Self Love Journey: How I Healed My Self Worth 💖
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- Опубликовано: 5 окт 2024
- This is my self love glow up story - how I learned to love myself and heal my sense of self worth. Learning to truly love and embrace yourself is a process. There were levels to cultivating my self love & confidence, and each year I continue to unravel more old stories and wounds that I need to heal. There’s so much more I want to share about healing your self worth - so look out for the next video, an in-depth Healing Workshop.
I hope my story encourages you to heal what you need to heal, to find the love and beauty you have within. You are so worthy, beautiful, and lovable. I truly wish for you to be able to see it fully and completely. You are a gem. And I’m so grateful you exist. 💖
As you can see, I’m so passionate about healing our self love & self worth because the quality of your entire life stem from these things - how you feel about yourself, how others perceive you, how likely you are to succeed.
It’s time to let go of all that holds us back (most of the time it’s ourselves & our own minds) and truly live as freely and authentically as can be.
// more self love videos
→ how to heal your emotional trauma & past wounds | bit.ly/2HioyjZ
→ 11 ways self love will change your life | bit.ly/2GenT0r
→ How to stop comparing yourself to others | bit.ly/39aOny5
→ Self worth & self esteem | bit.ly/2K9O4dP
→ breathwork workshop by Leeor Alexandra | bit.ly/2NNJC5g
this is an online version of breathwork meditation that you can do at home! I've done it since coming back from Bali & love it so much.
→ bali vlog | bit.ly/37r5ITE
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This was beautiful.
Lana! Love your video! ♥️♥️
thank you lana
In Love
Aww Lana💕
What a surprise to see you here. The adage of 'Birds of same feathers flock together' made visible.
You both! I'm your fan😍❣
Thank you all for the amazing feedback on this video. I'm so grateful we could connect and remind each other that we're not alone in any of this 💕 Sending you all my love & seriously wishing you all the best for your growth. What I said at the end of the video, I meant it!! 💖
P.S. Click the bell to be notified of the Healing Workshop when it comes out!
can't wait!
It's your best video - very emotional and honest. I'm with you on 100 %. I understand you - had the same situation in my childhood. Thank you :)
You are amazing ❤️ And I’m so glad you are sharing your experience to try to help others feel better
♥️
Lavendaire - thank you, for your dope, positive, artistic content💐like a touchstone of goodness, take care🕊
There's just something about you I love so much. Your voice soothes me, your smile energize me, your words motivates me. 💛
Please continue to inspire us through your life and lessons.
I love you. 🍊
Edit: 👀👀thank you so much for all the likes🍋🍋 I love you all.
@Lina Rabha definitely soothing! Do you sub to her podcast?
Truly♥️
she is so calming 🙏💞
i appreciate this, thank you so much. love you
@@gahrasimran2424 indeed!
"I wasn't making an effort, I was expecting people to make an effort with me."
This is so true. All throughout high school, and even my first two and a half years of college I managed to ruin so many friendships and relationships that could have been beautiful because of this way of thinking. I tend to be the person that accepts an invitation, and then the entire time I won't socialize with anyone. I stay in my own little corner and convince myself that no one wants to talk to me and that I made a mistake by showing up. I realize how damaging this can be to my self esteem and the effect it can have on people around me, and your videos have really given me a chance to reflect on myself. I appreciate everything you do Aileen. Thank you
Girl I totally understand. I am still on this journey. Cause I still feel like I am not worthy when I don't get the results that I or others expect from me. thank you for sharing this.
We are worthy sis:)
Totally relatable! But I'm sure your unworthy thoughts are just irrational thoughts that prolly are influenced by the opinion of others and not your own!
Exactly! So relatable when we are goal and approval focused based on how we were parented. Much love✨
This was soothing
I cried watching this. I am going through my self love journey too and let me tell you there is a lot of sobbing and emotional tearing, thanks alot for sharing your personal journey beautiful. love you
رباب احب فيديوهاتك 🌛💕💕
Same. Hope we all grow for the better
Seeing this video as a shy 14 year old with strict asian parents, this rly gives me hope. i can relate so much to pretty much everything u say, and it rly helps me :) ty
I'm 17, still healing, it does get better, really slowly you'll be happy
@@eylice8091 Same here
I'm turning 17 this month, I'm on a journey to loving and finding myself again , when I was 14, I completely despised myself to the point where I cried while looking at the mirror, it got better with time,still not fully healed, but I'm working on it, yeah and being Asian is kinda hard though..
