7 Psychologically-Backed Signs To Ask Someone Out

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2022
  • Are you considering asking someone out, but you're not sure if it's a good idea? Well, here are some psychologically-backed signs to ask someone out. Feeling nervous? Check. Worried about how they'll react? Check. Doubtful about your skills as an asker? Double check! In this video, we're going to share seven signs that say it's time to ask someone out. After watching this, you'll be ready to go for it!
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    Writer: Michal Mitchell
    Script Editor: Brie Villanueva
    Script manager: Kelly Soong
    Voice Over: Amanda Silvera @amandasilvera
    Animator: Ayacchi @ayacchi
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    Sources:
    Locke, B. (2022, January 5). Should I ask her out? 30 signs she's waiting for you to make a move. LovePanky. Retrieved from www.lovepanky.com/men/dating-women-tips-for-men/should-i-ask-her-out
    Team LovePanky. (2014, August 27). 12 obvious signs she wants you to ask her out. LovePanky. Retrieved from www.lovepanky.com/men/dating-women-tips-for-men/obvious-signs-she-wants-you-to-ask-her-out
    Theodore. (2020, April 8). The basics of asking a girl out. Practical Psychology. Retrieved from practicalpie.com/the-basics-of-asking-a-girl-out/
    Brown, A. (2020, September 18). How to know if you like someone: Ask yourself these 5 questions.

Комментарии • 684

  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Год назад +334

    After watching this video, did you confess to your crush?

    • @BluSeventyTwo
      @BluSeventyTwo Год назад +58

      doesn’t matter because there’s no way I’m doing that again lmao

    • @AllieAnn02
      @AllieAnn02 Год назад +27

      @@BluSeventyTwo same, it backfired on me

    • @BlobFishSucksAtThings
      @BlobFishSucksAtThings Год назад +15

      No

    • @lieaparisss08
      @lieaparisss08 Год назад +19

      Hes tooo good for me😭

    • @garrisondodd9253
      @garrisondodd9253 Год назад +21

      What's the point? She doesn't feel the same way about me 😔😔

  • @AGayMess
    @AGayMess Год назад +956

    "What are you waiting for!?"
    Well you see. I have this thing called anxiety and fear of rejection 😀
    Update: I asked them out and they said yes

    • @jorged.8502
      @jorged.8502 Год назад +99

      Ah I see your a man of anxiety as well

    • @Mangle_the_Pirate
      @Mangle_the_Pirate Год назад +21

      Same.. 😅

    • @AGayMess
      @AGayMess Год назад +13

      @@jorged.8502 Indeed

    • @genevievehansen211
      @genevievehansen211 Год назад +44

      Well, i can't speak for anxiety, but as far as fear of rejection goes, if your crush reallt values you and wants to be friends but doesn't think of you as anything more, it's still so much better to know than to not know, and it also gives your feelings room to grow or slowly fade. Nothing can grow if it isn't nourished. It's gonna be okay😊

    • @birchtree5884
      @birchtree5884 Год назад +28

      I've heard it said that confidence is like a muscle. You can exercise and make it stronger. Muscles grow by repairing microtears formed when working out. Confidence grows from getting rejected a lot and moving on.

  • @shoelace7676
    @shoelace7676 Год назад +750

    0:14 They look at you often
    1:11 They smile and blush but only at you
    1:47 Their friends know alot about you
    2:12 You can't stop thinking about them
    3:10 Flirtation
    3:35 They Remember
    4:12 Proximity and Comfortability
    You can do this!✨

    • @ashbulmer8797
      @ashbulmer8797 Год назад +13

      I really can't 🤦‍♀️😖

    • @studiooftheoldwind137
      @studiooftheoldwind137 Год назад +20

      I have a crush, but I'd rather work on growing my business

    • @dothogs28
      @dothogs28 Год назад +8

      @@studiooftheoldwind137 i respect that

    • @orangToast
      @orangToast Год назад +4

      u forgot some
      1:47 Their friends know a lot about you
      3:10 Flirtation

    • @memor22
      @memor22 Год назад +2

      They remember is so sweet! Im melting

  • @DeRez19
    @DeRez19 Год назад +271

    Honestly, I'm glad I don't have a crush at the moment. It was interesting when I had one, but I have so much nonsense to clear up in my own life. I feel better knowing that I don't need anyone else to make me happy.

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 Год назад +10

      I really wish I could relate. I've been going from crush to crush for almost as long as I can remember.

    • @loonasthirddisciple9299
      @loonasthirddisciple9299 Год назад +3

      same i’ve gone years without a crush it feels so freeing, especially with how hectic my life already is. i remember craving the feeling of having a crush on someone during that time period and now that i have a crush again my life is spiraling completely out of control

    • @sniper8717
      @sniper8717 Год назад +2

      I remember when I didn't have a crush it felt so good now I do I hate it is that weird?

