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  • @emberurban
    @emberurban Год назад +10244

    Bring them back a month or two after their babies are born please!

  • @sarahbi8811
    @sarahbi8811 Год назад +3205

    The guy in the blue shirt that said you can't expect things from your kids that you yourself can't do as a parent, preach!! All the fellas seem like they'd be funny awesome dads

  • @andreaus.
    @andreaus. Год назад +5738

    ‘Blue shirt’ wins for best answer. “Either one…as long as you’re my kid.” ANY nuance beyond that, is a private discussion for when that child is of-age and has the language to speak on it.

  • @EffinFatai
    @EffinFatai Год назад +4783

    Can't believe they asked the "gay son vs thot daughter" question 😂😂😂

    • @bojuu
      @bojuu Год назад +112

      its weird because theres a lot of questions on the internet that go viral once and then at one point most people reach a conclusion and it dies down. (e.g. the blue/white dress, is water wet? etc.) but this is the only question that i've never been able to personally answer to this day. even though it seems so dumb

    • @BonShula
      @BonShula Год назад +84

      It is not weird since a lot of stigma still in society about these topics. Especially sex work since at least homosexuality has been increasing in approval rating

    • @poejavelski148
      @poejavelski148 Год назад +89

      @@BonShulaSex work should be stigmatized.

    • @Sam-tb4im
      @Sam-tb4im Год назад +97

      @@poejavelski148 moneys money better than working a 9-5 until you die

    • @poejavelski148
      @poejavelski148 Год назад +112

      @@Sam-tb4im No, only the top tier creators make a lot of money from sex work. Most make less than a 9-5. Also, nearly every sex worker has mental health issues, not to mention their personal relationships are challenging. That’s gonna be a no from me dawg, you have to be in a pretty dark place to ever want to do that.

  • @1997mclarencongo
    @1997mclarencongo Год назад +2583

    as a man, this 1000% warmed my heart to see these fathers-to-be get along so damn well and are all on the same page for the vast majority of things they’ll encounter as fathers. these are good role models, and if i’m even half as good as these guys are when i become a father, i think i’ll be alright 🙏🏾

    • @UnBesoDeCristal
      @UnBesoDeCristal Год назад +16

      misogyny is wo wholesome

    • @mymydigitaldiary
      @mymydigitaldiary Год назад +14

      that’s a low bar

    • @KeatrithAmakiir
      @KeatrithAmakiir Год назад +22

      Really? there was a lot of sexism and ignorance on display here. They almost all admitted their partner is doing all the work / prep for the baby's arrival and they're just chillin. Not cool, and not how to be a supportive partner at all

    • @1997mclarencongo
      @1997mclarencongo Год назад +7

      @@KeatrithAmakiiroutside of blue shirt, did any of the other men say they weren’t doing shit around the house? and for the others, could you point out the specific instances of misogyny outside of the “thot daughter/gay son” question? since i’m evidently not seeing what y’all are seeing

    • @KeatrithAmakiir
      @KeatrithAmakiir Год назад +7

      @@1997mclarencongo I never said that one question was sexist, that was a good question. Their answers are problematic because what's inherently the problem with a promiscuous daughter? That concern is more applied to young women than men. Additionally, several admitted their wives were doing all the prep for the arrival of the baby and they were just doing business as usual, which is a holdover of archaic societal gender roles where fathers don't help around the house / with kids equally. I could go on, but I feel that clarifies my point sufficiently, hope that helps

  • @Vanessa-bl7cp
    @Vanessa-bl7cp Год назад +1441

    It’s honestly so nice to see men wanting to be involved in their kids life, being a role model and just all around wanting to be there for them.

    • @sarahdemartin1183
      @sarahdemartin1183 Год назад +79

      I agree. It is pretty nice to see the bare minimum

    • @ChrisBX89
      @ChrisBX89 Год назад +7

      Can happen more often if women didn't have shitty taste in men. Stop going for the good looking, tall, popular, rich guy with a nice car and actually go for a man with good character & qualities

    • @yurinater6003
      @yurinater6003 Год назад +118

      @@ChrisBX89 Blaming the women again instead of the deadbeat dads 😍

    • @ChrisBX89
      @ChrisBX89 Год назад +7

      @@yurinater6003 I know women are allergic to accountability but can u please tell me who's choosing those deadbeats? & It's funny when men opt out of Parenthood we get called "deadbeats" but when women do it they're "responsible" FOH, at least when we leave the kid is still alive🤷

    • @sarahchoi2657
      @sarahchoi2657 Год назад

      @@ChrisBX89 women are not choosing deadbeats. men are actively becoming deabeats after being chosen. "at least when we leave the kid is still alive" u sound dumb. so it's better to abandon a living kid and leave them in a shitty situation than to prevent that from happening in the first place?

  • @Kyle-vp2dk
    @Kyle-vp2dk Год назад +904

    The CUT team member who thought to make “gay son or thot daughter” the thumbnail is INSANE

  • @birdie_.
    @birdie_. Год назад +1004

    I absolutely have 0 interest in having kids but seeing people who want kids so excited about having kids I absolutely love🥹

    • @ztarr
      @ztarr Год назад +39

      Aww that's nice. The desire to have children does bewilder me a little. It just seems like one of the scariest journey's to embark on in life and people are just out here jumping on the wagon everyday 😂

    • @birdie_.
      @birdie_. Год назад +24

      @@ztarr yeah I’m like why does anyone wanna deal with that??😂 nah I am not built for parenthood but for those who are, I get so excited for. Just keep that poopy crying thing away from me🫣

    • @babibrii
      @babibrii Год назад +9

      I thought the same before I had my surprise son ! I was SO upset at first when I first found out but now i can’t imagine life without having him ! He’ll be 5 in September and now I want one more lol !