So don't feel hopeless, you'll be okay and will find your true self soon!
Wish you all the best ♥️
@@eylice8091 you're absolutely right!
@@eylice8091 yes i'm 18 and life gets better as you improve your relation with yourself
I teared up when you talked about feeling invisible/ feeling like nobody wanted to be your friend. That's exactly how I felt the first 18 years of my life. I'm 23 now but I've grown so much mentally the past 5 years. I am so happy I stumbled upon your channel today. I definitely needed this.
You're such a beautiful, old soul! I'm 43 years old and still see my friends struggling with this! I myself have been healing since I was in my early 20s and I can tell you that the process never stops - its a lovely flower that continues to unfold, if we dare to try!
so true! 💓
Becka Bronstad awwwww love THATS it’s definitely so true!!
Yes I think it takes a whole lifetime but it’s so important because otherwise we pass it down to our kids or other family members
Thankyou for your words 😊❤
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Graciaaas! ♡
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*The world begins within*
Great editing
Within:)
Ive been feeling this more now in my mid 20s more than i ever have before. Its true what they say, you are youre worst enemy. Ive always been the FIRST one to tell myself im a failure and im not good enough. Ive had a mental breakdown everyday for the past 4 day. And im just so exhausted from myself. Im constantly having 1 thought lead to another lead to another etc until i just break down... thanks for this video its been so helpful
Khalizzi same! I feel like i’m so behind when it comes to ‘living’ and enjoying life in my 20s when looking at others the same age. Not in a negative way. I just know there’s a lot of work to do for me but not sure how to start. I hope you feel better soon! breakdowns and panic attacks are awful
Hope you’re doing better this week
IM CRYINGGGG, all the time i just really feel i have an older sister in you :'
Aaww:)
love uu
Me to it hit me when she spoke about being a bridesmaid's for her friend
I'm a teenage girl who is trying to achieve my big dreams, and I actually feel so lost. And when you said these words, I was shocked. Because this is who actually I am right now. I'm stuck in that negative cycle. And I am quite lucky that I found out this video. Thankyou sis for creating this channel... 🥺🥺❤️
Omg how many hair colors you have on the past few years? all the colors looks so pretty and pastels love you so much Aileen
too many to count :)
My heart goes out to you and all who have struggled with these similar issues all of us have either struggled or suffered with. We are loved, we are worthy, we are beautiful, we are strong, we are powerful, we are enough, I love you even if you don't know, love or understand you yet. We are relatives, we are all family and we are all truly amazing, keep growing, keep shining, keep smiling because no matter what, your all beautiful.
I can relate. To have friends it takes effort both ways. I just always feel like I wish people would reach out to me. Like I’m the only one ever reaching out to others. I’m always make the effort and it’s draining and it makes me feel like somethings wrong with me. I’ve also been trying to reconnect with a friend and I keep reaching out but they’re not making an effort back and it makes me give up and think I’m just not worthy of having friends.
I felt this way also.. I was surrounded by those that I helped and it was draining.. I'm not sure the friendship was ever going to go both ways. I stepped away and decided to make an effort to get to know new people which was hard as I was suffering social anxiety! I pushed through and found a new bunch of friends - 1 special one and this new friendship I cherish. You are worthy, I use to pursue friendships because I really wanted people to like me the way I liked them... but sometimes it doesn't work... they are just not our people! XXX
@@zestygirl thank you for sharing! you are right. I need to get to know new people :)
It’s like I wrote these words! I feel the same way and am going through the
Same thing ❤️
Same here. I gave up and have been friendless for nearly 10 years. I started to try again last year when I created my own group on meetup.com. Now I am trying again
Relatable
My story is similar
I feel invisible and that people don't want to be friends with me
And I am in the journey of healing and self-love
Thank you for sharing that you are inspiring
You are not invisible. People just don't see the beauty inside of you. Their focus is elsewhere.
