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We all need to be upfront about it and stop trying to hide the fact that we are wearing hair systems. I tried it 4 years ago and one of the reasons I quit was the fear of being found out. I'm trying again from next week onwards. The more open we are about it, the less stigma there will be in our society. It's up to us, right now.
The interesting thing to me about saying that wearing a hairsystem is "hiding", is that when they take it off, they completely shave their heads. Why not just display your real hair growth? Isn't shaving your head completely bald a form of "hiding" also? If we're talking about honesty in appearance, than why wear clothes? Clothes are a form of hiding your body isn't it? There's hardly anything that is natural in human society: the internet that we are on now isn't natural, cars we drive are not natural, the laws and governments we form are not natural... all these things were created to solve human problems and improve society. A hairsystem is just an invention to improve your appearance and solve a common problem, no different than clothes or makeup or any other thing that humans have created. Whether you feel negatively or positively about them, it's ultimately all in your head.
Your comment is the best one I’ve read under this post and is really very deep and even philosophical! You’re right, anything we see around is sort of “fake” and hides our nature, why have any haircut done at all then since it hides your real hair growth and therefore hides who you really are, or why whitening teeth as it hides your real colour so you’re lying to everyone about having white teeth then?! Why wear well fitted clothes to emphasise good feature of our body and hide disadvantages of it?! It’s also considered fake then?!..
Yeh, I think it is another form of hiding, certainly was for me. Once I had shaved my head it certainly felt 1000 times better but I wouldn’t let it grow more than a couple of days as I didn’t want the balding to show. To really be comfortable I had to allow it to grow a bit and still feel ok, which I can now do. The difference between hiding it with hair/wig/products/drugs and by shaving is that (for me) for me shaving takes away all thought about it, I spend zero time in the day thinking about it, genuinely, if anything, I revel in being bald and am proud of it, something I NEVER thought I would be able to say.
Everyone's story is different and perhaps the route on how I got to wearing a system was anything but hiding. I started shaving bald at 18 yr old for about 4-5 years, before I even considered getting a hair piece. I struggled quite a bit the first couple of years but then came to accept it and be confident in it. I started looking into wearing a hairpiece because I thought it would look better with how I wanted to present myself. I then tried it out and like how I look in it. I am very open about wearing a hair system and I don't feel like I am hiding the fact that I went bald on top. It is style that I chose to have. to me its nothing different from my friend who has a full head of hair but chooses to shave it because he likes the style (Mainly the convenience). I always find it funny when people say these things with such harsh B&W thinking when things are NEVER simple, yes it could be hiding and insecure ridden for some but it also can be confident and completely freeing for others. Everyone is unique and people need to start treating it so
True, and i think one of the positives we have experienced from a more liberal society its the gained freedom in terms of what is considered acceptable styles
MY POV: Hair system is like any allopathic treatment we go , there is nothing in world unnatural...as everything is derived from Nature..if you clearly think. Only thing we are doing this to earn self respect with or without hair. Just using any external thing we should be careful that it should not be affecting us physically... Like in case of hair patch .... Excess sweat should be drained... Proper adhesive to be used. And if u worry about girl will think blaah blaah...dont assume the things... If one does reject after learning you are using hair system... For me it will be girl is not intelligent enough for sure. Litmus check😂
My theory is that it's mainly people who haven't achieved particularly natural results that continue to wear hair and have anxiety. Deep down, he knew his system didn't look great and I imagine that subliminally or overtly, people he met reflected those doubts. If you achieve natural results (that you're proud of) then you feel better about yourself, you act more confident around others and you get back what you give out.
You can tell by his body language that he suffers really bad with high anxiety, I do get what he's saying but I don't think that this is the silver bullet that will solve all of his problems that made him get a system in the first place
I can't imagine how this guy feels, bless him! it must be so hard for him, I'm the same as you jake apart from i actually tell people i wear a hair system even if they can't tell I'm wearing one. Get the t-shirt made. Lol
@@Templar.Knight-Reaper i guess I'm so comfortable wearing a hair system really and don't really care if people know, i didn't even care that i was bald really either but just prefer to have hair, in some ways it's good to tell people if you are comfortable doing so because it helps other people, in my local newsagents there was a new member of staff that started working there who was bald and i told him and he couldn't believe it, he ended up getting a hair system himself which i helped him fit and now it has changed his life.
