Thank you! Nights are always a battle with my personal grief demons, so my books are always at the bedside. Reading is the only thing that makes any sleep possible.
This validates how I am with my grief: it’s about the relationship I had and now have with my darling one, and the relationship we will continue to have. It all boils down to that. When people say I am just learning to live alone, I say NO! I am adapting to having a new relationship with my husband. Even guilt fits into this template. I forgive myself and him; he forgives himself and me. Sorry….Does this make sense? Megan, you always validate and support me with every post. Thank you so much ❤
Wow! You wrote what I've been thinking since my husband of 48 years passed last September. "I am adapting to having a new relationship with my husband." That says it all. Thank you!
At 20 months into my mother's grief I wake with anxiety more days than not. Often it's due to sleep issues, but not always. There is still so much to process in my journey as my life continues and changes.
I lost my sister 6 years ago my family completely just disowned me because we looked too much like a couple years later I got pregnant but my fiance bagged me to have a kid only to never meet him. My son was diagnosed with down syndrome congenital heart failure and 3 months after he was born he had his first heart surgery, and it was a failure and then we spent the next 9 months and the DeVos hospital and even though his prognosis was not good and it is not good still he has exceeded any expectation any doctor ever had expected for him. He has over 20 diagnosis and is terminal. He's actually exceeded the prognosis for people who have the same medical history, I have always been is only care giver he requires 24 hour care. No break, no healthy balance, no time..... How do I find a way to get a healthy enough balance to continue to keep up with Elijah ❤ and his care, and be able to stop and enjoy being this miracles mom but also handle these different types and different stages of grieving? Is it even possible?... I watch you're videos as much as I can. You've done so much for me and my perspectives and helped with the way of feeling like I'm not in some ways wrong for how I feel about everything. Thank you
I love that… grief lasts as long as love lasts. Very true.
Thank you! Nights are always a battle with my personal grief demons, so my books are always at the bedside. Reading is the only thing that makes any sleep possible.
This validates how I am with my grief: it’s about the relationship I had and now have with my darling one, and the relationship we will continue to have. It all boils down to that. When people say I am just learning to live alone, I say NO! I am adapting to having a new relationship with my husband. Even guilt fits into this template. I forgive myself and him; he forgives himself and me. Sorry….Does this make sense? Megan, you always validate and support me with every post. Thank you so much ❤
Wow! You wrote what I've been thinking since my husband of 48 years passed last September. "I am adapting to having a new relationship with my husband." That says it all. Thank you!
Yes and yes! This is just perfect. Thank you!
At 20 months into my mother's grief I wake with anxiety more days than not. Often it's due to sleep issues, but not always. There is still so much to process in my journey as my life continues and changes.
Grief lasts as long as love lasts......yes as long as I live, thank you.
There is no right or wrong way to grieve
I lost my sister 6 years ago my family completely just disowned me because we looked too much like a couple years later I got pregnant but my fiance bagged me to have a kid only to never meet him. My son was diagnosed with down syndrome congenital heart failure and 3 months after he was born he had his first heart surgery, and it was a failure and then we spent the next 9 months and the DeVos hospital and even though his prognosis was not good and it is not good still he has exceeded any expectation any doctor ever had expected for him. He has over 20 diagnosis and is terminal. He's actually exceeded the prognosis for people who have the same medical history, I have always been is only care giver he requires 24 hour care. No break, no healthy balance, no time..... How do I find a way to get a healthy enough balance to continue to keep up with Elijah ❤ and his care, and be able to stop and enjoy being this miracles mom but also handle these different types and different stages of grieving? Is it even possible?... I watch you're videos as much as I can. You've done so much for me and my perspectives and helped with the way of feeling like I'm not in some ways wrong for how I feel about everything. Thank you