3 minutes in and I'm already ugly crying because I can relate to this so much
I just want you to know that you're the reason I healed my self worth, watching your videos was the beginning of my journey to self love, now I can say that I love myself and y know that's all thanks to you. You're an amazing human being and my role model
Aileen, I can identify with feeling my parents’ love was tied to my achievements. I pushed myself very hard in sports because that’s what my dad loved until I totally burnt myself out over many years. I distinctly remember thinking, Nothing I ever do can make this man proud of me = loves me. I’m 50 now and it’s only after a lot of years of self destructive behaviour that I am whole, sober and taking care of myself. Bless you for realizing this crucial truth at such a young age. I get it. Blessed be.
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I am not the only one crying here watching this... This video was really beautiful and you helped me a lot with my self love journey!😭❤️
as an asian-canadian living in a difficult home, this has been so healing to watch. It feels like a mirror for us-- we really do feel and hear what you're saying. Thank you.
I can relate to getting emotional over expressions of love and care. I think we've been starved of love, affection, care, acceptance, and support so much that any time we see it being expressed - we are deeply touched.
The way Aileen talked about the "little Aileen" is so sweet and loving! This is how you nurture your inner child. Thank you for sharing this beautiful and unique journey to self-love. More magic to come to your life!
I am 63 years old and I have learned so much from your meditation videos. I keep a few of them on my favorites and do them in the morning when I wake up. I just recently started experiencing some anxiety and your meditation videos have been a blessing. Thank you ❤
this is exactly how i feel now. thank you for showing me i'm not alone - healing seems like such an overwhelming task and i feel like i almost have a comfort zone in the story i have created because it's all ive ever known.. even when its years later. i still cling to who i was, not quite ready to let go because i feel like im almost afraid of who i could be.. anyway! this video helped me see that even though letting go of your story is uncomfortable and painful, its worth it.
Healing can be overwhelming rather physical healing or other healing. It's definitely a job, mastering the things that have mastered us for so long. Lucky for us our lives use channels like this one to give us much needed reminders of what we can become. High five sis.
@@geo5954 Thank you!
Can't find the words to thank you sweet girl, you inspire me and you give me the courage to heal myself. I struggled the same insecurity, loneliness, no self-love and esteem,... I tried to seek attention and love from others and I've never dared to fix myself and care of it but now because of you I'll start to build a best version of me and I hope to never give up. Thank you from the bottom of my heart❤
as someone who has recently embarked on my own self love and acceptance journey, this really moved me. thank you so much. makes me feel like i am not alone and i will get there too.
I deeply relate with your story! For as long as I can remember I have always believed that I was below everyone else. Only just realised how bad I actually treat myself. Thank you for sharing this! I’m going to begin my journey!
I cried with you, thank you for being vulnerable and talking about self worth, for I am on this journey to seeing the beauty within myself. There are days I try to tell myself that I am one of a kind, but it’s hard to have a consistent mentality, since it’s so easy to compare myself to others. I want to understand my traumas, and what triggers me. I’m so grateful to have stumbled upon your video.
Thank you for sharing your beautiful experience ❤. I too am on this journey myself and each day I feel and see myself in a better place. Every tear that I shed, and pain that I feel is apart of it all.
I hope each and one of us continue to bloom, for all of us are like flowers, we bloom differently, but beautifully. It takes time, but its worth it. ❤
This video made me realize that "I'm not alone". I'm not the only one dealing with similar problems related to friendships and self-worth. I always felt like it's me against the world.
I can so understand and relate to wanting to be wanted by others, expecting others to make the effort to talk to me while I don't try to make the effort to talk to them. And when they don't make the effort probably because they sense that I'm not giving an equal amount of effort in return, I think they simply don't want to be friends with me. So I distance myself. Feeling unworthy to make the effort; insecure. I never knew that side of myself and always wondered why I never really had a stable friendship.
