Thank you so much Ross for this guest. I will be purchasing Richard's book. I have lost 5 people significant in my life less than 2 years ago, both of my parents, most recently my mother in September of 2023 (who I was a dementia caregiver to for the last year of her life). layering all of that grief was narcissistic abuse and a very dismissive therapist. Listening to you and Richard really touched me. The one thing I did learn from this Therapist is to never dismiss another person's grief or trauma experience,
What a wonderful speaker, I lost Mum a few months ago and I can really resonate with him, he’s fantastic! Your content Ross as always is first class. Thank you!
Ross, I am looking for a psychotherapist or psychiatrist who understands narcissistic abuse and who can do a psychological evaluation. I have been gaslighted into believing all sorts of things about myself that are not true and I am finally having a breakthrough and getting on the other side to heal and grow. Isolation, grief and loss. But getting stronger.
Lucy all the very best with your journey, nothing is more important than doing the work to really see what has been happening. You cannot wrestle with a pig, that’s Ross’s advice in his teachings, he’s fantastic and will help you. I have listened to all his work and read both copies of his best selling book and it gave me my life back after choosing a Narcissistic Husband, then boyfriends etc…. Good on you trust yourself and know it’s worth the journey back to self love. 💜
the application of Kinzuki as a metaphor for Trauma resonates with me. Currently at the stage between broken and new-whole. Edit: Watched the video till the end and strongly feel I need this book even if the reading will hurt immensely.
My sister murdered our dad in 2000. I had to notify the other 2 siblings after I was done talking to homicide detectives for 3 hours. I really thought I was done grieving until it dawned on me that I've cried exactly ONCE in all these years. I think I'm all messed up inside. I lost TWO people I loved that day. My dad AND my big sister. Sigh. Christi Edit. I got addicted to opiates in 2004. Used til 2018. I'm 5 years clean
A journey is practice, like medical practice toward perfection.. Is ongoing and I ponder do we ever arrive at perfect ? Nice work on hard topic Gentlemen.. thank you..
I used to have respect for you I guess I still have a certain amount of respect for you, but the rest of the potential for respect is gone. I wounded relationships with all the professionals that’s a problem, the experts can never admit when they are wrong, have a great tendency for not learning from their own mistakes
Due to my experiences under the mental health, Care providers for the last four decades I can’t even recommend anybody that’s feel sad to go to any mental health professionals
Still leaving students violated by sexual predators , 1st & 2nd time offenders teaching in the classroom out, while the federal state, local K 12 district pediatricians doctors and mental health care providers normalize the schools are safe with sexual predator educators, and minor students. Forcing minor students to Harbor USA K12 government medical and state rape culture secrets. That reflects very poorly on the medical profession not only Now, but for last 30 years & decades before. The mental health profession annihilated & annihilates the profession own credibility across the Medical and School Boards
Thank you so much Ross for this guest. I will be purchasing Richard's book. I have lost 5 people significant in my life less than 2 years ago, both of my parents, most recently my mother in September of 2023 (who I was a dementia caregiver to for the last year of her life). layering all of that grief was narcissistic abuse and a very dismissive therapist. Listening to you and Richard really touched me. The one thing I did learn from this Therapist is to never dismiss another person's grief or trauma experience,
Thank you for all you’re doing to help abuse survivors become lifetime thrivers.
What a wonderful speaker, I lost Mum a few months ago and I can really resonate with him, he’s fantastic! Your content Ross as always is first class. Thank you!
Studying to become a therapist and working at hospice next year. This book sounds great. Just ordered it to read this summer.
Ross, I am looking for a psychotherapist or psychiatrist who understands narcissistic abuse and who can do a psychological evaluation. I have been gaslighted into believing all sorts of things about myself that are not true and I am finally having a breakthrough and getting on the other side to heal and grow. Isolation, grief and loss. But getting stronger.
Lucy all the very best with your journey, nothing is more important than doing the work to really see what has been happening. You cannot wrestle with a pig, that’s Ross’s advice in his teachings, he’s fantastic and will help you. I have listened to all his work and read both copies of his best selling book and it gave me my life back after choosing a Narcissistic Husband, then boyfriends etc…. Good on you trust yourself and know it’s worth the journey back to self love. 💜
the application of Kinzuki as a metaphor for Trauma resonates with me. Currently at the stage between broken and new-whole. Edit: Watched the video till the end and strongly feel I need this book even if the reading will hurt immensely.
My sister murdered our dad in 2000.
I had to notify the other 2 siblings after I was done talking to homicide detectives for 3 hours.
I really thought I was done grieving until it dawned on me that I've cried exactly ONCE in all these years.
I think I'm all messed up inside.
I lost TWO people I loved that day. My dad AND my big sister.
Sigh.
Christi
Edit.
I got addicted to opiates in 2004.
Used til 2018.
I'm 5 years clean
Love the metaphor of the mended bowl.❤
A journey is practice, like medical practice toward perfection..
Is ongoing and I ponder do we ever arrive at perfect ?
Nice work on hard topic Gentlemen.. thank you..
Im on the path of grief and loss albeit no tenderness. I need to read ypur book
🙏
👍
I used to have respect for you I guess I still have a certain amount of respect for you, but the rest of the potential for respect is gone. I wounded relationships with all the professionals that’s a problem, the experts can never admit when they are wrong, have a great tendency for not learning from their own mistakes
Every mental health professional I’ve worked with for the past four decades can’t even talk about what I can. How are they going to help?
Due to my experiences under the mental health, Care providers for the last four decades I can’t even recommend anybody that’s feel sad to go to any mental health professionals
As a matter fact, I go out publicly nearly daily to tell stakeholders to not go to mental health providers, who only address half of the deadly risks.
Still leaving students violated by sexual predators , 1st & 2nd time offenders teaching in the classroom out, while the federal state, local K 12 district pediatricians doctors and mental health care providers normalize the schools are safe with sexual predator educators, and minor students. Forcing minor students to Harbor USA K12 government medical and state rape culture secrets. That reflects very poorly on the medical profession not only Now, but for last 30 years & decades before. The mental health profession annihilated & annihilates the profession own credibility across the Medical and School Boards
I used to listen to you for what you said. Now I listen to hear what you’re not saying