@@Templar.Knight-Reaper Yeah I agree with Scott! I like to tell people when the opportunity arrises in the conversation because people are always so amazed as well as I like that it helps take away the "taboo" that some people find about it
@@Templar.Knight-Reaper That could be true but I believe that is very unlikely. Not sure where your strong feelings are coming from but it may sound like you may be projecting a bad experience that you had on other peoples experience with hair systems
Totally his experience, but he clearly has anxiety and worries about what others think. If it's not hair, it will be something else. If he's more comfortable in his own skin now, then all the power to him. It doesn't matter what I think of him with or without hair. The only opinion that matters is his. My takeaway? Thank you to Jake and all others who share their experiences and knowledge creating an informative community for those of us with hair systems. I'm a newb (6 months), but an informed one - which has made my experience so far a success. It's sad to think, but maybe this gentleman didn't have the resources and support over the past 20 years that we now have today? Not having water touch his hair since he was 27? Seriously?
He went from early 40s to 55. He was hiding because of his confidence issues. Not gonna judge. But thats what I'm getting from this man. Hope he finds confidence in his baldness.Even hair can't solve some people's mental health.
I'm also wearing a hair system right now. I'm also thinking to shave my hair because it sucks that every 2 or 3 weeks you need to go to the salon for maintenance. Let's say that I spent 200 dollars for a month.
Just would like to thank you Jake for your videos. I just got my first hair system a few days ago in Dubai and I feel great! I wouldn’t have done it without the support of your content. So thank you for that. Here’s my experience, I expected the hair system to feel heavy on my head or feel itchy but it didn’t and it rarely itches on me. It also feels so light and natural? I told all my friends I’m wearing a hair system and they love it. Many of them thought I got a hair transplant haha. So far I’m enjoying the experience, of course, I still don’t know what the future holds with all the sweaty outdoor activities and other obstacles I have to face, but I’m excited to adapt and learn and hopefully won’t get bored and tired from the process of maintaining a hair system.
@@JakeKent I’ve never told anyone as I don’t see any point in doing so, it shouldn’t concern anyone but me, besides I’ve never seen any girl telling anyone she’s got extensions or fake lashes or implants etc
His hair system wasn’t very good I think. Maybe with a more realistic system , not with that straight line and the sides, it would look much better. Yours looks great actually, very very realistic. You decided well the hairline placement.
I watched that video before I saw yours about it. I initially thought that guy was nutts, because he was complaining about just about everything. I mean, he was getting emotional just taking the piece off, when the hair cutting hadn't even started yet. I call it a hair piece, because there is no system to it; it's a toupee you glue on. Anyhow, this guy was making me nervous. I don't know why guys don't just cut their thinning hair really short, rather than have to decide between only two choices. I think that guy would have looked good that way, but he didn't even give it a chance. I've cut mine to about 1/8 inch or so for years myself. I don't think I have to go bald completely. You can't tell I'm thin on top if I have a cap on, but I don't wear them inside. I'd like to get a hair piece, but I can't justify the cost, because there are things I want more right now for about the same yearly cost (like motorcycle payments). I like Jake's hair in this one. Not a big fan of it brushed back, but looks great thrown just below the hairline. Not to hide it, but just because it looks good on the face. I don't comment on all your stuff, but I do watch it. I wanted to jump in on this particular one, because I had seen the video you're talking about. I agree with you that if I had those mountains of problems, I wouldn't have been wearing one for 20 years in the first place.
People colour, cut and style their hair all the time, thus altering it. No one has 'natural hair' unless you don't comb or wash it lol. A hair system is just another way of altering your hair. It's like saying if you go to the gym and gain muscles you are 'hiding' your natural body.