Thank you so much for sharing. It's so hard to heal and grow and change and be confident when you feel you don't deserve it. And to want to prove to others that you've changed because you're that insecure, questiong -did I really change? But it can be a rocky process that'll take time and I'm working on it!! Love 💛
Thank you for sharing. Our life’s mirror each other in so many ways. I was a very shy child and felt abandoned too. I lived my childhood with very little confidence always trying to blend in. Not get picked on. My Dad died when I was 1 and my mom sorta abandoned ship. She was emotionally traumatized and did not know how to cope... so she traveled and drank most of my childhood. Everything I our life was about appearance not love. It’s hard for me to express love because it’s not something I experienced unless my mom felt guilty so conditionally at best. I’m 50 now and I’m just starting this journey after failing once again to find happiness in another person. Your perspective is great....thank you!
I'm glad that ppl are realizing how important self love is..I'm thankful to realise it in late teens .I wish all of you guys out their have a beautiful self development journey .lots of love ♡♡
How moving that I found myself in your past story. I’m now a very shy kid and always make a lot of effort to catch people’s attention. I feel insecure when I have to go on with a new chapter of my life and face with changes. Sometimes my life didn’t go that well, so I’ve always doubted myself a lot, like I’m not good enough, I’m not worthy and no one really cares and loves me. I couldn’t talk to someone else and kept those toxic feelings my own. The interesting point is we have something in common. I feel the most confident when I sing because I have a really strong passion for music and I always receive praises from others whenever I start performing. After watching a lot of your videos, I feel relieved and maybe I don’t need to care that much about other’s opinions. Maybe just being myself, knowing my true value and trying to be the best version of myself is exactly the most important thing in life. Many thanks for those positive thoughts and energies that you’ve shared to us, I admire you and support you.
When you spoke about how you thought that nobody wanted to be friends with you, man, that hit deeeeeeep
OMGOSH.
I can truly relate.
I'm not Asian, though,
I'm white, with blue eyes and blonde hair.
Back in 1961, I was abducted at a very young age, & raised by those who abducted me.
They kept me extremely isolated & hidden from my biological family.
They always ruled over me and constantly demand their own way,
I was also traumatized with physical, verbal & emotional abuse.
Later in my 30's there was a opportunity for me to escape, and I did.
I am now 63 and working on this new journey, that your are describing.
Doing my very best to reinvent myself & overcome the traumatic memories of the past.
I'm doing better now, but it's not easy.
Thank you for this video and for sharing this part of your life.
I pray it helps many others who are going through the same thing.
Your a blessing.❤
I felt many times misunderstood by the people, which makes me feel disconnected from people, worthless, alone...but I think now I realized at some point we all struggle with concept of self acceptance from others, it's normal, and through this journey we learn and grow ourselves. We all have some kind of insecurities but each Soul is special.
And one thing more, honestly you are the one who introduced me Self Love, its importance in life, I have learned so much from you about this area, you helped me to figure out my self awarenes and self worth more..Thank you dear Aileen 🖤✨, lots of love from India.
I’m glad that you are now healed. It moved me so much because it felt like you are talking about my life! I haven’t healed yet I’m trying but it’s hard I hope I will heal someday and forget about my past
Girl you're so inspiring like I don't even know where to start to describe how helpful your videos are 🥺
In case no one has told you so, your voice is extremely soothing and sweet. I find your videos such a bliss to watch ❤️
I'm 24 and this is something I've struggled a lot. Looking forward to the self healing workshop! All the best! 💚
I am 60 and STILL struggling with this. I cry myself to sleep so many nights, wanting to be a part of something bigger, but not knowing what my part is.
Your telling of being a wallflower...that's me.
When you told how good you felt being asked to be a bridesmaid...I have never had that.
Your experiences with your singing...I am happy for you but I cried again because I don't have a takent like that.
I want to feel better, but I just don't know where to go from here.
Thank you and thank God for these words.
I grew up as a child in the same way as you, then became codependent, and last year (August 2019) I saw clearly the bigger picture of why my life has been like this, why I felt that way. I understood all the why's.
