hot girl hacks to glow up | 41 brutally honest lessons that made me confident & changed my life

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  • Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024

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  • @AshleyBlue2002
    @AshleyBlue2002 Месяц назад +313

    completely off topic comment but I tried your scent combo of the eos + pistachio and cloud perfume and girl you were COOKING with that one. Elite combo

    • @lenalifts
      @lenalifts  28 дней назад +34

      AHHH my signature scent hehe glad you love

    • @justjojo702
      @justjojo702 15 дней назад +1

      new viewer here! can I get the deets on this combo?

    • @AshleyBlue2002
      @AshleyBlue2002 15 дней назад +11

      @@justjojo702 ariana grande cloud perfume + eos vanilla cashmere lotion + brazilian crush pistachio and salted carmel body spray = the golden combo !

    • @Kayu07
      @Kayu07 11 дней назад

      @@AshleyBlue2002kindly let me know the fragrance name

    • @user-qp9wq1tp8o
      @user-qp9wq1tp8o 9 дней назад +2

      @@Kayu07those are the fragrance names, the pistachio one is by Sol de janeiro

  • @bisoulune5879
    @bisoulune5879 8 дней назад +74

    “Stop wasting energy being jealous of other peoples success. It’s only proof that you can do it too” EXACTLY

  • @tara26777
    @tara26777 13 дней назад +123

    “Confidence isn’t a feeling, it’s the willingness to try”
    WOWWWWW

  • @magickodaly_
    @magickodaly_ Месяц назад +230

    One of the best bits of advice I’ve ever seen for gaining self confidence is to remember that “confidence is gained by doing the scary thing that required confidence in the first place” and that was mind blowing to me but it’s so true!

    • @lenalifts
      @lenalifts  Месяц назад +8

      LOVE THAT ♥

    • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
      @bwingbwinggwiyomi 4 дня назад +2

      It's literally what bravery itself is. Doing the thing that you're scared of anyway, and you end up learning the most about it after you've done it ❤

  • @wallflower777
    @wallflower777 Месяц назад +382

    Can we get an in-depth video on how you overcame jealousy? working on that myself. you are always on time with great videos

    • @hannaattouz8281
      @hannaattouz8281 Месяц назад +9

      Yes would love that too!

    • @carissamckellar3421
      @carissamckellar3421 Месяц назад +3

      Yes please!!

    • @BerryBabyCow
      @BerryBabyCow Месяц назад +3

      I would love that as well! ❤

    • @Mmmmkaaay
      @Mmmmkaaay 16 дней назад +14

      Be in competition with who you were yesterday, not other people. 🎉

    • @iaf4454
      @iaf4454 14 дней назад +8

      Jelousy comes when you desire sth other person has. Focus on what are those desires and work to get there, if u use that as an inspiration your jelousy will dissapear

  • @diorivy.
    @diorivy. Месяц назад +510

    You've honestly helped me improve myself so much and i'm so thankful to you 😭 I went from being that shy, insecure girl to the most confident person I know all thanks to you! You're literally amazing, we love you Lena ❤️

  • @catmoon7594
    @catmoon7594 12 дней назад +38

    Cackling at the “working out will give you free feel good hormones, and I don’t know about you but I love free stuff” LOVE a wise and funny gal 😂💜✨

  • @eleanor_nolan_mills
    @eleanor_nolan_mills 12 дней назад +20

    Love how you said hate only comes from below. It reminded me of another quote I heard "People can only talk behind your back if you're in front of them" or something like that. So powerful.

    • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
      @bwingbwinggwiyomi 4 дня назад +1

      The only time that doesn't apply is with genuine criminals who have done wrong and deserve to be criticised 😂

  • @MAI-he3wu
    @MAI-he3wu Месяц назад +65

    "Be a student, as long as you live" is an important lesson I've learned in my 20-30s🤓. I'm in my 40s now, learning a lot from you😊!Lots of love from Japan!❤

  • @JoemommaJoe
    @JoemommaJoe Месяц назад +115

    🥹I'm a freshman in highschool and you helped me at my lowest when I was in 8th grade. Thank YOU, I now stop caring what others think of me, I'm more confident. I became what I didn't think was possible. LY ❤❤❤

    • @lenalifts
      @lenalifts  Месяц назад +28

      So proud of you my love 🤍

    • @JoemommaJoe
      @JoemommaJoe Месяц назад +9

      ​@@lenalifts AHH This means so much to me,🥹❤️ thank you

    • @pipsphyve3687
      @pipsphyve3687 Месяц назад +1

      Enjoying your video. Thanks so much for the effort you put in your videos.