    • @birdie_.
      @birdie_. Год назад +4

      @@babibrii Aw congrats 🥰

    • @ztarr
      @ztarr Год назад +4

      @@babibrii lmaoo I'm so glad that worked out for you. I've always felt called to adopt. I never want to endure pregnancy and I personally don't feel the need to bring more children into the world, but I do know that I have a compassionate heart that would make some kids in need of a mom happy. So yeah, one day when I've done all my running around the world, I'll hopefully adopt some older kiddos 🤞🏽

  • @sooploopz
    @sooploopz Год назад +2779

    I hope they all stay friends and all their kids grow up and become friends with each other

  • @twiddle7125
    @twiddle7125 Год назад +822

    I think it would have been interesting to see dads with adult children paired with these soon-to-be dads and see how time changes their answers.

  • @hazelmiller2217
    @hazelmiller2217 Год назад +172

    “MY GIRLS DOING HER WHOLE NESTING THING AND IM JUST GOING ABOUT MY DAY”

    • @lilyhutchison4714
      @lilyhutchison4714 Год назад +62

      Red flag 🚩

    • @nemashan3701
      @nemashan3701 Год назад +2

      @@lilyhutchison4714 how is that a red flag

    • @sebaekons1534
      @sebaekons1534 7 месяцев назад +18

      @@nemashan3701
      he isnt doing anything to prepare for the baby

    • @mel-pd8tf
      @mel-pd8tf Месяц назад +5

      @@sebaekons1534you forgot the context. He’s prioritizing working meanwhile she is focusing on things inside the house. In order for her to do the whole nesting thing and making the house safe for the baby you need income which he is providing.

  • @RaiyaSaleem-vn6jw
    @RaiyaSaleem-vn6jw Год назад +202

    I need the white man and the man with the blue snapback to meet up every few months and re do this - they seem like they could develop a good friendship

  • @alunoodalmheiri7028
    @alunoodalmheiri7028 Год назад +172

    The black guy with the blue cap seems like the sweetest person ever!!

    • @WadeIsInsane
      @WadeIsInsane Год назад +3

      Which one? There were two with the long braids/locs

    • @oooladip
      @oooladip Год назад +1

      @@WadeIsInsane i bet they are talking about the light-skin father. he has an exuberant personality

    • @alunoodalmheiri7028
      @alunoodalmheiri7028 Год назад +2

      @@WadeIsInsane
      Right 😆 the guy in the blue cap

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Год назад

      Besides him wanting to mutilate his child's genitals unnecessarily.

    • @WadeIsInsane
      @WadeIsInsane Год назад

      @@alunoodalmheiri7028 i gotcha, ya i agree 😄

  • @rebeccadavidson6416
    @rebeccadavidson6416 Год назад +199

    The guy sooo excited to be a dad warmed my heart, he couldn't stop smiling

  • @tantanjafin
    @tantanjafin Год назад +370

    All these guys seem like they could be friends after this. Hope for safe delivery for all

  • @kristen7938
    @kristen7938 Год назад +76

    I appreciate Ben so much for doing research and keeping his son(s) whole

  • @polinabckff
    @polinabckff Год назад +34

    the blue shirt guy is so funny and kind :) i think he's gonna be the jokester kind of dad

  • @liljordlord
    @liljordlord Год назад +130

    i like that the “gay son or is thot daughter” question was asked because even though it started off as a trendy meme joke, it does say a lot about society and how patriarchy sees things such as sexuality outside of the status quo (cisgender males). i think most of the answers were very real and came from genuine places. although they weren’t the best answers to hear i’m sure these guys grew up with men saying stuff like “i want neither” or “GAY??”. a lot of progress in terms of parenting and fathering off a question like that.

    • @jesusbarrera6916
      @jesusbarrera6916 Год назад

      here's a little secret.... women can get pregnant and the guy could just bail leaving her with the issue by herself and it becomes a family issue if the daughter does not wish to abort but cannot take care of it by herself
      mindblowing I know..... damn that patriarchy for basic biological functions

    • @jedinight235
      @jedinight235 Год назад +5

      Please don't use cisgender, a lot of people don't like when they are referred to as a term someone else made up for them.
      An analogy could be how LGBT don't like it when we misgender them. Similar thing applies.

    • @Savannah-
      @Savannah- Год назад

      @@jedinight235 All terms are "made up" for people. Cis is just a latin prefix that means "on this side of", it's simply a way to refer to non-transgender people. It's a neutral term, there's nothing offensive about it. An extreme minority have decided to take offense because of their own wacky views on gender and transgender people. The vast majority are fine w it, stop telling people what they can and can't say based on a handful of weirdo opinions.
      Also, the LG and B have nothing to do with gender. You can't compare being misgendered with being called cis. Misgendering is calling someone something they're not. Cisgender people DO identify as people who agree with their assigned sex at birth which is all cis means. Should we stop saying straight because a couple fuckhead straight people get mad that we're implying there's something other than straight that's valid so it offends them? Go away.

    • @DrunkenEros
      @DrunkenEros 10 месяцев назад +22

      ​@@jedinight235do you get mad being called heterosexual

    • @jedinight235
      @jedinight235 10 месяцев назад

      @@DrunkenEros No because thats the scientific, and in my opinion sounding better, term.

  • @platinum4187
    @platinum4187 Год назад +205

    Touching to see men talk so deeply and personally about their feelings and such an important topic. Disclosure builds intimacy and literally saw them connecting and liking the other man. Love to see it. And its hopeful to see men with values shared here will be putting kids into the world. ❤

    • @starlittered
      @starlittered 8 месяцев назад

      What an eloquent answer!! Wow ❤

  • @1rkhachatryan
    @1rkhachatryan Год назад +1009

    So sad to see how normalized circumcision is in America, I'm so glad my parents never did that to me. It's the fact that they don't even question it that is so weird and I will never understand.

    • @Superbatmanbro
      @Superbatmanbro Год назад +104

      I never even knew that people did that until a while ago and just grateful for having my foreskin on me still.

    • @trevorpeterson8528
      @trevorpeterson8528 Год назад +41

      I’m glad my parents did it too me and my son will also be glad I will get it done for him

    • @1rkhachatryan
      @1rkhachatryan Год назад +188

      @@trevorpeterson8528 real great mind reader there aren't you lol.

    • @boredguy5805
      @boredguy5805 Год назад +100

      I really don't get it, even as a Canadian, it's alot more uncommon here compared to in America. Idk what it is there across the border that makes them so comfortable doing it

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Год назад +204

      @@trevorpeterson8528: Why would you want to permanently destroy a part of your child's body for absolutely no medical necessity? Leave them alone until they are adults and can decide for themselves whether or not they want to mutilate their body.