    • @DEMiURGE455
      @DEMiURGE455 8 месяцев назад +1

      That is a lie and you know it. You need relationships for your mental health. If you went to an island away from humanity you would go insane.

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 8 месяцев назад

      @@DEMiURGE455 Better than going insane from trying to date a modern woman. I've tried sevral times. It hurt too much. Women do not care about men anymore.

  • @cute_marshm3llow950
    @cute_marshm3llow950 Год назад +163

    This channel makes love seem like a beautiful and innocent thing. We exist for love and care. ❤️

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +24

      Aww. That's so sweet. Love your username.

    • @cute_marshm3llow950
      @cute_marshm3llow950 Год назад +6

      @@Psych2go Thank you! 💖

    • @saulbueno5640
      @saulbueno5640 Год назад +8

      Trust is the absolute foundation when it comes to loving someone. You don't want to fall in love with someone who isn't able to hold up their end.

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n Год назад +134

    Timestamps
    1). They look at you often 0:13
    2). They smile and blush but only at you 1:10
    3). Their friends know a lot about you 1:47
    4). You can't stop thinking about them 2:11
    5). Flirtation 3:10
    6). They remember 3:34
    7). Proximity and comfortability 4:11
    Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙

  • @peachy.x7510
    @peachy.x7510 Год назад +357

    My crush shows all these signs, but when I asked them out last week, they rejected me 🙁

    • @lucakiami8988
      @lucakiami8988 Год назад +144

      That's the danger of looking into signs. There's only one true way to find out if your crush likes you back... by asking them out. Signs simply do not matter, anything goes with relationships.

    • @josecorchete3732
      @josecorchete3732 Год назад +19

      @@lucakiami8988 Unrelated: "Anything Goes" is also a great music sketch in "Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom". Always great to rewatch. IIRC the actress also married the director, so given this video, that is a plus :)

    • @dhanushraju8528
      @dhanushraju8528 Год назад +20

      maybe it was not right time or she had personal issue or somthing , try understanding more and after checking circumstances and analysis it
      after that ask him or her only out
      not "them"

    • @kittenmimi5326
      @kittenmimi5326 Год назад +35

      ....or they didn't actually show all these signs and you deceived yourself into thinking that they show those signs in your head because you like them so much?
      At least now you know and don't end up wondering about it all your life
      Asking people out is good just so people know what's actually going on

    • @kittenmimi5326
      @kittenmimi5326 Год назад +30

      @@dhanushraju8528 a no is a no, please stop the false hope and continuing to chase someone after a "no" is stalker behavior

  • @bugbug00
    @bugbug00 Год назад +354

    I actually confessed to my crush earlier today! to be fair I didn't exactly say it was me (it was a little note with candy), but I did draw a little planet as a hint, so hopefully he gets it lol
    Also he shows a LOT of these signs, so I think i have good chances :]
    UPDATE, he infact did not get the hint, but my friend ended up convincing me to straight up tell him.
    Long story short, I now have a date to the next dance (and also one next week) :)))

  • @CuddleFish124
    @CuddleFish124 Год назад +110

    Lol I KNOW I’m gonna get shot down by my crush, like, 1000% sure. But I’m still gonna do it. Because it’s the first time I’ve had a crush in over 15 years and not saying something is driving me crazy. I don’t expect jacksh*t from my confession, but they are by far the most interesting person I’ve come across in my entire life, and I respect them enough to be honest with them, and let them make their own informed decisions, because I feel it isn’t fair to them for me to say nothing. Will I ruin a good friendship? Possibility. But I feel like honesty is the way to go with this person. Hopefully they will still let me be a part of their life, even with this new info. But if they don’t, I will respect any and all decisions they make, and at least be thankful for the time I was friends with someone so cool.
    I don’t care if I get friendzoned. I am 💯 ok with that. I just hope to continue to be a part of their life.

    • @genevievehansen211
      @genevievehansen211 Год назад +28

      Dude this is the best comment. I LOVE everything you've said here. And hey! My mom was in the same situation where she knew nothing would come of it, and she was pleasantly surprised, so maybe it'll happen for you too!

    • @olisa_hehe
      @olisa_hehe Год назад +16

      First of all, good luck! You seem like an awesome person, your crush is definitely lucky to have your in their life. And secondly, thanks. I don't want to make it about me, but you have me hope. I've neder had a crush in my life and I'm 16, so hearing that you didn't have a crush for the past 15 years makes me feel that that's ok and that I'm not alone

    • @kathrynholland4474
      @kathrynholland4474 Год назад +5

      Goodluck hope it goes good and you guys still be friends if it does not work out

    • @sisisisi9416
      @sisisisi9416 Год назад +4

      WHAT HAPPENED?