  • @evieranger
    @evieranger Месяц назад +176

    our glow up teacher is backkkk

  • @Aestheticco-shop
    @Aestheticco-shop Месяц назад +77

    Your probably one of the only few influencers who actually give out interesting tips and make it work ❤

  • @NaemiGhide
    @NaemiGhide Месяц назад +60

    best fitness influencer to exist!!

  • @josie_nomnom
    @josie_nomnom Месяц назад +265

    6:22 “ur gonna reject someone’s dusty son” LMAO 😭😭

  • @catherinephilipps2569
    @catherinephilipps2569 17 дней назад +13

    Yes choosing to only be around respectful people should be more of a priority instead of settling for jealous and fake friends. Be strong enough to go it alone until you find your tribe

    • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
      @bwingbwinggwiyomi 4 дня назад +1

      That's what I've been doing too. Thankfully, it's easier than me for many because I grew up an introverted only child so I know how to enjoy my own company and make my own fun. I do get the occasional spouts of loneliness from being alone. But I know, deep down, it's for my own good till I find my soul tribe ❤ cause I'd rather have a few quality close friends with deep connections than 100 fake friends that are superficial relationships.

  • @janajanevska
    @janajanevska Месяц назад +10

    watching this while deep-cleaning my room...I feel like in a way it HEALED me it was like being 'yelled' at (nicely) by my bestie about everything I needed to hear. it's like that friend that tells you what you need to hear without realizing you needed to hear that thing?? ya feel me? anyways thanks for this Lena 🥰

    • @lenalifts
      @lenalifts  Месяц назад +2

      AWW i Love that this video helped you and that you watched while deep cleaning ok double productive queen

  • @Chelsealosesthis
    @Chelsealosesthis Месяц назад +23

    Girl I’m 28 and learned so much from this video lol I listened as I meal prepped! I’m totally stepping into a new me! I’m down 50lbs and have 50 more to lose! Love you videos truly motivate me love ya girly!

  • @LindaThao
    @LindaThao Месяц назад +76

    I’m always here for the glow up videos!! 💖✨🫶🏼

    • @Lisosouku
      @Lisosouku Месяц назад

      me to

    • @josie_nomnom
      @josie_nomnom Месяц назад +3

      omg i always see u!! we follow like so many of the same influencers and ur comments are always so sweetttt xx

    • @Lisosouku
      @Lisosouku Месяц назад

      @@josie_nomnom who are u talking to

    • @josie_nomnom
      @josie_nomnom Месяц назад +1

      @@Lisosouku i’m talking to @LindaThao lol

    • @LindaThao
      @LindaThao Месяц назад +2

      @@josie_nomnom thank you gorgeous!! I’m always watching so many RUclipsrs because they bring joy and love into my life 💞😭

  • @NuhaminNigatu
    @NuhaminNigatu Месяц назад +16

    I do not know how to thank you. I start working out, feel more confident, believe in myself, and do not care about others; all of this happens because of you. Lena, you are my motivation. I see myself in you, and I am your biggest fan from Ethiopia. I love you🥰🥰🥰

  • @Salamdrinkwater
    @Salamdrinkwater 25 дней назад +31

    This advice really helped me. I live in an abusive household like physical and mental abuse and I can definitely say I know myself and what I’m Capable of. What they are doing to me doesn’t even scratch my skin🙂‍↔️🤚

    • @Verena101
      @Verena101 16 дней назад

      I hope you can leave soon.

    • @sxs3178
      @sxs3178 16 дней назад +9

      I pray that you’re able to leave that household soon :( keep your faith!

    • @bwingbwinggwiyomi
      @bwingbwinggwiyomi 4 дня назад +1

      I feel you, my friend. My mother is unfortunately also an abusive narcissist. I'm turning 24 tomorrow. So 24 years of narcissistic abuse that includes emotional, mental, physical, financial and spiritual abuse. And I'm making my way on saving up enough money to move out and all. We've got this ❤ hang in there. It's people like you and I who've been through what we've experienced who are the most mentally strongest.