Too many adults act like they're still in high school. Do what you want for yourself who cares what somebody you probably don't even know thinks or even the people that you do know. Our society is screwy. Most women when they walk out of their front door have the Tammy Faye Baker starter kit on and extensions in their hair . Yeah that man put that stress on himself because I'm sure the average person walking down the street could care less.
he looks better without the hair but in 20 years doesnt look like he learned to style it..sometimes you have to get creative..hair takes 8-10 years off me..a 25 year old I work with thought I was 32..just turned 40 last month..unfortunately I feel like guys like this one never learned to make the pièce look good...it was way to dark like he just dyed it and too thick maybe if he had better results he wouldve had a different experience
@@Templar.Knight-Reaper yes..no one has that color...thats why I hâte dying my pieces because they come out too dark if you leave coloring on too long...as far as density it looks too thick but from the lighting its hard To tell if its just the colour or colour/density...when youre in your éarly To mid 20s its easiest to get away with the system being too thick.By the time youre this guy's age, no male has hair that thick. Been doing this since I'm 24...40 now..you have to make adjustments
Respect him for doing what he feels right for him and if he feels more confident but personal opinion he definitely doesn’t look “better” bald. His system looks poorly cut/colour matched, but if it was a good system, he looks better with hair.
Hair system wasn't great but it wasn't terrible either. He could walk around I don't think people would question it. I don't think he looks much better bald. I'd give him a 5 either way. I guess if he's a 5 either way, might as well just be bald and save money, and less maintenance. Or he could have just gotten a better hair system.
I went through major hair thinning through my 40s. I didn't care much, as I was happily married. I just wore a ball cap most of the time. And I ride a Harley, so I also wore a dew rag. After my divorce, I had a couple of short term girlfriends; they didn't seem to care that my hair was thin. In any case, I was toying with the idea of shaving my thinning hair off. But my sister (being a hairdresser) said, "why don't you try this (she showed me a video of guys swimming and doing everything as in normal life) so I said "sure, let's do it" Since then I've had a few more short term relationships, and a FWB. I only ever told my FWB because it was a long term relationship. She really didn't care much, and our relationship played it's course and ended. Since then I've had a couple of short term relationships, but I really didn't feel the need to say anything. Now I have been dating a woman, and it is getting serious enough that we are talking about living together. We haven't dated long, but we are a great match. Of course I will have to tell her, but I'm thinking on waiting until I have to do a re-application of my hair (probably about 2 or 3 weeks after she moves in. If she wants to leave because of it, I'll be ok with that, but I am a still a bit anxious about telling her. I still haven't totally decided if I should wait, or wait for the obvious to happen. We actually met on a dating site where I wore a dew rag or a hat. Until we met, I don't think she new I had hair. What do you guys think? Is it really an issue for women? Does it matter what they think? Should I tell her before she moves in? I never really thought about it until we discussed living together. This might just turn out to be another short term relationship; who knows? I really would like to wait until I can trust her. I mean, nobody knows in this town. I always wore a ball cap to work, so nobody knew any different when I got the system, and took my hat off. Has anybody else had any experience in this area? I've only ever heard from guys who don't have steady girlfriends, so they have no need to disclose there hair system. But other than that "one" FWB relationship, I haven't really thought about this. BTW, I am 60 years old and I workout. I'm in great shape and I am into nutrition. I have been guessed at being late 40s to early 50s. She is almost 62 years old and also in great shape and looks young for her age. Age might make a difference to your answers. Also, anybody with wives that care when you got your system and wore it? Did your wife care, Jake? What did she think about your decision? I really want to wait until I can explain the difference between an old style "wig" and the new hair systems. Thanks in advance
It defo shouldn’t be a big deal at all, why would someone care as to HOW we maintain our appearance and the way we look after ourselves in order to look good? If so, then let’s just leave women once we start noticing they wear make up or implants or whatever that’s faking their looks to look good 🤷🏻♂️ She should be happy we are trying to improve our appearance at all and not get upset about it 😂 it’s like if men would get frustrated every time we’d find out how much make up she puts on or how many body implants she’s had done hah
Robert Glover says "get to rejection as quickly as possible". My Interpretation is that if you think she might have LTR potential, keep throwing truths at her about your opinions and who you are. The sooner you find something she cannot handle about you, the better.