  • @stuts527
    @stuts527 Год назад +246

    I didn't expect this episode to be THIS WHOLESOME, I WAS SMILING THE WHOLE TIME ❤

  • @sophiaisabelle01
    @sophiaisabelle01 Год назад +762

    These are fairly entertaining to watch. Happy Fathers' Day to all deserving good dads out there.

  • @kernox835
    @kernox835 Год назад +341

    Expecting parents expecting the approval from other expecting parents. Pure cinema

  • @rampagedingo
    @rampagedingo Год назад +119

    This is refreshing seeing dad's share moments. Nice one CUT.

  • @amandavierling6305
    @amandavierling6305 9 месяцев назад +18

    I'd really love to see a follow up with these same pairings. I hope that the one dad (Ben?) who kept talking about money and working a lot realizes he needs a healthy work/life balance to be a good dad. Quality time is valuable, too.

  • @robert7567
    @robert7567 Год назад +171

    As an uncircumcised American, Americans can be so backwards in their understanding of circumcision. Having a foreskin isn’t so uncommon as y’all would think - South and Central America, Europe, Asia - there are loads of men walking around with their willies intact.

    • @nintendo1709
      @nintendo1709 Год назад +4

      Why do you care about that either way? If that’s what the culture or religion normally does then do it. If you don’t want to do it on your child that’s your choice.

    • @robert7567
      @robert7567 Год назад +27

      @@nintendo1709 if the culture does it because of misinformation, then it’s a problem. Go do your research and quiet down. Pfft.

    • @nintendo1709
      @nintendo1709 Год назад +1

      @@robert7567 well for instance in my culture, I come from Polynesia, we have been performing circumcision for thousands of years and now we have white Europeans telling us how to do things and it’s quite irritating. I wish non-indigenous people would stay out of our affairs. If you want to do something in your community or your home that’s fine, don’t force us to go along with you.

    • @faugina8843
      @faugina8843 Год назад

      @@nintendo1709 It shouldnt be the parents choice to mutilate a part of their childs penis, when the kid grows up they can choose to cut it and eat it with some bbq sauce if they want to.

    • @ariagonzalez1326
      @ariagonzalez1326 Год назад +13

      as a mom who chose not to cut my son’s, theres so many reasons not to do it and aesthetics seem to be the only reason to do it outside of religion.

  • @bntin
    @bntin Год назад +632

    Watching this from the UK, being cut down there isn’t the norm- it’s sad to see parents deciding bodily autonomy for a baby… they get no say & I’ve been with cut men and they feel it far far less than un-cut.
    I think it should be the kids decision once they’re old enough

    • @christineg6123
      @christineg6123 Год назад +74

      Canadian here. 100% agreed

    • @MrJungle123
      @MrJungle123 Год назад

      Exactly.
      'Hey look, our perfect little baby boy. Let's go and mutilate his cock' is basically how I view circumcision.

    • @mimu6700
      @mimu6700 Год назад +64

      German here, agree as well

    • @Ed95366
      @Ed95366 Год назад +98

      American here, felt weird about it as well when almost all of them agreed. Forgot how normalized it was here.

    • @sk-nb5tl
      @sk-nb5tl Год назад +29

      Getting circumcised as a grown man instead of child im guessing would be more painful/ difficult

  • @letlotlosibanda
    @letlotlosibanda Год назад +10

    Guy with the dreadlocks is so pretty. He has such a beautiful smile. 😭😭😭

  • @heyLORDitsme
    @heyLORDitsme Год назад +13

    The guy in the blue hat and the white hoodie seem like they’d be solid friends and the strongest parents

  • @linnearose832
    @linnearose832 Год назад +174

    Already having expectations before the baby is even born....calm down a bit. As someone with high expecting parents: it affects everything
    Children are not supposed to be a better version of yourself!

    • @og666
      @og666 Год назад +14

      idk bro... that kids got D1 genetics

    • @Ray03595
      @Ray03595 Год назад +4

      Maybe not a better version but you should want your kid to have a better quality of life. Which means better education, quality of living, and overall happiness. I understand what you mean to not put specific expectations on them, but the man was talking about his child reading a lot, that should be encouraged in every household.

    • @arianam6430
      @arianam6430 Год назад +2

      ​@@Ray03595exactly. I would want that my children don't have to go through the same hardships that I did so they can focus on thriving and enjoying their lives. They would be happier, intelligent, kind, confident, etc living their best lives- that's what most people are saying when they want their kids to be "better versions of themselves".

  • @MrJose72289
    @MrJose72289 Год назад +285

    Man. I know so many guys who wished they were not circumcised. Tbh its,Barbaric. No way am I making that decisión for my son. He can when the time is right. I won't deprive him of something irreparable for my own satisfaction. That is a deeply, personal decision that should be made by the individual undergoing the process, not people standing idly by think they are making a decsion in the best interest of the child. There should be some formcof consent imo

    • @fey9915
      @fey9915 Год назад +8

      he said it's part of religion so he's Muslim or Jewish.

    • @zorazen8684
      @zorazen8684 Год назад

      @@fey9915 Religion is not a good reason for genital mutilation. In fact there is no good reason to mutilate children.

    • @revmaillet
      @revmaillet Год назад +7

      @@fey9915 even christians do it sadly

    • @Theorimlig
      @Theorimlig Год назад +73

      @@fey9915 Doesn't really change anything. That explains it, but doesn't justify it. Lots of bad things are done in the name of religion.

    • @rcc8347
      @rcc8347 Год назад +8

      I’m glad my parents did mine when I was young. Now I look great and didn’t go through all the troubles

  • @pleasedtomeetyou1284
    @pleasedtomeetyou1284 Год назад +692

    Of course no one wants their kid to be promiscuous but when you ask it in the way of "gay son or thot daughter" its ignorant because those two things are not interchangeable. Ask them the real question "thot son or thot daughter" or "gay son or gay daughter". THAT is what we need to hear. If your daughter chooses to sleep around safely, just be there for them and let them know what's up. Be open with them. You can change their mind about sleeping around. Lol it's not the end of the world.
    EVERYONE! Please read the idiotic things @jesusbarrera6916 is writing in this comment section about how he prefers to have a thot son and how he won’t make his son take responsibility of a child he helped create. It’s a goooood laugh!