    • @Salamdrinkwater
      @Salamdrinkwater 4 дня назад

      @@bwingbwinggwiyomi don’t worry even though it’s hard now, I do believe this will benefit us in the future and help us choose the right people that should be in our lives. GOOD LUCK YOU GOT THISSSS🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @josie_nomnom
    @josie_nomnom Месяц назад +18

    LENA UR SO GEORGEOUSSS the way u put ur highlighter?? ur lip color??? girl u are STUNNINGGG

  • @SaraNikolic-dj8gx
    @SaraNikolic-dj8gx Месяц назад +11

    Idk If somebody needs this but remember you are worthy and everything will turn out great at the end ❤!

  • @callmeh_amara1319
    @callmeh_amara1319 Месяц назад +24

    Ever since I have started watching you Lena , my life has taken a drastic change for the better so thank you so much ❤

  • @Medley_Queen
    @Medley_Queen Месяц назад +9

    I feel the self confidence and in my neurodivergent journey, what you say resonates with me. People are not needed if they are not good for you. You know you best and if they do not like it, tough luck.

  • @noarenna6545
    @noarenna6545 Месяц назад +28

    I don't know how long I've been following Lena, but I'll be thankful for ever, thanks to her I feel much better with myself ❤❤

  • @AniyaSelena
    @AniyaSelena 22 дня назад +7

    Girl I have never met someone who thought like this. I thought I was the only one bc people don’t normally talk about it and explain it in this way❤️ Yessssss I love it🥹

  • @lukagasai
    @lukagasai Месяц назад +9

    Okay but your skin is GLOWING! You look so beautiful!

  • @nidhi_p4
    @nidhi_p4 Месяц назад +14

    I'm so glad that I've subscribed to your channel Lena 🤧💓 You THE BEST!!!!! You've changed my life 😭 and I'm forever grateful to your channel for giving me all the positivity

  • @laurenmiddleton3019
    @laurenmiddleton3019 Месяц назад +5

    Thanks you have also helped me so much with being confident in my self and made me drop my fake friend and now have the friends that mean the world to me and you have made me such a productive person . I have been watching you for 1 year or so now and I had improved in like a few months and everyone remember whatever someone says abt you is an opinion not a fact . And also tell your self this in a hard time “if someone is picking in me feel bad for them don’t make people feel bad for you “ go out their and live your life bye guys xx

  • @Jennijennijenni
    @Jennijennijenni 6 дней назад +1

    I usually don’t like these mindset girly influencer videos, but I love how you just get straight to the point and talk quickly about the topics!
    And the topics you talk about are very useful and interesting as well!
    Subscribed!

  • @magneticalex
    @magneticalex Месяц назад +3

    What helps me keep going is watching content like this all the time, and that's why I also got the courage to post my own videos here. I wish you success

  • @threnoidia
    @threnoidia 19 дней назад +27

    To add to 11:40 if you are with a friend or partner who often says they're so mean, a bad person, etc. they are often not just being humble - BELIEVE them!

    • @AngelsonEarth69
      @AngelsonEarth69 17 дней назад

      I dated a man who proclaimed he's the 'nicest asshole I've ever met.' Well, he was correct on one account...

  • @DarshikaNair-p4f
    @DarshikaNair-p4f Месяц назад +8

    I have been watching ur vids for the last couple of months and after I started watching u MY LIFE CHANGED THANK U SO MUCH LENA LYY❤️❤️

    • @Renaluv09
      @Renaluv09 Месяц назад

      @@DarshikaNair-p4f Same with me

  • @Equestrian13
    @Equestrian13 Месяц назад +7

    Girl!!! Your helping me so much! I come from 8 years of a terrible school.. but I’m making a comback in my new school! I do gymnasium en I’m enjoing my Life again! You help me so much with this!!! Thank you!

  • @I03-q1d
    @I03-q1d Месяц назад +6

    I always tried to gain confidence through affirmations and good thoughts and (even though it worked a lot) I kinda forgot what confidence really is; it´s the ability to accept your strengths AND weaknesses.
    I had really bad social anxiety and I still struggle with it sometimes when I want to make friends (pro tip: get into customer service if you want to work on your social anxiety; you will realize how strangers dont matter in your life and it will improve your social skills A LOT). Anyway, I noticed that I tried to focus on this ideal version of me so much that I got angry when I thought about my insecurities because in my mind I should already love myself, be confident and not have those insecurities.
    So the first thing you should do is write down your strengths and your insecurities/weaknesses and try to get comfortable with both of them until someone could tell you your flaws and you just don´t care cause it doesn´t affect you, because you accepted it in your own head!