@@MarkHadleyUK We've been together for 1 1/2 years now. She really doesn't care one way or the other. I think she likes the hair better than the bald head, though. Women really don't care much about whether you have hair or not. I guess it might help in the initial stages, but not once things get going. I've made a lot of improvements to my life. As painful as divorce was for me, and as painful as it was to lose somebody that I loved so much, I've made some positive changes in my life. I'm in my best shape ever, I started testosterone therapy, which gives me energy to succeed, and I am very profitable at day trading, so retirement is just around the corner. Life is just beginning.
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We all need to be upfront about it and stop trying to hide the fact that we are wearing hair systems. I tried it 4 years ago and one of the reasons I quit was the fear of being found out. I'm trying again from next week onwards.
The more open we are about it, the less stigma there will be in our society. It's up to us, right now.
Bro I suggest you to use a excuse. Say to your friend that you are a cosplayer and you need hair to make cosplay. I think I ll use this excuse
The interesting thing to me about saying that wearing a hairsystem is "hiding", is that when they take it off, they completely shave their heads. Why not just display your real hair growth? Isn't shaving your head completely bald a form of "hiding" also? If we're talking about honesty in appearance, than why wear clothes? Clothes are a form of hiding your body isn't it? There's hardly anything that is natural in human society: the internet that we are on now isn't natural, cars we drive are not natural, the laws and governments we form are not natural... all these things were created to solve human problems and improve society. A hairsystem is just an invention to improve your appearance and solve a common problem, no different than clothes or makeup or any other thing that humans have created. Whether you feel negatively or positively about them, it's ultimately all in your head.
Your comment is the best one I’ve read under this post and is really very deep and even philosophical!
You’re right, anything we see around is sort of “fake” and hides our nature, why have any haircut done at all then since it hides your real hair growth and therefore hides who you really are, or why whitening teeth as it hides your real colour so you’re lying to everyone about having white teeth then?! Why wear well fitted clothes to emphasise good feature of our body and hide disadvantages of it?! It’s also considered fake then?!..
Yeh, I think it is another form of hiding, certainly was for me. Once I had shaved my head it certainly felt 1000 times better but I wouldn’t let it grow more than a couple of days as I didn’t want the balding to show. To really be comfortable I had to allow it to grow a bit and still feel ok, which I can now do. The difference between hiding it with hair/wig/products/drugs and by shaving is that (for me) for me shaving takes away all thought about it, I spend zero time in the day thinking about it, genuinely, if anything, I revel in being bald and am proud of it, something I NEVER thought I would be able to say.
Everyone's story is different and perhaps the route on how I got to wearing a system was anything but hiding. I started shaving bald at 18 yr old for about 4-5 years, before I even considered getting a hair piece. I struggled quite a bit the first couple of years but then came to accept it and be confident in it. I started looking into wearing a hairpiece because I thought it would look better with how I wanted to present myself. I then tried it out and like how I look in it. I am very open about wearing a hair system and I don't feel like I am hiding the fact that I went bald on top. It is style that I chose to have. to me its nothing different from my friend who has a full head of hair but chooses to shave it because he likes the style (Mainly the convenience). I always find it funny when people say these things with such harsh B&W thinking when things are NEVER simple, yes it could be hiding and insecure ridden for some but it also can be confident and completely freeing for others. Everyone is unique and people need to start treating it so
True, and i think one of the positives we have experienced from a more liberal society its the gained freedom in terms of what is considered acceptable styles
Best comment I’ve seen on this topic
MY POV: Hair system is like any allopathic treatment we go , there is nothing in world unnatural...as everything is derived from Nature..if you clearly think. Only thing we are doing this to earn self respect with or without hair. Just using any external thing we should be careful that it should not be affecting us physically... Like in case of hair patch .... Excess sweat should be drained... Proper adhesive to be used. And if u worry about girl will think blaah blaah...dont assume the things... If one does reject after learning you are using hair system... For me it will be girl is not intelligent enough for sure. Litmus check😂
My theory is that it's mainly people who haven't achieved particularly natural results that continue to wear hair and have anxiety. Deep down, he knew his system didn't look great and I imagine that subliminally or overtly, people he met reflected those doubts. If you achieve natural results (that you're proud of) then you feel better about yourself, you act more confident around others and you get back what you give out.
interesting theory - yeah i'm not sure - its tough to know whats going on internally with anyone!
His hair system looked good though, looking at him in the bathroom before shaving I thought it was a lot better than shaving his head.