    • @doobie245
      @doobie245 Год назад +37

      thank you❤ you’ve put into words what I felt for so long

    • @blessingn8571
      @blessingn8571 Год назад +13

      Very well said 👏🏾

    • @APhizzle
      @APhizzle Год назад +63

      I came here to comment this. During Pride Month too? And from Cut? Like what?

    • @whitwhit1043
      @whitwhit1043 Год назад +64

      yes even “would you rather have a gay child or promiscuous child” instead of forcing the gender aspect would be an improvement

    • @ritamarie3652
      @ritamarie3652 Год назад +4

      agreeeeeeeed!!!!!!!!

  • @evennotodd
    @evennotodd Год назад +42

    We need to see a follow-up on this. Like a Truth or Drink: Play Date edition. Shots have to be taken via sipping cup.

  • @kidart1763
    @kidart1763 Год назад +146

    This video affirmed that I made the right choice choosing my (female) partner. So many of these answers are BIG YIKES.

    • @kukaweber8301
      @kukaweber8301 Год назад +15

      Facts

    • @chevysmith6723
      @chevysmith6723 Год назад +40

      SO MUCH OF IT WAS cringe.
      It makes me sad that this is a lot of people's "normal". Giving birth will mature their partners. I pray, for the mothers' sake, that these dads keep up.

    • @Mole-Esther
      @Mole-Esther Год назад +3

      No these were great answer wdym except the foreskin one lol

    • @MEpeopleannoy
      @MEpeopleannoy Год назад

      @@Mole-Esther not wanting sex bc ur disgusted that ur partners organs have moved and that your kid might TOUCH ur penis? what kinda nonsense is that? ahhh lord have mercy americans and their iq

    • @rorey9074
      @rorey9074 Год назад +22

      There is nothing wrong with these answers. Some of you just like to live in your own bubble of misunderstanding

  • @mariahp.6993
    @mariahp.6993 Год назад +27

    👏 Ben is a real man! ❤ The respect you have for the role you’re coming into is so appreciated! You will be a great father! 💗

  • @amielynn8506
    @amielynn8506 Год назад +60

    Didn't like the "gay son vs thot daughter" question. Gay is more like how you were born and thot can be more about others perception of a woman's promiscuity

  • @tantanjafin
    @tantanjafin Год назад +62

    Chris & Michael is my fav duo here. Love to see more from them

    • @everythingvonia9516
      @everythingvonia9516 Год назад +21

      Chris Michael is the tall one's name the other is Ben 😂

  • @zorazen8684
    @zorazen8684 Год назад +95

    Sad to hear most of them are getting their sons circumcised :( wish people would do more research before just making a snap decision based on tradition.

    • @Pondwater466
      @Pondwater466 Год назад +8

      Agreed, it’s awful and the opposite of beneficial

    • @trevorpeterson8528
      @trevorpeterson8528 Год назад +2

      Glad I got my ant eater cut off thank god

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Год назад +16

      @@trevorpeterson8528: It's fine when you are an adult and decide it for yourself. However, it's not okay to mutilate a child's body like that without medical reasons. Like what insane parent is interested in how aesthetic they find their child's genitalia? Eww.

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Год назад +7

      @@trevorpeterson8528 Bro, you're coping everywhere.

  • @wiebkestein8826
    @wiebkestein8826 Год назад +362

    I cannot believe how normal it is for these guys to cut off a part of their kids bodys. and how is it legal anyway?!

    • @krisdaschwab912
      @krisdaschwab912 Год назад

      Part religious propaganda, part lobbying from some pro-circumcision assholes.

    • @lucerocastaneda9497
      @lucerocastaneda9497 Год назад +39

      To be fair, all of the guys in this video were white or black. If they had chosen a hispanic-american or asian-american for example, there would have been more of a variety

    • @NotYouAgain28
      @NotYouAgain28 Год назад +41

      @@lucerocastaneda9497 I think in Europe it is not a thing as well.. I think it’s more of an American thing.

    • @user-ds8gf3ki2g
      @user-ds8gf3ki2g Год назад +3

      @@NotYouAgain28it’s purely a religious thing and that how it started so in America 100yrs back most were white Christian Dyu get it

    • @kimberlyd9755
      @kimberlyd9755 Год назад +13

      ​@@user-ds8gf3ki2g In North America, it's not though. So many decide to circumcise because either they themselves are circumcised, for cosmetic reason or because "it's the norm".

  • @Aliciaavgt
    @Aliciaavgt 11 месяцев назад +8

    These men saying they aren’t prepared or ain’t doing shit around the house. That’s CRAZY

    • @Tessa_Gr
      @Tessa_Gr 5 месяцев назад +1

      It's so weird how no one in the comments talked about that part. All about how great these dads are, the bar is really in hell. They seem nice enough, but definitely not outstanding dads at all. Just average

    • @Aliciaavgt
      @Aliciaavgt 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@Tessa_Gr literally, I could NEVER

    • @Julia-ye1bj
      @Julia-ye1bj 9 дней назад

      AGREE

  • @sepiajoy2871
    @sepiajoy2871 Год назад +209

    This was a great video and these guys seem wonderful but damn, I cannot get past how many of us Americans are so comfortable with circumcision. This is a part of a person's body. Taking that away is so stupid. I feel just the same about when people pierce their baby's ears. Bodily autonomy, man... gosh.

    • @trevorpeterson8528
      @trevorpeterson8528 Год назад +2

      I’m glad my parents did it to me

    • @rumpelstilzchen4202
      @rumpelstilzchen4202 Год назад +41

      Let the kid decide for themselves. You can always do it later but you can never reverse it.

    • @iveseenstrangerthings5694
      @iveseenstrangerthings5694 Год назад +7

      Truthfully anyone is going to do as they please because it’s their kid. There’s pros and cons to both sides of circumcising I believe the main point was infections and cleanliness, at the end of the day it’s their decision. Can’t do much about it. A lot of the time it has to do with culture and religion, and we have to respect that as well.