  • @ko_grindz
    @ko_grindz Месяц назад +8

    Best RUclipsrs that I ever watched for motivation. Your the reason why I chase my dreams❤

  • @aureliemuller2029
    @aureliemuller2029 26 дней назад +2

    This is exactly what I needed right now. I literally grabbed my journal out of my drawer and started reflecting!!!!

  • @kiandracasey
    @kiandracasey Месяц назад +13

    Best way to start the week 🙌🏻🌼 sending love from South Africa 🇿🇦

  • @khadijaaithmid5536
    @khadijaaithmid5536 18 дней назад +2

    no to external happiness this is my sign!! high five from Morocco Lenaaaaa

  • @miffieas
    @miffieas Месяц назад +1

    I love how you speak STRAIGHT to the POINT.

  • @suchitrachintalapati511
    @suchitrachintalapati511 Месяц назад +1

    I was really insecure and you really helped me gain confidence. You are one of the only people out there whose tips actually worked for me and who really helped me improve myself. I will always support you, and I love you so much!

  • @aaminahsyed9953
    @aaminahsyed9953 Месяц назад +8

    livingg for the sit-down videos💗

  • @originalx8189
    @originalx8189 25 дней назад +2

    Girl this is literally 1 of the best videos I’ve seen on RUclips wow

  • @Minted_Hawaii
    @Minted_Hawaii Месяц назад +4

    I see your channel growing Lena, getting close to 1 million! Get it sis! ❤🎉

  • @nomib03
    @nomib03 Месяц назад +6

    When is the journal going digital for us international girlies ? 😭😭 Always loved your videos, loved seeing you grow ❤

    • @alecruzc_
      @alecruzc_ Месяц назад

      PLEASEEEE 🇵🇪🥹

  • @RanziYasasvi
    @RanziYasasvi Месяц назад +1

    Girl, you're literally the QUEEN of motivation & inspiration

  • @becca-ru6ku
    @becca-ru6ku Месяц назад +1

    Needed this video so much!!! Been in a rut and had a friend ghost me out of the blue so i needed the reminder to not waste time on people who don't pour into me, i deserve better!!!❤️💜🤞

  • @kellyhopchin2922
    @kellyhopchin2922 Месяц назад +1

    To get things you've never had you need to do things you've never done. That one really stood out to me!

  • @emelynechaliot3258
    @emelynechaliot3258 18 дней назад +1

    I watched so many videos like this and didn't even connected myself to this because I didn't really understand. But with this video I literally resonate with all advice. Thank you so much, it was so helpful 💓

  • @adinamaria3161
    @adinamaria3161 Месяц назад +1

    Hii girl, I just want to thank u. I’ve been following u since 2022 /2021 when I had some issues to get through. And ur videos literally helped so much, they made me stronger and I slowly gained my life back . I know how u usually speak about ur followers in your videos , saying that u are so thankful for us, but believe me…u have to know that without even knowing u help so many people. We should thank u in the first place. U give us hope, and u are a safe place for many of us. Thank u. We are so thankful for ur words, ur kindness and ur realism. U are the reason why I was getting my life back in the first place. Just Thank u. Keep goin’, u are the best. ❤️

  • @TheUnknowngirl-jk1om
    @TheUnknowngirl-jk1om Месяц назад +1

    Honestly YOU are the first and ONLY youtuber/influencer I adore, you litteraly help me improve my everyday life and routine, I owe you my whole motivation in acheaving the desir of changing my lifestyle for the better.I personnaly can't wait for thr next vid. WE LOVE YOU LENA ❤

  • @sarahloufrani7866
    @sarahloufrani7866 20 дней назад +1

    Girl you look like an angel with that light !!

  • @rachaelthompson5797
    @rachaelthompson5797 16 дней назад

    If I ever feel unmotivated, especially going to the gym I watch your videos. It’s like getting a pep talk ❤

  • @Annie24star
    @Annie24star Месяц назад +3

    OMG it’s a great day when lena posts! I love your videos they’ve helped me so much!

