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  • Опубликовано: 16 ноя 2024

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  • @abigailbeth4461
    @abigailbeth4461 11 месяцев назад +14270

    maaaan roman and grant are cuties, may not have the same genes but beauty and charm still runs in the family

    • @bigmama7190
      @bigmama7190 11 месяцев назад +201

      Absolutely. Roman is so beautiful

    • @LilacsAdore
      @LilacsAdore 11 месяцев назад +63

      They are so sweeeeeeet!

    • @rosemcguinness5628
      @rosemcguinness5628 11 месяцев назад +109

      Right?! I’m swooned by them. lol

    • @LABlownAway
      @LABlownAway 11 месяцев назад +19

      TRUTH

    • @dagaybrucewayne
      @dagaybrucewayne 11 месяцев назад +27

      I aint know homeboy was poonin he aint got no frogvoice or nun das crazy

  • @nicole866
    @nicole866 11 месяцев назад +12635

    Man.. Shoutout to Roman for making it a point with their parents to treat him and Grant as two different individuals 🫶🏾 I can only aspire to be such a great sibling 🤍

    • @0lovely_bpd0
      @0lovely_bpd0 11 месяцев назад +191

      i literally cried at that part, what a good brother :")

    • @tifadreamers
      @tifadreamers 10 месяцев назад +119

      that was heartwarming. made me smile real wide. that's a true older sibling. I can see why they seem to have good relationship and respect for each other

    • @namesurname6885
      @namesurname6885 10 месяцев назад +12

      I was wondering how is it possible that a Chinese boy was put up for adoption

    • @yeahhahaitsjustnotme1412
      @yeahhahaitsjustnotme1412 10 месяцев назад +12

      @@namesurname6885what do you mean? genuinely?

    • @namesurname6885
      @namesurname6885 10 месяцев назад +81

      @@yeahhahaitsjustnotme1412 he (transgender) was born when china had a 1 child per couple policy (1980-2015) and girls were seen inferior (less chance to get a really good job and less money to give back to family) and that led to a lot of baby girls being put up for adoption or being sold, so me understanding that and totally believing he was a biological boy really didn't made sense. But learning he's transgender explained everything.

  • @danielledino9461
    @danielledino9461 11 месяцев назад +5686

    Love how Roman really exudes big brother energy with Grant. They also looked like they're really close

  • @ElizaH753
    @ElizaH753 9 месяцев назад +3910

    Roman fine af. Emotionally mature, stands up for his sibling, intelligent, hot… damn.

    • @fvances
      @fvances 9 месяцев назад +39

      Riiiight 😍

    • @gl0ckfa1ry
      @gl0ckfa1ry 9 месяцев назад +25

      Right😔

    • @phillisob
      @phillisob 8 месяцев назад +14

      OMG yes!

    • @jdhoward1438
      @jdhoward1438 7 месяцев назад +9

      Team Roman here

    • @divalove421
      @divalove421 7 месяцев назад +6

      All of the above

  • @flynsdorm4813
    @flynsdorm4813 11 месяцев назад +6486

    Roman and Grant are so sweet omg. I hope they do get to hang out every other Monday

    • @harper2
      @harper2 11 месяцев назад +50

      ME TOO!! That was so sweet!!

    • @kibbq
      @kibbq 11 месяцев назад +189

      Same you could tell he wants to hang out with his brother SO bad

    • @dianabowers4494
      @dianabowers4494 11 месяцев назад +108

      I WAS LITERALLY THINKING THE SAME THING!! You can tell he needs more time with his big brother🥺

    • @TheKillahKyla
      @TheKillahKyla 10 месяцев назад +16

      I hope they start a RUclips channel together

  • @DivinexSerenity
    @DivinexSerenity 9 месяцев назад +815

    It’s really obvious that Grant really does looks up to Roman and love him a lot. From what he said at the end to suggesting seeing each other more often because he probably misses him. So heartwarming.

  • @keiranalecia4791
    @keiranalecia4791 11 месяцев назад +1898

    Funny how grant said “you’re not putting that in” just for them to put it in twice😭

  • @pl0shiee
    @pl0shiee 9 месяцев назад +562

    I already cried barely a minute in when the blonde girl was explaining that she was adopted because her friend’s mom saw her poor living conditions. What a sweet lady.