    • @lindok
      @lindok Год назад +4

      Americans doing it at birth is still a practise we are trying to adopt cause the way its done here is worse. At birth is 100% the better option

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Год назад +23

      @@iveseenstrangerthings5694 There are only cons. At the end of the day, it shouldn't be their decision just like they should not have the option to remove a baby's limb when it is non medically necessary.

  • @bulo-.
    @bulo-. Год назад +198

    Imagine they did this with expecting mothers 💀

    • @nasavibes
      @nasavibes Год назад +210

      idk man taking shots while pregnant doesnt sound like the smartest of ideas 😭

    • @brookemcb
      @brookemcb Год назад +17

      @@nasavibeslmfaooo

    • @samanthav1234
      @samanthav1234 Год назад +27

      they did

    • @SLYKM
      @SLYKM Год назад +25

      ​@@samanthav1234yea I Believe they took shots of water lol

    • @bulo-.
      @bulo-. Год назад +1

      @@SLYKM Well that kinda gets rid of the point lol

  • @alexpalaciossantos4940
    @alexpalaciossantos4940 Год назад +396

    its so weird how infant genital mutilation is so normalized in the us. entire groups of people up in arms bc "gay people are performing surgeries on children's genitals", but when it comes to messing with a baby's penis, its totally ok for parents to cut it up for their aesthetic pleasures

    • @kaimobley5324
      @kaimobley5324 Год назад +9

      Exactly

    • @littlepumpkinseed
      @littlepumpkinseed Год назад

      Yeah its so so weird and not oké.... as an European I can not imagen choosing to cut your baby's genitals..

    • @CM-bt5bq
      @CM-bt5bq Год назад +1

      !!!!!!

    • @dollphobicc1947
      @dollphobicc1947 Год назад +1

      Wake it up.

    • @truebornseeker9767
      @truebornseeker9767 Год назад +41

      It’s soooooo weird, especially since a lot of them bring up the fact that they had it done to them so they want their child to be cut too, which is just strange? Wouldn’t you prefer to have that choice later in life rather than having it decided for you??

  • @PirateCaptainArthur
    @PirateCaptainArthur Год назад +14

    they all seemed to vibe so well i hope they stay in contact

  • @Killbayne
    @Killbayne Год назад +103

    circumcision doesnt have to be done at birth, the son can decide later on in life if they want the skin gone or not but i see way more people saying they want their skin back cuz that skin aint growing back

    • @lawinaabraham3073
      @lawinaabraham3073 Год назад +10

      Yeah good luck with that, I read about one guy who, at his girlfriend's request, got circumcised cuz she didn't like that foreskin.
      Well he caved, went to surgery, it HURT LIKE ABSOLUTE HELL, idk what anesthesia they gave him but I doubt it worked.
      He then said it continued to hurt for weeks on end, and his sex drive took a huge hit because it just didn't feel as good.
      Dude got depression, they broke up, prolly still regrets that shit to this day.

    • @Killbayne
      @Killbayne Год назад +16

      ​​@@lawinaabraham3073 then that's fault by the doctors and he could sue them for damages. If the story is true then im sorry for that guy, but a single story doesn't rule out every other time where it wasn't so bad. Atleast if you're uncut you still even have the chance to decide yourself whether or not you want it removed instead of just having to live without it.
      also, at his girlfriend's request? damn she should just like him how he is. Also what's there to dislike about the skin lol? It's not like it gets in the way when it literally retracts out the way.

    • @lawinaabraham3073
      @lawinaabraham3073 Год назад

      @@Killbayne
      Exactly, I hate how fixated people in America are regarding the removal of foreskin. It's a unnecessary, barbaric, completely subjectively attractive practice that should be heavily discouraged.
      There is NO risk of infections nor poorer hygiene if you have foreskin, it's very easy to clean, the foreskin has MANY nerve endings and makes sex more pleasurable.
      "Oh but I was cut so my son should be too". WTF ????

    • @zorazen8684
      @zorazen8684 Год назад +19

      @@lawinaabraham3073 Good thing he got to make that CONSCIOUS DECISION as an adult and not go through that same pain as an non consenting INFANT :D

    • @Elovho
      @Elovho Год назад +6

      ​@@lawinaabraham3073you shouldnt circumcise for aestetic reasons cus you can just pull back the skin and it looks the same as uncircumcised just girthier

  • @nopenope9118
    @nopenope9118 Год назад +58

    All of these dads-to-be sound like they’re going to do an amazing job raising their kids. It’s great to see them all bond over fatherhood. My mom disappeared from my life when I was like 22 and hasn’t spoken to me in over 10 years, but my dad is my biggest supporter. I just got off the phone with him before watching this. I wish I could see him more often but we live in different states. Present fathers who try to be a good influence on their kids are so necessary.

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Год назад

      Besides him wanting to mutilate his child's genitals unnecessarily.

  • @ctyesixteen5162
    @ctyesixteen5162 Год назад +228

    it is still so WEIRD how americans view circumcision

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Год назад +60

      Precisely, and it's also horrifying considering that it's permanent, unconsentual mutilation. At least pierced ear lobes can grow back together - the foreskin cannot.

    • @kendobc
      @kendobc Год назад

      Yah, they just assume it's a normal thing and you MUST do it. I wish they would do some research and shit. It's scary the brainwashing.

    • @favouronwuchekwa
      @favouronwuchekwa 5 месяцев назад

      so you are not circumcised ? @@akumayoxiruma

    • @samantham7545
      @samantham7545 5 месяцев назад

      As a female I hope that circumcision is one day illegal. It is genital mutilation. @@favouronwuchekwa

    • @Nersius
      @Nersius 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@akumayoxirumaYou actually can regrow the skin itself, but it will lack important parts and be less sensitive.

  • @dylanpierce
    @dylanpierce Год назад +6

    Happy Father's Day to all the Dads out there and to the men who are father figures for many.

  • @freya-valiedo2640
    @freya-valiedo2640 Год назад +45

    Why was having a gay son even a question like???