For who needs this:
Healing is something we have to go through if we want a better life.
Count on you and count on God, who loves you unconditionally. Don't seek anywhere else love, if not inside of you and in God. Don't seek for approval, your worth comes from within: you're not defined by grades, college, job, the number of friends you have.
Try to be your best self to live your best life, with the help of God.
We always feel that pressure to perform in order to feel loved and accepted by others. At the end of the day, we
we get to realize that it's far more fulfilling to please, love, and appreciate ourselves for who we are, and in whatever stage we are at the moment.
Love you Aileen!😍😍😍
Definitely crying ... I have come to the realization that I don't love myself. I have an amazing family and husband but I haven't cared about myself. And I never believed I deserved anything good. Glad I watched this
you're the older sister I never have 💖 thank you for sharing such personal story. It's my new favorite video of yours ✨
I started my healing journey at the age 16 . Now I am 17 , I learned a lot. I became aware of the world within me and the world that surrrounds me. I know that I still have a long way to go and the wounds from the past ( especially my mom's death ) will take time to heal.
What a beautiful girl. I watched this video at the right time as I'm going through my healing process for the first time ever. Thank you for showing me the strength to push through...
Wow, I was raised the EXACT same way! Like it felt like I had to do things perfectly or else I wouldn't get the love and approval of my parents. I broke away from that when I was nineteen--I got married and started a family and actually began living how I wanted to instead of how I felt my parents wanted me to. I'm 24 and still healing and working to rewire my brain when it comes to tying self worth to success. Love your channel!
I feel as if i already love you on a personal level. The emotions and feelings you described you felt were my narrative for sooo long . I had heard of self love but never actually deeply thought about it. I had abandoned myself for years to an extent that i felt extremely guilty if i wanted anything for myself whilst my friends and family also needed it. I was never a priority .Ever. I didn’t see my worth .Not that i have fully seen it now but it is a journey .Self love is a journey and i feel as if i have yet so much to learn .Thank you ,for this.
I don’t understand why people don’t like this video.I love this I need it is💗💗💗💗
You’re such a special human being to me, so inspiring!
''your worth is innate, it cannot be taken away'' wow, beautiful :)
The way you talk about self-worth and your personal experience with it is so authentic. Like it made me realize that we're all worth truly comes within, and even though that's still hard to believe in for some people (including me), it's the truth. Thank you for this beautiful message Aileen, Love U
Yes, Chloe!
Thanks for your willingness to be vulnerable and share your healing journey ❤️
This video has come at a perfect time for me. I recently got out of this illusion that I had to depend on others to make me happy. I searched answers for my self worth in how others perceive me.
After a terrible phase of anxiety and low esteem, I feel liberated and happy from within. I have realised now that happiness is definitely one's own choice. Yes, I am worthy of all the good things. And I will make it happen.
I cannot help but feel slightly emotional as I watch this video. All that I had to face in the past, and seeing myself blooming today, makes me feel so so proud of all that I am today.
You are a beautiful soul, Aileen! Thank you so much for this video. ♥️
Wow! Thank you so much for posting this video. I recently completed the journey of discovering my worth and continuing daily to remind myself that I am worthy. I have so much more confidence. Like you, I realized that I had everything within me all along and wished I had discovered this truth sooner. But God's timing is perfect. Thank you again!
Self love is the longest journey one has to embark on ;some moments and days are harder than others but you got to keep at because you're doing it for yourself🤗🤗
Thank you Aileen you're the best 🖤
Hard work, unfolding this character in us!
Glad we have channels like this to remind us of what we forget sometime.
I want to live by this: after all, the story you tell yourself about you matters. So keep it healthy and positive. Honestly, what we think about ourselves is what others do. We are always good and nice and awesome. It's just that many people don't see this beautiful reality due to negative circumstances. But once you see, I like did: trust me, life becomes vibrant! You learn that even if the worst storm came: like failure or a mental breakdown, you will survive anyway. Because trauma makes you fireproof. And the person who stood in the fire will know that. So never lose hope, good things come---
I am going through the same period now, self discovery and mental clarity.