    • @Justus4Libertea
      @Justus4Libertea 7 месяцев назад +15

      I teared up immediately 😭

    • @GwenActually
      @GwenActually 5 месяцев назад +10

      me and my sis had bad living conditions and I had to be the adult too often so that hit me real hard, I'm so glad there was an adult in her life who stepped up even if it wasn't her own family, kinda wanna hug her mom

  • @ingridbeifong649
    @ingridbeifong649 11 месяцев назад +3649

    I could immediately tell who the older sibling was between the first two brothers 😂

    • @catsseighteen4365
      @catsseighteen4365 11 месяцев назад +6

      How lol

    • @sofiag9221
      @sofiag9221 11 месяцев назад +190

      @@catsseighteen4365ig the way they carry themselves in the clip; I think the older brother seemed more confident so you could tell he was older, that’s how I could tell

    • @Victoria-_
      @Victoria-_ 11 месяцев назад +1

      Same 😂

    • @sakurakou2009
      @sakurakou2009 10 месяцев назад +25

      ​@@catsseighteen4365the black hair guy just give mature older sibling vibe 😂

  • @CarTalesCrew
    @CarTalesCrew 11 месяцев назад +3064

    The fact that they don't consider them as just adopted, but as regular siblings is the best thing. Kudos to them all

    • @JMBBrasil
      @JMBBrasil 2 месяца назад +2

      That’s normal

  • @Damage_Inc
    @Damage_Inc 11 месяцев назад +1878

    Everyone in this video was so beautiful. I love how one of the sisters affirmed the other sister by saying she would've made it no matter the odds or wherever she grew up. That's powerful to have someone say that to your face and mean it.

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK 11 месяцев назад +1

      You really have your beauty radar broken or you just lie because of the socialist social programming.

  • @klpowell12
    @klpowell12 11 месяцев назад +9424

    Losing your virginity at bible camp is real bold lol

    • @krembryle
      @krembryle 11 месяцев назад +454

      and unsurprising, since Christianity doesn't really support moral behavior

    • @chainsawmay
      @chainsawmay 11 месяцев назад +186

      Very common 😂

    • @kkp4297
      @kkp4297 11 месяцев назад

      christianity is just crowd control.

    • @hannahjones8115
      @hannahjones8115 11 месяцев назад +43

      ​@krembryle7903 what? 🤔

    • @Laney322
      @Laney322 11 месяцев назад +44

      First time away from home

  • @dakotac180
    @dakotac180 10 месяцев назад +433

    How Roman and Grant stick up for each other is beautiful, I hope they see each other more.

  • @javierfigueroa476
    @javierfigueroa476 10 месяцев назад +1210

    "If you survived you would’ve probably been making iPhones" was wild asf LOL

    • @lewismeechan
      @lewismeechan 7 месяцев назад +52

      I rannnnnn to the comments just trained for a mf 5k on my way for this comment

    • @glitchxvii
      @glitchxvii 6 месяцев назад +42

      yeaaaah I kinda cringed at that part lol. Roman took it like a champ though. They probably make stereotype jokes with/about each other all the time.

    • @vixxcelacea2778
      @vixxcelacea2778 5 месяцев назад +9

      @@glitchxvii Stereotypes are stereotypes for a reason. It's also possibly true, which is a whole other conversation. I'm glad they could both laugh about it.

    • @JustAJauneArc
      @JustAJauneArc 4 месяца назад +4

      ​@@glitchxviiI thought it was hilarious

  • @NRF0126
    @NRF0126 11 месяцев назад +1209

    Roman and Grant are so precious, please protect them at all costs 🥺

    • @PROVOCATEURSK
      @PROVOCATEURSK 11 месяцев назад +5

      In favour of doctors or firefighters?

    • @Tsumi_
      @Tsumi_ 11 месяцев назад +36

      ​@PROVOCATEURSK bro what? What are you u talking about. That's a whole new sentence

    • @GwenActually
      @GwenActually 5 месяцев назад

      @@PROVOCATEURSK this is a neurodivergent thing to say lol

  • @TheOnlyTaps
    @TheOnlyTaps 11 месяцев назад +2000

    "I'm imported" 😭😭😭

    • @blueberrysponge42
      @blueberrysponge42 8 месяцев назад +62

      "Made in China" as well

    • @madhuparnaghosh6254
      @madhuparnaghosh6254 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@blueberrysponge42 I was thinking this exaxt thing 😂😂😂

    • @rmo3897
      @rmo3897 3 месяца назад

      😅😅😅

  • @gs2782
    @gs2782 8 месяцев назад +815

    Ngl, if Roman never mentioned that he's trans, i would never have suspected anything. That is pretty incredible progress.