    • @ravenx0x033
      @ravenx0x033 Год назад +3

      I hope it goes well for you

  • @Amuckli
    @Amuckli Год назад +161

    😂 speaking of this video i did this today! It was a no but gladly were still friends. Thank yall so much for making this kind of content, you’ve rlly helped me alot with anxiety much love keep up the work!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +30

      No worries! Glad that you guys get to still be friends!

    • @DeRez19
      @DeRez19 Год назад +7

      You're blessed your crush still wants to be your friend. None of my crushes wanted to be my friend in the end (besides this one girl but she got a boyfriend so we barely talk now).

    • @christinashuker6202
      @christinashuker6202 Год назад +1

      Hmm.. good luck for your next crush!

  • @SasisaPlays
    @SasisaPlays Год назад +42

    It's always nice to snap back to reality, realising, that nobody liked you ever, and probably won't

    • @JohnSmith-fo5cx
      @JohnSmith-fo5cx Год назад +11

      I highly doubt it mate.....I used to think the same thing, but was surprised after i become more observant of how people react around me. Of course it wont be everyone, but next time you meet someone you like try and maintain eye contact and see if it is reciprocated longer than normal.

    • @christinashuker6202
      @christinashuker6202 Год назад +2

      I relate to this.

    • @user-rn4py1qp1s
      @user-rn4py1qp1s Год назад +1

      there's a small feeling of stability in it. i relate.

    • @blankslate8002
      @blankslate8002 5 месяцев назад

      That's not reality bro

  • @neofulcrum5013
    @neofulcrum5013 Год назад +152

    Me: hey, I know this is strange but I was curious if you’d like to hang out sometime. Just you and me?
    Crush: sure! Where do you wanna hang out?
    Me: *I didn’t think I get this far*

  • @angeloaquino6766
    @angeloaquino6766 Год назад +24

    Confessed to my best friend a few days ago that I liked her. We’ve been close for a over a year, but I told her that I’ve recently started to look at her as a potential love interest. She asked me to promise we’d stay friends no matter what, and we reassured each other, while I added that I knew we both were busy and I’m not looking for anything serious or intensive.
    She said she’ll think about it, and that she’ll tell me when she’ll give her answer.
    Hoping it’s a yes! If it’s not, welp.

    • @Iveraxi
      @Iveraxi Год назад +1

      Did she answer yet or nah?

    • @angeloaquino6766
      @angeloaquino6766 Год назад +3

      @@Iveraxi “I can’t date you ___, since I’ve only ever seen you as a friend.”
      Just like two weeks ago, but she did tell me that she thought about it and reconsidered. I’m still slightly confused but I’m doing my best to move past it.

    • @DemiFiend-nu2ho
      @DemiFiend-nu2ho 8 часов назад

      ​@@angeloaquino6766 how are you doing now?

  • @SB-dx7kb
    @SB-dx7kb Год назад +3

    I love this lady's soft and gentle voice.

  • @jalencurtis7222
    @jalencurtis7222 Год назад +20

    This came just as I was thinking about somebody. What timing.

  • @antti-karhu
    @antti-karhu Год назад +17

    I've been watching these videos for the past couple of days and I'm becoming more and more certain about two things:
    1) I'm crushing on my friend like an ice breaker.
    2) She does not have feelings for me.
    I'm not sure which one is tearing me apart more, keeping quiet about it to not ruin a great friendship, or the growing realisation there is no hope for anything more. 😣

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 Год назад

      Honestly I'm still recovering from confessing to my bestfriend 2 years ago, but my advice would be to move on whatever it takes, and that you're responsible for your own happiness, even if it means confessing to her because you want things between the two of you to be clear and that you're eventually the one who needs some distance from her.

  • @PetoGasparr
    @PetoGasparr Год назад +17

    I asked her out... she said no... 6 months ago, but she still looks at me and reacts to it; yesterday, I sent her a message, and she simply wished me a Merry Christmas. And thats all, no response. :D pff :D

  • @ajpiper2791
    @ajpiper2791 Год назад +15

    Tysm for all the videos they all help me alot with socializing and being able to read people... Great channel

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад

      Glad that they can provide value!

  • @thesilliestrat
    @thesilliestrat Год назад +4

    EVERY SINGLE TIME I see some kinda tutorial on how to make a cute gift box or a cute card or something I THINK OF THEM. I barely know them. HELP.

  • @Jinxedagain65123
    @Jinxedagain65123 Год назад +19

    Love the vids! As always! I always watch your videos and can relate to a lot of them

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +4

      Thank you! Are there other vids that you would like us to publish?

    • @Jinxedagain65123
      @Jinxedagain65123 Год назад +1

      @Psych2Go hmmm, maybe one on the 4 stages of grief? I think it would be a really good vid

  • @kyleslavik6324
    @kyleslavik6324 Год назад +1

    Thank you this was very encouraging.