I feel so deep what you felt during adolescence cause for me it was the same.
Thank you for this, I needed it today!
I got teary right at the same time you did. I felt it. You are beautiful thanks for existing.
I really related to this in another level. 😔 as an asian child, I also felt the pressure to earn high grades and get in a good collage etc. thank you for this video
Thats so true good grades, good college, good job is what bring your parents love to your life .
I can't thank enough..thankyou girl for helping me to become my better self. I have been a subscriber since really long and very glad that I found your channel. Hope to see such inspiring content in future too....
I have always been an achiever, and I have never stopped to think why I was that way, but because of some problems I was obliged to try to understand why I was so desperated for external approval, why I needed so much to be well-succeded. Then, I realized it was because I thought I'd only be loved, respected and cherished If I had achieved certain goals. But even now, because I don't still love myself properly I keep doing things that hurt me in order to succed, and unfortunately I still get praised because of It. That IS our society
I don't know but I said it in your IG but I will say it here again, I love you, Aileen. I've been here for so long now and you are really one of the reasons why I truly accept, appreciate and treasures myself more. I gained so much confidence and don't really much value what people say about me.
wow, thank you for sticking around & I appreciate you so much! ❤️❤️ love that
your story really speaks to me. knowing we're not alone .
i'm only beginning my journey - finding you and listening to your words is really helping
Starting this journey myself. Good luck to everyone working to improve themselves
This is what I really need right now. Hearing this from you moved me. I don't know how I'm going to heal from the pains and hurt I've been holding for the past weeks, months, and years of my life. I don't know about forgiving, but you are helping me with it. I remembered when a simple hug and whisper of encouragement from a friend really moved my heart and nearly made me cry. This video makes me tear up like, "Yes, I'm worthy, I'm beautiful" I just forget it sometimes because of *hurt people* who's been hurting me and my constant need to seek love from *other people*. I'm really insecure as well, I feel invisible even with my friends around and because of that I became aloof with everyone, I started avoiding people and pushing people away. Thank you so much for this 🥺✨
You are more amazing than you can possibly imagine, learn to love yourself and love others. Realise this now and follow what you want!
@@nicholasgermanacos9023 🥺
You are 10 years ahead of me, what you discovered and healed in your twenties is what I'm experiencing now in my thirties.. These videos you are making are of a great benefit to me, thank you so much Aileen ❤️
Whaouh !!! I totally relate to you on self worth and insecurity around friendships . I’m ready to love myself fully , welcome abundant friendships and willing to work on those limited beliefs during this year 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Can’t wait for your step by step guide to healing
I resonate with this so much and I don’t think I’ve been able to put how I felt into words so thank you for opening up about something that isn’t the easiest to talk about
Now, I am actually trying to escape from this negative cycle. I am actually struglling with felling unworthy and I am never proud of myself. So this video helped me so much, it moved me. I love all your videos, because they just give me so much motivation and positive energy. So I’m very thankful for RUclips and you chanel. Thank you.🙏🙏🙏
I just love how you put this into the world and let us see deeply in your self-love journey and how much you work to be where you are now, I'm working in my own journey and it might see impossible but i know i will get to where i need to be, thank you so much
Aileen, you are one of the best people I've known on the internet. Because of you, your stories, and videos, I find the strength to live, love, and find my mission in this world. You are amazing! Thank you so much for being brave and putting yourself 'out there'. You inspire so many people and we love you just the way you are!
Camille Concepcion Thank you, I appreciate this so much! ❤️
I am crying because of how much I relate to this video. I'm so lucky to know your channel. I've learned so much from you. You're so beautiful and inspiring to me. Wish you all the best
I was moved by your sentiments here. And I couldn't agree more, Lavendaire is incredible inspiring.