    • @pristinedecision1877
      @pristinedecision1877 Год назад +15

      It’s kind of a meme question that’s been making the rounds on BPT for and real life for years.

    • @LaBorious69
      @LaBorious69 Год назад +1

      Are you offended

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 Год назад +6

    Ponytail glasses is just an Au naturel type dude... I love these questions though.
    I love them talking about their future kids together.

  • @nongcebomngomezulu
    @nongcebomngomezulu Год назад +22

    This man is calling 6ft4 woman 'shorty'😂

  • @caspercomments
    @caspercomments 5 месяцев назад +2

    i love all the pairs they’re all so funny and genuine

  • @reynomatt
    @reynomatt Год назад +36

    The question about the gay son or sexually active daughter really bothered me. I have always loved how accepting this channel has been but that question was offensive in it's context.

  • @NZKiwi87
    @NZKiwi87 Год назад +30

    Oh wow, as a non USA person I was gobsmacked by the circumcision thing. Gobsmacked. It’s pretty rare here. Old fashioned even.

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Год назад +10

      Indeed because it's cruel mutilation. But just like labour rights, healthcare, public transport and measurement standards, Americans are behind the times and stick to tradition rather than what is logical and ethical.

    • @jedinight235
      @jedinight235 Год назад

      ​@@akumayoxirumaCruel mutilation? That's not exactly it.

  • @ilhuicatlamatini
    @ilhuicatlamatini Год назад +10

    This one was fun! Great bunch of new to be dads❤
    Though gotta say, based on all the answers Ben had the responses I’d most look for and want from my partner re: coming home/working late check in, circumcising, pregnancy sex 😂

  • @bathroomshoes
    @bathroomshoes 3 месяца назад +1

    guys soon enough you’ll be able to play video games with your kids. my dad and i bonded over playing halo together.

  • @the_real_anna_reed
    @the_real_anna_reed Год назад +4

    It’s actually hilarious to see men’s pov of “expecting” 💀🤣 Definitely need them back in 6-12 months 😂

  • @macarenahitos1148
    @macarenahitos1148 Год назад +2

    I feel so calm after watching responsible men who are going to became parents being so excited about raising children

  • @Thatsmrladytoyou
    @Thatsmrladytoyou Год назад +4

    I got real excited thinking this was dads who were having kids TOGETHER 😅 This is cool too

  • @tunaballooney4713
    @tunaballooney4713 Год назад +88

    I really don’t understand the stigma or judgements toward foreskin

    • @Killbayne
      @Killbayne Год назад +34

      more than 60% of Americans are circumcised and mostly they just do it because they themselves were cut, as the guy said in the video "like a me 2.0"
      the other half does it for the religious reason, but why keep doing it for non religious reasons? Cut rate in Europe here is like less than 13% across countries and I myself am not cut. It's not like the skin is useless, it has a function. A lot of people complain about being unwillingly cut

    • @pristinedecision1877
      @pristinedecision1877 Год назад +10

      Because it’s so common that most people don’t think about anything contrary to their own experiences.
      Those conversations aren’t common either.
      I wasn’t aware that I was even circumcised until I was a teen learning about anatomy and found out that foreskin was a thing.

    • @fatcatontario
      @fatcatontario Год назад +1

      There is a good health reason for being circumcised and has to do with increased potential of infection even as a toddler. I think what is nature intended should remain and parents should clean the child properly and teach the little boy proper hygiene from an early age.

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Год назад +4

      @@fatcatontario: That's not a good reason because you are also taking away something that has protective and stimulative functions. IF the toddler has an infection, only THEN you can consider the option to surgically remove it. Not as a prophylaxis but as an acute intervention.

    • @fatcatontario
      @fatcatontario Год назад +1

      @@akumayoxiruma there is really no need to remove the foreskin unless it is a very severe infection. I am not advocating for it, but actually stating that our bodies should not be modified unless absolutely necessary.

  • @sydneygeddes
    @sydneygeddes 11 месяцев назад +5

    6’6 and 6’4 imagine they babies max height in adult hood is 5’1 💀 I’d feel soooooooo robbed

  • @gjcanada7454
    @gjcanada7454 Год назад +8

    THE MISOGYNY LIIIIIVVVVEEEESS STRONG IN THIS VIDEO!

    • @AngelHoliday275
      @AngelHoliday275 Год назад +3

      How? Genuine question. Im not trying to say it doesn't or be disrespectful. Just wanna know like where?

    • @gjcanada7454
      @gjcanada7454 Год назад +1

      @@AngelHoliday275 the “thot daughter” comments.... So what if you have a young woman who’s in charge of her own sexuality? How does that affect her father in any way? It plays into the whole “fatherless behaviour” narrative.

    • @AngelHoliday275
      @AngelHoliday275 Год назад +3

      @@gjcanada7454 Oh probably just because thot women are disgusting. If a woman can't have any respect for herself why should anyone else? U can disguise it as "being in charge of her sexuality" but it's legitimately nasty. These "in charge" women are broken, and carry these things with them for the rest of their lives. Promiscuity is unsavory on both ends, don't get me wrong. Men and women shouldn't just sleep with whoever, but if you think it's the same you've just got some growing up to do.

  • @cynthiavanteylingen7922
    @cynthiavanteylingen7922 Год назад +15

    Can we get a video after their kids have been born and how they feel after?

  • @OpEditorial
    @OpEditorial Год назад +6

    These are mostly innocuous and stupid questions but these guys are gearing up to have their lives changed forever

  • @neilrandolph9353
    @neilrandolph9353 Год назад +8

    Omg what a great group of soon to be dads and their responses ❤ 😊

  • @Iloveme715
    @Iloveme715 Год назад +2

    These kids are gonna be so lucky to have such good dads.