  • @shishi4349
    @shishi4349 Год назад +4

    this just encouraged me so i'm gonna do it when I see him next week :) thank u for this. the timing couldn't have been any better

  • @MrIcenice44
    @MrIcenice44 Год назад +3

    I have trauma from past relationships, so I’m learning that somebody liking me is the way it should work. I’ve had to relearn the signs that I should pursue because as a guy I’d shut those off after bad experiences with previous women.
    There’s a girl who I noticed looking at me and I noticed myself looking at them. I was happy that I was still attractive, but I was also sad and scared that I was attracted to them, even tho I’ve been working on myself to be in this situation.
    I asked her, but she’s a very busy person so she said yes but had to reschedule. The patience it’s taking to pursue is a toll on my anxiety, but I trust myself; I’ve worked really hard on this skill. I deserve to use what I’ve worked on

  • @faszrynef.3606
    @faszrynef.3606 Год назад +1

    But seriously the animation is adorable! 😍😍😍

  • @quark_squark
    @quark_squark Год назад +9

    I feel like I will watch stuff like this and subconsciously start doing the opposite of all these things to ensure the other person never finds out I like them…

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +3

      Sounds like you are not ready to be in a relationship!

    • @quark_squark
      @quark_squark Год назад

      @@Psych2go I’m not but I’m also in my late 20s soooo

  • @Angelssschanel
    @Angelssschanel Год назад +1

    Hii ty for advice love ur content keep it up ❤

  • @miguelyarturo
    @miguelyarturo Год назад +2

    30 year old here, I've never been in a relationship, last year it was the first time in life I got to ask out my crush, I couldnt do it in person but it was through message and she accepted! We had a date and even tho there was no chemistry it felt great to do it!
    Before I wasnt sure she would accept my invitation and thought she was just being nice, so I recommend to do it, who knows maybe you both will click!
    Right now I have a new crush and I'm on the same page but I'm eager to ask her out, and this time would like to do it in person, so far circumstances has made it unavailable to see eachother but starting next month I'll have the chance.
    Best wishes and hope you find love!

  • @PUREtrollin
    @PUREtrollin Год назад +3

    The feeling of hope in finding happiness in someone you like. It's very addictive like they say in the video, it's worse though because it rarely comes true. That fantasy cycle thinking of romance in the brain.

  • @ryuukokoro1095
    @ryuukokoro1095 Год назад +46

    I wonder if there's a psychological study on how to know if a friend online likes you back. A lot of the typical signs are physical so it'd be nice to know if there are different solely verbal signs

    • @coronelkittycannon
      @coronelkittycannon Год назад +9

      online it will be a coinflip. hang out with them and then you'll find out

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +7

      We do have a video on that actually. Did you find it? ruclips.net/video/MLRn7v2FQSc/видео.html&ab_channel=Psych2Go

    • @ryuukokoro1095
      @ryuukokoro1095 Год назад +1

      @@Psych2go Oh I didn't know that, thanks for the link!

  • @R3y_fr0g
    @R3y_fr0g Год назад +1

    FIRST! do you know how much your channel has helped me?! A LOT

  • @abdhassan1792
    @abdhassan1792 Год назад

    your videos are chanching my life to the better

  • @billy7741
    @billy7741 Год назад +49

    This came out in a good time. I’m going to meet my crush of 2 years after Christmas and I’m planning to confess. Although I think he might feel the same 👀

    • @horizontreasures7701
      @horizontreasures7701 Год назад +5

      Omg that’s amazing! I wish you the best of luck! I wish I had your confidence lol

    • @billy7741
      @billy7741 Год назад +4

      @@horizontreasures7701 oh well, who knows.. I might not be that confident when I’m actually there 😅 but thank you! I’ll try my best

    • @horizontreasures7701
      @horizontreasures7701 Год назад +3

      @@billy7741 ofc!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +8

      Good luck! Keep us posted!

    • @billy7741
      @billy7741 Год назад +5

      @@Psych2go He said he likes me too and would’ve been willing to give it a shot, but the distance is too much for him 😞

  • @literalammar9259
    @literalammar9259 Год назад +1

    Love today's lesson! Brought my drawing tablet. Ty

  • @kiramcclure4515
    @kiramcclure4515 Год назад +5

    “They look at you often” Me: Purposefully looks in the other direction cause I’m scared-

  • @Puffz.Editzz
    @Puffz.Editzz Год назад +1

    Ty for this vid this really helped me out

  • @AllisonSingleton
    @AllisonSingleton Год назад +26

    I’ve had a crush on someone for 10 years while only talking to them a few times… We’ve gone to the same schools since elementary but I’ve always been too shy. Advice would be appreciated!

    • @RelationshipNucleus
      @RelationshipNucleus Год назад +4

      10 years is a long time 😀

    • @AllisonSingleton
      @AllisonSingleton Год назад +2

      @@RelationshipNucleus You’re telling me! 😂

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 Год назад +2

      Talk to them, about literally anything, literally anytime you can get to do so. It will help if you can pretend that you haven't been noticing them for a straight 10 years though...... See if they would be interested in talking more some other time, and try suggesting some such other time for the two of you to talk more. I know you might be shy, but there's no going around talking to them! Be interested in what they have to say, and try getting to spend more time with them, preferably one on one.