I keep on going back and forth to this video whenever I feel demotivated.. Thank you.. You don't know how much you helped me go through self doubt.. Thank you.. 😭😭😭
This was beautiful, vulnerable and touching. I want to reach out through the screen and give you a hug 🤗 Thank you for spreading the self love message and for being so open about your journey. I love your channel and your personality. And I also want to thank you for the Positive Affirmations Audio, which was part of the New Year Challenge. I listen to it every day. It is wonderful and it is helping me a lot. I absolutely love it. Sending love and big thank you for all you do ❤️
I have no words to thank you. I also felt that way in my whole life and yesterday I want to heal my past wound and I found your video. Thank you so much. ❤️❤️
*Incredible video! I found your channel recently and absolutely loved it! You inspire me to work hard on my personality and be a better person. Thank you very much for it!*
Me too, her channel is perfect timing
Channel 59 ❤️
This is so relatable. Having been bullied since high school and uni, I have been told that Im ugly, weird and unattractive by people around me, I have been disrespected, teased, and humiliated for so long. After I graduated, I tried so hard to impress; to look pretty, be successful, sociable and gain attention from men, so that I can feel good about myself. However, even though nowadays I know that I'm not ugly, I have good friends and am successful in my career, there are always little things that can trigger me to question my worth. I realized that I tried hard to gain admiration but I didn't really heal my wound. Self esteem comes from within and I have been relying on external validations. When I don't get recognition from others I get upset. I also realized that the reason that I had never have long romantic relationships was because that I didn't believe that I was lovable. I'm in this self discovery journey and am so happy to find this video!
Loved listening to your story!! We all have our own stories of how we got to where we are today! It’s nice to see how it all built you up, Aileen! I am so proud of you !!! You are courageous, brave and beautiful !!! 💕
From a self love content creator to another- sweet sweet video!! I loved it!! Thank you Aileen. I know it’s not easy to be vulnerable in front of the world. 💗
Courageous:)
The Inner Life Awe, you’re so sweet! Thank you beauty!! I appreciate you!! 🤗❤️
Channel 59 Indeed! ❤️
thank you love!!
Lavendaire 💕
I cried!! Thankyou, for reminding me I am so much loved. I love you!
“Dishonor on your cow...” 😂😂🐲🐄
Love that MULAN REFERENCE!!!! HAHAHHAHH
I was about to cry when I was watchig the video and when you cry I felt like i can't hold my tears too ... you are loved so many people love you ❤
Girl, you’ve made m cry so hard! You are helping so many of us. Thank you so much
So vulnerable, so raw! Thank you for sharing this beautiful video. You never fail to inspire me ✨❤️
Don't think you're ugly .You're beautiful from inside and outside . love u hope u're safe
This resonated with me on such a deep level and I love your work
I hope you’re proud of your self and love your self because I love your growth SO MUCH ❤️
Encouraging us with your story to the point of tears is inspiring me to take action and do more reflective inventory for myself. 🤍💙🙏🏻 Thank you for sharing your videos! They are making an immeasurable impact.
THIS💖: I never had to change myself in order to receive love and approval and self worth💕👍💕
thank you so much! I appreciate evert single word you said. I did cry a lot when i realized how much the love that my friend gave me. I wanna thank you for being a part of my journey seeking for my persona 💜
I relate to this so much and really needed to see this! This made me feel less alone during my self love journey :')
You have no idea how much your videos are helping me and how similar our stories are. Thank you so much
I was literally just having this conversation with my therapist. Thank you for always sharing your wisdom!
You are a beautiful soul and so happy you can see that now...childhood memories and school can effect you your whole life.... and learning to let go of letting unkind people have that control over you, can be very hard to let go as you said... the one thing I have learned from unkind people, is that I never want to be like them, I never want to reflect a superior attitude over others, rather show love and be kind is the best reply to all those people who made you feel worthless, being a selfless caring human being is a lifetime of happiness and contentment no one can take from you.... wishing you all love and happiness, you are worthy and loved by God, find peace in him and his promises, read his word and have hope 🙏
This story touched me,because I feel the same with my friends
I don't know what I would do without you Aileen. I still don't love myself and compare myself to others. But now I know it's myself who can make me feel confident better and know my worth.. Thank you so much aileen ur like my elder sister who gives powerful and good advice 😭😭😃💜love from a 15 yr old girl