    • @cheetahtfk7274
      @cheetahtfk7274 7 месяцев назад +45

      Same here! Started to hear it a little in the voice toward the end like they were getting tired of keeping it deeper, but I would've never guessed! Such a handsome dude.

    • @hazyrory3121
      @hazyrory3121 5 месяцев назад +39

      @@cheetahtfk7274. idk how much you know about trans ppl but thats not how it works for trans men most pf the time, when we take testosterone it lowers our voice for us, we dont have to do it manually!
      (also for alot pf trans people saying you 'couldnt tell' isnt rly a compliment or a nice thing to say, it just feels a lil bit weird so its best to avoid!)

    • @cheetahtfk7274
      @cheetahtfk7274 5 месяцев назад +20

      @hazyrory3121 I've known trans people and every one of them got great joy from "passing" as their preferred gender. If you or others find that offensive, that's your right. But you can't really generalize because everyone is different.

    • @eggiboiroi
      @eggiboiroi 3 месяца назад +7

      as a nonbinary transmasc person i did but NOT for the reason you think; roman just *exudes* trans masc rizz and *soooo* few cis people can do it (some of them do though!) and i just immediately vibed too hard.

    • @matthewtryingmybest
      @matthewtryingmybest 3 месяца назад +13

      @@cheetahtfk7274the reason it's rude to say "i never would've guessed you were trans" is because what you're actually saying is "i thought trans people were ugly and don't look like their gender" aka "you don't fit into my preconceived stereotipical idea of trans folk". most people don't mean for it to come off like that ofc, but it doesn't make it any less harmful to the trans community. /info /nm

  • @danielledino9461
    @danielledino9461 11 месяцев назад +416

    That Filipino guy just drinking instead of saying how his parents gave trauma? SAME. As the eldest daughter of Filipino parents, I cannot even begin with the stress and pressure to just be the perfect person.

    • @HH-kg4fq
      @HH-kg4fq 9 месяцев назад +1

      Which one is Filipino?😂

    • @grey3414
      @grey3414 9 месяцев назад +9

      ​@@HH-kg4fqweren't you listening? The one with the adopted black dude and the red checkered dude

    • @allaboutmika
      @allaboutmika 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@grey3414like 😭. they had a whole segment about tagalog too

  • @AnnaMacAdam
    @AnnaMacAdam 11 месяцев назад +925

    I'm not adopted but I relate heavily to Roman when he said being in family gatherings felt like he was partially "there" and "connected". I think it's because my parents divorced when I was really young and now they each have their own lives and spouses, and I have half siblings or stepsiblings. It's hard to feel like a full family member when you're there only half the time. It's this huge disconnect when I'm with either side; feels like I'm shoed in, ya know? Thank you Roman for sharing how you felt. Sending lots of love!

    • @Thomas48484
      @Thomas48484 11 месяцев назад +41

      I relate to feeling like that too. My parents are still together, but my mom is Nigerian and my dad is Dutch. Even though my family on my dad's side has always been kind to me and my siblings, there is this weird disconnect between us and the rest of them. They also speak a language only spoken in certain areas of the country (one I can sorta understand but not speak it myselff). I have no contact with them now and I doubt that I'm going to reinitiate contact with them later in life. Weirdly enough I felt more at home with my family in Nigeria, although there was a language barrier and we were treated a bit different than the other kids. Being mixed, atleast in my experience, makes you always feel like you're not fully one or the other. Both cultures see you as different or not fully "them".

    • @violetmaritime
      @violetmaritime 8 месяцев назад +5

      yes! i am not adopted either but having new younger half siblings and only getting to be around for them 50% of the time reallys fucks you up. i can't help resenting them a little bit for getting so much access to my mom (or just 2 parents in general) when i had to live with my shithead dad for long periods of time when they would go on trips or vacations without me. little me always felt like i was too expensive to keep around, or that I was loved until my stepdad had his own kids to love.

    • @vixxcelacea2778
      @vixxcelacea2778 5 месяцев назад

      I felt this way after I got older and realized I was the black sheep of the family. Reason being was because my mother was abusive and we were poor, but I didn't know that as a kid or a teen, learned it later in adult years.
      I always thought they tolerated me, but didn't really like or love me. (This turned out to not be the case as they supported me disowning and cutting my mother out of my life as my personal decision.)
      No matter the situation, not being present for a lot of family events or get togethers definitely makes you feel like more of an outsider.