    • @christinashuker6202
      @christinashuker6202 Год назад +1

      Take the opportunity. I was friends with a guy for nearly 3 years. I confessed to him to get closure. He rejected me but actually in a nice way. I ended our friendship after that but it's given me space to forgive him, get less obsessed and realise that our friendship was toxic but I didn't miss any opportunities.

    • @AllisonSingleton
      @AllisonSingleton Год назад

      I appreciate both of your advice, however, I don’t think it works in this situation.
      I go to a big school so I only ever see him passing in the halls (which is rare). I also haven’t had any classes with him in a few years but when I did, we didn’t talk. We’re pretty much strangers to each other; I know little about him but would like to know more.
      All of this to say, I’m pretty much looking for a way to start talking.

  • @minermole101
    @minermole101 Год назад +37

    Will I truly ever meet the one?
    Also:
    UwU outro dance UwU

  • @Yashuop
    @Yashuop Год назад +25

    Claim your “here within an hour” ticket right here🏆

  • @juliepagala975
    @juliepagala975 Год назад +4

    The animation is so cute 😍

  • @valentynar1143
    @valentynar1143 Год назад +13

    Crazy how i have actually been planning to approach my crush lately lmaooo so thank you, but next year i guess

  • @TugiDeg
    @TugiDeg Год назад +2

    4:22 "...or to perhaps, take them out." Never knew people who like you actually actively attempted to kill you. Does that mean John Wick loves everyone?

  • @notyetfound_exe3420
    @notyetfound_exe3420 Год назад +3

    I seriously want to, but my friend likes him.

    • @ratkinglmao
      @ratkinglmao 4 месяца назад

      Yeah me too man 😢😢

  • @vexar7575
    @vexar7575 Год назад +1

    To be honest, never change VO. She's perfect.

  • @circus9556
    @circus9556 Год назад +6

    Oh man, confessing to your crush can be really nerve wrecking, especially when you are not sure how they feel about you, but I'm glad I did, twice actually hahaha know why? because I got a best friend out of it and not only that, but I can call that bestfriend my girlfriend as well. About to be 6 months in and we love every passing moment when we are together. I actually ended up asking her one day, what if I never confessed that I liked you? Would you have told me you liked me? her answer? Nope, I would have died before telling you anything hahaha (we are both big introverts) so don't be afraid to take a risk, it may lead to something great down the line 😃

  • @Algreymitnoe
    @Algreymitnoe Год назад +25

    I wish i could ask my fictional crush out 🗿

    • @maem7462
      @maem7462 Год назад +2

      The struggles are real lol

    • @The_Primitive
      @The_Primitive Год назад +4

      maybe you should go touch some grass and realise that you can't have a relationship with something that does not exist

    • @pyrolord2k977
      @pyrolord2k977 Год назад +6

      @@The_Primitive dang 💀

    • @blackonefifty
      @blackonefifty Год назад +3

      @@The_Primitive so edgy you didn’t even notice the satire, astonishing

    • @thebutcherspecial
      @thebutcherspecial Год назад

      I too have a crush on my tulpa

  • @brolol529
    @brolol529 Год назад +1

    Alright. I haven't seen her for almost a year now because of military service. But I would think of her when I had free time sometimes, and I talked to her on Instagram a few weeks ago and she seemed interested in how I was. If this gets 10 likes until tomorrow, I'll ask her out for a date this weekend

  • @no1islistening2us
    @no1islistening2us Год назад +1

    Honestly this is very helpful! I want to try and talk to my crush after Christmas break and see if I notice any of these signs :) I'll update this comment if anything happens!

  • @sir_mine_
    @sir_mine_ Год назад +4

    Sadly, this is remembering me of the multiple times, that I had a crush and never asked them out. I had so many crushs on different girl and never told them and I hardly regret it. So, don't be like me and talk to the one who you have a crush on or you end up like me.

  • @andreag.7179
    @andreag.7179 Год назад

    Very sweet vid. 😋

  • @admirbarucija2018
    @admirbarucija2018 Год назад +4

    I haven’t asked someone out in almost 10 years. I don’t think I have it in me anymore to even try or think about it

  • @JackCry.420
    @JackCry.420 Год назад +8

    always uploading the right video on the right time don't you?