  • @marcusgomez1372
    @marcusgomez1372 Год назад +14

    i hope they are all great dads 😊

  • @GalaxyPotato17
    @GalaxyPotato17 Год назад +5

    I think everyone is taking the gay son/thot daughter question wrong (based on Cut's intention -- the wording is still poor and suggests comparison). Rather than equating being gay to being promiscuous, and this is where the son/daughter difference is important and not just insensitive, but they are traditionally EQUALLY scary or uncomfortable for a FATHER -- a stereotypical male parental figure.
    ~ The standard manly man relationship between father and son
    ~ The standard protection and view of innocence from father to "daddy's little girl"
    It isn't intended to push the idea that only a son can be gay or that only a gay son would pose an issue and not a gay daughter
    (visa versa: only a daughter can be promiscuous or that only a promiscuous daughter would pose an issue and not a promiscuous son)

  • @sagerose5591
    @sagerose5591 9 дней назад

    “as long as u my kid we gud” PREACH

  • @TreavorUnion
    @TreavorUnion Год назад +31

    If the guys are reading this comment, it's good to have a crew to lean on. Moms have mommy circles. Dads should too.

  • @brookerthebaker
    @brookerthebaker Год назад +5

    I wish they did this with the moms somehow… obviously no drinking but maybe some bad dare 😂

    • @CreativeC13
      @CreativeC13 Год назад +3

      They did in the past and just used water

  • @Jonglohn
    @Jonglohn 16 дней назад

    Seems like they’re all gonna be great dads. My first born turned 2 last month. All of these fears and thoughts just mean they actually give a fuck.

  • @noor9115
    @noor9115 Год назад +4

    such a wholesome video and group of dads

  • @jacob4evr_
    @jacob4evr_ Год назад +2

    The amount of them saying yes to circumcising is ALARMING

    • @jedinight235
      @jedinight235 Год назад

      Why? There is *literally* nothing wrong with it. "oooohh it's body mutilationmn" ever heard of balanitis? Its an incredibly easy to contract infection that's very painful. Its a infection of the foreskin.
      Removing the foreskin literally has medical benefits.

    • @jacob4evr_
      @jacob4evr_ Год назад

      @@jedinight235 anyways… no one said there wasn’t any benefits I’m saying it’s alarming that there doing a life changing procedure before the owner of said penis an have a say in it

    • @jedinight235
      @jedinight235 Год назад +1

      @@jacob4evr_ it's better to do it as a baby. It's easier, less painful, and prevents the future infections that happen before the person with said penis can talk.
      I've had balanitis when I was younger. It sucks. Its painful. And you can't keep your mind off of it because it's *that* kind of pain that's. Not searing but really pisses you the fuck off It can last months. Sometimes you need to see a doctor and you gotta go through the embarrassment of having a doctor look through your foreskin n shit. But I have had friends who have been circumcized who have had the same hygiene issues (that's how you get balanitis is by shit hygiene which all young boys have) when they were younger too, and they never had that issue. One of them said he'd rather have foreskin but his reason was because using lotion and tissues is a hassle. No shit that's the only fucking reason 😂. My other friends either didn't really give a shit if they were or weren't or said they are fine with it.

  • @nataliep1528
    @nataliep1528 Год назад +4

    Would be cool to do a part 2 when they have their babies

  • @youtubekilla808
    @youtubekilla808 Год назад +2

    “i play a lot of video games” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @essbee1641
    @essbee1641 Год назад +6

    To the people saying that circumcised penises are more hygienic, you know what else keeps a penis clean? Washing it!

    • @corbin_creger
      @corbin_creger Год назад +1

      Preach!!

    • @nekotamo1851
      @nekotamo1851 Год назад

      Yea and most males don't wash it very often and they get infections so that's why it's better for them to be circumcised

    • @m.p.9931
      @m.p.9931 23 дня назад

      ​@@nekotamo1851 .. somehow that is not really a problem where i'm from ..😂

    • @nekotamo1851
      @nekotamo1851 23 дня назад

      @@m.p.9931 good for you and for where are you from. Other couple millions even billions males have issues with it sooo ew

  • @liliangonzalez567
    @liliangonzalez567 6 месяцев назад +1

    No way bro has the Seth Rohan laugh

  • @blacksheep2396
    @blacksheep2396 Год назад +3

    Pony tail dude is an absolute freak

  • @Kellyannejones
    @Kellyannejones Год назад +2

    It’s just so funny how guys know how guys are, but they’re the same ones that’ll say not all men

  • @IEATOSI
    @IEATOSI Год назад +175

    Circumcision should only be done for medical reasons. Period.

    • @Miss_Kisa94
      @Miss_Kisa94 Год назад +4

      You can say that but it's not like they can make it a law or anything because it would go against the constitution

    • @aawillma
      @aawillma Год назад +19

      @@Miss_Kisa94 What? What constitution are you reading? Circumcision for religious reasons is already against the law in America, but only for girls.

    • @Miss_Kisa94
      @Miss_Kisa94 Год назад +2

      @@aawillma Uhhh I hate to tell you this but that's not actually true. A while ago like in 2018 or 2017 a federal judge declared that banning female genital mutilation is also unconstitutional. I'm pretty sure it's up to the states now if they want to create laws against it. But it's also allowed.

    • @Pondwater466
      @Pondwater466 Год назад

      @@Miss_Kisa94okay?

    • @Pondwater466
      @Pondwater466 Год назад +4

      @@Miss_Kisa94it’s barbaric be quiet ur just saying words

  • @kelsiewest9280
    @kelsiewest9280 Год назад +1

    All these men are 💯💯 Sad to say, but I don’t think I’ve ever seen so many men in one place who are as emotionally intelligent, dedicated, and respectful as these men were to each other and
    are towards their partners and their soon to be kids. Real respect for them.

  • @agnesedaughter8808
    @agnesedaughter8808 Год назад +38

    whats up with americans and circumsition??

    • @trevorpeterson8528
      @trevorpeterson8528 Год назад

      Because we are better at everything

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Год назад +5

      @@trevorpeterson8528: Delusion.

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Год назад

      @@trevorpeterson8528 Bro, how many comments is this? It's starting to get sad.