  • @EmoExpression
    @EmoExpression 10 месяцев назад +355

    Roman and Grant are soooo similar. You can tell they are brothers. If they had masks on you would totally think they were blood related.

  • @mazenhemdan5436
    @mazenhemdan5436 11 месяцев назад +539

    Roman is very chill and charismatic
    my man is radiating charm out there

  • @historyking9984
    @historyking9984 11 месяцев назад +402

    Wow being adopted at 1 and at 16 must be very different experiences

  • @YangBalanceYin
    @YangBalanceYin 8 месяцев назад +54

    That first sibling couple was adorable. You can tell that they care about each other a lot and the younger one really loves and looks up to his older brother.

  • @KW-up2ox
    @KW-up2ox 8 месяцев назад +89

    Omg Grant was such a little brother muffin asking if they could hang out every other Monday 🥰 I hope all of the siblings get to see each other more 💗

  • @The_Bashar
    @The_Bashar 5 месяцев назад +27

    Blackapino learning *Tagalog* is boss-level and kudos for his family figuring him out to best accommodate him.
    They're obviously Mama's boys!

  • @xoluciaxo_3721
    @xoluciaxo_3721 11 месяцев назад +7477

    Kind of a dark joke, but kind of ironic how Roman probably got put up for adoption because he’s born a girl, only for him to turn out trans😂

    • @faithbaker4785
      @faithbaker4785 11 месяцев назад +594

      And what a Trans GEM..GORGEOUS ❤

    • @jiuada
      @jiuada 11 месяцев назад +1995

      yeah when he said he was adopted from China, I was like that’s rare for a boy to be given up , it’s usually a girl. then later on in the video it was a “ohhhh” moment.

    • @chimchimgirlz
      @chimchimgirlz 11 месяцев назад +66

      lmao yeah 💀

    • @trevorphillips3340
      @trevorphillips3340 11 месяцев назад +906

      @@jiuada I honestly would not have known he was born a girl if he hasn't have said.

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads 11 месяцев назад +45

      @@jiuadaI thought the same thing.

  • @cori_bri
    @cori_bri 7 месяцев назад +18

    So crazy how similar each pair is. Like if you close your eyes and listen you can absolutely tell they are siblings

  • @enola8800
    @enola8800 11 месяцев назад +606

    i like how their story were all different, great casting

  • @amonbeck
    @amonbeck 7 месяцев назад +27

    Man, all the siblings just energetically got the sameness. I love it so much. Makes me hopeful about my adopting. They’re all so beautiful.

  • @teihiniane
    @teihiniane 8 месяцев назад +91

    the convo: 😢😭💧💔
    the music: 🎻🎩🩰😊

  • @gushanana
    @gushanana 10 дней назад +4

    The family who took in the family friend who wasn’t in a great living condition is amazing. Kudos to them!!

  • @TheLizzyLove
    @TheLizzyLove 11 месяцев назад +527

    The parent/parents should be brought on for a follow up episode! 🤣

  • @d.p.2478
    @d.p.2478 11 месяцев назад +733

    "You might have been making iPhones"
    "And now I sell them...ahem" 😂😂

  • @KimJansenn
    @KimJansenn 11 месяцев назад +200

    I want to be Roman & Grant’s friends!! They are such a vibe and definitely my kind of people

    • @tej5603
      @tej5603 10 месяцев назад +2

      My kind means ? What is your kind ? I wanna know please 😊

    • @daffedavidsen6306
      @daffedavidsen6306 10 месяцев назад +5

      ​@@tej5603he like people like them

  • @barbellandyogastuff
    @barbellandyogastuff 11 месяцев назад +156

    Anytime I see stuff with siblings on Cut it warms my heart. My brother passed away 5 years ago and we were really close. I miss him every day. Loved this video ❤

    • @Рахенбов
      @Рахенбов 11 месяцев назад +4

      You are so strong ❤️

    • @violetmaritime
      @violetmaritime 8 месяцев назад +1

      me too, my big brother passed away just under a year ago and it makes me happy to see other people still having that love for eac hother and bond. I know this upcoming anniversary will be hard.

  • @r0bochan516
    @r0bochan516 11 месяцев назад +180

    first time one of these has ever made me tear up a little :') roman & grant seem like honest souls you can see it.