    • @DefinitelyNotAFerret
      @DefinitelyNotAFerret Год назад +1

      Can’t believe you still haven’t noticed they’re in your closet

    • @JackCry.420
      @JackCry.420 Год назад +1

      @@DefinitelyNotAFerret can't believe you haven't noticed I'm in your closet 👁️ 👄 👁️

    • @DefinitelyNotAFerret
      @DefinitelyNotAFerret Год назад

      @@JackCry.420 I like the company 👌🏼

  • @pjgames240
    @pjgames240 Год назад +1

    this channel has been very useful.
    I watch all the love videos to see if my crush likes me but sadly I think i'm over her.
    I would be happy to date her but like I said i'm over her and i'm a single man now.
    Thank you for your help.

  • @powerslave0606
    @powerslave0606 Год назад +10

    I barely had the opportunity to coincide with my crush at the same place in order to know her better and allow more trust from her to arise towards me. But in one occasion, I think we went beyond getting caught looking at each other (individually); somehow our minds got "coordinated" and both of us looked at each other at the same time. No blushing, just intense mutual staring (about 30s).

    • @alexandred.4248
      @alexandred.4248 Год назад +2

      Talk to them

    • @vonnyr1867
      @vonnyr1867 Год назад +2

      Are you going to ask her out or confess your feelings. I've had a similar experience. Update :, He just liked the attention so nothing to add here.. But he did show some signs

    • @powerslave0606
      @powerslave0606 Год назад +1

      @@vonnyr1867 I don't even have her number, nor any social media. We don't have any mutual friends either.

    • @vonnyr1867
      @vonnyr1867 Год назад +2

      @@powerslave0606 it's difficult isn't it. But don't give up try talk to her when you see her next.

  • @tadisstrange
    @tadisstrange Месяц назад +1

    Im confessing tomorrow.. I dont have much time left, and I’ve been waiting for so long. Wish me good luck.. ❤

  • @Zandezz.
    @Zandezz. Год назад +6

    Thank goodness the advice I give is actually based somewhere. I used to be a very active advisor on the r/crushes subreddit and the advise I gave was almost always just what I thought would be right but now at least I know its actually right lol

    • @Windermed
      @Windermed Год назад +1

      eyy i know that subreddit, i've been semi-active on there recently (totally not because i have a crush right now or anything haha) and the advice there's pretty good imo

  • @indridcold8433
    @indridcold8433 Год назад +1

    I will not be repeating past mistakes. There will never be another date for me again. I learn from my mistakes.

    • @RobloxianDoni
      @RobloxianDoni Год назад

      You just have meet toxic girlfriend before I guess and I guess that was just a crush, not love

  • @Wind_Cursed
    @Wind_Cursed Год назад +13

    Sorry, but there ain't no way I'm going to be able to ask ANYONE out 😅
    I second-guess and get worried about everything to the point that I won't even hang out with even just my friends unless they suggest it or they start hanging out with me. So asking a crush out? WAY too difficult for me. Even if I think "Will I regret asking them?" I still get too worried to make the first move
    The only people I do feel completely comfortable with making any sort of "first move" (even just hanging out or talking) is my current family. I am lucky to have such a great family, so I'll stick with them until anyone else starts making first moves

    • @genevievehansen211
      @genevievehansen211 Год назад +1

      Well, if you have someone in mind, hopefully you can show them these signs and they will make the first move :)

    • @Wind_Cursed
      @Wind_Cursed Год назад +1

      @@genevievehansen211 I don't have someone in mind, yet. I can't seem to find anyone who I actually seem to really like at the moment and it has been like that for about a year. I would consider that a good thing, though, because now I don't have to constantly worry about what the person I like might think. Nobody seems to like me right now, either. I also only really start to like someone when I have talked to them on at least a few occasions in real life face to face to the point they could be considered a friend. If I like their personality, then I like them. Since I haven't talked to anyone but my family, I don't exactly have a crush right now
      Even if I did, though, I try my hardest to avoid showing any and all signs that may hint that I like someone due to being too afraid they'll start being uncomfortable around me and start hating (unless I know FOR SURE the person in question likes me). To me, it's better to only be friends than to ever risk a rejection. So maybe it would be hard for whoever I like to make the first move, too. Oh well, guess I'll be single my whole life, that's fine with me (except the money and work situation...)
      I just wrote this comment and my first comment based on knowledge from previous experiences

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Год назад +2

      Practice makes perfect! Makes you stronger after getting rejected.

  • @XxILikePie03
    @XxILikePie03 Год назад +1

    Animation on point

  • @muppetfan77show26
    @muppetfan77show26 Год назад

    This helps me 😊

  • @TheAncientTale
    @TheAncientTale Год назад +3

    Last semester I had a table in math class with my crush, one other girl, and I all at it. The girl distanced herself from us so she could see the teacher’s board and so she could talk to other people, leaving me and my crush at the other side at the table in the corner of the room. It was one long semester, but that part went by too fast.

  • @starzintheskyz4477
    @starzintheskyz4477 Год назад +2

    I feel like this video only applies to people who are in high school or college.