  • @Luveditxx
    @Luveditxx Месяц назад +4

    You’ve motivated me so much and taught me to become a better version of myself ❤

  • @DrK.M0oNrGe534
    @DrK.M0oNrGe534 Месяц назад +4

    Another awesome video!! If possible could you do a video on multiple tips and different ways to find your style wardrobe, ideas of a main character playlist,but definitely looking forward to PCOS,app recommendations, and more content. 💯🙌

  • @julieryan8179
    @julieryan8179 5 дней назад

    I tried to list them using the alphabet but quickly ran out of letters, even after coupling some of these together. Like the 3 references to control what you can control there; let people be, don’t focus on others behavior and focus on yourself😊
    Loved watching and listening to your video. It left me with a happy and hopeful feeling ❤

  • @scruzsantos13
    @scruzsantos13 Месяц назад

    I’ve watched this twice now bc it was everything I needed to hear. For the last couple of days I’ve been stuck in my mind beating myself and just feeling sorry for myself when a lot of what I’m down about is controllable. Thank you for reminding me to be grateful and get unstuck.

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 Месяц назад +5

    You’re always so attractive and confident as well, Lena! ❤❤

    • @josie_nomnom
      @josie_nomnom Месяц назад +1

      @@marccolomayt82094 *sniff sniff* is that a blink i smell??
      (no hate lol im one too hehe*

  • @real_roses
    @real_roses 3 дня назад

    Thank you sm!!! 💗 Let's keep smiling ladies!

  • @nancypenaloza974
    @nancypenaloza974 Месяц назад +12

    Lena Literally This Video Is One Of My Top 5 Best Videos You Have Upload Since I Subscribed To Your Channel Around 2 Years And Half Ago Maybe 3 Years Ago! Have A Wonderful Week Girl!! ✨✨💪💪✨✨ By The Way You Go Girl!!

  • @Blissy7777
    @Blissy7777 3 дня назад +1

    Found another good youtuber.
    So happy.😄
    Subscribed♥

  • @Renaluv09
    @Renaluv09 Месяц назад +4

    I was waiting for a video like this, I’m grateful that you made it

  • @Izz_8809
    @Izz_8809 Месяц назад +1

    10:37 - so true ❤ that's how I end my relationship with my ex. He only talks with no actions and I said to myself "babe, you need to cut him off NOW, he's been doing it repeatedly like there's no improvement or actions" So, I cut him off after that I felt good and I felt more productive than ever ❤ I can do all my hobbies, not on my phone for half of the day, already exit my slum girl era ❤🎉

  • @sannevos5056
    @sannevos5056 Месяц назад +1

    I love you girl!! Thank you for this video, I'm feeling so low and ugly lately, I needed this❤❤

  • @mel0wdice
    @mel0wdice Месяц назад +3

    we want a podcast!

  • @chvp4605
    @chvp4605 Месяц назад

    finally actually good advice, most of these I learned while growing up too and they have truly meant the world to me ever since that day. i wish everyone the best in their journey🦋🦋

  • @seokdy2434
    @seokdy2434 28 дней назад

    I usually don’t resonate with these types of tips but the way you word it and express yourself is so good !!

  • @lgrcb555
    @lgrcb555 Месяц назад

    This video just popped up in my RUclips feed , and what a blessing. Yesterday, I had one of these rut day. I was crying for personal reasons , it has been a while since I didn't felt has reconnected from the path and the faith that I am into since few months now. I am on my wellness, new me era, I treat myself as my higher self daily and your content just confirmed that your are the type of person that inspire me everyday. I've just spent 4 HOURS cleaning my place after watching this video, I was looking at your videos while doing the deep deep cleaning ( eventhow it is always clean bc you know, a clean space is a clean mind) , I declutter, I Feng shui my place again to boost the energies, this morning I already went to the gym already bc it's really hot in Paris now, but I was on my way and I just finished 40min pilates sessions, my cold bath Is waiting for me now and you know that it is going to be THE shower. Thank you for your light, your beautiful energy, can't wait to continue to follow your content, and buy your journal btw. If one day you are in Paris, let me know if you want a city tour I will be delighted to connect, sending you a lot of love from Paris 💜 @lenalifts

    • @lenalifts
      @lenalifts  Месяц назад +1

      I AM SO PROUD OF YOU.