  • @sydneyelna
    @sydneyelna 11 месяцев назад +228

    “I don’t know. I could give them the therapy bill like does that count?” the most iconic line

  • @morganmendenhall4712
    @morganmendenhall4712 11 месяцев назад +215

    I would love to see this, but with siblings who were separated because of adoption. My mom had four children, but her youngest two were given up for adoption due to life circumstances. My little siblings is open, so we still communicate. We grew up with entirely different families and lifestyles but still look at one another as siblings. Think it would be cool to see that sibling dynamic on this shows

    • @EternalGalaxies
      @EternalGalaxies 9 месяцев назад

      That dynamic would be intriguing and enlightening to see for sure! I'm really glad you were still able to stay connected with your siblings even though you lived separately growing up 🖤

    • @CrisOnTheInternet
      @CrisOnTheInternet 7 месяцев назад +2

      I'm glad you guys have a relationship, specially for your youngest siblings that get to know their biological family.

  • @kaseymaison1658
    @kaseymaison1658 10 месяцев назад +83

    this is such a sweet video. seems like there is such a close bond between all the siblings despite one being adopted, especially in their late teens. wishing them all the best xx

    • @dowhatiwantc7637
      @dowhatiwantc7637 10 месяцев назад

      They’re all adopted and two were in the late teens but yeah a really dope video

    • @kaseymaison1658
      @kaseymaison1658 10 месяцев назад +1

      ⁠​⁠@@dowhatiwantc7637 agreed, really nice video! not all of the siblings are adopted, just one sibling per pair (3 total). I could’ve been more clear, by “one being adopted” I meant one per pair

  • @lupita9583
    @lupita9583 11 месяцев назад +131

    Breaks my heart when Roman commented on the disconnect at family gatherings. My family consists of so many “adopted” people, many siblings cousins, aunts and uncles who aren’t even related to each other but we will still comment on genetic likeness even there is no genetic link. For example: other family might say say “you and your cousin got the same eyes and y’all eyebrows from our grandma.” No one denies it, but technically no one is even blood related. We all need to do better at loving and connecting as humans.

    • @EternalGalaxies
      @EternalGalaxies 9 месяцев назад +3

      Aww that's cute 🥰 And maybe there are similarities in eyebrows and eyes bc of how you pick up on and imitate mannerisms and facial expressions of the family you grow up with? Haha 🖤

  • @papinacho239
    @papinacho239 10 месяцев назад +32

    Bro Roman is the definition of dont let life set you back you just keep moving forward anyway you can my F-ing respect dude that boy Grant must really love you that boy cool too

  • @WellDoneKidd
    @WellDoneKidd 11 месяцев назад +134

    Genuine, humane interaction makes my heart so full. I loved this 🥺

  • @ahowtee6908
    @ahowtee6908 24 дня назад +4

    I have never related to anyone so much, but when Roman talked about his adoption experience it reminded me a lot of what my family situation was like and what I had to go through at a young age. I was born in China as well. I had VSD, a bad heart and I was very malnourished. If I hadn't been adopted or helped, I would be dead. Heavy on the feeling of being disconnected as well. Thank you Roman for reminding me that I'm not alone and giving me the realization that a lot of children especially being born during that one-child policy era probably have very similar experiences. It feels good to be heard :)
    (I wrote this on my mom's account, If the pfp is misleading haha..)

  • @nigeriasimone6065
    @nigeriasimone6065 10 месяцев назад +123

    Love the dark sibling humor! “If you had survived you might me making iPhones” “Now I sell them!”

  • @grantgilbert2822
    @grantgilbert2822 11 месяцев назад +496

    As someone who is also named Grant, I wish I had a relationship with Roman as much as Grant does.

    • @tristincryer3244
      @tristincryer3244 11 месяцев назад +6

      What?

    • @tristincryer3244
      @tristincryer3244 11 месяцев назад +3

      You wish you had a relationship with Roman?

    • @grantgilbert2822
      @grantgilbert2822 11 месяцев назад +35

      @@tristincryer3244 no, they’re sibling relationship. I don’t have siblings so I see this and fantasize about having a close relationship like that.