Yes, that is my experience as well...
You can tell by his body language that he suffers really bad with high anxiety, I do get what he's saying but I don't think that this is the silver bullet that will solve all of his problems that made him get a system in the first place
perhaps
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I can't imagine how this guy feels, bless him! it must be so hard for him, I'm the same as you jake apart from i actually tell people i wear a hair system even if they can't tell I'm wearing one. Get the t-shirt made. Lol
What’s the point in doing that? Why would u wanna tell anyone? Have u ever seen any woman telling everyone she’s got extensions or implants? 🤷🏻♂️
@@Templar.Knight-Reaper i guess I'm so comfortable wearing a hair system really and don't really care if people know, i didn't even care that i was bald really either but just prefer to have hair, in some ways it's good to tell people if you are comfortable doing so because it helps other people, in my local newsagents there was a new member of staff that started working there who was bald and i told him and he couldn't believe it, he ended up getting a hair system himself which i helped him fit and now it has changed his life.
@@Templar.Knight-Reaper Yeah I agree with Scott! I like to tell people when the opportunity arrises in the conversation because people are always so amazed as well as I like that it helps take away the "taboo" that some people find about it
@@itsdanielcurran they may act amazed in front of the hair system wearer but may talk crap behind back later
@@Templar.Knight-Reaper That could be true but I believe that is very unlikely. Not sure where your strong feelings are coming from but it may sound like you may be projecting a bad experience that you had on other peoples experience with hair systems
Totally his experience, but he clearly has anxiety and worries about what others think. If it's not hair, it will be something else. If he's more comfortable in his own skin now, then all the power to him. It doesn't matter what I think of him with or without hair. The only opinion that matters is his.
My takeaway? Thank you to Jake and all others who share their experiences and knowledge creating an informative community for those of us with hair systems. I'm a newb (6 months), but an informed one - which has made my experience so far a success. It's sad to think, but maybe this gentleman didn't have the resources and support over the past 20 years that we now have today? Not having water touch his hair since he was 27? Seriously?
lots of us are like..if he got some sun on that head it would be fine. he's actually hot
😬
He went from early 40s to 55. He was hiding because of his confidence issues. Not gonna judge. But thats what I'm getting from this man. Hope he finds confidence in his baldness.Even hair can't solve some people's mental health.
i hope he finds confidence in whatever he needs to do for him!
I'm also wearing a hair system right now. I'm also thinking to shave my hair because it sucks that every 2 or 3 weeks you need to go to the salon for maintenance. Let's say that I spent 200 dollars for a month.
Do it yourself.
@@max_rove I already did it. I shaved my hair since last year.
@rondale8722 it's defense.
Just would like to thank you Jake for your videos. I just got my first hair system a few days ago in Dubai and I feel great! I wouldn’t have done it without the support of your content. So thank you for that. Here’s my experience, I expected the hair system to feel heavy on my head or feel itchy but it didn’t and it rarely itches on me. It also feels so light and natural? I told all my friends I’m wearing a hair system and they love it. Many of them thought I got a hair transplant haha. So far I’m enjoying the experience, of course, I still don’t know what the future holds with all the sweaty outdoor activities and other obstacles I have to face, but I’m excited to adapt and learn and hopefully won’t get bored and tired from the process of maintaining a hair system.
you're very welcome buddy! I hope you would be willing to do an interview about your experience! email me if so :)
@@JakeKent I’ve never told anyone as I don’t see any point in doing so, it shouldn’t concern anyone but me, besides I’ve never seen any girl telling anyone she’s got extensions or fake lashes or implants etc
Majid, if you choose a lace base it should be fine with sweaty activities
@@Templar.Knight-Reaper Agree with you. I think the same.
If you ever reach norwood 5, or on your way there, don't get a hair transplant. It will be very thin. Speaking from experience.
He could get micro pigmentation
if he wants!
It’s like coming out! I didn’t have to hide in the closet anymore. And I like myself a lot more. Now I want to get a hair system! 😎
Yes, I can understand his point of view very well.
And yes I love chest hair😁😉
His hair system wasn’t very good I think. Maybe with a more realistic system , not with that straight line and the sides, it would look much better. Yours looks great actually, very very realistic. You decided well the hairline placement.