    • @Niki72662
      @Niki72662 Год назад

      ​@@trevorpeterson8528 the best nation in drugs abuse, shooting🦅🦅🦅lets goo

  • @sarahn.2296
    @sarahn.2296 Год назад +119

    Kind of crazy that people justify infant genital mutilation because they want them to "look like me"

    • @Pondwater466
      @Pondwater466 Год назад +28

      LITERALLY like how selfish can you be

    • @oooladip
      @oooladip Год назад +9

      ikr! some fathers feel uncomfortable teaching their sons how to take care of an uncircumcised penis if the fathers are uncircumcised

    • @lynn-cm2hb
      @lynn-cm2hb Год назад +7

      With all the praise for the dads, it seemed like everyone skipped over this.

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Год назад +2

      You must understand, not only does their nonexistent god demand it, but it would also make them uncomfortable if the child had foreskin while they vividly imagine their children having sex. It's entirely normal to believe in the nonexistent and to vividly imagine children having sex. Yep, these people are *completely* normal.

    • @waylon9923
      @waylon9923 Год назад

      If my kid a boy he's getting circumcised. Easy answer.

  • @talkingtochapri
    @talkingtochapri Год назад +13

    So they are agreeing women do everything and they are existing.

  • @cicelyodom
    @cicelyodom 8 месяцев назад

    Hands down one of the best episodes. I would love to see these men & their families again.

  • @alexandertomlinson4517
    @alexandertomlinson4517 Год назад +19

    Honestly disappointed in this video because of the circumcision question. Its not normal and it should not be promoted on social media like this. Mutilating children is not something to joke about and not something that should be normalized at all.

    • @akumayoxiruma
      @akumayoxiruma Год назад +2

      Exactly.

    • @jedinight235
      @jedinight235 Год назад

      Just on the off question, I'm assuming your also not okay with child sex change surgery?
      Not trying to argue with you I am just asking. Don't care if you are or aren't.

  • @w.whoisrio
    @w.whoisrio Год назад +1

    Blue shirt guy wins best dad award for the gay son/thot daughter question. Hands down.

  • @CassandraL666
    @CassandraL666 Год назад +60

    “Would you rather have a gay son or a promiscuous daughter?” I want BOTH. How about that. Whoever a child CHOOSES to be or becomes is just as deserving of love and to assume it’s all a reflection of my parenting is so self-absorbed. And truthfully, to some LARGE extent, neither of those are ANY OF MY BUSINESS as a parent. All a parent can do is lay the ground work for self love and self respect. And raising them to feel safe communicating anything with you.

    • @fabio.lous_
      @fabio.lous_ Год назад +9

      That question bothered me a little bit tbh (I'm not American btw, i didn't know it was a trend at some point)
      But I've been taught that every time time you have an "or" question, the best answer is an "and" question like you said.
      But i just wanna point it out that being gay is not a choice tho, but yeah, wait not Hava a gay promiscuous daughter? And what is promicous anyways?
      It's always in the eye of the beholder

    • @itsmj3103
      @itsmj3103 Год назад +6

      Promiscuous son and a gay daughter. This seems like a dream for most fathers tbh lmao "Hey she aint havin sex with no dudes, it's fine by me" and "My boy's got it" lol

    • @law8620
      @law8620 Год назад

      Whether you like to admit it or not, the way your child ends up is to some extent a direct result of how you parented them, obviously being gay isn’t a choice but being a Thot one hundred percent is and it’s seen much more commonly for girls in a single parent/abusive home. Also if your child is under age it’s 100% your business what your child does no matter how you look at it because they’re not legal adults. Having a thot daughter is a reflection on the values you instilled on your kids to an extent

    • @beantown702
      @beantown702 Год назад

      Maaaan shut up, gay straight or trans, no parent wants their kid to be thottin.

    • @lennbess1445
      @lennbess1445 Год назад +11

      I also was so shocked when they asked that question…. Like if it was bad to be Gay or promescious… This is such a nogo… It’s sexist and homophobic! Simple because this question leaves it like something negative… Questions liketbis provoce stereotypes… Those I suffered from when I was a kid….

  • @blair7616
    @blair7616 Месяц назад

    when i first saw this video i was like "they should do this with expecting mothers too!" and then i realized why they don't...

  • @benf8599
    @benf8599 Год назад +87

    Some big red flags from these dudes in this video. Genital mutilation, weighing if having a gay child is worse than an ‘impure daughter’, the idea that pregnancy sex will have an effect on an unborn child, etc.
    Y’all can do better than this.

    • @crazguykwan8955
      @crazguykwan8955 Год назад +11

      these questions were going to piss off somebody no matter how they answered. Looks like you were the one they pissed off.

  • @traumabondsx7930
    @traumabondsx7930 Год назад +1

    The guy wearing the Momentum shirt is dope

  • @superman8310
    @superman8310 Год назад +3

    Can we get some beer pong videos. I just saw one. I forgot how funny they were.

  • @gjcanada7454
    @gjcanada7454 Год назад +2

    I’m with the man who said no! I’m not circumcising if I had a male baby!

  • @dsyoutube-y2s
    @dsyoutube-y2s Год назад +6

    Took me a minute to understand that they are not same sex parents expecting kids

  • @ConcentratedMind
    @ConcentratedMind Год назад +2

    Damn, that’s the old homie Shaquelle in the beanie!! Hope he’s doing well!

  • @Pondwater466
    @Pondwater466 Год назад +8

    So sad that the majority is going to circumcise just because the dad has been, has nothing to do with the child and ur literally mutilating them

    • @freedomm
      @freedomm Год назад +1

      There are studies showing circumcision lowers risk of STIs exponentially. Respect their decision just like others will respect your decision not to circumcise your son.

    • @vp9549
      @vp9549 Год назад

      @@freedomm That's hilariously untrue. Respect science and not the will of morons who simply creamed in a woman.

  • @alexisfuller1503
    @alexisfuller1503 Год назад +1

    0:41 the guy with a man bun has the most beautiful eyes!

  • @isisraelreal7701
    @isisraelreal7701 Год назад +3

    These circumcision comments are not it. One thing is to prefer one vs the other but to belittle and act as if having foreskin is inherently “bad” doesn’t rub me the right way. I’m not here to tell you what to choose but be kind and open minded when talking about it.

  • @hfrisch007
    @hfrisch007 Год назад

    The two dad's that play video games ,that said ," I'll have to take some time off from that " 😂😂😂😂, some time you'll never see a video game again. I'm kidding 😂