    • @tristincryer3244
      @tristincryer3244 11 месяцев назад +25

      @@grantgilbert2822 oh I think you just worded ur comment wrong, it says u wish u had a relationship with Roman

    • @grantgilbert2822
      @grantgilbert2822 11 месяцев назад +19

      @@tristincryer3244 I meant the sibling bond. Thank you for being kind about my grammar

  • @swerves
    @swerves 11 месяцев назад +133

    LOVED every pair of siblings. my heart is full

  • @mateobanda6808
    @mateobanda6808 11 месяцев назад +169

    MI loved the inside jokes amongst the brothers, and the intuitive language amongst the sisters ❤

  • @qianaberryman7236
    @qianaberryman7236 11 месяцев назад +61

    So vulnerable for Grant to pretty much initiate wanting to start a new bond with his brother Roman! Roman seemed a bit detached or maybe the clips chosen towards the end of the video may have been focused towards a certain perspective... they seemed so in tuned then something tweaked the vibe. Not sure what happened

  • @sunnyboi2461
    @sunnyboi2461 11 месяцев назад +208

    okay but like Roman and Grant are funny, smart, and gorgeous as hell 😊💙

  • @exodia6579
    @exodia6579 10 месяцев назад +48

    Roman and grant should come out on another episode like truth or dare! Haha all the siblings in the episode should. 😊

  • @alaskafan21
    @alaskafan21 9 месяцев назад +7

    Each pair of siblings I instantly fell in love with. Their love for each other, the honesty, the organic bond just melted my heart. If I ever met them I would be so excited that it would seem I was meeting celebrities. ❤️ Love ❤️ this vid.

  • @heatherv2758
    @heatherv2758 11 месяцев назад +55

    Man I wish my sibling was as kind to me as Roman is to his brother.

  • @NomNomGirl1
    @NomNomGirl1 11 месяцев назад +497

    Is no one going to mention how the mom only calls one kid

    • @halimak12
      @halimak12 11 месяцев назад +163

      Yeah I thought that was a lil strange. I dont want to assume anything but it feels kinda messed up

    • @carolinegratwick9745
      @carolinegratwick9745 11 месяцев назад +111

      My parents are like that and tbh it’s bc my sister is needier lol. As long as they’re a phone call away it’s all good

    • @callowayhall6144
      @callowayhall6144 11 месяцев назад +33

      @@carolinegratwick9745exactly. and in my family my mom definitely calls me wayyy more than my other sister because she hates talking on the phone

    • @shikamaru012
      @shikamaru012 10 месяцев назад +41

      but the "butt dial" seems like their parents are just tsundere or something

    • @TheKillahKyla
      @TheKillahKyla 10 месяцев назад +15

      I have 3 siblings and I'm the one that my dad never calls

  • @vanr4739
    @vanr4739 7 месяцев назад +2

    All of these siblings are great. You can feel all the sibling energy. Blended families are great and pretty normal nowadays. I like it.

  • @blessingbatista7230
    @blessingbatista7230 3 месяца назад +4

    I love how Grant loves his big brother 🥰🥰

  • @snmczzi
    @snmczzi 9 месяцев назад +8

    roman and grant are so adorable and heartwarminggggg

  • @HH-kg4fq
    @HH-kg4fq 9 месяцев назад +7

    Grant and Roman - Grant really likes his older brother. Very cool to see.

  • @arkscrew
    @arkscrew 11 месяцев назад +17

    Loved all of them but especially roman grant and blackapino guy. They got that vibe

  • @MarcusSchwarz-io3eq
    @MarcusSchwarz-io3eq 15 дней назад +4

    As a trans guy, seeing casual representation like this actually made my day. I’ve been going through a really hard time with gender dysphoria and trying to get hormones and everything and this just reminded me that it gets better… thanks cut! Also Roman looks great and I wanna look as good as him when I transition lol

  • @kenster8270
    @kenster8270 11 месяцев назад +266

    Super interesting that stuff that Roman said about the mother's body relaxing more after adopting a child making her able to finally become pregnant. I think I've heard about that before, but from some non-sober bro at some event, so I wasn't entirely sure whether to believe in that theory. But the lady who takes care of my dog when I travel also conceived her kid totally out of the blue after many months (possibly years!) of trying. Maybe she too was somehow more relaxed when she starting boarding my pooch which suddenly made her loins blossom with fertilty. I definitely give my dog credit. She makes EVERYBODY feel at ease and at peace. I basically only wrote this rant to say that I love my dog SO MUCH. (Even though she snores and farts).