    • @lgrcb555
      @lgrcb555 Месяц назад

      @@lenalifts Thanks for all🧚🏻‍♂️🙏🏻🦋

  • @juna.miedema
    @juna.miedema Месяц назад +2

    She is going strong with the content!! I love the videos 😍❤️.

  • @eat.sleep.study.cry.repeat2461
    @eat.sleep.study.cry.repeat2461 5 дней назад +1

    This is so helpful ❤ i really needed this 😊

  • @jxckalito
    @jxckalito 27 дней назад

    honestly you are truly That Girl

  • @rishikarawat8936
    @rishikarawat8936 15 дней назад

    One of the best videos I ever came across.. U literally covered all areas at once and talked to the point.. U go girl ❤❤

  • @Unknownpersonnx
    @Unknownpersonnx 15 дней назад

    Hey Lena you have helped me so much as a 13 year old. I recently started working out because of you which is something I have been so scared to do. I’m not doing a ton other than running and going on walks and stretching but without you I wouldn’t be doing any of that. I love listening to your videos while I run and they make running so much better. Thank you so much Lena ❤

  • @adventuresusva
    @adventuresusva День назад

    such a good video !! really good advice, you're inspiring many people. keep shining

  • @user-nm6dr4uy3d
    @user-nm6dr4uy3d 8 дней назад

    These tips are gold ✨. You know, in hindsight, I'm so happy I didn't get the guys and jobs I wanted in the past. Thank God!! They would have made me so miserable in the end.

  • @Alfnet26
    @Alfnet26 Месяц назад +3

    yay i started following ur tips last year and everything is working thanksss lenaa

  • @diaryofasurfingmama
    @diaryofasurfingmama 6 дней назад

    This is EXACTLY what I needed! I just need to watch this everyday because girl you are hyping me up! 🌺👏🏻🙌

  • @melissacatolos9771
    @melissacatolos9771 Месяц назад

    For the girlies and the guys please watch this!! Everything Lena said in the video is so true! I used to lack self confidence and I used to be insecure. But after a lot of personal growing I am far from that! If I can do you, you guys can too!

  • @sylviagomez6043
    @sylviagomez6043 Месяц назад

    I wish I had these videos 10 years ago when I hardcore suffered from being insecure. I love these positive “keep it real” videos. Keep up the great work queen !!

  • @honeybunnybunny1958
    @honeybunnybunny1958 Месяц назад +2

    Omg 12:00 I have a female co worker like this! She literally will screenshot someone’s mistakes (work mistakes) and put them in a group chat and talk down on it EVERY WEEK

  • @banenze01
    @banenze01 Месяц назад

    Lena. I'm sorry girly pop but like. I have been BINGING your videos. I had been looking at morning routines the other day and found your channel and I ended up finding myself back to your channel every single day since. I'm getting married in a week and had been wanting to find some motivation to make some healthier life choices and GIRL. You are her. You have been my motivation to just keep going. To keep pushing myself. Like actually please keep being so inspiring people. You genuinely help change lives.

  • @makayla_ruth
    @makayla_ruth Месяц назад +3

    QUEEN POSTED 🎉❤👑

  • @mikhaaaela
    @mikhaaaela Месяц назад

    these lessons are going straight to my day by day journal 📝 every time I'm feeling down and my negative thoughts get to me, this is THEE youtube video I can come back to. thanks, queen 🤭🫶🏼

  • @aidasall4815
    @aidasall4815 Месяц назад +1

    Lenaaaa !!! Idk if you remember me, but I’ve literally watched you since 2020 & I’m so proud of how far you come - keep killing it! Also, I love this video! ❤

  • @irenepasqualotto9574
    @irenepasqualotto9574 13 дней назад

    Everything is so true. You look so confident and you attract me, I genuinely want to be your friend because of the way you speak. You're doing a great job❤️

  • @tt1367
    @tt1367 3 дня назад

    Loving God and trusting Him was what helped me gain so much confidence and live my best life. I hope as a fellow Christian with lots of influence, you can help turn people's heads towards Him 💕

  • @juligamineofficial734
    @juligamineofficial734 Месяц назад

    The setback point came at the exact right time , after this video am the happiest girl alive now sending you love from Kenya