I so get this guy.
I watched that video before I saw yours about it. I initially thought that guy was nutts, because he was complaining about just about everything. I mean, he was getting emotional just taking the piece off, when the hair cutting hadn't even started yet. I call it a hair piece, because there is no system to it; it's a toupee you glue on. Anyhow, this guy was making me nervous.
I don't know why guys don't just cut their thinning hair really short, rather than have to decide between only two choices. I think that guy would have looked good that way, but he didn't even give it a chance. I've cut mine to about 1/8 inch or so for years myself. I don't think I have to go bald completely. You can't tell I'm thin on top if I have a cap on, but I don't wear them inside. I'd like to get a hair piece, but I can't justify the cost, because there are things I want more right now for about the same yearly cost (like motorcycle payments).
I like Jake's hair in this one. Not a big fan of it brushed back, but looks great thrown just below the hairline. Not to hide it, but just because it looks good on the face. I don't comment on all your stuff, but I do watch it. I wanted to jump in on this particular one, because I had seen the video you're talking about. I agree with you that if I had those mountains of problems, I wouldn't have been wearing one for 20 years in the first place.
He look much better with hair. ...get it back on mate .........no need to hide . We all loose hair
Such raw emotion! He looks amazing bald! We hope his confidence has since been boosted with his new look!!
Absolutely
One of the extremely few guys who look better bald to me.
@@Tillipillihousu he looked way better with hair though
he looks terrible bald, looked better with the wig
People colour, cut and style their hair all the time, thus altering it.
No one has 'natural hair' unless you don't comb or wash it lol.
A hair system is just another way of altering your hair.
It's like saying if you go to the gym and gain muscles you are 'hiding' your natural body.
Nah, thats a cope. A hair system is like a hat
@@Daniel-uk6yr Ah yes, "Cope" the favorite word of every blackpill teenager.
@@max_rove alright, lets call it delusion then
@@Daniel-uk6yrok boy what do you suggest? Suicide?
imagine if people thought like this about makeup
Too many adults act like they're still in high school. Do what you want for yourself who cares what somebody you probably don't even know thinks or even the people that you do know. Our society is screwy. Most women when they walk out of their front door have the Tammy Faye Baker starter kit on and extensions in their hair . Yeah that man put that stress on himself because I'm sure the average person walking down the street could care less.
This was unexpected from bald cafe. Bald cafe has crossed the lines. One should wage war against the wrong. And you did it at the right time.
What exactly did they do wrong?
Bro make a collab with Ettore casolin. He’s the “Italian”Matt dominance
i'll look him up
he looks better without the hair but in 20 years doesnt look like he learned to style it..sometimes you have to get creative..hair takes 8-10 years off me..a 25 year old I work with thought I was 32..just turned 40 last month..unfortunately I feel like guys like this one never learned to make the pièce look good...it was way to dark like he just dyed it and too thick maybe if he had better results he wouldve had a different experience
What would you suggest he had done with his hair unit? Get the one with less density and brighter?
@@Templar.Knight-Reaper yes..no one has that color...thats why I hâte dying my pieces because they come out too dark if you leave coloring on too long...as far as density it looks too thick but from the lighting its hard To tell if its just the colour or colour/density...when youre in your éarly To mid 20s its easiest to get away with the system being too thick.By the time youre this guy's age, no male has hair that thick. Been doing this since I'm 24...40 now..you have to make adjustments
I just watched your video. This is Ronn. We're in touch lately. Ive nevervhesrd if then to even consider them thank god. Its terrible
He looks soooo much better with a shaved head.
um, really?
@@realbeetlejuice yes, really
@@estebanrico2124 disagree
Disagree
He defo looked way better with hair
Respect him for doing what he feels right for him and if he feels more confident but personal opinion he definitely doesn’t look “better” bald. His system looks poorly cut/colour matched, but if it was a good system, he looks better with hair.
much respect to him for doing what's right for him
Hair will NOT make you look good (it will/might enhance) but you will just recapture the time you have hair.
Hair system wasn't great but it wasn't terrible either. He could walk around I don't think people would question it.