  • @jasminvalerie
    @jasminvalerie Год назад +2

    It’s part of my New Years resolution to tell him. I’m just building up my courage 😅😬

  • @CamDaMonkey5734
    @CamDaMonkey5734 3 месяца назад +1

    I love my crush so much I can’t even stop my self from smiling I try to but my body makes me smile when I see her

  • @donatsukii
    @donatsukii Год назад +2

    I am good friends with my crush and she is well aware that I flirt with her from time to time.
    And recently during our christmas party she asked me to participate in one of the party games with her which is to dance and when the music stops we have to be standing inside the circle and the circle gets smaller as the game progresses so meaning I have to eventually carry her. However I was afraid because I don't know how to dance but as we watched the game start, I realized that none of the participants actually danced as I expected so I regret missing the opportunity of which I could've carried my crush in my arms.
    I'm never gonna let myself miss such an opportunity like that or any other good opportunities in life ever again.

  • @jurgenharaseb9196
    @jurgenharaseb9196 Год назад

    Great I think I'll give it a try

  • @kittenmimi5326
    @kittenmimi5326 Год назад

    Yo I'm digging this artstyle

  • @rebeccamace1534
    @rebeccamace1534 7 месяцев назад +1

    I’m scared to tell mine. But I think I’m going to have to tell him. It’s time. But I’m really scared

  • @Alastair-fu3nk
    @Alastair-fu3nk Год назад +1

    I zoned out part way through the video and started thinking about them- Now I have to rewatch this- Curse you person that I may or may not have a crush on for always being on my mind!😅😂

  • @akiraraiku
    @akiraraiku 4 месяца назад

    I keep watching those videos, they are helpful.
    The real problem i have is that i just don't dare to go ask a girl out xD
    There's also flirting, i have the feeling this is the kind of action that is hard to explain and can only be learned by doing it yourself.
    But this requires to talk to a girl you find attractive, scary !

  • @SoloMotivation
    @SoloMotivation Год назад +3

    To my lovely people all across the world, I LOVE YOU AND I WANT YOU TO KNOE THAT YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON

  • @quintevanveldhuizen7600
    @quintevanveldhuizen7600 8 месяцев назад

    I don't get butterflies, never got them. But with this one boy, i get full-body shivers (in a good way) everytime his name pops up in my head. I'm not good at knowing if i have a crush, but i think i do this time

  • @m60enjoyer70
    @m60enjoyer70 Год назад +2

    My crush is the first thought I have when I wake up and the last one before I go to sleep, and also in my dreams. It's nearly impossible to get it out of my mind lol.

  • @-zogekusari-3264
    @-zogekusari-3264 Год назад +8

    #3 (their friends know a lot about you) was really big for me
    So my best friend has a group of online friends, I've talked to them a couple times but haven't said anything about myself.
    The second time I met them, someone joined that I hadn't met yet and said "ohh is this the person?" Then my friends told them to hush.
    Then this last time I played with them one of them kept asking my friend "Can I tell Z??" (Z or Zoge being my online name) my friend and her other friends kept telling them not to.
    have no idea what that's about but oh well.

  • @axelwiden-thulin9423
    @axelwiden-thulin9423 Год назад +2

    Boys, im doing it on Valentine’s Day (February 14th). Wish me luck!

    • @uriel-ianosei3677
      @uriel-ianosei3677 Год назад

      Bruh, If I saw your comment earlier I would’ve answered. Well now I’m here how’d it go?

    • @axelwiden-thulin9423
      @axelwiden-thulin9423 Год назад

      @@uriel-ianosei3677 I think you can guess how it went. She friendzoned me.

    • @uriel-ianosei3677
      @uriel-ianosei3677 Год назад

      @@axelwiden-thulin9423 Im sorry it went like that for you. I believe one day you’ll find the right person

    • @axelwiden-thulin9423
      @axelwiden-thulin9423 Год назад

      @@uriel-ianosei3677 You don't have to feel sorry for me, but thanks. I guess i hope ill find the one someday. But it doesn't feel like that right now though.

  • @thecatsbackyard4833
    @thecatsbackyard4833 Год назад

    Cute artwork.

  • @RevokedAccount
    @RevokedAccount Год назад +2

    me and my crush: *wears a mask*

  • @wisvai279
    @wisvai279 Год назад +1

    Came here for reassurance,
    Stayed for reassurance,
    Never got assured bc only- like- half (or less, I wasn’t counting) of these apply to my crush

  • @manygh
    @manygh Год назад +3

    I really REALLY like this girl from my class and she is the first girl i actully love. I love her personality and not her body and i am thinking of asking her out in valentine's day. Wish me luck.

  • @libefiken1863
    @libefiken1863 Год назад

    I asked my crush out but she later canceled on me. After that her behavior was a complete 180 of what it was before. I'm hoping she is just really nervous and not genuinely disinterested now. In any case this video definitely helped identify some things I hadn't noticed in the past. Now I just need to figure out what to identify in the future. Wish me luck peeps!