    • @Mila76778
      @Mila76778 11 месяцев назад +32

      I was the accident baby post adoption. Definitely real

    • @imakitty1797
      @imakitty1797 11 месяцев назад +4

      @@Mila76778yeah I know a few people that that happened to, I guess it makes sense in some cases

    • @anb2526
      @anb2526 11 месяцев назад +1

      Many months of trying isn’t that much if you keep having sex in your non-fertile window 😂 😂

    • @imakitty1797
      @imakitty1797 11 месяцев назад +9

      @@anb2526 hopefully most women trying are aware of that at this point.

    • @kenster8270
      @kenster8270 11 месяцев назад +3

      @@Mila76778 You're not an accident baby, you're a miracle baby! ✨✨

  • @rayevans9276
    @rayevans9276 11 месяцев назад +23

    the two sisters are so pretty and chill

  • @Izasuki
    @Izasuki 4 месяца назад +1

    Their relationship seems genuine, as an adopted eldest sibling, I’m glad that they eventually feel belonging with their adopted family💜

  • @whalium889
    @whalium889 11 месяцев назад +176

    4:27 damn Roman being trans and adopted with divorced parents with a pastor dad 😓
    Edit: and he has health issues ouch struggle

  • @Aemothkas
    @Aemothkas 11 месяцев назад +31

    The two brothers resonated with me the most they really got a good relationship

  • @thai1101
    @thai1101 11 месяцев назад +51

    Plz hang out every other monday .. HE SAID he would like that SO DO IT 🥺🥺💙😭

  • @alessandrasera
    @alessandrasera 11 месяцев назад +92

    Roman and Grant are so stunning woah

  • @jakorocks1
    @jakorocks1 6 месяцев назад +2

    awwwww you can see how much grant loves and needs his brother

  • @cheetahtfk7274
    @cheetahtfk7274 7 месяцев назад +3

    Roman is an absolute star! So handsome, funny, and sweet.

  • @hieronymusesquireiii380
    @hieronymusesquireiii380 11 месяцев назад +33

    Me and my best friend are basically brothers (there were times he couldn’t go home b/c of family situations and vice versa) so it feels like we adopted eachother. This made me cry b/c honestly I don’t think I could live without him. Blood is nothing but genetics

  • @laurelbouman7020
    @laurelbouman7020 10 месяцев назад +136

    The comments up in here be wildin’! I have the pleasure of being Roman and Grant’s cousin. They are both incredibly sincere, caring, passionate, and brilliant people. ♥️ I’d love to see more of them on this channel!

    • @winx1388
      @winx1388 10 месяцев назад +19

      I need roman socials plsss

    • @ashleyp5784
      @ashleyp5784 10 месяцев назад +21

      That is so funny! They are my cousins too! We must be from different sides though. Their dad married my aunt.

    • @sarajoshi1276
      @sarajoshi1276 10 месяцев назад

      @@winx1388same 😭

    • @laurelbouman7020
      @laurelbouman7020 10 месяцев назад +2

      @@ashleyp5784oh wow, small world! Yes! My mom and their mom are sisters. ♥️

  • @hiimluis429
    @hiimluis429 9 месяцев назад +6

    I love the 2 sisters🥺🥺 appreciate UR PARENTS!!!

  • @missbebop7941
    @missbebop7941 9 месяцев назад +6

    Roman is such a charismatic person❤

  • @vanessawhitneypro
    @vanessawhitneypro 11 месяцев назад +30

    Always love these... Honesty... Even when things go unspoken... THAT is still honest... Thanks, CUT!

  • @amonstrwthn
    @amonstrwthn 13 дней назад +3

    Roman's story is really inspiring. I was raised in a devout Catholic family (I chose not to have kids) and my eldest sister has a child that is currently transitioning. My parents can't handle this, and recently told me they would cut off contact with their trans grandson because my mom refuses to use the correct pronouns and insists on referring to her grandson with the wrong name (which really broke my heart). I sometimes wonder how Christian, Catholic or Muslim etc families handle trans family members in a positive way 😢😢😢. I wish I could support my nephew better, but the problem is that he's been very resistant and antisocial towards his relatives from early childhood. I try to connect with him but he just ignores me... 😭😭😭 He also has younger cousins that want to be supportive but because he told them outright a long time ago that he hates kids and wants nothing to do with them, his cousins are hesitant to even try to contact him.