I don't think he looks much better bald. I'd give him a 5 either way. I guess if he's a 5 either way, might as well just be bald and save money, and less maintenance.
Or he could have just gotten a better hair system.
He defo looked better with hair though
Whats the point
@@Daniel-uk6yr hair system only worth doing if it's done right. Probably 90%+ who use it, have bad ones.
@@tgo007 i mean whats the point of rating his appearance. He is obviously sick of Hiding under that wig
@@Daniel-uk6yr yeah even if he was a 0 being bald, it's his choice.
I went through major hair thinning through my 40s. I didn't care much, as I was happily married. I just wore a ball cap most of the time. And I ride a Harley, so I also wore a dew rag.
After my divorce, I had a couple of short term girlfriends; they didn't seem to care that my hair was thin. In any case, I was toying with the idea of shaving my thinning hair off. But my sister (being a hairdresser) said, "why don't you try this (she showed me a video of guys swimming and doing everything as in normal life) so I said "sure, let's do it"
Since then I've had a few more short term relationships, and a FWB. I only ever told my FWB because it was a long term relationship. She really didn't care much, and our relationship played it's course and ended. Since then I've had a couple of short term relationships, but I really didn't feel the need to say anything.
Now I have been dating a woman, and it is getting serious enough that we are talking about living together. We haven't dated long, but we are a great match. Of course I will have to tell her, but I'm thinking on waiting until I have to do a re-application of my hair (probably about 2 or 3 weeks after she moves in.
If she wants to leave because of it, I'll be ok with that, but I am a still a bit anxious about telling her. I still haven't totally decided if I should wait, or wait for the obvious to happen. We actually met on a dating site where I wore a dew rag or a hat. Until we met, I don't think she new I had hair.
What do you guys think? Is it really an issue for women? Does it matter what they think? Should I tell her before she moves in? I never really thought about it until we discussed living together. This might just turn out to be another short term relationship; who knows? I really would like to wait until I can trust her. I mean, nobody knows in this town.
I always wore a ball cap to work, so nobody knew any different when I got the system, and took my hat off.
Has anybody else had any experience in this area? I've only ever heard from guys who don't have steady girlfriends, so they have no need to disclose there hair system. But other than that "one" FWB relationship, I haven't really thought about this.
BTW, I am 60 years old and I workout. I'm in great shape and I am into nutrition. I have been guessed at being late 40s to early 50s. She is almost 62 years old and also in great shape and looks young for her age. Age might make a difference to your answers.
Also, anybody with wives that care when you got your system and wore it? Did your wife care, Jake? What did she think about your decision?
I really want to wait until I can explain the difference between an old style "wig" and the new hair systems.
Thanks in advance
I think you should mention it before she moves in - but I don’t think it’s a big deal
It defo shouldn’t be a big deal at all, why would someone care as to HOW we maintain our appearance and the way we look after ourselves in order to look good? If so, then let’s just leave women once we start noticing they wear make up or implants or whatever that’s faking their looks to look good 🤷🏻♂️
She should be happy we are trying to improve our appearance at all and not get upset about it 😂 it’s like if men would get frustrated every time we’d find out how much make up she puts on or how many body implants she’s had done hah
Robert Glover says
"get to rejection as quickly as possible".
My Interpretation is that if you think she might have LTR potential, keep throwing truths at her about your opinions and who you are. The sooner you find something she cannot handle about you, the better.
@@MarkHadleyUK We've been together for 1 1/2 years now. She really doesn't care one way or the other. I think she likes the hair better than the bald head, though. Women really don't care much about whether you have hair or not. I guess it might help in the initial stages, but not once things get going. I've made a lot of improvements to my life. As painful as divorce was for me, and as painful as it was to lose somebody that I loved so much, I've made some positive changes in my life. I'm in my best shape ever, I started testosterone therapy, which gives me energy to succeed, and I am very profitable at day trading, so retirement is just around the corner. Life is just beginning.
@@ianbrown5955 great to hear, Ian.
God help him if he has any real issues in life.......
im here for interview
Let’s do it man! Email me jake@dillymedia.com
To say you’ve not watched the video but you’re still going to pass comment..? It was a great video!
Mate, just acceot it. Having a hair pice is weird
Stay cope