  • @TriqxterRB
    @TriqxterRB Год назад +5

    One time when I was walking home from school I saw my crush standing on the other side of the sidewalk looking in my direction. She had previously showed some signs of being interested in me. So when I saw her looking in my direction my heart started to race and I was thinking "is this it is she gonna ask me out" but she just stood there looking very nervous and still looking in my direction, now I know what her intensions were. I think I'm ready to ask her out now. :)

  • @xZadkiel
    @xZadkiel Год назад +5

    This is by far the most perfect timing for you guys to upload a video. I just now wanted to tell my crush I like her, now I'll first watch the video.
    Wish me luck

  • @zugiii1086
    @zugiii1086 Год назад +1

    This video makes it seem so easy...

  • @abnormality3345
    @abnormality3345 Год назад +2

    I have a crush at my school. She’s quiet most of the time, and only talks to around two people; girls. Even then I find her just making small talk with them. But I’m the only boy or male she actually talks to. We have deep conversations, and she changes her voice and body language. We’ve had bunches of funny moments and interactions and meet-ups, and she rarely talks to me in a group; mainly only talks with me in a group when none of them care, or just when we’re, well, alone. She’s done irrational things with me that I had no idea why she did, and I never can find her more than 2 meters away from me. She always seems to be in my eyesight/proximity. I didn’t really care for her at first; but as more of those moments carried out and our interactions continued, I became infatuated with her, and just have a week or two before I’m ready to ask. And this really helps with that.
    Approved, Psych2Go.
    I kinda just wanted to vent about this cause it’s been laying on my mind for a while.

  • @torillama4275
    @torillama4275 Год назад +2

    “That secret being that their friend likes you” is so blunt it’s hilarious

  • @mr.cryptic9859
    @mr.cryptic9859 Год назад +8

    im getting this goofy stuff after chickening out of asking my crush out earlier today lol

  • @NemoIncognito
    @NemoIncognito Год назад

    Hoenstly, this just reinforces my feeling of not finding anyone.

  • @AzTro37
    @AzTro37 Год назад +1

    The animation in this video is so cutee

  • @Gl1CH_YT
    @Gl1CH_YT Год назад +3

    I’m in this situation where she’s sending me hints maybe but I don’t know if she’s just being nice or if she actually likes me.
    WHAT DO I DOOOO?!?!? (Plz help I don’t know how girls think)

  • @wayneheidlebaugh9915
    @wayneheidlebaugh9915 Год назад +1

    I had a crush on someone at different times but it only got as far as just being friends, nothing more.

  • @trifalgarh
    @trifalgarh Год назад +1

    "What are you waiting for!?"
    Bro, I am 5'1, I don't get to ask anyone out or it could be some other flaw within me that makes sure that no one ever likes me. Besides, I don't think there's a need to. I am living pretty comfortably. Life can't be perfect, if I am alone then let that be one imperfection in my life. Everything else is going pretty well for me.

  • @allylambert8470
    @allylambert8470 5 месяцев назад

    Even in the extremely rare occasion that I have a crush on someone I would NEVER EVER dare to try to ask them out. I’ve made that mistake before in my teens and I refuse to repeat that disaster. For me personally I see it as someone else’s job to ask me, never ask someone myself.

  • @whatheheck129
    @whatheheck129 Год назад +3

    Thank you for confirming that nobody has a crush on me

  • @fpslover2468
    @fpslover2468 Год назад +3

    I asked out a girl I've been friends with for a few weeks at work and got rejected. Glad I did it though. C'est la vie.

  • @chasingcharley7175
    @chasingcharley7175 10 месяцев назад +1

    thank you so much this video helped me so much i now have a boy friend! your advice helped sooo much!

  • @ReallyBruh1
    @ReallyBruh1 Год назад

    This should definitely help 🙂

  • @botowner8623
    @botowner8623 10 месяцев назад +2

    I've never had a single girl display any of these behaviors to me.

  • @Yulises
    @Yulises Год назад +3

    6:53 “…or your crush”
    Absolutely not. 🤣
    I’m keeping this to myself.

    • @newospam
      @newospam 4 месяца назад +1

      Onb who would send these to their crushes😭😭🙏🏾

  • @margaretlee2571
    @margaretlee2571 Год назад

    This happened around one of my friends today at the end of school until it was time to go home and I couldn't stop thinking about him

  • @Julian-pt1qi
    @Julian-pt1qi Год назад +3

    This animation looks so cute

  • @nick27march
    @nick27march Год назад

    Yeah... you're correct.
    NK used to and still does the same antics.Though they deny at mouth but heart they are the same till now.Just pretending that they doesn't care for me anymore.
    Their heart still beats my name and every breath reminds them of my fragrance.
    Little do they know that I was peeping at them for one week and I also know that they were eyeing on me.
    Don't believe?
    Just check my name engraved in their heart.