  • @kalynnwebb375
    @kalynnwebb375 11 месяцев назад +101

    bible camp is craaaazzzzzyyy 💀🤚

  • @heybuddyyouincapetown
    @heybuddyyouincapetown 11 месяцев назад +146

    i hope my little brother (trans) can grow up to be as secure in his own skin as roman comes off as. and grant, please don't cut your hair short!

  • @sesamesprinkles
    @sesamesprinkles 11 месяцев назад +95

    “You not puttin that in”
    It was definitely in 😅

    • @Ivymoon333
      @Ivymoon333 11 месяцев назад +22

      And twice at that!!!😂😂

  • @bizzibaby
    @bizzibaby 7 месяцев назад +3

    Looking at the comments I know I'm not the only one thinking it, but Roman has such a crazily attractive energy about him. I don't get much in the ways of romantic feels normally but I would be instantly smitten if I met this man in real life.

  • @serenabielecki4848
    @serenabielecki4848 6 месяцев назад +3

    I wonder sometimes if the parents watch these, and I hope they're proud of the wonderful humans they've raised here.

  • @addysonrogers6389
    @addysonrogers6389 4 месяца назад +2

    my sister also came to us when we saw her living situation after becoming her friend. I thought that situation was rare and it’s good to know that there are other parents like mine that would save a child even if they weren’t planning to have another ❤❤

  • @Xylo12325
    @Xylo12325 10 месяцев назад +17

    We Demand More of Roman and Grant please....❤

  • @jennysmith9134
    @jennysmith9134 7 месяцев назад +4

    I think you become an adult when you realize your parents are just people doing the best they could with their skills. ALL parents make "mistakes" and it is up to each person to continue to develop and grow as an adult.

  • @LauraLancealot
    @LauraLancealot 6 месяцев назад +2

    The bond Grant and Roman have a bond that’s awesome

  • @tracyleesmith781
    @tracyleesmith781 7 месяцев назад +1

    Daaamn i just wanna hug them all for speaking out! I love this!

  • @iamtherealgroot
    @iamtherealgroot 11 месяцев назад +8

    i like the fact that some of them are adopted as teenagers!

  • @bethb.6813
    @bethb.6813 5 месяцев назад +1

    This was so touching. Absolutely intimate and caring.

  • @fionalinville8529
    @fionalinville8529 11 месяцев назад +36

    Roman in FINEEEEE asf

  • @nghtwtchr9
    @nghtwtchr9 6 месяцев назад +1

    Family is more about love than blood! Props to all the adoptive parents who understand this.

  • @thegothlibrarian
    @thegothlibrarian 8 месяцев назад +9

    Roman and grant are both cuteeeeee af

  • @morganjacoby5873
    @morganjacoby5873 10 месяцев назад +6

    Honestly all of these siblings seem so sweet together

  • @BuildsByCeyphe
    @BuildsByCeyphe 11 месяцев назад +78

    Roman's style is awesome

  • @YouAreSoLoved962
    @YouAreSoLoved962 11 месяцев назад +14

    I really love this. Thank you for shedding light on adoptees :)

  • @lounaannajung4454
    @lounaannajung4454 9 месяцев назад +3

    "Idk if it's good attention" man! As the first child, I've seen my younger brother struggle through this for so long and still kinda going through it.
    I tried my very best to convince my mother to stop doing this but it didn't really work and is kinda costing her the relationship with him.
    But I think he recognizes my efforts and trusts me more because of it.

  • @Raddiebaddie
    @Raddiebaddie 9 месяцев назад +3

    Aww the sisters have been through so much I’m glad they have each other and hope they always do

  • @MrMerel
    @MrMerel 11 месяцев назад +39

    One of the best truth or drink episodes in a while!

  • @mahuexvii
    @mahuexvii 6 месяцев назад

    It’s such a great feeling when your own siblings validate your feelings toward your parent/s

  • @dennislouie
    @dennislouie 6 месяцев назад +2

    I like how Roman and Grant have the same speaking mannerism. …definitely brothers!

  • @cfreak5912
    @cfreak5912 27 дней назад +1

    Emphasis on the fact that children of divorce have a hard time feeling grounded when moving between houses. This was exactly my experience

  • @thedavidj1996
    @thedavidj1996 11 месяцев назад +48

    “Oh I’m trans and our dad’s a pastor”
    The way I 😦
    Side note Roman and Grant are hot af sorry

  • @vanr4739
    @vanr4739 7 месяцев назад +10

    @4:54 I did not suspect anything wow