apparently.. 🤓 no it does.. ive been doing my own research 😬 started just after they had children working in coal mines and factories late 1800s.. and please be cautious with “the truth community” .. villa lobos 🤠
My mom was a teacher highly narcissistic but she was nicer her students
That must’ve been hurtful to you as a child… and to feel no one else really knew your mother’s true self. Love to you ❤
@@PhickleChickle Thank you.
Oh Lord Angie I was trying to order some pickles but i have forgotten my password
Hi ya I'm in 🛏 11:27 pm 💋
Hope you had a good long peaceful slumber!
11:47 What you are asking of your partner is Borderline behavior. You are telling your partner he must fix you. So that if you don't succeed then it must be his fault that you succumbed to the narc. If your partner isn't Co-Dependent you'll make him into one by continuing this behavior of him regulating your emotions and decisions for you. Then one day you'll call him controlling and discard him. As you read this, you'll deny it, because it's not something you plan or scheme. But it's what Borderlines end up doing. Honestly, if you cannot stay away from or not fawn over narcs by yourself, then what will happen when your man isn't around to stop you? It's one thing to have your man defend you and fight for you, it's a whole different thing to ask him to fight YOU to fight for you.
Definitely a work in progress. A big step for me has been doing what I really want to do FOR MYSELF and no one else. No more carrying trauma from my childhood into future relationships
@@PhickleChickle That's the right approach. It was Brice at 11:47 I was addressing not you. I should have been more specific given this is your channel I was commenting on. All the best.