  • @yasminakbari346
    @yasminakbari346 Месяц назад +1

    Lena this was great! I'm a 36 year old lady and I wish I knew all these things when I was your age ❤

  • @spikybinonnoda4564
    @spikybinonnoda4564 Месяц назад

    I needed that truth about the friend's group and if I was not with them I'd be a loser. it's so hard to let it go, even though I know it isn't good for me. I guess just being on my own is something I will have to get used to. lowkey I needed this Lena. Thank you and stay blessed

  • @airl7788
    @airl7788 28 дней назад

    You won’t believe how much I needed this, especially with all that I am trying to heal from at the moment! Thank you! You gained yourself a new subbie! Blessings to you!🥰✨🥹

  • @Beautyinthedarkk
    @Beautyinthedarkk 15 дней назад +1

    I wanted to share this crazy hostel story of mine when I was a school girl. There was no name called confidence and self love in my life. I would prioritise others first. Like even if they did mistake, I would first check on myself whether I first made a mistake and made them do??... And offcourse, the way I value them, made them simply blurt words of appreciation on my face. Like they were always "you are a nice person, how did u do that. I wish I could ☺️"... But deep down I never felt the radiation of true appreciation from them. And yeah i always felt like I was not nice, I'm just a doormat. Cuz when it comes to "value ", no one would value me. One day, one of my friend took my guide book of math two days before an exam. And I told her to return it a day before exam so that I can revise. But she misplaced the book and didn't care about it. I went to her and saw her face was so in tension. I thought it was because she misplaced it but no. It was not because of that. It was because she had misplaced a notebook of one of her friend. She was like , "what will I say to her, she would be angry and upset with me"... I was so surprised. I'm right infront of her and asking for my guidebook and she was worrying about her other friend. When I ask her where is my guidebook, why did u misplaced it. How will I give test now?. She shouted on my saying, oh why are u blabbering. I'm here so much in tense and u are asking about your guidebook. May be it's somewhere here.
    I don't know y I felt so emotional and heartbroken that time that I started to burst into tears. I cried like a child automatically. And when they ask why I'm crying, I couldn't even speak. Lmao.

    • @7172xyz
      @7172xyz 2 дня назад

      I feel you girl. But trust me there’s so much more I have faced and seen while growing up. The simple answer to why your friends did you that is you were always too good to them. And that’s what I had done in my past too. When you do people too much out of your way every time, they don’t even count your kindness nor appreciate it. So after watching this video, I’m going to stop doing that to anyone in my life no matter it is my family or my most dearest friends because too much love and affection kills us mentally at the end. That’s what I have been through all my life and this video made me realize that. 😊

    • @Beautyinthedarkk
      @Beautyinthedarkk 2 дня назад

      @@7172xyz you are so right. My entire childhood and teenage has gone wrong because of my too much kindness. I wish I knew it before how to balance between kindness to others and self Worthing at a time. But I'm glad now that I have realised it and now I can prioritise my life in accordance. 😊🌱✨.... Glad u have realised it too🩷🩷

  • @mayssa.d
    @mayssa.d Месяц назад +1

    Since I started watching your videos I have so much more confidence and my life is so much better since I followed your advice. thank you so much, love you 💕

  • @haydenrec
    @haydenrec Месяц назад +1

    could you go more into depth with finding happiness within yourself rather than externally? love you lena

  • @fd9891
    @fd9891 2 дня назад

    You just popped on my page and this is my first video. Love your vibe! Subscribed! ❤

  • @sincerelyASL
    @sincerelyASL 24 дня назад +1

    %100 invest in self.
    Date yourself, Yass! ❤
    I struggle with confidence. Bur, this is very good advice

  • @SunsetFlare
    @SunsetFlare 14 дней назад

    All great advice!! And all things I equally advocate for myself and my friends, especially my younger friends. It's hard because these are all traits and habits that can only come with time and experience, but confidence is truly achievable by anyone ❤️

  • @yingyang7762
    @yingyang7762 Месяц назад

    The first sentence just made me think: girl how...the Timing ? The qoute?
    Lena is the best

  • @Jackieonline
    @Jackieonline 7 дней назад

    Facts. Loving this motivation you're giving.

  • @mikaylareina3988
    @mikaylareina3988 12 дней назад

    I watch a lot of RUclips and I have to say, this is one of my favorite videos I’ve seen in a while! You are beautiful and you have such a good energy